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Is Bumper Cars The Most Useless Sex Position On This Site?

Bumper Cars Sex Position — The classic bumper cars sex position

If you have a fetish for smelling feet, get turned on by putting your dick in extreme danger, and want to get it on but need a break from staring at each others mugs, the Bumper Cars sex position might be just the move you’re looking for.

No but seriously, there is a fraction of women who will absolutely love this position and get stimulated in ways that just aren’t possible in any other pose. If might also be something that’s on your sex buckets list. If so, give it a shot but please, practice extreme caution with this one and START S-L-O-W!

Here’s how to do it:

You both lie face down and away from each other. Her on the bottom and you on top. Align your naughty bits and slide into her.

The terms bumper cars comes from the idea that both of you will be rocking back and forth, bumping your butts together. In reality, this doesn’t create the most pleasurable sensation and it can easily lead to chest burn as you rub your skin against the bed. If you watch the position done in porn or you actually try it yourself, you’ll see it much easier if you do the thrusting while your woman stays (relatively) still.

You can go for vaginal intercourse in this move but it really shines as an anal position.

Either way, START SLOW. Your penis will be at an awkward and unusual angle here and you want to avoid bending too much. Start slow and gradually speed up as you feel more confident. It’s also best to already be warmed up when trying this move so save it for later on in your session, once you’ve already got your heart going and built up a sweat.

PRO TIP: By sliding a pillow or folded blanket under her thighs, you can create a completely different angle. This can make it easier for you to enter your woman. Make sure your prop is under her thighs and not under her belly or you’ll tilt her in the opposite direction.

Over The Edge Bumper Cars:

This version will likely be the easiest in terms of penis bend. Lie flat on the bed while she’s hanging over it.

Keep In Mind: It’s unlikely you’ll be able to go deep in the bumper cars sex position… and that’s a good thing! Many guys believe ‘deeper is better’ but it’s not true. The majority of a woman’s vaginal nerve endings are in the first half of the vagina. The majority are crammed into the g-spot, which will be very easy for you to hit thanks to the bizarre angle achieved in the Bumper Cars sex position.

That said, if you’re smaller than average, you might find it impossible to enter your woman in the bumper cars. If that’s your case, I recommend you check out the butterfly. It’ll make you feel HUGE and exquisite while you dominate her g-spot with ease!

Bent Bumper Cars Sex Position:

If you’ve read some of my other blog (or advanced trainings) you know that some women have their O spot located on a side rather than straight on. If this is your woman, try a bent knees version to hit the sides of her insides.

Lying on a couch with one leg hanging off is an easy (and comfortable) way to accomplish this.

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Why Captain Sex Position Is So Good at Making Her Cum Again

So you just gave your woman her first orgasm of the night and now her body is primed for #2. You can put her into several different poses and in this article, I’ll make the case for why I believe the captain sex position is a top contender.

Unless you’re a complete rookie, you probably already know that man on top position like missionary or the C.A.T. are great for giving that first orgasm quick and easy. The downside (if there is one) is that these first orgasms are not the most powerful. But that’s ok. The purpose of that first orgasm is not to blow her mind with the best she’s ever had. The role of her first orgasm is to get the first one out of the way and put her body into “cum-mode.” Once she’s there, her rational mind melts away and her body takes over. Now it’s ready to achieve multiple, more powerful orgasms MUCH easier.

Enter the captain sex position.

To transition from a man on top position to the captain, put your weight on your knees, get upright, and lift her legs in front of you.

It’s similar to the butterfly and anvil, only you’re kneeling instead of standing, and upright instead of bent over.

Why the Captain Sex Position is so Effective at Making Her Cum A Second Time.

This position tops the list for a few key reasons. Each of which are powerful on their own but when combined often lead to extremely powerful, full body, orgasmic convulsions that most women will rarely (if ever) experience.

1) Let’s Her Relax Into Orgasm Mode

As guys it’s easy to feel a certain pressure to perform in bed, but we rarely consider that women feel that pressure too. Women feel a pressure to please and impress you use in bed. Paradoxically, they can’t perform “too well” or come of as very experienced and slutty. They need to fit inside that perfect box in the middle and that’s a very stressful and orgasm hindering task.

The captain takes away all that worry. The captain puts you in full control and absolves her of the pressure to perform. You can give her simple instructions – like telling her to hold her legs, play with herself, or tell you how much she loves it – and she can obey without worry or guilt because she’s simply following your directions. You are the one who’s taking the responsibility. Now she can enjoy without guilt or fear of being judged. By telling her to do those things, you’ve absolved her of the responsibility to choose where the line is and you’ve given her permission to enjoy and relax into an orgasmic state.

2) Smooth Transition Into More Intense Orgasms

Man-on-top positions are great for slow, romantic sex. That’s part of the reason the resulting orgasms are typically not as powerful. But as things heat up and your woman becomes more orgasmic, your position should reflect that. As implied by the name, the captain position puts you in control. You dictate the speed, movement, and rhythm. You can still gaze deep into her eyes, slow things down, and lean in for the occasional kiss, but you can also turn the heat up instantly. You can tell her to hold her legs, place a hand around her neck, and start fucking a little harder. You can start to control her body and manipulate her position by putting her legs together, crossing them, or holding her by the thighs instead of her ankles.

Pro Captain Tip: Either you will be holding her legs or she will. Either way, take control. When you’re holding her legs, move them around into different positions and tell her to play with herself. When she’s holding her legs, put your hand around her neck, play with her breasts and clit. The point is not to overload her with stimulation (although she will be getting LOTS) – the point is to let her know that YOU are in charge. YOU are leading her to pleasure (and orgasms). YOU are the captain.

3) Easily Target Intense, Full-Body, G-Spot Orgasms

If you’ve been reading this blog for any length of time, you already know the common in-and-out penetration move used by most guys rarely makes women come. In order to give a woman penetration orgasms, you need to target her “orgasm zones.”

There are 3 ways to target a woman’s Orgasm Zones. 1. Altering her position 2. Altering your thrusting motion 3. Altering both. In my experience, most women become orgasmic in the captain when you apply the third strategy.

Here’s how to target her g-spot for powerful orgasms in the captain sex position.

Step 1) Put a pillow under her butt to tilt her pelvis.

Step 2) Swing your thrust instead of moving back and forth.

Either one of these moves can make you hit her g-spot but in my experience the 2 combined together tend to lead to the best results.

Try one. Then try the other. Then try both. See what gets the strongest reaction from your woman and stick to that.

Hopefully this blog has given you a new insight into giving penetration orgasms. However experiencing it will change your sex life forever.

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Pass “The Wall” with the Upside Down Deepthroat Position?

If you want to experience the pinnacle of submissiveness while taking your man deeper down your throat than you ever have before, you need to try the upside down deepthroat position. The sensations of being face fucked deep down your throat without any gagging and nowhere to go is an exceptionally liberating experience.

In this epic blowjob position, you lie on your back with your head hanging over the edge of the bed. Your man stand in front of you and enters your mouth and aligned throat. The tilt of your head aligns your mouth and throat, making it easier to take a man down your throat without hitting “the wall.”

Why He Loves It:

If your blowjobs have become stale and routine, this pose is a sure fire way to mix it up by giving your man some incredibly alluring views from an angle he isn’t used to. Take it to the next level by placing yourself in front of a mirror and letting him catch a reflection of you playing with yourself as he effortlessly slides down your throat. Depending on the angle and his size, he might also see his cock make a bulge in your throat. Intoxicatingly hot!

Side note: Unlike regular blowjobs, the sensations your man feels during deepthroat come from the tightness of your throat, not the suction of your lips. This along with the psychological thrill of having his entire manhood taken and embraced makes deepthroating an experience unlike any other.

Critical Warning: The Upside Down Deepthroat Position is advanced and requires practice, patience, and trust.

The upside down deepthroat position is advanced. While it can help you get past “the wall” and get better at deep throating, it’s not going to turn a rookie into a deepthroating queen overnight. This isn’t a position for newbies and those who still lack a certain level of confidence and skill. Hanging upside down results in a headrush sensations that can add excitement but can also feel disorientating and overwhelming. A common occurrence for first time upside down deepthroaters is spit running down the face potentially into their nose. All this leads to the fact that you MUST establish a ‘safe gesture’ before hand, and it’s highly recommended you start with a beginner version of the position.

Beginner version of the upside down deepthroat position:

If you’re not already taking your man to the depths of your throat, try a slightly modified version of the upside down deep throat and ease your way to pro level.

Lie down on your bed. Using a pillow, folded towel, or other comfy prop, tilt you head back half way. Your man can kneel over you as you get accustomed to taking him deep. Instead of your head hanging completely over the edge of the bed, it’ll hang halfway over your prop. Your man can kneel on the bed and tilt over you as if he was going into a 69 position.

Keep tilting gradually until you’re hanging over the edge of the bed and devouring him entirely.

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Master the Kneeling Blowjob Position with These 2 Power Plays

Few things turn a man on more than watching you tie up your hair, push him up against a wall, and drop to your knees before devouring him. The kneeling blowjob position might just be the most powerful tool in your sexual arsenal. Try the positions and power plays on this page to make your man melt and get him to do every nasty thing you want!

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Why Guys Love The Kneeling Blowjob Position

Sexual Psychology – It doesn’t matter if we’re talking about the most vicious predator in the animal kingdom, a bloodied soldier at war, or the most hardcore male feminist. Men are hardwired to seek higher ground and dominate. By getting on your knees and servicing him, you smack the power dynamic and trigger your mans deepest, most primal desire to dominate.

Blood Flow – Ever notice how a mans erection just doesn’t look the same when he’s lying down? It’s because the blood flow in his member pushes his erection down in the same direction as gravity. There’s no resistance. No pressure. No pleasure. But when your man stands and his erection fights against gravity, it amplifies the sensation and makes his hard on that much… harder.

His Most Sensitive Spot is RIGHT THERE – In case you didn’t know it already, the frenulum (the area where his head meets the shaft on the underside) is the most sensitive spot on the entire penis. When giving a blowjob from the kneeling position, your tongue is in the perfect place to rub against his frenulum and give him the most blissful sensations he can experience.

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It Gives Your Neck A Break

In the laying on your stomach blowjob position, your neck can get sore very quick. There are some quick fix tips that can help but sometimes you just can’t take it anymore and need a break. That’s where these kneeling blowjob positions are a life saver.

The flip side is that these positions can be hard on your knees. Obviously a pillow or exercise matt will make a huge difference but here are a few more tips you might have not considered before.

Consider investing in a meditation bench. Simply put, these miracle benches take most of the weight off your knees and increase your kneeling stamina.

Try switching between feet flat on the floor and bent at the ankle. Simply switching back and forth between the two a few times during your session can prolong your session by many multiples.

What To Do With Your Hands In The Kneeling Blowjob Position

The first thing to consider in a kneeling blowjob is what you’re going to do with your hands. You might have never given it much though but simple shifts here can make all the difference for both of you. Be willing to try each of these out and find what works best for you and your man.

Submit & Get Restrained – The beginner version is to simply hold your hands behind your back voluntarily. You can get cuffed or tied (in ways that are easy to escape from or not). Or, my personally favorite, lift your arms up to the sky and have your man pin your wrists against a wall. All of these add to the male dominant power dynamic we all know and love about blowjobs.

Handy Additions AKA Add Handjob Techniques – Use you hands to give him a handjob blowjob combination. There are so many ways to amplify a blowjob with your hands (all covered inside Blow His Mind of course). The 2 most popular are the corkscrew and ball play. For the corkscrew handjob technique, make an ok sign with your thumb and index finger. Place the O against your lips, then slide it back and forth along the full length of his shaft while your mouth works his head. As for ball play, I highly recommend you stick to gently cupping his balls until you know his preferred techniques and intensity.

Hug and Pull him close – This simple little move is an absolute mind fuck that triggers deep loving feelings in any man. Don’t just hold onto his hips when going down on your guy. Hug his hips or thigh and pull him body into your mouth. Grab a handful of his ass, squeeze, and pull him his body and cock into your mouth. This makes him feel (at a deep psychological level) that you really want him in your mouth and don’t want him to back up and away.

Positions for Both Power Dynamics

Way to many people still think of a blowjob as degrading to women and empowering for men. The truth is that it can be empowering to the giver or receiver. You choose. If your blowjobs are getting a little state, try switching the power dynamic to the one you’re not used to. A quick and easy way to establish this is by using a wall. WHO has their back against the wall?

Givers back against the wall is great for facefucking. If you trust your partner, have established boundaries and a safe act (cause safe words aren’t a great option when your mouth is full), then kneeling with your back against the wall is a great position to get face fucked. He can take this to the next level by restraining you with cuffs or pinning your hands against the wall.

Receivers back against the wall is great for fucking him with your mouth. Push him against a wall, pin his wrists to the wall, and take charge. Instead of him controlling the thrusting, you get to fuck him with your mouth. Pin him against the wall and he’ll be your helpless, decadent toy to fuck with your throat.

Threeway Bj Positions

When you start giving expert blowjobs, the desire for more cock might strike. When it does, you have several options.

Invite a dildo to your session. Working 2 live cocks can certainly be intimidating. Before you take that plunge, get a feel for double cocks by bringing a dildo into your session. It’ll give you a feel for what a MFM threesome would be like with a lot less pressure. Dildo threesomes is a fun way to get double the cock without making your man jealous. Just make sure he knows that you don’t need this dildo because he’s not enough to satisfy you. Rather because he just makes you THAT horny. You can blow your dildo while your man fucks you, or the other way around. Take it to the next level by putting a suction cup dildo against a mirror. Weather your fucking or sucking the dildo, you’ll give your man the greatest view of his life!

Want two live cocks? Ahh the double barrel blowjob AKA double bj. No literally, open up as wide as you can and say ahhh. If they’re bi guys or simply don’t have any issues with frotting (rubbing both their cocks together), you can literally squeeze the two together and take them both in your mouth. Depending on their size, this might be impossible. If it is, simply squeeze them together and lick their tips back and forth with your tongue or puckered lips. This move isn’t so much about physical pleasure and sensation rather the thrill or watching you adore 2 cocks simultaneously. The much more common and pleasurable thing to do is simply swap back and forth between both cocks.

Give Your Man the Royal Treatment with a FMF blowjob. The royal treatment AKA heaven on earth is when a man is serviced by 2 women at the same time. One services him from the front with a blowjob, while the other services him from the back with some analingus. This is the most “full body” sexual experience a man can have and it’s guaranteed he’ll remember and fantasies about it forever.

Sit and Lean Kneeling Blowjob Position

Standing straight up while getting head is a rush. From the view to the sensations provided by the gravity vs blood flow… but it will eventually get tiring. At some point, your man will want to switch positions and start fucking, or take some weight off his feet. Stay on your knees while he assumes one of these positions to keep up the fun while allowing his to relax even more.

He leans against the edge of a bed, counter, or table. It might not seem like much but this little shift alone can make a huge difference by getting your mans attention off his tired feet and back onto you and the mind melting sensations you’re providing.

He sits in the boss’s chair position. This is the favorite of many men as he still gets to enjoy the sensations of gravity vs flow while also being in a comfy position. If he sits correctly, your range of movement will be limited because of his stomach and thighs. Fix this by having him lean back in the chair and put his feet up on a table or other surface behind you.

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Mating Press Gives Her The Deepest Orgasms She Can Have… When You Do This

The mating press is not just a sex position. It’s a term used to describe a specific view (or camera angle) of a particular position in porn, hentai, and rule 34.

Imagine missionary with your woman’s legs lifted and her thighs between both your bodies. Now instead of assuming a push up position, you get on your feet, squat, and lean over her.

The mating press is what you get when combining the anvil and pile driver.

Stick a camera behind your rear ends and voila! You’ve got a front row seat to all the action with intermittent shots of the woman’s facial expression on every pull back.

It’s an advanced sex position because your woman needs to be flexible, and you’re going to need a bit of leg strength to last more then 5 seconds.

The mating press is often associated with cream pies and impregnation porn because it makes it easy to ejaculate deep and closer to the cervix than most positions.

Warning: The cervix is incredibly sensitive. A very small percentage of women love having their cervix stimulated but that vast majority do not. The vast majority feel pain when their cervix is touched.

Why Mating Press Gives Women Such DEEP Orgasms

The reason some women love it is because of a small group of powerful nerve endings found deep in the vagina. This small pleasure packed bunch of nerves has the ability to send a woman through the strongest orgasms of her life.

But here’s the trick…

It’s not in the same place on all women.

The majority have this orgasm trigger just above the cervix. AKA the anterior fornix. Some call it the deep spot. Imagine going after the g-spot, but you keep going deeper.

Some women have this clump of nerves under the cervix. AKA the posterior fornix.

Some women have it to one side.

A very small percentage have it on the cervix.

Once you find this hot spot on your woman, watch out! Women cum quick when this magic hot spot is triggered.

This is the double sided coin that makes the mating press is so popular with impregnation fantasy. On one hand you go deep and ejaculate close to the cervix. On the other side, you hit her O-zone and make her come, thus making it more likely she’ll get pregnant.

See, the biological purpose of female orgasm is to bring the man’s sperm closer to the egg. When you make her come, chances of pregnancy increase.

Angles Make Her Cum In The Mating Press… Here’s How To Do Them

The trick to finding her hot spot and avoiding the cervix is to try different angles and versions of the position. This will send your tip above, below, and to the sides of her cervix. Feel every inch of her fornix with your tip till you find that one perfect spot that sends her to the moon.

Unless she is clearly feeling some discomfort or pain from what you’re doing, give each variation at least a couple of minutes before moving onto the next. While the fornix does react quick to direct stimulation, sometimes it can take your woman a minute to relax into the position and truly feel it.

Finally, make sure the mating press (or any of its variations) are not the first position in your session. Going too deep, too early on can be painful. The vagina needs to warm up to deep penetration.

So let’s get to it.

Below I break the variations down into 2 categories. Her position, and your position. I’m breaking them up this way so that you picture yourself mixing and matching, and finding the right combination for you and your girl.

Her Position:

Her legs folded (Ananda Balasana) vs Her legs straight out

This comes down to her flexibility. She simply won’t be able to have her legs all the way straight if she isn’t flexible enough. Knowing how far straight she can go is good to know because you can hold onto her ankles and push them back. Don’t push more then she is comfortable. The more you push, the more her butt can lift off the ground. You’ll see why this makes a difference in a minute.

Her legs spread wide vs spread a bit vs both on one side

This changes how tight she feels to you. The more open her legs are spread, the less tight she’ll feel. The more you move her legs to look like the images on the left, the tighter she’ll feel. Also keep in minds the last version with both her legs on one said will change the angle and have you aiming at a side. I suggest not playing around with this too much till you find the other elements that work for you girl. Focus on the rest of the things in this article before focusing on how tight she’ll feel to you.

Her butt flat vs tilted

This one makes a big difference. It might not seem like much but this slight shift in her position changes everything. No tilt in her pelvis makes it easier for you to penetrate below her cervix. The slightest tilt will have you naturally stimulating above her cervix.

Your Position:

#1 Squatted Mating Press Sex Position

In this variant you squat and lean over her with your hands on her sides. This is the version that’s used for the “from behind” view.

In this version you want to test hitting your tip above vs below her cervix. Do this by moving closer to her head or away from it.

#2 Kneeling Mating Press AKA The Anvil

This the most comfortable version. You can apply most of your body weight on your knees, last much longer, get closer to her, and grind her to clitoral orgasm.

If she spreads her legs wide, try staying in deep and grinding your pelvis against hers instead of pounding in and out.

This MOVE stimulates her clit while providing a completely unique internal sensation.

# 3 Push up Mating Press

Like the squatted version, this one all comes down to how aligned your bodies should be. Is your head directly above hers, or are you a few inches higher or lower?

Just a few inches completely change your angle and massively change the sensations she feels.

#4 One Foot Up Mating Press

This version is how you hit the sides walls inside of her. If she’s one of the minority who have that magic clumb of orgasm triggering nerve endings off to one side, this is the version that’ll make her explode.

It’s not uncommon to get little reaction at all from all the versions we’ve covered and then make a woman come in seconds when you make the switch to one leg up. As you might imagine, try both legs. Each one will angle you to hit one side.

Bonus Tips To Amplify The Mating Press Sex Position

Tell Her To Watch

Women love dirty talk. Most are also very submissive and love being told what to do. They love being told what to do and they love hearing you tell them what you’re doing.

Because of the angle created in the mating press, your woman can see you entering her pussy with every thrust.

So tell her to watch.

Tell her how sexy it looks when you enter her pretty little pussy as you both get hotter from the view.

Pin Her Arms

Use the sides or insides of your wrists to pin her arms to her body.

Don’t squeeze or hurt her from too much pressure. But just enough pressure to let her feel you holding her will make her feel taken and women (especially submissive women) LOVE this.

Loosen Her Up Before Going Deep

As with any position that lets you go deeper than most, make sure she’s warmed up for it first.

A simple way to do this is by just having sex in other positions before getting to the deeper ones.

But the best way is to make her come before sex.

Before you penetrate her, make her come.

Some women come most from your hands. Some come most from you mouth. And some come from a combination of the 2.

The trick is to find out what move makes your woman come the most.

Not what move you like to do the most, but what move her pussy likes the most.

After years of learning, test, and tweaking every pre penetration move I could find, I discovered a simple, 5 step formula to make any woman come before sex.

Not only that but because this method taps into HER favorite move, it leads to the best orgasms her body can have before penetration.

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Spread Eagle Sex Position Forces Her Orgasmic Submission

In the spread eagle sex position, your woman is laid out with all four limbs spread out as wide as possible.

She can face up (supine) or down (prone).

She can lay down on a bed, or stand against a wall or saltire cross.

Use this position to give your goddess an erotic massage, devour her pussy, or dominate her orgasms.

I recommended all 3.

Many brush this position off because at first glance, it can seem like it’s an invitation for her to play the role of a dead fish.

This couldn’t be further from the truth.

This position can be exactly what your woman needs in order to have the strongest orgasms of her life.

Why The Spread Eagle Sex Position Makes Women Come So Much Harder

Think about the last time you jerked off.

Maybe you were watching porn…

Or maybe you were using the power of your imagination.

Other than watching or imagining something arousing, where was your attention?

Were you thinking about your taxes, chores, work?

Probably not.

Other than the stimulus – the woman you’re watching or imagining – you were likely focused solely on what you were FEELING.

The sensations of arousal in your body.

If you did start to think about your bills or what you need at the grocery store, you wouldn’t stay hard for very long.

The same thing is true for women.

In order to be fully aroused and orgasmic, your woman needs to be focused on what she’s FEELING.

If she starts thinking, it’s game over.

Her pussy will be as dry as a desert and her orgasm will be impossible.

Many guys ruin their woman’s orgasm, not because of bad technique, but because they make her think.

They take her focus away from feeling… and they get her thinking.

They ask what position she wants, what kind of sex she’s in the mood for, or if she’s getting close to orgasm.

All these questions take her focus away from FEELING sexy, horny, and orgasmic… and they force her to think.

Being dominant is not about being mean, selfish, or degrading… it’s about removing the burden of having to think, and allowing her the focus solely on the pleasure she’s feeling.

This is why dominant men tend to give women the strongest orgasms.

As I’ve said many times on this blog, the position you choose can set the mood for the type of sex you’re having.

Some positions are better suited for making love and others are better for dominating.

The spread eagle puts your woman into a submissive position and give you total control, so you can dominate her focus, her pleasure, and her orgasms.

Dominate Her Orgasms With The Spread Eagle Sex Position

As you’re about to see, there are many different variations of the spread eagle position.

There’s also several different ways to use these variations.

Before we get to them, here’s how to take advantage of her submission (in a positive way) and heighten her senses for more pleasure.

Multiply Her Pleasure By Manipulating Her Senses

Sensory deprivation is one of the most powerful tools in a dominant lover’s playbook.

It’s when you reduce one or more of her senses in order to enhance the others.

Examples of Sensory Deprivation:

Use restraints

Tie her to the bed, wall, or cross.

Use handcuffs, rope, ties, or even her own clothes.

When lifting her shirt, don’t take it off.

Lift it to her wrists and use it to tie them up.

Deprive her vision

Keeping up with the last example of lifting her top to tie her hands, instead you can lift it up to her eye level and stop it there.

This lifts her arms up and also covers her eyes.

I use this one regularly and highly recommend it!

If you don’t have any clothes around, you can always use a blindfold, a necktie, or just put a pillow or sheets over her face.

Anything that removes her vision is great because it builds massive anticipation.

She can’t see what you’re doing and starts to anticipate what’s tome come.

Fill her mouth

I’m not talking about your cock… yet. Be patient.

Again, by limiting what she’s able to do (in this case talk), you’re making it easier for her to focus on what she feels.

Use a ball gag or put her panties in her mouth after taking them off.

Just make sure you’re cautious.

If her hands are tied, she won’t be able to pull whatever you’re using out of her moth if she needs to.

If you’re using her panties, just put a bit of them in her mouth and let the rest fall out.

Amplify Her Other Senses

Now that you’ve deprived one or more of her senses, it’s time to amplify others.

Here are some of the best tools for doing this.

Use a feather

If she’s blindfolded and restrained, she’ll be able to focus much more on what sensations she’s feeling.

Start off slow and gentle with something very light like a feather.

Gently run it across her neck, chest, thighs, and every other erogenous zone to get her focused on feeling sensations.

Wartenberg wheel

Another great tool of arousal is the wartenberg wheel.

You can find them online for about $10.

It’s a medical device used to test nerve sensitivity but when used in the bedroom, it gets your woman to focus on her the pleasure and sensations those nerve endings deliver.

Roll it across every erogenous zone on her body and watch her arousal skyrocket.

Use A Vibrator

Now that your woman is warmed up, pick it up a notch and grab her favorite vibrator.

Turn it on and give her a few seconds to hear it. Remember, anticipation!

Of course you can use it to make her come, but sometimes, use it just to build her arousal.

Placing it on her outer lips, above her clit, against her vaginal opening are all great ways to get her hips grinding and pussy throbbing with anticipation for more.

It’s your call if you want to use it to make her come yet.

Either way, switch it up.

Don’t follow the same routine every time cause this will kill the anticipation.

Hot and Cold Stimulants

Candle wax is definitely not for everyone but if your woman is into it, slow dripping some wax on her erogenous zones can really spice things up.

Use it on her chest, belly, thighs.

Just avoid her vulva.

To give her some variety, use an ice cube.

Gently rub it across her body.

The heat of her body will make them melt all over her and really amplify her sense of touch.

Spread Eagle Sex Position for Erotic Massage

One of the first steps in making a woman come is to help her get release stress and tension in the body.

That’s why massage is such a great way to prime a woman for orgasm.

Start by giving her a regular massage in the most common “tight spots” such as her shoulders and neck, upper back, legs, and feet.

Once she’s totally blissed out, start massaging her more erotic hot spots such as her breasts, hips, and butt.

Work your way towards her vulva and move through each “layer” one step at a time.

Place your hands on her outer lips and massage up and down.

Put a bit of pressure with your index fingers and start to move each lip up and down in opposite directions. This “sandwiches” her clit in between her lips and stimulates it indirectly.

Make a V shape with your index and middle fingers.

Place one on each side of her inner lips and with a bit of pressure, slide them up and down, squeezing her clit gently.

Stimulate her clit directly with her favorite technique.

Some women prefer to be rubbed up and down, some like it side to side, and some need a circular motion.

The motion you use should not depend on what you like, but rather what her body responds to best.

Adapting your technique to match her unique preferences is what makes the difference between regular orgasms, and the best she’s ever had.

Watch this video to learn how to do it.

Devour Her With The Oral Eagle

In the oral version of the eagle sex position, your woman lifts her legs, bends at the knees and rests the soles of her feet on the bed.

Get on your stomach and go to town.

Again, your technique should depend on her preferences, not yours.

If you haven’t already, watch this video to master any pussy.

One quick tip is to put a pillow under her pelvis for better access.

Use The Captain Sex Position

In the captain, you’re steering the ship.

Grab her by the ankles and lift them in the air.

Get on your knees in front of her and enjoy the view.

In order to align your goods, you’ll need that pillow under her hips.

It’ll raise her butt up in the air just enough for you to enter her.

It also tilts her pelvis in such a way that you’ll hit her g-spot directly with every thrust!

The Prone Eagle Position for Deeper Orgasms

The prone version of the eagle is the same as the traditional version only she’s on her stomach instead of her back.

Unlike the prone bone position, her legs are spread and yours are on the inside of hers.

The benefit to this position is that you go very deep.

You’ll feel HUGE inside of her while amplifying the dominance of the eagle because you’re entering her from behind.

Hold her arms down and put your head close to hers for some dirty talk.

If You’re Long, Try The Peace Sign Eagle

In the peace sign, your woman’s legs are closed together while her arms are spread out.

She can face up or down.

Closed legs will make her tighter but you won’t go as deep so it’s best for guys who are longer in size.

Take It Outside The Bedroom With The Upright Eagle

Spontaneity is key to an exciting sex life.

Even kinky sex can start to feel stale if it’s always in the same place, at the same time.

A great way to mix things up is to start your session in the middle of the day, in the middle of the kitchen, living room, or laundry room.

The mindset here is that your woman is so hot and sexy that you just can’t help yourself anymore.

She’s making you so hot and hard that you just need to take her now!

In the upright eagle position, she sits on a countertop, washing machine, or any other piece of furniture or appliance that has the right height.

Lift and spread her legs while you slide in between.

Remember, this isn’t the most stimulating position for your woman but it is highly arousing.

It’s the emotions that make it hot.

The fact that you can’t make it to the bedroom and that you just need to have her right then and there.

Of course you can also use this version to squat or get on your knees and go down on her.

Split Hog Eagle

In the spread eagle sex position, all 4 of your woman’s limbs are spread out wide.

The Hog tie position is different in that all 4 of her limbs are tied together.

In the split hog, her legs are spread while her arms are tied.

Tie her hands with rope, cuffs, or use the shirt trick I showed you above.

Alternatively you don’t even need to tie her hands, just pin them down with yours.

Remind her that she is yours and dominate her orgasms.

Conclusion

In this article we talked about why the spread eagle sex position is great for leading your woman with dominant sex.

By being dominant, you remove the burden of having to think, and you free your woman to focus solely on what she’s feeling.

This is why dominant men tend to give women the strongest orgasms.

Here’s the catch…

In order for you to dominate in bed, your woman must choose to submit.

She won’t submit if she thinks you’re going to abuse that power and do things solely for your pleasure.

She has to believe that her pleasure, desires, and orgasms are important to you.

I made a video to show you exactly how to peer inside a woman’s dirty mind and discover exactly what she wants and needs in bed to have the most pleasurable sexual experiences of her life.

Click here to watch the make her come first video and be the best lover she’s ever had.

How The Corkscrew Sex Position Turns Average Men Into Sex Gods

If you want your woman to see you as a sex god who satisfies every one of her desires, you need to start using the corkscrew sex position on a regular basis.

In the corkscrew, your woman lies on her back but her lower body is twisted to one side.

Her legs are folded at the waist and you kneel to enter her from behind.

Because of her “twisted” (screw like) position, you enter her at a unique angle and can hit some new territory of pleasure.

Since her legs are closed together, it makes for a tight fit.

Tighter for you.

More filling for her.

But that’s not why this position makes you a great lover.

To explain why this position is so powerful, we have to start with a few higher level sex strategies.

Stick with me for a minute while I explain and you’ll never be the same lover again.

One of The Key Elements To Satisfying All Your Woman’s Needs In Bed Is To Create Variety

Variety is the spice of life.

It’s also one of the key ingredients to a great sex life.

Even the best lover can become boring in bed if he doesn’t know how to give his woman a variety of sexual experiences.

When most guys hear the word variety, they immediately think of using different sex positions.

That’s why blogs like this one exist.

Switching up your repertoire of positions is a quick and easy way to mix things up and start turning around a boring sex life.

Using different positions can give you woman completely new sensations.

They can hit new pleasure spots she’s maybe never felt before.

And they might even be exactly what she’s missing if you’re not giving her the orgasms she desires and deserves.

But there’s another – even more powerful – reason why a variety of positions is so important.

Different Positions Create Different Emotions, And Emotional Variety Is What Women Crave Most

Some positions (such as missionary) are great for making love.

You’re face to face.

Your entire bodies are glued together.

You can feel each others heartbeats, warm skin, and breath.

Other positions (like doggystyle) make it easy for you to take charge.

Give your woman rough, hard sex.

And make her feel taken and ravished.

Some positions make her FEEL more submissive, sexy and wanted.

Others make her feel more connected, loving, and cared for.

Giving your woman a variety of sensations AND emotions is the trick.

Now, here’s how this might look in the real world.

The Best Lovers Use Both Short & Long Term Variety

If you’re in a long term relationship, it’s crucial you give your woman variety in the long term.

Make love to her sometimes. Other times have hard, dominant, rough sex.

Have sex at night before bed. And sometimes have sex in the middle of the day.

Get it on in the bedroom. Get it on in the kitchen or car.

These are all examples of long term variety that keep a womam craving sex as a relationship matures because she’s knows it’s a new and exciting thrill every time. It’s not gonna be the same ol routine again.

But another great way to make sure your woman can’t get enough is to create a variety of experiences and emotions in a single session.

Sometimes, start your session with slow love making and by the end, you’ve transitioned into rough, dominate fucking.

Sometimes you start in the kitchen, then make your way through the hallway, and finally end in the bedroom.

This is short term variety.

Short term variety is something that very few men ever use and it instantly sets you apart as a great lover who meets all her needs and never leaves her longing for something more.

Now here’s why the corkscrew sex position is so powerful for short term variety…

The Trick To Short Term Variety Is Smooth Transitions

When you’re making love, you don’t want to transition into rough sex by suddenly choking her, slapping her ass and fucking her hard.

It would break the mood in a way that just doesn’t feel natural.

Instead, you want to transition gradually.

You want to start slow (for example) and gradually get more passionate, rougher, and more dominant.

Side note: One of the reasons women love rough sex is because it makes them feel sexy and wanted.

It makes a woman feel like she sexy and makes you so hard that you’re barely able to control yourself.

On the other hand, women also enjoy slow love making because it makes them feel special, cared for, and loved.

So start by making love because she’s beautiful, you love her, and want to be close.

But as you start making love, you start getting harder and more turned on, to the point where you’re barely able to control yourself.

YOUR emotions have GRADUALLY shifted from loving her and wanting to be with her, to being so rock hard and feeling a deep desire to fuck her.

This “darker” arousal usually builds over time. It doesn’t just turn on like a light switch.

How To Use The Corkscrew For Mind-Blowing Transitions

The same way that some positions are better for love making while others are better for rough sex, some positions are great for transitioning between the two.

The corkscrew is one of those positions.

Here’s how you might use the corkscrew to transition from slow love-making position, to a rough sex position.

Start in a kneeling butterfly.

The butterfly position is great for giving g-spot orgasms or, if you don’t want to make her come just yet, you can use it to warm her g-spot up for a much more intense orgasm later on.

It’s also a relatively “romantic position” cause you can look your woman in the eyes, gently caress her body, while you hold onto her legs.

After warming her up with slow thrusts along her g-spot, keep one of her legs against your chest and spread the other, laying it down on the bed.

Keep penetrating her slowly in this version but gradually start to get a bit more passionate.

Moan a little more and let her know (with your sounds, words, and actions) that you’re getting more and more turned on.

Now take the leg that’s against your chest and put it down, resting on the other. This is the corkscrew sex position.

Again, turn up the arousal and dominance a bit more.

Grunt and moan from deep within your stomach.

Slap and squeeze her ass while letting her know how sexy it is and how much it’s turning you on.

Grab a boob, pinch a nipple or two, and if she’s into it, give her breast a little slap.

Remember, you’re starting to get much more turned on by this point and your actions are in sync.

Finally, flip her over onto her stomach into the prone bone position.

This is one of my favorite positions because it hits the g-spot directly and produces some incredibly powerful orgasms.

By this point your arousal is at a 10.

You might be pinning her arms down – which women LOVE during rough sex cause they can submit and feel your arousal.

Keep fucking her hard and deep until she comes.

If at any point you feel like you might come before you’re ready, or you just need a break, gradually slow down, pull out of her, and go down for a bit.

Go down in the forbidden fruit until you’re ready to get back on top.

But remember, she’s in a rough sex state so keep the emotions congruent.

Grab her hips – women love this cause they feel like you have total control over their body.

Slap her ass a bit and let her know how sexy it looks.

Once you’ve cooled down, get back on top and ride her to orgasm!

Remember, the corkscrew sex position puts her body in an unusual position where you’ll likely hit new pleasure spots inside of her.

You might be hitting pleasure spots she never even knew she had.

So pay attention to her feedback and make note of anything that really gets her going.

If you want to know exactly how to ready her body like a book (even if she doesn’t give any feedback at all), watch this video to learn my dirty-mind-reading technique.

Go Deeper Than Doggy With The Leapfrog Sex Position

The leapfrog sex position (AKA Face Down Ass Up) is the deeper, rougher cousin of doggystyle.

Women LOVE rough sex and doggystyle just as much as we do.

It’s primal.

It hits all the right spots.

It makes her feel needed, sexy, and taken.

Doggy checks all the boxes for hot, orgasmic sex.

But too much of anything can get boring… and that holds true for sex positions as well.

The leapfrog is a slight variation on the classic pose that gives variety in both position and sensation.

Think of the traditional doggy style only instead of being on all fours, your woman rests her head, arms, and chest on the bed.

It’s the face-down-ass-up version of doggystyle.

Her legs are spread wide while yours are in between hers… although you can switch to make her tighter or if your pelvis’ aren’t aligned.

Unlike traditional doggy, she doesn’t have to hold herself up with both hands. She’s free to reach underneath and rub her clit while you’re stimulating her insides.

Instead of hitting her g-spot, the leapfrog targets the lesser know (but highly orgasmic) posterior fornix!

It’s an area deep inside of her that isn’t stimulated often but can be responsible for some of the strongest orgasms a woman can have.

Doggy Is Painful For Some Women – Leapfrog Might Be The Solution

Some women can’t enjoy doggystyle because it’s painful. Depending on the reason, the leapfrog sex position might be the solution.

Here are the 2 main cause of painful doggy.

It hits her cervix.

A small percentage of women experience tremendous pleasure when you hit their cervix… but for the vast majority, it’s extremely painful.

By getting off her hands and onto her chest, it changes the angle of her vagina and you can avoid the cervix completely.

Air is entering her.

If you’re on the smaller side, air can enter her when you pull out and cause pain when pushing back is.

The trick to this is to use “tighter fitting” positions.

Switching from doggy to the leapfrog can do the trick.

If that doesn’t do it for her, try the closed leg leapfrog. Close her legs and place yours on the outside of hers.

Closed legs will make her feel even tighter, you feel bigger, and it’ll be less likely to let air make its way inside.

Reward And Encourage Submission

The leapfrog is a very vulnerable position for your woman.

She has little to no control.

Her ass and pussy are fully exposed for your inspection and potential judgement.

She can’t see what you’re doing (or about to do) and that can turn anticipation into anxiety if you don’t first…

Take the time to ease any insecurities she might have.

Tell her to get into position.

Lightly caress her butt cheeks with your fingertips.

Tell her how gorgeous her ass looks in this position.

PRO TIP: Compliments are much more believable and effective when you use specifics.

Saying “your ass looks great” is one thing. It’s nice to hear and she’ll appreciate it. But it can get stale and unbelievable.

Saying “your ass looks great in this position” is much more believable and hot to hear simply because it’s more specific. Even if she doesn’t like her ass, she thinks “Oh, but it looks better in this position.” And her subconscious allows her let go of any insecurities she might have so long as she stays in position.

It’s a dark part of human nature and psychology but we might as well use it to make her feel sexy and good about herself.

Now lightly trace your fingernails on her cheeks for a few seconds, then lift your hand and give her ass a nice smack.

The mismatch of sensations create a “super-sensation” that most women absolutely adore.

Take some time to go down on her while you continue lightly scratching her butt and thighs with your finger tips.

When you’re finally about to enter your goddess, make her whimper by gently swiping your length between her folds.

Press the tip of your hard-on against her opening a bit without going in. This is one of my favorite ways to make a woman soaking wet and begging you for it. It makes her imagine and crave you inside of her. Much like imagining a specific food when your hungry amplifies your desire for it.

The Leapfrog Sex Position Is For Hard Fucking, Not Lovemaking

The foreplay tips in the last section are great for getting a woman warmed up and eager for more.

But when it comes to penetration in the leapfrog sex position, don’t be so gentle.

Some positions are better suited for slow, romantic, lovemaking.

The leapfrog isn’t one of them.

If you try “making love” in this position, your woman will feel a lack of congruence and won’t be satisfied.

So save the love-making for another position.

Instead, ratchet-up the dominance.

Amplify her submission.

Make her feel taken and ravished.

Slap and grab her ass. If you did this during the warm up while telling her how sexy her ass looks, you can repeat the same move again during sex without saying a word and she’ll feel the same emotions when you gave the compliment.
Get a firm grip on her hips. Remember, even if you aren’t pulling her onto you, just the feel of your hands grasping her hips amplifies the “rough sex emotions” she needs in this type of position.
Hold, tie, or cuff her hands behind her back. Being physically constrained allows her to submit her body and focus on the sensations that lead her to orgasm.

How To Last Longer In Leapfrog & Other Dog-Like Positions

Some positions are notorious for making guys lose control quicker than others.

The leapfrog isn’t immune to this.

The 3 tips can help you last longer in many positions but especially the leapfrog.

Use a Standing variation

When you’re kneeling behind your woman, you need to use your hips to thrust. It engages your entire core and makes you more likely to come quick if you’re already prone to it.

By standing, you can thrust with your entire body. Use your legs and hips to rock your entire lower body and you’ll cut down the “stress” on your core that makes you come faster.

Pull her to you

Keep still while you grab onto her hips and pull her onto you. Or – even better – get your timing right and pull her while you thrust forward.

Again, it’ll help relax your core and as an added bonus, it’ll give her the extra hot and arousing sensation of being taken. Very powerful!

Stay deep and use shorter thrusts

Long thrusts that stimulate your entire shaft lead to premature orgasms. By shortening the length of your thrusts, you increase your staying power.

Go as deep as you can and only pull out half way before thrusting forward again.

You’ll last longer and she’ll get that deep, fulfilling pounding this position is intended for.

Try These Different Leapfrog Variations To Find The One That Blows Her Mind

I often say on this blog that it’s often not about what position you’re using, rather how you’re using it. Many women will LOVE a certain position with one guy but hate it with another. The reason is often due to the smallest, subtle differences, and the fact that the better lover takes the time to find her favorite. To master your woman’s unique preferences, watch this video.

Bound Leapfrog Position

We talked about using the leapfrog in a dominant way. The bound leapfrog is the superior version of this.

Use a spreader bar, necktie, handcuffs, or rope to tie her hands together in between her legs.

Instead of holding her hands behind her back (as shown above), tie them together UNDER her and in between her legs.

Other than focusing her attention on the pleasure you’re delivering, the only thing she’ll be able to do is rub herself if she chooses.

Standing Leapfrog

We covered this one above. It’s pretty straight forward. In this version you have your woman at the edge of the bed so that you can stand behind her instead of kneeling.

Again, if you struggle with premature ejaculation, this version will be best since you can thrust with your entire body rather than just your hips.

The Squatting Leapfrog AKA FDAU Bulldog

Instead of standing or kneeling, you squat down.

It’s just like the bulldog position only she’s in the face down ass up position.

Squatting will completely change the angle of pleasure and can make you go even deeper.

Obviously, you won’t be able to last as long in this version so try it out, gauge your woman’s reaction, and if she really likes it, save it for an explosive finish.

The Leg Up Leapfrog

Stand or kneel with one foot while lifting and bending the other at the knee.

This one creates the most drastic change in what she’ll feel.

Not only does it make you go extra deep, it also makes you hit at a slight side angle.

If your woman’s deep spot is off to one side – watch this video if you’re not sure – this is the version you’ll want to use.

It might take a minute to get your rhythm going but once you do, watch out!

IMPORTANT: Leapfrog After-Care

Again, the leapfrog sex position is best used during rough, dominant sex.

If you’re in a long term, committed relationship, it’s crucial that you finish a rough-sex session with proper after-care.

Feeling objectified and wanted for nothing but our bodies can be an incredible turn-on… DURING SEX.

But…

We also want to feel special, cared for, and loved.

If you just get up and leave immediately after rough sex, it will leave your woman feeling used.

Not good.

You MUST invest a little extra time after rough sex to make sure she knows you love her and don’t see her as just a sex object.

Lie her flat on her belly gently touch, kissing, and appreciating her entire body as she basks in her after orgasm glow.

Lightly scratch her butt and thighs.

Sprinkle in some kisses.

Slowly work your way up her back till you reach her neck.

Kiss her neck, whispering sweet nothings, and spending a few minutes holding her and letting her know that you love her and aren’t simply “done with her” now that you got your rocks off.

Being the best she’s ever had means satisfying the physical AND emotional parts of her.

This is true for every woman.

But HOW you do it changes from one woman to the next.

In this video I show you how to fine tune all your strategies and techniques in order to match your woman’s unique preferences and subtle differences.

When you fine tune your techniques to match all her unique differences, you truly satisfy every one of her needs and desires.

Watch this video to learn exactly how it’s done and make sure you’re giving her the best sex of her entire life!

How To Give A Woman Multiple Orgasms With The Anvil Sex Position

Of all the positions on this site, the anvil sex position hits our top 10 list because of how easy it can be used to string together a series of intense, multiple orgasms that reverberate throughout her entire body.

With just a few small tweaks, you can give her a clitoral, g-spot, and deep spot orgasm, one after the other.

There are 3 types of multiple orgasms:

Repetition Orgasms – This is when you give her the same type of orgasm over and over again.
Simultaneous Orgasms – This is when you give her different types of orgasms at the same time. It’s also the most difficult to achieve because your timing has to be just right.
Varied Orgasms – The easiest to give, this is when you give her different types of orgasms in one session.

On this page, you’re going to learn why it’s so easy to give a woman varied orgasms in the anvil position and exactly how you can do it tonight!

But first…

A WARNING On The Anvil Sex Position:

Before we get started, I have to warm you to START SLOW in this position.

The anvil position makes you go DEEP! Much deeper than most positions.

There are only 2 reasons some positions make you go deeper than others:

Nothing is in the way that prevents you from going balls deep (such as her ass stopping your hips and leaving out some of your length).
Her position “folds” her body in a way that compresses and shortens the distance of her vaginal canal.

When it comes to the anvil position, BOTH of these are true.

So even if you’re not very big, you will go very deep inside of her.

Sounds great (especially if you’re not very large) but the problem is that you might hit her cervix and that’s very painful for most women.

So when you first start using the anvil, GO SLOW!

Very slow.

Until you know that you’re not going to hurt her.

If you do hit her cervix, you might be too big for this position or… you can modify the position using some of the examples below until you find the one that’s just the right fit.

Now that you know what to watch out for, let’s move onto why you’re here.

How To Give Her Multiple Orgasms In The Anvil Sex Position

First things first.

The most extreme version of this position will require your woman to be a little flexible.

And as with anything requiring flexibility, you should never stretch cold muscles.

So make sure she’s warmed up first.

Before using the anvil, build up a sweat in another, less demanding sex position.

Ideally, you’ve already given her at least one orgasm before penetration.

Foreplay In The Anvil

Start by laying her down on her back and climb on top of her.

Pin her arms above her head with one hand and start kissing her.

Pinning her arms down is a sign of that you’re in control and lets her know that it’s okay to submit to you.

You’re going to need her total submission if you’re going to make her come multiple times.

Now gently pull her hair so that her head tilts to one side and kiss her neck on the other.

Work your way down by kissing her collarbone, breasts, belly, and pubic bone.

When you get to her vulva, skip over it.

Skip to her thighs.

Spread her legs a little and spend a bit of time on each of her inner thighs. This hot spot is one of the most sensitive and erotic erogenous zones on a woman’s body so take advantage.

Now get on your knees and lift one of her legs in the air.

Kiss and caress her ankle, calf, and thigh.

Repeat on the other leg.

The point here is to get her relaxed and turned on while her legs are up in the air and stretching.

Now hold both her legs in the air and switch back and forth between the two.

Work your way between her legs and use your mouth to warm her up and really get her craving more.

PRO TIP: Something that really helps to give you better access during oral is to put a pillow under her pelvis. It gives you a lot more access and will help with the penetration when you get to it. More on that below.

Go down on her for a bit.

Don’t make her come just yet. Instead, build up an orgasm and get her close.

ADVANCED: If you don’t know exactly how to bring her to the brink of orgasm without using your dick, watch this video now.

By this point she’ll be begging to feel you inside her.

Tease Penetration Before Giving It To Her

Free up one of your hands by using the other to hold both her feet together, or have her hold them.

Because of the pillow under her butt, her pelvis will be raised up in the air and should align with yours quite well.

Gently swipe the tip of yourself against her opening.

Swipe up and down.

Between her lips.

DO NOT ENTER HER YET.

Get your tip wet with her juices and use it to rub her clit.

Rub it up and down.

Side to side.

And in circles.

Now go back to gliding just your head in between her lips.

As she’s breathing heavy and likely begging for it… SLOWLY enter her.

Slowly enter her with the head of your cock, then slowly pull back out.

Do this a few times and go back to rubbing her clit in between.

This will drive her wild and get her throbbing to feel you inside.

Start thrusting just your tip into her again.

With every thrust, start to gradually go deeper until you’re going balls deep.

How To Give A Clitoral Orgasm In The Anvil Position

By now her clit is warmed up and ready tome come.

Now you’re going to give it to her in a way that’ll also “warm up” her g-spot and deep spot.

Lift her legs and spread them wide.

Get on your knees and lean over her.

Now here’s the trick…

Instead of thrusting in and out, stay all the way in and grind your pelvis against her clit and vulva.

It’s that simple!

Now just find what movement makes her come.

Up and down.

Side to side.

Or circles.

Also remember that the clitoral head is just one part of the clitoral anatomy.

The sensitive nerve endings in her clit that lead to orgasm run throughout her entire vulva.

So make sure you’re rubbing her clit and the entire region surrounding it.

If you did a good job of building up and teasing her clit with oral and rubbing your shaft against it, she will come FAST!

Now, it’s time to give her clit and legs a rest while you…

Give Her A G-Spot Orgasm In The Anvil Sex Position

Because the clitoris and g-spot and connected through the sensitive nerve endings that make women come, it’ll be easier to giver her a g-spot orgasm now that’s she’s already come with her clit.

For this version of the anvil, you’re going to get off of her and onto your knees.

Instead of pressing down on her legs (like you were in the previous version), get on your knees and let them rest them against your chest.

Remember that pillow you put under her butt during foreplay? This is where it’s really going to help.

By resting her butt on the pillow, her pelvis will tilt at an angle.

This way, when you thrust back and forth, you’ll slam straight into her g-spot.

You might need to add a second pillow, spread your legs wider, or a combination of the two in order to get the perfect angle.

Play around with the amount of tilt in her pelvis, and the height of your shaft to find her ideal.

The lower your pelvis is, the more upward your cock will go… aiming right at her g-spot.

Once you do, you’ll hit her g-spot with ease.

Finish Her Off With A Deep Spot Orgasm In The Anvil Sex Position

And now for the grand finale!

Get on top of her in a plank or push-up position and instead of grinding, thrust straight up and down.

The trick here is to find out how aligned your heads should be.

Should your head be closer to the wall (or headboard) than hers, should you both be the same distance, or should you be further away?

Depending on who’s closer to the head of the bed, the angle of penetration will change drastically for her.

As with everything related to sex and orgasms, not 2 women are the same.

Depending on the size of your dick, her anatomy, your body sizes, one of these variations will work better than the others for her.

Find the one that hits her deep spot best and you’ll thrust straight into it, giving her the deepest, and most powerful orgasm possible!

A truly epic finish to your 3 piece orgasm.

Conclusion:

Throughout this article, I’ve encouraged you to try many different techniques, angles, and movements.

That’s because no 2 women are exactly the same.

The real “trick” to giving a woman the best orgasms of her life lies in adapting to her unique sensitivities and preferences.

Until now, there hasn’t been a reliable way to do it.

But that’s exactly what I want to show you.

It’s simple and scientifically proven.

It’s called Adaptive Orgasmic Response and it’s the core of my Make Her Come First Formula.

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The Butterfly Sex Position Gives Big D Skills To Smaller Sized Guys

If you’re average or slightly below in size, you need to try the butterfly sex position.

It might just be one of the best positions for giving women powerful g-spot orgasms with and average (or slightly smaller) tool.

On this page you’ll discover exactly why it works so well and how you can use it to give her one of the strongest orgasms of her life… regardless of your size.

First, let’s cover the basics.

To get into the butterfly, your woman lies down at the edge of a bed, table, or counter top.

You stand in front of her, lift her legs and rest them against your shoulders.

Grab her butt with your hands and lift her slightly off the surface. This is the real magic to this position. More on why in a minute.

The challenge with this position is finding a surface that’s the perfect height.

If the surface is just a bit too high, you can spread your legs to lower yourself a bit. If your working surface is low enough, you can kneel to get the right height.

Why The Butterfly Sex Position Is A Secret Weapon For Smaller Guys

First of all, she gets to relax in a comfortable position which is required if she’s going to come.

It’s also fairly easy for you. No complicated or strenuous position to hold and it doesn’t require you to use much strength.

All in all, it’s a comfortable and easy position on both of you.

But here’s where this position really shines.

By lifting her core in the air, you tilt her pelvis.

Without this angle, you’ll thrust straight in and out of her without really touching her g-spot at all, unless you’re well hung.

By tilting her pelvis, you create an angle that makes it easy for you to thrust straight into her g-spot.

Pelvic Tilt — By lifting her butt (even just a tiny bit) you tilt the angle of penetration and hit her g-spot directly!

This slight shift in her position turns you into an instant stud that easily hits her g-spot without needing a huge dick and with no special moves or tricks.

Add to this the fact that her body is completely relaxed while she can look you in the eyes and you’ve got the perfect recipe for a powerful g-spot orgasm.

You might even make her squirt so have some towels nearby.

Here’s How To Blow Her Mind In The Butterfly Position

The butterfly is great for a lunchtime quickie on the dinning room table, but it’s also a great finishing move because it makes her come so hard.

So sometimes, save it as your finishing move.

As she’s lying on the bed, put your hand on her hips and pull her to the edge.

In Jiu Jitsu, controlling the hips of your opponent is essential.

When you control the hips, you control the body.

When you grab your woman by the hips and pull on them, she feels the control you have over her body.

Consciously or not, she thinks “if he can control my body, he can control my orgasms”.

Now that she’s in the right spot and willing to submit because you know how to control her body, grab her ankles and lift her legs up in the air.

Kiss the back of her calves and work your way down.

Tell her to hold her legs high and wide as you get down to your knees.

Now kiss, lick, and tease the back of her thighs as you work your way closer to her pussy.

Back off a bit and go back to her legs to create tension and desire.

Warm Her Pussy Up Before You Make Her Come

Using your thumb and index finger, pinch her outer pussy lips together.

What you’re doing is pinching her clit INDIRECTLY, through the skin of her lips.

Now gently start stroke her clit, as if it were a tiny dick.

This massages her clit indirectly which is key because she might not be warmed up enough for direct contact yet. If she is, you’ll just get her more amped and rearing to go.

Once she’s aching for more, slowly start to lick the hood of her clit. Again, don’t make direct contact. Just the hood.

When she’s ready for direct contact, start with one slow lick directly on her clit and pay attention to her response.

If it’s positive, keep going.

Of not, go back to playing with her indirectly until she’s ready.

Use her favorite oral technique to give her a clitoral orgasm.

Once she comes, give her a minute to cool down.

Tell her how sexy she looks when she comes.

Let her know how delicious she tastes.

Kiss and stroke her legs.

Stand Up, Grab Her Butt, And Get Into The Butterfly Sex Position

Since you just gave her a clitoral orgasm, her clit will be too sensitive to touch.

Her g-spot however, will be swollen and aching to feel you.

Rub your tip up and down against her opening for a few 10 – 20 seconds to build her desire.

Slowly enter just your tip inside of her.

Now pull it back out.

Do this a few times.

This will get her soaking wet and craving to feel all of you.

With every stroke, go just a bit deeper.

Start slow like this and build it up faster, harder, and more passionately.

Remember, the real trick to this position is the angle of her hips.

If you don’t want to hold her up anymore, put a pillow under her pelvis.

Now you’re free to pin her arms down, or pinch, twist, and pull her nipples… if she’s into it.

If ever you feel yourself getting close to coming before you’re ready, just pull out and go down on her again.

Try The Crossed Butterfly

As with every position, you wanna try different variations to find out which one works best for your woman.

A popular twist on the butterfly is to cross her legs so they make an X.

It tightens her up and make you feel bigger.

But remember, contrary to popular belief, bigger isn’t always better.

So try them both but read her feedback and don’t assume she’ll like one better than the other.

If the crossed version feels too tight, you can also try:

The One Sided Butterfly Sex Position:

Instead of crossing her legs, close them together and put them over the same shoulder.

This will make her tighter but not as tight as the X version.

This one also makes it easy for you to hold both her legs in place with one hand.

Now the other is free to roam.

Use it to play with her breasts, grab her neck, or hold one of her arms down.

Finally, another version of the butterfly that creates a completely unique sensation for her is:

The Curled Butterfly Position

Instead of having her legs straight up and against your chest, this version has her legs curled.

Fold her legs up towards her head and bend them at the knees so she can rest her feet on your chest.

This one folds her body in such a way that you might not even need to extra elevation of the pillow or your hands. Again, test out all versions to find her favorite.