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The Kivin Method AKA Sideways Oral with Pics and Animations

You’ve probably heard that oral sex is the easiest way to get a woman off, but if you’re struggling to make it work for you woman, the kivin method might be exactly what you need.

Traditional cunnilingus positions only deliver a fraction of pleasure potential and often to the wrong place. The kivin method provides way more pleasure and does so exactly where it’s needed, resulting in much stronger and quicker orgasms.

What is the kivin method?

The kivin method is more of a position than a technique. Here’s how it works.

Like usual, your woman lies on her back, legs spread. But instead of lying on your stomach and coming straight on from in between her legs, you come in from the side. Here’s what it looks like:

Now, when you lick up and down, it’s going to stimulate her side to side instead of up and down. It might not seem like it at first, but this is a total game changer.

Here’s why:

Your tongue makes contact with much more of the clit at once. It takes a lot less time to cover the entire clit and make its way back. Take a look and both these animations. Imagine the blue line is your tongue making its way up and down. Notice how long it takes to cover the entire clit in the first version and how quickly you engage the entire clit in the second. A lot more pleasure, faster.

All this extra pleasure is only delivered where it’s welcome so you don’t overstimulate her. Until your woman is really aroused, the clitoral head is often too sensitive for direct contact. Traditional oral ignores this by licking up and down, head to shaft. This can deliver short bursts of pleasure interspersed with shorter hits of too much sensitivity. Not good. By going sideways, you can ignore the head and focus only on the shaft until her arousal is up and her clitoral head is eager for action. Then you can move over towards the head and include it in your play to provide direct stimulation to both parts instead of just one at a time.

You can add labia licks too! The labia (aka outer lips) are the female equivalent of the male testicles. Not knowing this, most guys completely ignore them. When you start licking your girl kivin style, you can send your tongue a little further with every stroke, including her labia in the fun.

Easier access for your hands. In the old school (between both legs) position, incorporating your hands can be a challenge. Your chin is in the way on the bottom, and playing on top just requires a odd and uncomfortable placement for you hands. But kivin makes hand play easy. When performing sideways oral, both sides are unobstructed and easy to access.

Many women report cumming much faster and easier when introduced to the kivin.

Take reddit user PokerBabe25 for example.

In this post about the kivin, she expresses her frustration in not making her wife cum from cunnilingus. ‘I’ve always enjoyed performing oral sex on my partners, often with “good results” but with my wife my usual techniques almost never bring her completely to orgasm. She gets very close, but I could barely ever get her there.’

Before finding kivin, she poured in tons of effort while falling short to deliver: ‘I often go 15-20 minutes and have her teetering on the edge without managing to get her to come.’

After a bit of tweaking with the kivin method: ‘She came within about 5 minutes of me finding the rhythm and best hand positon! This was definitely a big change’

With results like that, the kivin is a must try!

Is the Kivin Method guaranteed to work?

Maybe, with some women. For others, no. It’s such a radically different experience for a woman that you just need to try it. It can be the difference between giving her light, playful orgasms that ‘feel good’ vs earth shattering eruptions of bliss that literally change her life forever. So for gods sake, try it!

Press a fingertip or thumbpad against her taint. — Pressing the taint

How can you tell if your woman likes it more? Well relying solely on your girls feedback is not always the best move. She might bend the truth to spare your feelings or she might not know that more pleasure is possible. While you should absolutely encourage feedback, you want to learn the pleasure signals that do not lie. The physical cues she can’t control. In the make her come first formula, you learn all these unconscious ‘tells’ but for now, here is one of the easiest to use in the kivin method.

Place your thumbpad or finger tip on her taint (the area right between her vaginal opening and anus.) As she approaches orgasm, her taint will produce involuntary contractions. In other words, you’ll feel it pulsate. She can’t fake this. Once you’ve done this a few times, you’ll also start to notice some other tells she does naturally when nearing her peak. Maybe her eyes roll back in some unique way or her lips do something funny. Tuck that nugget of info in your memory to read her orgasm next time you don’t have a finer on her taint.

Conclusion:

The kivin method will either prove to be the best way to go down on your girl or not. Either way, you owe it to yourself to try it out. It just might have the biggest impact on your sex life of anything you ever do.

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Splitting The Bamboo Position Is The Ultimate Smooth Move

Splitting the Bamboo position might just be one of the most underrated on the entire roster. Sure, unobstructed access to both holes, the potential for DEEP penetration, and many opportunities for clitoral stimulation are all great. But best of all, using this position (the way you’re about to see) makes you the king of “smooth moves’. More on that in a minute.

Splitting The Bamboo position is the ultimate twist on missionary… literally.

To get into Splitting the bamboo, begin in the classic missionary position, straddle one of your woman’s legs, and twist her torso. Lift her upper leg straight into the air and rest it against your chest.

Caution: Avoid putting all your weight on her thigh. It might feel like the path of least resistance, but it can put her leg to sleep and kill any chance of orgasm.

Getting Started: You might find that your naughty bits don’t line up quite right. You might be a little too high (or low) to enter your woman. Try spreading your legs wider to lower yourself to the right height. You can also put a pillow under her butt to lift her up. Just keep in mind that this will change her angle. More on that below.

Optimize for Orgasms

If you’ve been using all star positions for a while, you already know the importance of targeting your woman’s orgasm zones. If you have a particular bend in your penis or your woman is taller than most (for example), you might have to adapt your position in order to make her come.

How?

Test Angles

If you lean over her in a pushup position, it’ll feel completely different from being upright. Try both and see what she responds to best. Lean back a little or twisting your core to one side vs the other. Test a slight shift in her angle. Lying perfectly on her side or mid way between her side and on her butt can make all the difference. The slightest shift in your positions can be the difference between “I was close” and “OMG!! No one has ever made me come so hard!”

Once you nail her position, amplify it.

One of the great benefits you get from splitting the bamboo is the easy access. You both have plenty of access to all her naughty bits with plenty of room to play.

While holding her airborne leg against your chest with one hand, make use of the other. Play with her clit. Grab a boob. Pull her favorite vibrator out the drawer and give her double the pleasure.

If she’s into it, switch hands and use your free one to play with her ass. Lick your thumbpad and lightly rub against her anus. Tease it while SLOWLY and gradually making your way in. Use some anal beads or a butt plug.

Encourage her to play with herself or invite her favorite toy. Heck, you can have her play with her clit, while you toy her anus, grab a boob, and penetrate her deep spot.

Splitting the Bamboo is the Ultimate ‘Smooth Move’

Not much kills the mood like awkwardly fumbling around between positions. It shows a woman that you’re not totally confident and comfortable and it passes those arousal killing emotions on to her. Not good.

Instead, you want to use smooth moves that don’t add any breaks into the mood.

One of the easiest ways to pull this off is by smoothly transitioning between positions. Far too many guys mess this up and it’s such an easy fix.

Splitting the bamboo is the ultimate ‘smooth transition’ position and demonstrates the strategy perfectly.

The way to switch positions smoothly is by making small, subtle, sub movements… one at a time. Trying to flip your woman around, bending her knees, and putting her legs behind her head creates lots of opportunity for you to fumble. Instead, make the smallest movements possible. One. At. A. Time.

For example, you might start in the classic missionary. From here, grab one of her wrists and putt it across her body, twisting her upper body on its side. Enjoy that position for a minute.

Now lift your pelvis, straddle one of her legs and pull her other leg to the same side you did her arm. Now her entire body is on its side.

From here you can easily lift her leg up in the air and enjoy splitting the bamboo.

Maybe you lean forward for a while before returning to the classic version.

Without having to move much at all, you can easily grab her airborne ankle and move it down towards the bed, turning her fully onto her stomach and into the prone bone.

Notice how all these small shifts can lead you from one position to another with very little room for awkward stumbling.

This is what it means to have smooth moves.

Master the Art of Smooth Moves

Now this was just one example of how to go from missionary to prone bone but the fact is that you could run through almost every position on this site by using this same principle.

Now even if you’ve nailed the art of the smooth move, there is 1 mistake almost all men make in bed that ruins a woman chance at orgasm.

HINT: Even the most experienced guys still make this costly blunder.

Try this 30 second dirty thought experiment to find out if you’re making this deadly mistake and what to do instead.

Is Bumper Cars The Most Useless Sex Position On This Site?

Bumper Cars Sex Position — The classic bumper cars sex position

If you have a fetish for smelling feet, get turned on by putting your dick in extreme danger, and want to get it on but need a break from staring at each others mugs, the Bumper Cars sex position might be just the move you’re looking for.

No but seriously, there is a fraction of women who will absolutely love this position and get stimulated in ways that just aren’t possible in any other pose. If might also be something that’s on your sex buckets list. If so, give it a shot but please, practice extreme caution with this one and START S-L-O-W!

Here’s how to do it:

You both lie face down and away from each other. Her on the bottom and you on top. Align your naughty bits and slide into her.

The terms bumper cars comes from the idea that both of you will be rocking back and forth, bumping your butts together. In reality, this doesn’t create the most pleasurable sensation and it can easily lead to chest burn as you rub your skin against the bed. If you watch the position done in porn or you actually try it yourself, you’ll see it much easier if you do the thrusting while your woman stays (relatively) still.

You can go for vaginal intercourse in this move but it really shines as an anal position.

Either way, START SLOW. Your penis will be at an awkward and unusual angle here and you want to avoid bending too much. Start slow and gradually speed up as you feel more confident. It’s also best to already be warmed up when trying this move so save it for later on in your session, once you’ve already got your heart going and built up a sweat.

PRO TIP: By sliding a pillow or folded blanket under her thighs, you can create a completely different angle. This can make it easier for you to enter your woman. Make sure your prop is under her thighs and not under her belly or you’ll tilt her in the opposite direction.

Over The Edge Bumper Cars:

This version will likely be the easiest in terms of penis bend. Lie flat on the bed while she’s hanging over it.

Keep In Mind: It’s unlikely you’ll be able to go deep in the bumper cars sex position… and that’s a good thing! Many guys believe ‘deeper is better’ but it’s not true. The majority of a woman’s vaginal nerve endings are in the first half of the vagina. The majority are crammed into the g-spot, which will be very easy for you to hit thanks to the bizarre angle achieved in the Bumper Cars sex position.

That said, if you’re smaller than average, you might find it impossible to enter your woman in the bumper cars. If that’s your case, I recommend you check out the butterfly. It’ll make you feel HUGE and exquisite while you dominate her g-spot with ease!

Bent Bumper Cars Sex Position:

If you’ve read some of my other blog (or advanced trainings) you know that some women have their O spot located on a side rather than straight on. If this is your woman, try a bent knees version to hit the sides of her insides.

Lying on a couch with one leg hanging off is an easy (and comfortable) way to accomplish this.

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Why Captain Sex Position Is So Good at Making Her Cum Again

So you just gave your woman her first orgasm of the night and now her body is primed for #2. You can put her into several different poses and in this article, I’ll make the case for why I believe the captain sex position is a top contender.

Unless you’re a complete rookie, you probably already know that man on top position like missionary or the C.A.T. are great for giving that first orgasm quick and easy. The downside (if there is one) is that these first orgasms are not the most powerful. But that’s ok. The purpose of that first orgasm is not to blow her mind with the best she’s ever had. The role of her first orgasm is to get the first one out of the way and put her body into “cum-mode.” Once she’s there, her rational mind melts away and her body takes over. Now it’s ready to achieve multiple, more powerful orgasms MUCH easier.

Enter the captain sex position.

To transition from a man on top position to the captain, put your weight on your knees, get upright, and lift her legs in front of you.

It’s similar to the butterfly and anvil, only you’re kneeling instead of standing, and upright instead of bent over.

Why the Captain Sex Position is so Effective at Making Her Cum A Second Time.

This position tops the list for a few key reasons. Each of which are powerful on their own but when combined often lead to extremely powerful, full body, orgasmic convulsions that most women will rarely (if ever) experience.

1) Let’s Her Relax Into Orgasm Mode

As guys it’s easy to feel a certain pressure to perform in bed, but we rarely consider that women feel that pressure too. Women feel a pressure to please and impress you use in bed. Paradoxically, they can’t perform “too well” or come of as very experienced and slutty. They need to fit inside that perfect box in the middle and that’s a very stressful and orgasm hindering task.

The captain takes away all that worry. The captain puts you in full control and absolves her of the pressure to perform. You can give her simple instructions – like telling her to hold her legs, play with herself, or tell you how much she loves it – and she can obey without worry or guilt because she’s simply following your directions. You are the one who’s taking the responsibility. Now she can enjoy without guilt or fear of being judged. By telling her to do those things, you’ve absolved her of the responsibility to choose where the line is and you’ve given her permission to enjoy and relax into an orgasmic state.

2) Smooth Transition Into More Intense Orgasms

Man-on-top positions are great for slow, romantic sex. That’s part of the reason the resulting orgasms are typically not as powerful. But as things heat up and your woman becomes more orgasmic, your position should reflect that. As implied by the name, the captain position puts you in control. You dictate the speed, movement, and rhythm. You can still gaze deep into her eyes, slow things down, and lean in for the occasional kiss, but you can also turn the heat up instantly. You can tell her to hold her legs, place a hand around her neck, and start fucking a little harder. You can start to control her body and manipulate her position by putting her legs together, crossing them, or holding her by the thighs instead of her ankles.

Pro Captain Tip: Either you will be holding her legs or she will. Either way, take control. When you’re holding her legs, move them around into different positions and tell her to play with herself. When she’s holding her legs, put your hand around her neck, play with her breasts and clit. The point is not to overload her with stimulation (although she will be getting LOTS) – the point is to let her know that YOU are in charge. YOU are leading her to pleasure (and orgasms). YOU are the captain.

3) Easily Target Intense, Full-Body, G-Spot Orgasms

If you’ve been reading this blog for any length of time, you already know the common in-and-out penetration move used by most guys rarely makes women come. In order to give a woman penetration orgasms, you need to target her “orgasm zones.”

There are 3 ways to target a woman’s Orgasm Zones. 1. Altering her position 2. Altering your thrusting motion 3. Altering both. In my experience, most women become orgasmic in the captain when you apply the third strategy.

Here’s how to target her g-spot for powerful orgasms in the captain sex position.

Step 1) Put a pillow under her butt to tilt her pelvis.

Step 2) Swing your thrust instead of moving back and forth.

Either one of these moves can make you hit her g-spot but in my experience the 2 combined together tend to lead to the best results.

Try one. Then try the other. Then try both. See what gets the strongest reaction from your woman and stick to that.

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Pass “The Wall” with the Upside Down Deepthroat Position?

If you want to experience the pinnacle of submissiveness while taking your man deeper down your throat than you ever have before, you need to try the upside down deepthroat position. The sensations of being face fucked deep down your throat without any gagging and nowhere to go is an exceptionally liberating experience.

In this epic blowjob position, you lie on your back with your head hanging over the edge of the bed. Your man stand in front of you and enters your mouth and aligned throat. The tilt of your head aligns your mouth and throat, making it easier to take a man down your throat without hitting “the wall.”

Why He Loves It:

If your blowjobs have become stale and routine, this pose is a sure fire way to mix it up by giving your man some incredibly alluring views from an angle he isn’t used to. Take it to the next level by placing yourself in front of a mirror and letting him catch a reflection of you playing with yourself as he effortlessly slides down your throat. Depending on the angle and his size, he might also see his cock make a bulge in your throat. Intoxicatingly hot!

Side note: Unlike regular blowjobs, the sensations your man feels during deepthroat come from the tightness of your throat, not the suction of your lips. This along with the psychological thrill of having his entire manhood taken and embraced makes deepthroating an experience unlike any other.

Critical Warning: The Upside Down Deepthroat Position is advanced and requires practice, patience, and trust.

The upside down deepthroat position is advanced. While it can help you get past “the wall” and get better at deep throating, it’s not going to turn a rookie into a deepthroating queen overnight. This isn’t a position for newbies and those who still lack a certain level of confidence and skill. Hanging upside down results in a headrush sensations that can add excitement but can also feel disorientating and overwhelming. A common occurrence for first time upside down deepthroaters is spit running down the face potentially into their nose. All this leads to the fact that you MUST establish a ‘safe gesture’ before hand, and it’s highly recommended you start with a beginner version of the position.

Beginner version of the upside down deepthroat position:

If you’re not already taking your man to the depths of your throat, try a slightly modified version of the upside down deep throat and ease your way to pro level.

Lie down on your bed. Using a pillow, folded towel, or other comfy prop, tilt you head back half way. Your man can kneel over you as you get accustomed to taking him deep. Instead of your head hanging completely over the edge of the bed, it’ll hang halfway over your prop. Your man can kneel on the bed and tilt over you as if he was going into a 69 position.

Keep tilting gradually until you’re hanging over the edge of the bed and devouring him entirely.

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Lap Dance Sex Position – How To Let Her Seduce Herself

If you want to learn how your woman comes, watch what she does when she gets on top. The exception to this is when she’s in a service-top moves such as the lap dance sex position.

Wait…

What’s A Service Top Position?

Traditional girl-on-top positions (like cowgirl) are highly educational because you can relax and observe how your woman moves in order to orgasm. You can feel and watch the precise motion, rhythm, and speed she uses in order to get herself off.

Service-top positions are different because your woman doesn’t move in ways that will make her come. She moves in ways that *she thinks* will make you come. Or in ways she thinks will tease, please, and turn you on. She’s on top and in full control but she doesn’t use that power to pleasure herself, she uses it to pleasure and service you.

As you’ll learn in Penetration Orgasms Made Easy, the type of fucking that makes men come is very different from the type that makes women come.

So, if the lap dance sex position isn’t useful at teaching you what makes your woman come, what is it good for? The answer is turning her on and priming her for stronger orgasm in other positions.

Here’s why.

Nothing Turns Her On More Than Turning You On.

The only reason a woman gives you a lap dance (other than cold hard cash) is to turn you on. It’s to get you thinking with your little head instead of your big one. Why does she want to have this power? Because it makes her feel sexy, beautiful, and wanted.

So give her those feelings.

Make her feel beautiful, sexy, and wanted, by giving her the rise she’s trying to get out of you. When she sees (and feels) that her seductive moves are working, it makes her confident, wet, and liberates her to do all the nasty things you want without feeling any shame or guilt.

When she gets on top and gives you a lap dance:

Stroke and caress every inch of her body.
Compliment the way she moves.
Let out NON-EXAGERAATED moans and groans of pleasure and arousal.

A Quick Warning On The Danger of Trying To Get A Rise Out Of You

Have you ever been with a woman and taken her moans, groans, and movements as a sign to go harder, faster, or deeper… only to have your change in pace absolutely butcher her mood?

The same thing can happen here.

If you’re doing a great job of letting her know she’s turning you on, she might feel the urge to crank things up a notch.

As I said a minute above, the type of fucking that makes men come is usually very different from the type that makes women come. When You Watch Penetration Orgasms Made Easy, I’ll Show You That Difference. If a woman gets on top of you in the lap dance sex position and starts going in the way most likely to make you come (fast, full length, and hard), it could be very dangerous. One tiny slip and you could be in prime position for a major accident.

So make sure to keep the lap dance sex position going at a safe pace where the risk of an accident is reduced as much as possible.

If she does get too excited, grab a hold of her by the waist, hold her back, and tell her to slow down.

Pro Tip: Telling her that she’s making you too excited can fuel her confidence but telling her that SHE is getting too excited gives you a great segue to switch into a more dominant position where you can safely take back control of the thrusting.

So let’s get to it…

Variations of The Lap Dance Sex Position

As with all positions, there are many different versions. Here are a few of the most common your woman might try and what you can do to level up on them.

Champagne Room Position

This is the closed leg version of the lap dance where she’ll feel the tightest. It’s extremely difficult (if not impossible) to get into so she might have to spread her legs at first, get in position, and then close her legs once you’re inside.

In my experience, most women opt for a subtle grind instead of bouncing up and down. Match this pace by ‘hugging’ her from behind, putting your arm around her neck, or placing a hand on her pubic bone and applying a bit of pressure.

This is the ultimate “trying to turn you on” version so remember to encourage her and help her feel successful. Breath and moan, whisper in her ear how much she’s turning you on, and let her know how sexy her body feels as you caress every inch of it.

Reverse Lap Dance

This version is so good at making women come, that it made it onto my top 3 g-spot positions article.

As the name suggests, it’s similar to the regular lap dance only your woman is facing you instead of facing away. She puts her feet on the couch on each side of your butt and rocks her pelvis up and down.

If she leans back while doing this move, she’ll “drop” her g-spot directly onto your shaft, making her come fast and hard. The key here is that she will need some support to hold that position. She can put her hands on your thighs, you can wrap your arms around her waist and back, or she can hold up on a table or other furniture.

Spread Lap Dance Sex Position

Unlike the previous version where she keeps her legs closed tight, this version has her legs spread wide and open to all kinds of extra stimulation. This version actually can be all about her pleasure and making her come if you aren’t intimated by a little extra help.

Yup, I’m talking about using a toy or your hand to give her clitoral stimulation while she sits relatively still on your cock. You can actually make her come quite easily while you’re inside of her if you let your shaft sit still and let a toy do the work.

Swiss Ball Blitz Sex Position

Alright, this one is really more of a sex bucket list position for the very fit and sexually curious.

It’s lap dance on an exercise ball.

What more is there to say here other than BE EXTREMELY CAREFUL with this one. The risks we talked about above are even more present here so you might want to tell your woman not to pull off more then half way. The less length you’re working with, the more I would recommend you stay away from this version.

The Position Most Likely To Make Her Come

This entire blog is about studying different positions and finding the best ones for every scenario.

Depending on your size, your shape, how you and your woman “fit” with each other, some positions will naturally make her come more easily than others.

But there is one sex strategy that’s even more orgasmic than the positions you use.

Women from around the world agree it’s more important than the positions you use, your size, or even your stamina.

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Master the Kneeling Blowjob Position with These 2 Power Plays

Few things turn a man on more than watching you tie up your hair, push him up against a wall, and drop to your knees before devouring him. The kneeling blowjob position might just be the most powerful tool in your sexual arsenal. Try the positions and power plays on this page to make your man melt and get him to do every nasty thing you want!

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Why Guys Love The Kneeling Blowjob Position

Sexual Psychology – It doesn’t matter if we’re talking about the most vicious predator in the animal kingdom, a bloodied soldier at war, or the most hardcore male feminist. Men are hardwired to seek higher ground and dominate. By getting on your knees and servicing him, you smack the power dynamic and trigger your mans deepest, most primal desire to dominate.

Blood Flow – Ever notice how a mans erection just doesn’t look the same when he’s lying down? It’s because the blood flow in his member pushes his erection down in the same direction as gravity. There’s no resistance. No pressure. No pleasure. But when your man stands and his erection fights against gravity, it amplifies the sensation and makes his hard on that much… harder.

His Most Sensitive Spot is RIGHT THERE – In case you didn’t know it already, the frenulum (the area where his head meets the shaft on the underside) is the most sensitive spot on the entire penis. When giving a blowjob from the kneeling position, your tongue is in the perfect place to rub against his frenulum and give him the most blissful sensations he can experience.

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It Gives Your Neck A Break

In the laying on your stomach blowjob position, your neck can get sore very quick. There are some quick fix tips that can help but sometimes you just can’t take it anymore and need a break. That’s where these kneeling blowjob positions are a life saver.

The flip side is that these positions can be hard on your knees. Obviously a pillow or exercise matt will make a huge difference but here are a few more tips you might have not considered before.

Consider investing in a meditation bench. Simply put, these miracle benches take most of the weight off your knees and increase your kneeling stamina.

Try switching between feet flat on the floor and bent at the ankle. Simply switching back and forth between the two a few times during your session can prolong your session by many multiples.

What To Do With Your Hands In The Kneeling Blowjob Position

The first thing to consider in a kneeling blowjob is what you’re going to do with your hands. You might have never given it much though but simple shifts here can make all the difference for both of you. Be willing to try each of these out and find what works best for you and your man.

Submit & Get Restrained – The beginner version is to simply hold your hands behind your back voluntarily. You can get cuffed or tied (in ways that are easy to escape from or not). Or, my personally favorite, lift your arms up to the sky and have your man pin your wrists against a wall. All of these add to the male dominant power dynamic we all know and love about blowjobs.

Handy Additions AKA Add Handjob Techniques – Use you hands to give him a handjob blowjob combination. There are so many ways to amplify a blowjob with your hands (all covered inside Blow His Mind of course). The 2 most popular are the corkscrew and ball play. For the corkscrew handjob technique, make an ok sign with your thumb and index finger. Place the O against your lips, then slide it back and forth along the full length of his shaft while your mouth works his head. As for ball play, I highly recommend you stick to gently cupping his balls until you know his preferred techniques and intensity.

Hug and Pull him close – This simple little move is an absolute mind fuck that triggers deep loving feelings in any man. Don’t just hold onto his hips when going down on your guy. Hug his hips or thigh and pull him body into your mouth. Grab a handful of his ass, squeeze, and pull him his body and cock into your mouth. This makes him feel (at a deep psychological level) that you really want him in your mouth and don’t want him to back up and away.

Positions for Both Power Dynamics

Way to many people still think of a blowjob as degrading to women and empowering for men. The truth is that it can be empowering to the giver or receiver. You choose. If your blowjobs are getting a little state, try switching the power dynamic to the one you’re not used to. A quick and easy way to establish this is by using a wall. WHO has their back against the wall?

Givers back against the wall is great for facefucking. If you trust your partner, have established boundaries and a safe act (cause safe words aren’t a great option when your mouth is full), then kneeling with your back against the wall is a great position to get face fucked. He can take this to the next level by restraining you with cuffs or pinning your hands against the wall.

Receivers back against the wall is great for fucking him with your mouth. Push him against a wall, pin his wrists to the wall, and take charge. Instead of him controlling the thrusting, you get to fuck him with your mouth. Pin him against the wall and he’ll be your helpless, decadent toy to fuck with your throat.

Threeway Bj Positions

When you start giving expert blowjobs, the desire for more cock might strike. When it does, you have several options.

Invite a dildo to your session. Working 2 live cocks can certainly be intimidating. Before you take that plunge, get a feel for double cocks by bringing a dildo into your session. It’ll give you a feel for what a MFM threesome would be like with a lot less pressure. Dildo threesomes is a fun way to get double the cock without making your man jealous. Just make sure he knows that you don’t need this dildo because he’s not enough to satisfy you. Rather because he just makes you THAT horny. You can blow your dildo while your man fucks you, or the other way around. Take it to the next level by putting a suction cup dildo against a mirror. Weather your fucking or sucking the dildo, you’ll give your man the greatest view of his life!

Want two live cocks? Ahh the double barrel blowjob AKA double bj. No literally, open up as wide as you can and say ahhh. If they’re bi guys or simply don’t have any issues with frotting (rubbing both their cocks together), you can literally squeeze the two together and take them both in your mouth. Depending on their size, this might be impossible. If it is, simply squeeze them together and lick their tips back and forth with your tongue or puckered lips. This move isn’t so much about physical pleasure and sensation rather the thrill or watching you adore 2 cocks simultaneously. The much more common and pleasurable thing to do is simply swap back and forth between both cocks.

Give Your Man the Royal Treatment with a FMF blowjob. The royal treatment AKA heaven on earth is when a man is serviced by 2 women at the same time. One services him from the front with a blowjob, while the other services him from the back with some analingus. This is the most “full body” sexual experience a man can have and it’s guaranteed he’ll remember and fantasies about it forever.

Sit and Lean Kneeling Blowjob Position

Standing straight up while getting head is a rush. From the view to the sensations provided by the gravity vs blood flow… but it will eventually get tiring. At some point, your man will want to switch positions and start fucking, or take some weight off his feet. Stay on your knees while he assumes one of these positions to keep up the fun while allowing his to relax even more.

He leans against the edge of a bed, counter, or table. It might not seem like much but this little shift alone can make a huge difference by getting your mans attention off his tired feet and back onto you and the mind melting sensations you’re providing.

He sits in the boss’s chair position. This is the favorite of many men as he still gets to enjoy the sensations of gravity vs flow while also being in a comfy position. If he sits correctly, your range of movement will be limited because of his stomach and thighs. Fix this by having him lean back in the chair and put his feet up on a table or other surface behind you.

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Bi Guy Reveals: Mastering The Laying On Your Stomach Blowjob

If you want to make your man erotically obsessed with you, there aren’t many moves that can compete with the laying on stomach blowjob position.

It’s sometimes referred to as the pose or the prone position blowjob.

This seemingly basic (yet incredibly powerful) BJ pose makes it easy to:

Use your hands in a variety of ways
Tease your man with visual stimuli that’s just not possible in other positions
Keep control over your depth, speed, and rhythm
Make him feel truly loved and even trigger deep feelings of devotion

For many guys, blowjobs are a sign of love. The only thing better than a great blowjob is a great blowjob that you enjoy giving him. When he’s convinced that you love taking him in your mouth, your man will go to the ends of the earth and slay dragons for you.

Whether your mission is to make him cum, make him forget about his ex, or make him so hard he loses all control, flips you over, and fucks you senseless… the laying on your stomach bj position is a must in every goddesses sexual repertoire.

What is the Laying On Stomach Blowjob Position?

As the name suggests, whatever version you use, you are on your stomach in the prone position.

Your man can lie down, lean, stand or sit, but the crux of it is that your stomach is always laying flat on the surface beneath you.

Your hands can be restrained behind your back, grabbing him in a variety of ways, or playing with yourself, but you are always on your belly.

How To Use Your Hands While Laying On Your Stomach

Unlike giving head while you’re on all fours, laying on your stomach offers a lot of creative options with your hands. You’ll still have to hold up a bit of your body weight, but the amount is massively reduced and can be done with as little as a single elbow or forearm.

This means you get to use your hands in some fun and tantalizing ways. Here are a few of my favorites.

Pull his erect shaft down (towards his feet) with a finger or your mouth. When he’s fully erect, a little bit of downward pressure makes a high reaching erection feel even more intense. Don’t pull too much. Just enough to create a slight resistance.
Pin him down. In the laying on stomach blowjob position, you’re running the show. You’re in charge. Make sure he knows it. Interlocking fingers and holding each others hands might be ok in the beginning while he’s still soft and getting worked up, but once he’s hard, pin his hands to his sides and make it known he’s not going anywhere.
Grab, hold and pull on his thighs. Again, simply holding onto him subconsciously says you don’t want to stop. Add some slight pulling to subconsciously tell him you love what you’re doing and don’t want it to end.
Right before he cums, make an ok sign with your fingers around his balls and carefully pull them away from his body. Like an orgasm prolonging magic trick, this lengthens the trip his semen needs to take, making his orgasm last just a wee bit longer.

Right after he cums, wrap a hand around his shaft, press your thumb tip against his corpus spongiosum and drain out every drop like a tube of toothpaste.

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Create Hypnotic Views He Can’t Look Away From

Everyone knows how visual men are. Even a slightly suggestive sight can make a man hard as steel.

When getting a blowjob, there’s no hotter view then to see your giver adore what they’re doing. Watching you smirk, smile, and laugh while working our cock can put us in a trance faster than anything else.

Creating Views When He Can See Your Face

In the standard version of this position, your man can see your face. Eye contact is possible, even easy with a slight head tilt on his part.

Pull his shaft down (like shown/talked about above), tilt your head, and:

Look him in the eyes
Smile with your mouth and eyes
Take him as deep as you can while looking him in the eyes and wink at him
When you need to come up for air, lick his shaft and let him see your tongue. Yup, guys are suckers for a clean, wet tongue lapping up their shaft.

Creating Views When He Can’t See Your Face

Below we’ll go over some of the best variations for the laying on stomach blowjob position. Some of these variations make it hard (even impossible) for him to see your facial expressions. In these versions, the tips above won’t be much help.

Here’s how to give him a killer view when you’re on your stomach but can’t see each others face:

Lift your feet up in the air to trigger his foot fetish. Maybe he has a foot fetish and he doesn’t know it yet. Seeing your sexy soles while he’s deep in a state of bliss might just awaken that hidden fetish.
Enhance your ass with a whale tail. If he’s sitting or standing, he’s going to have a rare upside down view of your butt. A timeless way to enhance this view is with bright and/or sexy underwear. If you still have pants on, pull your undies up slightly to give him a whale tail view.
Let him be a voyeur. This one is kind of sneaky, but it works like gangbusters. Position yourself in front of a mirror so that he can look over and see between your legs. Rub yourself while devouring him. Stop for a second every now and then to let out a moan. While searching for the cause, he’ll eventually catch the reflection in the mirror and have a voyeurs view of just how turned on you’re getting from tasting him.

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Different Ways To Do The Laying On Stomach Blowjob Position

When it comes to the way you’re positioned, there isn’t much room for variation.

Rest your forearms on the bed in front of you, or you place them behind your back. Clasp them together, grab your ankles, or get restrained with ropes or cuffs. Hug his hips or hold onto him in a variety of ways.

The real variants of this pose come down to his position. Here are the most common variants.

He Lies Down with you Between His Legs

In the most common version of this position, your man lies on his back starfish style while you lay between his spread legs. Compared to coming in from the side, your tongue is directly under his frenulum which is by far the most sensitive part of the entire penis. Swish your tongue from side to side or up and down while pressed against his frenulum and feel him absolutely melt.

Lean on your elbows and reach your hands up to fondle his balls and shaft. Switch things up by sliding your arms under his knees and reach his belly, pubic bone, and shaft from above.

When you’re ready to move on, pick yourself up and go into all fours – or – turn your body perpendicular to his so that…

He Lies Down while you Come In From the Side

Same as the previous version except you’re perpendicular to each other. From this angle he still gets to see your face and expressions, and he also gets to see (and play with) the rest of your body. He can caress your ass, explore between your legs, reach your boobs or hold and play with your hair.

Unlike other version, you can use all the visual tricks from both categories above. Take advantage of that well placed mirror off to the side of your bed and give him a show of you rubbing yourself while worshipping his instrument.

He Stands AKA Prone Face Fucking

This is the ideal version to submit for some face fucking. Contrary to previous version, he’s running the show now. Not you. He’s got total control over the thrusting and you don’t have any.

He can see your entire backside, lean over and spank you, fuck you with a finger or toy, or just admire the view while thrusting in and out of your mouth. Once he’s earned your absolute trust, he might restrain your hands behind your back while using your throat. OR you can restrain yourself by reaching back and grabbing your ankles.

He Sits AKA Game’s On

This one is similar to the sideways version of the laying on your stomach blowjob pose only he’s sitting instead of laying down. There’s a bit less room for you to work your magic since his thigh and belly are in the way. Try placing one hand behind his back and the other over his thigh. You can also try sliding your second hand under his thigh and reach his cock and balls from below. Just beware this version can put your arm to sleep fairly quick if he’s too heavy with his leg.

Use this pose while he’s playing a video game and challenge him to see how long he can keep his character alive. Or just use it while watching a movie when you’re in the mood to Netflix and chill.

Prone Dildo BJ Threesome

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Imagine practicing your blowjob skills and opening your throat on a dildo while your man gets on top and enters you from behind.

It’s a great way to get some sensations of a threesome without the jealousy. Do it in front of a mirror so he can see you suck a toy while he plows deep inside of you. Also opens up your throat and prepares you for the switch.

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Superman Sex Position – Make Your Woman Fly High

If you’re getting bored of walking tightropes or performing ariel artistry at the Cirque du Soleil, try the superman sex position.

Note: This position is not to be confused with the sexual act called superman when you cum on a girls back and stick a sheet to it so that it stays stuck like a cape.

Also note the term “Superman doggy-style sex position” was coined on the reality show Love Island when a participant was asked about his favorite position. He did not expand on this but it’s assumed he meant doggy style with a superman style finish (as described above).

Getting back to the position… imagine taking the wheel barrow position to the next level by lifting you woman up off the ground and holding her in the air.

If wrapping your arms around her belly and literally holding her in the air isn’t enough of a challenge for you acrobatic specimens, you can hold onto her hips while she uses her abs to hold her upper body up.

Thinking about it now, this should really be called the superwoman position cause it’s going to require your woman have abs of steel to pull it off. Might also help if she can actually fly. Then again, I don’t make the rules.

If you’re both truly hell bent on trying this acrobatic feat, it’s highly recommended to do over a bed or pile of pillows. Assume you’re going to drop your girl or she’s going to thrust back so hard you will fall. Can you do so safely? Without dropping her on her head? Without hurting her?

Pro tip: It might sound simple but by simply leaning back slightly, you’ll change the center of gravity and make everything MUCH easier for you.

Finally, you can make the superman even safer by practicing the position over a high table kitchen island, or any surface that will make any fall much shorter for your brave super hero in training.

Remember this position is more of a challenge of sex bucket list item than anything else. You’re not going to make her come in this position and it almost certainly will not become her favorite pose.

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The Clapper Position – The Best Twerking Sex Position?

If watching women twerk turns you on, you’re going to love the clapper position.

If your girl likes shaking her ass, giving a show, and taking control, she’s gonna wanna try this one.

The clapper is similar to the reverse cowgirl only she has a much greater range in motion because of the variation in leg placement. This allows you to go much deeper.

You get the best view in the house. She gets the comfort of being on her knees without having to spread wider than the width of your hips.

To get into the clapper, just bend you knees slightly to let her legs go under yours.

You can get on your back, spread your legs, and let her scoot back onto you doggy style. Or she can get in doggy first, then you get on your back with legs spread, and scoot down.

Clapper All Star Play:

The clapper is a service top position, meaning it’s about your pleasure. Many women feel too self conscious in this position to truly enjoy it. When she can’t see your facial expressions and get positive reinforcement from your expressions, it’s easy for her to get in her head and start worrying about how her ass looks.

Take this opportunity to build her confidence and make her more comfortable having her ass in your face. Compliment her ass, the way she’s moving it, and how hard it’s making you. Fortunately, this position is great at keeping you hard. Because it bends your cock back slightly, it “pulls” on your erection and keeps it at attention.

Transitioning to a 69 or sliding out from under her and into a forbidden fruit pose because you just can’t resist her ass anymore will surely keep her confidence high.

Start by enjoying her ass. Telling her how sexy it looks in this position. Slap, grab, and caress her ass. Wet your thumb tip and rub her asshole without going in. Tell her how much you want to taste it, till the point you can’t take it anymore and need her to get into forbidden fruit to devour her.

If she’s really uncomfortable, she can always keep her panties and move them to the side just enough so you can slide in. It’ll give her rear some cover while she gets used to being in such a vulnerable position and you work on building her confidence.

If either of you need a break in the clapper, she can pull up off of you and give you a reverse foot job. AKA a sole job.