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Master the Kneeling Blowjob Position with These 2 Power Plays

Few things turn a man on more than watching you tie up your hair, push him up against a wall, and drop to your knees before devouring him. The kneeling blowjob position might just be the most powerful tool in your sexual arsenal. Try the positions and power plays on this page to make your man melt and get him to do every nasty thing you want!

This page is specifically for kneeling without any weight being held up by your arms. If you’re looking for On All Fours, click here.

Why Guys Love The Kneeling Blowjob Position

Sexual Psychology – It doesn’t matter if we’re talking about the most vicious predator in the animal kingdom, a bloodied soldier at war, or the most hardcore male feminist. Men are hardwired to seek higher ground and dominate. By getting on your knees and servicing him, you smack the power dynamic and trigger your mans deepest, most primal desire to dominate.

Blood Flow – Ever notice how a mans erection just doesn’t look the same when he’s lying down? It’s because the blood flow in his member pushes his erection down in the same direction as gravity. There’s no resistance. No pressure. No pleasure. But when your man stands and his erection fights against gravity, it amplifies the sensation and makes his hard on that much… harder.

His Most Sensitive Spot is RIGHT THERE – In case you didn’t know it already, the frenulum (the area where his head meets the shaft on the underside) is the most sensitive spot on the entire penis. When giving a blowjob from the kneeling position, your tongue is in the perfect place to rub against his frenulum and give him the most blissful sensations he can experience.

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It Gives Your Neck A Break

In the laying on your stomach blowjob position, your neck can get sore very quick. There are some quick fix tips that can help but sometimes you just can’t take it anymore and need a break. That’s where these kneeling blowjob positions are a life saver.

The flip side is that these positions can be hard on your knees. Obviously a pillow or exercise matt will make a huge difference but here are a few more tips you might have not considered before.

Consider investing in a meditation bench. Simply put, these miracle benches take most of the weight off your knees and increase your kneeling stamina.

Try switching between feet flat on the floor and bent at the ankle. Simply switching back and forth between the two a few times during your session can prolong your session by many multiples.

What To Do With Your Hands In The Kneeling Blowjob Position

The first thing to consider in a kneeling blowjob is what you’re going to do with your hands. You might have never given it much though but simple shifts here can make all the difference for both of you. Be willing to try each of these out and find what works best for you and your man.

Submit & Get Restrained – The beginner version is to simply hold your hands behind your back voluntarily. You can get cuffed or tied (in ways that are easy to escape from or not). Or, my personally favorite, lift your arms up to the sky and have your man pin your wrists against a wall. All of these add to the male dominant power dynamic we all know and love about blowjobs.

Handy Additions AKA Add Handjob Techniques – Use you hands to give him a handjob blowjob combination. There are so many ways to amplify a blowjob with your hands (all covered inside Blow His Mind of course). The 2 most popular are the corkscrew and ball play. For the corkscrew handjob technique, make an ok sign with your thumb and index finger. Place the O against your lips, then slide it back and forth along the full length of his shaft while your mouth works his head. As for ball play, I highly recommend you stick to gently cupping his balls until you know his preferred techniques and intensity.

Hug and Pull him close – This simple little move is an absolute mind fuck that triggers deep loving feelings in any man. Don’t just hold onto his hips when going down on your guy. Hug his hips or thigh and pull him body into your mouth. Grab a handful of his ass, squeeze, and pull him his body and cock into your mouth. This makes him feel (at a deep psychological level) that you really want him in your mouth and don’t want him to back up and away.

Positions for Both Power Dynamics

Way to many people still think of a blowjob as degrading to women and empowering for men. The truth is that it can be empowering to the giver or receiver. You choose. If your blowjobs are getting a little state, try switching the power dynamic to the one you’re not used to. A quick and easy way to establish this is by using a wall. WHO has their back against the wall?

Givers back against the wall is great for facefucking. If you trust your partner, have established boundaries and a safe act (cause safe words aren’t a great option when your mouth is full), then kneeling with your back against the wall is a great position to get face fucked. He can take this to the next level by restraining you with cuffs or pinning your hands against the wall.

Receivers back against the wall is great for fucking him with your mouth. Push him against a wall, pin his wrists to the wall, and take charge. Instead of him controlling the thrusting, you get to fuck him with your mouth. Pin him against the wall and he’ll be your helpless, decadent toy to fuck with your throat.

Threeway Bj Positions

When you start giving expert blowjobs, the desire for more cock might strike. When it does, you have several options.

Invite a dildo to your session. Working 2 live cocks can certainly be intimidating. Before you take that plunge, get a feel for double cocks by bringing a dildo into your session. It’ll give you a feel for what a MFM threesome would be like with a lot less pressure. Dildo threesomes is a fun way to get double the cock without making your man jealous. Just make sure he knows that you don’t need this dildo because he’s not enough to satisfy you. Rather because he just makes you THAT horny. You can blow your dildo while your man fucks you, or the other way around. Take it to the next level by putting a suction cup dildo against a mirror. Weather your fucking or sucking the dildo, you’ll give your man the greatest view of his life!

Want two live cocks? Ahh the double barrel blowjob AKA double bj. No literally, open up as wide as you can and say ahhh. If they’re bi guys or simply don’t have any issues with frotting (rubbing both their cocks together), you can literally squeeze the two together and take them both in your mouth. Depending on their size, this might be impossible. If it is, simply squeeze them together and lick their tips back and forth with your tongue or puckered lips. This move isn’t so much about physical pleasure and sensation rather the thrill or watching you adore 2 cocks simultaneously. The much more common and pleasurable thing to do is simply swap back and forth between both cocks.

Give Your Man the Royal Treatment with a FMF blowjob. The royal treatment AKA heaven on earth is when a man is serviced by 2 women at the same time. One services him from the front with a blowjob, while the other services him from the back with some analingus. This is the most “full body” sexual experience a man can have and it’s guaranteed he’ll remember and fantasies about it forever.

Sit and Lean Kneeling Blowjob Position

Standing straight up while getting head is a rush. From the view to the sensations provided by the gravity vs blood flow… but it will eventually get tiring. At some point, your man will want to switch positions and start fucking, or take some weight off his feet. Stay on your knees while he assumes one of these positions to keep up the fun while allowing his to relax even more.

He leans against the edge of a bed, counter, or table. It might not seem like much but this little shift alone can make a huge difference by getting your mans attention off his tired feet and back onto you and the mind melting sensations you’re providing.

He sits in the boss’s chair position. This is the favorite of many men as he still gets to enjoy the sensations of gravity vs flow while also being in a comfy position. If he sits correctly, your range of movement will be limited because of his stomach and thighs. Fix this by having him lean back in the chair and put his feet up on a table or other surface behind you.

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Face Sitting Femdom Position – The ultimate BDSM kink to learn…

Face sitting AKA queening is when a woman sits on your face and allows or forces oral. It’s often associated with femdom and bdsm.

Your woman can kneel, squat, or sit on a throne. Yes there are actually “thrones” made and sold for the sole purpose of face sitting.

She can face your head, a side, or your feet.

Although there is one issue with the latter.

Facing towards your feet can take away from the pleasure for her because seeing your lonely cock sit there unattended can make her feel like she should bend over and please you too.

On the other hand, if going down on your girl makes you hard, seeing you progressively get harder and she sits on your face can be a major turn-on.

One way to get the benefit while avoiding the con here is to use this version of the position while you’ve got your underwear still on. A barrier that prevents her from going down while also being loose or thin enough for your erection to be obvious through them.

WARNING ABOUT FACE SITTING:

Safe words are a must with risky positions like this. In the case of face sitting, safe words don’t cut it since you might not be able to get any words out. So make sure you get clear on a safe ACT. Tapping out on her thighs is a simple a effective one that should do the trick.

There are 2 main techniques for face sitting. She can sit still while you work your magic. Not easy since your neck will have to fight gravity the entire time.

Or you stay still while she grinds away and fucks your face. Relax, pay attention to her movements, and this can be the most exciting reconnaissance mission of your life.

Use this experience to learn everything you can about your girls oral preferences. Notice the speed, pressure, and rhythm she uses to grind your tongue. Notice if or how these elements change as she gets more and more into it. Take not of every move she makes and your oral game will have no choice but to level up immediately.

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Make 2 Women Cum in the Double Cowgirl?

The Double Cowgirl is a fun threesome position that can be done by any combination of genders but for this blog, we’ll focus on the mff version.

One girl rides your cock (in cowgirl or reverse cowgirl) while the other rides your face in a queening or face sitting position.

If you set boundaries (IE: penetration only with the couple) this position makes it easy to stick to your agreement.

Both women can easily kiss, play with, and enjoy each other. They can switch positions while you stay on your back, or they can change into many different possible positions. Either one can face either direction, or they can straight up change positions. For example the Cowgirl can get up off your cock, turn around, and bend over to give and receive oral in a standing Daisy Chain position.

As I stated in blog on cowgirl… LET HER RIDE. Don’t try to “fuck from the bottom”. This is key!

Establish a safe act with your face sitter. You can’t count on a safe word here since you’ll likely have trouble talkin. Make sure you get crystal clear on a safe act such as tapping out on her thigh.

Unless you want your women to start dominating you, I recommend you use some male dominant positions and techniques after the double cowgirl. Remind them that you’re in charge and also comfortable and confident enough to let them have a taste of some dominance once in a while.

If one girl is your long term partner and the other isn’t, make sure that stronger bond is present. Ask your woman what version of position she wants and tell the other girl to follow suit.

Even though this is a very submissive position, you are leading the encounter while your woman leads next.

Do NOT Let Her Come In The Zombie Sex Position. Do This Instead…

The zombie sex position is what you get when mixing the 69 position with a downward dog yoga pose.

You sit with your feet flat on the floor while your woman stands with her ass in your face.

She bends over at the waist and puts her hands on the floor.

Her head is in position to take you in her mouth while you take her in yours.

She does need to be a bit flexible to pull this off.

If she’s not quite able to reach full zombie, she can bend her knees, you can lean back, or you can do a combination of both.

leaning zombie — Zombie position with the guy leaning back slightly.

Do NOT Try To Make Her Come In The Zombie Sex Position

I know this sounds odd coming from a blog always preaches the magnitude of making women come first, but here’s the deal…

It’s a very difficult position for her to climax in. If she does come, it’ll likely be a very weak orgasm.

She’s got to focus on holding a somewhat difficult position. This makes is harder for her to focus on the pleasure that leads her to orgasm.
Her pussy and ass are completely exposed to you. While we men love it, it’s often a source of high insecurity and anxiety for many women.
She won’t be able to give the best blowjob in this position so she won’t be feeling very confident.

All these things together make it highly unlikely she will orgasm in this position, even if you’re using the perfect technique.

Instead, use the zombie to prep her for an incredible orgasm.

Use this position to turn her on and warm her up for what’s to come.

Naturally, she’s going to be stretching which is always recommended before any intense physical activity.

Here’s how you can stretch and warm up her emotions, arousal, and orgasms:

Arouse Her Emotions

As I said before, having her pussy and ass so exposed can make her self conscious. If she has any insecurities about her naughty bits (like many women do), she’s going to need some positive reassurance in order to relax and get turned on.

Use this opportunity to make her feel confident and sexy.

Compliment her.

Tell her how beautiful her ass is.

Let her know how delicious she tastes.

Make sure she knows that you’re incredibly turned on by having her business all up in your face.

Don’t just use your words.

Non-verbal communication is just as (if not more) effective.

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Moan and groan.

Let her hear how aroused you are through non-verbal communication and she will get turned on as well.

Reframe Her Struggle Into Desire

Once again, unless she’s a high level yogi or performs in the Cirque Du Soleil, it going to be tough to give you a show stopping blowjob.

She’ll be to focused on making sure she doesn’t fall over.

So don’t expect a great blowjob.

Also, don’t lie and tell her she’s giving you a great blowjob. She knows she isn’t and you’ll only reduce her trust. You’ll also condition her to give bad oral.

Instead, reframe her struggle to give you great head as a strong desire to give you great head.

When she reaches for your cock and struggles to take it in, say something like “You really want that cock don’t you?”

Now, instead of focusing on how she’s having a hard time and unable to please you, she’s focused on how much she wants to please you and take you in her mouth.

It’s a subtle but highly powerful difference.

Tickle Her Erogenous Zones

The most obvious target for your hands in the zombie sex position is her ass.

Grab, slap and caress her ass to increase physical and emotional pleasure.

Remember how we said that relieving her anxiety by complimenting her ass is crucial. Massaging, grabbing and slapping it while you deliver those compliments has double the effectiveness.

But one of the most powerful erogenous zones that many guys ignore, is the insides of her knees.

Anywhere the human body has folds, such as insides of knees and elbows, are extremely sensitive and very powerful erogenous zones.

Try this on yourself right now.

Using just the very tips of your fingers, drag them lightly across the inside of your arm.

Now, keep going until you reach the inside fold of your elbow.

Notice how much more sensitive it is.

The same thing is true in the folds of our knees.

Take a few seconds to drag your fingertips across the entire bottom of her legs. Slow down and spend a little extra time when you get to the insides of her knees.

Do this while you’re moaning with her in your mouth, and you’ll get her focused on all the pleasurable sensations you’re giving her body.

Prep Her Clit For An Intense Orgasm

Again, odds are she won’t come while in the zombie sex position.

So use this time to build an orgasm that you can deliver after switching into your next position.

When most guys give their woman oral, they go straight for the clit.

But you know better.

Rather than rushing right to the goods and overstimulating her, use indirect stimulation to make her crave clitoral contact before you give it to her.

Swipe the tips of your index and middle fingers between the folds of her lips.

Avoid touching her clit directly.

As she gets more aroused, use a little more pressure when you get to the clitoral hood.

Now, place the insides of your index and middle fingers on each side of her clit.

Squeeze a little and move your hand up and down.

It’ll feel like you’re masturbating her clit and will get her riled up like nothing else.

Now use a precise, pointed tongue tip to lick on her clitoral hood.

Avoid making direct contact with the clit.

Pleasuring her clit indirectly like this will increase blood flow and get her ready for direct stimulation without overstimulating her.

Once she’s ready for more, start mixing in random slow, full licks with a flat tongue.

Don’t overdo this.

Remember, your goal in this position is to get her wet and wanting more.

There is one mistake most guys make when picking a position to transition to.

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Piledriver Position & The Secret to Giving DEEP Fornix Orgasms

You’ve likely seen the Piledriver position (AKA Butter Churner) in porn.

It makes for a great view. The woman is fully exposed and the penetration is easily visible.

In the real world, this position isn’t so popular.

It’s tough on the guys legs.

It’s uncomfortable for her (unless she’s a yoga junkie) and might even be impossible to get in without the flexibility.

And it’s more prone to injury than other positions.

So why bother? Cause you can go deep!

It allows for vaginal and anal penetration.

If you’re doing anal, get a toy in her pussy and give her that double stuffing!

This position is also incredibly male dominant so if your women likes being submissive (like the vast majority do), the thrill of this position might be worth giving it a try at least once.

Because her head is lower than her heart, blood will also rush to her brain giving her the added sensation of a “head rush”.

Here’s how to do the PileDriver Sex Position:

She lies on her back and lifts her legs towards her head.

She keeps going until her butt raises up off the floor.

If she’s flexible enough, her feet will touch the floor on each side of her head.

She’s essentially getting into a yoga plow pose.

You then stand on top and squat down into her.

Pile Driver Injury Warning:

One of the challenges with the pile driver is that it can put serious strain on your penile suspensory ligament (PSL).

What the hell is that? Imagine bending an erection all the way back, Ouch!

The solve for this is to lean forward. The more you learn, the less pressure you’ll feel on the ligament.

By leaning forward, you can also hold onto your woman’s ankles and help her stay in position.

Just make sure you’re not pushing too far.

Start Slow and Progress:

First things first, make sure she’s warmed up first.

Use a position like the Valedictorian first and press down on her legs to stretch them a bit.

Once she’s stretched, get her into position and go down on her first.

Gauge her response and if she’s comfortable and responds well, move into penetration.

Don’t start with the full pile driver.

Try the quarter version where her body is only slightly folded and feet don’t fully touch the ground.

Make it more comfortable by putting some pillows under her lower back.

If she continues to respond well, slowly push down on her legs to go even further.

Make sure you’re getting feedback and never push her past her limit!

A simple tip that makes this position much easier and more comfortable for a lot of women is to do it against a piece of furniture like the headboard of a bed of back of a couch.

With the extra help, she doesn’t have to focus on holding the position.

Lean forward to grab her ankles and she it’ll be even easier for her.

Modified Versions of The Piledriver Sex Position

Once you’ve tried the position and she digs it, try a few variations to see what hit the spot best.

Reverse Pile Driver Position:

Same as the regular pose except that you’re facing the other way.

It’s not as hot because you’re not able to oogle each other but it’ll make you hit the other side of her insides.

Make sure you get your feedback and decide if it’s worth that trade-off.

Tighter Pile Driver:

Instead of having her feet on each side of her head, both are on the same side.

The real benefit here is that it makes her much more tight.

So not only will you dive deep inside her, it’ll also feel like your wider too!

Sideways PileDriver:

Some women get the most pleasure from that slightly angled stimulation.

If that’s your woman, try out this version.

You’ll hit a completely different spot inside of her that might just be the missing ingredient to her orgasm.

Try both sides to see which on works best.

Try leaning forward and back to make sure you test every inch of her insides!

What Version Makes Her Come?

The piledriver can be lots of fun with the right girl… but it’s not a great position for giving orgasms.

There are tons of great positions that increase the woman’s chance at orgasm.

But that’s not the determining factor.

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It’s the single biggest reason so many woman struggle to orgasm from penetration.

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Forbidden Fruit Sex Position AKA Oral Doggy Style

If you love eating out and eating ass, you’re in for a sweet treat with the forbidden fruit sex position.

It’s the ultimate position for ass loving, oral aficionados.

In this cunnilingus position, your girl gets on all fours while you kneel behind her and go to town.

She can get into the traditional doggy with her knees and hands on the bed, or get into a face down ass up version where she lies her chest and head on the bed. By going with the face down ass up version, she can relax more of her body and achieve orgasm more easily. Her pelvis also tilts in the version, giving you easier access.

Another variation of the forbidden fruit is for her to lie flat on her belly with her legs spread. The only problem with this version is that it can be tough on your neck. Put a pillow or sex wedge under her pelvis to raise and tilt her core, giving you easier access and relieving some strain on your neck.

Why use the forbidden fruit sex position?

You can use your fingers, a toy, and your mouth all at the same time to give her simultaneous pleasure.
If she’s in the face down ass up version, she can put an arm under her belly and play with her clit while you penetrate her pussy and stimulate her ass.
You’ve got the best view in the house!
But the biggest benefit to this position is that it’s a perfect intro to anal!

If she’s never tried anal, or if she’s hesitant to do so, the forbidden fruit just might be the move that changes her mind!

Start by giving her an oral orgasm or two in this pose. Once she’s in an orgasmic state, lick her ass. If she’s never experienced this before, she’ll be shocked at how pleasurable it is and will start to wonder what other pleasures her end zone can experience.

WARNING: Never, I MEAN NEVER, try to stick anything in her ass without her permission. If you take advantage of the fact that she’s exposed her ass to you like this, she will never trust you again. And she shouldn’t.

But, you can make her crave anal penetration by giving her a taste of what anal stimulation can feel like.

Once you’ve licked her ass and she gave you some positive feedback, wet your finger tip and lightly press against it against her ass while massaging it in circles. AGAIN, DO NOT enter her ass… the goal here is to give her pleasurable anal stimulation and make her crave more.

Use a dildo or vibrator on her pussy while licking and gently rubbing her anus.

If this doesn’t make her willing to try anal right away, don’t push it. If you made it a pleasurable experience, she will think about it later on and likely start to become more open to the idea.

Use the Forbidden Fruit Sex Position to Last Longer In Doggy and Give Her Double Orgasms!

We all love doggy style. Both men and women often say it’s their favorite position.

The biggest problem men have with this position is that it can be tough to last long in.

By switching back and forth between doggy style penetration and doggy style cunnilingus (AKA the forbidden fruit), you can give yourself a break and “cool down” whenever you need to, WHILE continuing to build her orgasm with oral!

Here’s a full forbidden fruit sex position routine you can use to enjoy doggy and give her 2 orgasms! Some of these tips might seem basic, but I’ve added in a few advanced tricks to really take things to the next level so read ever word that follows!

Step 1. Get her into the doggy position and go down on her. Take short breaks to massage and slap her ass while telling her how sexy it is.

Step 2. Stand up and tease her with your cock by rubbing it against her clit. DO NOT INSERT YOUR PENIS!

Step 3. Go back to oral. This time, start incorporating your fingers. Start by licking and sucking her clit to get it wet with your saliva. Now replace your mouth with your fingers. Use 2 fingers and place them one on each side of her clit. Gently stroke her clit back and forth trying to keep the same type of pressure and rhythm you had with your mouth. Now use your tongue to lick up and down her slit.

Step 4. Start rubbing the tip of your finger against her opening in an up and down motion.

Side note: Since she can’t see what you’re doing, her excitement and anticipation will go through the roof. Use that to your advantage and always keep her guessing by switching things up!

Step 5. Slowly enter the tip of your thumb or finger. Make sure your thumb (or finger) print is facing up, towards her butt. Slide in 1 to 2 knuckles and gently pull up. This mimics the sensation of being penetrated much more than jabbing a finger in and out. Keep doing this for 20 to 30 seconds while you tell her how wet she is, how hot her moans are making you, and how much she wants you inside of her.

Step 6. Tell her she isn’t ready for it yet. Pull your thumb or finger out and go back to giving her oral.

Step 7. By this time she’ll be soaking wet and dying to feel you inside of her. It’s time to give her what she wants… but just the tip. You’re going to drive her wild with anticipation and desire. Slowly enter just the tip of your penis inside her, and pull it back out. Then slowly enter her again with just your tip and pull out. Do this 9 times. On the 10^th time, go all the way in. Even if you’re average size, you’ll feel MASSIVE to her! Now pull out and start over with 8 shallow thrusts and 2 deep. Keep following this pattern until you’re giving her only deep, powerful thrusts.

Step 8. Pull out and go down on her whenever you start to feel your orgasm approaching. Don’t wait. The longer you wait the more time it’ll take you to recover. Do this every time you feel your orgasm approaching and soon you’ll have strengthened your stamina and be able to pound her as long as you want!

Step 9. Make her come! While many women can have penetration orgasms fairly easily in doggy style, you’ll drastically improve her chances when you give her a foreplay orgasm first. The only question is, what technique is most likely to give her that first orgasm? That’s what this video will show you.

If you want to make sure she comes first every time, you need to follow the 5 scientific steps of female orgasm and you need to fine tune them to match her preferences.

Not all women like the same things.

Some like to have their clit sucked gently while others prefer quick flicks of the tongue.

Some come easier from “jilling off” their clit and others need to be rubbed in a circular motion.