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Splitting The Bamboo Position Is The Ultimate Smooth Move

Splitting the Bamboo position might just be one of the most underrated on the entire roster. Sure, unobstructed access to both holes, the potential for DEEP penetration, and many opportunities for clitoral stimulation are all great. But best of all, using this position (the way you’re about to see) makes you the king of “smooth moves’. More on that in a minute.

Splitting The Bamboo position is the ultimate twist on missionary… literally.

To get into Splitting the bamboo, begin in the classic missionary position, straddle one of your woman’s legs, and twist her torso. Lift her upper leg straight into the air and rest it against your chest.

Caution: Avoid putting all your weight on her thigh. It might feel like the path of least resistance, but it can put her leg to sleep and kill any chance of orgasm.

Getting Started: You might find that your naughty bits don’t line up quite right. You might be a little too high (or low) to enter your woman. Try spreading your legs wider to lower yourself to the right height. You can also put a pillow under her butt to lift her up. Just keep in mind that this will change her angle. More on that below.

Optimize for Orgasms

If you’ve been using all star positions for a while, you already know the importance of targeting your woman’s orgasm zones. If you have a particular bend in your penis or your woman is taller than most (for example), you might have to adapt your position in order to make her come.

How?

Test Angles

If you lean over her in a pushup position, it’ll feel completely different from being upright. Try both and see what she responds to best. Lean back a little or twisting your core to one side vs the other. Test a slight shift in her angle. Lying perfectly on her side or mid way between her side and on her butt can make all the difference. The slightest shift in your positions can be the difference between “I was close” and “OMG!! No one has ever made me come so hard!”

Once you nail her position, amplify it.

One of the great benefits you get from splitting the bamboo is the easy access. You both have plenty of access to all her naughty bits with plenty of room to play.

While holding her airborne leg against your chest with one hand, make use of the other. Play with her clit. Grab a boob. Pull her favorite vibrator out the drawer and give her double the pleasure.

If she’s into it, switch hands and use your free one to play with her ass. Lick your thumbpad and lightly rub against her anus. Tease it while SLOWLY and gradually making your way in. Use some anal beads or a butt plug.

Encourage her to play with herself or invite her favorite toy. Heck, you can have her play with her clit, while you toy her anus, grab a boob, and penetrate her deep spot.

Splitting the Bamboo is the Ultimate ‘Smooth Move’

Not much kills the mood like awkwardly fumbling around between positions. It shows a woman that you’re not totally confident and comfortable and it passes those arousal killing emotions on to her. Not good.

Instead, you want to use smooth moves that don’t add any breaks into the mood.

One of the easiest ways to pull this off is by smoothly transitioning between positions. Far too many guys mess this up and it’s such an easy fix.

Splitting the bamboo is the ultimate ‘smooth transition’ position and demonstrates the strategy perfectly.

The way to switch positions smoothly is by making small, subtle, sub movements… one at a time. Trying to flip your woman around, bending her knees, and putting her legs behind her head creates lots of opportunity for you to fumble. Instead, make the smallest movements possible. One. At. A. Time.

For example, you might start in the classic missionary. From here, grab one of her wrists and putt it across her body, twisting her upper body on its side. Enjoy that position for a minute.

Now lift your pelvis, straddle one of her legs and pull her other leg to the same side you did her arm. Now her entire body is on its side.

From here you can easily lift her leg up in the air and enjoy splitting the bamboo.

Maybe you lean forward for a while before returning to the classic version.

Without having to move much at all, you can easily grab her airborne ankle and move it down towards the bed, turning her fully onto her stomach and into the prone bone.

Notice how all these small shifts can lead you from one position to another with very little room for awkward stumbling.

This is what it means to have smooth moves.

Master the Art of Smooth Moves

Now this was just one example of how to go from missionary to prone bone but the fact is that you could run through almost every position on this site by using this same principle.

Now even if you’ve nailed the art of the smooth move, there is 1 mistake almost all men make in bed that ruins a woman chance at orgasm.

HINT: Even the most experienced guys still make this costly blunder.

Try this 30 second dirty thought experiment to find out if you’re making this deadly mistake and what to do instead.

Why Captain Sex Position Is So Good at Making Her Cum Again

So you just gave your woman her first orgasm of the night and now her body is primed for #2. You can put her into several different poses and in this article, I’ll make the case for why I believe the captain sex position is a top contender.

Unless you’re a complete rookie, you probably already know that man on top position like missionary or the C.A.T. are great for giving that first orgasm quick and easy. The downside (if there is one) is that these first orgasms are not the most powerful. But that’s ok. The purpose of that first orgasm is not to blow her mind with the best she’s ever had. The role of her first orgasm is to get the first one out of the way and put her body into “cum-mode.” Once she’s there, her rational mind melts away and her body takes over. Now it’s ready to achieve multiple, more powerful orgasms MUCH easier.

Enter the captain sex position.

To transition from a man on top position to the captain, put your weight on your knees, get upright, and lift her legs in front of you.

It’s similar to the butterfly and anvil, only you’re kneeling instead of standing, and upright instead of bent over.

Why the Captain Sex Position is so Effective at Making Her Cum A Second Time.

This position tops the list for a few key reasons. Each of which are powerful on their own but when combined often lead to extremely powerful, full body, orgasmic convulsions that most women will rarely (if ever) experience.

1) Let’s Her Relax Into Orgasm Mode

As guys it’s easy to feel a certain pressure to perform in bed, but we rarely consider that women feel that pressure too. Women feel a pressure to please and impress you use in bed. Paradoxically, they can’t perform “too well” or come of as very experienced and slutty. They need to fit inside that perfect box in the middle and that’s a very stressful and orgasm hindering task.

The captain takes away all that worry. The captain puts you in full control and absolves her of the pressure to perform. You can give her simple instructions – like telling her to hold her legs, play with herself, or tell you how much she loves it – and she can obey without worry or guilt because she’s simply following your directions. You are the one who’s taking the responsibility. Now she can enjoy without guilt or fear of being judged. By telling her to do those things, you’ve absolved her of the responsibility to choose where the line is and you’ve given her permission to enjoy and relax into an orgasmic state.

2) Smooth Transition Into More Intense Orgasms

Man-on-top positions are great for slow, romantic sex. That’s part of the reason the resulting orgasms are typically not as powerful. But as things heat up and your woman becomes more orgasmic, your position should reflect that. As implied by the name, the captain position puts you in control. You dictate the speed, movement, and rhythm. You can still gaze deep into her eyes, slow things down, and lean in for the occasional kiss, but you can also turn the heat up instantly. You can tell her to hold her legs, place a hand around her neck, and start fucking a little harder. You can start to control her body and manipulate her position by putting her legs together, crossing them, or holding her by the thighs instead of her ankles.

Pro Captain Tip: Either you will be holding her legs or she will. Either way, take control. When you’re holding her legs, move them around into different positions and tell her to play with herself. When she’s holding her legs, put your hand around her neck, play with her breasts and clit. The point is not to overload her with stimulation (although she will be getting LOTS) – the point is to let her know that YOU are in charge. YOU are leading her to pleasure (and orgasms). YOU are the captain.

3) Easily Target Intense, Full-Body, G-Spot Orgasms

If you’ve been reading this blog for any length of time, you already know the common in-and-out penetration move used by most guys rarely makes women come. In order to give a woman penetration orgasms, you need to target her “orgasm zones.”

There are 3 ways to target a woman’s Orgasm Zones. 1. Altering her position 2. Altering your thrusting motion 3. Altering both. In my experience, most women become orgasmic in the captain when you apply the third strategy.

Here’s how to target her g-spot for powerful orgasms in the captain sex position.

Step 1) Put a pillow under her butt to tilt her pelvis.

Step 2) Swing your thrust instead of moving back and forth.

Either one of these moves can make you hit her g-spot but in my experience the 2 combined together tend to lead to the best results.

Try one. Then try the other. Then try both. See what gets the strongest reaction from your woman and stick to that.

Hopefully this blog has given you a new insight into giving penetration orgasms. However experiencing it will change your sex life forever.

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Master the Kneeling Blowjob Position with These 2 Power Plays

Few things turn a man on more than watching you tie up your hair, push him up against a wall, and drop to your knees before devouring him. The kneeling blowjob position might just be the most powerful tool in your sexual arsenal. Try the positions and power plays on this page to make your man melt and get him to do every nasty thing you want!

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Why Guys Love The Kneeling Blowjob Position

Sexual Psychology – It doesn’t matter if we’re talking about the most vicious predator in the animal kingdom, a bloodied soldier at war, or the most hardcore male feminist. Men are hardwired to seek higher ground and dominate. By getting on your knees and servicing him, you smack the power dynamic and trigger your mans deepest, most primal desire to dominate.

Blood Flow – Ever notice how a mans erection just doesn’t look the same when he’s lying down? It’s because the blood flow in his member pushes his erection down in the same direction as gravity. There’s no resistance. No pressure. No pleasure. But when your man stands and his erection fights against gravity, it amplifies the sensation and makes his hard on that much… harder.

His Most Sensitive Spot is RIGHT THERE – In case you didn’t know it already, the frenulum (the area where his head meets the shaft on the underside) is the most sensitive spot on the entire penis. When giving a blowjob from the kneeling position, your tongue is in the perfect place to rub against his frenulum and give him the most blissful sensations he can experience.

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It Gives Your Neck A Break

In the laying on your stomach blowjob position, your neck can get sore very quick. There are some quick fix tips that can help but sometimes you just can’t take it anymore and need a break. That’s where these kneeling blowjob positions are a life saver.

The flip side is that these positions can be hard on your knees. Obviously a pillow or exercise matt will make a huge difference but here are a few more tips you might have not considered before.

Consider investing in a meditation bench. Simply put, these miracle benches take most of the weight off your knees and increase your kneeling stamina.

Try switching between feet flat on the floor and bent at the ankle. Simply switching back and forth between the two a few times during your session can prolong your session by many multiples.

What To Do With Your Hands In The Kneeling Blowjob Position

The first thing to consider in a kneeling blowjob is what you’re going to do with your hands. You might have never given it much though but simple shifts here can make all the difference for both of you. Be willing to try each of these out and find what works best for you and your man.

Submit & Get Restrained – The beginner version is to simply hold your hands behind your back voluntarily. You can get cuffed or tied (in ways that are easy to escape from or not). Or, my personally favorite, lift your arms up to the sky and have your man pin your wrists against a wall. All of these add to the male dominant power dynamic we all know and love about blowjobs.

Handy Additions AKA Add Handjob Techniques – Use you hands to give him a handjob blowjob combination. There are so many ways to amplify a blowjob with your hands (all covered inside Blow His Mind of course). The 2 most popular are the corkscrew and ball play. For the corkscrew handjob technique, make an ok sign with your thumb and index finger. Place the O against your lips, then slide it back and forth along the full length of his shaft while your mouth works his head. As for ball play, I highly recommend you stick to gently cupping his balls until you know his preferred techniques and intensity.

Hug and Pull him close – This simple little move is an absolute mind fuck that triggers deep loving feelings in any man. Don’t just hold onto his hips when going down on your guy. Hug his hips or thigh and pull him body into your mouth. Grab a handful of his ass, squeeze, and pull him his body and cock into your mouth. This makes him feel (at a deep psychological level) that you really want him in your mouth and don’t want him to back up and away.

Positions for Both Power Dynamics

Way to many people still think of a blowjob as degrading to women and empowering for men. The truth is that it can be empowering to the giver or receiver. You choose. If your blowjobs are getting a little state, try switching the power dynamic to the one you’re not used to. A quick and easy way to establish this is by using a wall. WHO has their back against the wall?

Givers back against the wall is great for facefucking. If you trust your partner, have established boundaries and a safe act (cause safe words aren’t a great option when your mouth is full), then kneeling with your back against the wall is a great position to get face fucked. He can take this to the next level by restraining you with cuffs or pinning your hands against the wall.

Receivers back against the wall is great for fucking him with your mouth. Push him against a wall, pin his wrists to the wall, and take charge. Instead of him controlling the thrusting, you get to fuck him with your mouth. Pin him against the wall and he’ll be your helpless, decadent toy to fuck with your throat.

Threeway Bj Positions

When you start giving expert blowjobs, the desire for more cock might strike. When it does, you have several options.

Invite a dildo to your session. Working 2 live cocks can certainly be intimidating. Before you take that plunge, get a feel for double cocks by bringing a dildo into your session. It’ll give you a feel for what a MFM threesome would be like with a lot less pressure. Dildo threesomes is a fun way to get double the cock without making your man jealous. Just make sure he knows that you don’t need this dildo because he’s not enough to satisfy you. Rather because he just makes you THAT horny. You can blow your dildo while your man fucks you, or the other way around. Take it to the next level by putting a suction cup dildo against a mirror. Weather your fucking or sucking the dildo, you’ll give your man the greatest view of his life!

Want two live cocks? Ahh the double barrel blowjob AKA double bj. No literally, open up as wide as you can and say ahhh. If they’re bi guys or simply don’t have any issues with frotting (rubbing both their cocks together), you can literally squeeze the two together and take them both in your mouth. Depending on their size, this might be impossible. If it is, simply squeeze them together and lick their tips back and forth with your tongue or puckered lips. This move isn’t so much about physical pleasure and sensation rather the thrill or watching you adore 2 cocks simultaneously. The much more common and pleasurable thing to do is simply swap back and forth between both cocks.

Give Your Man the Royal Treatment with a FMF blowjob. The royal treatment AKA heaven on earth is when a man is serviced by 2 women at the same time. One services him from the front with a blowjob, while the other services him from the back with some analingus. This is the most “full body” sexual experience a man can have and it’s guaranteed he’ll remember and fantasies about it forever.

Sit and Lean Kneeling Blowjob Position

Standing straight up while getting head is a rush. From the view to the sensations provided by the gravity vs blood flow… but it will eventually get tiring. At some point, your man will want to switch positions and start fucking, or take some weight off his feet. Stay on your knees while he assumes one of these positions to keep up the fun while allowing his to relax even more.

He leans against the edge of a bed, counter, or table. It might not seem like much but this little shift alone can make a huge difference by getting your mans attention off his tired feet and back onto you and the mind melting sensations you’re providing.

He sits in the boss’s chair position. This is the favorite of many men as he still gets to enjoy the sensations of gravity vs flow while also being in a comfy position. If he sits correctly, your range of movement will be limited because of his stomach and thighs. Fix this by having him lean back in the chair and put his feet up on a table or other surface behind you.

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