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Pass “The Wall” with the Upside Down Deepthroat Position?

If you want to experience the pinnacle of submissiveness while taking your man deeper down your throat than you ever have before, you need to try the upside down deepthroat position. The sensations of being face fucked deep down your throat without any gagging and nowhere to go is an exceptionally liberating experience.

In this epic blowjob position, you lie on your back with your head hanging over the edge of the bed. Your man stand in front of you and enters your mouth and aligned throat. The tilt of your head aligns your mouth and throat, making it easier to take a man down your throat without hitting “the wall.”

Why He Loves It:

If your blowjobs have become stale and routine, this pose is a sure fire way to mix it up by giving your man some incredibly alluring views from an angle he isn’t used to. Take it to the next level by placing yourself in front of a mirror and letting him catch a reflection of you playing with yourself as he effortlessly slides down your throat. Depending on the angle and his size, he might also see his cock make a bulge in your throat. Intoxicatingly hot!

Side note: Unlike regular blowjobs, the sensations your man feels during deepthroat come from the tightness of your throat, not the suction of your lips. This along with the psychological thrill of having his entire manhood taken and embraced makes deepthroating an experience unlike any other.

Critical Warning: The Upside Down Deepthroat Position is advanced and requires practice, patience, and trust.

The upside down deepthroat position is advanced. While it can help you get past “the wall” and get better at deep throating, it’s not going to turn a rookie into a deepthroating queen overnight. This isn’t a position for newbies and those who still lack a certain level of confidence and skill. Hanging upside down results in a headrush sensations that can add excitement but can also feel disorientating and overwhelming. A common occurrence for first time upside down deepthroaters is spit running down the face potentially into their nose. All this leads to the fact that you MUST establish a ‘safe gesture’ before hand, and it’s highly recommended you start with a beginner version of the position.

Beginner version of the upside down deepthroat position:

If you’re not already taking your man to the depths of your throat, try a slightly modified version of the upside down deep throat and ease your way to pro level.

Lie down on your bed. Using a pillow, folded towel, or other comfy prop, tilt you head back half way. Your man can kneel over you as you get accustomed to taking him deep. Instead of your head hanging completely over the edge of the bed, it’ll hang halfway over your prop. Your man can kneel on the bed and tilt over you as if he was going into a 69 position.

Keep tilting gradually until you’re hanging over the edge of the bed and devouring him entirely.

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Superman Sex Position – Make Your Woman Fly High

If you’re getting bored of walking tightropes or performing ariel artistry at the Cirque du Soleil, try the superman sex position.

Note: This position is not to be confused with the sexual act called superman when you cum on a girls back and stick a sheet to it so that it stays stuck like a cape.

Also note the term “Superman doggy-style sex position” was coined on the reality show Love Island when a participant was asked about his favorite position. He did not expand on this but it’s assumed he meant doggy style with a superman style finish (as described above).

Getting back to the position… imagine taking the wheel barrow position to the next level by lifting you woman up off the ground and holding her in the air.

If wrapping your arms around her belly and literally holding her in the air isn’t enough of a challenge for you acrobatic specimens, you can hold onto her hips while she uses her abs to hold her upper body up.

Thinking about it now, this should really be called the superwoman position cause it’s going to require your woman have abs of steel to pull it off. Might also help if she can actually fly. Then again, I don’t make the rules.

If you’re both truly hell bent on trying this acrobatic feat, it’s highly recommended to do over a bed or pile of pillows. Assume you’re going to drop your girl or she’s going to thrust back so hard you will fall. Can you do so safely? Without dropping her on her head? Without hurting her?

Pro tip: It might sound simple but by simply leaning back slightly, you’ll change the center of gravity and make everything MUCH easier for you.

Finally, you can make the superman even safer by practicing the position over a high table kitchen island, or any surface that will make any fall much shorter for your brave super hero in training.

Remember this position is more of a challenge of sex bucket list item than anything else. You’re not going to make her come in this position and it almost certainly will not become her favorite pose.

Have your fun trying the superman and giving her a few seconds of flight. When you’re ready to make her come, check out Penetration Orgasms Made Easy.

Spread Eagle Sex Position Forces Her Orgasmic Submission

In the spread eagle sex position, your woman is laid out with all four limbs spread out as wide as possible.

She can face up (supine) or down (prone).

She can lay down on a bed, or stand against a wall or saltire cross.

Use this position to give your goddess an erotic massage, devour her pussy, or dominate her orgasms.

I recommended all 3.

Many brush this position off because at first glance, it can seem like it’s an invitation for her to play the role of a dead fish.

This couldn’t be further from the truth.

This position can be exactly what your woman needs in order to have the strongest orgasms of her life.

Why The Spread Eagle Sex Position Makes Women Come So Much Harder

Think about the last time you jerked off.

Maybe you were watching porn…

Or maybe you were using the power of your imagination.

Other than watching or imagining something arousing, where was your attention?

Were you thinking about your taxes, chores, work?

Probably not.

Other than the stimulus – the woman you’re watching or imagining – you were likely focused solely on what you were FEELING.

The sensations of arousal in your body.

If you did start to think about your bills or what you need at the grocery store, you wouldn’t stay hard for very long.

The same thing is true for women.

In order to be fully aroused and orgasmic, your woman needs to be focused on what she’s FEELING.

If she starts thinking, it’s game over.

Her pussy will be as dry as a desert and her orgasm will be impossible.

Many guys ruin their woman’s orgasm, not because of bad technique, but because they make her think.

They take her focus away from feeling… and they get her thinking.

They ask what position she wants, what kind of sex she’s in the mood for, or if she’s getting close to orgasm.

All these questions take her focus away from FEELING sexy, horny, and orgasmic… and they force her to think.

Being dominant is not about being mean, selfish, or degrading… it’s about removing the burden of having to think, and allowing her the focus solely on the pleasure she’s feeling.

This is why dominant men tend to give women the strongest orgasms.

As I’ve said many times on this blog, the position you choose can set the mood for the type of sex you’re having.

Some positions are better suited for making love and others are better for dominating.

The spread eagle puts your woman into a submissive position and give you total control, so you can dominate her focus, her pleasure, and her orgasms.

Dominate Her Orgasms With The Spread Eagle Sex Position

As you’re about to see, there are many different variations of the spread eagle position.

There’s also several different ways to use these variations.

Before we get to them, here’s how to take advantage of her submission (in a positive way) and heighten her senses for more pleasure.

Multiply Her Pleasure By Manipulating Her Senses

Sensory deprivation is one of the most powerful tools in a dominant lover’s playbook.

It’s when you reduce one or more of her senses in order to enhance the others.

Examples of Sensory Deprivation:

Use restraints

Tie her to the bed, wall, or cross.

Use handcuffs, rope, ties, or even her own clothes.

When lifting her shirt, don’t take it off.

Lift it to her wrists and use it to tie them up.

Deprive her vision

Keeping up with the last example of lifting her top to tie her hands, instead you can lift it up to her eye level and stop it there.

This lifts her arms up and also covers her eyes.

I use this one regularly and highly recommend it!

If you don’t have any clothes around, you can always use a blindfold, a necktie, or just put a pillow or sheets over her face.

Anything that removes her vision is great because it builds massive anticipation.

She can’t see what you’re doing and starts to anticipate what’s tome come.

Fill her mouth

I’m not talking about your cock… yet. Be patient.

Again, by limiting what she’s able to do (in this case talk), you’re making it easier for her to focus on what she feels.

Use a ball gag or put her panties in her mouth after taking them off.

Just make sure you’re cautious.

If her hands are tied, she won’t be able to pull whatever you’re using out of her moth if she needs to.

If you’re using her panties, just put a bit of them in her mouth and let the rest fall out.

Amplify Her Other Senses

Now that you’ve deprived one or more of her senses, it’s time to amplify others.

Here are some of the best tools for doing this.

Use a feather

If she’s blindfolded and restrained, she’ll be able to focus much more on what sensations she’s feeling.

Start off slow and gentle with something very light like a feather.

Gently run it across her neck, chest, thighs, and every other erogenous zone to get her focused on feeling sensations.

Wartenberg wheel

Another great tool of arousal is the wartenberg wheel.

You can find them online for about $10.

It’s a medical device used to test nerve sensitivity but when used in the bedroom, it gets your woman to focus on her the pleasure and sensations those nerve endings deliver.

Roll it across every erogenous zone on her body and watch her arousal skyrocket.

Use A Vibrator

Now that your woman is warmed up, pick it up a notch and grab her favorite vibrator.

Turn it on and give her a few seconds to hear it. Remember, anticipation!

Of course you can use it to make her come, but sometimes, use it just to build her arousal.

Placing it on her outer lips, above her clit, against her vaginal opening are all great ways to get her hips grinding and pussy throbbing with anticipation for more.

It’s your call if you want to use it to make her come yet.

Either way, switch it up.

Don’t follow the same routine every time cause this will kill the anticipation.

Hot and Cold Stimulants

Candle wax is definitely not for everyone but if your woman is into it, slow dripping some wax on her erogenous zones can really spice things up.

Use it on her chest, belly, thighs.

Just avoid her vulva.

To give her some variety, use an ice cube.

Gently rub it across her body.

The heat of her body will make them melt all over her and really amplify her sense of touch.

Spread Eagle Sex Position for Erotic Massage

One of the first steps in making a woman come is to help her get release stress and tension in the body.

That’s why massage is such a great way to prime a woman for orgasm.

Start by giving her a regular massage in the most common “tight spots” such as her shoulders and neck, upper back, legs, and feet.

Once she’s totally blissed out, start massaging her more erotic hot spots such as her breasts, hips, and butt.

Work your way towards her vulva and move through each “layer” one step at a time.

Place your hands on her outer lips and massage up and down.

Put a bit of pressure with your index fingers and start to move each lip up and down in opposite directions. This “sandwiches” her clit in between her lips and stimulates it indirectly.

Make a V shape with your index and middle fingers.

Place one on each side of her inner lips and with a bit of pressure, slide them up and down, squeezing her clit gently.

Stimulate her clit directly with her favorite technique.

Some women prefer to be rubbed up and down, some like it side to side, and some need a circular motion.

The motion you use should not depend on what you like, but rather what her body responds to best.

Adapting your technique to match her unique preferences is what makes the difference between regular orgasms, and the best she’s ever had.

Watch this video to learn how to do it.

Devour Her With The Oral Eagle

In the oral version of the eagle sex position, your woman lifts her legs, bends at the knees and rests the soles of her feet on the bed.

Get on your stomach and go to town.

Again, your technique should depend on her preferences, not yours.

If you haven’t already, watch this video to master any pussy.

One quick tip is to put a pillow under her pelvis for better access.

Use The Captain Sex Position

In the captain, you’re steering the ship.

Grab her by the ankles and lift them in the air.

Get on your knees in front of her and enjoy the view.

In order to align your goods, you’ll need that pillow under her hips.

It’ll raise her butt up in the air just enough for you to enter her.

It also tilts her pelvis in such a way that you’ll hit her g-spot directly with every thrust!

The Prone Eagle Position for Deeper Orgasms

The prone version of the eagle is the same as the traditional version only she’s on her stomach instead of her back.

Unlike the prone bone position, her legs are spread and yours are on the inside of hers.

The benefit to this position is that you go very deep.

You’ll feel HUGE inside of her while amplifying the dominance of the eagle because you’re entering her from behind.

Hold her arms down and put your head close to hers for some dirty talk.

If You’re Long, Try The Peace Sign Eagle

In the peace sign, your woman’s legs are closed together while her arms are spread out.

She can face up or down.

Closed legs will make her tighter but you won’t go as deep so it’s best for guys who are longer in size.

Take It Outside The Bedroom With The Upright Eagle

Spontaneity is key to an exciting sex life.

Even kinky sex can start to feel stale if it’s always in the same place, at the same time.

A great way to mix things up is to start your session in the middle of the day, in the middle of the kitchen, living room, or laundry room.

The mindset here is that your woman is so hot and sexy that you just can’t help yourself anymore.

She’s making you so hot and hard that you just need to take her now!

In the upright eagle position, she sits on a countertop, washing machine, or any other piece of furniture or appliance that has the right height.

Lift and spread her legs while you slide in between.

Remember, this isn’t the most stimulating position for your woman but it is highly arousing.

It’s the emotions that make it hot.

The fact that you can’t make it to the bedroom and that you just need to have her right then and there.

Of course you can also use this version to squat or get on your knees and go down on her.

Split Hog Eagle

In the spread eagle sex position, all 4 of your woman’s limbs are spread out wide.

The Hog tie position is different in that all 4 of her limbs are tied together.

In the split hog, her legs are spread while her arms are tied.

Tie her hands with rope, cuffs, or use the shirt trick I showed you above.

Alternatively you don’t even need to tie her hands, just pin them down with yours.

Remind her that she is yours and dominate her orgasms.

Conclusion

In this article we talked about why the spread eagle sex position is great for leading your woman with dominant sex.

By being dominant, you remove the burden of having to think, and you free your woman to focus solely on what she’s feeling.

This is why dominant men tend to give women the strongest orgasms.

Here’s the catch…

In order for you to dominate in bed, your woman must choose to submit.

She won’t submit if she thinks you’re going to abuse that power and do things solely for your pleasure.

She has to believe that her pleasure, desires, and orgasms are important to you.

I made a video to show you exactly how to peer inside a woman’s dirty mind and discover exactly what she wants and needs in bed to have the most pleasurable sexual experiences of her life.

Click here to watch the make her come first video and be the best lover she’s ever had.

Go Deeper Than Doggy With The Leapfrog Sex Position

The leapfrog sex position (AKA Face Down Ass Up) is the deeper, rougher cousin of doggystyle.

Women LOVE rough sex and doggystyle just as much as we do.

It’s primal.

It hits all the right spots.

It makes her feel needed, sexy, and taken.

Doggy checks all the boxes for hot, orgasmic sex.

But too much of anything can get boring… and that holds true for sex positions as well.

The leapfrog is a slight variation on the classic pose that gives variety in both position and sensation.

Think of the traditional doggy style only instead of being on all fours, your woman rests her head, arms, and chest on the bed.

It’s the face-down-ass-up version of doggystyle.

Her legs are spread wide while yours are in between hers… although you can switch to make her tighter or if your pelvis’ aren’t aligned.

Unlike traditional doggy, she doesn’t have to hold herself up with both hands. She’s free to reach underneath and rub her clit while you’re stimulating her insides.

Instead of hitting her g-spot, the leapfrog targets the lesser know (but highly orgasmic) posterior fornix!

It’s an area deep inside of her that isn’t stimulated often but can be responsible for some of the strongest orgasms a woman can have.

Doggy Is Painful For Some Women – Leapfrog Might Be The Solution

Some women can’t enjoy doggystyle because it’s painful. Depending on the reason, the leapfrog sex position might be the solution.

Here are the 2 main cause of painful doggy.

It hits her cervix.

A small percentage of women experience tremendous pleasure when you hit their cervix… but for the vast majority, it’s extremely painful.

By getting off her hands and onto her chest, it changes the angle of her vagina and you can avoid the cervix completely.

Air is entering her.

If you’re on the smaller side, air can enter her when you pull out and cause pain when pushing back is.

The trick to this is to use “tighter fitting” positions.

Switching from doggy to the leapfrog can do the trick.

If that doesn’t do it for her, try the closed leg leapfrog. Close her legs and place yours on the outside of hers.

Closed legs will make her feel even tighter, you feel bigger, and it’ll be less likely to let air make its way inside.

Reward And Encourage Submission

The leapfrog is a very vulnerable position for your woman.

She has little to no control.

Her ass and pussy are fully exposed for your inspection and potential judgement.

She can’t see what you’re doing (or about to do) and that can turn anticipation into anxiety if you don’t first…

Take the time to ease any insecurities she might have.

Tell her to get into position.

Lightly caress her butt cheeks with your fingertips.

Tell her how gorgeous her ass looks in this position.

PRO TIP: Compliments are much more believable and effective when you use specifics.

Saying “your ass looks great” is one thing. It’s nice to hear and she’ll appreciate it. But it can get stale and unbelievable.

Saying “your ass looks great in this position” is much more believable and hot to hear simply because it’s more specific. Even if she doesn’t like her ass, she thinks “Oh, but it looks better in this position.” And her subconscious allows her let go of any insecurities she might have so long as she stays in position.

It’s a dark part of human nature and psychology but we might as well use it to make her feel sexy and good about herself.

Now lightly trace your fingernails on her cheeks for a few seconds, then lift your hand and give her ass a nice smack.

The mismatch of sensations create a “super-sensation” that most women absolutely adore.

Take some time to go down on her while you continue lightly scratching her butt and thighs with your finger tips.

When you’re finally about to enter your goddess, make her whimper by gently swiping your length between her folds.

Press the tip of your hard-on against her opening a bit without going in. This is one of my favorite ways to make a woman soaking wet and begging you for it. It makes her imagine and crave you inside of her. Much like imagining a specific food when your hungry amplifies your desire for it.

The Leapfrog Sex Position Is For Hard Fucking, Not Lovemaking

The foreplay tips in the last section are great for getting a woman warmed up and eager for more.

But when it comes to penetration in the leapfrog sex position, don’t be so gentle.

Some positions are better suited for slow, romantic, lovemaking.

The leapfrog isn’t one of them.

If you try “making love” in this position, your woman will feel a lack of congruence and won’t be satisfied.

So save the love-making for another position.

Instead, ratchet-up the dominance.

Amplify her submission.

Make her feel taken and ravished.

Slap and grab her ass. If you did this during the warm up while telling her how sexy her ass looks, you can repeat the same move again during sex without saying a word and she’ll feel the same emotions when you gave the compliment.
Get a firm grip on her hips. Remember, even if you aren’t pulling her onto you, just the feel of your hands grasping her hips amplifies the “rough sex emotions” she needs in this type of position.
Hold, tie, or cuff her hands behind her back. Being physically constrained allows her to submit her body and focus on the sensations that lead her to orgasm.

How To Last Longer In Leapfrog & Other Dog-Like Positions

Some positions are notorious for making guys lose control quicker than others.

The leapfrog isn’t immune to this.

The 3 tips can help you last longer in many positions but especially the leapfrog.

Use a Standing variation

When you’re kneeling behind your woman, you need to use your hips to thrust. It engages your entire core and makes you more likely to come quick if you’re already prone to it.

By standing, you can thrust with your entire body. Use your legs and hips to rock your entire lower body and you’ll cut down the “stress” on your core that makes you come faster.

Pull her to you

Keep still while you grab onto her hips and pull her onto you. Or – even better – get your timing right and pull her while you thrust forward.

Again, it’ll help relax your core and as an added bonus, it’ll give her the extra hot and arousing sensation of being taken. Very powerful!

Stay deep and use shorter thrusts

Long thrusts that stimulate your entire shaft lead to premature orgasms. By shortening the length of your thrusts, you increase your staying power.

Go as deep as you can and only pull out half way before thrusting forward again.

You’ll last longer and she’ll get that deep, fulfilling pounding this position is intended for.

Try These Different Leapfrog Variations To Find The One That Blows Her Mind

I often say on this blog that it’s often not about what position you’re using, rather how you’re using it. Many women will LOVE a certain position with one guy but hate it with another. The reason is often due to the smallest, subtle differences, and the fact that the better lover takes the time to find her favorite. To master your woman’s unique preferences, watch this video.

Bound Leapfrog Position

We talked about using the leapfrog in a dominant way. The bound leapfrog is the superior version of this.

Use a spreader bar, necktie, handcuffs, or rope to tie her hands together in between her legs.

Instead of holding her hands behind her back (as shown above), tie them together UNDER her and in between her legs.

Other than focusing her attention on the pleasure you’re delivering, the only thing she’ll be able to do is rub herself if she chooses.

Standing Leapfrog

We covered this one above. It’s pretty straight forward. In this version you have your woman at the edge of the bed so that you can stand behind her instead of kneeling.

Again, if you struggle with premature ejaculation, this version will be best since you can thrust with your entire body rather than just your hips.

The Squatting Leapfrog AKA FDAU Bulldog

Instead of standing or kneeling, you squat down.

It’s just like the bulldog position only she’s in the face down ass up position.

Squatting will completely change the angle of pleasure and can make you go even deeper.

Obviously, you won’t be able to last as long in this version so try it out, gauge your woman’s reaction, and if she really likes it, save it for an explosive finish.

The Leg Up Leapfrog

Stand or kneel with one foot while lifting and bending the other at the knee.

This one creates the most drastic change in what she’ll feel.

Not only does it make you go extra deep, it also makes you hit at a slight side angle.

If your woman’s deep spot is off to one side – watch this video if you’re not sure – this is the version you’ll want to use.

It might take a minute to get your rhythm going but once you do, watch out!

IMPORTANT: Leapfrog After-Care

Again, the leapfrog sex position is best used during rough, dominant sex.

If you’re in a long term, committed relationship, it’s crucial that you finish a rough-sex session with proper after-care.

Feeling objectified and wanted for nothing but our bodies can be an incredible turn-on… DURING SEX.

But…

We also want to feel special, cared for, and loved.

If you just get up and leave immediately after rough sex, it will leave your woman feeling used.

Not good.

You MUST invest a little extra time after rough sex to make sure she knows you love her and don’t see her as just a sex object.

Lie her flat on her belly gently touch, kissing, and appreciating her entire body as she basks in her after orgasm glow.

Lightly scratch her butt and thighs.

Sprinkle in some kisses.

Slowly work your way up her back till you reach her neck.

Kiss her neck, whispering sweet nothings, and spending a few minutes holding her and letting her know that you love her and aren’t simply “done with her” now that you got your rocks off.

Being the best she’s ever had means satisfying the physical AND emotional parts of her.

This is true for every woman.

But HOW you do it changes from one woman to the next.

In this video I show you how to fine tune all your strategies and techniques in order to match your woman’s unique preferences and subtle differences.

When you fine tune your techniques to match all her unique differences, you truly satisfy every one of her needs and desires.

Watch this video to learn exactly how it’s done and make sure you’re giving her the best sex of her entire life!

#1 Most Dangerous Mistake Men Make In The Cowgirl Sex Position

According to some scientific studies, the cowgirl sex position is one of 2 most likely to lead women to penetration orgasms.

But even the best lovers, using the best positions, can make mistakes.

In fact, there’s one major mistake many men make in cowgirl that completely ruins a woman’s chance at reaching a climax.

On this page, you’re going to learn exactly what this costly mistake is, why we make it, and most important, what to do instead so that you can make your woman come every time.

Or more accurately, so that you don’t prevent your woman from making herself come on you.

But before we get to that…

Here’s how the cowgirl position works.

You lie on your back while your woman gets on top and rides you to bliss.

Like most sex position, there are many different variations of the cowgirl.

Which one you use is not a matter of what you’re in the mood for, rather what will lead your woman to orgasm.

Well get to that in a minute, but first…

Let’s get to the single most important thing you need to know about cowgirl, and virtually every woman on top position.

The Biggest Mistake Men Make In The Cowgirl Sex Position Is: Fucking From Below

Here’s the deal…

The type of penetration that makes men come, typically doesn’t do the job for women.

What’s needed for men to orgasm is a simple and consistent in and out motion.

For women, that motion doesn’t do much other than tease and eventually frustrate them.

Going straight in and out doesn’t make you rub against her clit, g-spot, or a-spot.

Unless you’re huge, she won’t feel much at all.

And if you are bigger than average, she’ll only feel a fraction of the pleasure she could.

When a woman gets on top to ride, her natural instinct will be to grind you.

Why?

Cause that’s the type of motion that makes her come.

The mistake so many men make is that once she starts grinding, we grab onto her and start fucking from the bottom.

We hold her in place and start pounding straight in and out.

Imagine how frustrating this is for women.

She gets on top and has full control.

She starts grinding in the way that feels incredible to her and will eventually bring her to orgasm.

But all of a sudden, the guys she’s on top of grabs her and starts penetrating in a completely different way.

A way that feels nowhere near as good as what she felt when she was in control.

How do you think that makes her feel?

She feels like he’s taking pleasure away from her. This breeds resentment.
He doesn’t understand what she wants and needs. This breeds a lack of trust.
She’s not getting the pleasure she knows is possible. This makes her feel frustrated.
She feels like he doesn’t care about pleasing her and is only using her for his pleasure.

Now think about it…

How likely do you think she is to want sex with him again.

In fact, you don’t have to imagine.

Take a look at this reddit user who posted about her frustration with guys who don’t let their woman ride.

And here’s another with some equally insightful responses from other women…

The bottom line is, when your woman gets on top, let her get off on you.

Keep your hips and pelvis still.

Now this does NOT mean you should play the role of a dead fish.

On the contrary.

Here’s What To Do In The Cowgirl Sex Position

Many women get insecure and nervous when on top.

Unlike the majority of positions, when she’s on top, she feels an added pressure to perform.

Add to this the fact that many women have never been able to find the motion that feels best for them.

Either she doesn’t know exactly what to try, or her past lovers were making the mistake we talked about earlier and didn’t allow her to try.

What you’re left with is a woman who doesn’t know exactly what to do and on top of that, she isn’t confident in her ability to do it without interference.

Your mission in cowgirl is twofold:

Allow and encourage her to discover what feels best
Reward her with positive reinforcement when she does so

When guys first hear me say “encourage her to discover what feels best”, they often think that just telling their woman “do whatever feels right to you” will do.

The problem is that she might not know what feels best or know how to figure it out.

Below, I’m going to show you what’s most likely to feel best to her and how to encourage her with your words as well as your actions.

Woven into each move, I’m going to give you some advanced techniques to reward her for doing so.

Here’s a hint: the most effective rewards have little to do with the words you use.

So let’s get to it.

Cowgirl Position for Clitoral Orgasms

Her position: She leans on your chest (as if she’s hugging you).

Ideal motion for her orgasm: A twerking motion that slides her clit up and down against your shaft and/or pubic bone.

Encourage her to find her bliss: It’s quite simple in this position. If she’s on her knees, there isn’t much she’ll be able to do other than twerk.

Reward her: Since your heads are so close together, you’re in the perfect position to use some dirty talk. Hold her close to you and tell her how much you love the way she moves her ass on you.

Cowgirl for Clitoris and A-Spot (AKA Deep-Spot) Stimulation

Her position: She gets upright with a slight lean and places her hands on your chest (as if giving cpr).

Ideal motion for her orgasm: Keeping you all the way inside while grinding herself back and forth, rubbing her clit against your pubic bone.

Encourage her to find her bliss: Again, if she’s on her knees, she should be able to figure out her ideal motion quite easily. If she doesn’t, put your hands on her hips and tilt them back and forth. Imagine grabbing a keyboard by the sides. Hold it straight up. Now tilt it slightly and then return to starting position. This is the motion you want to make.

Reward her: Once she nails the movement and is really enjoying it, know that she’s moving for her pleasure. Make her feel confident in her moves and get her to focus on her pleasure by telling her to. Say “You look so sexy the way you ride me. Use that cock, baby. Get that pleasure. Fuck yeah baby, get it!”

Cowgirl Sex For G-Spot Orgasms

Her position: She gets on top and leans back, putting her hands on your knees, thighs, or the bed.

Ideal motion for her orgasm: Imagine her staying completely still while tilting her pelvis up and down. Each time, she basically drops her g-spot on your tip.

Try this version lying down, and also try it sitting up in a couch or against the head of the bed. It’ll put your shaft at an angle and make g-spot stimulation even more dramatic.

Encourage her to find her bliss: When she’s on top, just tell her how sexy it would look if she leans back for a bit.

Reward her: Again, tell her how sexy she looks when she rides you. Moan, groan and let her know not just with your words, but also your sounds and facial expressions.

Keep in mind this position is tough and she likely wont be able to last very long.

If you’re close enough, try putting your arms around her and giving her that extra support to make her last a bit longer.

Cowgirl For Your Pleasure

Her position: She squats on top of you and bounces up and down on your cock.

Ideal motion: If she’s doing this version, it’s all about your pleasure. She’s going to be squatting up and down on your cock so she won’t get much in terms of physical pleasure but you will.

Just know that she’s unlikely to come in this version but if she keeps going long enough, you will.

If she’s already come in another version or position, this can be a fun way for you to finish.

The Betty Rocker

The betty rocker is a reverse cowgirl sex position which provides completely different types of stimulation.

Use the same principals of letting her find the ideal motion for her pleasure and use positive reinforcement.

The real key to making this position great for her is to make her feel confident about her ass.

Slap her it and let her know how sexy it looks.

Let her know how hard she’s making you.

Since she can’t see you or your facial expressions, get a little louder with your words and sounds.

Give Her ADDICTIVE Orgasms with the Spooning Sex Position?

Whether your woman is wiggling her butt against you during a movie, or you wanna get rid of some morning wood, the spooning sex position is great for giving “lazy” g-spot orgasms.

It’s really simple.

You both lay down on your sides with you behind her.

Enter her from behind, and voila!

Master this position and you’ll not only give her a strong finish, you’ll also make her feel more cared for and loved than she’s ever felt before.

Science has shown that cuddling is so powerful it floods the brain with oxytocin (also know as “the love chemical”).

It’s the literal chemical that makes us feel loved.

Also, because of the angle you’re going to learn on this page, you’re going to be rubbing against the entire length of her g-spot, rather that just poking it on and off.

Combine these 2 factors together and this position is the perfect some seriously intoxicating orgasms.

Challenges of the Spooning Sex Position

It’s not all roses and orgasms.

It seems like a simple position, but it can actually be a little tricky to get into if your bodies don’t line up together just right.

If things don’t line up just right, try putting a small pillow or folded blanket under her hips to raise them to the perfect height.

If she has a big butt or you have a smaller cock, you won’t get very far, if you enter her at all.

Fix this by create distance between your upper bodies.

By bending forward at her waist, the distance between your woman’s ass cheeks and pussy shortens and it takes less length to enter her.

Think of it as doggy style on your sides.

If she’s too tight for you to enter, create distance between her legs.

Lift and hold her upper leg up in the air.

Have her guide your erection into her.

Try thrusting in this position for a minute to see how she likes it but beware it’ll get tiring for both of you real quick!

If she doesn’t get much from it, put her leg back down.

If she responds well to it, have her bend her knee and place the sole of that foot flat on the bed.

To really hit her g-spot, try having her bend her legs at the waist.

This puts her pelvis at an angle where you can easily thrust into her g-spot.

If she needs g-spot stimulation to come, this is likely the version for her.

Warm Her Up – The First Step Of Spooning

The spooning sex position is often used as first position cause it happens “by accident” early in the morning or while snuggling up on the couch.

The same way you should never work out cold muscles early in the morning with stretching, make sure you warm your woman up before penetration.

As always, you want to “warm her up” in 2 realms.

Warm Her Up Physically.

This one is exactly what you think.

Get her blood heading south before penetration.

Use you hand to play with her nipples and breasts.

Move down towards her crotch.

Don’t touch her clit directly until you know she’s ready for it.

Lift her upper leg over yours and place you hand on her vulva.

Split your index and middle fingers and place them on her outer lips.

Gently rub them up and down.

This simple move is a guaranteed way to send blood rushing to her genitals and get her roaring to go.

Warm Her Up Emotionally.

Feeling your skin pressed against hers while you hold her creates the light, loving emotions that makes her feel safe, special and cared for.

Feeling your throbbing erection between her butt cheeks, gives her the dark emotions of feeling wanted, sexy, and erotically powerful.

Play up both types of emotions.

Let her feel your erection and arousal rise and get more powerful.

When you’re just starting out, gently stroke her body with your finger tips and whisper sweet nothing into her ear.

As you get harder and more aroused, get a little rougher.

Start to grab her boobs.

Put your hand around her neck and give it a gentle squeeze.

Go from gently massing her outer pussy lips with your fingers, to sliding your stiff cock between her lips.

Go from talking sweet to talking dirty.

The key here is to make sure that your actions are congruent with HER level of arousal.

Don’t start choking her and talking nasty when she’s still dry.

Keep everything congruent!

How To Penetrate In The Spooning Sex Position

Because your bodies are so close together, you don’t have a great deal of distance to work with.

That’s ok.

In fact, it’s a good thing cause it’s an opportunity to see just how powerfully your woman responds to short, deep thrusting.

See us guys typically come by moving all the way in and almost all the way back out during penetration.

But unless you’ve got a magic dick, that’s just not the kind of penetration that makes women come.

Women come from entering her at unique angles and rubbing against the right spots.

By staying deep inside of her and only pulling out slightly before thrusting back in, you create a powerful vibrating sensation deep inside of her.

If you’re using one of the above versions that targets her g-spot, you’ll be rubbing against the her g-spot the entire time you’re inside her instead of just poking it on and off.

Transition From Spooning Her G-spot To Total G-Spot Domination

If you’re a member of the All Start Email List and read this blog regularly, then you’ve likely heard me talk about the importance of switching positions smoothly.

Fumbling around and clanking heads with your woman when switching positions is a massive mood killer.

Imagine you spent the last 20 minutes thrusting into her g-spot and building her orgasm, only to drop her off the bed while trying to switch into her favorite position.

Total mood killer.

Her arousal drops.

And now you’ve got to start building her up again from the beginning.

The way to keep building your woman’s orgasms during multiple position sex is to make sure you switch positions as smoothly and naturally as possible.

How?

By making one small move at a time.

At this point, you’ve been using the spooning sex position to consistently rub your orgasm giver against her g-spot.

If she hasn’t come yet, she’s likely very close.

Some women just can’t come in certain positions and switching might be exactly what she needs to go over the edge.

Pull out of her, get on your knees and move her upper leg forward.

Transition # 1 The Screw Position

This position not only gets you up and gives you more range in your thrusts, it’s also just one simple transition for her.

It also reminds her that you’re in control because of how easily you change her position with one simple move of her leg.

Give her a couple of minutes in this position so she can get used to it.

Start getting a little rougher and more aggressive.

Push her head down into the bed.

Moan and groan a little louder.

Press down on her hips to let her feel how much she’s turning you on.

Once you’re ready for the final transition, pull out of her and put a pillow on the bed beside her pelvis.

Grab her upper arm and pull it in the direction needed to land her face down.

Make sure her pelvis is on the pillow. It’ll tilt her in a the perfect angle for what’s to come.

If you need to, straighten out her legs so that she’s flat on her tummy, ass side up.

Take a minute to admire her ass.

Give it a slap.

Tell her how sexy it is.

Spread her legs and go down on her for a bit.

It’s called

The Forbidden Fruit Position

Not only does this let you regain your composure (if you need to), it also amplifies her emotions.

It makes her feel more wanted and sexy,

It gives her confidence in her body, reminding her just how sexy you think her ass and pussy are.

Once your appetite is satiated, put her legs together, straddle her thighs and enter her from behind.

Welcome to the wonderful world of

Final Transition The Prone Bone Position.

This is one of the best positions for g-spot orgasms and if you haven’t tried it yet, you absolutely need to asap!

2 things make this position so powerful.

First, the pillow lifts her pelvis and puts her g-spot in the perfect position.

Second, get as high up as you can (meaning your head will be higher than hers) and thrust DOWN.

Do this and once again, you’ll pound straight into her g-spot!

Finally, if you want to make sure you blow her mind and give her the best sex of her life…

Make her come BEFORE sex to increase her chances of coming again DURING sex

To really blow her mind in any sex position, your highest leverage point is to make her come before penetration.

Not only do you increase the chances she comes again (during sex) you also increase the power of that second orgasm.

Every orgasm you give a woman builds on the last and becomes more powerful and pleasurable.

Giving her at least one orgasm BEFORE sex is the single biggest difference between a great session and one that leaves her out of breath, unable to speak, and wondering “what the hell just happened!”

The trick is to find out what gives your woman the best orgasms.

Some women come hardest from oral.

Others prefer having their clit rubbed.

Some won’t come unless you rub their g-spot.

Finding out what moves give your woman the best orgasms is the greatest homework assignment and best investment you can make in your sex life.

Watch this video to learn the secrets of Adaptive Orgasmic Response and guarantee your woman has the best orgasms of her life!

Do NOT Let Her Come In The Zombie Sex Position. Do This Instead…

The zombie sex position is what you get when mixing the 69 position with a downward dog yoga pose.

You sit with your feet flat on the floor while your woman stands with her ass in your face.

She bends over at the waist and puts her hands on the floor.

Her head is in position to take you in her mouth while you take her in yours.

She does need to be a bit flexible to pull this off.

If she’s not quite able to reach full zombie, she can bend her knees, you can lean back, or you can do a combination of both.

leaning zombie — Zombie position with the guy leaning back slightly.

Do NOT Try To Make Her Come In The Zombie Sex Position

I know this sounds odd coming from a blog always preaches the magnitude of making women come first, but here’s the deal…

It’s a very difficult position for her to climax in. If she does come, it’ll likely be a very weak orgasm.

She’s got to focus on holding a somewhat difficult position. This makes is harder for her to focus on the pleasure that leads her to orgasm.
Her pussy and ass are completely exposed to you. While we men love it, it’s often a source of high insecurity and anxiety for many women.
She won’t be able to give the best blowjob in this position so she won’t be feeling very confident.

All these things together make it highly unlikely she will orgasm in this position, even if you’re using the perfect technique.

Instead, use the zombie to prep her for an incredible orgasm.

Use this position to turn her on and warm her up for what’s to come.

Naturally, she’s going to be stretching which is always recommended before any intense physical activity.

Here’s how you can stretch and warm up her emotions, arousal, and orgasms:

Arouse Her Emotions

As I said before, having her pussy and ass so exposed can make her self conscious. If she has any insecurities about her naughty bits (like many women do), she’s going to need some positive reassurance in order to relax and get turned on.

Use this opportunity to make her feel confident and sexy.

Compliment her.

Tell her how beautiful her ass is.

Let her know how delicious she tastes.

Make sure she knows that you’re incredibly turned on by having her business all up in your face.

Don’t just use your words.

Non-verbal communication is just as (if not more) effective.

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Moan and groan.

Let her hear how aroused you are through non-verbal communication and she will get turned on as well.

Reframe Her Struggle Into Desire

Once again, unless she’s a high level yogi or performs in the Cirque Du Soleil, it going to be tough to give you a show stopping blowjob.

She’ll be to focused on making sure she doesn’t fall over.

So don’t expect a great blowjob.

Also, don’t lie and tell her she’s giving you a great blowjob. She knows she isn’t and you’ll only reduce her trust. You’ll also condition her to give bad oral.

Instead, reframe her struggle to give you great head as a strong desire to give you great head.

When she reaches for your cock and struggles to take it in, say something like “You really want that cock don’t you?”

Now, instead of focusing on how she’s having a hard time and unable to please you, she’s focused on how much she wants to please you and take you in her mouth.

It’s a subtle but highly powerful difference.

Tickle Her Erogenous Zones

The most obvious target for your hands in the zombie sex position is her ass.

Grab, slap and caress her ass to increase physical and emotional pleasure.

Remember how we said that relieving her anxiety by complimenting her ass is crucial. Massaging, grabbing and slapping it while you deliver those compliments has double the effectiveness.

But one of the most powerful erogenous zones that many guys ignore, is the insides of her knees.

Anywhere the human body has folds, such as insides of knees and elbows, are extremely sensitive and very powerful erogenous zones.

Try this on yourself right now.

Using just the very tips of your fingers, drag them lightly across the inside of your arm.

Now, keep going until you reach the inside fold of your elbow.

Notice how much more sensitive it is.

The same thing is true in the folds of our knees.

Take a few seconds to drag your fingertips across the entire bottom of her legs. Slow down and spend a little extra time when you get to the insides of her knees.

Do this while you’re moaning with her in your mouth, and you’ll get her focused on all the pleasurable sensations you’re giving her body.

Prep Her Clit For An Intense Orgasm

Again, odds are she won’t come while in the zombie sex position.

So use this time to build an orgasm that you can deliver after switching into your next position.

When most guys give their woman oral, they go straight for the clit.

But you know better.

Rather than rushing right to the goods and overstimulating her, use indirect stimulation to make her crave clitoral contact before you give it to her.

Swipe the tips of your index and middle fingers between the folds of her lips.

Avoid touching her clit directly.

As she gets more aroused, use a little more pressure when you get to the clitoral hood.

Now, place the insides of your index and middle fingers on each side of her clit.

Squeeze a little and move your hand up and down.

It’ll feel like you’re masturbating her clit and will get her riled up like nothing else.

Now use a precise, pointed tongue tip to lick on her clitoral hood.

Avoid making direct contact with the clit.

Pleasuring her clit indirectly like this will increase blood flow and get her ready for direct stimulation without overstimulating her.

Once she’s ready for more, start mixing in random slow, full licks with a flat tongue.

Don’t overdo this.

Remember, your goal in this position is to get her wet and wanting more.

There is one mistake most guys make when picking a position to transition to.

Do you know what it is?

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Use The Plumber Sex Position Like This & She’ll Do Anything You Want

In the plumber sex position, your woman lies on her back while you get on top and straddle her face. Lean forward, get on all fours and enjoy!

From here you’ve got 2 options.

You can take control and thrust in and out of her mouth, or you can stay still while she blows you.

The problem with staying still while she does the work is that it can be very hard on her neck and shoulders.

Be mindful of this.

Pay attention to her body language and stop her the moment you sense she’s getting tired.

The second option is for you to do the thrusting.

In this version you need to…

Keep in mind just how incredibly vulnerable she is in the plumber sex position.

She has absolutely no control and nowhere to go. In most blowjob positions, she can just move back if you go to far. In the plumber position, she can’t do that.

If you go too far, there’s nothing she can do but try to push you off.

Obviously, this creates a lot of vulnerability. She has to trust that you won’t push her past her limit and choke her.

Here’s the good news… you can use this opportunity to build trust and improve your sex life exponentially.

Telling someone they can trust you is one thing. Showing it is another.

Show her that you will NEVER push her past her limits.

This will build her “sexual trust”.

Build trust in the bedroom and with just a bit of time, she will do any and every nasty thing you want!

Not only that, she’ll love it!

She’ll also feel safe to let go with you, surrender control, and thus surrender her orgasms.

When a woman is worried about what you think of her sexual expression, if you’ll hurt her or take advantage of her, she cannot orgasm.

Her mind takes control of her focus and her body is left hanging.

In order to orgasm she must get out of her head and this is only possible if she knows that she can trust you… or she’s really drunk.

So use the vulnerability of the plumber sex position to build sexual trust, submission, and orgasmic potential.

Establish a safe act.

It’s like a safe word, but action based. Kinda necessary when her mouth is full with your manhood.

Nothing fancy needed.

Just a tap on your thighs, or a push on your stomach will do the trick.

Here’s how to do it and start building trust before you ever use it.

Get into mid position. In other words straddle her face but stay upright instead of leaning over and putting your hands on the floor or bed.
Look her in the eyes and say “if you want me to stop at any time, just do X” IE: Slap me here with your hands.
Practice the move. This is crucial. Actually do the move with her. Tell her to open her mouth, inch inside of her, then take her hands and slap yourself with them exactly how you want her to do it.
IMMEDIATELY pull out of her and give her some positive reinforcement. Give her a smile and tell her “just like that, ok?”

Until you do this, you won’t believe just how powerful this is.

Why?

A lot of girls get told “just tell me if you wanna stop” but they don’t actually do it because they feel guilty, ashamed, insecure, etc.

Just because she didn’t tell you to stop, doesn’t mean she didn’t feel it.

If she wants you to stop but doesn’t say so, it can have some NASTY effects.

She can begin to resent you for it… even though you said the right thing and were willing to stop.
She’ll be nervous about trying it again in the future and will look for ways to get out of it.
If it happens too often, she will start to associate sex with you to having those negative emotions. Not good.

These four steps are powerful because they Show Her she can trust you.

She’s already done it and not only were there no negative consequences, but there was actually a positive one because you gave her that positive reassurance.

A lot of guys might think “won’t that make it more likely she’ll use the safe act then?”

No.

Here’s why.

The main reason a woman uses a safe word or act is because she feels nervous and in danger.

She panics.

She’s not certain that she could get out of the situation quickly, if needed.

When you physically make her use the safe act you’ve agreed to, and then pull out of her right away, it proves to her subconscious mind that there’s no need to panic.

She just has to do her safe act and you will listen and bring her to safety right away.

This builds trust.

This is how you get a woman to surrender her body and orgasms to you.

I’ll say it one more time just in case…

When she uses her safe act, stop IMMEDIATELY.

Or in this case, pull out immediately.

Obeying this rule will build her trust in you but breaking it will kill her trust more than anything… and you might never be able to get it back.

The Very Best Way To Establish Sexual Trust Is…

Adapt your techniques in the bedroom to match her preferences.

We all know women are different.

There are some universal truths about women’s sexuality that applies to all women, but there are also many areas where women are different.

They have unique sensitivities and preferences.

If you want to blow her mind, give her the best orgasms of her life and establish total sexual trust, you must adapt your techniques to match these differences.

Watch this video to learn the 67 ways to make your woman come, and give her more orgasms in a weekend then she had all week!