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Splitting The Bamboo Position Is The Ultimate Smooth Move

Splitting the Bamboo position might just be one of the most underrated on the entire roster. Sure, unobstructed access to both holes, the potential for DEEP penetration, and many opportunities for clitoral stimulation are all great. But best of all, using this position (the way you’re about to see) makes you the king of “smooth moves’. More on that in a minute.

Splitting The Bamboo position is the ultimate twist on missionary… literally.

To get into Splitting the bamboo, begin in the classic missionary position, straddle one of your woman’s legs, and twist her torso. Lift her upper leg straight into the air and rest it against your chest.

Caution: Avoid putting all your weight on her thigh. It might feel like the path of least resistance, but it can put her leg to sleep and kill any chance of orgasm.

Getting Started: You might find that your naughty bits don’t line up quite right. You might be a little too high (or low) to enter your woman. Try spreading your legs wider to lower yourself to the right height. You can also put a pillow under her butt to lift her up. Just keep in mind that this will change her angle. More on that below.

Optimize for Orgasms

If you’ve been using all star positions for a while, you already know the importance of targeting your woman’s orgasm zones. If you have a particular bend in your penis or your woman is taller than most (for example), you might have to adapt your position in order to make her come.

How?

Test Angles

If you lean over her in a pushup position, it’ll feel completely different from being upright. Try both and see what she responds to best. Lean back a little or twisting your core to one side vs the other. Test a slight shift in her angle. Lying perfectly on her side or mid way between her side and on her butt can make all the difference. The slightest shift in your positions can be the difference between “I was close” and “OMG!! No one has ever made me come so hard!”

Once you nail her position, amplify it.

One of the great benefits you get from splitting the bamboo is the easy access. You both have plenty of access to all her naughty bits with plenty of room to play.

While holding her airborne leg against your chest with one hand, make use of the other. Play with her clit. Grab a boob. Pull her favorite vibrator out the drawer and give her double the pleasure.

If she’s into it, switch hands and use your free one to play with her ass. Lick your thumbpad and lightly rub against her anus. Tease it while SLOWLY and gradually making your way in. Use some anal beads or a butt plug.

Encourage her to play with herself or invite her favorite toy. Heck, you can have her play with her clit, while you toy her anus, grab a boob, and penetrate her deep spot.

Splitting the Bamboo is the Ultimate ‘Smooth Move’

Not much kills the mood like awkwardly fumbling around between positions. It shows a woman that you’re not totally confident and comfortable and it passes those arousal killing emotions on to her. Not good.

Instead, you want to use smooth moves that don’t add any breaks into the mood.

One of the easiest ways to pull this off is by smoothly transitioning between positions. Far too many guys mess this up and it’s such an easy fix.

Splitting the bamboo is the ultimate ‘smooth transition’ position and demonstrates the strategy perfectly.

The way to switch positions smoothly is by making small, subtle, sub movements… one at a time. Trying to flip your woman around, bending her knees, and putting her legs behind her head creates lots of opportunity for you to fumble. Instead, make the smallest movements possible. One. At. A. Time.

For example, you might start in the classic missionary. From here, grab one of her wrists and putt it across her body, twisting her upper body on its side. Enjoy that position for a minute.

Now lift your pelvis, straddle one of her legs and pull her other leg to the same side you did her arm. Now her entire body is on its side.

From here you can easily lift her leg up in the air and enjoy splitting the bamboo.

Maybe you lean forward for a while before returning to the classic version.

Without having to move much at all, you can easily grab her airborne ankle and move it down towards the bed, turning her fully onto her stomach and into the prone bone.

Notice how all these small shifts can lead you from one position to another with very little room for awkward stumbling.

This is what it means to have smooth moves.

Master the Art of Smooth Moves

Now this was just one example of how to go from missionary to prone bone but the fact is that you could run through almost every position on this site by using this same principle.

Now even if you’ve nailed the art of the smooth move, there is 1 mistake almost all men make in bed that ruins a woman chance at orgasm.

HINT: Even the most experienced guys still make this costly blunder.

Try this 30 second dirty thought experiment to find out if you’re making this deadly mistake and what to do instead.

The Butterfly Sex Position Gives Big D Skills To Smaller Sized Guys

If you’re average or slightly below in size, you need to try the butterfly sex position.

It might just be one of the best positions for giving women powerful g-spot orgasms with and average (or slightly smaller) tool.

On this page you’ll discover exactly why it works so well and how you can use it to give her one of the strongest orgasms of her life… regardless of your size.

First, let’s cover the basics.

To get into the butterfly, your woman lies down at the edge of a bed, table, or counter top.

You stand in front of her, lift her legs and rest them against your shoulders.

Grab her butt with your hands and lift her slightly off the surface. This is the real magic to this position. More on why in a minute.

The challenge with this position is finding a surface that’s the perfect height.

If the surface is just a bit too high, you can spread your legs to lower yourself a bit. If your working surface is low enough, you can kneel to get the right height.

Why The Butterfly Sex Position Is A Secret Weapon For Smaller Guys

First of all, she gets to relax in a comfortable position which is required if she’s going to come.

It’s also fairly easy for you. No complicated or strenuous position to hold and it doesn’t require you to use much strength.

All in all, it’s a comfortable and easy position on both of you.

But here’s where this position really shines.

By lifting her core in the air, you tilt her pelvis.

Without this angle, you’ll thrust straight in and out of her without really touching her g-spot at all, unless you’re well hung.

By tilting her pelvis, you create an angle that makes it easy for you to thrust straight into her g-spot.

Pelvic Tilt — By lifting her butt (even just a tiny bit) you tilt the angle of penetration and hit her g-spot directly!

This slight shift in her position turns you into an instant stud that easily hits her g-spot without needing a huge dick and with no special moves or tricks.

Add to this the fact that her body is completely relaxed while she can look you in the eyes and you’ve got the perfect recipe for a powerful g-spot orgasm.

You might even make her squirt so have some towels nearby.

Here’s How To Blow Her Mind In The Butterfly Position

The butterfly is great for a lunchtime quickie on the dinning room table, but it’s also a great finishing move because it makes her come so hard.

So sometimes, save it as your finishing move.

As she’s lying on the bed, put your hand on her hips and pull her to the edge.

In Jiu Jitsu, controlling the hips of your opponent is essential.

When you control the hips, you control the body.

When you grab your woman by the hips and pull on them, she feels the control you have over her body.

Consciously or not, she thinks “if he can control my body, he can control my orgasms”.

Now that she’s in the right spot and willing to submit because you know how to control her body, grab her ankles and lift her legs up in the air.

Kiss the back of her calves and work your way down.

Tell her to hold her legs high and wide as you get down to your knees.

Now kiss, lick, and tease the back of her thighs as you work your way closer to her pussy.

Back off a bit and go back to her legs to create tension and desire.

Warm Her Pussy Up Before You Make Her Come

Using your thumb and index finger, pinch her outer pussy lips together.

What you’re doing is pinching her clit INDIRECTLY, through the skin of her lips.

Now gently start stroke her clit, as if it were a tiny dick.

This massages her clit indirectly which is key because she might not be warmed up enough for direct contact yet. If she is, you’ll just get her more amped and rearing to go.

Once she’s aching for more, slowly start to lick the hood of her clit. Again, don’t make direct contact. Just the hood.

When she’s ready for direct contact, start with one slow lick directly on her clit and pay attention to her response.

If it’s positive, keep going.

Of not, go back to playing with her indirectly until she’s ready.

Use her favorite oral technique to give her a clitoral orgasm.

Once she comes, give her a minute to cool down.

Tell her how sexy she looks when she comes.

Let her know how delicious she tastes.

Kiss and stroke her legs.

Stand Up, Grab Her Butt, And Get Into The Butterfly Sex Position

Since you just gave her a clitoral orgasm, her clit will be too sensitive to touch.

Her g-spot however, will be swollen and aching to feel you.

Rub your tip up and down against her opening for a few 10 – 20 seconds to build her desire.

Slowly enter just your tip inside of her.

Now pull it back out.

Do this a few times.

This will get her soaking wet and craving to feel all of you.

With every stroke, go just a bit deeper.

Start slow like this and build it up faster, harder, and more passionately.

Remember, the real trick to this position is the angle of her hips.

If you don’t want to hold her up anymore, put a pillow under her pelvis.

Now you’re free to pin her arms down, or pinch, twist, and pull her nipples… if she’s into it.

If ever you feel yourself getting close to coming before you’re ready, just pull out and go down on her again.

Try The Crossed Butterfly

As with every position, you wanna try different variations to find out which one works best for your woman.

A popular twist on the butterfly is to cross her legs so they make an X.

It tightens her up and make you feel bigger.

But remember, contrary to popular belief, bigger isn’t always better.

So try them both but read her feedback and don’t assume she’ll like one better than the other.

If the crossed version feels too tight, you can also try:

The One Sided Butterfly Sex Position:

Instead of crossing her legs, close them together and put them over the same shoulder.

This will make her tighter but not as tight as the X version.

This one also makes it easy for you to hold both her legs in place with one hand.

Now the other is free to roam.

Use it to play with her breasts, grab her neck, or hold one of her arms down.

Finally, another version of the butterfly that creates a completely unique sensation for her is:

The Curled Butterfly Position

Instead of having her legs straight up and against your chest, this version has her legs curled.

Fold her legs up towards her head and bend them at the knees so she can rest her feet on your chest.

This one folds her body in such a way that you might not even need to extra elevation of the pillow or your hands. Again, test out all versions to find her favorite.

Increase Her Odds Of Orgasm In The Butterfly Sex Position

Without question, the butterfly is one of the best positions for giving women g-spot orgasms… especially if you’re average or a little below in size.

That said, there is one simple strategy you can use to increase your odds of making her come.

Earlier, we talked about switching between oral and penetration in this position.

But do you know what type of oral works best for your woman?

Some like circular licks to the clit while others like it up and down.

Some get more pleasure when you suck on their clit.

Some women need you to finger them during oral in order to have the strongest orgasm.

If you’re wasting your time on a technique that doesn’t make her come, it doesn’t matter how good you are at it.

She won’t come.

If she does, it’ll be a weak orgasm compared to her potential.

To make sure you give your woman the most pleasurable and powerful orgasms possible, you need to adapt to her unique sensitivities and preferences.

Watch this video to Make Sure She Comes Every Time!

Fill Her From Both Ends In The Eiffel Tower Sex Position – MMF Threeway

The Eiffel tower sex position is probably the most commonly used in mmf threesomes.

The women gets on all fours. One guy gets behind her doggy style. The other gets in front of her and receives a blowjob.

It’s more accurately called a split roast. But when both guys high five over the woman’s back, it becomes the Eiffel tower.

If you love hearing a woman moan while a cock is in her mouth as much as I do, this is the ultimate moaning bj position.

Eiffel Tower Sex Position Is Perfect For Hesitant Guys

A male, male, female (mmf) threesome is sometimes referred to as a Devil’s Threesome.

The most critical factor that will make a Devil’s Threesome enjoyable for the woman is the chemistry that the two guys have with each other.

Even if you don’t get physical with him, how comfortable you are with another dude in the room, banging the same woman, at the same time, is everything.

Look, it can be intimidating.

Awkward.

Emotionally confusing.

And it’s completely normal.

But how you deal with these emotions is the real key.

Do not make it a competition.

Rather a shared pool of pleasure… between the 3 of you!

The Eiffel Tower makes it easier to do this while overcoming the possibly tough emotions that can come with having a 3^rd guy in the bedroom.

All 3 of you get to engage in the fun.

Guys are as far away from each other as possible… but you can interact with each other in a way that’s not too threatening or intimidating.

Looking each other in the eyes…

Simple, non sexual touching like a high five…

Watching each other having sex with the girl…

All of these can start to slowly make you both more comfortable with each other and thus, make her a lot more comfortable.

Bulldog Tower Position — In this version, the giver is in the bulldog position. Click the image to learn more about the Bulldog.

MMF Threesomes Are A Lot Of Work… For Her!

Never forget this.

On one hand, it’s an incredibly empowering thrill for a woman to have 2 guys needing, taking, and filling her body.

On the other hand, there’s a lot to do.

In my post on the 69 position, we talked about how focusing on the pleasure you’re receiving, while simultaneously trying to focus on giving pleasure can feel like a losing battle.

The same thing can apply in the Eiffel Tower.

You don’t want her to feel like she’s working twice as hard.

You want to make her feel twice as wanted.

One way to do this is for the receiver of oral to be patient and realize that she’s gonna need breaks to focus on the pleasure of being pounded.

One of the biggest complaints women have about giving blowjobs is that their neck and jaw can get sore.

So let her take breaks and jerk you off for a while.

Jerk yourself off while you watch her for a bit.

Switch into a double penetration position.

Or…

Get In Sync

As I said before, one of the most important factors in any mmf threesome is the chemistry between all 3 of you, but especially the 2 guys.

This applies to how you speak, choose positions, and how you thrust.

If you’re thrusting into her at one speed while your buddy is going at another, it can mess up her groove.

So thrust in sync.

One of the most intriguing and stimulating sensations for a woman during the eiffel tower sex position is the feeling of being fucked at one end only to then be pushed onto the other.

Every thrust she gets from the guy fucking her ends in being pushed back onto the other guy with her mouth.

She goes back and forth from being filled at one end to being filled at the other.

When both guys are in sync and time it right, it can make for unusually pleasurable sensations and also feel like she’s doing less “work”.

She doesn’t have to proactively give head, rather just enjoy being fucked from both ends.

That said, take turns.

When the guy doing the fucking is thrusting, the other can stay still and enjoy the sensation of her mouth being rocked back and forth on his shaft.

Then try the reverse.

Learn her limits and once you know how far back she can take your cock in her mouth, try both trusting into her at the same time.

Be careful with this though.

If you don’t take the time to learn her limits, you could easily choke her and ruin the experience.

Start slow and fill her from both ends as only as much as she’s comfortable with it.

Once you know her limits and you’re comfortable with the other guy, you can hold each others arms over her back and pull each other into her simultaneously.

The final option is for both you and the other guy to stay still while she rocks back and forth.

She gets to go at her own pace, speed and rhythm while you both relax and enjoy her erotic greed.

Give Her Sensory Overload

Another appeal to women about mmf threesomes is that she gets a total overload of sensations.

Double the hands…

the dicks…

and double the sensations!

As Justin Lehmiller, PHD says in his book Tell Me What You Want:

“… the appeal of threesomes has more to do with the fact that this activity creates a state of sensory overload than anything-it’s really about amping up our arousal by bringing in another body that we can look at, touch, and experience in an empowering way that allows us to get lost in sensations.”

So play it up.

Purposefully give her sensory overload.

Both grab her at the same time, allowing her to experience the sensation of having four hands all over her, admiring her body.

Blindfold her to take away her sense of sight, therefore amplifying the other senses.

Handcuff or tie her hands to make her feel even more submissive and taken.

Variations of the Split Roast / Eiffel Tower Sex Position

The traditional version is done when all 3 of you are on your knees, however there are lots of option.

Here’s a few to try:

Lazy-Bj Version

The guy receiving oral lies on his back while the other takes her from behind doggy style.

The challenge with this position is that she’ll be getting fucked and moving back and forth while trying to move her head up and down.

Sitting Tower Sex Position

Oral receiver sits on a chair or couch while the other kneels or squats behind the woman.

Unlike the lazy-bj version, this one makes it a bit easier.

The guy sitting can push his cock down a bit and make it easier for her to move back and forth on it rather than trying to coordinate the up and down while being pushed back and forth.

Over The Edge Eiffel Tower

She lies on her back with her head hanging over the edge.

This way the oral receiver can gently (or not) thrust in and out of her mouth while the other guy dominates her pussy at the other end.

When you’re the one getting oral in this version, figure out her limit before thrusting too fast, hard, or deep.

When you’re at the other end, take a moment to stop fucking and go down on her for a bit.

More MMF Positions

Many women have been fantasized about an mmf threesome and she likely has lots of different things she wants to try.

So try as much as possible.

BJ For Two

When a guy knows how to receive a blowjob properly, it turns a woman on like nothing else. But having another guy right next to you watching her work her magic can be one of the most empowering things she’ll ever experience.

DP Sandwich

If she’s into anal, give her that double stuff by one guy penetrating her ass while the other is in her pussy.

One can thrust while the other sits still or (if the position is right), you can both pound into her simultaneously.

Double Oral

She might love giving head and really trip on servicing two guys at once. When done right, there’s nothing like giving and getting oral at the same time.

If the guys are bi, you can get into a circle where you all get and give service at the same time.

The other option is to get into a split roast but instead of penetration, the male giver goes down on her.

She’ll be giving head at one end while receiving it at the other.

Delicious!

69 Sex Position Can Make Her Love or Hate Giving Blowjobs

The 69 sex position is one of the most loved and hated positions.

Most guys love it cause we get to admire our woman’s pussy and ass while getting head. What could be better?

But when it comes to women, many hate it.

Why?

If your girl is self conscious about her pussy and ass, she’s going to be a little stressed having them so up close in your face
Women aren’t turned on by visuals the same way we are. Having your junk in her face isn’t a turn on the way it is for us.
Finally, if she’s giving you pleasure, it’s tough for her to concentrate on the pleasure she’s receiving. That means your killer tongue techniques are being wasted because she will barely feel it.

The things that make 69 great for guys just aren’t present for women.

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, then you’ve heard me emphasize the fact that women have different preferences. Nothing applies to 100% of women. Some do love 69ing.

Most don’t.

But here’s the biggest challenge with this position:

If she’s worried about what you’re seeing and thinking about her body, while being unable to focus on her pleasure, and feeling required to perform, her subconscious brain can start to associate negative emotions with blowing you.

In other words, she might start to hate giving you head.

So if you’re going to get into 69, you’d better make sure it’s a great experience for her.

Make sure she’s enjoying it and her subconscious brain can start to associate positive emotions to blowing you.

By using the tricks in this blog, you can actually make her love giving you head.

If you don’t, you could make her hate it.

Before I show you how to use the 69 position to turn your woman into a cock-craving nympho who wants you in her mouth every chance she gets, we need to get clear on the basics.

How To Do The 69 Sex Position

There are many versions of the 69, and we’ll cover a few of the best one’s below, for now, let’s start with the traditional version.

To get in the sixty-nine position, lie down on a bed, couch, or floor.

Your woman straddles your face and gets into a doggy style position, putting her face in your crotch and your face in hers.

It’s that simple.

If she’s much sorter than you, you might not reach each other as easily as you’d like.

The quick fix to this is to put some pillows under your head. It’ll save your neck and tilt your head forward, letting you makeup for the difference in distance.

If you’re a lot taller than her, a pillow or 2 under your head might not be enough. In that case, you can put a pillow or sex wedge under your pelvis as well. This tilts your pelvis towards her face. Now your head and pelvis are tilted and your entire body is curved while hers is straight. Making it easy for both of you to reach.

Now that you’ve got the position figured out, you both give each other oral.

At least that’s how it’s supposed to go.

What usually happens is that one person ends up giving mediocre oral (at best) while the other puts all their attention on pleasing their partner.

If you’re the one doing the pleasing, great! Have fun!

But if she’s the one doing the work and not getting any pleasure in return, it can have some nasty after affects.

So any time you get into this position, make sure you’re going all out and giving her the best oral you can.

Use The 69 Sex Position to Create Positive Associations in Her Brain

Science has shown over and over that prior preferences influence learning new habits and activities.

In other words, if she loves getting oral sex from you but doesn’t like giving blowjobs, you can rewire her brain and get her to love having you in her mouth by going down on her while you’re in her mouth.

Notice that I said while you’re in her mouth, Not while she’s giving you a blowjob.

Have the tip of your cock in her mouth while you give her oral, so that her brain associates your taste (and the fact that you’re in her mouth), with her pleasure.

If she doesn’t like giving blowjobs, that negative feeling could get associated to having you go down on her. Not what you want!

So instead of trying to get and give great oral in the 69 position, use it to give her great oral while you’re in her mouth and she will begin to associate great pleasure with having you in her mouth.

The best part is that you don’t even need to be in her mouth. If she just holds your cock close to her face while you’re going down on her, the smell, feel and look of your cock so up close to her will get associated with her pleasure.

If you make her come while she’s got your manhood up close to her face, you’ll take things to the next level and her subconscious brain will associate feelings of euphoria with having your man meat in her face.

Here’s a few tips on how to make this positive association more likely.

Have Realistic Expectations

If you go into the 69 sex position thinking that you’re going to give each other the most powerful orgasms of your lives simultaneously, you’re likely setting yourself up for disappointment.

Again, it’s tough to focus on giving pleasure, while simultaneously focusing on the pleasure you’re receiving enough to reach orgasm. The same is true for your woman. So if she’s blowing you, it’s going to be virtually impossible for her to focus on her own pleasure enough to orgasm.

Instead, focus on getting her warmed up and close to orgasm, so that you can then transition into a good cunnilingus position and make her come.

Or, focus on getting her warmed up and craving penetration sex. You’ll learn a few tips on how to do this below.

Focus on her

When you get into 69, you have 2 options. You can focus on the sensations you’re feeling in your penis, or you can focus on the sensations that your mouth feels when devouring her.

Focus on the sensations your lips feel when kissing her outer lips, the sensation your tongue feels when licking her opening, or the sensations your lips feel when sucking her clit. Do not focus on the sensations she’s giving you.

Warm Her Up First

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you already know I’m a big fan of giving women multiple types of orgasms. If you’ve been through it, you know that in order to make a woman come, you must warm her clit up with indirect stimulation before giving her direct clitoral stimulation.

This is even more crucial when you’re trying to create positive associations before direct clitoral contact too early while you’re in her mouth, can create negative associations. Below, I’ll give you a few of my favorite indirect techniques, so keep reading.

Use your hands

In this context, I’m talking about using your hands on her body. Caress her butt, her sides, her back. Remember, you want her to focus on the pleasurable sensations that you’re making her feel, so give her lots of sensations to feel.

Make Her Come BEFORE 69ing

Once you give your girl an orgasm, she gets into a different state of mind. An orgasmic state. When she’s already in this state before taking you in her mouth, she’s going to immediately associate pleasure to your taste. Make her come with your mouth BEFORE getting into the 69 position and it’ll be easier to make her come again during 69.

Watch this video to make she comes first, every time!

How To Eat Pussy in the 69 Sex Position

If you’ve already been through some higher level training such as the make her come first formula, you already know the importance of stimulating her clit indirectly before you make direct contact.

How you easy pussy in 69 will depend on this one key factor: Are her knees above, or below your shoulders.

If your shoulders (and thus arms) are above her knees and thighs, you can easily bend your elbows, and reach over to rub her vulva with your fingers.

If your shoulders and arms are below her knees and thighs, you’ll have to reach around, over her thighs to reach. In this case, use your hands to caress her butt cheeks, back, hips, and thighs. Remember, you want her to focus on the sensations that you’re giving her… so give her lots to feel.

BONUS TIP: Get a firm grasp of her body and pull her closer. It’ll let her know that you love having her close and up in your face. IMPORTANT: Only do this if you can pull it off without diminishing the quality of your technique.

Here’s a few more tips:

Kiss, Swipe, and massage outer lips with your hands, fingers and lips to warm her up.
If she’s got long inner lips, suck and tug on em with your lips
Avoid direct contact with her clit. Lick the areas around her clit first IE: licking the clitoral hood, then opening. Tease her clit by devouring the areas around it first.
Once she’s warmed up and wet, give her clit one slow lick with a flat tongue to test out if she’s ready for more.
Regardless of her response, go back to licking around the clit.
If you got positive feedback from the direct lick, go back to it for a bit longer.
Press a wet thumb pad against vaginal or anal opening.
If you’re wanting to transition into penetration after 69ing, insert the tip of your thumb into pussy and pull up, away from clit. It’ll duplicate the sensations of being fucked and make her crave penetration.

Different 69 Variations

As always, one of the most critical factors that you determine if you’re a mediocre or great lover is how well you adapt to your woman’s preferences, sensitivities, anatomy, etc.

One way to make sure you’re adapting is to try out different position variations.

Here are some of the best variations of the 69 position and why you might want to try them.

#1 Classic 69 Sex Position

You lie on your back while your woman straddles your head while facing your feet. She then bends over in a doggy style pose. She can rest on your body but this can make you both extra sweaty and hot real quick. The alternative is that she holds herself up and creates a little space between your bodies.

If she’s much shorter than you, you can minimize the distance by putting pillows under your head and (if needed), your pelvis. It’ll “curl” your body a little and even out the distance.

#2 Classic 69 with an Angle

criss cross 69 sex position — Notice how one of her legs is above his shoulder and the other is below.

We’ve already talked about how your arm placement will make a big difference in how you can play with your woman.

Are her knees above your shoulders (wrapping your head) or below your shoulders (wrapped around your chest). What version you choose determines how you’ll be able to use your hands.

If you see benefits to both versions, you can have one arm above and the other below by being slightly angled instead of perfectly parallel to each other.

Now you can have one arm wrapped around her thigh and playing with her butt, while the other gets much easier access to her vulva.

#3 Inverted 69 Sex Position

Here’s where you switch things up. You’re on top and she’s on the bottom.

Some women actually prefer this so they can relax their body a bit more… but these women are in the minority.

Why?

Cause she has no control over how deep you go inside her mouth.

If you’re going to use this version, MAKE SURE you aren’t going too deep or fast. You actually want to be very conscious of everything she’s experiencing and make sure it’s not unpleasurable for her.

#4 Sideways 69

One of the most loved and commonly endorsed variations of 69 is the sideways 69 sex position.

Very simply, you get into the traditional version but you’re both on your sides. It makes it much more comfortable for the person who’s usually on top because neither of you have to hold up your bodyweight while getting to work.

Bend your lower leg a little while moving the other back or bending it in the air and you’re giving your partner a comfy place to rest their head. No neck strain necessary!

#5 Standing 69

You’re more likely to see this in porn movies than in real life. but if your woman is much smaller than you, you can try this one out for fun.

You simply pick her up, flip her around and go to town.

Obviously, you should only try this one out if you’re confident in your strength and she’s comfortable with it.

Make sure you don’t wander off too far from a bed, couch, ottoman or something else you could quickly and comfortably set her down on.

#6 Head Hanging Over The Edge

One of you lies down on the bed with your head hanging over the edge, while the other stands over their face and leans over.

It’s often recommended as a way for a girl to deep throat. The theory is that it makes her throat straight and therefore she’ll be able to take you in deeper.

In my experience, it’s not a great position for this. Here’s why: If she’s learning to deepthroat, it means she’s not that comfortable with it yet. So she’s going to be a little more nervous and likely to gag. Add to this the fact that blood will be rushing to her brain (cause it’ll be lower than her heart) and it can lead to some unpleasurable affects.

That said, it can be a good position to simply rest your tip in her mouth while you go off.

If you’re both into face sitting (where she sits on your face and basically grinds your mouth), this one is a fun option. You lie on your back while she towers over you and pleasures herself against your tongue.

She can lean over and stroke or suck you off, if she chooses.