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Master the Kneeling Blowjob Position with These 2 Power Plays

Few things turn a man on more than watching you tie up your hair, push him up against a wall, and drop to your knees before devouring him. The kneeling blowjob position might just be the most powerful tool in your sexual arsenal. Try the positions and power plays on this page to make your man melt and get him to do every nasty thing you want!

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Why Guys Love The Kneeling Blowjob Position

Sexual Psychology – It doesn’t matter if we’re talking about the most vicious predator in the animal kingdom, a bloodied soldier at war, or the most hardcore male feminist. Men are hardwired to seek higher ground and dominate. By getting on your knees and servicing him, you smack the power dynamic and trigger your mans deepest, most primal desire to dominate.

Blood Flow – Ever notice how a mans erection just doesn’t look the same when he’s lying down? It’s because the blood flow in his member pushes his erection down in the same direction as gravity. There’s no resistance. No pressure. No pleasure. But when your man stands and his erection fights against gravity, it amplifies the sensation and makes his hard on that much… harder.

His Most Sensitive Spot is RIGHT THERE – In case you didn’t know it already, the frenulum (the area where his head meets the shaft on the underside) is the most sensitive spot on the entire penis. When giving a blowjob from the kneeling position, your tongue is in the perfect place to rub against his frenulum and give him the most blissful sensations he can experience.

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It Gives Your Neck A Break

In the laying on your stomach blowjob position, your neck can get sore very quick. There are some quick fix tips that can help but sometimes you just can’t take it anymore and need a break. That’s where these kneeling blowjob positions are a life saver.

The flip side is that these positions can be hard on your knees. Obviously a pillow or exercise matt will make a huge difference but here are a few more tips you might have not considered before.

Consider investing in a meditation bench. Simply put, these miracle benches take most of the weight off your knees and increase your kneeling stamina.

Try switching between feet flat on the floor and bent at the ankle. Simply switching back and forth between the two a few times during your session can prolong your session by many multiples.

What To Do With Your Hands In The Kneeling Blowjob Position

The first thing to consider in a kneeling blowjob is what you’re going to do with your hands. You might have never given it much though but simple shifts here can make all the difference for both of you. Be willing to try each of these out and find what works best for you and your man.

Submit & Get Restrained – The beginner version is to simply hold your hands behind your back voluntarily. You can get cuffed or tied (in ways that are easy to escape from or not). Or, my personally favorite, lift your arms up to the sky and have your man pin your wrists against a wall. All of these add to the male dominant power dynamic we all know and love about blowjobs.

Handy Additions AKA Add Handjob Techniques – Use you hands to give him a handjob blowjob combination. There are so many ways to amplify a blowjob with your hands (all covered inside Blow His Mind of course). The 2 most popular are the corkscrew and ball play. For the corkscrew handjob technique, make an ok sign with your thumb and index finger. Place the O against your lips, then slide it back and forth along the full length of his shaft while your mouth works his head. As for ball play, I highly recommend you stick to gently cupping his balls until you know his preferred techniques and intensity.

Hug and Pull him close – This simple little move is an absolute mind fuck that triggers deep loving feelings in any man. Don’t just hold onto his hips when going down on your guy. Hug his hips or thigh and pull him body into your mouth. Grab a handful of his ass, squeeze, and pull him his body and cock into your mouth. This makes him feel (at a deep psychological level) that you really want him in your mouth and don’t want him to back up and away.

Positions for Both Power Dynamics

Way to many people still think of a blowjob as degrading to women and empowering for men. The truth is that it can be empowering to the giver or receiver. You choose. If your blowjobs are getting a little state, try switching the power dynamic to the one you’re not used to. A quick and easy way to establish this is by using a wall. WHO has their back against the wall?

Givers back against the wall is great for facefucking. If you trust your partner, have established boundaries and a safe act (cause safe words aren’t a great option when your mouth is full), then kneeling with your back against the wall is a great position to get face fucked. He can take this to the next level by restraining you with cuffs or pinning your hands against the wall.

Receivers back against the wall is great for fucking him with your mouth. Push him against a wall, pin his wrists to the wall, and take charge. Instead of him controlling the thrusting, you get to fuck him with your mouth. Pin him against the wall and he’ll be your helpless, decadent toy to fuck with your throat.

Threeway Bj Positions

When you start giving expert blowjobs, the desire for more cock might strike. When it does, you have several options.

Invite a dildo to your session. Working 2 live cocks can certainly be intimidating. Before you take that plunge, get a feel for double cocks by bringing a dildo into your session. It’ll give you a feel for what a MFM threesome would be like with a lot less pressure. Dildo threesomes is a fun way to get double the cock without making your man jealous. Just make sure he knows that you don’t need this dildo because he’s not enough to satisfy you. Rather because he just makes you THAT horny. You can blow your dildo while your man fucks you, or the other way around. Take it to the next level by putting a suction cup dildo against a mirror. Weather your fucking or sucking the dildo, you’ll give your man the greatest view of his life!

Want two live cocks? Ahh the double barrel blowjob AKA double bj. No literally, open up as wide as you can and say ahhh. If they’re bi guys or simply don’t have any issues with frotting (rubbing both their cocks together), you can literally squeeze the two together and take them both in your mouth. Depending on their size, this might be impossible. If it is, simply squeeze them together and lick their tips back and forth with your tongue or puckered lips. This move isn’t so much about physical pleasure and sensation rather the thrill or watching you adore 2 cocks simultaneously. The much more common and pleasurable thing to do is simply swap back and forth between both cocks.

Give Your Man the Royal Treatment with a FMF blowjob. The royal treatment AKA heaven on earth is when a man is serviced by 2 women at the same time. One services him from the front with a blowjob, while the other services him from the back with some analingus. This is the most “full body” sexual experience a man can have and it’s guaranteed he’ll remember and fantasies about it forever.

Sit and Lean Kneeling Blowjob Position

Standing straight up while getting head is a rush. From the view to the sensations provided by the gravity vs blood flow… but it will eventually get tiring. At some point, your man will want to switch positions and start fucking, or take some weight off his feet. Stay on your knees while he assumes one of these positions to keep up the fun while allowing his to relax even more.

He leans against the edge of a bed, counter, or table. It might not seem like much but this little shift alone can make a huge difference by getting your mans attention off his tired feet and back onto you and the mind melting sensations you’re providing.

He sits in the boss’s chair position. This is the favorite of many men as he still gets to enjoy the sensations of gravity vs flow while also being in a comfy position. If he sits correctly, your range of movement will be limited because of his stomach and thighs. Fix this by having him lean back in the chair and put his feet up on a table or other surface behind you.

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Bi Guy Reveals: Mastering The Laying On Your Stomach Blowjob

If you want to make your man erotically obsessed with you, there aren’t many moves that can compete with the laying on stomach blowjob position.

It’s sometimes referred to as the pose or the prone position blowjob.

This seemingly basic (yet incredibly powerful) BJ pose makes it easy to:

Use your hands in a variety of ways
Tease your man with visual stimuli that’s just not possible in other positions
Keep control over your depth, speed, and rhythm
Make him feel truly loved and even trigger deep feelings of devotion

For many guys, blowjobs are a sign of love. The only thing better than a great blowjob is a great blowjob that you enjoy giving him. When he’s convinced that you love taking him in your mouth, your man will go to the ends of the earth and slay dragons for you.

Whether your mission is to make him cum, make him forget about his ex, or make him so hard he loses all control, flips you over, and fucks you senseless… the laying on your stomach bj position is a must in every goddesses sexual repertoire.

What is the Laying On Stomach Blowjob Position?

As the name suggests, whatever version you use, you are on your stomach in the prone position.

Your man can lie down, lean, stand or sit, but the crux of it is that your stomach is always laying flat on the surface beneath you.

Your hands can be restrained behind your back, grabbing him in a variety of ways, or playing with yourself, but you are always on your belly.

How To Use Your Hands While Laying On Your Stomach

Unlike giving head while you’re on all fours, laying on your stomach offers a lot of creative options with your hands. You’ll still have to hold up a bit of your body weight, but the amount is massively reduced and can be done with as little as a single elbow or forearm.

This means you get to use your hands in some fun and tantalizing ways. Here are a few of my favorites.

Pull his erect shaft down (towards his feet) with a finger or your mouth. When he’s fully erect, a little bit of downward pressure makes a high reaching erection feel even more intense. Don’t pull too much. Just enough to create a slight resistance.
Pin him down. In the laying on stomach blowjob position, you’re running the show. You’re in charge. Make sure he knows it. Interlocking fingers and holding each others hands might be ok in the beginning while he’s still soft and getting worked up, but once he’s hard, pin his hands to his sides and make it known he’s not going anywhere.
Grab, hold and pull on his thighs. Again, simply holding onto him subconsciously says you don’t want to stop. Add some slight pulling to subconsciously tell him you love what you’re doing and don’t want it to end.
Right before he cums, make an ok sign with your fingers around his balls and carefully pull them away from his body. Like an orgasm prolonging magic trick, this lengthens the trip his semen needs to take, making his orgasm last just a wee bit longer.

Right after he cums, wrap a hand around his shaft, press your thumb tip against his corpus spongiosum and drain out every drop like a tube of toothpaste.

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Create Hypnotic Views He Can’t Look Away From

Everyone knows how visual men are. Even a slightly suggestive sight can make a man hard as steel.

When getting a blowjob, there’s no hotter view then to see your giver adore what they’re doing. Watching you smirk, smile, and laugh while working our cock can put us in a trance faster than anything else.

Creating Views When He Can See Your Face

In the standard version of this position, your man can see your face. Eye contact is possible, even easy with a slight head tilt on his part.

Pull his shaft down (like shown/talked about above), tilt your head, and:

Look him in the eyes
Smile with your mouth and eyes
Take him as deep as you can while looking him in the eyes and wink at him
When you need to come up for air, lick his shaft and let him see your tongue. Yup, guys are suckers for a clean, wet tongue lapping up their shaft.

Creating Views When He Can’t See Your Face

Below we’ll go over some of the best variations for the laying on stomach blowjob position. Some of these variations make it hard (even impossible) for him to see your facial expressions. In these versions, the tips above won’t be much help.

Here’s how to give him a killer view when you’re on your stomach but can’t see each others face:

Lift your feet up in the air to trigger his foot fetish. Maybe he has a foot fetish and he doesn’t know it yet. Seeing your sexy soles while he’s deep in a state of bliss might just awaken that hidden fetish.
Enhance your ass with a whale tail. If he’s sitting or standing, he’s going to have a rare upside down view of your butt. A timeless way to enhance this view is with bright and/or sexy underwear. If you still have pants on, pull your undies up slightly to give him a whale tail view.
Let him be a voyeur. This one is kind of sneaky, but it works like gangbusters. Position yourself in front of a mirror so that he can look over and see between your legs. Rub yourself while devouring him. Stop for a second every now and then to let out a moan. While searching for the cause, he’ll eventually catch the reflection in the mirror and have a voyeurs view of just how turned on you’re getting from tasting him.

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Different Ways To Do The Laying On Stomach Blowjob Position

When it comes to the way you’re positioned, there isn’t much room for variation.

Rest your forearms on the bed in front of you, or you place them behind your back. Clasp them together, grab your ankles, or get restrained with ropes or cuffs. Hug his hips or hold onto him in a variety of ways.

The real variants of this pose come down to his position. Here are the most common variants.

He Lies Down with you Between His Legs

In the most common version of this position, your man lies on his back starfish style while you lay between his spread legs. Compared to coming in from the side, your tongue is directly under his frenulum which is by far the most sensitive part of the entire penis. Swish your tongue from side to side or up and down while pressed against his frenulum and feel him absolutely melt.

Lean on your elbows and reach your hands up to fondle his balls and shaft. Switch things up by sliding your arms under his knees and reach his belly, pubic bone, and shaft from above.

When you’re ready to move on, pick yourself up and go into all fours – or – turn your body perpendicular to his so that…

He Lies Down while you Come In From the Side

Same as the previous version except you’re perpendicular to each other. From this angle he still gets to see your face and expressions, and he also gets to see (and play with) the rest of your body. He can caress your ass, explore between your legs, reach your boobs or hold and play with your hair.

Unlike other version, you can use all the visual tricks from both categories above. Take advantage of that well placed mirror off to the side of your bed and give him a show of you rubbing yourself while worshipping his instrument.

He Stands AKA Prone Face Fucking

This is the ideal version to submit for some face fucking. Contrary to previous version, he’s running the show now. Not you. He’s got total control over the thrusting and you don’t have any.

He can see your entire backside, lean over and spank you, fuck you with a finger or toy, or just admire the view while thrusting in and out of your mouth. Once he’s earned your absolute trust, he might restrain your hands behind your back while using your throat. OR you can restrain yourself by reaching back and grabbing your ankles.

He Sits AKA Game’s On

This one is similar to the sideways version of the laying on your stomach blowjob pose only he’s sitting instead of laying down. There’s a bit less room for you to work your magic since his thigh and belly are in the way. Try placing one hand behind his back and the other over his thigh. You can also try sliding your second hand under his thigh and reach his cock and balls from below. Just beware this version can put your arm to sleep fairly quick if he’s too heavy with his leg.

Use this pose while he’s playing a video game and challenge him to see how long he can keep his character alive. Or just use it while watching a movie when you’re in the mood to Netflix and chill.

Prone Dildo BJ Threesome

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Imagine practicing your blowjob skills and opening your throat on a dildo while your man gets on top and enters you from behind.

It’s a great way to get some sensations of a threesome without the jealousy. Do it in front of a mirror so he can see you suck a toy while he plows deep inside of you. Also opens up your throat and prepares you for the switch.

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How To Get Him Hard – 4 Foolproof Tactics

A little embarrassed that you’re not sure how to get him hard? I mean, guys have been trying to stop having erections at inappropriate times for decades.

The classic example being, having to hold a book in front of their crotches when approaching the front of the class in school. What a bummer that must be! We’re so lucky that our arousal is completely hidden 24/7. We might have been creaming our pants, but at least we could still read our papers in front of the whole 9^th grade History class.

Besides the mention of their mothers there isn’t much that doesn’t get a dick hard. That makes our job easy. But, you might need a little dickspiration, which is why I’m here! Check out the information below so that you can get your guy hard whenever needed.

Foreplay is hella important. You can’t fuck a limp dick! So, let’s take these limp dicks into into the bedroom and get them inflated. Try these out tips for fast results:

- Putting on a sexy show is a fun way to raise the roof in his pants. Men are super visual. Have him sit down in a chair or on the bed. Make him watch as you slowly undress and dance around. Your bouncing tits and the subtle touches of your own hands on your skin is sure to drive him wild. Can you say instant erection? It’s like watching a live version of porn. And what guy wouldn’t like to be a player in that show?
- Speaking of porn… Not in the mood to perform? Watch some other hot people perform for you. Watching porn together is a great way to get both of your juices going. I honestly don’t think I’ve ever seen a guy able to watch porn without pitching a tent. There’s just something about watching other people get it on, that always works like a charm. Bodies thrusting, sweat dripping, cries of ecstasy…And, it will give you both inspiration for what’s to come. Watch a little to prime the pumps, and then have some fun trying to do what the freaky people did! Trying to duplicate porn can be extremely pleasurable, and if it’s not, it’s at least completely hilarious.
- Direct contact is pretty reliable! Pull that trouser snake out and get to stroking. Rubbing his shaft and gently cradling his balls is a great way to get the blood rushing to his member. He’ll be at full-capacity in no time. Hand jobs are a beautiful thing if you can pull them off. Pro Tip: I like to ask a man to jerk off in front of me, so that I can see what he likes. Jerkin’ someone else’s meat can be tricky if you’re not in tune to what they’re into. Everyone’s a little different when it comes to pressure, speed and angle. Once he’s shown you, there’s no excuse for faulty hand jobs! Let him lead by example and then go to town.
- Blowjobs. Aaah the magic of sucking dick. A fail safe tactic to get him from zero to one hundred in no time flat. BJs are great icebreakers for the bedroom, lol. Hey, at least you don’t have to do any of the talking right?? Haha!

Taking him into your mouth for a few is sure to do the trick, and the great thing is – I’m often interrupted by my man when I’m sucking because he’s so aroused that he can’t wait to fuck me! Do a good job at blowing him and he’ll be begging you to stop so that you can fuck. Isn’t that great?! Yes. It is. Nothing’s worse than an BJ gone too long… He’ll never say that, but fuck that neck pain! You want to get him in, and then out, (and in and out and in and out), and then get him out of there. You’ve got other business to attend to.

Hopefully these tips are helpful. You definitely want him at full attention for the main event. Hopefully he’ll come already prepared with a boner, but if not, these tactics are sure to help get him where he needs to be – which is IN you!

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