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Why Captain Sex Position Is So Good at Making Her Cum Again

So you just gave your woman her first orgasm of the night and now her body is primed for #2. You can put her into several different poses and in this article, I’ll make the case for why I believe the captain sex position is a top contender.

Unless you’re a complete rookie, you probably already know that man on top position like missionary or the C.A.T. are great for giving that first orgasm quick and easy. The downside (if there is one) is that these first orgasms are not the most powerful. But that’s ok. The purpose of that first orgasm is not to blow her mind with the best she’s ever had. The role of her first orgasm is to get the first one out of the way and put her body into “cum-mode.” Once she’s there, her rational mind melts away and her body takes over. Now it’s ready to achieve multiple, more powerful orgasms MUCH easier.

Enter the captain sex position.

To transition from a man on top position to the captain, put your weight on your knees, get upright, and lift her legs in front of you.

It’s similar to the butterfly and anvil, only you’re kneeling instead of standing, and upright instead of bent over.

Why the Captain Sex Position is so Effective at Making Her Cum A Second Time.

This position tops the list for a few key reasons. Each of which are powerful on their own but when combined often lead to extremely powerful, full body, orgasmic convulsions that most women will rarely (if ever) experience.

1) Let’s Her Relax Into Orgasm Mode

As guys it’s easy to feel a certain pressure to perform in bed, but we rarely consider that women feel that pressure too. Women feel a pressure to please and impress you use in bed. Paradoxically, they can’t perform “too well” or come of as very experienced and slutty. They need to fit inside that perfect box in the middle and that’s a very stressful and orgasm hindering task.

The captain takes away all that worry. The captain puts you in full control and absolves her of the pressure to perform. You can give her simple instructions – like telling her to hold her legs, play with herself, or tell you how much she loves it – and she can obey without worry or guilt because she’s simply following your directions. You are the one who’s taking the responsibility. Now she can enjoy without guilt or fear of being judged. By telling her to do those things, you’ve absolved her of the responsibility to choose where the line is and you’ve given her permission to enjoy and relax into an orgasmic state.

2) Smooth Transition Into More Intense Orgasms

Man-on-top positions are great for slow, romantic sex. That’s part of the reason the resulting orgasms are typically not as powerful. But as things heat up and your woman becomes more orgasmic, your position should reflect that. As implied by the name, the captain position puts you in control. You dictate the speed, movement, and rhythm. You can still gaze deep into her eyes, slow things down, and lean in for the occasional kiss, but you can also turn the heat up instantly. You can tell her to hold her legs, place a hand around her neck, and start fucking a little harder. You can start to control her body and manipulate her position by putting her legs together, crossing them, or holding her by the thighs instead of her ankles.

Pro Captain Tip: Either you will be holding her legs or she will. Either way, take control. When you’re holding her legs, move them around into different positions and tell her to play with herself. When she’s holding her legs, put your hand around her neck, play with her breasts and clit. The point is not to overload her with stimulation (although she will be getting LOTS) – the point is to let her know that YOU are in charge. YOU are leading her to pleasure (and orgasms). YOU are the captain.

3) Easily Target Intense, Full-Body, G-Spot Orgasms

If you’ve been reading this blog for any length of time, you already know the common in-and-out penetration move used by most guys rarely makes women come. In order to give a woman penetration orgasms, you need to target her “orgasm zones.”

There are 3 ways to target a woman’s Orgasm Zones. 1. Altering her position 2. Altering your thrusting motion 3. Altering both. In my experience, most women become orgasmic in the captain when you apply the third strategy.

Here’s how to target her g-spot for powerful orgasms in the captain sex position.

Step 1) Put a pillow under her butt to tilt her pelvis.

Step 2) Swing your thrust instead of moving back and forth.

Either one of these moves can make you hit her g-spot but in my experience the 2 combined together tend to lead to the best results.

Try one. Then try the other. Then try both. See what gets the strongest reaction from your woman and stick to that.

Hopefully this blog has given you a new insight into giving penetration orgasms. However experiencing it will change your sex life forever.

If you want the power to make any woman come in almost any position, there’s no way around it, you must use targeted thrusting.

I’ve shown you how it works in this article but this was just the tip. I created a much more advanced training that demonstrates exactly how to master it and if you’ll let me, I’d like to share it with you today.

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Face Sitting Femdom Position – The ultimate BDSM kink to learn…

Face sitting AKA queening is when a woman sits on your face and allows or forces oral. It’s often associated with femdom and bdsm.

Your woman can kneel, squat, or sit on a throne. Yes there are actually “thrones” made and sold for the sole purpose of face sitting.

She can face your head, a side, or your feet.

Although there is one issue with the latter.

Facing towards your feet can take away from the pleasure for her because seeing your lonely cock sit there unattended can make her feel like she should bend over and please you too.

On the other hand, if going down on your girl makes you hard, seeing you progressively get harder and she sits on your face can be a major turn-on.

One way to get the benefit while avoiding the con here is to use this version of the position while you’ve got your underwear still on. A barrier that prevents her from going down while also being loose or thin enough for your erection to be obvious through them.

WARNING ABOUT FACE SITTING:

Safe words are a must with risky positions like this. In the case of face sitting, safe words don’t cut it since you might not be able to get any words out. So make sure you get clear on a safe ACT. Tapping out on her thighs is a simple a effective one that should do the trick.

There are 2 main techniques for face sitting. She can sit still while you work your magic. Not easy since your neck will have to fight gravity the entire time.

Or you stay still while she grinds away and fucks your face. Relax, pay attention to her movements, and this can be the most exciting reconnaissance mission of your life.

Use this experience to learn everything you can about your girls oral preferences. Notice the speed, pressure, and rhythm she uses to grind your tongue. Notice if or how these elements change as she gets more and more into it. Take not of every move she makes and your oral game will have no choice but to level up immediately.

If you want to discover the exact move that’ll make her pussy come hardest, watch my Make Her Come First video now.

Mating Press Gives Her The Deepest Orgasms She Can Have… When You Do This

The mating press is not just a sex position. It’s a term used to describe a specific view (or camera angle) of a particular position in porn, hentai, and rule 34.

Imagine missionary with your woman’s legs lifted and her thighs between both your bodies. Now instead of assuming a push up position, you get on your feet, squat, and lean over her.

The mating press is what you get when combining the anvil and pile driver.

Stick a camera behind your rear ends and voila! You’ve got a front row seat to all the action with intermittent shots of the woman’s facial expression on every pull back.

It’s an advanced sex position because your woman needs to be flexible, and you’re going to need a bit of leg strength to last more then 5 seconds.

The mating press is often associated with cream pies and impregnation porn because it makes it easy to ejaculate deep and closer to the cervix than most positions.

Warning: The cervix is incredibly sensitive. A very small percentage of women love having their cervix stimulated but that vast majority do not. The vast majority feel pain when their cervix is touched.

Why Mating Press Gives Women Such DEEP Orgasms

The reason some women love it is because of a small group of powerful nerve endings found deep in the vagina. This small pleasure packed bunch of nerves has the ability to send a woman through the strongest orgasms of her life.

But here’s the trick…

It’s not in the same place on all women.

The majority have this orgasm trigger just above the cervix. AKA the anterior fornix. Some call it the deep spot. Imagine going after the g-spot, but you keep going deeper.

Some women have this clump of nerves under the cervix. AKA the posterior fornix.

Some women have it to one side.

A very small percentage have it on the cervix.

Once you find this hot spot on your woman, watch out! Women cum quick when this magic hot spot is triggered.

This is the double sided coin that makes the mating press is so popular with impregnation fantasy. On one hand you go deep and ejaculate close to the cervix. On the other side, you hit her O-zone and make her come, thus making it more likely she’ll get pregnant.

See, the biological purpose of female orgasm is to bring the man’s sperm closer to the egg. When you make her come, chances of pregnancy increase.

Angles Make Her Cum In The Mating Press… Here’s How To Do Them

The trick to finding her hot spot and avoiding the cervix is to try different angles and versions of the position. This will send your tip above, below, and to the sides of her cervix. Feel every inch of her fornix with your tip till you find that one perfect spot that sends her to the moon.

Unless she is clearly feeling some discomfort or pain from what you’re doing, give each variation at least a couple of minutes before moving onto the next. While the fornix does react quick to direct stimulation, sometimes it can take your woman a minute to relax into the position and truly feel it.

Finally, make sure the mating press (or any of its variations) are not the first position in your session. Going too deep, too early on can be painful. The vagina needs to warm up to deep penetration.

So let’s get to it.

Below I break the variations down into 2 categories. Her position, and your position. I’m breaking them up this way so that you picture yourself mixing and matching, and finding the right combination for you and your girl.

Her Position:

Her legs folded (Ananda Balasana) vs Her legs straight out

This comes down to her flexibility. She simply won’t be able to have her legs all the way straight if she isn’t flexible enough. Knowing how far straight she can go is good to know because you can hold onto her ankles and push them back. Don’t push more then she is comfortable. The more you push, the more her butt can lift off the ground. You’ll see why this makes a difference in a minute.

Her legs spread wide vs spread a bit vs both on one side

This changes how tight she feels to you. The more open her legs are spread, the less tight she’ll feel. The more you move her legs to look like the images on the left, the tighter she’ll feel. Also keep in minds the last version with both her legs on one said will change the angle and have you aiming at a side. I suggest not playing around with this too much till you find the other elements that work for you girl. Focus on the rest of the things in this article before focusing on how tight she’ll feel to you.

Her butt flat vs tilted

This one makes a big difference. It might not seem like much but this slight shift in her position changes everything. No tilt in her pelvis makes it easier for you to penetrate below her cervix. The slightest tilt will have you naturally stimulating above her cervix.

Your Position:

#1 Squatted Mating Press Sex Position

In this variant you squat and lean over her with your hands on her sides. This is the version that’s used for the “from behind” view.

In this version you want to test hitting your tip above vs below her cervix. Do this by moving closer to her head or away from it.

#2 Kneeling Mating Press AKA The Anvil

This the most comfortable version. You can apply most of your body weight on your knees, last much longer, get closer to her, and grind her to clitoral orgasm.

If she spreads her legs wide, try staying in deep and grinding your pelvis against hers instead of pounding in and out.

This MOVE stimulates her clit while providing a completely unique internal sensation.

# 3 Push up Mating Press

Like the squatted version, this one all comes down to how aligned your bodies should be. Is your head directly above hers, or are you a few inches higher or lower?

Just a few inches completely change your angle and massively change the sensations she feels.

#4 One Foot Up Mating Press

This version is how you hit the sides walls inside of her. If she’s one of the minority who have that magic clumb of orgasm triggering nerve endings off to one side, this is the version that’ll make her explode.

It’s not uncommon to get little reaction at all from all the versions we’ve covered and then make a woman come in seconds when you make the switch to one leg up. As you might imagine, try both legs. Each one will angle you to hit one side.

Bonus Tips To Amplify The Mating Press Sex Position

Tell Her To Watch

Women love dirty talk. Most are also very submissive and love being told what to do. They love being told what to do and they love hearing you tell them what you’re doing.

Because of the angle created in the mating press, your woman can see you entering her pussy with every thrust.

So tell her to watch.

Tell her how sexy it looks when you enter her pretty little pussy as you both get hotter from the view.

Pin Her Arms

Use the sides or insides of your wrists to pin her arms to her body.

Don’t squeeze or hurt her from too much pressure. But just enough pressure to let her feel you holding her will make her feel taken and women (especially submissive women) LOVE this.

Loosen Her Up Before Going Deep

As with any position that lets you go deeper than most, make sure she’s warmed up for it first.

A simple way to do this is by just having sex in other positions before getting to the deeper ones.

But the best way is to make her come before sex.

Before you penetrate her, make her come.

Some women come most from your hands. Some come most from you mouth. And some come from a combination of the 2.

The trick is to find out what move makes your woman come the most.

Not what move you like to do the most, but what move her pussy likes the most.

After years of learning, test, and tweaking every pre penetration move I could find, I discovered a simple, 5 step formula to make any woman come before sex.

Not only that but because this method taps into HER favorite move, it leads to the best orgasms her body can have before penetration.

If you want to make sure your woman comes every time, watch the Make Her Come First Formula.

Spread Eagle Sex Position Forces Her Orgasmic Submission

In the spread eagle sex position, your woman is laid out with all four limbs spread out as wide as possible.

She can face up (supine) or down (prone).

She can lay down on a bed, or stand against a wall or saltire cross.

Use this position to give your goddess an erotic massage, devour her pussy, or dominate her orgasms.

I recommended all 3.

Many brush this position off because at first glance, it can seem like it’s an invitation for her to play the role of a dead fish.

This couldn’t be further from the truth.

This position can be exactly what your woman needs in order to have the strongest orgasms of her life.

Why The Spread Eagle Sex Position Makes Women Come So Much Harder

Think about the last time you jerked off.

Maybe you were watching porn…

Or maybe you were using the power of your imagination.

Other than watching or imagining something arousing, where was your attention?

Were you thinking about your taxes, chores, work?

Probably not.

Other than the stimulus – the woman you’re watching or imagining – you were likely focused solely on what you were FEELING.

The sensations of arousal in your body.

If you did start to think about your bills or what you need at the grocery store, you wouldn’t stay hard for very long.

The same thing is true for women.

In order to be fully aroused and orgasmic, your woman needs to be focused on what she’s FEELING.

If she starts thinking, it’s game over.

Her pussy will be as dry as a desert and her orgasm will be impossible.

Many guys ruin their woman’s orgasm, not because of bad technique, but because they make her think.

They take her focus away from feeling… and they get her thinking.

They ask what position she wants, what kind of sex she’s in the mood for, or if she’s getting close to orgasm.

All these questions take her focus away from FEELING sexy, horny, and orgasmic… and they force her to think.

Being dominant is not about being mean, selfish, or degrading… it’s about removing the burden of having to think, and allowing her the focus solely on the pleasure she’s feeling.

This is why dominant men tend to give women the strongest orgasms.

As I’ve said many times on this blog, the position you choose can set the mood for the type of sex you’re having.

Some positions are better suited for making love and others are better for dominating.

The spread eagle puts your woman into a submissive position and give you total control, so you can dominate her focus, her pleasure, and her orgasms.

Dominate Her Orgasms With The Spread Eagle Sex Position

As you’re about to see, there are many different variations of the spread eagle position.

There’s also several different ways to use these variations.

Before we get to them, here’s how to take advantage of her submission (in a positive way) and heighten her senses for more pleasure.

Multiply Her Pleasure By Manipulating Her Senses

Sensory deprivation is one of the most powerful tools in a dominant lover’s playbook.

It’s when you reduce one or more of her senses in order to enhance the others.

Examples of Sensory Deprivation:

Use restraints

Tie her to the bed, wall, or cross.

Use handcuffs, rope, ties, or even her own clothes.

When lifting her shirt, don’t take it off.

Lift it to her wrists and use it to tie them up.

Deprive her vision

Keeping up with the last example of lifting her top to tie her hands, instead you can lift it up to her eye level and stop it there.

This lifts her arms up and also covers her eyes.

I use this one regularly and highly recommend it!

If you don’t have any clothes around, you can always use a blindfold, a necktie, or just put a pillow or sheets over her face.

Anything that removes her vision is great because it builds massive anticipation.

She can’t see what you’re doing and starts to anticipate what’s tome come.

Fill her mouth

I’m not talking about your cock… yet. Be patient.

Again, by limiting what she’s able to do (in this case talk), you’re making it easier for her to focus on what she feels.

Use a ball gag or put her panties in her mouth after taking them off.

Just make sure you’re cautious.

If her hands are tied, she won’t be able to pull whatever you’re using out of her moth if she needs to.

If you’re using her panties, just put a bit of them in her mouth and let the rest fall out.

Amplify Her Other Senses

Now that you’ve deprived one or more of her senses, it’s time to amplify others.

Here are some of the best tools for doing this.

Use a feather

If she’s blindfolded and restrained, she’ll be able to focus much more on what sensations she’s feeling.

Start off slow and gentle with something very light like a feather.

Gently run it across her neck, chest, thighs, and every other erogenous zone to get her focused on feeling sensations.

Wartenberg wheel

Another great tool of arousal is the wartenberg wheel.

You can find them online for about $10.

It’s a medical device used to test nerve sensitivity but when used in the bedroom, it gets your woman to focus on her the pleasure and sensations those nerve endings deliver.

Roll it across every erogenous zone on her body and watch her arousal skyrocket.

Use A Vibrator

Now that your woman is warmed up, pick it up a notch and grab her favorite vibrator.

Turn it on and give her a few seconds to hear it. Remember, anticipation!

Of course you can use it to make her come, but sometimes, use it just to build her arousal.

Placing it on her outer lips, above her clit, against her vaginal opening are all great ways to get her hips grinding and pussy throbbing with anticipation for more.

It’s your call if you want to use it to make her come yet.

Either way, switch it up.

Don’t follow the same routine every time cause this will kill the anticipation.

Hot and Cold Stimulants

Candle wax is definitely not for everyone but if your woman is into it, slow dripping some wax on her erogenous zones can really spice things up.

Use it on her chest, belly, thighs.

Just avoid her vulva.

To give her some variety, use an ice cube.

Gently rub it across her body.

The heat of her body will make them melt all over her and really amplify her sense of touch.

Spread Eagle Sex Position for Erotic Massage

One of the first steps in making a woman come is to help her get release stress and tension in the body.

That’s why massage is such a great way to prime a woman for orgasm.

Start by giving her a regular massage in the most common “tight spots” such as her shoulders and neck, upper back, legs, and feet.

Once she’s totally blissed out, start massaging her more erotic hot spots such as her breasts, hips, and butt.

Work your way towards her vulva and move through each “layer” one step at a time.

Place your hands on her outer lips and massage up and down.

Put a bit of pressure with your index fingers and start to move each lip up and down in opposite directions. This “sandwiches” her clit in between her lips and stimulates it indirectly.

Make a V shape with your index and middle fingers.

Place one on each side of her inner lips and with a bit of pressure, slide them up and down, squeezing her clit gently.

Stimulate her clit directly with her favorite technique.

Some women prefer to be rubbed up and down, some like it side to side, and some need a circular motion.

The motion you use should not depend on what you like, but rather what her body responds to best.

Adapting your technique to match her unique preferences is what makes the difference between regular orgasms, and the best she’s ever had.

Watch this video to learn how to do it.

Devour Her With The Oral Eagle

In the oral version of the eagle sex position, your woman lifts her legs, bends at the knees and rests the soles of her feet on the bed.

Get on your stomach and go to town.

Again, your technique should depend on her preferences, not yours.

If you haven’t already, watch this video to master any pussy.

One quick tip is to put a pillow under her pelvis for better access.

Use The Captain Sex Position

In the captain, you’re steering the ship.

Grab her by the ankles and lift them in the air.

Get on your knees in front of her and enjoy the view.

In order to align your goods, you’ll need that pillow under her hips.

It’ll raise her butt up in the air just enough for you to enter her.

It also tilts her pelvis in such a way that you’ll hit her g-spot directly with every thrust!

The Prone Eagle Position for Deeper Orgasms

The prone version of the eagle is the same as the traditional version only she’s on her stomach instead of her back.

Unlike the prone bone position, her legs are spread and yours are on the inside of hers.

The benefit to this position is that you go very deep.

You’ll feel HUGE inside of her while amplifying the dominance of the eagle because you’re entering her from behind.

Hold her arms down and put your head close to hers for some dirty talk.

If You’re Long, Try The Peace Sign Eagle

In the peace sign, your woman’s legs are closed together while her arms are spread out.

She can face up or down.

Closed legs will make her tighter but you won’t go as deep so it’s best for guys who are longer in size.

Take It Outside The Bedroom With The Upright Eagle

Spontaneity is key to an exciting sex life.

Even kinky sex can start to feel stale if it’s always in the same place, at the same time.

A great way to mix things up is to start your session in the middle of the day, in the middle of the kitchen, living room, or laundry room.

The mindset here is that your woman is so hot and sexy that you just can’t help yourself anymore.

She’s making you so hot and hard that you just need to take her now!

In the upright eagle position, she sits on a countertop, washing machine, or any other piece of furniture or appliance that has the right height.

Lift and spread her legs while you slide in between.

Remember, this isn’t the most stimulating position for your woman but it is highly arousing.

It’s the emotions that make it hot.

The fact that you can’t make it to the bedroom and that you just need to have her right then and there.

Of course you can also use this version to squat or get on your knees and go down on her.

Split Hog Eagle

In the spread eagle sex position, all 4 of your woman’s limbs are spread out wide.

The Hog tie position is different in that all 4 of her limbs are tied together.

In the split hog, her legs are spread while her arms are tied.

Tie her hands with rope, cuffs, or use the shirt trick I showed you above.

Alternatively you don’t even need to tie her hands, just pin them down with yours.

Remind her that she is yours and dominate her orgasms.

Conclusion

In this article we talked about why the spread eagle sex position is great for leading your woman with dominant sex.

By being dominant, you remove the burden of having to think, and you free your woman to focus solely on what she’s feeling.

This is why dominant men tend to give women the strongest orgasms.

Here’s the catch…

In order for you to dominate in bed, your woman must choose to submit.

She won’t submit if she thinks you’re going to abuse that power and do things solely for your pleasure.

She has to believe that her pleasure, desires, and orgasms are important to you.

I made a video to show you exactly how to peer inside a woman’s dirty mind and discover exactly what she wants and needs in bed to have the most pleasurable sexual experiences of her life.

Click here to watch the make her come first video and be the best lover she’s ever had.

Go Deeper Than Doggy With The Leapfrog Sex Position

The leapfrog sex position (AKA Face Down Ass Up) is the deeper, rougher cousin of doggystyle.

Women LOVE rough sex and doggystyle just as much as we do.

It’s primal.

It hits all the right spots.

It makes her feel needed, sexy, and taken.

Doggy checks all the boxes for hot, orgasmic sex.

But too much of anything can get boring… and that holds true for sex positions as well.

The leapfrog is a slight variation on the classic pose that gives variety in both position and sensation.

Think of the traditional doggy style only instead of being on all fours, your woman rests her head, arms, and chest on the bed.

It’s the face-down-ass-up version of doggystyle.

Her legs are spread wide while yours are in between hers… although you can switch to make her tighter or if your pelvis’ aren’t aligned.

Unlike traditional doggy, she doesn’t have to hold herself up with both hands. She’s free to reach underneath and rub her clit while you’re stimulating her insides.

Instead of hitting her g-spot, the leapfrog targets the lesser know (but highly orgasmic) posterior fornix!

It’s an area deep inside of her that isn’t stimulated often but can be responsible for some of the strongest orgasms a woman can have.

Doggy Is Painful For Some Women – Leapfrog Might Be The Solution

Some women can’t enjoy doggystyle because it’s painful. Depending on the reason, the leapfrog sex position might be the solution.

Here are the 2 main cause of painful doggy.

It hits her cervix.

A small percentage of women experience tremendous pleasure when you hit their cervix… but for the vast majority, it’s extremely painful.

By getting off her hands and onto her chest, it changes the angle of her vagina and you can avoid the cervix completely.

Air is entering her.

If you’re on the smaller side, air can enter her when you pull out and cause pain when pushing back is.

The trick to this is to use “tighter fitting” positions.

Switching from doggy to the leapfrog can do the trick.

If that doesn’t do it for her, try the closed leg leapfrog. Close her legs and place yours on the outside of hers.

Closed legs will make her feel even tighter, you feel bigger, and it’ll be less likely to let air make its way inside.

Reward And Encourage Submission

The leapfrog is a very vulnerable position for your woman.

She has little to no control.

Her ass and pussy are fully exposed for your inspection and potential judgement.

She can’t see what you’re doing (or about to do) and that can turn anticipation into anxiety if you don’t first…

Take the time to ease any insecurities she might have.

Tell her to get into position.

Lightly caress her butt cheeks with your fingertips.

Tell her how gorgeous her ass looks in this position.

PRO TIP: Compliments are much more believable and effective when you use specifics.

Saying “your ass looks great” is one thing. It’s nice to hear and she’ll appreciate it. But it can get stale and unbelievable.

Saying “your ass looks great in this position” is much more believable and hot to hear simply because it’s more specific. Even if she doesn’t like her ass, she thinks “Oh, but it looks better in this position.” And her subconscious allows her let go of any insecurities she might have so long as she stays in position.

It’s a dark part of human nature and psychology but we might as well use it to make her feel sexy and good about herself.

Now lightly trace your fingernails on her cheeks for a few seconds, then lift your hand and give her ass a nice smack.

The mismatch of sensations create a “super-sensation” that most women absolutely adore.

Take some time to go down on her while you continue lightly scratching her butt and thighs with your finger tips.

When you’re finally about to enter your goddess, make her whimper by gently swiping your length between her folds.

Press the tip of your hard-on against her opening a bit without going in. This is one of my favorite ways to make a woman soaking wet and begging you for it. It makes her imagine and crave you inside of her. Much like imagining a specific food when your hungry amplifies your desire for it.

The Leapfrog Sex Position Is For Hard Fucking, Not Lovemaking

The foreplay tips in the last section are great for getting a woman warmed up and eager for more.

But when it comes to penetration in the leapfrog sex position, don’t be so gentle.

Some positions are better suited for slow, romantic, lovemaking.

The leapfrog isn’t one of them.

If you try “making love” in this position, your woman will feel a lack of congruence and won’t be satisfied.

So save the love-making for another position.

Instead, ratchet-up the dominance.

Amplify her submission.

Make her feel taken and ravished.

Slap and grab her ass. If you did this during the warm up while telling her how sexy her ass looks, you can repeat the same move again during sex without saying a word and she’ll feel the same emotions when you gave the compliment.
Get a firm grip on her hips. Remember, even if you aren’t pulling her onto you, just the feel of your hands grasping her hips amplifies the “rough sex emotions” she needs in this type of position.
Hold, tie, or cuff her hands behind her back. Being physically constrained allows her to submit her body and focus on the sensations that lead her to orgasm.

How To Last Longer In Leapfrog & Other Dog-Like Positions

Some positions are notorious for making guys lose control quicker than others.

The leapfrog isn’t immune to this.

The 3 tips can help you last longer in many positions but especially the leapfrog.

Use a Standing variation

When you’re kneeling behind your woman, you need to use your hips to thrust. It engages your entire core and makes you more likely to come quick if you’re already prone to it.

By standing, you can thrust with your entire body. Use your legs and hips to rock your entire lower body and you’ll cut down the “stress” on your core that makes you come faster.

Pull her to you

Keep still while you grab onto her hips and pull her onto you. Or – even better – get your timing right and pull her while you thrust forward.

Again, it’ll help relax your core and as an added bonus, it’ll give her the extra hot and arousing sensation of being taken. Very powerful!

Stay deep and use shorter thrusts

Long thrusts that stimulate your entire shaft lead to premature orgasms. By shortening the length of your thrusts, you increase your staying power.

Go as deep as you can and only pull out half way before thrusting forward again.

You’ll last longer and she’ll get that deep, fulfilling pounding this position is intended for.

Try These Different Leapfrog Variations To Find The One That Blows Her Mind

I often say on this blog that it’s often not about what position you’re using, rather how you’re using it. Many women will LOVE a certain position with one guy but hate it with another. The reason is often due to the smallest, subtle differences, and the fact that the better lover takes the time to find her favorite. To master your woman’s unique preferences, watch this video.

Bound Leapfrog Position

We talked about using the leapfrog in a dominant way. The bound leapfrog is the superior version of this.

Use a spreader bar, necktie, handcuffs, or rope to tie her hands together in between her legs.

Instead of holding her hands behind her back (as shown above), tie them together UNDER her and in between her legs.

Other than focusing her attention on the pleasure you’re delivering, the only thing she’ll be able to do is rub herself if she chooses.

Standing Leapfrog

We covered this one above. It’s pretty straight forward. In this version you have your woman at the edge of the bed so that you can stand behind her instead of kneeling.

Again, if you struggle with premature ejaculation, this version will be best since you can thrust with your entire body rather than just your hips.

The Squatting Leapfrog AKA FDAU Bulldog

Instead of standing or kneeling, you squat down.

It’s just like the bulldog position only she’s in the face down ass up position.

Squatting will completely change the angle of pleasure and can make you go even deeper.

Obviously, you won’t be able to last as long in this version so try it out, gauge your woman’s reaction, and if she really likes it, save it for an explosive finish.

The Leg Up Leapfrog

Stand or kneel with one foot while lifting and bending the other at the knee.

This one creates the most drastic change in what she’ll feel.

Not only does it make you go extra deep, it also makes you hit at a slight side angle.

If your woman’s deep spot is off to one side – watch this video if you’re not sure – this is the version you’ll want to use.

It might take a minute to get your rhythm going but once you do, watch out!

IMPORTANT: Leapfrog After-Care

Again, the leapfrog sex position is best used during rough, dominant sex.

If you’re in a long term, committed relationship, it’s crucial that you finish a rough-sex session with proper after-care.

Feeling objectified and wanted for nothing but our bodies can be an incredible turn-on… DURING SEX.

But…

We also want to feel special, cared for, and loved.

If you just get up and leave immediately after rough sex, it will leave your woman feeling used.

Not good.

You MUST invest a little extra time after rough sex to make sure she knows you love her and don’t see her as just a sex object.

Lie her flat on her belly gently touch, kissing, and appreciating her entire body as she basks in her after orgasm glow.

Lightly scratch her butt and thighs.

Sprinkle in some kisses.

Slowly work your way up her back till you reach her neck.

Kiss her neck, whispering sweet nothings, and spending a few minutes holding her and letting her know that you love her and aren’t simply “done with her” now that you got your rocks off.

Being the best she’s ever had means satisfying the physical AND emotional parts of her.

This is true for every woman.

But HOW you do it changes from one woman to the next.

In this video I show you how to fine tune all your strategies and techniques in order to match your woman’s unique preferences and subtle differences.

When you fine tune your techniques to match all her unique differences, you truly satisfy every one of her needs and desires.

Watch this video to learn exactly how it’s done and make sure you’re giving her the best sex of her entire life!

How To Give A Woman Multiple Orgasms With The Anvil Sex Position

Of all the positions on this site, the anvil sex position hits our top 10 list because of how easy it can be used to string together a series of intense, multiple orgasms that reverberate throughout her entire body.

With just a few small tweaks, you can give her a clitoral, g-spot, and deep spot orgasm, one after the other.

There are 3 types of multiple orgasms:

Repetition Orgasms – This is when you give her the same type of orgasm over and over again.
Simultaneous Orgasms – This is when you give her different types of orgasms at the same time. It’s also the most difficult to achieve because your timing has to be just right.
Varied Orgasms – The easiest to give, this is when you give her different types of orgasms in one session.

On this page, you’re going to learn why it’s so easy to give a woman varied orgasms in the anvil position and exactly how you can do it tonight!

But first…

A WARNING On The Anvil Sex Position:

Before we get started, I have to warm you to START SLOW in this position.

The anvil position makes you go DEEP! Much deeper than most positions.

There are only 2 reasons some positions make you go deeper than others:

Nothing is in the way that prevents you from going balls deep (such as her ass stopping your hips and leaving out some of your length).
Her position “folds” her body in a way that compresses and shortens the distance of her vaginal canal.

When it comes to the anvil position, BOTH of these are true.

So even if you’re not very big, you will go very deep inside of her.

Sounds great (especially if you’re not very large) but the problem is that you might hit her cervix and that’s very painful for most women.

So when you first start using the anvil, GO SLOW!

Very slow.

Until you know that you’re not going to hurt her.

If you do hit her cervix, you might be too big for this position or… you can modify the position using some of the examples below until you find the one that’s just the right fit.

Now that you know what to watch out for, let’s move onto why you’re here.

How To Give Her Multiple Orgasms In The Anvil Sex Position

First things first.

The most extreme version of this position will require your woman to be a little flexible.

And as with anything requiring flexibility, you should never stretch cold muscles.

So make sure she’s warmed up first.

Before using the anvil, build up a sweat in another, less demanding sex position.

Ideally, you’ve already given her at least one orgasm before penetration.

Foreplay In The Anvil

Start by laying her down on her back and climb on top of her.

Pin her arms above her head with one hand and start kissing her.

Pinning her arms down is a sign of that you’re in control and lets her know that it’s okay to submit to you.

You’re going to need her total submission if you’re going to make her come multiple times.

Now gently pull her hair so that her head tilts to one side and kiss her neck on the other.

Work your way down by kissing her collarbone, breasts, belly, and pubic bone.

When you get to her vulva, skip over it.

Skip to her thighs.

Spread her legs a little and spend a bit of time on each of her inner thighs. This hot spot is one of the most sensitive and erotic erogenous zones on a woman’s body so take advantage.

Now get on your knees and lift one of her legs in the air.

Kiss and caress her ankle, calf, and thigh.

Repeat on the other leg.

The point here is to get her relaxed and turned on while her legs are up in the air and stretching.

Now hold both her legs in the air and switch back and forth between the two.

Work your way between her legs and use your mouth to warm her up and really get her craving more.

PRO TIP: Something that really helps to give you better access during oral is to put a pillow under her pelvis. It gives you a lot more access and will help with the penetration when you get to it. More on that below.

Go down on her for a bit.

Don’t make her come just yet. Instead, build up an orgasm and get her close.

ADVANCED: If you don’t know exactly how to bring her to the brink of orgasm without using your dick, watch this video now.

By this point she’ll be begging to feel you inside her.

Tease Penetration Before Giving It To Her

Free up one of your hands by using the other to hold both her feet together, or have her hold them.

Because of the pillow under her butt, her pelvis will be raised up in the air and should align with yours quite well.

Gently swipe the tip of yourself against her opening.

Swipe up and down.

Between her lips.

DO NOT ENTER HER YET.

Get your tip wet with her juices and use it to rub her clit.

Rub it up and down.

Side to side.

And in circles.

Now go back to gliding just your head in between her lips.

As she’s breathing heavy and likely begging for it… SLOWLY enter her.

Slowly enter her with the head of your cock, then slowly pull back out.

Do this a few times and go back to rubbing her clit in between.

This will drive her wild and get her throbbing to feel you inside.

Start thrusting just your tip into her again.

With every thrust, start to gradually go deeper until you’re going balls deep.

How To Give A Clitoral Orgasm In The Anvil Position

By now her clit is warmed up and ready tome come.

Now you’re going to give it to her in a way that’ll also “warm up” her g-spot and deep spot.

Lift her legs and spread them wide.

Get on your knees and lean over her.

Now here’s the trick…

Instead of thrusting in and out, stay all the way in and grind your pelvis against her clit and vulva.

It’s that simple!

Now just find what movement makes her come.

Up and down.

Side to side.

Or circles.

Also remember that the clitoral head is just one part of the clitoral anatomy.

The sensitive nerve endings in her clit that lead to orgasm run throughout her entire vulva.

So make sure you’re rubbing her clit and the entire region surrounding it.

If you did a good job of building up and teasing her clit with oral and rubbing your shaft against it, she will come FAST!

Now, it’s time to give her clit and legs a rest while you…

Give Her A G-Spot Orgasm In The Anvil Sex Position

Because the clitoris and g-spot and connected through the sensitive nerve endings that make women come, it’ll be easier to giver her a g-spot orgasm now that’s she’s already come with her clit.

For this version of the anvil, you’re going to get off of her and onto your knees.

Instead of pressing down on her legs (like you were in the previous version), get on your knees and let them rest them against your chest.

Remember that pillow you put under her butt during foreplay? This is where it’s really going to help.

By resting her butt on the pillow, her pelvis will tilt at an angle.

This way, when you thrust back and forth, you’ll slam straight into her g-spot.

You might need to add a second pillow, spread your legs wider, or a combination of the two in order to get the perfect angle.

Play around with the amount of tilt in her pelvis, and the height of your shaft to find her ideal.

The lower your pelvis is, the more upward your cock will go… aiming right at her g-spot.

Once you do, you’ll hit her g-spot with ease.

Finish Her Off With A Deep Spot Orgasm In The Anvil Sex Position

And now for the grand finale!

Get on top of her in a plank or push-up position and instead of grinding, thrust straight up and down.

The trick here is to find out how aligned your heads should be.

Should your head be closer to the wall (or headboard) than hers, should you both be the same distance, or should you be further away?

Depending on who’s closer to the head of the bed, the angle of penetration will change drastically for her.

As with everything related to sex and orgasms, not 2 women are the same.

Depending on the size of your dick, her anatomy, your body sizes, one of these variations will work better than the others for her.

Find the one that hits her deep spot best and you’ll thrust straight into it, giving her the deepest, and most powerful orgasm possible!

A truly epic finish to your 3 piece orgasm.

Conclusion:

Throughout this article, I’ve encouraged you to try many different techniques, angles, and movements.

That’s because no 2 women are exactly the same.

The real “trick” to giving a woman the best orgasms of her life lies in adapting to her unique sensitivities and preferences.

Until now, there hasn’t been a reliable way to do it.

But that’s exactly what I want to show you.

It’s simple and scientifically proven.

It’s called Adaptive Orgasmic Response and it’s the core of my Make Her Come First Formula.

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Piledriver Position & The Secret to Giving DEEP Fornix Orgasms

You’ve likely seen the Piledriver position (AKA Butter Churner) in porn.

It makes for a great view. The woman is fully exposed and the penetration is easily visible.

In the real world, this position isn’t so popular.

It’s tough on the guys legs.

It’s uncomfortable for her (unless she’s a yoga junkie) and might even be impossible to get in without the flexibility.

And it’s more prone to injury than other positions.

So why bother? Cause you can go deep!

It allows for vaginal and anal penetration.

If you’re doing anal, get a toy in her pussy and give her that double stuffing!

This position is also incredibly male dominant so if your women likes being submissive (like the vast majority do), the thrill of this position might be worth giving it a try at least once.

Because her head is lower than her heart, blood will also rush to her brain giving her the added sensation of a “head rush”.

Here’s how to do the PileDriver Sex Position:

She lies on her back and lifts her legs towards her head.

She keeps going until her butt raises up off the floor.

If she’s flexible enough, her feet will touch the floor on each side of her head.

She’s essentially getting into a yoga plow pose.

You then stand on top and squat down into her.

Pile Driver Injury Warning:

One of the challenges with the pile driver is that it can put serious strain on your penile suspensory ligament (PSL).

What the hell is that? Imagine bending an erection all the way back, Ouch!

The solve for this is to lean forward. The more you learn, the less pressure you’ll feel on the ligament.

By leaning forward, you can also hold onto your woman’s ankles and help her stay in position.

Just make sure you’re not pushing too far.

Start Slow and Progress:

First things first, make sure she’s warmed up first.

Use a position like the Valedictorian first and press down on her legs to stretch them a bit.

Once she’s stretched, get her into position and go down on her first.

Gauge her response and if she’s comfortable and responds well, move into penetration.

Don’t start with the full pile driver.

Try the quarter version where her body is only slightly folded and feet don’t fully touch the ground.

Make it more comfortable by putting some pillows under her lower back.

If she continues to respond well, slowly push down on her legs to go even further.

Make sure you’re getting feedback and never push her past her limit!

A simple tip that makes this position much easier and more comfortable for a lot of women is to do it against a piece of furniture like the headboard of a bed of back of a couch.

With the extra help, she doesn’t have to focus on holding the position.

Lean forward to grab her ankles and she it’ll be even easier for her.

Modified Versions of The Piledriver Sex Position

Once you’ve tried the position and she digs it, try a few variations to see what hit the spot best.

Reverse Pile Driver Position:

Same as the regular pose except that you’re facing the other way.

It’s not as hot because you’re not able to oogle each other but it’ll make you hit the other side of her insides.

Make sure you get your feedback and decide if it’s worth that trade-off.

Tighter Pile Driver:

Instead of having her feet on each side of her head, both are on the same side.

The real benefit here is that it makes her much more tight.

So not only will you dive deep inside her, it’ll also feel like your wider too!

Sideways PileDriver:

Some women get the most pleasure from that slightly angled stimulation.

If that’s your woman, try out this version.

You’ll hit a completely different spot inside of her that might just be the missing ingredient to her orgasm.

Try both sides to see which on works best.

Try leaning forward and back to make sure you test every inch of her insides!

What Version Makes Her Come?

The piledriver can be lots of fun with the right girl… but it’s not a great position for giving orgasms.

There are tons of great positions that increase the woman’s chance at orgasm.

But that’s not the determining factor.

When it comes to sending your girl across the finish line, there’s one little-known thrusting secret you most know regardless of what position you use.

It’s the single biggest reason so many woman struggle to orgasm from penetration.

Even in the information age, most guys don’t know this 1 penetration trick that virtually guarantees female orgasms.

Learn the thrusting trick that makes penetration orgasms easy!

Dominate Her Deep Spot with the Bulldog Sex Position

If you wanna fill your woman up and dominate her deep spot regardless of your size, you need to try the bulldog sex position. It’s a deeper, more dominant version of doggy style that’s sure to bring her some extremely powerful orgasms.

How To Do It Bulldog Style

Just like doggy style, she bends over on all fours. The difference is that instead of kneeling behind her, you stay on your feet, bend your knees, and squat behind her.

This lets you go much deeper than traditional doggy.

If she thought doggy was best for hitting her g-spot, she ain’t felt nothing yet!

Because of the extra elevation, you’re going to plow straight down into her g-spot and keep going until you reach the deepest part of her. By squatting higher or lower, you can change the angle and really hone in on the most pleasurable spot. Bonus Tip: Test out different angles to find your woman’s sweet spot.

Finally, she can spread her legs apart wide for deeper stimulation, or close them for a tighter fit.

The only down side to the bulldog is that it will take a toll on your legs.

Don’t be skipping leg day if you want to pull this one off.

Amplify Dominance

Some positions are great for slow, passionate, lovemaking. Some are better suited for quickies. And some are ideal for hard, dominant sex.

Doggy style is one of those positions for dominant sex.

The bulldog sex position is even more intense and dominant.

The bulldog screams dominance.

She’s fully exposed to you, making her vulnerable and submissive.

You tower over her, putting you in total control.

So amplify the dominance.

Give her a swift, surprise slap on the ass when she isn’t expecting it.
If her upper body is supported (we’ll get into the supported version below), hold or tie her hands behind her back.
Grab her hair at the back of her head and lightly (but firmly) pull it.
Talk dirty and tell her what you’re doing to her. Tell her what you’re going to do. Tell her anything but make it dirty and save the “I love you’s” for another day.
Get a firm grab onto her hips. Even if you aren’t pulling on them, just the sensation of your firm grasp will drive her wild.

Now let’s get into the different variations with some advanced tips for each.

Variations:

Face Down Ass Up Bulldog

Same as the traditional except she rests her upper body on the bed or floor.

Try putting a pillow or sex wedge under her pelvis to tilt her core and give yet another change in the angle.

Assisted Bulldog

You can do the bull dog on a bed but it won’t be easy to keep your balance, especially if the bed is really soft.

The easy fix to this is to have her resting her upper body on a bed or couch while her knees are on the ground. She gets to rest her upper body and you get to enjoy the stability of solid ground.

Put a pillow under her knees for comfort.

Since her arms are free, she can reach over and play with herself.

Or… you can tie or hold her hands behind her back to increase the dominance.

Planking Bulldog Sex Position

If your legs need a break and you want to work on your core instead, plank over her.

Works best if she’s in the face down ass up position.

Mexican Bulldog Sex Position

She lies flat on her stomach while you squat above her. Again, pillows under her pelvis will create an different angle and will make you hit a different spot.

Try it out.

Remember, not all women have the same preferences or sensitivities.

Just a slight shift in your position can be the difference between “that was fun” and “How the hell did you do that? I couldn’t stop cumming!”

Onward.

Transition Positions:

I mention this in almost every position page on this website, because it’s so important.

Transitioning smoothly between positions is key to giving your woman an unforgettable experience.

If you fumble around to get into your next position, it can put a serious dent in the mood and you’ll need to rebuild it if you wanna make her come.

So transition smoothly to and from the bulldog with these positions.

Doggy Style

This one is quite obvious. She stays in the same position while you just switch between being on your knees and squatting over her.

To make your transition feel as smooth as possible to her, pull out of her and take a moment to admire her ass.

Make her comfortable and confident in such an exposed position by telling her how great it looks.

How much you admire it.

How much it turns you on.

Take a second to give her ass a swift slap, grab it firmly, and then deliver your compliment before entering her again.

Froggy Style Sex

Froggy style position is a simple 2 step transition.

While in the bulldog, put your hand on her upper back and push it down onto the bed so that she’s in the face down ass up version as shown above.

Pull out of her and pull her legs back so that she’s flat on her stomach.

Now mount and lay flat on top of her with your knees bent.

Since your head is right behind hers, make sure to talk dirty to her.

Prone Bone Position

This one just might be the all time best position for g-spot orgasms.

While in the bulldog, put a pillow under her pelvis.

Push her flat onto the bed with her pelvis resting on the pillow. This creates an angle that makes it easy for you to plow straight into her g-spot!

Find Her Ideal Angle

Remember, as with all things related to sex and orgasms, women are different.

They all have specific preferences and unique sensitivities.

So TEST!

You’ve got lots of different variations and angles to try out so make sure you do that and find out what your girl likes best.

If you want to master her unique sensitivities and preferences so that you can give her the best orgasms of her life, watch the Make Her Come First Video Now!

Do NOT Use The Full Nelson Sex Position Unless She Does This…

It’s fairly popular in porn cause it makes for a great camera view, but the full nelson sex position is one I suggest you stay away from except for 1 very specific situation… more on that below.

First, here’s how it’s done.

You typically start out in reverse cowgirl. Transition into the Pearly Gates. Then she folds her legs towards her head.

You reach your arms under her knees and then back up behind her head, putting her into a “head & leg lock”. If you can reach, join your hands together and interlock your fingers.

Lift your legs slightly and bend them at the knees putting the soles of your feet flat on the bed. Now thrust from the bottom while holding her in place.

Why You Should NOT Use The Full Nelson Sex Position

Below you’ll learn the 1 instance where this can be a great and useful position. First, here are a few of the reasons why it’s usually a bad position for most situation.

It’s not easy to pull off.

She’s got to be bendy. She needs the flexibility to bend her legs far back enough that you can hug them and still reach far enough to put your hands on her head.

You also have to worry about balance. All of her body weight is on top of yours and falling over to one side or the other is all too easy. So if you are going to try the position, take a second to figure out your balance before you start thrusting.

The fact that her entire body weight is lying on top of you can be uncomfortable and restrict your breathing.

It can throw her off the path to orgasm psychologically.

Distraction kills women’s orgasms. In order for a woman to orgasm, she’s got to be in the moment and focused on the physical sensations of pleasure. If she’s worried about the bills, what you think of her, or feeling pressured to orgasm, it’s not going to happen.

Getting into the full nelson curls her lower body and “smashes” her belly together. In other words, it’s going to create those rolls on her tummy. Even if she’s really fit, a curled belly creates those pouches that no one likes to see.

Also, because your hands are behind her head, it’s going to tilt her head forward and what’s in her direct line of sight?

Those distracting belly rolls.

Now she’s focused on something she doesn’t like about her body instead of focusing on fun and pleasure. It’s almost guaranteed to ruin her orgasm.

It Doesn’t Give Her What She Needs

If you read my other blog posts, you know that I’m vehemently against “fucking from the bottom” because all it ends up doing is messing up her grove.

When a woman gets on top, she will ride in the perfect motion required to reach orgasm. If you pay attention in bed, you’ve likely noticed that “perfect motion” is NOT going straight in and out… like most guys do. So let her find her ideal motion and then ride you to orgasm.

The full nelson is different because she can’t do any thrusting. Also, as you’re about to see, one of the only times I suggest you try this position is if she needs deep and fast thrusting in order to orgasm.

Click here to learn the 3 Best Sex Positions for female orgasms.

The Only Time You Should Use The Full Nelson Sex Position

So now that you know why you shouldn’t use this position, it’s time to go over why you should. Or more accurately when you should.

Obviously you want to try this position if your woman asks for it specifically or if you’re both committed to checking every sex position off your bucket list.

But here’s the big one…

The only time I recommend the full nelson…

If you’re a regular reader, then you know how much I hammer on the fact that all women are different and you need to adapt your techniques to match your womans preferences.

When it comes to giving a woman orgasms, you generally find the technique that works best for her and keep going all the way to a climax.

Some women need you to increase the speed or pressure right at the end, some need you to keep doing the exact same thing…

But there are some women who just won’t cross the finish line unless you do something dramatically different when she’s nearing the peak.

If your woman is like this, then the full nelson sex position just might be the missing link to making her come.

If she rides you in cowgirl and manages to bring herself to the brink of orgasm but can never cross the finish line, it’s highly likely she needs something completely different right before her orgasm disappears.

This is the only time I recommend you try this position out.

BUT…

Even in that case, I wouldn’t recommend the full, full nelson.

Do the position as described above but only wrap your arms around her legs, not her head.

As we talked about, it can get her focused on her belly… and it’s just not very comfortable. It puts an uncomfortable (possibly even painful) strain on the neck to will distract her focus.

So try out the full nelson WITHOUT your hands behind her head and also check out some of the variations below.

Different Ways To Do The Full Nelson Sex Position

Oystered Nelson

This is a variation of both the full nelson and the Viennese Oyster.

Instead of putting your hands behind her head and creating the neck strain and inevitable view of her belly rolls, she’s the one who’s dictating just how much she wants to get into position.

If she’s already comfortable doing the Viennese oyster (sometimes referred to as the pretzel position), then this is just a matter of doing the pose while she’s lying on top of you instead of the other way around.

Think of it as the oyster but she’s on top instead of you.

The biggest challenge in this position will be for her to keep her balance so make sure you get that settled before you start thrusting.

Nelson’s Sandwich (Threesome Position)

Just as it sounds, this one is for a threesome. Use it with another guy or girl if one wears a strap-on.

One of you can enter her vagina while the other is in her ass, or you could both enter the same hole.

Just make sure she’s okay with it first.

A major benefit to this version is that the guy (or girl) on top can do all the thrusting while the guy (or girl) on the bottom stays in place. As long as the top giving is thrusting hard enough, it’ll rock your woman back and forth on you as well.

Dog Meet Nelson

It might look like something only possible in a hentai cartoon, but it is doable and can be fun to try.

Start in a standing doggy. Her feet flat on the floor, bent over at the waist, and hands on the ground.

As you stand behind her, bend forward and wrap your arms under the insides of her knees.

Once you’re confident it’s safe, reach all the way behind her head and slowly pick her up off the ground.

Standing Bully Nelson

This one is quite simple. It’s essentially the full nelson while standing without lifting her legs.

That said, since women are usually shorter than men, she will be lifted up off the ground. If she’s flexible enough, she can also wrap her legs around your legs.

Using this position for anal? It’ll be quite easy to pound back and forth.

But if you’re having vaginal sex, it’s a bit more tricky. She’ll need to tilt her hips so that you can enter her.

Enter her while in a standing position like standing doggy and then pick her up while you stay inside her.

It’s easier said than done but can make for quite the dominant experience.

Speaking of dominant…

The Choked Nelson

Some women just LOVE to sensation of being choked during sex.

WARNING: NEVER Choke her. I said many women like the sensation. They like the idea of it. They like the feel of a strong hand wrapped around her neck with a little bit of pressure. Creating the feeling is not the same as actually doing it.

Always be careful with choking.

Instead of reaching your hands behind your woman’s head, put your hands around her neck.

Make sure she has a way of giving you feedback. She needs some way of letting you know if it’s too much.

Obviously you can’t see her facial expression in this position. You might not be able to hear her say her safe word. And since her arms are “locked up”, she might not be able to give you a gestures. All this makes it that much more important that you establish some way of communicating when it’s too much.

So there you have it.

The full nelson sex position, why you should or shouldn’t use it, and a whole bunch of fun variations.

Dominate Her G-Spot with the Prone Bone Sex Position

If your woman loves doggy style, you’ve got to try out the prone bone position. Like traditional doggy, the prone bone also hits the g-spot with ease but… it also makes you go MUCH deeper so she feels all your fullness!

Even if you’re on the smaller side, you’ll feel huge inside her.

If you’re longer than average, you’ll be able to go deep without hitting her cervix.

The prone bone truly is one of the greatest, most orgasmic positions there are. In fact it’s loved by so many that there’s even a prone bone subreddit, one of only a handful of positions to claim their own spot on the site.

To get into it, flatten your woman out on a bed, face down. Get on top and enter her from behind.

To make sure you’re giving her the best sex she’s ever had in the prone bone position, test and tweak different variations.

As with every thing related to sex, not all women like the same things.

Different women have unique sensitivities.

Their g-spots and clits can react differently to different moves.

Their “hot spots” can be in slightly different places.

To really master the prone bone position, you need to test out a few different variations to find the one that hits the spot just right.

The most important thing to test in the prone bone position is your angles of penetration.

Specifically, the pelvic tilt, and the side tilt.

Different angles of pelvic tilt.

The reason this position works so well for giving women powerful orgasms is because you’re thrusting straight down into her g-spot.

By tilting her pelvis, your penis can plow straight into it and keep going, rubbing against the entire upper wall where the g-spot and deep spot are.

Have her stick her butt out or make it easier on her by putting a pillow or sex wedge under her hips.

This naturally tilts her pelvis and makes it much more comfortable to receive your powerful pounding.

Try no tilt, vs tilting with 1 pillow, vs tilting with 2.

Enter her straight on vs from the side.

This one’s really simple. In one version, come in straight from behind with both your legs between or on the outside of hers. In the second version, straddle one of her legs with yours, making you come in at an angle.

For some women, coming in at an angle like this is make you hit the perfect spot!

Now that you’ve found the perfect angle to make her come, let’s talk about framing.

We all know “women need to be warmed up first”… but…

Even though the prone bone is one of my favorite go to positions, I don’t recommend using it as the first position in your session. It’s a position I like to save until she’s properly warmed up and is on the verge of orgasm or ready for a second, or third, or more.

That said, women really respond well to being taken back and forth between slow “love-making” to rough fucking.

So start off slow in this position. Especially when you’re testing out the different variations and fine-tuning to discover her preferences.

It’s a very dominant position, which is why you’ll want to spend most time giving her rough sex, but it’s also more intimate than traditional doggy style.

Why?

Your bodies are much closer together.

If you’re leaning over her, your head is directly above hers in the perfect position for some sweet or dirty talk, and if she turns her head to the side, you can kiss her.

Start slow and gentle. Take your time thrusting all the way in, slowly. Remember, this position makes you go very DEEP. Depending on what positions you’ve used in the past, this might be the deepest she’s ever felt you.

So give her time to enjoy every extra bit of you.

If you go too fast, she won’t get to enjoy all the new sensations.

Kiss her neck, shoulders, and if she turns her head, you can even kiss her cheek and mouth.

Whisper sweet nothings into her ear.

Now, as you both get more aroused, start to turn up the heat.

If you remember nothing else from this blog, remember this:

Men want women, and women want to be wanted.

Now what makes a woman feel wanted? I’m talking about feeling wanted sexually here.

What makes her feel sexually attractive and wanted is when you get so hard and turned on that you’re barely able to control yourself.

Imagine a woman was so turned on by you that she was barely able to control herself.

What would that look like?

Would she slowly, make sweet, gently love to you?

No.

She’d throw you down, pin you against the bed and fuck your brains out!

This is what you want to give her… once she’s warmed up of course.

So as you’re making love for a couple of minutes in this position, she’s also making you harder, more aroused, and sending you closer to the verge of losing control.

As you get more turned on, you start fucking her a little harder.

You pin her arms down on the bed.

Your sweet nothings turn to dirty talk.

Caressing her neck and shoulders turns into pushing her head down onto the bed or pulling her hair. All of this without hurting her of course.

Smoothly progress from slow lovemaking while you figure out her preferences, to raw, animalistic pounding straight down into her g-spot and you just might end up giving her the strongest orgasm of her life!

Make Her Come BEFORE Sex To Skyrocket Her Chances of Coming Again During Sex

We all know women are capable of having multiple orgasms.

Once a woman has her first orgasm, she goes into an “orgasmic state” where it’s much easier for her to come again, and again. Her orgasms also become stronger and they take a lot less time.

So if you want to give her 2, 3, 4, or more orgasms, give her that first orgasm before sex.

Here’s the key:

Every woman is different.

Some come easiest from oral sex, others from massaging the g-spot. Some women need a unique combination of both, and some will only come from a very specific technique done just the right way.

Your mission is to find her unique “orgasm formula”.

Once you do that, she’s like putty in your hands. Coming at your will and swearing your the best she’s ever had.

I made this video to show you exactly how to do it.

Watch the Make Her Come First Video to Learn How.