In the spread eagle sex position, your woman is laid out with all four limbs spread out as wide as possible.
She can face up (supine) or down (prone).
She can lay down on a bed, or stand against a wall or saltire cross.
Use this position to give your goddess an erotic massage, devour her pussy, or dominate her orgasms.
I recommended all 3.
Many brush this position off because at first glance, it can seem like it’s an invitation for her to play the role of a dead fish.
This couldn’t be further from the truth.
This position can be exactly what your woman needs in order to have the strongest orgasms of her life.
Why The Spread Eagle Sex Position Makes Women Come So Much Harder
Think about the last time you jerked off.
Maybe you were watching porn…
Or maybe you were using the power of your imagination.
Other than watching or imagining something arousing, where was your attention?
Were you thinking about your taxes, chores, work?
Probably not.
Other than the stimulus – the woman you’re watching or imagining – you were likely focused solely on what you were FEELING.
The sensations of arousal in your body.
If you did start to think about your bills or what you need at the grocery store, you wouldn’t stay hard for very long.
The same thing is true for women.
In order to be fully aroused and orgasmic, your woman needs to be focused on what she’s FEELING.
If she starts thinking, it’s game over.
Her pussy will be as dry as a desert and her orgasm will be impossible.
Many guys ruin their woman’s orgasm, not because of bad technique, but because they make her think.
They take her focus away from feeling… and they get her thinking.
They ask what position she wants, what kind of sex she’s in the mood for, or if she’s getting close to orgasm.
All these questions take her focus away from FEELING sexy, horny, and orgasmic… and they force her to think.
Being dominant is not about being mean, selfish, or degrading… it’s about removing the burden of having to think, and allowing her the focus solely on the pleasure she’s feeling.
This is why dominant men tend to give women the strongest orgasms.
As I’ve said many times on this blog, the position you choose can set the mood for the type of sex you’re having.
Some positions are better suited for making love and others are better for dominating.
The spread eagle puts your woman into a submissive position and give you total control, so you can dominate her focus, her pleasure, and her orgasms.
Dominate Her Orgasms With The Spread Eagle Sex Position
As you’re about to see, there are many different variations of the spread eagle position.
There’s also several different ways to use these variations.
Before we get to them, here’s how to take advantage of her submission (in a positive way) and heighten her senses for more pleasure.
Multiply Her Pleasure By Manipulating Her Senses
Sensory deprivation is one of the most powerful tools in a dominant lover’s playbook.
It’s when you reduce one or more of her senses in order to enhance the others.
Examples of Sensory Deprivation:
Use restraints
Use handcuffs, rope, ties, or even her own clothes.
When lifting her shirt, don’t take it off.
Lift it to her wrists and use it to tie them up.
Deprive her vision
Keeping up with the last example of lifting her top to tie her hands, instead you can lift it up to her eye level and stop it there.
I use this one regularly and highly recommend it!
If you don’t have any clothes around, you can always use a blindfold, a necktie, or just put a pillow or sheets over her face.
Anything that removes her vision is great because it builds massive anticipation.
She can’t see what you’re doing and starts to anticipate what’s tome come.
Fill her mouth
I’m not talking about your cock… yet. Be patient.
Again, by limiting what she’s able to do (in this case talk), you’re making it easier for her to focus on what she feels.
Use a ball gag or put her panties in her mouth after taking them off.
Just make sure you’re cautious.
If her hands are tied, she won’t be able to pull whatever you’re using out of her moth if she needs to.
If you’re using her panties, just put a bit of them in her mouth and let the rest fall out.
Amplify Her Other Senses
Now that you’ve deprived one or more of her senses, it’s time to amplify others.
Here are some of the best tools for doing this.
Use a feather
If she’s blindfolded and restrained, she’ll be able to focus much more on what sensations she’s feeling.
Start off slow and gentle with something very light like a feather.
Gently run it across her neck, chest, thighs, and every other erogenous zone to get her focused on feeling sensations.
Wartenberg wheel
Another great tool of arousal is the wartenberg wheel.
You can find them online for about $10.
It’s a medical device used to test nerve sensitivity but when used in the bedroom, it gets your woman to focus on her the pleasure and sensations those nerve endings deliver.
Roll it across every erogenous zone on her body and watch her arousal skyrocket.
Use A Vibrator
Now that your woman is warmed up, pick it up a notch and grab her favorite vibrator.
Turn it on and give her a few seconds to hear it. Remember, anticipation!
Of course you can use it to make her come, but sometimes, use it just to build her arousal.
Placing it on her outer lips, above her clit, against her vaginal opening are all great ways to get her hips grinding and pussy throbbing with anticipation for more.
It’s your call if you want to use it to make her come yet.
Either way, switch it up.
Don’t follow the same routine every time cause this will kill the anticipation.
Hot and Cold Stimulants
Candle wax is definitely not for everyone but if your woman is into it, slow dripping some wax on her erogenous zones can really spice things up.
Use it on her chest, belly, thighs.
Just avoid her vulva.
To give her some variety, use an ice cube.
Gently rub it across her body.
The heat of her body will make them melt all over her and really amplify her sense of touch.
Spread Eagle Sex Position for Erotic Massage
One of the first steps in making a woman come is to help her get release stress and tension in the body.
That’s why massage is such a great way to prime a woman for orgasm.
Start by giving her a regular massage in the most common “tight spots” such as her shoulders and neck, upper back, legs, and feet.
Once she’s totally blissed out, start massaging her more erotic hot spots such as her breasts, hips, and butt.
Work your way towards her vulva and move through each “layer” one step at a time.
- Place your hands on her outer lips and massage up and down.
Put a bit of pressure with your index fingers and start to move each lip up and down in opposite directions. This “sandwiches” her clit in between her lips and stimulates it indirectly.
- Make a V shape with your index and middle fingers.
Place one on each side of her inner lips and with a bit of pressure, slide them up and down, squeezing her clit gently.
- Stimulate her clit directly with her favorite technique.
Some women prefer to be rubbed up and down, some like it side to side, and some need a circular motion.
The motion you use should not depend on what you like, but rather what her body responds to best.
Adapting your technique to match her unique preferences is what makes the difference between regular orgasms, and the best she’s ever had.
Watch this video to learn how to do it.
Devour Her With The Oral Eagle
In the oral version of the eagle sex position, your woman lifts her legs, bends at the knees and rests the soles of her feet on the bed.
Get on your stomach and go to town.
Again, your technique should depend on her preferences, not yours.
If you haven’t already, watch this video to master any pussy.
One quick tip is to put a pillow under her pelvis for better access.
Use The Captain Sex Position
In the captain, you’re steering the ship.
Grab her by the ankles and lift them in the air.
Get on your knees in front of her and enjoy the view.
In order to align your goods, you’ll need that pillow under her hips.
It’ll raise her butt up in the air just enough for you to enter her.
It also tilts her pelvis in such a way that you’ll hit her g-spot directly with every thrust!
The Prone Eagle Position for Deeper Orgasms
The prone version of the eagle is the same as the traditional version only she’s on her stomach instead of her back.
Unlike the prone bone position, her legs are spread and yours are on the inside of hers.
The benefit to this position is that you go very deep.
You’ll feel HUGE inside of her while amplifying the dominance of the eagle because you’re entering her from behind.
Hold her arms down and put your head close to hers for some dirty talk.
If You’re Long, Try The Peace Sign Eagle
In the peace sign, your woman’s legs are closed together while her arms are spread out.
She can face up or down.
Closed legs will make her tighter but you won’t go as deep so it’s best for guys who are longer in size.
Take It Outside The Bedroom With The Upright Eagle
Spontaneity is key to an exciting sex life.
Even kinky sex can start to feel stale if it’s always in the same place, at the same time.
A great way to mix things up is to start your session in the middle of the day, in the middle of the kitchen, living room, or laundry room.
The mindset here is that your woman is so hot and sexy that you just can’t help yourself anymore.
She’s making you so hot and hard that you just need to take her now!
In the upright eagle position, she sits on a countertop, washing machine, or any other piece of furniture or appliance that has the right height.
Lift and spread her legs while you slide in between.
Remember, this isn’t the most stimulating position for your woman but it is highly arousing.
It’s the emotions that make it hot.
The fact that you can’t make it to the bedroom and that you just need to have her right then and there.
Of course you can also use this version to squat or get on your knees and go down on her.
Split Hog Eagle
In the spread eagle sex position, all 4 of your woman’s limbs are spread out wide.
The Hog tie position is different in that all 4 of her limbs are tied together.
In the split hog, her legs are spread while her arms are tied.
Tie her hands with rope, cuffs, or use the shirt trick I showed you above.
Alternatively you don’t even need to tie her hands, just pin them down with yours.
Remind her that she is yours and dominate her orgasms.
Conclusion
In this article we talked about why the spread eagle sex position is great for leading your woman with dominant sex.
By being dominant, you remove the burden of having to think, and you free your woman to focus solely on what she’s feeling.
This is why dominant men tend to give women the strongest orgasms.
Here’s the catch…
In order for you to dominate in bed, your woman must choose to submit.
She won’t submit if she thinks you’re going to abuse that power and do things solely for your pleasure.
She has to believe that her pleasure, desires, and orgasms are important to you.
I made a video to show you exactly how to peer inside a woman’s dirty mind and discover exactly what she wants and needs in bed to have the most pleasurable sexual experiences of her life.
Click here to watch the make her come first video and be the best lover she’s ever had.