Oral Sex

The Kivin Method AKA Sideways Oral with Pics and Animations

You’ve probably heard that oral sex is the easiest way to get a woman off, but if you’re struggling to make it work for you woman, the kivin method might be exactly what you need.

Traditional cunnilingus positions only deliver a fraction of pleasure potential and often to the wrong place. The kivin method provides way more pleasure and does so exactly where it’s needed, resulting in much stronger and quicker orgasms.

What is the kivin method?

The kivin method is more of a position than a technique. Here’s how it works.

Like usual, your woman lies on her back, legs spread. But instead of lying on your stomach and coming straight on from in between her legs, you come in from the side. Here’s what it looks like:

Now, when you lick up and down, it’s going to stimulate her side to side instead of up and down. It might not seem like it at first, but this is a total game changer.

Here’s why:

Your tongue makes contact with much more of the clit at once. It takes a lot less time to cover the entire clit and make its way back. Take a look and both these animations. Imagine the blue line is your tongue making its way up and down. Notice how long it takes to cover the entire clit in the first version and how quickly you engage the entire clit in the second. A lot more pleasure, faster.

All this extra pleasure is only delivered where it’s welcome so you don’t overstimulate her. Until your woman is really aroused, the clitoral head is often too sensitive for direct contact. Traditional oral ignores this by licking up and down, head to shaft. This can deliver short bursts of pleasure interspersed with shorter hits of too much sensitivity. Not good. By going sideways, you can ignore the head and focus only on the shaft until her arousal is up and her clitoral head is eager for action. Then you can move over towards the head and include it in your play to provide direct stimulation to both parts instead of just one at a time.

You can add labia licks too! The labia (aka outer lips) are the female equivalent of the male testicles. Not knowing this, most guys completely ignore them. When you start licking your girl kivin style, you can send your tongue a little further with every stroke, including her labia in the fun.

Easier access for your hands. In the old school (between both legs) position, incorporating your hands can be a challenge. Your chin is in the way on the bottom, and playing on top just requires a odd and uncomfortable placement for you hands. But kivin makes hand play easy. When performing sideways oral, both sides are unobstructed and easy to access.

Many women report cumming much faster and easier when introduced to the kivin.

Take reddit user PokerBabe25 for example.

In this post about the kivin, she expresses her frustration in not making her wife cum from cunnilingus. ‘I’ve always enjoyed performing oral sex on my partners, often with “good results” but with my wife my usual techniques almost never bring her completely to orgasm. She gets very close, but I could barely ever get her there.’

Before finding kivin, she poured in tons of effort while falling short to deliver: ‘I often go 15-20 minutes and have her teetering on the edge without managing to get her to come.’

After a bit of tweaking with the kivin method: ‘She came within about 5 minutes of me finding the rhythm and best hand positon! This was definitely a big change’

With results like that, the kivin is a must try!

Is the Kivin Method guaranteed to work?

Maybe, with some women. For others, no. It’s such a radically different experience for a woman that you just need to try it. It can be the difference between giving her light, playful orgasms that ‘feel good’ vs earth shattering eruptions of bliss that literally change her life forever. So for gods sake, try it!

Press a fingertip or thumbpad against her taint. — Pressing the taint

How can you tell if your woman likes it more? Well relying solely on your girls feedback is not always the best move. She might bend the truth to spare your feelings or she might not know that more pleasure is possible. While you should absolutely encourage feedback, you want to learn the pleasure signals that do not lie. The physical cues she can’t control. In the make her come first formula, you learn all these unconscious ‘tells’ but for now, here is one of the easiest to use in the kivin method.

Place your thumbpad or finger tip on her taint (the area right between her vaginal opening and anus.) As she approaches orgasm, her taint will produce involuntary contractions. In other words, you’ll feel it pulsate. She can’t fake this. Once you’ve done this a few times, you’ll also start to notice some other tells she does naturally when nearing her peak. Maybe her eyes roll back in some unique way or her lips do something funny. Tuck that nugget of info in your memory to read her orgasm next time you don’t have a finer on her taint.

Conclusion:

The kivin method will either prove to be the best way to go down on your girl or not. Either way, you owe it to yourself to try it out. It just might have the biggest impact on your sex life of anything you ever do.

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Master the Kneeling Blowjob Position with These 2 Power Plays

Few things turn a man on more than watching you tie up your hair, push him up against a wall, and drop to your knees before devouring him. The kneeling blowjob position might just be the most powerful tool in your sexual arsenal. Try the positions and power plays on this page to make your man melt and get him to do every nasty thing you want!

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Why Guys Love The Kneeling Blowjob Position

Sexual Psychology – It doesn’t matter if we’re talking about the most vicious predator in the animal kingdom, a bloodied soldier at war, or the most hardcore male feminist. Men are hardwired to seek higher ground and dominate. By getting on your knees and servicing him, you smack the power dynamic and trigger your mans deepest, most primal desire to dominate.

Blood Flow – Ever notice how a mans erection just doesn’t look the same when he’s lying down? It’s because the blood flow in his member pushes his erection down in the same direction as gravity. There’s no resistance. No pressure. No pleasure. But when your man stands and his erection fights against gravity, it amplifies the sensation and makes his hard on that much… harder.

His Most Sensitive Spot is RIGHT THERE – In case you didn’t know it already, the frenulum (the area where his head meets the shaft on the underside) is the most sensitive spot on the entire penis. When giving a blowjob from the kneeling position, your tongue is in the perfect place to rub against his frenulum and give him the most blissful sensations he can experience.

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It Gives Your Neck A Break

In the laying on your stomach blowjob position, your neck can get sore very quick. There are some quick fix tips that can help but sometimes you just can’t take it anymore and need a break. That’s where these kneeling blowjob positions are a life saver.

The flip side is that these positions can be hard on your knees. Obviously a pillow or exercise matt will make a huge difference but here are a few more tips you might have not considered before.

Consider investing in a meditation bench. Simply put, these miracle benches take most of the weight off your knees and increase your kneeling stamina.

Try switching between feet flat on the floor and bent at the ankle. Simply switching back and forth between the two a few times during your session can prolong your session by many multiples.

What To Do With Your Hands In The Kneeling Blowjob Position

The first thing to consider in a kneeling blowjob is what you’re going to do with your hands. You might have never given it much though but simple shifts here can make all the difference for both of you. Be willing to try each of these out and find what works best for you and your man.

Submit & Get Restrained – The beginner version is to simply hold your hands behind your back voluntarily. You can get cuffed or tied (in ways that are easy to escape from or not). Or, my personally favorite, lift your arms up to the sky and have your man pin your wrists against a wall. All of these add to the male dominant power dynamic we all know and love about blowjobs.

Handy Additions AKA Add Handjob Techniques – Use you hands to give him a handjob blowjob combination. There are so many ways to amplify a blowjob with your hands (all covered inside Blow His Mind of course). The 2 most popular are the corkscrew and ball play. For the corkscrew handjob technique, make an ok sign with your thumb and index finger. Place the O against your lips, then slide it back and forth along the full length of his shaft while your mouth works his head. As for ball play, I highly recommend you stick to gently cupping his balls until you know his preferred techniques and intensity.

Hug and Pull him close – This simple little move is an absolute mind fuck that triggers deep loving feelings in any man. Don’t just hold onto his hips when going down on your guy. Hug his hips or thigh and pull him body into your mouth. Grab a handful of his ass, squeeze, and pull him his body and cock into your mouth. This makes him feel (at a deep psychological level) that you really want him in your mouth and don’t want him to back up and away.

Positions for Both Power Dynamics

Way to many people still think of a blowjob as degrading to women and empowering for men. The truth is that it can be empowering to the giver or receiver. You choose. If your blowjobs are getting a little state, try switching the power dynamic to the one you’re not used to. A quick and easy way to establish this is by using a wall. WHO has their back against the wall?

Givers back against the wall is great for facefucking. If you trust your partner, have established boundaries and a safe act (cause safe words aren’t a great option when your mouth is full), then kneeling with your back against the wall is a great position to get face fucked. He can take this to the next level by restraining you with cuffs or pinning your hands against the wall.

Receivers back against the wall is great for fucking him with your mouth. Push him against a wall, pin his wrists to the wall, and take charge. Instead of him controlling the thrusting, you get to fuck him with your mouth. Pin him against the wall and he’ll be your helpless, decadent toy to fuck with your throat.

Threeway Bj Positions

When you start giving expert blowjobs, the desire for more cock might strike. When it does, you have several options.

Invite a dildo to your session. Working 2 live cocks can certainly be intimidating. Before you take that plunge, get a feel for double cocks by bringing a dildo into your session. It’ll give you a feel for what a MFM threesome would be like with a lot less pressure. Dildo threesomes is a fun way to get double the cock without making your man jealous. Just make sure he knows that you don’t need this dildo because he’s not enough to satisfy you. Rather because he just makes you THAT horny. You can blow your dildo while your man fucks you, or the other way around. Take it to the next level by putting a suction cup dildo against a mirror. Weather your fucking or sucking the dildo, you’ll give your man the greatest view of his life!

Want two live cocks? Ahh the double barrel blowjob AKA double bj. No literally, open up as wide as you can and say ahhh. If they’re bi guys or simply don’t have any issues with frotting (rubbing both their cocks together), you can literally squeeze the two together and take them both in your mouth. Depending on their size, this might be impossible. If it is, simply squeeze them together and lick their tips back and forth with your tongue or puckered lips. This move isn’t so much about physical pleasure and sensation rather the thrill or watching you adore 2 cocks simultaneously. The much more common and pleasurable thing to do is simply swap back and forth between both cocks.

Give Your Man the Royal Treatment with a FMF blowjob. The royal treatment AKA heaven on earth is when a man is serviced by 2 women at the same time. One services him from the front with a blowjob, while the other services him from the back with some analingus. This is the most “full body” sexual experience a man can have and it’s guaranteed he’ll remember and fantasies about it forever.

Sit and Lean Kneeling Blowjob Position

Standing straight up while getting head is a rush. From the view to the sensations provided by the gravity vs blood flow… but it will eventually get tiring. At some point, your man will want to switch positions and start fucking, or take some weight off his feet. Stay on your knees while he assumes one of these positions to keep up the fun while allowing his to relax even more.

He leans against the edge of a bed, counter, or table. It might not seem like much but this little shift alone can make a huge difference by getting your mans attention off his tired feet and back onto you and the mind melting sensations you’re providing.

He sits in the boss’s chair position. This is the favorite of many men as he still gets to enjoy the sensations of gravity vs flow while also being in a comfy position. If he sits correctly, your range of movement will be limited because of his stomach and thighs. Fix this by having him lean back in the chair and put his feet up on a table or other surface behind you.

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Bi Guy Reveals: Mastering The Laying On Your Stomach Blowjob

If you want to make your man erotically obsessed with you, there aren’t many moves that can compete with the laying on stomach blowjob position.

It’s sometimes referred to as the pose or the prone position blowjob.

This seemingly basic (yet incredibly powerful) BJ pose makes it easy to:

Use your hands in a variety of ways
Tease your man with visual stimuli that’s just not possible in other positions
Keep control over your depth, speed, and rhythm
Make him feel truly loved and even trigger deep feelings of devotion

For many guys, blowjobs are a sign of love. The only thing better than a great blowjob is a great blowjob that you enjoy giving him. When he’s convinced that you love taking him in your mouth, your man will go to the ends of the earth and slay dragons for you.

Whether your mission is to make him cum, make him forget about his ex, or make him so hard he loses all control, flips you over, and fucks you senseless… the laying on your stomach bj position is a must in every goddesses sexual repertoire.

What is the Laying On Stomach Blowjob Position?

As the name suggests, whatever version you use, you are on your stomach in the prone position.

Your man can lie down, lean, stand or sit, but the crux of it is that your stomach is always laying flat on the surface beneath you.

Your hands can be restrained behind your back, grabbing him in a variety of ways, or playing with yourself, but you are always on your belly.

How To Use Your Hands While Laying On Your Stomach

Unlike giving head while you’re on all fours, laying on your stomach offers a lot of creative options with your hands. You’ll still have to hold up a bit of your body weight, but the amount is massively reduced and can be done with as little as a single elbow or forearm.

This means you get to use your hands in some fun and tantalizing ways. Here are a few of my favorites.

Pull his erect shaft down (towards his feet) with a finger or your mouth. When he’s fully erect, a little bit of downward pressure makes a high reaching erection feel even more intense. Don’t pull too much. Just enough to create a slight resistance.
Pin him down. In the laying on stomach blowjob position, you’re running the show. You’re in charge. Make sure he knows it. Interlocking fingers and holding each others hands might be ok in the beginning while he’s still soft and getting worked up, but once he’s hard, pin his hands to his sides and make it known he’s not going anywhere.
Grab, hold and pull on his thighs. Again, simply holding onto him subconsciously says you don’t want to stop. Add some slight pulling to subconsciously tell him you love what you’re doing and don’t want it to end.
Right before he cums, make an ok sign with your fingers around his balls and carefully pull them away from his body. Like an orgasm prolonging magic trick, this lengthens the trip his semen needs to take, making his orgasm last just a wee bit longer.

Right after he cums, wrap a hand around his shaft, press your thumb tip against his corpus spongiosum and drain out every drop like a tube of toothpaste.

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Create Hypnotic Views He Can’t Look Away From

Everyone knows how visual men are. Even a slightly suggestive sight can make a man hard as steel.

When getting a blowjob, there’s no hotter view then to see your giver adore what they’re doing. Watching you smirk, smile, and laugh while working our cock can put us in a trance faster than anything else.

Creating Views When He Can See Your Face

In the standard version of this position, your man can see your face. Eye contact is possible, even easy with a slight head tilt on his part.

Pull his shaft down (like shown/talked about above), tilt your head, and:

Look him in the eyes
Smile with your mouth and eyes
Take him as deep as you can while looking him in the eyes and wink at him
When you need to come up for air, lick his shaft and let him see your tongue. Yup, guys are suckers for a clean, wet tongue lapping up their shaft.

Creating Views When He Can’t See Your Face

Below we’ll go over some of the best variations for the laying on stomach blowjob position. Some of these variations make it hard (even impossible) for him to see your facial expressions. In these versions, the tips above won’t be much help.

Here’s how to give him a killer view when you’re on your stomach but can’t see each others face:

Lift your feet up in the air to trigger his foot fetish. Maybe he has a foot fetish and he doesn’t know it yet. Seeing your sexy soles while he’s deep in a state of bliss might just awaken that hidden fetish.
Enhance your ass with a whale tail. If he’s sitting or standing, he’s going to have a rare upside down view of your butt. A timeless way to enhance this view is with bright and/or sexy underwear. If you still have pants on, pull your undies up slightly to give him a whale tail view.
Let him be a voyeur. This one is kind of sneaky, but it works like gangbusters. Position yourself in front of a mirror so that he can look over and see between your legs. Rub yourself while devouring him. Stop for a second every now and then to let out a moan. While searching for the cause, he’ll eventually catch the reflection in the mirror and have a voyeurs view of just how turned on you’re getting from tasting him.

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Different Ways To Do The Laying On Stomach Blowjob Position

When it comes to the way you’re positioned, there isn’t much room for variation.

Rest your forearms on the bed in front of you, or you place them behind your back. Clasp them together, grab your ankles, or get restrained with ropes or cuffs. Hug his hips or hold onto him in a variety of ways.

The real variants of this pose come down to his position. Here are the most common variants.

He Lies Down with you Between His Legs

In the most common version of this position, your man lies on his back starfish style while you lay between his spread legs. Compared to coming in from the side, your tongue is directly under his frenulum which is by far the most sensitive part of the entire penis. Swish your tongue from side to side or up and down while pressed against his frenulum and feel him absolutely melt.

Lean on your elbows and reach your hands up to fondle his balls and shaft. Switch things up by sliding your arms under his knees and reach his belly, pubic bone, and shaft from above.

When you’re ready to move on, pick yourself up and go into all fours – or – turn your body perpendicular to his so that…

He Lies Down while you Come In From the Side

Same as the previous version except you’re perpendicular to each other. From this angle he still gets to see your face and expressions, and he also gets to see (and play with) the rest of your body. He can caress your ass, explore between your legs, reach your boobs or hold and play with your hair.

Unlike other version, you can use all the visual tricks from both categories above. Take advantage of that well placed mirror off to the side of your bed and give him a show of you rubbing yourself while worshipping his instrument.

He Stands AKA Prone Face Fucking

This is the ideal version to submit for some face fucking. Contrary to previous version, he’s running the show now. Not you. He’s got total control over the thrusting and you don’t have any.

He can see your entire backside, lean over and spank you, fuck you with a finger or toy, or just admire the view while thrusting in and out of your mouth. Once he’s earned your absolute trust, he might restrain your hands behind your back while using your throat. OR you can restrain yourself by reaching back and grabbing your ankles.

He Sits AKA Game’s On

This one is similar to the sideways version of the laying on your stomach blowjob pose only he’s sitting instead of laying down. There’s a bit less room for you to work your magic since his thigh and belly are in the way. Try placing one hand behind his back and the other over his thigh. You can also try sliding your second hand under his thigh and reach his cock and balls from below. Just beware this version can put your arm to sleep fairly quick if he’s too heavy with his leg.

Use this pose while he’s playing a video game and challenge him to see how long he can keep his character alive. Or just use it while watching a movie when you’re in the mood to Netflix and chill.

Prone Dildo BJ Threesome

Finally, because I’ve been asked over and over about dildo threesomes and practicing blowjobs with dildos, I figured I’d share this gem.

Imagine practicing your blowjob skills and opening your throat on a dildo while your man gets on top and enters you from behind.

It’s a great way to get some sensations of a threesome without the jealousy. Do it in front of a mirror so he can see you suck a toy while he plows deep inside of you. Also opens up your throat and prepares you for the switch.

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Face Sitting Femdom Position – The ultimate BDSM kink to learn…

Face sitting AKA queening is when a woman sits on your face and allows or forces oral. It’s often associated with femdom and bdsm.

Your woman can kneel, squat, or sit on a throne. Yes there are actually “thrones” made and sold for the sole purpose of face sitting.

She can face your head, a side, or your feet.

Although there is one issue with the latter.

Facing towards your feet can take away from the pleasure for her because seeing your lonely cock sit there unattended can make her feel like she should bend over and please you too.

On the other hand, if going down on your girl makes you hard, seeing you progressively get harder and she sits on your face can be a major turn-on.

One way to get the benefit while avoiding the con here is to use this version of the position while you’ve got your underwear still on. A barrier that prevents her from going down while also being loose or thin enough for your erection to be obvious through them.

WARNING ABOUT FACE SITTING:

Safe words are a must with risky positions like this. In the case of face sitting, safe words don’t cut it since you might not be able to get any words out. So make sure you get clear on a safe ACT. Tapping out on her thighs is a simple a effective one that should do the trick.

There are 2 main techniques for face sitting. She can sit still while you work your magic. Not easy since your neck will have to fight gravity the entire time.

Or you stay still while she grinds away and fucks your face. Relax, pay attention to her movements, and this can be the most exciting reconnaissance mission of your life.

Use this experience to learn everything you can about your girls oral preferences. Notice the speed, pressure, and rhythm she uses to grind your tongue. Notice if or how these elements change as she gets more and more into it. Take not of every move she makes and your oral game will have no choice but to level up immediately.

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How To Satisfy 2 Women In The MFF Daisy Chain Oral Sex Position

The daisy chain sex position (sometimes called 69-a-trois) is when 3 or more people simultaneously give oral sex to one person, while receiving from another. The group forms a triangle, square, or circle and the last person on the chain gives to the first.

Any gender and any combination of genders can be involved.

A daisy chain is a “closed” loop because everyone is giving and receiving oral.

A daisy train is open ended where the last person on each end is only giving, or receiving. It’s also sometimes called the caterpillar position.

daisy train sex position — The Daisy Train Position

There are many different ways to have a daisy chain, but in this article, I’m going to talk about it from the perspective of one guy with 2 girls.

Tips For The Daisy Chain Sex Position

Holding your head up on it’s side gets tiring fast, and can put some seriously uncomfortable strain on your neck. Depending on everyone’s positions, you might be able to sneak a pillow under your head, or use your receivers thigh as a head rest.
Touch BOTH partners. Part of the excitement of a threesome (or more some) is that so much is going on. Genitals everywhere, moans from people you’re not even touching, and hands coming at you from many different directions. Reach over and touch, fondle, and grope both women.

How To Satisfy The One Your Going Down On

In my breakdown of the 69 position, I said that even the best technique is not likely to make a woman come during 69.

Why?

In order for a woman to orgasm, she needs to focus on the pleasure she’s receiving. If she’s giving head while receiving, it’s going to be almost impossible for her to split her attention and focus on her own pleasure enough.

The same thing is true for the daisy chain.

Because she’s going to focus on giving, it’s going to be hard for her to focus on the pleasure she’s getting enough to reach orgasm.

So instead of trying to make a woman come in the daisy chain, focus on getting blood flowing to her groin and turning her on so that once you transition into another position, she’s closer to orgasm.

How To Satisfy The One Going Down On You

When going down on someone, we like to be rewarded with positive feedback.

No one likes going down on a partner who acts like a dead fish, not moving, not making a sound.

We like to know the person where going down on is getting pleasure from it.

So any time someone goes does on you, make sure they know you’re enjoying it.

Moan.

Twitch your cock and core.

Breathe a little louder.

Don’t exaggerate this, but do let it all out. Many of us hold in the sounds and movements we’d otherwise make. Let out whatever sounds and movements you’re feeling.

Here’s a simple trick most guys don’t know:

When you’re eating pussy, moaning creates a little vibration that feels delicious to your woman.

When the person giving you oral does something extra special and pleasant, stop using your main technique and just moan while “holding” pussy in your mouth.

The woman your giving to will feel a slight vibration that raises her arousal, while the one giving to you is going to get wet from how hard she’ making you.

It’s a win win, win!

Do NOT Let Her Come In The Zombie Sex Position. Do This Instead…

The zombie sex position is what you get when mixing the 69 position with a downward dog yoga pose.

You sit with your feet flat on the floor while your woman stands with her ass in your face.

She bends over at the waist and puts her hands on the floor.

Her head is in position to take you in her mouth while you take her in yours.

She does need to be a bit flexible to pull this off.

If she’s not quite able to reach full zombie, she can bend her knees, you can lean back, or you can do a combination of both.

leaning zombie — Zombie position with the guy leaning back slightly.

Do NOT Try To Make Her Come In The Zombie Sex Position

I know this sounds odd coming from a blog always preaches the magnitude of making women come first, but here’s the deal…

It’s a very difficult position for her to climax in. If she does come, it’ll likely be a very weak orgasm.

She’s got to focus on holding a somewhat difficult position. This makes is harder for her to focus on the pleasure that leads her to orgasm.
Her pussy and ass are completely exposed to you. While we men love it, it’s often a source of high insecurity and anxiety for many women.
She won’t be able to give the best blowjob in this position so she won’t be feeling very confident.

All these things together make it highly unlikely she will orgasm in this position, even if you’re using the perfect technique.

Instead, use the zombie to prep her for an incredible orgasm.

Use this position to turn her on and warm her up for what’s to come.

Naturally, she’s going to be stretching which is always recommended before any intense physical activity.

Here’s how you can stretch and warm up her emotions, arousal, and orgasms:

Arouse Her Emotions

As I said before, having her pussy and ass so exposed can make her self conscious. If she has any insecurities about her naughty bits (like many women do), she’s going to need some positive reassurance in order to relax and get turned on.

Use this opportunity to make her feel confident and sexy.

Compliment her.

Tell her how beautiful her ass is.

Let her know how delicious she tastes.

Make sure she knows that you’re incredibly turned on by having her business all up in your face.

Don’t just use your words.

Non-verbal communication is just as (if not more) effective.

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Moan and groan.

Let her hear how aroused you are through non-verbal communication and she will get turned on as well.

Reframe Her Struggle Into Desire

Once again, unless she’s a high level yogi or performs in the Cirque Du Soleil, it going to be tough to give you a show stopping blowjob.

She’ll be to focused on making sure she doesn’t fall over.

So don’t expect a great blowjob.

Also, don’t lie and tell her she’s giving you a great blowjob. She knows she isn’t and you’ll only reduce her trust. You’ll also condition her to give bad oral.

Instead, reframe her struggle to give you great head as a strong desire to give you great head.

When she reaches for your cock and struggles to take it in, say something like “You really want that cock don’t you?”

Now, instead of focusing on how she’s having a hard time and unable to please you, she’s focused on how much she wants to please you and take you in her mouth.

It’s a subtle but highly powerful difference.

Tickle Her Erogenous Zones

The most obvious target for your hands in the zombie sex position is her ass.

Grab, slap and caress her ass to increase physical and emotional pleasure.

Remember how we said that relieving her anxiety by complimenting her ass is crucial. Massaging, grabbing and slapping it while you deliver those compliments has double the effectiveness.

But one of the most powerful erogenous zones that many guys ignore, is the insides of her knees.

Anywhere the human body has folds, such as insides of knees and elbows, are extremely sensitive and very powerful erogenous zones.

Try this on yourself right now.

Using just the very tips of your fingers, drag them lightly across the inside of your arm.

Now, keep going until you reach the inside fold of your elbow.

Notice how much more sensitive it is.

The same thing is true in the folds of our knees.

Take a few seconds to drag your fingertips across the entire bottom of her legs. Slow down and spend a little extra time when you get to the insides of her knees.

Do this while you’re moaning with her in your mouth, and you’ll get her focused on all the pleasurable sensations you’re giving her body.

Prep Her Clit For An Intense Orgasm

Again, odds are she won’t come while in the zombie sex position.

So use this time to build an orgasm that you can deliver after switching into your next position.

When most guys give their woman oral, they go straight for the clit.

But you know better.

Rather than rushing right to the goods and overstimulating her, use indirect stimulation to make her crave clitoral contact before you give it to her.

Swipe the tips of your index and middle fingers between the folds of her lips.

Avoid touching her clit directly.

As she gets more aroused, use a little more pressure when you get to the clitoral hood.

Now, place the insides of your index and middle fingers on each side of her clit.

Squeeze a little and move your hand up and down.

It’ll feel like you’re masturbating her clit and will get her riled up like nothing else.

Now use a precise, pointed tongue tip to lick on her clitoral hood.

Avoid making direct contact with the clit.

Pleasuring her clit indirectly like this will increase blood flow and get her ready for direct stimulation without overstimulating her.

Once she’s ready for more, start mixing in random slow, full licks with a flat tongue.

Don’t overdo this.

Remember, your goal in this position is to get her wet and wanting more.

There is one mistake most guys make when picking a position to transition to.

Do you know what it is?

Click here to learn the single biggest position mistake nearly all men make.

69 Sex Position Can Make Her Love or Hate Giving Blowjobs

The 69 sex position is one of the most loved and hated positions.

Most guys love it cause we get to admire our woman’s pussy and ass while getting head. What could be better?

But when it comes to women, many hate it.

Why?

If your girl is self conscious about her pussy and ass, she’s going to be a little stressed having them so up close in your face
Women aren’t turned on by visuals the same way we are. Having your junk in her face isn’t a turn on the way it is for us.
Finally, if she’s giving you pleasure, it’s tough for her to concentrate on the pleasure she’s receiving. That means your killer tongue techniques are being wasted because she will barely feel it.

The things that make 69 great for guys just aren’t present for women.

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, then you’ve heard me emphasize the fact that women have different preferences. Nothing applies to 100% of women. Some do love 69ing.

Most don’t.

But here’s the biggest challenge with this position:

If she’s worried about what you’re seeing and thinking about her body, while being unable to focus on her pleasure, and feeling required to perform, her subconscious brain can start to associate negative emotions with blowing you.

In other words, she might start to hate giving you head.

So if you’re going to get into 69, you’d better make sure it’s a great experience for her.

Make sure she’s enjoying it and her subconscious brain can start to associate positive emotions to blowing you.

By using the tricks in this blog, you can actually make her love giving you head.

If you don’t, you could make her hate it.

Before I show you how to use the 69 position to turn your woman into a cock-craving nympho who wants you in her mouth every chance she gets, we need to get clear on the basics.

How To Do The 69 Sex Position

There are many versions of the 69, and we’ll cover a few of the best one’s below, for now, let’s start with the traditional version.

To get in the sixty-nine position, lie down on a bed, couch, or floor.

Your woman straddles your face and gets into a doggy style position, putting her face in your crotch and your face in hers.

It’s that simple.

If she’s much sorter than you, you might not reach each other as easily as you’d like.

The quick fix to this is to put some pillows under your head. It’ll save your neck and tilt your head forward, letting you makeup for the difference in distance.

If you’re a lot taller than her, a pillow or 2 under your head might not be enough. In that case, you can put a pillow or sex wedge under your pelvis as well. This tilts your pelvis towards her face. Now your head and pelvis are tilted and your entire body is curved while hers is straight. Making it easy for both of you to reach.

Now that you’ve got the position figured out, you both give each other oral.

At least that’s how it’s supposed to go.

What usually happens is that one person ends up giving mediocre oral (at best) while the other puts all their attention on pleasing their partner.

If you’re the one doing the pleasing, great! Have fun!

But if she’s the one doing the work and not getting any pleasure in return, it can have some nasty after affects.

So any time you get into this position, make sure you’re going all out and giving her the best oral you can.

Use The 69 Sex Position to Create Positive Associations in Her Brain

Science has shown over and over that prior preferences influence learning new habits and activities.

In other words, if she loves getting oral sex from you but doesn’t like giving blowjobs, you can rewire her brain and get her to love having you in her mouth by going down on her while you’re in her mouth.

Notice that I said while you’re in her mouth, Not while she’s giving you a blowjob.

Have the tip of your cock in her mouth while you give her oral, so that her brain associates your taste (and the fact that you’re in her mouth), with her pleasure.

If she doesn’t like giving blowjobs, that negative feeling could get associated to having you go down on her. Not what you want!

So instead of trying to get and give great oral in the 69 position, use it to give her great oral while you’re in her mouth and she will begin to associate great pleasure with having you in her mouth.

The best part is that you don’t even need to be in her mouth. If she just holds your cock close to her face while you’re going down on her, the smell, feel and look of your cock so up close to her will get associated with her pleasure.

If you make her come while she’s got your manhood up close to her face, you’ll take things to the next level and her subconscious brain will associate feelings of euphoria with having your man meat in her face.

Here’s a few tips on how to make this positive association more likely.

Have Realistic Expectations

If you go into the 69 sex position thinking that you’re going to give each other the most powerful orgasms of your lives simultaneously, you’re likely setting yourself up for disappointment.

Again, it’s tough to focus on giving pleasure, while simultaneously focusing on the pleasure you’re receiving enough to reach orgasm. The same is true for your woman. So if she’s blowing you, it’s going to be virtually impossible for her to focus on her own pleasure enough to orgasm.

Instead, focus on getting her warmed up and close to orgasm, so that you can then transition into a good cunnilingus position and make her come.

Or, focus on getting her warmed up and craving penetration sex. You’ll learn a few tips on how to do this below.

Focus on her

When you get into 69, you have 2 options. You can focus on the sensations you’re feeling in your penis, or you can focus on the sensations that your mouth feels when devouring her.

Focus on the sensations your lips feel when kissing her outer lips, the sensation your tongue feels when licking her opening, or the sensations your lips feel when sucking her clit. Do not focus on the sensations she’s giving you.

Warm Her Up First

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you already know I’m a big fan of giving women multiple types of orgasms. If you’ve been through it, you know that in order to make a woman come, you must warm her clit up with indirect stimulation before giving her direct clitoral stimulation.

This is even more crucial when you’re trying to create positive associations before direct clitoral contact too early while you’re in her mouth, can create negative associations. Below, I’ll give you a few of my favorite indirect techniques, so keep reading.

Use your hands

In this context, I’m talking about using your hands on her body. Caress her butt, her sides, her back. Remember, you want her to focus on the pleasurable sensations that you’re making her feel, so give her lots of sensations to feel.

Make Her Come BEFORE 69ing

Once you give your girl an orgasm, she gets into a different state of mind. An orgasmic state. When she’s already in this state before taking you in her mouth, she’s going to immediately associate pleasure to your taste. Make her come with your mouth BEFORE getting into the 69 position and it’ll be easier to make her come again during 69.

Watch this video to make she comes first, every time!

How To Eat Pussy in the 69 Sex Position

If you’ve already been through some higher level training such as the make her come first formula, you already know the importance of stimulating her clit indirectly before you make direct contact.

How you easy pussy in 69 will depend on this one key factor: Are her knees above, or below your shoulders.

If your shoulders (and thus arms) are above her knees and thighs, you can easily bend your elbows, and reach over to rub her vulva with your fingers.

If your shoulders and arms are below her knees and thighs, you’ll have to reach around, over her thighs to reach. In this case, use your hands to caress her butt cheeks, back, hips, and thighs. Remember, you want her to focus on the sensations that you’re giving her… so give her lots to feel.

BONUS TIP: Get a firm grasp of her body and pull her closer. It’ll let her know that you love having her close and up in your face. IMPORTANT: Only do this if you can pull it off without diminishing the quality of your technique.

Here’s a few more tips:

Kiss, Swipe, and massage outer lips with your hands, fingers and lips to warm her up.
If she’s got long inner lips, suck and tug on em with your lips
Avoid direct contact with her clit. Lick the areas around her clit first IE: licking the clitoral hood, then opening. Tease her clit by devouring the areas around it first.
Once she’s warmed up and wet, give her clit one slow lick with a flat tongue to test out if she’s ready for more.
Regardless of her response, go back to licking around the clit.
If you got positive feedback from the direct lick, go back to it for a bit longer.
Press a wet thumb pad against vaginal or anal opening.
If you’re wanting to transition into penetration after 69ing, insert the tip of your thumb into pussy and pull up, away from clit. It’ll duplicate the sensations of being fucked and make her crave penetration.

Different 69 Variations

As always, one of the most critical factors that you determine if you’re a mediocre or great lover is how well you adapt to your woman’s preferences, sensitivities, anatomy, etc.

One way to make sure you’re adapting is to try out different position variations.

Here are some of the best variations of the 69 position and why you might want to try them.

#1 Classic 69 Sex Position

You lie on your back while your woman straddles your head while facing your feet. She then bends over in a doggy style pose. She can rest on your body but this can make you both extra sweaty and hot real quick. The alternative is that she holds herself up and creates a little space between your bodies.

If she’s much shorter than you, you can minimize the distance by putting pillows under your head and (if needed), your pelvis. It’ll “curl” your body a little and even out the distance.

#2 Classic 69 with an Angle

criss cross 69 sex position — Notice how one of her legs is above his shoulder and the other is below.

We’ve already talked about how your arm placement will make a big difference in how you can play with your woman.

Are her knees above your shoulders (wrapping your head) or below your shoulders (wrapped around your chest). What version you choose determines how you’ll be able to use your hands.

If you see benefits to both versions, you can have one arm above and the other below by being slightly angled instead of perfectly parallel to each other.

Now you can have one arm wrapped around her thigh and playing with her butt, while the other gets much easier access to her vulva.

#3 Inverted 69 Sex Position

Here’s where you switch things up. You’re on top and she’s on the bottom.

Some women actually prefer this so they can relax their body a bit more… but these women are in the minority.

Why?

Cause she has no control over how deep you go inside her mouth.

If you’re going to use this version, MAKE SURE you aren’t going too deep or fast. You actually want to be very conscious of everything she’s experiencing and make sure it’s not unpleasurable for her.

#4 Sideways 69

One of the most loved and commonly endorsed variations of 69 is the sideways 69 sex position.

Very simply, you get into the traditional version but you’re both on your sides. It makes it much more comfortable for the person who’s usually on top because neither of you have to hold up your bodyweight while getting to work.

Bend your lower leg a little while moving the other back or bending it in the air and you’re giving your partner a comfy place to rest their head. No neck strain necessary!

#5 Standing 69

You’re more likely to see this in porn movies than in real life. but if your woman is much smaller than you, you can try this one out for fun.

You simply pick her up, flip her around and go to town.

Obviously, you should only try this one out if you’re confident in your strength and she’s comfortable with it.

Make sure you don’t wander off too far from a bed, couch, ottoman or something else you could quickly and comfortably set her down on.

#6 Head Hanging Over The Edge

One of you lies down on the bed with your head hanging over the edge, while the other stands over their face and leans over.

It’s often recommended as a way for a girl to deep throat. The theory is that it makes her throat straight and therefore she’ll be able to take you in deeper.

In my experience, it’s not a great position for this. Here’s why: If she’s learning to deepthroat, it means she’s not that comfortable with it yet. So she’s going to be a little more nervous and likely to gag. Add to this the fact that blood will be rushing to her brain (cause it’ll be lower than her heart) and it can lead to some unpleasurable affects.

That said, it can be a good position to simply rest your tip in her mouth while you go off.

If you’re both into face sitting (where she sits on your face and basically grinds your mouth), this one is a fun option. You lie on your back while she towers over you and pleasures herself against your tongue.

She can lean over and stroke or suck you off, if she chooses.