The zombie sex position is what you get when mixing the 69 position with a downward dog yoga pose.
You sit with your feet flat on the floor while your woman stands with her ass in your face.
She bends over at the waist and puts her hands on the floor.
Her head is in position to take you in her mouth while you take her in yours.
She does need to be a bit flexible to pull this off.
If she’s not quite able to reach full zombie, she can bend her knees, you can lean back, or you can do a combination of both.
Do NOT Try To Make Her Come In The Zombie Sex Position
I know this sounds odd coming from a blog always preaches the magnitude of making women come first, but here’s the deal…
It’s a very difficult position for her to climax in. If she does come, it’ll likely be a very weak orgasm.
- She’s got to focus on holding a somewhat difficult position. This makes is harder for her to focus on the pleasure that leads her to orgasm.
- Her pussy and ass are completely exposed to you. While we men love it, it’s often a source of high insecurity and anxiety for many women.
- She won’t be able to give the best blowjob in this position so she won’t be feeling very confident.
All these things together make it highly unlikely she will orgasm in this position, even if you’re using the perfect technique.
Instead, use the zombie to prep her for an incredible orgasm.
Use this position to turn her on and warm her up for what’s to come.
Naturally, she’s going to be stretching which is always recommended before any intense physical activity.
Here’s how you can stretch and warm up her emotions, arousal, and orgasms:
Arouse Her Emotions
As I said before, having her pussy and ass so exposed can make her self conscious. If she has any insecurities about her naughty bits (like many women do), she’s going to need some positive reassurance in order to relax and get turned on.
Use this opportunity to make her feel confident and sexy.
Compliment her.
Tell her how beautiful her ass is.
Let her know how delicious she tastes.
Make sure she knows that you’re incredibly turned on by having her business all up in your face.
Don’t just use your words.
Non-verbal communication is just as (if not more) effective.
Moan and groan.
Let her hear how aroused you are through non-verbal communication and she will get turned on as well.
Reframe Her Struggle Into Desire
Once again, unless she’s a high level yogi or performs in the Cirque Du Soleil, it going to be tough to give you a show stopping blowjob.
She’ll be to focused on making sure she doesn’t fall over.
So don’t expect a great blowjob.
Also, don’t lie and tell her she’s giving you a great blowjob. She knows she isn’t and you’ll only reduce her trust. You’ll also condition her to give bad oral.
Instead, reframe her struggle to give you great head as a strong desire to give you great head.
When she reaches for your cock and struggles to take it in, say something like “You really want that cock don’t you?”
Now, instead of focusing on how she’s having a hard time and unable to please you, she’s focused on how much she wants to please you and take you in her mouth.
It’s a subtle but highly powerful difference.
Tickle Her Erogenous Zones
The most obvious target for your hands in the zombie sex position is her ass.
Grab, slap and caress her ass to increase physical and emotional pleasure.
Remember how we said that relieving her anxiety by complimenting her ass is crucial. Massaging, grabbing and slapping it while you deliver those compliments has double the effectiveness.
But one of the most powerful erogenous zones that many guys ignore, is the insides of her knees.
Anywhere the human body has folds, such as insides of knees and elbows, are extremely sensitive and very powerful erogenous zones.
Try this on yourself right now.
Using just the very tips of your fingers, drag them lightly across the inside of your arm.
Now, keep going until you reach the inside fold of your elbow.
Notice how much more sensitive it is.
The same thing is true in the folds of our knees.
Take a few seconds to drag your fingertips across the entire bottom of her legs. Slow down and spend a little extra time when you get to the insides of her knees.
Do this while you’re moaning with her in your mouth, and you’ll get her focused on all the pleasurable sensations you’re giving her body.
Prep Her Clit For An Intense Orgasm
Again, odds are she won’t come while in the zombie sex position.
So use this time to build an orgasm that you can deliver after switching into your next position.
When most guys give their woman oral, they go straight for the clit.
But you know better.
Rather than rushing right to the goods and overstimulating her, use indirect stimulation to make her crave clitoral contact before you give it to her.
Swipe the tips of your index and middle fingers between the folds of her lips.
Avoid touching her clit directly.
As she gets more aroused, use a little more pressure when you get to the clitoral hood.
Now, place the insides of your index and middle fingers on each side of her clit.
Squeeze a little and move your hand up and down.
It’ll feel like you’re masturbating her clit and will get her riled up like nothing else.
Now use a precise, pointed tongue tip to lick on her clitoral hood.
Avoid making direct contact with the clit.
Pleasuring her clit indirectly like this will increase blood flow and get her ready for direct stimulation without overstimulating her.
Once she’s ready for more, start mixing in random slow, full licks with a flat tongue.
Don’t overdo this.
Remember, your goal in this position is to get her wet and wanting more.
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