The classic missionary is one of the most commonly used positions, yet it’s constantly getting called out for being boring and vanilla. The valedictorian sex position is a simple twist on the classic missionary that provides HUGE benefits… even if you’re not very big yourself.
In fact if you’re on the smaller side, try this position once and you just might want to make it one of your go to plays cause it’ll have you going deep and feeling ENORMOUS!
Here’s how to pull off the Valedictorian Sex Position:
- Start in the classic missionary to get warmed up and let your woman’s vaginal muscles relax and open up some extra room.
- Once she’s warmed up and wet for you, lean back and lift her legs in front of you.
- Split her legs apart into a giant V shape and slowly press down on them, stretching them forward. When you “fold” her body like this, it shortens her vaginal canal and lets even the smallest guy reach the deepest parts of her!
- Now lean forward as close to her as you can get. Put your hands on the bed and let her split legs rest against the fold between your forearms and biceps. She can also hold onto her ankles or thighs (if she can reach), or wrap her arms around your neck and pull you in closer.
- Here’s how to use this position like a true all star: instead of thrusting straight in and out of her, focus on grinding yourself against her clit while you stay inside her. You might have to lift yourself higher above hers in order to make contact. That’s fine. Just focus on the grind, cause that’s what’s going to produce the most powerful results!
The combination of grinding her clit, while you’re deep inside of her, and very close intimacy, creates a hat-trick of pleasure that’s going to have your woman screaming in orgasmic ecstasy!
Also, remember that the clitoris is not just some magic love button like many guys think. It’s an entire network of pleasure giving nerve endings that run beneath the skin of her vulva. When you grind against her, your pelvis rubs against hers an excites all those underground hot spots that usually don’t get any lovin at all.
Warning: Because you’re reaching extremely deep inside of her, you might hit her cervix. The vast majority of women find this very painful. So make sure to pay attention, start slow in the position, and don’t hit cervix. If you do, try slight variations of the position.
Try variations of the Valedictorian sex position.
The slightest change in your position and angles can completely change the sensations she feels. If she’s having a hard time coming, the smallest tweak can be the difference she needs. Try spreading her legs wider apart, or bringing them closer together. Try straightening them all the way out, so that they’re up by her head vs slightly bent at the knees. Keep testing and tweaking until you find the version that delivers that grand slam, home run you’re looking for!
To increase the chances she comes during penetration, use this formula to make sure she comes before sex.
She’ll be much more likely to come again. It’ll take her a lot less time to come. Best of all, her orgasms will be much more powerful!