If you’re average or slightly below in size, you need to try the butterfly sex position.
It might just be one of the best positions for giving women powerful g-spot orgasms with and average (or slightly smaller) tool.
On this page you’ll discover exactly why it works so well and how you can use it to give her one of the strongest orgasms of her life… regardless of your size.
First, let’s cover the basics.
To get into the butterfly, your woman lies down at the edge of a bed, table, or counter top.
You stand in front of her, lift her legs and rest them against your shoulders.
Grab her butt with your hands and lift her slightly off the surface. This is the real magic to this position. More on why in a minute.
The challenge with this position is finding a surface that’s the perfect height.
If the surface is just a bit too high, you can spread your legs to lower yourself a bit. If your working surface is low enough, you can kneel to get the right height.
Why The Butterfly Sex Position Is A Secret Weapon For Smaller Guys
First of all, she gets to relax in a comfortable position which is required if she’s going to come.
It’s also fairly easy for you. No complicated or strenuous position to hold and it doesn’t require you to use much strength.
All in all, it’s a comfortable and easy position on both of you.
But here’s where this position really shines.
By lifting her core in the air, you tilt her pelvis.
Without this angle, you’ll thrust straight in and out of her without really touching her g-spot at all, unless you’re well hung.
By tilting her pelvis, you create an angle that makes it easy for you to thrust straight into her g-spot.
This slight shift in her position turns you into an instant stud that easily hits her g-spot without needing a huge dick and with no special moves or tricks.
Add to this the fact that her body is completely relaxed while she can look you in the eyes and you’ve got the perfect recipe for a powerful g-spot orgasm.
You might even make her squirt so have some towels nearby.
Here’s How To Blow Her Mind In The Butterfly Position
The butterfly is great for a lunchtime quickie on the dinning room table, but it’s also a great finishing move because it makes her come so hard.
So sometimes, save it as your finishing move.
As she’s lying on the bed, put your hand on her hips and pull her to the edge.
In Jiu Jitsu, controlling the hips of your opponent is essential.
When you control the hips, you control the body.
When you grab your woman by the hips and pull on them, she feels the control you have over her body.
Consciously or not, she thinks “if he can control my body, he can control my orgasms”.
Now that she’s in the right spot and willing to submit because you know how to control her body, grab her ankles and lift her legs up in the air.
Kiss the back of her calves and work your way down.
Tell her to hold her legs high and wide as you get down to your knees.
Now kiss, lick, and tease the back of her thighs as you work your way closer to her pussy.
Back off a bit and go back to her legs to create tension and desire.
Warm Her Pussy Up Before You Make Her Come
Using your thumb and index finger, pinch her outer pussy lips together.
What you’re doing is pinching her clit INDIRECTLY, through the skin of her lips.
Now gently start stroke her clit, as if it were a tiny dick.
This massages her clit indirectly which is key because she might not be warmed up enough for direct contact yet. If she is, you’ll just get her more amped and rearing to go.
Once she’s aching for more, slowly start to lick the hood of her clit. Again, don’t make direct contact. Just the hood.
When she’s ready for direct contact, start with one slow lick directly on her clit and pay attention to her response.
If it’s positive, keep going.
Of not, go back to playing with her indirectly until she’s ready.
Use her favorite oral technique to give her a clitoral orgasm.
Once she comes, give her a minute to cool down.
Tell her how sexy she looks when she comes.
Let her know how delicious she tastes.
Kiss and stroke her legs.
Stand Up, Grab Her Butt, And Get Into The Butterfly Sex Position
Since you just gave her a clitoral orgasm, her clit will be too sensitive to touch.
Her g-spot however, will be swollen and aching to feel you.
Rub your tip up and down against her opening for a few 10 – 20 seconds to build her desire.
Slowly enter just your tip inside of her.
Now pull it back out.
Do this a few times.
This will get her soaking wet and craving to feel all of you.
With every stroke, go just a bit deeper.
Start slow like this and build it up faster, harder, and more passionately.
Remember, the real trick to this position is the angle of her hips.
If you don’t want to hold her up anymore, put a pillow under her pelvis.
Now you’re free to pin her arms down, or pinch, twist, and pull her nipples… if she’s into it.
If ever you feel yourself getting close to coming before you’re ready, just pull out and go down on her again.
Try The Crossed Butterfly
As with every position, you wanna try different variations to find out which one works best for your woman.
A popular twist on the butterfly is to cross her legs so they make an X.
It tightens her up and make you feel bigger.
But remember, contrary to popular belief, bigger isn’t always better.
So try them both but read her feedback and don’t assume she’ll like one better than the other.
If the crossed version feels too tight, you can also try:
The One Sided Butterfly Sex Position:
Instead of crossing her legs, close them together and put them over the same shoulder.
This will make her tighter but not as tight as the X version.
This one also makes it easy for you to hold both her legs in place with one hand.
Now the other is free to roam.
Use it to play with her breasts, grab her neck, or hold one of her arms down.
Finally, another version of the butterfly that creates a completely unique sensation for her is:
The Curled Butterfly Position
Instead of having her legs straight up and against your chest, this version has her legs curled.
Fold her legs up towards her head and bend them at the knees so she can rest her feet on your chest.
This one folds her body in such a way that you might not even need to extra elevation of the pillow or your hands. Again, test out all versions to find her favorite.
Increase Her Odds Of Orgasm In The Butterfly Sex Position
Without question, the butterfly is one of the best positions for giving women g-spot orgasms… especially if you’re average or a little below in size.
That said, there is one simple strategy you can use to increase your odds of making her come.
Earlier, we talked about switching between oral and penetration in this position.
But do you know what type of oral works best for your woman?
Some like circular licks to the clit while others like it up and down.
Some get more pleasure when you suck on their clit.
Some women need you to finger them during oral in order to have the strongest orgasm.
If you’re wasting your time on a technique that doesn’t make her come, it doesn’t matter how good you are at it.
She won’t come.
If she does, it’ll be a weak orgasm compared to her potential.
To make sure you give your woman the most pleasurable and powerful orgasms possible, you need to adapt to her unique sensitivities and preferences.
