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Mating Press Gives Her The Deepest Orgasms She Can Have… When You Do This

The mating press is not just a sex position. It’s a term used to describe a specific view (or camera angle) of a particular position in porn, hentai, and rule 34.

Imagine missionary with your woman’s legs lifted and her thighs between both your bodies. Now instead of assuming a push up position, you get on your feet, squat, and lean over her.

The mating press is what you get when combining the anvil and pile driver.

Stick a camera behind your rear ends and voila! You’ve got a front row seat to all the action with intermittent shots of the woman’s facial expression on every pull back.

mated and pressed face

It’s an advanced sex position because your woman needs to be flexible, and you’re going to need a bit of leg strength to last more then 5 seconds.

The mating press is often associated with cream pies and impregnation porn because it makes it easy to ejaculate deep and closer to the cervix than most positions.

Warning: The cervix is incredibly sensitive. A very small percentage of women love having their cervix stimulated but that vast majority do not. The vast majority feel pain when their cervix is touched.

Why Mating Press Gives Women Such DEEP Orgasms

The reason some women love it is because of a small group of powerful nerve endings found deep in the vagina. This small pleasure packed bunch of nerves has the ability to send a woman through the strongest orgasms of her life.

But here’s the trick…

It’s not in the same place on all women.

The majority have this orgasm trigger just above the cervix. AKA the anterior fornix. Some call it the deep spot. Imagine going after the g-spot, but you keep going deeper.

Some women have this clump of nerves under the cervix. AKA the posterior fornix.

Some women have it to one side.

A very small percentage have it on the cervix.

Once you find this hot spot on your woman, watch out! Women cum quick when this magic hot spot is triggered.

This is the double sided coin that makes the mating press is so popular with impregnation fantasy.  On one hand you go deep and ejaculate close to the cervix. On the other side, you hit her O-zone and make her come, thus making it more likely she’ll get pregnant.

See, the biological purpose of female orgasm is to bring the man’s sperm closer to the egg. When you make her come, chances of pregnancy increase.

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Angles Make Her Cum In The Mating Press… Here’s How To Do Them

The trick to finding her hot spot and avoiding the cervix is to try different angles and versions of the position. This will send your tip above, below, and to the sides of her cervix. Feel every inch of her fornix with your tip till you find that one perfect spot that sends her to the moon.

Unless she is clearly feeling some discomfort or pain from what you’re doing, give each variation at least a couple of minutes before moving onto the next. While the fornix does react quick to direct stimulation, sometimes it can take your woman a minute to relax into the position and truly feel it.

Finally, make sure the mating press (or any of its variations) are not the first position in your session. Going too deep, too early on can be painful. The vagina needs to warm up to deep penetration.

So let’s get to it.

Below I break the variations down into 2 categories. Her position, and your position. I’m breaking them up this way so that you picture yourself mixing and matching, and finding the right combination for you and your girl.

Her Position:

Her legs folded (Ananda Balasana) vs Her legs straight out

her knees bent vs straight

 

This comes down to her flexibility. She simply won’t be able to have her legs all the way straight if she isn’t flexible enough. Knowing how far straight she can go is good to know because you can hold onto her ankles and push them back. Don’t push more then she is comfortable. The more you push, the more her butt can lift off the ground. You’ll see why this makes a difference in a minute.

Her legs spread wide vs spread a bit vs both on one side

legs spread

This changes how tight she feels to you. The more open her legs are spread, the less tight she’ll feel. The more you move her legs to look like the images on the left, the tighter she’ll feel. Also keep in minds the last version with both her legs on one said will change the angle and have you aiming at a side. I suggest not playing around with this too much till you find the other elements that work for you girl. Focus on the rest of the things in this article before focusing on how tight she’ll feel to you.

Her butt flat vs tilted

her pelvic tilt

This one makes a big difference. It might not seem like much but this slight shift in her position changes everything. No tilt in her pelvis makes it easier for you to penetrate below her cervix. The slightest tilt will have you naturally stimulating above her cervix.

 

Your Position:

#1 Squatted Mating Press Sex Position

In this variant you squat and lean over her with your hands on her sides. This is the version that’s used for the “from behind” view.

In this version you want to test hitting your tip above vs below her cervix. Do this by moving closer to her head or away from it.

#2 Kneeling Mating Press AKA The Anvil

kneeling mating press

This the most comfortable version. You can apply most of your body weight on your knees, last much longer, get closer to her, and grind her to clitoral orgasm.

If she spreads her legs wide, try staying in deep and grinding your pelvis against hers instead of pounding in and out.

This MOVE stimulates her clit while providing a completely unique internal sensation.

# 3 Push up Mating Press

pushup mating press

Like the squatted version, this one all comes down to how aligned your bodies should be. Is your head directly above hers, or are you a few inches higher or lower?

Just a few inches completely change your angle and massively change the sensations she feels.

#4 One Foot Up Mating Press

one leg up mating press

This version is how you hit the sides walls inside of her. If she’s one of the minority who have that magic clumb of orgasm triggering nerve endings off to one side, this is the version that’ll make her explode.

It’s not uncommon to get little reaction at all from all the versions we’ve covered and then make a woman come in seconds when you make the switch to one leg up. As you might imagine, try both legs. Each one will angle you to hit one side.

Bonus Tips To Amplify The Mating Press Sex Position

Tell Her To Watch

Women love dirty talk. Most are also very submissive and love being told what to do. They love being told what to do and they love hearing you tell them what you’re doing.

Because of the angle created in the mating press, your woman can see you entering her pussy with every thrust.

So tell her to watch.

Tell her how sexy it looks when you enter her pretty little pussy as you both get hotter from the view.

Pin Her Arms

press her arms

Use the sides or insides of your wrists to pin her arms to her body.

Don’t squeeze or hurt her from too much pressure. But just enough pressure to let her feel you holding her will make her feel taken and women (especially submissive women) LOVE this.

Loosen Her Up Before Going Deep

As with any position that lets you go deeper than most, make sure she’s warmed up for it first.

A simple way to do this is by just having sex in other positions before getting to the deeper ones.

But the best way is to make her come before sex.

Before you penetrate her, make her come.

Some women come most from your hands. Some come most from you mouth. And some come from a combination of the 2.

The trick is to find out what move makes your woman come the most.

Not what move you like to do the most, but what move her pussy likes the most.

After years of learning, test, and tweaking every pre penetration move I could find, I discovered a simple, 5 step formula to make any woman come before sex.

Not only that but because this method taps into HER favorite move, it leads to the best orgasms her body can have before penetration.

If you want to make sure your woman comes every time, watch the Make Her Come First Formula.

Go Deeper Than Doggy With The Leapfrog Sex Position

The leapfrog sex position (AKA Face Down Ass Up) is the deeper, rougher cousin of doggystyle.

Women LOVE rough sex and doggystyle just as much as we do.

It’s primal.

It hits all the right spots.

It makes her feel needed, sexy, and taken.

Doggy checks all the boxes for hot, orgasmic sex.

But too much of anything can get boring… and that holds true for sex positions as well.

The leapfrog is a slight variation on the classic pose that gives variety in both position and sensation.

leapfrog sex position

Think of the traditional doggy style only instead of being on all fours, your woman rests her head, arms, and chest on the bed.

It’s the face-down-ass-up version of doggystyle.

Her legs are spread wide while yours are in between hers… although you can switch to make her tighter or if your pelvis’ aren’t aligned.

Unlike traditional doggy, she doesn’t have to hold herself up with both hands. She’s free to reach underneath and rub her clit while you’re stimulating her insides.

Instead of hitting her g-spot, the leapfrog targets the lesser know (but highly orgasmic) posterior fornix!

It’s an area deep inside of her that isn’t stimulated often but can be responsible for some of the strongest orgasms a woman can have.

Doggy Is Painful For Some Women – Leapfrog Might Be The Solution

Some women can’t enjoy doggystyle because it’s painful. Depending on the reason, the leapfrog sex position might be the solution.

Here are the 2 main cause of painful doggy.

  1. It hits her cervix.

A small percentage of women experience tremendous pleasure when you hit their cervix… but for the vast majority, it’s extremely painful.

By getting off her hands and onto her chest, it changes the angle of her vagina and you can avoid the cervix completely.

  1. Air is entering her.

closed leg leapfrogIf you’re on the smaller side, air can enter her when you pull out and cause pain when pushing back is.

The trick to this is to use “tighter fitting” positions.

Switching from doggy to the leapfrog can do the trick.

If that doesn’t do it for her, try the closed leg leapfrog. Close her legs and place yours on the outside of hers.

Closed legs will make her feel even tighter, you feel bigger, and it’ll be less likely to let air make its way inside.

Reward And Encourage Submission

The leapfrog is a very vulnerable position for your woman.

She has little to no control.

Her ass and pussy are fully exposed for your inspection and potential judgement.

She can’t see what you’re doing (or about to do) and that can turn anticipation into anxiety if you don’t first…

Take the time to ease any insecurities she might have.

Tell her to get into position.

Lightly caress her butt cheeks with your fingertips.

Tell her how gorgeous her ass looks in this position.

PRO TIP: Compliments are much more believable and effective when you use specifics.

Saying “your ass looks great” is one thing. It’s nice to hear and she’ll appreciate it. But it can get stale and unbelievable.

Saying “your ass looks great in this position” is much more believable and hot to hear simply because it’s more specific. Even if she doesn’t like her ass, she thinks “Oh, but it looks better in this position.” And her subconscious allows her let go of any insecurities she might have so long as she stays in position.

It’s a dark part of human nature and psychology but we might as well use it to make her feel sexy and good about herself.

Now lightly trace your fingernails on her cheeks for a few seconds, then lift your hand and give her ass a nice smack.

The mismatch of sensations create a “super-sensation” that most women absolutely adore.

Take some time to go down on her while you continue lightly scratching her butt and thighs with your finger tips.

leapfrog foreplay

When you’re finally about to enter your goddess, make her whimper by gently swiping your length between her folds.

Press the tip of your hard-on against her opening a bit without going in. This is one of my favorite ways to make a woman soaking wet and begging you for it. It makes her imagine and crave you inside of her. Much like imagining a specific food when your hungry amplifies your desire for it.

The Leapfrog Sex Position Is For Hard Fucking, Not Lovemaking

The foreplay tips in the last section are great for getting a woman warmed up and eager for more.

But when it comes to penetration in the leapfrog sex position, don’t be so gentle.

Some positions are better suited for slow, romantic, lovemaking.

The leapfrog isn’t one of them.

If you try “making love” in this position, your woman will feel a lack of congruence and won’t be satisfied.

So save the love-making for another position.

restrained leapfrogInstead, ratchet-up the dominance.

Amplify her submission.

Make her feel taken and ravished.

  • Slap and grab her ass. If you did this during the warm up while telling her how sexy her ass looks, you can repeat the same move again during sex without saying a word and she’ll feel the same emotions when you gave the compliment.
  • Get a firm grip on her hips. Remember, even if you aren’t pulling her onto you, just the feel of your hands grasping her hips amplifies the “rough sex emotions” she needs in this type of position.
  • Hold, tie, or cuff her hands behind her back. Being physically constrained allows her to submit her body and focus on the sensations that lead her to orgasm.

How To Last Longer In Leapfrog & Other Dog-Like Positions

Some positions are notorious for making guys lose control quicker than others.

The leapfrog isn’t immune to this.

The 3 tips can help you last longer in many positions but especially the leapfrog.

  1. Use a Standing variation

standing leapfrogWhen you’re kneeling behind your woman, you need to use your hips to thrust. It engages your entire core and makes you more likely to come quick if you’re already prone to it.

By standing, you can thrust with your entire body. Use your legs and hips to rock your entire lower body and you’ll cut down the “stress” on your core that makes you come faster.

  1. Pull her to you

Keep still while you grab onto her hips and pull her onto you. Or – even better – get your timing right and pull her while you thrust forward.

Again, it’ll help relax your core and as an added bonus, it’ll give her the extra hot and arousing sensation of being taken. Very powerful!

  1. Stay deep and use shorter thrusts

Long thrusts that stimulate your entire shaft lead to premature orgasms. By shortening the length of your thrusts, you increase your staying power.

Go as deep as you can and only pull out half way before thrusting forward again.

You’ll last longer and she’ll get that deep, fulfilling pounding this position is intended for.

Try These Different Leapfrog Variations To Find The One That Blows Her Mind

I often say on this blog that it’s often not about what position you’re using, rather how you’re using it. Many women will LOVE a certain position with one guy but hate it with another. The reason is often due to the smallest, subtle differences, and the fact that the better lover takes the time to find her favorite. To master your woman’s unique preferences, watch this video.

Bound Leapfrog Position

bound leapfrogWe talked about using the leapfrog in a dominant way. The bound leapfrog is the superior version of this.

Use a spreader bar, necktie, handcuffs, or rope to tie her hands together in between her legs.

Instead of holding her hands behind her back (as shown above), tie them together UNDER her and in between her legs.

Other than focusing her attention on the pleasure you’re delivering, the only thing she’ll be able to do is rub herself if she chooses.

Standing Leapfrog

We covered this one above. It’s pretty straight forward. In this version you have your woman at the edge of the bed so that you can stand behind her instead of kneeling.

Again, if you struggle with premature ejaculation, this version will be best since you can thrust with your entire body rather than just your hips.

The Squatting Leapfrog AKA FDAU Bulldog

squatting leapfrog sex position

Instead of standing or kneeling, you squat down.

It’s just like the bulldog position only she’s in the face down ass up position.

Squatting will completely change the angle of pleasure and can make you go even deeper.

Obviously, you won’t be able to last as long in this version so try it out, gauge your woman’s reaction, and if she really likes it, save it for an explosive finish.

The Leg Up Leapfrog

leg up leapfrog positionStand or kneel with one foot while lifting and bending the other at the knee.

This one creates the most drastic change in what she’ll feel.

Not only does it make you go extra deep, it also makes you hit at a slight side angle.

If your woman’s deep spot is off to one side – watch this video if you’re not sure – this is the version you’ll want to use.

It might take a minute to get your rhythm going but once you do, watch out!

IMPORTANT: Leapfrog After-Care

Again, the leapfrog sex position is best used during rough, dominant sex.

If you’re in a long term, committed relationship, it’s crucial that you finish a rough-sex session with proper after-care.

Feeling objectified and wanted for nothing but our bodies can be an incredible turn-on… DURING SEX.

But…

We also want to feel special, cared for, and loved.

If you just get up and leave immediately after rough sex, it will leave your woman feeling used.

Not good.

You MUST invest a little extra time after rough sex to make sure she knows you love her and don’t see her as just a sex object.

Lie her flat on her belly gently touch, kissing, and appreciating her entire body as she basks in her after orgasm glow.

Lightly scratch her butt and thighs.

Sprinkle in some kisses.

leapfrog aftercare

Slowly work your way up her back till you reach her neck.

Kiss her neck, whispering sweet nothings, and spending a few minutes holding her and letting her know that you love her and aren’t simply “done with her” now that you got your rocks off.

Being the best she’s ever had means satisfying the physical AND emotional parts of her.

This is true for every woman.

But HOW you do it changes from one woman to the next.

In this video I show you how to fine tune all your strategies and techniques in order to match your woman’s unique preferences and subtle differences.

When you fine tune your techniques to match all her unique differences, you truly satisfy every one of her needs and desires.

Watch this video to learn exactly how it’s done and make sure you’re giving her the best sex of her entire life!

2 Keys To Blow Her Mind In The Pearly Gates Sex Position

Pearly Gates Sex Position

The pearly gates sex position gives your woman the control of cowgirl, with the closeness of missionary.

It might look difficult and not worth the effort but enough women swear by it that it’s definitely worth a try, at least once.

Think of it like spooning, while facing the ceiling.

Lie flat on your back, lift and spread your legs, bending them at the knees and placing the souls of your feet flat on the bed.

She gets on top with her legs spread and bent with souls on the bed for balance.

It’s a position that offers g-spot and p-spot stimulation.

If she’s not completely comfortable being exposed to you or letting you watch as she plays with herself, the pearly gates allows her to do so without you seeing. It’ll increase her comfort gradually, which is key.

Many women say this position makes them squirt quite easily. If she’s a squirter, it’s all the more reason to give this one a shot.

As mentioned, her balance is key in this one. By keeping your legs spread and grounded, she has a solid foundation to lie on.

To increase her balance, she should spread her legs and place them on the ground as well. She can also stretch her arms out to her sides and put her hands on the bed.

2 Secrets To Mastering The Pearly Gates Sex Position

There’s really 2 keys to making this position incredible for her.

  1. Let her do the thrusting.

You can thrust from the bottom and some women will like it, most don’t.

Why?

Cause she knows the best way to move in order to git her O spot. She will instinctively move in the right way. She might grind, gyrate, pump up and down, or one of many other options.

If you start taking control from the bottom, you don’t let her find her rhythm.

So let her do her thing and instead of trying to fuck from below, focus on how you…

  1. Use your hands.

Sounds simple but this really is the key to making this position mind-melting for her.

You’ve got full access to all her naughty bits. And it’s coming from an unconventional angle.

It’s a totally different sensation.

Play with her boobs.

Put your hand around her neck.

Rub her clit. (She can even stop thrusting for a bit and stay still while you rub her to orgasm!)

Smack her ass from the sides.

If you are doing the thrusting, grab onto her hips. It’ll make her subconscious flex her vaginal muscles and come even harder!

Grab a handful of hair and pull her head to one side (carefully of course). Kiss and nibble her neck.

Silence Is Death In This Position

Silent sex is always awkward, but when your mouth is right by her ear, it becomes even more noticeable and important.

So get close up to her ear and talk to her.

Moan and groan to let her hear your excitement.

Breathe naturally and let your mouth make whatever noises feel natural.

Make noises that let her know how much she’s turning you on.

Variations of the Pearly Gates

As with all positions, you’ll want to try out slightly different tweaks to find out what works best for you.

Remember, not all women are the same and you need to split test to get the best results.

Here are a few versions worth trying.

Test legs spread wide vs tight.

3 Different Variants of Leg Positioning that will Change the Stimulation

If her legs are spread wide, you’ll go deeper inside of her.

As guys, we tend to assume this is best but it doesn’t always hit that perfect o-spot, especially if you’re bigger than average.

By spreading your legs and having hers closer together, she will feel tighter and you’ll feel fuller inside of her. Apart from losing a bit of depth, she’ll also have less balance. Keep this in mind and make sure she doesn’t tumble over.

If her legs spread wide works best, the next question is does she prefer her legs spread wider than yours (on the outside), or less (on the inside)?

Kneeling Gates

kneeling gates

This is another version that looks hard and not worth the effort at first glance but once again, many women swear by this tweak so it just might be worth trying.

Personally, I don’t bother with this version unless she initiates it.

Arched Gates

arched pearly gates sex position

Here she bends her legs fully, plants her feet flat on the floor and uses her leg muscles to hold her lower body.

While resting her upper body on top of you, she can grind away while you lay back and enjoy.

She’ll have the most control over movement and motion.

Just know that she’ll get tried quickly here and keep an eye out for cues so that you’re ready to switch it up.

Transitioning in and out of The Pearly Gates Sex Position

It’s highly unlikely that your woman will just tell you to lie down and then get on top in the pearly gates.

This is a position that’s typically transitioned into from other positions.

Also remember that how you change positions will determine if you come across as smooth and natural in bed.

Here are a few of the best transitions for the pearly gates.

Split Sinner

split sinner position

This one could have been put under a variation but it is a transition if you’re feeling extra adventurous and want to try the full nelson.

From the basic version, just lift her legs a bit and get a hold of them.

She won’t be able to do any thrusting here so that’s going to be on you.

Spooning Sex Position

I started this article by telling you how the pearly gates is like spooning on your back.

All you have to do is tilt your body to a side and she’ll fall over in a spoon position.

Couldn’t be easier.

This is also the first step if you’re trying to transition into one of the all time greatest positions, the prone bone.

Give her a bit of slower, love-making in the spoon first, then flip her all the way over to drill her hard in the prone bone!

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