male dominant

Piledriver Position & The Secret to Giving DEEP Fornix Orgasms

You’ve likely seen the Piledriver position (AKA Butter Churner) in porn.

It makes for a great view. The woman is fully exposed and the penetration is easily visible.

In the real world, this position isn’t so popular.

It’s tough on the guys legs.

It’s uncomfortable for her (unless she’s a yoga junkie) and might even be impossible to get in without the flexibility.

And it’s more prone to injury than other positions.

So why bother? Cause you can go deep!

It allows for vaginal and anal penetration.

If you’re doing anal, get a toy in her pussy and give her that double stuffing!

This position is also incredibly male dominant so if your women likes being submissive (like the vast majority do), the thrill of this position might be worth giving it a try at least once.

Because her head is lower than her heart, blood will also rush to her brain giving her the added sensation of a “head rush”.

Here’s how to do the PileDriver Sex Position:

She lies on her back and lifts her legs towards her head.

She keeps going until her butt raises up off the floor.

If she’s flexible enough, her feet will touch the floor on each side of her head.

She’s essentially getting into a yoga plow pose.

You then stand on top and squat down into her.

Pile Driver Injury Warning:

One of the challenges with the pile driver is that it can put serious strain on your penile suspensory ligament (PSL).

What the hell is that? Imagine bending an erection all the way back, Ouch!

The solve for this is to lean forward. The more you learn, the less pressure you’ll feel on the ligament.

By leaning forward, you can also hold onto your woman’s ankles and help her stay in position.

Just make sure you’re not pushing too far.

Start Slow and Progress:

First things first, make sure she’s warmed up first.

Use a position like the Valedictorian first and press down on her legs to stretch them a bit.

Once she’s stretched, get her into position and go down on her first.

Gauge her response and if she’s comfortable and responds well, move into penetration.

Don’t start with the full pile driver.

Try the quarter version where her body is only slightly folded and feet don’t fully touch the ground.

Make it more comfortable by putting some pillows under her lower back.

If she continues to respond well, slowly push down on her legs to go even further.

Make sure you’re getting feedback and never push her past her limit!

A simple tip that makes this position much easier and more comfortable for a lot of women is to do it against a piece of furniture like the headboard of a bed of back of a couch.

With the extra help, she doesn’t have to focus on holding the position.

Lean forward to grab her ankles and she it’ll be even easier for her.

Modified Versions of The Piledriver Sex Position

Once you’ve tried the position and she digs it, try a few variations to see what hit the spot best.

Reverse Pile Driver Position:

Same as the regular pose except that you’re facing the other way.

It’s not as hot because you’re not able to oogle each other but it’ll make you hit the other side of her insides.

Make sure you get your feedback and decide if it’s worth that trade-off.

Tighter Pile Driver:

Instead of having her feet on each side of her head, both are on the same side.

The real benefit here is that it makes her much more tight.

So not only will you dive deep inside her, it’ll also feel like your wider too!

Sideways PileDriver:

Some women get the most pleasure from that slightly angled stimulation.

If that’s your woman, try out this version.

You’ll hit a completely different spot inside of her that might just be the missing ingredient to her orgasm.

Try both sides to see which on works best.

Try leaning forward and back to make sure you test every inch of her insides!

What Version Makes Her Come?

The piledriver can be lots of fun with the right girl… but it’s not a great position for giving orgasms.

There are tons of great positions that increase the woman’s chance at orgasm.

But that’s not the determining factor.

When it comes to sending your girl across the finish line, there’s one little-known thrusting secret you most know regardless of what position you use.

It’s the single biggest reason so many woman struggle to orgasm from penetration.

Even in the information age, most guys don’t know this 1 penetration trick that virtually guarantees female orgasms.

Learn the thrusting trick that makes penetration orgasms easy!

Fill Her From Both Ends In The Eiffel Tower Sex Position – MMF Threeway

The Eiffel tower sex position is probably the most commonly used in mmf threesomes.

The women gets on all fours. One guy gets behind her doggy style. The other gets in front of her and receives a blowjob.

It’s more accurately called a split roast. But when both guys high five over the woman’s back, it becomes the Eiffel tower.

If you love hearing a woman moan while a cock is in her mouth as much as I do, this is the ultimate moaning bj position.

Eiffel Tower Sex Position Is Perfect For Hesitant Guys

A male, male, female (mmf) threesome is sometimes referred to as a Devil’s Threesome.

The most critical factor that will make a Devil’s Threesome enjoyable for the woman is the chemistry that the two guys have with each other.

Even if you don’t get physical with him, how comfortable you are with another dude in the room, banging the same woman, at the same time, is everything.

Look, it can be intimidating.

Awkward.

Emotionally confusing.

And it’s completely normal.

But how you deal with these emotions is the real key.

Do not make it a competition.

Rather a shared pool of pleasure… between the 3 of you!

The Eiffel Tower makes it easier to do this while overcoming the possibly tough emotions that can come with having a 3^rd guy in the bedroom.

All 3 of you get to engage in the fun.

Guys are as far away from each other as possible… but you can interact with each other in a way that’s not too threatening or intimidating.

Looking each other in the eyes…

Simple, non sexual touching like a high five…

Watching each other having sex with the girl…

All of these can start to slowly make you both more comfortable with each other and thus, make her a lot more comfortable.

Bulldog Tower Position — In this version, the giver is in the bulldog position. Click the image to learn more about the Bulldog.

MMF Threesomes Are A Lot Of Work… For Her!

Never forget this.

On one hand, it’s an incredibly empowering thrill for a woman to have 2 guys needing, taking, and filling her body.

On the other hand, there’s a lot to do.

In my post on the 69 position, we talked about how focusing on the pleasure you’re receiving, while simultaneously trying to focus on giving pleasure can feel like a losing battle.

The same thing can apply in the Eiffel Tower.

You don’t want her to feel like she’s working twice as hard.

You want to make her feel twice as wanted.

One way to do this is for the receiver of oral to be patient and realize that she’s gonna need breaks to focus on the pleasure of being pounded.

One of the biggest complaints women have about giving blowjobs is that their neck and jaw can get sore.

So let her take breaks and jerk you off for a while.

Jerk yourself off while you watch her for a bit.

Switch into a double penetration position.

Or…

Get In Sync

As I said before, one of the most important factors in any mmf threesome is the chemistry between all 3 of you, but especially the 2 guys.

This applies to how you speak, choose positions, and how you thrust.

If you’re thrusting into her at one speed while your buddy is going at another, it can mess up her groove.

So thrust in sync.

One of the most intriguing and stimulating sensations for a woman during the eiffel tower sex position is the feeling of being fucked at one end only to then be pushed onto the other.

Every thrust she gets from the guy fucking her ends in being pushed back onto the other guy with her mouth.

She goes back and forth from being filled at one end to being filled at the other.

When both guys are in sync and time it right, it can make for unusually pleasurable sensations and also feel like she’s doing less “work”.

She doesn’t have to proactively give head, rather just enjoy being fucked from both ends.

That said, take turns.

When the guy doing the fucking is thrusting, the other can stay still and enjoy the sensation of her mouth being rocked back and forth on his shaft.

Then try the reverse.

Learn her limits and once you know how far back she can take your cock in her mouth, try both trusting into her at the same time.

Be careful with this though.

If you don’t take the time to learn her limits, you could easily choke her and ruin the experience.

Start slow and fill her from both ends as only as much as she’s comfortable with it.

Once you know her limits and you’re comfortable with the other guy, you can hold each others arms over her back and pull each other into her simultaneously.

The final option is for both you and the other guy to stay still while she rocks back and forth.

She gets to go at her own pace, speed and rhythm while you both relax and enjoy her erotic greed.

Give Her Sensory Overload

Another appeal to women about mmf threesomes is that she gets a total overload of sensations.

Double the hands…

the dicks…

and double the sensations!

As Justin Lehmiller, PHD says in his book Tell Me What You Want:

“… the appeal of threesomes has more to do with the fact that this activity creates a state of sensory overload than anything-it’s really about amping up our arousal by bringing in another body that we can look at, touch, and experience in an empowering way that allows us to get lost in sensations.”

So play it up.

Purposefully give her sensory overload.

Both grab her at the same time, allowing her to experience the sensation of having four hands all over her, admiring her body.

Blindfold her to take away her sense of sight, therefore amplifying the other senses.

Handcuff or tie her hands to make her feel even more submissive and taken.

Variations of the Split Roast / Eiffel Tower Sex Position

The traditional version is done when all 3 of you are on your knees, however there are lots of option.

Here’s a few to try:

Lazy-Bj Version

The guy receiving oral lies on his back while the other takes her from behind doggy style.

The challenge with this position is that she’ll be getting fucked and moving back and forth while trying to move her head up and down.

Sitting Tower Sex Position

Oral receiver sits on a chair or couch while the other kneels or squats behind the woman.

Unlike the lazy-bj version, this one makes it a bit easier.

The guy sitting can push his cock down a bit and make it easier for her to move back and forth on it rather than trying to coordinate the up and down while being pushed back and forth.

Over The Edge Eiffel Tower

She lies on her back with her head hanging over the edge.

This way the oral receiver can gently (or not) thrust in and out of her mouth while the other guy dominates her pussy at the other end.

When you’re the one getting oral in this version, figure out her limit before thrusting too fast, hard, or deep.

When you’re at the other end, take a moment to stop fucking and go down on her for a bit.

More MMF Positions

Many women have been fantasized about an mmf threesome and she likely has lots of different things she wants to try.

So try as much as possible.

BJ For Two

When a guy knows how to receive a blowjob properly, it turns a woman on like nothing else. But having another guy right next to you watching her work her magic can be one of the most empowering things she’ll ever experience.

DP Sandwich

If she’s into anal, give her that double stuff by one guy penetrating her ass while the other is in her pussy.

One can thrust while the other sits still or (if the position is right), you can both pound into her simultaneously.

Double Oral

She might love giving head and really trip on servicing two guys at once. When done right, there’s nothing like giving and getting oral at the same time.

If the guys are bi, you can get into a circle where you all get and give service at the same time.

The other option is to get into a split roast but instead of penetration, the male giver goes down on her.

She’ll be giving head at one end while receiving it at the other.

Delicious!

Dominate Her Deep Spot with the Bulldog Sex Position

If you wanna fill your woman up and dominate her deep spot regardless of your size, you need to try the bulldog sex position. It’s a deeper, more dominant version of doggy style that’s sure to bring her some extremely powerful orgasms.

How To Do It Bulldog Style

Just like doggy style, she bends over on all fours. The difference is that instead of kneeling behind her, you stay on your feet, bend your knees, and squat behind her.

This lets you go much deeper than traditional doggy.

If she thought doggy was best for hitting her g-spot, she ain’t felt nothing yet!

Because of the extra elevation, you’re going to plow straight down into her g-spot and keep going until you reach the deepest part of her. By squatting higher or lower, you can change the angle and really hone in on the most pleasurable spot. Bonus Tip: Test out different angles to find your woman’s sweet spot.

Finally, she can spread her legs apart wide for deeper stimulation, or close them for a tighter fit.

The only down side to the bulldog is that it will take a toll on your legs.

Don’t be skipping leg day if you want to pull this one off.

Amplify Dominance

Some positions are great for slow, passionate, lovemaking. Some are better suited for quickies. And some are ideal for hard, dominant sex.

Doggy style is one of those positions for dominant sex.

The bulldog sex position is even more intense and dominant.

The bulldog screams dominance.

She’s fully exposed to you, making her vulnerable and submissive.

You tower over her, putting you in total control.

So amplify the dominance.

Give her a swift, surprise slap on the ass when she isn’t expecting it.
If her upper body is supported (we’ll get into the supported version below), hold or tie her hands behind her back.
Grab her hair at the back of her head and lightly (but firmly) pull it.
Talk dirty and tell her what you’re doing to her. Tell her what you’re going to do. Tell her anything but make it dirty and save the “I love you’s” for another day.
Get a firm grab onto her hips. Even if you aren’t pulling on them, just the sensation of your firm grasp will drive her wild.

Now let’s get into the different variations with some advanced tips for each.

Variations:

Face Down Ass Up Bulldog

Same as the traditional except she rests her upper body on the bed or floor.

Try putting a pillow or sex wedge under her pelvis to tilt her core and give yet another change in the angle.

Assisted Bulldog

You can do the bull dog on a bed but it won’t be easy to keep your balance, especially if the bed is really soft.

The easy fix to this is to have her resting her upper body on a bed or couch while her knees are on the ground. She gets to rest her upper body and you get to enjoy the stability of solid ground.

Put a pillow under her knees for comfort.

Since her arms are free, she can reach over and play with herself.

Or… you can tie or hold her hands behind her back to increase the dominance.

Planking Bulldog Sex Position

If your legs need a break and you want to work on your core instead, plank over her.

Works best if she’s in the face down ass up position.

Mexican Bulldog Sex Position

She lies flat on her stomach while you squat above her. Again, pillows under her pelvis will create an different angle and will make you hit a different spot.

Try it out.

Remember, not all women have the same preferences or sensitivities.

Just a slight shift in your position can be the difference between “that was fun” and “How the hell did you do that? I couldn’t stop cumming!”

Onward.

Transition Positions:

I mention this in almost every position page on this website, because it’s so important.

Transitioning smoothly between positions is key to giving your woman an unforgettable experience.

If you fumble around to get into your next position, it can put a serious dent in the mood and you’ll need to rebuild it if you wanna make her come.

So transition smoothly to and from the bulldog with these positions.

Doggy Style

This one is quite obvious. She stays in the same position while you just switch between being on your knees and squatting over her.

To make your transition feel as smooth as possible to her, pull out of her and take a moment to admire her ass.

Make her comfortable and confident in such an exposed position by telling her how great it looks.

How much you admire it.

How much it turns you on.

Take a second to give her ass a swift slap, grab it firmly, and then deliver your compliment before entering her again.

Froggy Style Sex

Froggy style position is a simple 2 step transition.

While in the bulldog, put your hand on her upper back and push it down onto the bed so that she’s in the face down ass up version as shown above.

Pull out of her and pull her legs back so that she’s flat on her stomach.

Now mount and lay flat on top of her with your knees bent.

Since your head is right behind hers, make sure to talk dirty to her.

Prone Bone Position

This one just might be the all time best position for g-spot orgasms.

While in the bulldog, put a pillow under her pelvis.

Push her flat onto the bed with her pelvis resting on the pillow. This creates an angle that makes it easy for you to plow straight into her g-spot!

Find Her Ideal Angle

Remember, as with all things related to sex and orgasms, women are different.

They all have specific preferences and unique sensitivities.

So TEST!

You’ve got lots of different variations and angles to try out so make sure you do that and find out what your girl likes best.

If you want to master her unique sensitivities and preferences so that you can give her the best orgasms of her life, watch the Make Her Come First Video Now!

Use The Plumber Sex Position Like This & She’ll Do Anything You Want

In the plumber sex position, your woman lies on her back while you get on top and straddle her face. Lean forward, get on all fours and enjoy!

From here you’ve got 2 options.

You can take control and thrust in and out of her mouth, or you can stay still while she blows you.

The problem with staying still while she does the work is that it can be very hard on her neck and shoulders.

Be mindful of this.

Pay attention to her body language and stop her the moment you sense she’s getting tired.

The second option is for you to do the thrusting.

In this version you need to…

Keep in mind just how incredibly vulnerable she is in the plumber sex position.

She has absolutely no control and nowhere to go. In most blowjob positions, she can just move back if you go to far. In the plumber position, she can’t do that.

If you go too far, there’s nothing she can do but try to push you off.

Obviously, this creates a lot of vulnerability. She has to trust that you won’t push her past her limit and choke her.

Here’s the good news… you can use this opportunity to build trust and improve your sex life exponentially.

Telling someone they can trust you is one thing. Showing it is another.

Show her that you will NEVER push her past her limits.

This will build her “sexual trust”.

Build trust in the bedroom and with just a bit of time, she will do any and every nasty thing you want!

Not only that, she’ll love it!

She’ll also feel safe to let go with you, surrender control, and thus surrender her orgasms.

When a woman is worried about what you think of her sexual expression, if you’ll hurt her or take advantage of her, she cannot orgasm.

Her mind takes control of her focus and her body is left hanging.

In order to orgasm she must get out of her head and this is only possible if she knows that she can trust you… or she’s really drunk.

So use the vulnerability of the plumber sex position to build sexual trust, submission, and orgasmic potential.

Establish a safe act.

It’s like a safe word, but action based. Kinda necessary when her mouth is full with your manhood.

Nothing fancy needed.

Just a tap on your thighs, or a push on your stomach will do the trick.

Here’s how to do it and start building trust before you ever use it.

Get into mid position. In other words straddle her face but stay upright instead of leaning over and putting your hands on the floor or bed.
Look her in the eyes and say “if you want me to stop at any time, just do X” IE: Slap me here with your hands.
Practice the move. This is crucial. Actually do the move with her. Tell her to open her mouth, inch inside of her, then take her hands and slap yourself with them exactly how you want her to do it.
IMMEDIATELY pull out of her and give her some positive reinforcement. Give her a smile and tell her “just like that, ok?”

Until you do this, you won’t believe just how powerful this is.

Why?

A lot of girls get told “just tell me if you wanna stop” but they don’t actually do it because they feel guilty, ashamed, insecure, etc.

Just because she didn’t tell you to stop, doesn’t mean she didn’t feel it.

If she wants you to stop but doesn’t say so, it can have some NASTY effects.

She can begin to resent you for it… even though you said the right thing and were willing to stop.
She’ll be nervous about trying it again in the future and will look for ways to get out of it.
If it happens too often, she will start to associate sex with you to having those negative emotions. Not good.

These four steps are powerful because they Show Her she can trust you.

She’s already done it and not only were there no negative consequences, but there was actually a positive one because you gave her that positive reassurance.

A lot of guys might think “won’t that make it more likely she’ll use the safe act then?”

No.

Here’s why.

The main reason a woman uses a safe word or act is because she feels nervous and in danger.

She panics.

She’s not certain that she could get out of the situation quickly, if needed.

When you physically make her use the safe act you’ve agreed to, and then pull out of her right away, it proves to her subconscious mind that there’s no need to panic.

She just has to do her safe act and you will listen and bring her to safety right away.

This builds trust.

This is how you get a woman to surrender her body and orgasms to you.

I’ll say it one more time just in case…

When she uses her safe act, stop IMMEDIATELY.

Or in this case, pull out immediately.

Obeying this rule will build her trust in you but breaking it will kill her trust more than anything… and you might never be able to get it back.

The Very Best Way To Establish Sexual Trust Is…

Adapt your techniques in the bedroom to match her preferences.

We all know women are different.

There are some universal truths about women’s sexuality that applies to all women, but there are also many areas where women are different.

They have unique sensitivities and preferences.

If you want to blow her mind, give her the best orgasms of her life and establish total sexual trust, you must adapt your techniques to match these differences.

Watch this video to learn the 67 ways to make your woman come, and give her more orgasms in a weekend then she had all week!

Do NOT Use The Full Nelson Sex Position Unless She Does This…

It’s fairly popular in porn cause it makes for a great camera view, but the full nelson sex position is one I suggest you stay away from except for 1 very specific situation… more on that below.

First, here’s how it’s done.

You typically start out in reverse cowgirl. Transition into the Pearly Gates. Then she folds her legs towards her head.

You reach your arms under her knees and then back up behind her head, putting her into a “head & leg lock”. If you can reach, join your hands together and interlock your fingers.

Lift your legs slightly and bend them at the knees putting the soles of your feet flat on the bed. Now thrust from the bottom while holding her in place.

Why You Should NOT Use The Full Nelson Sex Position

Below you’ll learn the 1 instance where this can be a great and useful position. First, here are a few of the reasons why it’s usually a bad position for most situation.

It’s not easy to pull off.

She’s got to be bendy. She needs the flexibility to bend her legs far back enough that you can hug them and still reach far enough to put your hands on her head.

You also have to worry about balance. All of her body weight is on top of yours and falling over to one side or the other is all too easy. So if you are going to try the position, take a second to figure out your balance before you start thrusting.

The fact that her entire body weight is lying on top of you can be uncomfortable and restrict your breathing.

It can throw her off the path to orgasm psychologically.

Distraction kills women’s orgasms. In order for a woman to orgasm, she’s got to be in the moment and focused on the physical sensations of pleasure. If she’s worried about the bills, what you think of her, or feeling pressured to orgasm, it’s not going to happen.

Getting into the full nelson curls her lower body and “smashes” her belly together. In other words, it’s going to create those rolls on her tummy. Even if she’s really fit, a curled belly creates those pouches that no one likes to see.

Also, because your hands are behind her head, it’s going to tilt her head forward and what’s in her direct line of sight?

Those distracting belly rolls.

Now she’s focused on something she doesn’t like about her body instead of focusing on fun and pleasure. It’s almost guaranteed to ruin her orgasm.

It Doesn’t Give Her What She Needs

If you read my other blog posts, you know that I’m vehemently against “fucking from the bottom” because all it ends up doing is messing up her grove.

When a woman gets on top, she will ride in the perfect motion required to reach orgasm. If you pay attention in bed, you’ve likely noticed that “perfect motion” is NOT going straight in and out… like most guys do. So let her find her ideal motion and then ride you to orgasm.

The full nelson is different because she can’t do any thrusting. Also, as you’re about to see, one of the only times I suggest you try this position is if she needs deep and fast thrusting in order to orgasm.

Click here to learn the 3 Best Sex Positions for female orgasms.

The Only Time You Should Use The Full Nelson Sex Position

So now that you know why you shouldn’t use this position, it’s time to go over why you should. Or more accurately when you should.

Obviously you want to try this position if your woman asks for it specifically or if you’re both committed to checking every sex position off your bucket list.

But here’s the big one…

The only time I recommend the full nelson…

If you’re a regular reader, then you know how much I hammer on the fact that all women are different and you need to adapt your techniques to match your womans preferences.

When it comes to giving a woman orgasms, you generally find the technique that works best for her and keep going all the way to a climax.

Some women need you to increase the speed or pressure right at the end, some need you to keep doing the exact same thing…

But there are some women who just won’t cross the finish line unless you do something dramatically different when she’s nearing the peak.

If your woman is like this, then the full nelson sex position just might be the missing link to making her come.

If she rides you in cowgirl and manages to bring herself to the brink of orgasm but can never cross the finish line, it’s highly likely she needs something completely different right before her orgasm disappears.

This is the only time I recommend you try this position out.

BUT…

Even in that case, I wouldn’t recommend the full, full nelson.

Do the position as described above but only wrap your arms around her legs, not her head.

As we talked about, it can get her focused on her belly… and it’s just not very comfortable. It puts an uncomfortable (possibly even painful) strain on the neck to will distract her focus.

So try out the full nelson WITHOUT your hands behind her head and also check out some of the variations below.

Different Ways To Do The Full Nelson Sex Position

Oystered Nelson

This is a variation of both the full nelson and the Viennese Oyster.

Instead of putting your hands behind her head and creating the neck strain and inevitable view of her belly rolls, she’s the one who’s dictating just how much she wants to get into position.

If she’s already comfortable doing the Viennese oyster (sometimes referred to as the pretzel position), then this is just a matter of doing the pose while she’s lying on top of you instead of the other way around.

Think of it as the oyster but she’s on top instead of you.

The biggest challenge in this position will be for her to keep her balance so make sure you get that settled before you start thrusting.

Nelson’s Sandwich (Threesome Position)

Just as it sounds, this one is for a threesome. Use it with another guy or girl if one wears a strap-on.

One of you can enter her vagina while the other is in her ass, or you could both enter the same hole.

Just make sure she’s okay with it first.

A major benefit to this version is that the guy (or girl) on top can do all the thrusting while the guy (or girl) on the bottom stays in place. As long as the top giving is thrusting hard enough, it’ll rock your woman back and forth on you as well.

Dog Meet Nelson

It might look like something only possible in a hentai cartoon, but it is doable and can be fun to try.

Start in a standing doggy. Her feet flat on the floor, bent over at the waist, and hands on the ground.

As you stand behind her, bend forward and wrap your arms under the insides of her knees.

Once you’re confident it’s safe, reach all the way behind her head and slowly pick her up off the ground.

Standing Bully Nelson

This one is quite simple. It’s essentially the full nelson while standing without lifting her legs.

That said, since women are usually shorter than men, she will be lifted up off the ground. If she’s flexible enough, she can also wrap her legs around your legs.

Using this position for anal? It’ll be quite easy to pound back and forth.

But if you’re having vaginal sex, it’s a bit more tricky. She’ll need to tilt her hips so that you can enter her.

Enter her while in a standing position like standing doggy and then pick her up while you stay inside her.

It’s easier said than done but can make for quite the dominant experience.

Speaking of dominant…

The Choked Nelson

Some women just LOVE to sensation of being choked during sex.

WARNING: NEVER Choke her. I said many women like the sensation. They like the idea of it. They like the feel of a strong hand wrapped around her neck with a little bit of pressure. Creating the feeling is not the same as actually doing it.

Always be careful with choking.

Instead of reaching your hands behind your woman’s head, put your hands around her neck.

Make sure she has a way of giving you feedback. She needs some way of letting you know if it’s too much.

Obviously you can’t see her facial expression in this position. You might not be able to hear her say her safe word. And since her arms are “locked up”, she might not be able to give you a gestures. All this makes it that much more important that you establish some way of communicating when it’s too much.

So there you have it.

The full nelson sex position, why you should or shouldn’t use it, and a whole bunch of fun variations.

Dominate Her G-Spot with the Prone Bone Sex Position

If your woman loves doggy style, you’ve got to try out the prone bone position. Like traditional doggy, the prone bone also hits the g-spot with ease but… it also makes you go MUCH deeper so she feels all your fullness!

Even if you’re on the smaller side, you’ll feel huge inside her.

If you’re longer than average, you’ll be able to go deep without hitting her cervix.

The prone bone truly is one of the greatest, most orgasmic positions there are. In fact it’s loved by so many that there’s even a prone bone subreddit, one of only a handful of positions to claim their own spot on the site.

To get into it, flatten your woman out on a bed, face down. Get on top and enter her from behind.

To make sure you’re giving her the best sex she’s ever had in the prone bone position, test and tweak different variations.

As with every thing related to sex, not all women like the same things.

Different women have unique sensitivities.

Their g-spots and clits can react differently to different moves.

Their “hot spots” can be in slightly different places.

To really master the prone bone position, you need to test out a few different variations to find the one that hits the spot just right.

The most important thing to test in the prone bone position is your angles of penetration.

Specifically, the pelvic tilt, and the side tilt.

Different angles of pelvic tilt.

The reason this position works so well for giving women powerful orgasms is because you’re thrusting straight down into her g-spot.

By tilting her pelvis, your penis can plow straight into it and keep going, rubbing against the entire upper wall where the g-spot and deep spot are.

Have her stick her butt out or make it easier on her by putting a pillow or sex wedge under her hips.

This naturally tilts her pelvis and makes it much more comfortable to receive your powerful pounding.

Try no tilt, vs tilting with 1 pillow, vs tilting with 2.

Enter her straight on vs from the side.

This one’s really simple. In one version, come in straight from behind with both your legs between or on the outside of hers. In the second version, straddle one of her legs with yours, making you come in at an angle.

For some women, coming in at an angle like this is make you hit the perfect spot!

Now that you’ve found the perfect angle to make her come, let’s talk about framing.

We all know “women need to be warmed up first”… but…

Even though the prone bone is one of my favorite go to positions, I don’t recommend using it as the first position in your session. It’s a position I like to save until she’s properly warmed up and is on the verge of orgasm or ready for a second, or third, or more.

That said, women really respond well to being taken back and forth between slow “love-making” to rough fucking.

So start off slow in this position. Especially when you’re testing out the different variations and fine-tuning to discover her preferences.

It’s a very dominant position, which is why you’ll want to spend most time giving her rough sex, but it’s also more intimate than traditional doggy style.

Why?

Your bodies are much closer together.

If you’re leaning over her, your head is directly above hers in the perfect position for some sweet or dirty talk, and if she turns her head to the side, you can kiss her.

Start slow and gentle. Take your time thrusting all the way in, slowly. Remember, this position makes you go very DEEP. Depending on what positions you’ve used in the past, this might be the deepest she’s ever felt you.

So give her time to enjoy every extra bit of you.

If you go too fast, she won’t get to enjoy all the new sensations.

Kiss her neck, shoulders, and if she turns her head, you can even kiss her cheek and mouth.

Whisper sweet nothings into her ear.

Now, as you both get more aroused, start to turn up the heat.

If you remember nothing else from this blog, remember this:

Men want women, and women want to be wanted.

Now what makes a woman feel wanted? I’m talking about feeling wanted sexually here.

What makes her feel sexually attractive and wanted is when you get so hard and turned on that you’re barely able to control yourself.

Imagine a woman was so turned on by you that she was barely able to control herself.

What would that look like?

Would she slowly, make sweet, gently love to you?

No.

She’d throw you down, pin you against the bed and fuck your brains out!

This is what you want to give her… once she’s warmed up of course.

So as you’re making love for a couple of minutes in this position, she’s also making you harder, more aroused, and sending you closer to the verge of losing control.

As you get more turned on, you start fucking her a little harder.

You pin her arms down on the bed.

Your sweet nothings turn to dirty talk.

Caressing her neck and shoulders turns into pushing her head down onto the bed or pulling her hair. All of this without hurting her of course.

Smoothly progress from slow lovemaking while you figure out her preferences, to raw, animalistic pounding straight down into her g-spot and you just might end up giving her the strongest orgasm of her life!

Make Her Come BEFORE Sex To Skyrocket Her Chances of Coming Again During Sex

We all know women are capable of having multiple orgasms.

Once a woman has her first orgasm, she goes into an “orgasmic state” where it’s much easier for her to come again, and again. Her orgasms also become stronger and they take a lot less time.

So if you want to give her 2, 3, 4, or more orgasms, give her that first orgasm before sex.

Here’s the key:

Every woman is different.

Some come easiest from oral sex, others from massaging the g-spot. Some women need a unique combination of both, and some will only come from a very specific technique done just the right way.

Your mission is to find her unique “orgasm formula”.

Once you do that, she’s like putty in your hands. Coming at your will and swearing your the best she’s ever had.

I made this video to show you exactly how to do it.

Watch the Make Her Come First Video to Learn How.

Bridge Sex Position – Crab Yoga Pose In Bed

It looks like it belongs in an advanced yoga class, but the bridge sex position can have a profound impact on your sex life.

Look, it’s not easy.

If comfort is what you’re after, this is not the pose you’re looking for.

But, there are 3 reasons you should try it.

1. It’s a great way to add variety to a stale routine.

2. It gives the woman a mid session stretch that’ll get her primed for the second half.

3. It can help a woman discover new depths of herself that lead to pleasure and potentially, orgasms!

First, a quick look at the basics.

The woman gets on all fours, but in reverse.

Instead of facing the bed, couch, or grass (you wild adventurer), she’s on her feet and hands, with her back facing the bed or ground.

She starts by laying down, then lifts her knees, bends them, and places her feet flat on the floor.

Using the muscles in her legs, she lifts her butt off the floor.

At the same time, she puts her hands on the ground (behind her) and uses them to lift her upper body. Told ya, it’s not an easy one.

The man gets on his knees between her legs and holds her hips for support.

Different Ways To Thrust

It might look like you don’t have many options in this position but there are a few.

One way to mix it up is for the man to try different ways of thrusting.

Different thrusts can create completely different sensations.

So try these 3 variations to find out what works for you.

1. He thrusts back and forth while she holds herself in the same position.

2. He man puts his hands on the woman’s hips and pulls her onto him.

3. Instead of either partner moving back and forth, the man grinds his pelvis against the woman’s clitoris.

All 3 of these variations will feel completely different for the woman so make sure to give each one a fair trial.

A Bridge Sometimes Needs Help

Even the most acrobatic woman won’t be able to hold this position for long. But if she enjoys it, using a prop for support can help her last longer.

Place something under her back for support. You can use a literal (not really) ton of pillows, a sex wedge, an exercise ball, or a workout bench.

Now she can relax and enjoy without having to exert so much energy to hold the position.

A Bridge Isn’t Built In A Day

If she can’t pull off the full bridge sex position yet, work your way up to it.

These variations don’t require as much work, yet still deliver most of the benefits.

You might also find one of these modified versions actually delivers more pleasure than the traditional pose.

Instead of her upper body being held up by only her hands, she can lean on her elbows and forearms.

If she does this while resting her shoulder blades on the bed, she also frees up her hands to play with herself.

If the man grabs her butt, he can hold all the weight and the woman can enjoy with little if any effort on her part at all.

It’s like an amplified version of missionary. She’ll feel tighter (from the flexing of her core) and also be able to play with herself.

Taking The Bridge Sex Position To The Next Level

One of the main reasons women never orgasm from penetration is that the man thrusts straight in and out. This basic thrusting doesn’t stimulate the clit, g-spot or any other orgasm educing areas.

If you want to make your woman come during penetration, you’ve got to hit the right spots.