The leapfrog sex position (AKA Face Down Ass Up) is the deeper, rougher cousin of doggystyle.
Women LOVE rough sex and doggystyle just as much as we do.
It’s primal.
It hits all the right spots.
It makes her feel needed, sexy, and taken.
Doggy checks all the boxes for hot, orgasmic sex.
But too much of anything can get boring… and that holds true for sex positions as well.
The leapfrog is a slight variation on the classic pose that gives variety in both position and sensation.
Think of the traditional doggy style only instead of being on all fours, your woman rests her head, arms, and chest on the bed.
It’s the face-down-ass-up version of doggystyle.
Her legs are spread wide while yours are in between hers… although you can switch to make her tighter or if your pelvis’ aren’t aligned.
Unlike traditional doggy, she doesn’t have to hold herself up with both hands. She’s free to reach underneath and rub her clit while you’re stimulating her insides.
Instead of hitting her g-spot, the leapfrog targets the lesser know (but highly orgasmic) posterior fornix!
It’s an area deep inside of her that isn’t stimulated often but can be responsible for some of the strongest orgasms a woman can have.
Doggy Is Painful For Some Women – Leapfrog Might Be The Solution
Some women can’t enjoy doggystyle because it’s painful. Depending on the reason, the leapfrog sex position might be the solution.
Here are the 2 main cause of painful doggy.
- It hits her cervix.
A small percentage of women experience tremendous pleasure when you hit their cervix… but for the vast majority, it’s extremely painful.
By getting off her hands and onto her chest, it changes the angle of her vagina and you can avoid the cervix completely.
- Air is entering her.
If you’re on the smaller side, air can enter her when you pull out and cause pain when pushing back is.
The trick to this is to use “tighter fitting” positions.
Switching from doggy to the leapfrog can do the trick.
If that doesn’t do it for her, try the closed leg leapfrog. Close her legs and place yours on the outside of hers.
Closed legs will make her feel even tighter, you feel bigger, and it’ll be less likely to let air make its way inside.
Reward And Encourage Submission
The leapfrog is a very vulnerable position for your woman.
She has little to no control.
Her ass and pussy are fully exposed for your inspection and potential judgement.
She can’t see what you’re doing (or about to do) and that can turn anticipation into anxiety if you don’t first…
Take the time to ease any insecurities she might have.
Tell her to get into position.
Lightly caress her butt cheeks with your fingertips.
Tell her how gorgeous her ass looks in this position.
PRO TIP: Compliments are much more believable and effective when you use specifics.
Saying “your ass looks great” is one thing. It’s nice to hear and she’ll appreciate it. But it can get stale and unbelievable.
Saying “your ass looks great in this position” is much more believable and hot to hear simply because it’s more specific. Even if she doesn’t like her ass, she thinks “Oh, but it looks better in this position.” And her subconscious allows her let go of any insecurities she might have so long as she stays in position.
It’s a dark part of human nature and psychology but we might as well use it to make her feel sexy and good about herself.
Now lightly trace your fingernails on her cheeks for a few seconds, then lift your hand and give her ass a nice smack.
The mismatch of sensations create a “super-sensation” that most women absolutely adore.
Take some time to go down on her while you continue lightly scratching her butt and thighs with your finger tips.
When you’re finally about to enter your goddess, make her whimper by gently swiping your length between her folds.
Press the tip of your hard-on against her opening a bit without going in. This is one of my favorite ways to make a woman soaking wet and begging you for it. It makes her imagine and crave you inside of her. Much like imagining a specific food when your hungry amplifies your desire for it.
The Leapfrog Sex Position Is For Hard Fucking, Not Lovemaking
The foreplay tips in the last section are great for getting a woman warmed up and eager for more.
But when it comes to penetration in the leapfrog sex position, don’t be so gentle.
Some positions are better suited for slow, romantic, lovemaking.
The leapfrog isn’t one of them.
If you try “making love” in this position, your woman will feel a lack of congruence and won’t be satisfied.
So save the love-making for another position.
Instead, ratchet-up the dominance.
Amplify her submission.
Make her feel taken and ravished.
- Slap and grab her ass. If you did this during the warm up while telling her how sexy her ass looks, you can repeat the same move again during sex without saying a word and she’ll feel the same emotions when you gave the compliment.
- Get a firm grip on her hips. Remember, even if you aren’t pulling her onto you, just the feel of your hands grasping her hips amplifies the “rough sex emotions” she needs in this type of position.
- Hold, tie, or cuff her hands behind her back. Being physically constrained allows her to submit her body and focus on the sensations that lead her to orgasm.
How To Last Longer In Leapfrog & Other Dog-Like Positions
Some positions are notorious for making guys lose control quicker than others.
The leapfrog isn’t immune to this.
The 3 tips can help you last longer in many positions but especially the leapfrog.
- Use a Standing variation
When you’re kneeling behind your woman, you need to use your hips to thrust. It engages your entire core and makes you more likely to come quick if you’re already prone to it.
By standing, you can thrust with your entire body. Use your legs and hips to rock your entire lower body and you’ll cut down the “stress” on your core that makes you come faster.
- Pull her to you
Keep still while you grab onto her hips and pull her onto you. Or – even better – get your timing right and pull her while you thrust forward.
Again, it’ll help relax your core and as an added bonus, it’ll give her the extra hot and arousing sensation of being taken. Very powerful!
- Stay deep and use shorter thrusts
Long thrusts that stimulate your entire shaft lead to premature orgasms. By shortening the length of your thrusts, you increase your staying power.
Go as deep as you can and only pull out half way before thrusting forward again.
You’ll last longer and she’ll get that deep, fulfilling pounding this position is intended for.
Try These Different Leapfrog Variations To Find The One That Blows Her Mind
I often say on this blog that it’s often not about what position you’re using, rather how you’re using it. Many women will LOVE a certain position with one guy but hate it with another. The reason is often due to the smallest, subtle differences, and the fact that the better lover takes the time to find her favorite. To master your woman’s unique preferences, watch this video.
Bound Leapfrog Position
We talked about using the leapfrog in a dominant way. The bound leapfrog is the superior version of this.
Use a spreader bar, necktie, handcuffs, or rope to tie her hands together in between her legs.
Instead of holding her hands behind her back (as shown above), tie them together UNDER her and in between her legs.
Other than focusing her attention on the pleasure you’re delivering, the only thing she’ll be able to do is rub herself if she chooses.
Standing Leapfrog
We covered this one above. It’s pretty straight forward. In this version you have your woman at the edge of the bed so that you can stand behind her instead of kneeling.
Again, if you struggle with premature ejaculation, this version will be best since you can thrust with your entire body rather than just your hips.
The Squatting Leapfrog AKA FDAU Bulldog
Instead of standing or kneeling, you squat down.
It’s just like the bulldog position only she’s in the face down ass up position.
Squatting will completely change the angle of pleasure and can make you go even deeper.
Obviously, you won’t be able to last as long in this version so try it out, gauge your woman’s reaction, and if she really likes it, save it for an explosive finish.
The Leg Up Leapfrog
Stand or kneel with one foot while lifting and bending the other at the knee.
This one creates the most drastic change in what she’ll feel.
Not only does it make you go extra deep, it also makes you hit at a slight side angle.
If your woman’s deep spot is off to one side – watch this video if you’re not sure – this is the version you’ll want to use.
It might take a minute to get your rhythm going but once you do, watch out!
IMPORTANT: Leapfrog After-Care
Again, the leapfrog sex position is best used during rough, dominant sex.
If you’re in a long term, committed relationship, it’s crucial that you finish a rough-sex session with proper after-care.
Feeling objectified and wanted for nothing but our bodies can be an incredible turn-on… DURING SEX.
But…
We also want to feel special, cared for, and loved.
If you just get up and leave immediately after rough sex, it will leave your woman feeling used.
Not good.
You MUST invest a little extra time after rough sex to make sure she knows you love her and don’t see her as just a sex object.
Lie her flat on her belly gently touch, kissing, and appreciating her entire body as she basks in her after orgasm glow.
Lightly scratch her butt and thighs.
Sprinkle in some kisses.
Slowly work your way up her back till you reach her neck.
Kiss her neck, whispering sweet nothings, and spending a few minutes holding her and letting her know that you love her and aren’t simply “done with her” now that you got your rocks off.
Being the best she’s ever had means satisfying the physical AND emotional parts of her.
This is true for every woman.
But HOW you do it changes from one woman to the next.
In this video I show you how to fine tune all your strategies and techniques in order to match your woman’s unique preferences and subtle differences.
When you fine tune your techniques to match all her unique differences, you truly satisfy every one of her needs and desires.
The faceoff sex position might not seem like much, but it’s one of the best positions for building intimacy and sexual trust.
In the beginning of this article I mentioned how women crave a variety of sexual experiences and emotions.