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The Kivin Method AKA Sideways Oral with Pics and Animations

You’ve probably heard that oral sex is the easiest way to get a woman off, but if you’re struggling to make it work for you woman, the kivin method might be exactly what you need.

Traditional cunnilingus positions only deliver a fraction of pleasure potential and often to the wrong place. The kivin method provides way more pleasure and does so exactly where it’s needed, resulting in much stronger and quicker orgasms.

What is the kivin method?

The kivin method is more of a position than a technique. Here’s how it works.

Like usual, your woman lies on her back, legs spread. But instead of lying on your stomach and coming straight on from in between her legs, you come in from the side. Here’s what it looks like:

Now, when you lick up and down, it’s going to stimulate her side to side instead of up and down. It might not seem like it at first, but this is a total game changer.

Here’s why:

Your tongue makes contact with much more of the clit at once. It takes a lot less time to cover the entire clit and make its way back. Take a look and both these animations. Imagine the blue line is your tongue making its way up and down. Notice how long it takes to cover the entire clit in the first version and how quickly you engage the entire clit in the second. A lot more pleasure, faster.

All this extra pleasure is only delivered where it’s welcome so you don’t overstimulate her. Until your woman is really aroused, the clitoral head is often too sensitive for direct contact. Traditional oral ignores this by licking up and down, head to shaft. This can deliver short bursts of pleasure interspersed with shorter hits of too much sensitivity. Not good. By going sideways, you can ignore the head and focus only on the shaft until her arousal is up and her clitoral head is eager for action. Then you can move over towards the head and include it in your play to provide direct stimulation to both parts instead of just one at a time.

You can add labia licks too! The labia (aka outer lips) are the female equivalent of the male testicles. Not knowing this, most guys completely ignore them. When you start licking your girl kivin style, you can send your tongue a little further with every stroke, including her labia in the fun.

Easier access for your hands. In the old school (between both legs) position, incorporating your hands can be a challenge. Your chin is in the way on the bottom, and playing on top just requires a odd and uncomfortable placement for you hands. But kivin makes hand play easy. When performing sideways oral, both sides are unobstructed and easy to access.

Many women report cumming much faster and easier when introduced to the kivin.

Take reddit user PokerBabe25 for example.

In this post about the kivin, she expresses her frustration in not making her wife cum from cunnilingus. ‘I’ve always enjoyed performing oral sex on my partners, often with “good results” but with my wife my usual techniques almost never bring her completely to orgasm. She gets very close, but I could barely ever get her there.’

Before finding kivin, she poured in tons of effort while falling short to deliver: ‘I often go 15-20 minutes and have her teetering on the edge without managing to get her to come.’

After a bit of tweaking with the kivin method: ‘She came within about 5 minutes of me finding the rhythm and best hand positon! This was definitely a big change’

With results like that, the kivin is a must try!

Is the Kivin Method guaranteed to work?

Maybe, with some women. For others, no. It’s such a radically different experience for a woman that you just need to try it. It can be the difference between giving her light, playful orgasms that ‘feel good’ vs earth shattering eruptions of bliss that literally change her life forever. So for gods sake, try it!

Press a fingertip or thumbpad against her taint. — Pressing the taint

How can you tell if your woman likes it more? Well relying solely on your girls feedback is not always the best move. She might bend the truth to spare your feelings or she might not know that more pleasure is possible. While you should absolutely encourage feedback, you want to learn the pleasure signals that do not lie. The physical cues she can’t control. In the make her come first formula, you learn all these unconscious ‘tells’ but for now, here is one of the easiest to use in the kivin method.

Place your thumbpad or finger tip on her taint (the area right between her vaginal opening and anus.) As she approaches orgasm, her taint will produce involuntary contractions. In other words, you’ll feel it pulsate. She can’t fake this. Once you’ve done this a few times, you’ll also start to notice some other tells she does naturally when nearing her peak. Maybe her eyes roll back in some unique way or her lips do something funny. Tuck that nugget of info in your memory to read her orgasm next time you don’t have a finer on her taint.

Conclusion:

The kivin method will either prove to be the best way to go down on your girl or not. Either way, you owe it to yourself to try it out. It just might have the biggest impact on your sex life of anything you ever do.

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Pass “The Wall” with the Upside Down Deepthroat Position?

If you want to experience the pinnacle of submissiveness while taking your man deeper down your throat than you ever have before, you need to try the upside down deepthroat position. The sensations of being face fucked deep down your throat without any gagging and nowhere to go is an exceptionally liberating experience.

In this epic blowjob position, you lie on your back with your head hanging over the edge of the bed. Your man stand in front of you and enters your mouth and aligned throat. The tilt of your head aligns your mouth and throat, making it easier to take a man down your throat without hitting “the wall.”

Why He Loves It:

If your blowjobs have become stale and routine, this pose is a sure fire way to mix it up by giving your man some incredibly alluring views from an angle he isn’t used to. Take it to the next level by placing yourself in front of a mirror and letting him catch a reflection of you playing with yourself as he effortlessly slides down your throat. Depending on the angle and his size, he might also see his cock make a bulge in your throat. Intoxicatingly hot!

Side note: Unlike regular blowjobs, the sensations your man feels during deepthroat come from the tightness of your throat, not the suction of your lips. This along with the psychological thrill of having his entire manhood taken and embraced makes deepthroating an experience unlike any other.

Critical Warning: The Upside Down Deepthroat Position is advanced and requires practice, patience, and trust.

The upside down deepthroat position is advanced. While it can help you get past “the wall” and get better at deep throating, it’s not going to turn a rookie into a deepthroating queen overnight. This isn’t a position for newbies and those who still lack a certain level of confidence and skill. Hanging upside down results in a headrush sensations that can add excitement but can also feel disorientating and overwhelming. A common occurrence for first time upside down deepthroaters is spit running down the face potentially into their nose. All this leads to the fact that you MUST establish a ‘safe gesture’ before hand, and it’s highly recommended you start with a beginner version of the position.

Beginner version of the upside down deepthroat position:

If you’re not already taking your man to the depths of your throat, try a slightly modified version of the upside down deep throat and ease your way to pro level.

Lie down on your bed. Using a pillow, folded towel, or other comfy prop, tilt you head back half way. Your man can kneel over you as you get accustomed to taking him deep. Instead of your head hanging completely over the edge of the bed, it’ll hang halfway over your prop. Your man can kneel on the bed and tilt over you as if he was going into a 69 position.

Keep tilting gradually until you’re hanging over the edge of the bed and devouring him entirely.

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Lap Dance Sex Position – How To Let Her Seduce Herself

If you want to learn how your woman comes, watch what she does when she gets on top. The exception to this is when she’s in a service-top moves such as the lap dance sex position.

Wait…

What’s A Service Top Position?

Traditional girl-on-top positions (like cowgirl) are highly educational because you can relax and observe how your woman moves in order to orgasm. You can feel and watch the precise motion, rhythm, and speed she uses in order to get herself off.

Service-top positions are different because your woman doesn’t move in ways that will make her come. She moves in ways that *she thinks* will make you come. Or in ways she thinks will tease, please, and turn you on. She’s on top and in full control but she doesn’t use that power to pleasure herself, she uses it to pleasure and service you.

As you’ll learn in Penetration Orgasms Made Easy, the type of fucking that makes men come is very different from the type that makes women come.

So, if the lap dance sex position isn’t useful at teaching you what makes your woman come, what is it good for? The answer is turning her on and priming her for stronger orgasm in other positions.

Here’s why.

Nothing Turns Her On More Than Turning You On.

The only reason a woman gives you a lap dance (other than cold hard cash) is to turn you on. It’s to get you thinking with your little head instead of your big one. Why does she want to have this power? Because it makes her feel sexy, beautiful, and wanted.

So give her those feelings.

Make her feel beautiful, sexy, and wanted, by giving her the rise she’s trying to get out of you. When she sees (and feels) that her seductive moves are working, it makes her confident, wet, and liberates her to do all the nasty things you want without feeling any shame or guilt.

When she gets on top and gives you a lap dance:

Stroke and caress every inch of her body.
Compliment the way she moves.
Let out NON-EXAGERAATED moans and groans of pleasure and arousal.

A Quick Warning On The Danger of Trying To Get A Rise Out Of You

Have you ever been with a woman and taken her moans, groans, and movements as a sign to go harder, faster, or deeper… only to have your change in pace absolutely butcher her mood?

The same thing can happen here.

If you’re doing a great job of letting her know she’s turning you on, she might feel the urge to crank things up a notch.

As I said a minute above, the type of fucking that makes men come is usually very different from the type that makes women come. When You Watch Penetration Orgasms Made Easy, I’ll Show You That Difference. If a woman gets on top of you in the lap dance sex position and starts going in the way most likely to make you come (fast, full length, and hard), it could be very dangerous. One tiny slip and you could be in prime position for a major accident.

So make sure to keep the lap dance sex position going at a safe pace where the risk of an accident is reduced as much as possible.

If she does get too excited, grab a hold of her by the waist, hold her back, and tell her to slow down.

Pro Tip: Telling her that she’s making you too excited can fuel her confidence but telling her that SHE is getting too excited gives you a great segue to switch into a more dominant position where you can safely take back control of the thrusting.

So let’s get to it…

Variations of The Lap Dance Sex Position

As with all positions, there are many different versions. Here are a few of the most common your woman might try and what you can do to level up on them.

Champagne Room Position

This is the closed leg version of the lap dance where she’ll feel the tightest. It’s extremely difficult (if not impossible) to get into so she might have to spread her legs at first, get in position, and then close her legs once you’re inside.

In my experience, most women opt for a subtle grind instead of bouncing up and down. Match this pace by ‘hugging’ her from behind, putting your arm around her neck, or placing a hand on her pubic bone and applying a bit of pressure.

This is the ultimate “trying to turn you on” version so remember to encourage her and help her feel successful. Breath and moan, whisper in her ear how much she’s turning you on, and let her know how sexy her body feels as you caress every inch of it.

Reverse Lap Dance

This version is so good at making women come, that it made it onto my top 3 g-spot positions article.

As the name suggests, it’s similar to the regular lap dance only your woman is facing you instead of facing away. She puts her feet on the couch on each side of your butt and rocks her pelvis up and down.

If she leans back while doing this move, she’ll “drop” her g-spot directly onto your shaft, making her come fast and hard. The key here is that she will need some support to hold that position. She can put her hands on your thighs, you can wrap your arms around her waist and back, or she can hold up on a table or other furniture.

Spread Lap Dance Sex Position

Unlike the previous version where she keeps her legs closed tight, this version has her legs spread wide and open to all kinds of extra stimulation. This version actually can be all about her pleasure and making her come if you aren’t intimated by a little extra help.

Yup, I’m talking about using a toy or your hand to give her clitoral stimulation while she sits relatively still on your cock. You can actually make her come quite easily while you’re inside of her if you let your shaft sit still and let a toy do the work.

Swiss Ball Blitz Sex Position

Alright, this one is really more of a sex bucket list position for the very fit and sexually curious.

It’s lap dance on an exercise ball.

What more is there to say here other than BE EXTREMELY CAREFUL with this one. The risks we talked about above are even more present here so you might want to tell your woman not to pull off more then half way. The less length you’re working with, the more I would recommend you stay away from this version.

The Position Most Likely To Make Her Come

This entire blog is about studying different positions and finding the best ones for every scenario.

Depending on your size, your shape, how you and your woman “fit” with each other, some positions will naturally make her come more easily than others.

But there is one sex strategy that’s even more orgasmic than the positions you use.

Women from around the world agree it’s more important than the positions you use, your size, or even your stamina.

Use this 1 fucking technique and give any woman the most powerful orgasms of her life… guaranteed!

Bi Guy Reveals: Mastering The Laying On Your Stomach Blowjob

If you want to make your man erotically obsessed with you, there aren’t many moves that can compete with the laying on stomach blowjob position.

It’s sometimes referred to as the pose or the prone position blowjob.

This seemingly basic (yet incredibly powerful) BJ pose makes it easy to:

Use your hands in a variety of ways
Tease your man with visual stimuli that’s just not possible in other positions
Keep control over your depth, speed, and rhythm
Make him feel truly loved and even trigger deep feelings of devotion

For many guys, blowjobs are a sign of love. The only thing better than a great blowjob is a great blowjob that you enjoy giving him. When he’s convinced that you love taking him in your mouth, your man will go to the ends of the earth and slay dragons for you.

Whether your mission is to make him cum, make him forget about his ex, or make him so hard he loses all control, flips you over, and fucks you senseless… the laying on your stomach bj position is a must in every goddesses sexual repertoire.

What is the Laying On Stomach Blowjob Position?

As the name suggests, whatever version you use, you are on your stomach in the prone position.

Your man can lie down, lean, stand or sit, but the crux of it is that your stomach is always laying flat on the surface beneath you.

Your hands can be restrained behind your back, grabbing him in a variety of ways, or playing with yourself, but you are always on your belly.

How To Use Your Hands While Laying On Your Stomach

Unlike giving head while you’re on all fours, laying on your stomach offers a lot of creative options with your hands. You’ll still have to hold up a bit of your body weight, but the amount is massively reduced and can be done with as little as a single elbow or forearm.

This means you get to use your hands in some fun and tantalizing ways. Here are a few of my favorites.

Pull his erect shaft down (towards his feet) with a finger or your mouth. When he’s fully erect, a little bit of downward pressure makes a high reaching erection feel even more intense. Don’t pull too much. Just enough to create a slight resistance.
Pin him down. In the laying on stomach blowjob position, you’re running the show. You’re in charge. Make sure he knows it. Interlocking fingers and holding each others hands might be ok in the beginning while he’s still soft and getting worked up, but once he’s hard, pin his hands to his sides and make it known he’s not going anywhere.
Grab, hold and pull on his thighs. Again, simply holding onto him subconsciously says you don’t want to stop. Add some slight pulling to subconsciously tell him you love what you’re doing and don’t want it to end.
Right before he cums, make an ok sign with your fingers around his balls and carefully pull them away from his body. Like an orgasm prolonging magic trick, this lengthens the trip his semen needs to take, making his orgasm last just a wee bit longer.

Right after he cums, wrap a hand around his shaft, press your thumb tip against his corpus spongiosum and drain out every drop like a tube of toothpaste.

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Create Hypnotic Views He Can’t Look Away From

Everyone knows how visual men are. Even a slightly suggestive sight can make a man hard as steel.

When getting a blowjob, there’s no hotter view then to see your giver adore what they’re doing. Watching you smirk, smile, and laugh while working our cock can put us in a trance faster than anything else.

Creating Views When He Can See Your Face

In the standard version of this position, your man can see your face. Eye contact is possible, even easy with a slight head tilt on his part.

Pull his shaft down (like shown/talked about above), tilt your head, and:

Look him in the eyes
Smile with your mouth and eyes
Take him as deep as you can while looking him in the eyes and wink at him
When you need to come up for air, lick his shaft and let him see your tongue. Yup, guys are suckers for a clean, wet tongue lapping up their shaft.

Creating Views When He Can’t See Your Face

Below we’ll go over some of the best variations for the laying on stomach blowjob position. Some of these variations make it hard (even impossible) for him to see your facial expressions. In these versions, the tips above won’t be much help.

Here’s how to give him a killer view when you’re on your stomach but can’t see each others face:

Lift your feet up in the air to trigger his foot fetish. Maybe he has a foot fetish and he doesn’t know it yet. Seeing your sexy soles while he’s deep in a state of bliss might just awaken that hidden fetish.
Enhance your ass with a whale tail. If he’s sitting or standing, he’s going to have a rare upside down view of your butt. A timeless way to enhance this view is with bright and/or sexy underwear. If you still have pants on, pull your undies up slightly to give him a whale tail view.
Let him be a voyeur. This one is kind of sneaky, but it works like gangbusters. Position yourself in front of a mirror so that he can look over and see between your legs. Rub yourself while devouring him. Stop for a second every now and then to let out a moan. While searching for the cause, he’ll eventually catch the reflection in the mirror and have a voyeurs view of just how turned on you’re getting from tasting him.

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Different Ways To Do The Laying On Stomach Blowjob Position

When it comes to the way you’re positioned, there isn’t much room for variation.

Rest your forearms on the bed in front of you, or you place them behind your back. Clasp them together, grab your ankles, or get restrained with ropes or cuffs. Hug his hips or hold onto him in a variety of ways.

The real variants of this pose come down to his position. Here are the most common variants.

He Lies Down with you Between His Legs

In the most common version of this position, your man lies on his back starfish style while you lay between his spread legs. Compared to coming in from the side, your tongue is directly under his frenulum which is by far the most sensitive part of the entire penis. Swish your tongue from side to side or up and down while pressed against his frenulum and feel him absolutely melt.

Lean on your elbows and reach your hands up to fondle his balls and shaft. Switch things up by sliding your arms under his knees and reach his belly, pubic bone, and shaft from above.

When you’re ready to move on, pick yourself up and go into all fours – or – turn your body perpendicular to his so that…

He Lies Down while you Come In From the Side

Same as the previous version except you’re perpendicular to each other. From this angle he still gets to see your face and expressions, and he also gets to see (and play with) the rest of your body. He can caress your ass, explore between your legs, reach your boobs or hold and play with your hair.

Unlike other version, you can use all the visual tricks from both categories above. Take advantage of that well placed mirror off to the side of your bed and give him a show of you rubbing yourself while worshipping his instrument.

He Stands AKA Prone Face Fucking

This is the ideal version to submit for some face fucking. Contrary to previous version, he’s running the show now. Not you. He’s got total control over the thrusting and you don’t have any.

He can see your entire backside, lean over and spank you, fuck you with a finger or toy, or just admire the view while thrusting in and out of your mouth. Once he’s earned your absolute trust, he might restrain your hands behind your back while using your throat. OR you can restrain yourself by reaching back and grabbing your ankles.

He Sits AKA Game’s On

This one is similar to the sideways version of the laying on your stomach blowjob pose only he’s sitting instead of laying down. There’s a bit less room for you to work your magic since his thigh and belly are in the way. Try placing one hand behind his back and the other over his thigh. You can also try sliding your second hand under his thigh and reach his cock and balls from below. Just beware this version can put your arm to sleep fairly quick if he’s too heavy with his leg.

Use this pose while he’s playing a video game and challenge him to see how long he can keep his character alive. Or just use it while watching a movie when you’re in the mood to Netflix and chill.

Prone Dildo BJ Threesome

Finally, because I’ve been asked over and over about dildo threesomes and practicing blowjobs with dildos, I figured I’d share this gem.

Imagine practicing your blowjob skills and opening your throat on a dildo while your man gets on top and enters you from behind.

It’s a great way to get some sensations of a threesome without the jealousy. Do it in front of a mirror so he can see you suck a toy while he plows deep inside of you. Also opens up your throat and prepares you for the switch.

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Face Sitting Femdom Position – The ultimate BDSM kink to learn…

Face sitting AKA queening is when a woman sits on your face and allows or forces oral. It’s often associated with femdom and bdsm.

Your woman can kneel, squat, or sit on a throne. Yes there are actually “thrones” made and sold for the sole purpose of face sitting.

She can face your head, a side, or your feet.

Although there is one issue with the latter.

Facing towards your feet can take away from the pleasure for her because seeing your lonely cock sit there unattended can make her feel like she should bend over and please you too.

On the other hand, if going down on your girl makes you hard, seeing you progressively get harder and she sits on your face can be a major turn-on.

One way to get the benefit while avoiding the con here is to use this version of the position while you’ve got your underwear still on. A barrier that prevents her from going down while also being loose or thin enough for your erection to be obvious through them.

WARNING ABOUT FACE SITTING:

Safe words are a must with risky positions like this. In the case of face sitting, safe words don’t cut it since you might not be able to get any words out. So make sure you get clear on a safe ACT. Tapping out on her thighs is a simple a effective one that should do the trick.

There are 2 main techniques for face sitting. She can sit still while you work your magic. Not easy since your neck will have to fight gravity the entire time.

Or you stay still while she grinds away and fucks your face. Relax, pay attention to her movements, and this can be the most exciting reconnaissance mission of your life.

Use this experience to learn everything you can about your girls oral preferences. Notice the speed, pressure, and rhythm she uses to grind your tongue. Notice if or how these elements change as she gets more and more into it. Take not of every move she makes and your oral game will have no choice but to level up immediately.

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How To Get Him Hard – 4 Foolproof Tactics

A little embarrassed that you’re not sure how to get him hard? I mean, guys have been trying to stop having erections at inappropriate times for decades.

The classic example being, having to hold a book in front of their crotches when approaching the front of the class in school. What a bummer that must be! We’re so lucky that our arousal is completely hidden 24/7. We might have been creaming our pants, but at least we could still read our papers in front of the whole 9^th grade History class.

Besides the mention of their mothers there isn’t much that doesn’t get a dick hard. That makes our job easy. But, you might need a little dickspiration, which is why I’m here! Check out the information below so that you can get your guy hard whenever needed.

Foreplay is hella important. You can’t fuck a limp dick! So, let’s take these limp dicks into into the bedroom and get them inflated. Try these out tips for fast results:

- Putting on a sexy show is a fun way to raise the roof in his pants. Men are super visual. Have him sit down in a chair or on the bed. Make him watch as you slowly undress and dance around. Your bouncing tits and the subtle touches of your own hands on your skin is sure to drive him wild. Can you say instant erection? It’s like watching a live version of porn. And what guy wouldn’t like to be a player in that show?
- Speaking of porn… Not in the mood to perform? Watch some other hot people perform for you. Watching porn together is a great way to get both of your juices going. I honestly don’t think I’ve ever seen a guy able to watch porn without pitching a tent. There’s just something about watching other people get it on, that always works like a charm. Bodies thrusting, sweat dripping, cries of ecstasy…And, it will give you both inspiration for what’s to come. Watch a little to prime the pumps, and then have some fun trying to do what the freaky people did! Trying to duplicate porn can be extremely pleasurable, and if it’s not, it’s at least completely hilarious.
- Direct contact is pretty reliable! Pull that trouser snake out and get to stroking. Rubbing his shaft and gently cradling his balls is a great way to get the blood rushing to his member. He’ll be at full-capacity in no time. Hand jobs are a beautiful thing if you can pull them off. Pro Tip: I like to ask a man to jerk off in front of me, so that I can see what he likes. Jerkin’ someone else’s meat can be tricky if you’re not in tune to what they’re into. Everyone’s a little different when it comes to pressure, speed and angle. Once he’s shown you, there’s no excuse for faulty hand jobs! Let him lead by example and then go to town.
- Blowjobs. Aaah the magic of sucking dick. A fail safe tactic to get him from zero to one hundred in no time flat. BJs are great icebreakers for the bedroom, lol. Hey, at least you don’t have to do any of the talking right?? Haha!

Taking him into your mouth for a few is sure to do the trick, and the great thing is – I’m often interrupted by my man when I’m sucking because he’s so aroused that he can’t wait to fuck me! Do a good job at blowing him and he’ll be begging you to stop so that you can fuck. Isn’t that great?! Yes. It is. Nothing’s worse than an BJ gone too long… He’ll never say that, but fuck that neck pain! You want to get him in, and then out, (and in and out and in and out), and then get him out of there. You’ve got other business to attend to.

Hopefully these tips are helpful. You definitely want him at full attention for the main event. Hopefully he’ll come already prepared with a boner, but if not, these tactics are sure to help get him where he needs to be – which is IN you!

Now that you know how to get him hard, take it to the next level and get him throbbing!

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