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The Kivin Method AKA Sideways Oral with Pics and Animations

You’ve probably heard that oral sex is the easiest way to get a woman off, but if you’re struggling to make it work for you woman, the kivin method might be exactly what you need.

Traditional cunnilingus positions only deliver a fraction of pleasure potential and often to the wrong place. The kivin method provides way more pleasure and does so exactly where it’s needed, resulting in much stronger and quicker orgasms.

What is the kivin method?

The kivin method is more of a position than a technique. Here’s how it works.

Like usual, your woman lies on her back, legs spread. But instead of lying on your stomach and coming straight on from in between her legs, you come in from the side. Here’s what it looks like:

Now, when you lick up and down, it’s going to stimulate her side to side instead of up and down. It might not seem like it at first, but this is a total game changer.

Here’s why:

Your tongue makes contact with much more of the clit at once. It takes a lot less time to cover the entire clit and make its way back. Take a look and both these animations. Imagine the blue line is your tongue making its way up and down. Notice how long it takes to cover the entire clit in the first version and how quickly you engage the entire clit in the second. A lot more pleasure, faster.

All this extra pleasure is only delivered where it’s welcome so you don’t overstimulate her. Until your woman is really aroused, the clitoral head is often too sensitive for direct contact. Traditional oral ignores this by licking up and down, head to shaft. This can deliver short bursts of pleasure interspersed with shorter hits of too much sensitivity. Not good. By going sideways, you can ignore the head and focus only on the shaft until her arousal is up and her clitoral head is eager for action. Then you can move over towards the head and include it in your play to provide direct stimulation to both parts instead of just one at a time.

You can add labia licks too! The labia (aka outer lips) are the female equivalent of the male testicles. Not knowing this, most guys completely ignore them. When you start licking your girl kivin style, you can send your tongue a little further with every stroke, including her labia in the fun.

Easier access for your hands. In the old school (between both legs) position, incorporating your hands can be a challenge. Your chin is in the way on the bottom, and playing on top just requires a odd and uncomfortable placement for you hands. But kivin makes hand play easy. When performing sideways oral, both sides are unobstructed and easy to access.

Many women report cumming much faster and easier when introduced to the kivin.

Take reddit user PokerBabe25 for example.

In this post about the kivin, she expresses her frustration in not making her wife cum from cunnilingus. ‘I’ve always enjoyed performing oral sex on my partners, often with “good results” but with my wife my usual techniques almost never bring her completely to orgasm. She gets very close, but I could barely ever get her there.’

Before finding kivin, she poured in tons of effort while falling short to deliver: ‘I often go 15-20 minutes and have her teetering on the edge without managing to get her to come.’

After a bit of tweaking with the kivin method: ‘She came within about 5 minutes of me finding the rhythm and best hand positon! This was definitely a big change’

With results like that, the kivin is a must try!

Is the Kivin Method guaranteed to work?

Maybe, with some women. For others, no. It’s such a radically different experience for a woman that you just need to try it. It can be the difference between giving her light, playful orgasms that ‘feel good’ vs earth shattering eruptions of bliss that literally change her life forever. So for gods sake, try it!

Press a fingertip or thumbpad against her taint. — Pressing the taint

How can you tell if your woman likes it more? Well relying solely on your girls feedback is not always the best move. She might bend the truth to spare your feelings or she might not know that more pleasure is possible. While you should absolutely encourage feedback, you want to learn the pleasure signals that do not lie. The physical cues she can’t control. In the make her come first formula, you learn all these unconscious ‘tells’ but for now, here is one of the easiest to use in the kivin method.

Place your thumbpad or finger tip on her taint (the area right between her vaginal opening and anus.) As she approaches orgasm, her taint will produce involuntary contractions. In other words, you’ll feel it pulsate. She can’t fake this. Once you’ve done this a few times, you’ll also start to notice some other tells she does naturally when nearing her peak. Maybe her eyes roll back in some unique way or her lips do something funny. Tuck that nugget of info in your memory to read her orgasm next time you don’t have a finer on her taint.

Conclusion:

The kivin method will either prove to be the best way to go down on your girl or not. Either way, you owe it to yourself to try it out. It just might have the biggest impact on your sex life of anything you ever do.

When you’re ready to master every aspect of going down, check out the make her come first formula and give your girl the best oral of her life, guaranteed!

Mating Press Gives Her The Deepest Orgasms She Can Have… When You Do This

The mating press is not just a sex position. It’s a term used to describe a specific view (or camera angle) of a particular position in porn, hentai, and rule 34.

Imagine missionary with your woman’s legs lifted and her thighs between both your bodies. Now instead of assuming a push up position, you get on your feet, squat, and lean over her.

The mating press is what you get when combining the anvil and pile driver.

Stick a camera behind your rear ends and voila! You’ve got a front row seat to all the action with intermittent shots of the woman’s facial expression on every pull back.

It’s an advanced sex position because your woman needs to be flexible, and you’re going to need a bit of leg strength to last more then 5 seconds.

The mating press is often associated with cream pies and impregnation porn because it makes it easy to ejaculate deep and closer to the cervix than most positions.

Warning: The cervix is incredibly sensitive. A very small percentage of women love having their cervix stimulated but that vast majority do not. The vast majority feel pain when their cervix is touched.

Why Mating Press Gives Women Such DEEP Orgasms

The reason some women love it is because of a small group of powerful nerve endings found deep in the vagina. This small pleasure packed bunch of nerves has the ability to send a woman through the strongest orgasms of her life.

But here’s the trick…

It’s not in the same place on all women.

The majority have this orgasm trigger just above the cervix. AKA the anterior fornix. Some call it the deep spot. Imagine going after the g-spot, but you keep going deeper.

Some women have this clump of nerves under the cervix. AKA the posterior fornix.

Some women have it to one side.

A very small percentage have it on the cervix.

Once you find this hot spot on your woman, watch out! Women cum quick when this magic hot spot is triggered.

This is the double sided coin that makes the mating press is so popular with impregnation fantasy. On one hand you go deep and ejaculate close to the cervix. On the other side, you hit her O-zone and make her come, thus making it more likely she’ll get pregnant.

See, the biological purpose of female orgasm is to bring the man’s sperm closer to the egg. When you make her come, chances of pregnancy increase.

Angles Make Her Cum In The Mating Press… Here’s How To Do Them

The trick to finding her hot spot and avoiding the cervix is to try different angles and versions of the position. This will send your tip above, below, and to the sides of her cervix. Feel every inch of her fornix with your tip till you find that one perfect spot that sends her to the moon.

Unless she is clearly feeling some discomfort or pain from what you’re doing, give each variation at least a couple of minutes before moving onto the next. While the fornix does react quick to direct stimulation, sometimes it can take your woman a minute to relax into the position and truly feel it.

Finally, make sure the mating press (or any of its variations) are not the first position in your session. Going too deep, too early on can be painful. The vagina needs to warm up to deep penetration.

So let’s get to it.

Below I break the variations down into 2 categories. Her position, and your position. I’m breaking them up this way so that you picture yourself mixing and matching, and finding the right combination for you and your girl.

Her Position:

Her legs folded (Ananda Balasana) vs Her legs straight out

This comes down to her flexibility. She simply won’t be able to have her legs all the way straight if she isn’t flexible enough. Knowing how far straight she can go is good to know because you can hold onto her ankles and push them back. Don’t push more then she is comfortable. The more you push, the more her butt can lift off the ground. You’ll see why this makes a difference in a minute.

Her legs spread wide vs spread a bit vs both on one side

This changes how tight she feels to you. The more open her legs are spread, the less tight she’ll feel. The more you move her legs to look like the images on the left, the tighter she’ll feel. Also keep in minds the last version with both her legs on one said will change the angle and have you aiming at a side. I suggest not playing around with this too much till you find the other elements that work for you girl. Focus on the rest of the things in this article before focusing on how tight she’ll feel to you.

Her butt flat vs tilted

This one makes a big difference. It might not seem like much but this slight shift in her position changes everything. No tilt in her pelvis makes it easier for you to penetrate below her cervix. The slightest tilt will have you naturally stimulating above her cervix.

Your Position:

#1 Squatted Mating Press Sex Position

In this variant you squat and lean over her with your hands on her sides. This is the version that’s used for the “from behind” view.

In this version you want to test hitting your tip above vs below her cervix. Do this by moving closer to her head or away from it.

#2 Kneeling Mating Press AKA The Anvil

This the most comfortable version. You can apply most of your body weight on your knees, last much longer, get closer to her, and grind her to clitoral orgasm.

If she spreads her legs wide, try staying in deep and grinding your pelvis against hers instead of pounding in and out.

This MOVE stimulates her clit while providing a completely unique internal sensation.

# 3 Push up Mating Press

Like the squatted version, this one all comes down to how aligned your bodies should be. Is your head directly above hers, or are you a few inches higher or lower?

Just a few inches completely change your angle and massively change the sensations she feels.

#4 One Foot Up Mating Press

This version is how you hit the sides walls inside of her. If she’s one of the minority who have that magic clumb of orgasm triggering nerve endings off to one side, this is the version that’ll make her explode.

It’s not uncommon to get little reaction at all from all the versions we’ve covered and then make a woman come in seconds when you make the switch to one leg up. As you might imagine, try both legs. Each one will angle you to hit one side.

Bonus Tips To Amplify The Mating Press Sex Position

Tell Her To Watch

Women love dirty talk. Most are also very submissive and love being told what to do. They love being told what to do and they love hearing you tell them what you’re doing.

Because of the angle created in the mating press, your woman can see you entering her pussy with every thrust.

So tell her to watch.

Tell her how sexy it looks when you enter her pretty little pussy as you both get hotter from the view.

Pin Her Arms

Use the sides or insides of your wrists to pin her arms to her body.

Don’t squeeze or hurt her from too much pressure. But just enough pressure to let her feel you holding her will make her feel taken and women (especially submissive women) LOVE this.

Loosen Her Up Before Going Deep

As with any position that lets you go deeper than most, make sure she’s warmed up for it first.

A simple way to do this is by just having sex in other positions before getting to the deeper ones.

But the best way is to make her come before sex.

Before you penetrate her, make her come.

Some women come most from your hands. Some come most from you mouth. And some come from a combination of the 2.

The trick is to find out what move makes your woman come the most.

Not what move you like to do the most, but what move her pussy likes the most.

After years of learning, test, and tweaking every pre penetration move I could find, I discovered a simple, 5 step formula to make any woman come before sex.

Not only that but because this method taps into HER favorite move, it leads to the best orgasms her body can have before penetration.

If you want to make sure your woman comes every time, watch the Make Her Come First Formula.

Make Her Come Fast With The Coital Alignment Technique CAT Position

If you want to make sure your girl comes first, you need to start using the coital alignment technique.

It’s a twist on the classic missionary that was first discovered by reichian psychotherapist Edward Eichel, and it’s been scientifically proven to make guys last longer while making women come faster.

Despite its exceptional abilities, you won’t see this highly effective position used in porn cause it’s nothing special to look at. The rare times it’s talked about online or in books, it’s usually difficult to understand and leaves you with more question than answers.

We’re going to fix that today.

Now, is the C.A.T. going to give your woman the strongest orgasms she’s ever had?

No. That’s not what this position is for.

The Coital Alignment Technique is used to:

Get her first orgasm out of the way fast
Prime her body for multiple orgasms
Make you Last Longer

These are the main reasons why…

The Coital Alignment Technique

Is One Of The Most Valuable Sex Positions

In The All-Star Lovers Arsenal

Anytime I’m with a new girl for the first time, I almost always start our session with the C.A.T.

Why?

Cause I want to get that first orgasm out of the way ASAP.

I don’t care if it’s not a strong orgasm… I only care that it happens.

See the longer it takes a girl to come, the less likely it is to happen.

She wants to please you just as much as you want to please her and she knows that her orgasm pleases you.

The longer it takes her to have that first orgasm, the more time she has to start wondering why it’s not happening… and once she reaches this point, it’s much less likely to happen.

That’s why the C.A.T. is so awesome.

Makes it easy for you to give her that first orgasm fast because it creates the perfect type of clitoral stimulation a woman needs to orgasm.

It also makes you last longer because it does NOT provide the type of stimulation that makes guys orgasm.

It doesn’t matter what size you are either because her orgasm doesn’t come from internal stimulation, rather outer stimulation.

Finally, by getting that first orgasm out of the way, your woman’s brain gets flooded with oxytocin (the pleasure chemical) and she goes into “orgasm mode” where multiple orgasms happen MUCH more easily.

How To Use The Coital Alignment Technique To Give Your Woman Her First Orgasm Fast

The majority of women don’t orgasm during penetration.

But the odds a woman will come skyrocket when clitoral stimulation is added.

This is why many women prefer to grind your pubic bone when they get on top instead of hopping up and down.

In non girl-on-top positions, your woman can get the required clitoral stimulation by rubbing herself with her fingers or a toy. If you’ve ever had sex with a girl while she’s vibing her clit, you know just how fast and easy she can come.

The C.A.T. creates a similar sensation except you get all of the credit.

The CAT position makes you the hero by giving her the clitoral stimulation she needs to come while you’re inside of her. No toys or self stimulation needed.

Here’s how it works.

Get into the missionary position.

Go all the way inside of her and stay there.

Do NOT thrust in and out.

Instead, stay all the way in, forget about your penis, and focus on rubbing your pubic bone against her clit.

Your pubic bone is the area above your penis that has (hopefully well trimmed) pubic hair.

The excitement of having you inside her while you’re “rubbing” her clit gives her both the emotional and physical stimulation she needs to come.

Depending on your size and shape, this movement can also make you hit some (often neglected) feel-good spots deep inside of her.

Instead of creating a sensation of on and off “pulsing” pleasure… you’re providing continuous pleasure that doesn’t takes breaks or stop until she gets off!

Making the switch from thrusting to grinding is often the key factor in turning a non-orgasmic woman into a cum machine.

If you want to reach god mode, here’s how to take it to the next level.

Split Test These 4 Motions In The C.A.T. Position

Watch 100 women play with themselves and you’ll notice 1 thing very quick.

All women masturbate differently.

Some rub their clit side to side.

Some prefer up and down.

And some like circles.

Watching your girl play with herself before you get into the cat can let you know exactly what type of motion you should use.

But if you don’t have that precious info yet, try each of these motions out to see and see what works best for you girl.

Up and down. Little blurb here
Side to side. This one is harder and usually only possible if you’re between her legs.
This one will give you a great core workout.

Another way to find her ideal motion is to let her get on top and watch how she grinds you. Check out my post on the cowgirl position to see exactly how it works.

Position Variations

You can have your legs on the outside of hers or the inside. Some swear by one version while stating the other doesn’t work for them so (as always), try both out and see what works best for your woman.

Keep in mind both are slightly different.

When her legs are open, it’s quite easy to rub your pubic bone against her clit. You might need to shift your bodies angle a bit, or move higher or lower compared to her body… but it’s not hard to figure out.

In the closed leg version, it’s not so easy. Instead of focusing on rubbing your pubic bone against her… you’ll likely have to the base of your shaft.

As always, play with this.

Take your time.

And find what works best for you and your woman.

How To Get Into Closed Leg C.A.T.

Getting into the closed leg version can be next to impossible, unless you know this one simple trick.

Lift one of your legs while she slides hers under you.

Then repeat.

What To Do After The C.A.T. To Really Blow Her Mind

At the start of this article I said the orgasms your girl will have in this position aren’t the strongest.

What this position does is give her first orgasm and prime her body for much more intense orgasms after.

Like the C.A.T. there are other positions and thrusting patterns that give women MUCH more powerful orgasms.

We cover these positions and exactly how they work inside Penetration Orgasms Made Easy. Plus you’ll learn a whole lot more tips, tricks, and techniques to blow your girls mind after the CAT.

Check out Penetration Orgasms Made Easy now to give your girl the best penetration of her life… regardless of your size!