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How To Use the Faceoff Sex Position to Make Her Fall In Love… HARD!

The faceoff sex position might not seem like much, but it’s one of the best positions for building intimacy and sexual trust.

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you already know that women are desperate to experience many different shades of the sexual rainbow.

I’m not talking about women wanting to get it on with other women, although that is a common fantasy.

What I’m talking about is giving your woman a variety of erotic emotions.

Women crave “dark emotions” like lust and uncontrollable desire… and they also crave light emotions such as feeling cared for, special, and loved.

IMPORTANT: In this context, I’m talking specifically about women who are in committed relationships.

If you’re just hooking up with a one night stand, there’s a high chance that she doesn’t want to feel the lighter emotions like love. She might even be afraid to experience them with you. Unless you know her O type and you know she needs light emotions to orgasm, going light with a one night stand is usually a turnoff. Stick to the dark emotions for one night stands and fuck buddies.

On the other hand, if you’re in a committed relationship with a woman you love, NOTHING will satisfy her more than a VARIETY of sexual experiences.

Sometimes she craves being tied her up, brought to the brink of orgasm, and then denied that orgasm at the last minute.

Sometimes she craves a spontaneous quickie in the car or kitchen.

Sometimes she craves being completely dominated and given a hard fucking.

And sometimes, she wants nothing more than to make sweet, slow, romantic love that penetrates her soul and fills her up with love and connection.

The faceoff sex position is one of the best positions for light-emotion sex.

Now that we’re clear on when you should and shouldn’t use this position…

Here’s How To Pull Off the Faceoff Sex Position

To get in the faceoff, sit down on a chair, the edge of a bed, a couch, or in a car. Only parked cars count!

Facing you, your woman sits and kneels on top of you.

It’s that simple.

The part where guys get hung up is when it comes to the thrusting.

How She Comes In the Face Off

A common mistake guys make whenever their woman gets on top is to grab onto her and start pounding really hard and fast from the bottom. Some women like this… but for most it just ruins her orgasm.

See the type of stimulation that makes a guy come isn’t the same type of stimulation that gets a woman off.

Straight in and out penetration gives us the friction we need to come but women need to have their clit, g-spot, or one of the deep spots stimulated.

Going straight in usually doesn’t do it for her. Unless you’re packing so much meat that Ron Jeremy would be jealous.

Any time your woman gets on top, let her move and grind in the way that works best for her, or give her some time to find that perfect motion and then take control only if and when you can mimic it perfectly.

In the faceoff, you won’t be able to “thrust back” since your ass is stuck to a surface.

That’s a good thing.

Let her take control.

Let her ride.

Let her come.

Most likely she’ll find that one of these 2 motions works best for her:

Grinding you so that your pubic bone rubs against her clit.
Rocking back and forth (slightly) so that the tip of your penis rubs against one of her deep spots.

In the latter version, it won’t feel like she’s doing much at all. In fact many guys who don’t understand what she’s doing might get frustrated and impatient, longing for some in and out action.

But you know better.

You understand that those seemingly minute movements have a powerful effect inside of her.

Use The Faceoff Sex Position To Build Intimacy & Sexual Trust

In the beginning of this article I mentioned how women crave a variety of sexual experiences and emotions.

One of the keys to using giving your woman variety is to make sure everything is congruent.

When using a light position and thrusting style, don’t pull her hair and use raunchy dirty talk.

When fucking her hard in doggy, don’t talk in a low voice and tell her how much you love her.

Keep everything congruent.

Got it?

Since the face off is best for light love making, add in congruent “bonuses”.

Side note: oxytocin is known as the love hormone. Our brains produce more of this hormone when making love and when our bodies are so close and pressed up against each other.

Keep it congruent and amplify oxytocin production by:

Looking deep into each others eyes.
Whispering sweet nothings into her ear.
Having her wrap her arms around your neck while you wrap yours around her waist and hold her close.
Passionately kiss her lips, her neck, and her breasts.
Get present and FEEL YOUR BODY while you’re inside her. Mirror neurons ß find science link – will fire and she’ll start to do the same. When she does, you’ll feel each other on a deeper, almost spiritual level. I know it sounds corny, but trust me… nothing will make her feel more loved, special and connected.

Transition Positions

Finally, as I always try to cover in the blogs, make sure you transition smoothly from one position to the next.

Here are 2 simple yet powerfully effective transitions from the faceoff.

Cowgirl

Not much to this one. Just lean back, let her make the adjustments necessary and then ride you to orgasm.

transitioning into cowgirl — Faceoff to Cowgirl transition

Reverse Lap Dance

While you stay in the same position, tell her it would be really hot if she leaned back.

By doing this, it’ll position her g-spot directly above your penis head. With just a bit of movement, she’ll quickly realize that she can “drop” her g-spot directly onto you for incredibly pleasurable penetration.

You can easily reach over and play with her boobs or clit for that extra boost in pleasure.

Watch The 67 Ways To Make Women Come

Why The Best Lovers Use The Side Straddle Sex Position So Often

The side straddle sex position is one of the most important in a great lovers sexual arsenal.

Not only does it give unusually unique and pleasurable sensations for your woman, it also creates one of the most important elements of a satisfying romp… smooth transitions.

In this article you’ll learn:

Why “transition positions” are such a key ingredient to being an amazing lover… and why the side straddle is one of these key positions.
How the side straddle automatically prevents one of the most common penetration mistakes men make.
How to use the side straddle to give your woman one of the most pleasurable, exciting, and orgasmic experiences of her entire life.

First, let’s take a look at…

How To Get Into The Side Straddle Sex Position

While your woman is lying on her side, lift her upper leg, and straddle the other. Hold (or even hug) her upper leg against your chest.

Since she’s on her side while you’re on top, it makes you enter her at a very unusual angle… but one that’s deliciously pleasurable.

Since you both have your legs spread and you enter at an angle you’re going to go much deeper inside of her.

Because of this, you’re going to hit all different kinds of deep pleasure zones that she might have never even known were there!

Meanwhile, depending on weather you hold her leg or just let it rest against you, you can have 1 or both hands free to roam.

Grab her ass with one hand while fondling her breasts with the other.

Or use a hand to play with her clit, while you rub her insides with your tip.

It Makes You Last Longer… WHILE Making Her Come Quicker!

Unlike other positions that make it easy for you to thrust straight in and out very fast, this one makes that hard to do.

Inexperienced lovers might think this is a bad thing, but it’s actually one of the keys that makes this position so great!

Why?

It slows you down and prevents you from coming too quick.
It forces you to thrust in a way that makes women come.

See, women don’t often come from the same kind of penetration that men do.

For a guy to come, he just needs to thrust straight in and out. The faster and harder, the sooner he comes.

But women don’t get much stimulation to their “orgasm triggers” from that type of thrusting.

In order for a woman to come, you need to thrust in a way that stimulates the right spots, such as the clit or g-spot.

Notice when a woman gets on top to ride you, most don’t bounce straight up and down on your cock. Unless she’s a pornstar or stripper, this just isn’t what get’s women off.

What does a woman do when they get on top?

She GRINDs you.

She gets on top, and rather than focusing on your dick going in and out, she focuses on rubbing her clit against your pubic bone and shaft… WHILE you’re inside of her.

Bottom line, this position makes it hard to “pump” in and out of her – the kind of stimulation that makes us come…

And it makes it easy to grind her – the kind of stimulation that makes her come!

So when you’re in the side straddle, grind, don’t pump.

Why The Best Lovers Use The Side Straddle Sex Position So Often

If you’ve been studying how to be a great lover for any amount of time, then you know about the importance of variety.

Women NEED a variety of sexual experiences in order to stay hungry for sex.

This applies to

the emotions she feels during sex
the types of orgasms (IE: oral, fingering, vaginal, anal, etc)
the types of stimulation (IE: clitoral, g-spot, a-spot, etc)
the positions you use.

In this article, we’re focusing on positions and emotions.

If you’re always using the same 2 positions, she’s eventually going to get bored.

Most guys know this.

What isn’t talked about as often by sex educators and “gurus” is the importance of smooth transitions from one position to the next.

If you’re fumbling around and clanking heads to switch positions, it’s going to throw her off her game.

It messes with the emotions needed to orgasm.

All that positive, erotic emotion you built up can dissolve in an instant with one bad fumble.

Transitioning smoothly between positions keeps her in an erotic and orgasmic state. And when you do it right, it even amplifies her pleasure and arousal.

So how do you transition from one position to another?

One step at a time!

Here’s an example.

2 of the most commonly used positions are missionary and doggy.

Use The Side Straddle To Transition From Missionary To Doggy

Start off slow in the missionary position to make her feel safe, care for and loved.

Kiss her.

Whisper some sweet nothing in her ear.

Get present and FEEL your arousal build. Because women are so intuitive, it’ll cause her to feel the same.

Now, SLOWLY pull out of her while looking her in the eyes (with a flirty grin on your face) and keep feeling your arousal.

Put a hand on the bed (for support) and lift one of your knees over one of her thighs to straddle her.

Grab her other leg and slowly lift it up towards your chest while gently kissing it a few times.

When you do this, her core will naturally start to rotate and tilt her upper body on its side.

It’ll feel very smooth and natural to her and it’ll build her arousal cause she’ll anticipate what’s happening next without having to think about what to do or what position to get in.

Now rest her leg against your chest, and start to tease her clit with your tip.

Rub it against her clit side to side, up and down, and in circles.

Now rub your tip against her opening for a minute.

Tell her she isn’t ready for it yet to build her desire.

When you’re ready, slowly enter her again.

Now’s the time to start turning up the emotion and arousal a bit more.

Slowly and gradually start to build up the intensity and fuck her a little harder.

Grab her boobs a bit more passionately.

Turn your sweet nothings into slightly dirtier talk.

Feel your arousal getting more intense as your actions follow.

Notice hers doing the same.

Now take her leg off your chest, and move it the other way, towards the other side of the bed.

Try to stay inside of her while doing this.

Now turn everything up to the next level.

Get a little rougher again.

Grab her boobs a little harder (always being careful not to hurt her of course).

Maybe tug on her hair a bit or slap her ass.

Remember, keep dialing up the arousal, dirty talk, and movements all in sync to make the transition as smooth as possible.

Once her emotion is turned on as much as yours…

Grab her upper arm and pull it towards the bed to flip her completely over and take her from behind.

And that’s it!

This is how you use the side straddle sex position to transition from “love-making” missionary to rough from behind doggy.

But these same concepts can be used to transition to and from lots of positions.

Here are the keys to remember.

Do it gradually. In increments.
Find a leverage point to move her around easily (in this case it was her leg)

Make sure to keep the emotions & actions in sync. Don’t make slow, gentle love while pulling her hair and telling her you love how slutty she is. Keep everything congruent!

Give Her an Orgasmic Head Rush in The Wheel Barrow Sex Position

Remember wheelbarrow races? Well those skills you thought you’d never use in real life can finally be put to good use with the wheel barrow sex position.

It’s not the most orgasmic position for your woman cause it requires a lot of effort and will tire her out pretty quickly. But it can be a fun way to switch things up and get her blood flowing.

To get into this position, she starts by getting into a push up, plank, or downward facing dog position. Stand between her legs. Squat down. Pick her up by the thighs and stand up. Spread your legs a little with a bend in your knees and enter her from behind.

Keep in mind that not only does she have to hold herself up in this position, but she also has to keep her balance. If you thrust hard into her, you can easily knock her off her balance and send her crashing to the ground. So instead of pounding hard into her, work on swinging your pelvis without messing her balance. Ideally, you’re thrusting in and out and she isn’t moving at all. So keep your arms steady (since they’re holding onto her lower body) and don’t “smash” into her.

Benefits of the Wheel barrow Sex Position

One of the best parts of this position for you is the view. Not only do you get a great view of her ass, you’re also in the best position to see her pussy lips grip your cock as you slide in and out of her.

You get to go DEEP inside of her! It’s a great position to make your tip reach her deep spot. It’s a spot that doesn’t often get stimulated in traditional positions if you’re on the smaller side. So it’s a great position to make you reach that elusive spot and see her reaction. If she really digs the new feeling, learn other deep spot stimulation positions here.

Like many rear entry positions, the wheelbarrow is great for anal penetration. If she’s not into full on anal but does like to have her starfish tickled, wet a finger tip and massage it. Of course you’ll have to get a hand free which can be tough if you need to hold her up by both hips. We’ll talk about how to free up a hand below.

Build sexual trust in the wheelbarrow

Keep in mind that even if your girl is a fitness junkie, her arms will get tired real quick and she won’t be able to hold this pose for long.

Since her orgasm comes with continuous stimulation when she’s relaxed, it’s unlikely she’ll climax in this position.

So don’t expect too much in terms of her sexual pleasure.

Instead, use this position to build her sexual trust in you.

She’s going to get tired quick and she’ll get lightheaded from all the blood rushing to her brain. This can increase the excitement and arousal but it’s not good for too long.

So try it out, have some fun, and tell her when it’s time to take a break so that you can get her head higher than her heart again, and get her blood flow returning to normal.

It’s subtle, but it’ll increase her trust in you because it shows that her safety is your highest priority. Even above your pleasure.

She will notice this and she’ll be much more likely to do what you say in bed because she knows you’re looking out for her well being.

Now if she really likes the sensations of feeling you deep while she’s getting a bit of a head rush, try…

Different variations of the wheel barrow sex position.

The slightest change in a position can make all the difference.

Here’s a few variations to try.

Traditional Wheel Barrow

This is the traditional version of the position. Again, the thing you need to be most aware of in this version (other than her arms will get tired quick), is that her brain will fill with blood and she will get light headed cause her head is lower than her heart.

This can be pleasurable. But too much is not good. So don’t stay in this position too long.

If she likes the sensations, try one of these next 2 variations that mimics the traditional version more comfortably.

Leaning Wheel Barrow

The leaning version is just like the normal, only she’s leaning her upper body on a couch, bed, ottoman or anything that’s comfortable and the right height. If her head is slightly lower than her heart (such as the image here), she’ll be able to last much longer cause her arms don’t have to do any work and the blood doesn’t rush to her brain as quick.

Kneeling Wheel Barrow

Another version that keeps her head and heart at roughly the same level.

She can hold herself up on her hands or lean on her forearms.

If she leans on her forearms, it’ll create a different angle and will likely be more or less stimulating.

So it’s worth trying both to see what she likes best.

Wanton Wheel Barrow

Finally, this is the expert version of the wheel barrow. Only try this one out if she’s already extremely flexible and enjoys the traditional position.

It’s tough.

It’s not likely to produce orgasm.

But it’s worth a try cause it creates a totally unique angle and can help you find new parts of her that lead to more pleasure and orgasms.

If it does hit the right spot, make sure you try out other odd angle positions.

Dominate Her G-Spot with the Prone Bone Sex Position

If your woman loves doggy style, you’ve got to try out the prone bone position. Like traditional doggy, the prone bone also hits the g-spot with ease but… it also makes you go MUCH deeper so she feels all your fullness!

Even if you’re on the smaller side, you’ll feel huge inside her.

If you’re longer than average, you’ll be able to go deep without hitting her cervix.

The prone bone truly is one of the greatest, most orgasmic positions there are. In fact it’s loved by so many that there’s even a prone bone subreddit, one of only a handful of positions to claim their own spot on the site.

To get into it, flatten your woman out on a bed, face down. Get on top and enter her from behind.

To make sure you’re giving her the best sex she’s ever had in the prone bone position, test and tweak different variations.

As with every thing related to sex, not all women like the same things.

Different women have unique sensitivities.

Their g-spots and clits can react differently to different moves.

Their “hot spots” can be in slightly different places.

To really master the prone bone position, you need to test out a few different variations to find the one that hits the spot just right.

The most important thing to test in the prone bone position is your angles of penetration.

Specifically, the pelvic tilt, and the side tilt.

Different angles of pelvic tilt.

The reason this position works so well for giving women powerful orgasms is because you’re thrusting straight down into her g-spot.

By tilting her pelvis, your penis can plow straight into it and keep going, rubbing against the entire upper wall where the g-spot and deep spot are.

Have her stick her butt out or make it easier on her by putting a pillow or sex wedge under her hips.

This naturally tilts her pelvis and makes it much more comfortable to receive your powerful pounding.

Try no tilt, vs tilting with 1 pillow, vs tilting with 2.

Enter her straight on vs from the side.

This one’s really simple. In one version, come in straight from behind with both your legs between or on the outside of hers. In the second version, straddle one of her legs with yours, making you come in at an angle.

For some women, coming in at an angle like this is make you hit the perfect spot!

Now that you’ve found the perfect angle to make her come, let’s talk about framing.

We all know “women need to be warmed up first”… but…

Even though the prone bone is one of my favorite go to positions, I don’t recommend using it as the first position in your session. It’s a position I like to save until she’s properly warmed up and is on the verge of orgasm or ready for a second, or third, or more.

That said, women really respond well to being taken back and forth between slow “love-making” to rough fucking.

So start off slow in this position. Especially when you’re testing out the different variations and fine-tuning to discover her preferences.

It’s a very dominant position, which is why you’ll want to spend most time giving her rough sex, but it’s also more intimate than traditional doggy style.

Why?

Your bodies are much closer together.

If you’re leaning over her, your head is directly above hers in the perfect position for some sweet or dirty talk, and if she turns her head to the side, you can kiss her.

Start slow and gentle. Take your time thrusting all the way in, slowly. Remember, this position makes you go very DEEP. Depending on what positions you’ve used in the past, this might be the deepest she’s ever felt you.

So give her time to enjoy every extra bit of you.

If you go too fast, she won’t get to enjoy all the new sensations.

Kiss her neck, shoulders, and if she turns her head, you can even kiss her cheek and mouth.

Whisper sweet nothings into her ear.

Now, as you both get more aroused, start to turn up the heat.

If you remember nothing else from this blog, remember this:

Men want women, and women want to be wanted.

Now what makes a woman feel wanted? I’m talking about feeling wanted sexually here.

What makes her feel sexually attractive and wanted is when you get so hard and turned on that you’re barely able to control yourself.

Imagine a woman was so turned on by you that she was barely able to control herself.

What would that look like?

Would she slowly, make sweet, gently love to you?

No.

She’d throw you down, pin you against the bed and fuck your brains out!

This is what you want to give her… once she’s warmed up of course.

So as you’re making love for a couple of minutes in this position, she’s also making you harder, more aroused, and sending you closer to the verge of losing control.

As you get more turned on, you start fucking her a little harder.

You pin her arms down on the bed.

Your sweet nothings turn to dirty talk.

Caressing her neck and shoulders turns into pushing her head down onto the bed or pulling her hair. All of this without hurting her of course.

Smoothly progress from slow lovemaking while you figure out her preferences, to raw, animalistic pounding straight down into her g-spot and you just might end up giving her the strongest orgasm of her life!

Make Her Come BEFORE Sex To Skyrocket Her Chances of Coming Again During Sex

We all know women are capable of having multiple orgasms.

Once a woman has her first orgasm, she goes into an “orgasmic state” where it’s much easier for her to come again, and again. Her orgasms also become stronger and they take a lot less time.

So if you want to give her 2, 3, 4, or more orgasms, give her that first orgasm before sex.

Here’s the key:

Every woman is different.

Some come easiest from oral sex, others from massaging the g-spot. Some women need a unique combination of both, and some will only come from a very specific technique done just the right way.

Your mission is to find her unique “orgasm formula”.

Once you do that, she’s like putty in your hands. Coming at your will and swearing your the best she’s ever had.

I made this video to show you exactly how to do it.

Watch the Make Her Come First Video to Learn How.

Valedictorian Sex Position for Deeper, Clitoral Ecstasy!

The classic missionary is one of the most commonly used positions, yet it’s constantly getting called out for being boring and vanilla. The valedictorian sex position is a simple twist on the classic missionary that provides HUGE benefits… even if you’re not very big yourself.

In fact if you’re on the smaller side, try this position once and you just might want to make it one of your go to plays cause it’ll have you going deep and feeling ENORMOUS!

Here’s how to pull off the Valedictorian Sex Position:

Start in the classic missionary to get warmed up and let your woman’s vaginal muscles relax and open up some extra room.
Once she’s warmed up and wet for you, lean back and lift her legs in front of you.
Split her legs apart into a giant V shape and slowly press down on them, stretching them forward. When you “fold” her body like this, it shortens her vaginal canal and lets even the smallest guy reach the deepest parts of her!
Now lean forward as close to her as you can get. Put your hands on the bed and let her split legs rest against the fold between your forearms and biceps. She can also hold onto her ankles or thighs (if she can reach), or wrap her arms around your neck and pull you in closer.
Here’s how to use this position like a true all star: instead of thrusting straight in and out of her, focus on grinding yourself against her clit while you stay inside her. You might have to lift yourself higher above hers in order to make contact. That’s fine. Just focus on the grind, cause that’s what’s going to produce the most powerful results!

The combination of grinding her clit, while you’re deep inside of her, and very close intimacy, creates a hat-trick of pleasure that’s going to have your woman screaming in orgasmic ecstasy!

Also, remember that the clitoris is not just some magic love button like many guys think. It’s an entire network of pleasure giving nerve endings that run beneath the skin of her vulva. When you grind against her, your pelvis rubs against hers an excites all those underground hot spots that usually don’t get any lovin at all.

Warning: Because you’re reaching extremely deep inside of her, you might hit her cervix. The vast majority of women find this very painful. So make sure to pay attention, start slow in the position, and don’t hit cervix. If you do, try slight variations of the position.

Try variations of the Valedictorian sex position.

The slightest change in your position and angles can completely change the sensations she feels. If she’s having a hard time coming, the smallest tweak can be the difference she needs. Try spreading her legs wider apart, or bringing them closer together. Try straightening them all the way out, so that they’re up by her head vs slightly bent at the knees. Keep testing and tweaking until you find the version that delivers that grand slam, home run you’re looking for!

To increase the chances she comes during penetration, use this formula to make sure she comes before sex.

She’ll be much more likely to come again. It’ll take her a lot less time to come. Best of all, her orgasms will be much more powerful!