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Mating Press Gives Her The Deepest Orgasms She Can Have… When You Do This

The mating press is not just a sex position. It’s a term used to describe a specific view (or camera angle) of a particular position in porn, hentai, and rule 34.

Imagine missionary with your woman’s legs lifted and her thighs between both your bodies. Now instead of assuming a push up position, you get on your feet, squat, and lean over her.

The mating press is what you get when combining the anvil and pile driver.

Stick a camera behind your rear ends and voila! You’ve got a front row seat to all the action with intermittent shots of the woman’s facial expression on every pull back.

It’s an advanced sex position because your woman needs to be flexible, and you’re going to need a bit of leg strength to last more then 5 seconds.

The mating press is often associated with cream pies and impregnation porn because it makes it easy to ejaculate deep and closer to the cervix than most positions.

Warning: The cervix is incredibly sensitive. A very small percentage of women love having their cervix stimulated but that vast majority do not. The vast majority feel pain when their cervix is touched.

Why Mating Press Gives Women Such DEEP Orgasms

The reason some women love it is because of a small group of powerful nerve endings found deep in the vagina. This small pleasure packed bunch of nerves has the ability to send a woman through the strongest orgasms of her life.

But here’s the trick…

It’s not in the same place on all women.

The majority have this orgasm trigger just above the cervix. AKA the anterior fornix. Some call it the deep spot. Imagine going after the g-spot, but you keep going deeper.

Some women have this clump of nerves under the cervix. AKA the posterior fornix.

Some women have it to one side.

A very small percentage have it on the cervix.

Once you find this hot spot on your woman, watch out! Women cum quick when this magic hot spot is triggered.

This is the double sided coin that makes the mating press is so popular with impregnation fantasy. On one hand you go deep and ejaculate close to the cervix. On the other side, you hit her O-zone and make her come, thus making it more likely she’ll get pregnant.

See, the biological purpose of female orgasm is to bring the man’s sperm closer to the egg. When you make her come, chances of pregnancy increase.

Angles Make Her Cum In The Mating Press… Here’s How To Do Them

The trick to finding her hot spot and avoiding the cervix is to try different angles and versions of the position. This will send your tip above, below, and to the sides of her cervix. Feel every inch of her fornix with your tip till you find that one perfect spot that sends her to the moon.

Unless she is clearly feeling some discomfort or pain from what you’re doing, give each variation at least a couple of minutes before moving onto the next. While the fornix does react quick to direct stimulation, sometimes it can take your woman a minute to relax into the position and truly feel it.

Finally, make sure the mating press (or any of its variations) are not the first position in your session. Going too deep, too early on can be painful. The vagina needs to warm up to deep penetration.

So let’s get to it.

Below I break the variations down into 2 categories. Her position, and your position. I’m breaking them up this way so that you picture yourself mixing and matching, and finding the right combination for you and your girl.

Her Position:

Her legs folded (Ananda Balasana) vs Her legs straight out

This comes down to her flexibility. She simply won’t be able to have her legs all the way straight if she isn’t flexible enough. Knowing how far straight she can go is good to know because you can hold onto her ankles and push them back. Don’t push more then she is comfortable. The more you push, the more her butt can lift off the ground. You’ll see why this makes a difference in a minute.

Her legs spread wide vs spread a bit vs both on one side

This changes how tight she feels to you. The more open her legs are spread, the less tight she’ll feel. The more you move her legs to look like the images on the left, the tighter she’ll feel. Also keep in minds the last version with both her legs on one said will change the angle and have you aiming at a side. I suggest not playing around with this too much till you find the other elements that work for you girl. Focus on the rest of the things in this article before focusing on how tight she’ll feel to you.

Her butt flat vs tilted

This one makes a big difference. It might not seem like much but this slight shift in her position changes everything. No tilt in her pelvis makes it easier for you to penetrate below her cervix. The slightest tilt will have you naturally stimulating above her cervix.

Your Position:

#1 Squatted Mating Press Sex Position

In this variant you squat and lean over her with your hands on her sides. This is the version that’s used for the “from behind” view.

In this version you want to test hitting your tip above vs below her cervix. Do this by moving closer to her head or away from it.

#2 Kneeling Mating Press AKA The Anvil

This the most comfortable version. You can apply most of your body weight on your knees, last much longer, get closer to her, and grind her to clitoral orgasm.

If she spreads her legs wide, try staying in deep and grinding your pelvis against hers instead of pounding in and out.

This MOVE stimulates her clit while providing a completely unique internal sensation.

# 3 Push up Mating Press

Like the squatted version, this one all comes down to how aligned your bodies should be. Is your head directly above hers, or are you a few inches higher or lower?

Just a few inches completely change your angle and massively change the sensations she feels.

#4 One Foot Up Mating Press

This version is how you hit the sides walls inside of her. If she’s one of the minority who have that magic clumb of orgasm triggering nerve endings off to one side, this is the version that’ll make her explode.

It’s not uncommon to get little reaction at all from all the versions we’ve covered and then make a woman come in seconds when you make the switch to one leg up. As you might imagine, try both legs. Each one will angle you to hit one side.

Bonus Tips To Amplify The Mating Press Sex Position

Tell Her To Watch

Women love dirty talk. Most are also very submissive and love being told what to do. They love being told what to do and they love hearing you tell them what you’re doing.

Because of the angle created in the mating press, your woman can see you entering her pussy with every thrust.

So tell her to watch.

Tell her how sexy it looks when you enter her pretty little pussy as you both get hotter from the view.

Pin Her Arms

Use the sides or insides of your wrists to pin her arms to her body.

Don’t squeeze or hurt her from too much pressure. But just enough pressure to let her feel you holding her will make her feel taken and women (especially submissive women) LOVE this.

Loosen Her Up Before Going Deep

As with any position that lets you go deeper than most, make sure she’s warmed up for it first.

A simple way to do this is by just having sex in other positions before getting to the deeper ones.

But the best way is to make her come before sex.

Before you penetrate her, make her come.

Some women come most from your hands. Some come most from you mouth. And some come from a combination of the 2.

The trick is to find out what move makes your woman come the most.

Not what move you like to do the most, but what move her pussy likes the most.

After years of learning, test, and tweaking every pre penetration move I could find, I discovered a simple, 5 step formula to make any woman come before sex.

Not only that but because this method taps into HER favorite move, it leads to the best orgasms her body can have before penetration.

If you want to make sure your woman comes every time, watch the Make Her Come First Formula.

The Doggy Style Trick That Makes Her Come First

Women LOVE the doggy style sex position.

Why?

- With every thrust, your balls slap her clit.
- Your hips smack her ass.
- It’s easy and natural for her to submit to you.
- Contrary to popular belief, doggy style doesn’t give g-spot orgasms… rather much deeper and more powerful “end zone” orgasms. (More on that in a minute).

But even with all that going for it, most guys only tap into a fraction of doggy styles full pleasure producing potential.

See, there’s a common misconception about doggy style that limits the pleasure you’re able to give your woman.

But once you understand what it is and how it works… it’s not uncommon to make a woman come in just seconds.

Sounds like bs.

I know.

So let’s just get to straight to it.

Forget The G-Spot, Doggy Style Hits Different

The common misconception is that doggy style gives women g-spot orgasms.

This is wrong.

The truth is that doggy style hits a much more powerful spot inside your woman.

When a woman bends over in doggy style, the vaginal canal “folds” and the distance from beginning to end become much shorter. This is why you can reach a lot deeper, even if you aren’t very large.

As you enter her, your shaft rubs against her g-spot, but ends up in her deeper (and much more orgasmic) “end zone”.

The technical term for this area is the fornix. Some call it the deep spot but this can be confusing because it’s not one spot and it’s not in the same place on every woman.

The fornix is more like a pleasure packed, circular cavity in the deepest part of the vagina.

Some women’s fornix is more sensitive on the posterior (towards her back), and others on the anterior (towards her front). Some are more sensitive on the right side, and others on the left.

The trick is to hit all these different areas until you can find out exactly where it is on your woman.

Once you do that… it’s game over.

She will come HARD and FAST!

Below, I’ll show you how to find this hidden sweet spot on your woman so you can nail it every time and give your woman the best dam doggy style she’ll ever have.

First…

You Need To Slow It Down, Champ…

The doggy style sex position is one that begs for rough, hard sex.

It’s not time to get all romantic and make slow love.

That said, you need to make her crave a hard fucking before giving it to her.

The way you do this is by teasing her and starting out slow.

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One of the strategies we use on the all-star team is extending gratification.

Every guy knows they need to tease their woman.

In other words, make her crave something before you give it to her.

But what happens once you finally give it to her?

The average guy immediately starts going harder, faster, and deeper.

But the all-start lover does things different. He extends the initial feeling of gratification as long as possible and brings her to the brink of ecstasy before he really gets started.

Imagine your woman bent over in front of you.

Most guys slide in and and start going hard as fast as possible.

But that initial moment when you finally enter her is so exciting, so satisfying, so gratifying… that you want to extend that feeling for as long as possible.

Here’s how to do it.

Start by rubbing the tip of your cock against her clit, then press your tip against her opening. Don’t go in just yet. Instead, press yourself against her opening.

Then go back to rubbing your tip against her clit.

The feeling of you pressing against her opening without going in will make her anticipate your entrance. AKA it’ll tease her and make her crave you inside of her.

Switch back and forth between rubbing her clit and teasing her opening for at least a minute.

Now here’s where you take this to the next level…

When you finally enter her… only let her have the tip.

Then pull out.

Give her just your tip again.

And pull out again.

Do this 9 times.

Then on the tenth, go all the way it. You’ll feel MASSIVE even if you’re on the smaller side.

Now pull out and go back to just the tip.

This time, give her your tip 8 times, and go balls deep twice.

Then 7 and 3.

Keep doing this till you reach 10 full, deep thrusts.

By the time you’re done, she’ll be on the brink of orgasm and you haven’t even gotten started yet.

Bonus Benefit: If you struggle with premature ejaculation, this technique is a must because it gets you used to the sensation without overload. In other words, you have much more control on when you unload.

If you want to take this to the next level, you can keep the pattern going in reverse.

Go from 10 deep and 0 shallow, to 9 deep and 1 shallow.

Then 8 and 2.

All the way back to the starting line.

Now that you’ve got her gushing wet and begging for more, lets’ get to…

Doggy Style Sex Position Variations:

There are 3 main variations of the doggy style sex position. Traditional, standing, and prone. But within each of these versions, there are small, simple shifts you can make that change everything.

This is what really matters.

It’s not about finding the wildest version you can pull off… it’s about finding the tweaks that work for your woman.

Lifting a leg, moving an inch forward or backward, or making a slight adjustment in your thrusts can be the difference between “Yes, I was close.” and “Oh My Gawd, how the hell did you do that?”

Remember, every woman’s “end zone” is a little different and the way you make up for that is by fine tuning little details of the position to hit her sweet spot just right.

Traditional Doggy Style Sex Position

This is the classic version of doggy style we all know and love. Your woman gets on all fours while you stand or kneel behind her.

This is a great version to start in for one simple reason.

Your woman has just the right amount of control.

You aren’t going as hard as she wants? She can back up harder onto you.

Going too deep to early? She can move forward as needed.

Not giving it to her fast enough? She can thrust back to makeup the difference.

Keep in mind that when you switch to a different variation, these preferences can change but this gives you a great starting point.

Once you’re confident that you know just how she likes it, grab her waist and take control.

As for tweaks, this version is all about height and tight.

By spreading your legs further apart or closer together, your pelvis will be aligned higher or lower with hers.

By spreading her legs further apart or closer together, she’ll feel more or less tight.

Face Down Ass Up (FDAU)

The traditional style is great for getting started. But it can quickly get tiring for your woman.

When she does get tired, the easiest thing to do is lean forward and rest her upper body on the bed while leaving her ass up in the air.

This completely changes the angle and leads to an entirely different sensation for her. So pay attention to the difference in her reactions.

Is she getting louder?

Grasping the sheets tighter?

Thrusting back a little harder?

Face Up Ass Up

In face down ass up, she lies her upper body down on the bed. In this version you bring her upper body up towards yours.

Again, this changes the angle completely and creates a whole new sensation for her.

When she’s in traditional doggy, put your hand around her neck and pull her towards you.

Kiss or lightly bite her neck and talk dirty.

Find Her Sweet Spot In Traditional Doggy

The way to fine-tune these versions of the traditional position is by honing in on the perfect angle.

Make sure you try all 3 of these.

Get on your feet and crouch over her. This will make the difference between hitting her anterior fornix (closer to her belly) vs hitting her posterior fornix (closer to her back).
Lift 1 of your legs while keeping the other in place. This will make you go towards one side.
Move 1 of her legs closer towards her head.

Remember, each of these versions will feel like an entirely new position to her. Any one of them can be the one that hits her end zone and send her to orgasm within seconds.

Standing Doggy Style Sex Position

Standing doggy is awesome for quickies, getting it on outside of the bedroom, or just mixing things up.

You Stand, She Kneels

Stand at the very edge of the bed while she’s on all fours.

Hit different angles by putting 1 foot on the bed and the other on the ground.

1 tweak to try in this version is to swing your thrusts rather than just go forward.

Really swing your hips and pelvis so that you’re going in and up, into her posterior fornix.

You Both Stand.

Great for shower sex, outdoor sex while you keep an eye out for peepers, or when you’re trying to make your way to the bedroom but you’re both so horny you can’t make it past the hallway.

Similar to traditional doggy, you want to test your angles.

She can stand up taller with her head closer to yours, or bend over forward with her hands closer to the ground.

Both versions make you hit different the different fornicies so try both and see what works for her.

If she’s flexible, or if there’s something to rest her hands on, she can lean forward and have you plowing into her spot.

The other version is to have her head up, towards you. Again, you can easily accomplish this by putting your hand on her neck and pulling her up to you.

You can also lift one of you legs to get the side angles and unlike when she’s on all fours, she can lift a leg as well.

You Stand She Leans

This one is all about her height and the height of your furniture.

Is your counter, kitchen table, or dresser about the height of her waist?

If so you can pull off a traditional standing doggy while she leans over the furniture.

She can also have her hands on the floor or pull a FDAU with her face down on the couch while standing.

This dramatically changes the angle and if she’s a posterior fornix girl… you’ll drive straight into her spot with every thrust!

Finally, we have…

Prone Doggy Style AKA Prone Bone

I’ve already done a full blog post on the prone bone position so I won’t go too deep here.

In this version your woman lies flat on her stomach while you enter from behind.

This position creates yet another completely different sensation on your woman and is a must try.

It doesn’t “fold” the vaginal canal as much as doggy so you won’t go as deep and you might not be able to reach her fornices, but you will hit her g-spot directly.

Just like everything you’ve learned so far, test out different angles.

By going higher or lower on her body, you change the angle and the spot you hit.

Put a pillow under her pelvis to change the angle and hit higher or lower.

Intertwine your legs on one side or the other to hit the different sides of her o’zone.

How To Last Longer In The Doggy Style Sex Position

If there’s one position where guys are prone to ejaculate prematurely, it’s doggy style.

There’s just something about seeing your girl bent over with her ass right there for the taking… that makes you want to bust.

If that wasn’t enough, it’s one of those position where she just wants it fast and hard.

We’ve already covered 2 great tips for lasting long during doggy in this article.

Longer Lasting Doggy Tip #1 Using the “just the tip” technique described above is an easy way to cool yourself down while building her arousal.

By entering just your tip and then pulling out, you allow the most sensitive part of your penis to get used to the new sensation. Before you overload the rest of you cock with sensation, the most sensitive part is already used to it so you don’t blow it too early.

At the same time, your womans level of arousal excels exponentially and by the time you go balls deep, she’s on the verge of climax.

Longer Lasting Doggy Tip #2 When using a standing position, thrust with your entire body, not just your core.

When you’re kneeling, you can only use your core and this makes your penis feel more sensation… sensation that makes you come.

When you stand, you can use the leverage of your entire body to thrust rather than just your core.

Add an upward swinging motion that aims for the fornix and you’ll turn her into a premature ejaculator while you have the stamina of a triathlete.

Longer Lasting Doggy Tip #3 Use short, shallow thrusts.

This one hasn’t been covered in this article so listen up.

If giving just the tip is how you get a woman warmed up and primed for orgasm, this is how you finish her.

Go as deep as you can inside your woman.

Instead of pulling out as much as you can, stay deep. Only pull out 1 or 2 inches, and then back in all the way.

This does 2 very powerful things.

It cuts your sensitivity down by 20% to 50%
It’s shortens your womans wait to have her end zone stimulated.

Instead of hitting her fornix every 3 seconds (for example)… you hit it every 1 or 2 seconds.

This creates a more consistent sensation instead of a pulsing one that leaves and then comes back.

If your using this style of thrusting along with the ideal position to hit her fornix… she can easily erupt in seconds while you remain cool, calm, and completely in control of your own orgasm.

These tricks are just the tips of her orgasmic iceburg:

If you dig the tips on this page, you’re going to love what I have for you next.

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Most guys just thrust in and out, as fast and hard as they can and then hope their girl cums.

That’s how amateurs roll.

The fact is that old school “in and out” style of penetration gives women very little stimulation.

The good news is that there are a handful of thrusting techniques that do give women the consistent, rhythmic stimulation they need in order to cum.

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Go Deeper Than Doggy With The Leapfrog Sex Position

The leapfrog sex position (AKA Face Down Ass Up) is the deeper, rougher cousin of doggystyle.

Women LOVE rough sex and doggystyle just as much as we do.

It’s primal.

It hits all the right spots.

It makes her feel needed, sexy, and taken.

Doggy checks all the boxes for hot, orgasmic sex.

But too much of anything can get boring… and that holds true for sex positions as well.

The leapfrog is a slight variation on the classic pose that gives variety in both position and sensation.

Think of the traditional doggy style only instead of being on all fours, your woman rests her head, arms, and chest on the bed.

It’s the face-down-ass-up version of doggystyle.

Her legs are spread wide while yours are in between hers… although you can switch to make her tighter or if your pelvis’ aren’t aligned.

Unlike traditional doggy, she doesn’t have to hold herself up with both hands. She’s free to reach underneath and rub her clit while you’re stimulating her insides.

Instead of hitting her g-spot, the leapfrog targets the lesser know (but highly orgasmic) posterior fornix!

It’s an area deep inside of her that isn’t stimulated often but can be responsible for some of the strongest orgasms a woman can have.

Doggy Is Painful For Some Women – Leapfrog Might Be The Solution

Some women can’t enjoy doggystyle because it’s painful. Depending on the reason, the leapfrog sex position might be the solution.

Here are the 2 main cause of painful doggy.

It hits her cervix.

A small percentage of women experience tremendous pleasure when you hit their cervix… but for the vast majority, it’s extremely painful.

By getting off her hands and onto her chest, it changes the angle of her vagina and you can avoid the cervix completely.

Air is entering her.

If you’re on the smaller side, air can enter her when you pull out and cause pain when pushing back is.

The trick to this is to use “tighter fitting” positions.

Switching from doggy to the leapfrog can do the trick.

If that doesn’t do it for her, try the closed leg leapfrog. Close her legs and place yours on the outside of hers.

Closed legs will make her feel even tighter, you feel bigger, and it’ll be less likely to let air make its way inside.

Reward And Encourage Submission

The leapfrog is a very vulnerable position for your woman.

She has little to no control.

Her ass and pussy are fully exposed for your inspection and potential judgement.

She can’t see what you’re doing (or about to do) and that can turn anticipation into anxiety if you don’t first…

Take the time to ease any insecurities she might have.

Tell her to get into position.

Lightly caress her butt cheeks with your fingertips.

Tell her how gorgeous her ass looks in this position.

PRO TIP: Compliments are much more believable and effective when you use specifics.

Saying “your ass looks great” is one thing. It’s nice to hear and she’ll appreciate it. But it can get stale and unbelievable.

Saying “your ass looks great in this position” is much more believable and hot to hear simply because it’s more specific. Even if she doesn’t like her ass, she thinks “Oh, but it looks better in this position.” And her subconscious allows her let go of any insecurities she might have so long as she stays in position.

It’s a dark part of human nature and psychology but we might as well use it to make her feel sexy and good about herself.

Now lightly trace your fingernails on her cheeks for a few seconds, then lift your hand and give her ass a nice smack.

The mismatch of sensations create a “super-sensation” that most women absolutely adore.

Take some time to go down on her while you continue lightly scratching her butt and thighs with your finger tips.

When you’re finally about to enter your goddess, make her whimper by gently swiping your length between her folds.

Press the tip of your hard-on against her opening a bit without going in. This is one of my favorite ways to make a woman soaking wet and begging you for it. It makes her imagine and crave you inside of her. Much like imagining a specific food when your hungry amplifies your desire for it.

The Leapfrog Sex Position Is For Hard Fucking, Not Lovemaking

The foreplay tips in the last section are great for getting a woman warmed up and eager for more.

But when it comes to penetration in the leapfrog sex position, don’t be so gentle.

Some positions are better suited for slow, romantic, lovemaking.

The leapfrog isn’t one of them.

If you try “making love” in this position, your woman will feel a lack of congruence and won’t be satisfied.

So save the love-making for another position.

Instead, ratchet-up the dominance.

Amplify her submission.

Make her feel taken and ravished.

Slap and grab her ass. If you did this during the warm up while telling her how sexy her ass looks, you can repeat the same move again during sex without saying a word and she’ll feel the same emotions when you gave the compliment.
Get a firm grip on her hips. Remember, even if you aren’t pulling her onto you, just the feel of your hands grasping her hips amplifies the “rough sex emotions” she needs in this type of position.
Hold, tie, or cuff her hands behind her back. Being physically constrained allows her to submit her body and focus on the sensations that lead her to orgasm.

How To Last Longer In Leapfrog & Other Dog-Like Positions

Some positions are notorious for making guys lose control quicker than others.

The leapfrog isn’t immune to this.

The 3 tips can help you last longer in many positions but especially the leapfrog.

Use a Standing variation

When you’re kneeling behind your woman, you need to use your hips to thrust. It engages your entire core and makes you more likely to come quick if you’re already prone to it.

By standing, you can thrust with your entire body. Use your legs and hips to rock your entire lower body and you’ll cut down the “stress” on your core that makes you come faster.

Pull her to you

Keep still while you grab onto her hips and pull her onto you. Or – even better – get your timing right and pull her while you thrust forward.

Again, it’ll help relax your core and as an added bonus, it’ll give her the extra hot and arousing sensation of being taken. Very powerful!

Stay deep and use shorter thrusts

Long thrusts that stimulate your entire shaft lead to premature orgasms. By shortening the length of your thrusts, you increase your staying power.

Go as deep as you can and only pull out half way before thrusting forward again.

You’ll last longer and she’ll get that deep, fulfilling pounding this position is intended for.

Try These Different Leapfrog Variations To Find The One That Blows Her Mind

I often say on this blog that it’s often not about what position you’re using, rather how you’re using it. Many women will LOVE a certain position with one guy but hate it with another. The reason is often due to the smallest, subtle differences, and the fact that the better lover takes the time to find her favorite. To master your woman’s unique preferences, watch this video.

Bound Leapfrog Position

We talked about using the leapfrog in a dominant way. The bound leapfrog is the superior version of this.

Use a spreader bar, necktie, handcuffs, or rope to tie her hands together in between her legs.

Instead of holding her hands behind her back (as shown above), tie them together UNDER her and in between her legs.

Other than focusing her attention on the pleasure you’re delivering, the only thing she’ll be able to do is rub herself if she chooses.

Standing Leapfrog

We covered this one above. It’s pretty straight forward. In this version you have your woman at the edge of the bed so that you can stand behind her instead of kneeling.

Again, if you struggle with premature ejaculation, this version will be best since you can thrust with your entire body rather than just your hips.

The Squatting Leapfrog AKA FDAU Bulldog

Instead of standing or kneeling, you squat down.

It’s just like the bulldog position only she’s in the face down ass up position.

Squatting will completely change the angle of pleasure and can make you go even deeper.

Obviously, you won’t be able to last as long in this version so try it out, gauge your woman’s reaction, and if she really likes it, save it for an explosive finish.

The Leg Up Leapfrog

Stand or kneel with one foot while lifting and bending the other at the knee.

This one creates the most drastic change in what she’ll feel.

Not only does it make you go extra deep, it also makes you hit at a slight side angle.

If your woman’s deep spot is off to one side – watch this video if you’re not sure – this is the version you’ll want to use.

It might take a minute to get your rhythm going but once you do, watch out!

IMPORTANT: Leapfrog After-Care

Again, the leapfrog sex position is best used during rough, dominant sex.

If you’re in a long term, committed relationship, it’s crucial that you finish a rough-sex session with proper after-care.

Feeling objectified and wanted for nothing but our bodies can be an incredible turn-on… DURING SEX.

But…

We also want to feel special, cared for, and loved.

If you just get up and leave immediately after rough sex, it will leave your woman feeling used.

Not good.

You MUST invest a little extra time after rough sex to make sure she knows you love her and don’t see her as just a sex object.

Lie her flat on her belly gently touch, kissing, and appreciating her entire body as she basks in her after orgasm glow.

Lightly scratch her butt and thighs.

Sprinkle in some kisses.

Slowly work your way up her back till you reach her neck.

Kiss her neck, whispering sweet nothings, and spending a few minutes holding her and letting her know that you love her and aren’t simply “done with her” now that you got your rocks off.

Being the best she’s ever had means satisfying the physical AND emotional parts of her.

This is true for every woman.

But HOW you do it changes from one woman to the next.

In this video I show you how to fine tune all your strategies and techniques in order to match your woman’s unique preferences and subtle differences.

When you fine tune your techniques to match all her unique differences, you truly satisfy every one of her needs and desires.

Watch this video to learn exactly how it’s done and make sure you’re giving her the best sex of her entire life!

Piledriver Position & The Secret to Giving DEEP Fornix Orgasms

You’ve likely seen the Piledriver position (AKA Butter Churner) in porn.

It makes for a great view. The woman is fully exposed and the penetration is easily visible.

In the real world, this position isn’t so popular.

It’s tough on the guys legs.

It’s uncomfortable for her (unless she’s a yoga junkie) and might even be impossible to get in without the flexibility.

And it’s more prone to injury than other positions.

So why bother? Cause you can go deep!

It allows for vaginal and anal penetration.

If you’re doing anal, get a toy in her pussy and give her that double stuffing!

This position is also incredibly male dominant so if your women likes being submissive (like the vast majority do), the thrill of this position might be worth giving it a try at least once.

Because her head is lower than her heart, blood will also rush to her brain giving her the added sensation of a “head rush”.

Here’s how to do the PileDriver Sex Position:

She lies on her back and lifts her legs towards her head.

She keeps going until her butt raises up off the floor.

If she’s flexible enough, her feet will touch the floor on each side of her head.

She’s essentially getting into a yoga plow pose.

You then stand on top and squat down into her.

Pile Driver Injury Warning:

One of the challenges with the pile driver is that it can put serious strain on your penile suspensory ligament (PSL).

What the hell is that? Imagine bending an erection all the way back, Ouch!

The solve for this is to lean forward. The more you learn, the less pressure you’ll feel on the ligament.

By leaning forward, you can also hold onto your woman’s ankles and help her stay in position.

Just make sure you’re not pushing too far.

Start Slow and Progress:

First things first, make sure she’s warmed up first.

Use a position like the Valedictorian first and press down on her legs to stretch them a bit.

Once she’s stretched, get her into position and go down on her first.

Gauge her response and if she’s comfortable and responds well, move into penetration.

Don’t start with the full pile driver.

Try the quarter version where her body is only slightly folded and feet don’t fully touch the ground.

Make it more comfortable by putting some pillows under her lower back.

If she continues to respond well, slowly push down on her legs to go even further.

Make sure you’re getting feedback and never push her past her limit!

A simple tip that makes this position much easier and more comfortable for a lot of women is to do it against a piece of furniture like the headboard of a bed of back of a couch.

With the extra help, she doesn’t have to focus on holding the position.

Lean forward to grab her ankles and she it’ll be even easier for her.

Modified Versions of The Piledriver Sex Position

Once you’ve tried the position and she digs it, try a few variations to see what hit the spot best.

Reverse Pile Driver Position:

Same as the regular pose except that you’re facing the other way.

It’s not as hot because you’re not able to oogle each other but it’ll make you hit the other side of her insides.

Make sure you get your feedback and decide if it’s worth that trade-off.

Tighter Pile Driver:

Instead of having her feet on each side of her head, both are on the same side.

The real benefit here is that it makes her much more tight.

So not only will you dive deep inside her, it’ll also feel like your wider too!

Sideways PileDriver:

Some women get the most pleasure from that slightly angled stimulation.

If that’s your woman, try out this version.

You’ll hit a completely different spot inside of her that might just be the missing ingredient to her orgasm.

Try both sides to see which on works best.

Try leaning forward and back to make sure you test every inch of her insides!

What Version Makes Her Come?

The piledriver can be lots of fun with the right girl… but it’s not a great position for giving orgasms.

There are tons of great positions that increase the woman’s chance at orgasm.

But that’s not the determining factor.

When it comes to sending your girl across the finish line, there’s one little-known thrusting secret you most know regardless of what position you use.

It’s the single biggest reason so many woman struggle to orgasm from penetration.

Even in the information age, most guys don’t know this 1 penetration trick that virtually guarantees female orgasms.

Learn the thrusting trick that makes penetration orgasms easy!

Do NOT Use The Full Nelson Sex Position Unless She Does This…

It’s fairly popular in porn cause it makes for a great camera view, but the full nelson sex position is one I suggest you stay away from except for 1 very specific situation… more on that below.

First, here’s how it’s done.

You typically start out in reverse cowgirl. Transition into the Pearly Gates. Then she folds her legs towards her head.

You reach your arms under her knees and then back up behind her head, putting her into a “head & leg lock”. If you can reach, join your hands together and interlock your fingers.

Lift your legs slightly and bend them at the knees putting the soles of your feet flat on the bed. Now thrust from the bottom while holding her in place.

Why You Should NOT Use The Full Nelson Sex Position

Below you’ll learn the 1 instance where this can be a great and useful position. First, here are a few of the reasons why it’s usually a bad position for most situation.

It’s not easy to pull off.

She’s got to be bendy. She needs the flexibility to bend her legs far back enough that you can hug them and still reach far enough to put your hands on her head.

You also have to worry about balance. All of her body weight is on top of yours and falling over to one side or the other is all too easy. So if you are going to try the position, take a second to figure out your balance before you start thrusting.

The fact that her entire body weight is lying on top of you can be uncomfortable and restrict your breathing.

It can throw her off the path to orgasm psychologically.

Distraction kills women’s orgasms. In order for a woman to orgasm, she’s got to be in the moment and focused on the physical sensations of pleasure. If she’s worried about the bills, what you think of her, or feeling pressured to orgasm, it’s not going to happen.

Getting into the full nelson curls her lower body and “smashes” her belly together. In other words, it’s going to create those rolls on her tummy. Even if she’s really fit, a curled belly creates those pouches that no one likes to see.

Also, because your hands are behind her head, it’s going to tilt her head forward and what’s in her direct line of sight?

Those distracting belly rolls.

Now she’s focused on something she doesn’t like about her body instead of focusing on fun and pleasure. It’s almost guaranteed to ruin her orgasm.

It Doesn’t Give Her What She Needs

If you read my other blog posts, you know that I’m vehemently against “fucking from the bottom” because all it ends up doing is messing up her grove.

When a woman gets on top, she will ride in the perfect motion required to reach orgasm. If you pay attention in bed, you’ve likely noticed that “perfect motion” is NOT going straight in and out… like most guys do. So let her find her ideal motion and then ride you to orgasm.

The full nelson is different because she can’t do any thrusting. Also, as you’re about to see, one of the only times I suggest you try this position is if she needs deep and fast thrusting in order to orgasm.

Click here to learn the 3 Best Sex Positions for female orgasms.

The Only Time You Should Use The Full Nelson Sex Position

So now that you know why you shouldn’t use this position, it’s time to go over why you should. Or more accurately when you should.

Obviously you want to try this position if your woman asks for it specifically or if you’re both committed to checking every sex position off your bucket list.

But here’s the big one…

The only time I recommend the full nelson…

If you’re a regular reader, then you know how much I hammer on the fact that all women are different and you need to adapt your techniques to match your womans preferences.

When it comes to giving a woman orgasms, you generally find the technique that works best for her and keep going all the way to a climax.

Some women need you to increase the speed or pressure right at the end, some need you to keep doing the exact same thing…

But there are some women who just won’t cross the finish line unless you do something dramatically different when she’s nearing the peak.

If your woman is like this, then the full nelson sex position just might be the missing link to making her come.

If she rides you in cowgirl and manages to bring herself to the brink of orgasm but can never cross the finish line, it’s highly likely she needs something completely different right before her orgasm disappears.

This is the only time I recommend you try this position out.

BUT…

Even in that case, I wouldn’t recommend the full, full nelson.

Do the position as described above but only wrap your arms around her legs, not her head.

As we talked about, it can get her focused on her belly… and it’s just not very comfortable. It puts an uncomfortable (possibly even painful) strain on the neck to will distract her focus.

So try out the full nelson WITHOUT your hands behind her head and also check out some of the variations below.

Different Ways To Do The Full Nelson Sex Position

Oystered Nelson

This is a variation of both the full nelson and the Viennese Oyster.

Instead of putting your hands behind her head and creating the neck strain and inevitable view of her belly rolls, she’s the one who’s dictating just how much she wants to get into position.

If she’s already comfortable doing the Viennese oyster (sometimes referred to as the pretzel position), then this is just a matter of doing the pose while she’s lying on top of you instead of the other way around.

Think of it as the oyster but she’s on top instead of you.

The biggest challenge in this position will be for her to keep her balance so make sure you get that settled before you start thrusting.

Nelson’s Sandwich (Threesome Position)

Just as it sounds, this one is for a threesome. Use it with another guy or girl if one wears a strap-on.

One of you can enter her vagina while the other is in her ass, or you could both enter the same hole.

Just make sure she’s okay with it first.

A major benefit to this version is that the guy (or girl) on top can do all the thrusting while the guy (or girl) on the bottom stays in place. As long as the top giving is thrusting hard enough, it’ll rock your woman back and forth on you as well.

Dog Meet Nelson

It might look like something only possible in a hentai cartoon, but it is doable and can be fun to try.

Start in a standing doggy. Her feet flat on the floor, bent over at the waist, and hands on the ground.

As you stand behind her, bend forward and wrap your arms under the insides of her knees.

Once you’re confident it’s safe, reach all the way behind her head and slowly pick her up off the ground.

Standing Bully Nelson

This one is quite simple. It’s essentially the full nelson while standing without lifting her legs.

That said, since women are usually shorter than men, she will be lifted up off the ground. If she’s flexible enough, she can also wrap her legs around your legs.

Using this position for anal? It’ll be quite easy to pound back and forth.

But if you’re having vaginal sex, it’s a bit more tricky. She’ll need to tilt her hips so that you can enter her.

Enter her while in a standing position like standing doggy and then pick her up while you stay inside her.

It’s easier said than done but can make for quite the dominant experience.

Speaking of dominant…

The Choked Nelson

Some women just LOVE to sensation of being choked during sex.

WARNING: NEVER Choke her. I said many women like the sensation. They like the idea of it. They like the feel of a strong hand wrapped around her neck with a little bit of pressure. Creating the feeling is not the same as actually doing it.

Always be careful with choking.

Instead of reaching your hands behind your woman’s head, put your hands around her neck.

Make sure she has a way of giving you feedback. She needs some way of letting you know if it’s too much.

Obviously you can’t see her facial expression in this position. You might not be able to hear her say her safe word. And since her arms are “locked up”, she might not be able to give you a gestures. All this makes it that much more important that you establish some way of communicating when it’s too much.

So there you have it.

The full nelson sex position, why you should or shouldn’t use it, and a whole bunch of fun variations.

Use the Betty Rocker Sex Position when She Needs A Good Spanking

A woman will sometimes act out in hopes you’ll give her a much deserved spanking. When done in the right context, many women love (even yearn for) a good spanking. The Betty Rocker Sex Position is one of those contexts.

It’s similar to reverse cowgirl only she’s on her knees and leaning forward.

Another way to think of it is that she gets into a doggy style position, while you lie down underneath her.

Put some a few pillows under your head and you’ve got a view any “ass man” would kill for.

If your hips are too wide or this version simply isn’t comfortable, spread your legs, lift your hips and place them on the outside of her legs.

Here’s what you need to know in order to make this position as pleasurable and orgasmic as possible.

Let Her Take Charge in the Betty Rocker Sex Position

Unlike most rear entry positions, she gets to call the shots in this one. She’s in total control of the rhythm, angle, speed, and depth. Let her have this gift. DO NOT try to fuck her from the bottom… unless she specifically asks for it. Men and women don’t typically orgasm from the same type of thrusting. So let her thrust in the way that feels best for her… or… tell her how to thrust for your pleasure. She can rock back and forth, grind you, or even twerk on your cock. She can go fast, slow, or mix it up.

Once she has found something that works for her, amplify her emotions by telling her she loves it. Saying things like “you love bouncing on my cock like that don’t you baby?” or, if she’s doing more of a grinding motion “you love grinding on my cock like that don’t you baby?”. If you can do it without messing her grove, put your hands on her hips and pull her onto you… but only if you can stay in sync with her movements!

Spanking Sex

If ever there was an ideal position for spanking, this is it. When spanking your woman’s bottom, you want to aim for the most center part of it. This is where there’s the most fatty tissue. Avoid the sides of her butt. They have less fat and will lead to pain rather than pleasure. Start with lighter spanks and ask for feedback. Between spanks, lightly rub her butt in circles to soothe & heighten the sensation.

Clitoral Stimulation in the Betty Rocker Sex Position

When it comes to clitoral contact, the Betty Rocker doesn’t provide it naturally (like other positions). If your girl needs clitoral stimulation to get off, you’re going to need some help in order to make it happen in this position. Thankfully, I’ve got a couple of suggestions for you. Put on a vibrating cock ring with the vibrator on the bottom of your shaft. Right on your balls. When you’re fully inside her, she’ll have that sucker right on her clit! This works best when she stays completely on you and grinds her pelvis. The vibrator will be sandwiched between your balls and her clit. Either of you can also hold a vibrator in the same place.

G-Spot Stimulation

If g-spot stimulation is what she’s going after, she’ll have the best results by arching her back at sticking her butt up high in the air.

Deep Posterior Stimulation

We all know about the g-spot and the a-spot (sometimes called the deep spot), but most men (and even women) don’t know about the posterior fornix (sometimes called the cul-de-sac). It’s on “the other” wall of the vagina and produces INTENSE pleasure and orgasms. While most women never find this spot without the help of a very specialized toy or advanced lover, the Betty Rocker position can help her discover it. In order to make it more likely she’ll find it, use a sex wedge or pillow under your butt to tilt your pelvis. BTW if she really likes this, she’s much more likely to be open to anal penetration, or at least some light anal play.

Speaking of such things…

Anal Play in the Betty Rocker Sex Position

If you’re both into anal, the Betty Rocker is a great position for it.

If your woman isn’t into full on anal penetration but does like a little anal play, you’re in for a treat! Since her ass is right there in front of you, it’s an easy opportunity to tickle her fancy while she rides you to bliss.

Wet the tip of your thumb and lightly rub it in circles on her anus. Notice I said ON and not IN. Just the light rub of a wet finger or thumb pad will feel exquisite.

If she does like a little penetration, insert the tip of your thumb, finger or use a small toy or anal plug. You’ll give her one of the most common female fantasies, double penetration, without having to share you woman with some other dude. Unless of course that’s what you’re into.

Don’t Forget To Compliment Her Ass

Finally, make sure you compliment her ass. Other than the Betty Rocker sex position, there aren’t many others that exposes a woman’s ass as much so make sure you make her feel good and confident about it. It doesn’t matter if she knows it, or you tell her all the time how great her ass is… women thrive on compliments and need them regularly. So let her know just how incredible her ass is!