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Women love to dance. Why? It’s a socially acceptable way to express and release erotic energy without getting shamed for it.

It’s also a great way to get her an erotic state and feeling naughty.

But we’re living in strange times and going out for a night of dancing seems like something that won’t be happening for a while.

Give her the gift of dancing and build up some sexual tension with the dirty disco dancer sex position.

Think of it like a standing missionary position.

You both stand, facing each other and enter her from the front.

Depending on your body height difference, you might need to spread your legs and bend your knees a little. If you’re shaft is still too high to enter her, have her put one foot on a stool or stair.

This position is great for creating clitoral friction. You want your shaft to rub against her jewel so being slightly higher than her is a good thing.

This position is great for a quickie, but in this article we’re going to run through a fun scenario you can use when you’re stuck at home and your woman is missing going out in public.

Warm Up For The Dirty Disco Dancer Sex Position

Put on some music while you’re doing normal household chores. The goal is to get her to feel the music and get into her body before you make your move.
When she starts moving to the music, oogle her dance moves from across the room. Let her see your turned on gaze. You want her to feel as though watching her move to the music is turning you on.
Make your way over to her, take her by the hand and go to an open area with lots of space, like the dining room or living room.
Dance with her for a minute and get more and more sensual with your moves. You might start “dancing silly” and lead into more sensual grinding. Make sure you pick the right music before hand. You don’t want to grind her sensually during the chicken dance song.
Lead her towards a wall and back her against it.
Press your body up against hers (especially your pelvis) and start kissing her.
Slowly run a hand up her back, past her neck and up to her head.
Grab a fist full of hair (close to the roots) and gently pull on them in order to tilt her head to one side.
Kiss her neck on the exposed side.
Lift her arms over her head and pin them against the wall while you keep kissing her.
Tell her to leave her hands right where they are and slowly start lifting her shirt.
This is one of my favorite foreplay moves: Once her shirt or bra is right over her eyes, stop it there. Keep it wrapped around her arms and eyes. Removing her sense of sight amplifies her other other senses and makes her wonder what you’re going to do next.
You can also lift her shirt up to her wrists, tie them up and hook them on a hook or some type of handle. She’ll be able to see, but now she won’t be able to move.
Kiss, fondle, and enjoy her exposed stomach and breasts. Kiss every inch of her exposed upper body, EXCEPT for her nipples.
Use your tongue to make slow circles around her nipples. Tease them. Make her nipples crave your touch before you give it to her.
After 5 to 10 minutes of teasing her upper body, get down on your knees and remove her bottoms while you kiss and enjoy every exposed inch.
Tease the areas around her vulva. Spend a few minutes kissing everywhere around it. Move your way towards her panties, and kiss, lick and suck her THROUGH them.
Slowly remove them while you keep teasing her.
By now she’s likely aching to feel your tongue against her clit. Give her what she wants… but just a bit.
Stand up, put your hand on her neck, and start kissing her again while your gently rub your shaft against her clit.

Penetration In Dirty Disco Dancer Sex Position

Align your groins. If she’s shorter than you, you might have to spread your legs and bend your knees slightly. If she’s a lot shorter than you, you can also have her sand on some sort of stool or stair.
Enter only your tip to start. Tease her by sliding in your tip and then pulling out a few times. Do this a few times then pull out completely and rub your tip against her clit before making your way back in. It’ll give you a chance to get used to the sensation (if you have trouble lasting long), and it’ll get her revved up like nothing else!
When you finally let her have more, vary the depth of your thrusts in ascending order. Start with 9 “just the tip” thrusts then give 1 deep thrust. Then start over and do 8 tips, and 2 deep. Then 7 and 3. Keep going until you’re at 1 tip thrust and 9 deep, then turn around a go back the other way.
Find out what thrusting she prefers. Try staying all the way inside while you grind your pelvis against her clit. Try sliding in and out of her with your primary focus on your shaft sliding against her clit. Finally, stay completely inside her and try grinding her tip against different parts of her insides.
Keep holding her hands up in the air, lightly squeezing her neck, and kissing her while you fuck.
Switch up the type of sex. Go from slow and sensual, to a little rougher fucking, then back again.
Once she’s getting closer to coming (you can tell by her breathing, blushing, & thrusting back), stick to whatever it is you’re doing in that moment until she comes all over you. Don’t change a thing unless she specifically asks for it.
After she comes, take a minute to keep kissing and caressing her while she comes down.

Advanced Variations

This first variation can make you go a lot deeper.

If your woman liked it when you stayed deep inside her and moved your tip around, try this wrapped version. It’ll make you go much deeper and might just be the extra boost she needs to cross the finish line!

Start in the normal position, grab one of her thighs, and lift it to your waist.

Hold her thigh while she wraps it around your back.

It’s not the easiest position to hold and might make her orgasm harder to achieve, but it’s worth giving it a try to see if it works for her.

Finally, if your woman is really flexible and able to do the splits, try lifting her leg all the way up to and on your shoulder.

The majority of women won’t be able to do this but it can make for some fun times if your woman can.

Keep in mind her balance will be sketchy in this position, so make sure you hold her and stop her from tumbling over.

Spread you legs out and put your hands against the wall on each of her sides and you shouldn’t have any problems.

The classic missionary is one of the most commonly used positions, yet it’s constantly getting called out for being boring and vanilla. The valedictorian sex position is a simple twist on the classic missionary that provides HUGE benefits… even if you’re not very big yourself.

In fact if you’re on the smaller side, try this position once and you just might want to make it one of your go to plays cause it’ll have you going deep and feeling ENORMOUS!

Here’s how to pull off the Valedictorian Sex Position:

Start in the classic missionary to get warmed up and let your woman’s vaginal muscles relax and open up some extra room.
Once she’s warmed up and wet for you, lean back and lift her legs in front of you.
Split her legs apart into a giant V shape and slowly press down on them, stretching them forward. When you “fold” her body like this, it shortens her vaginal canal and lets even the smallest guy reach the deepest parts of her!
Now lean forward as close to her as you can get. Put your hands on the bed and let her split legs rest against the fold between your forearms and biceps. She can also hold onto her ankles or thighs (if she can reach), or wrap her arms around your neck and pull you in closer.
Here’s how to use this position like a true all star: instead of thrusting straight in and out of her, focus on grinding yourself against her clit while you stay inside her. You might have to lift yourself higher above hers in order to make contact. That’s fine. Just focus on the grind, cause that’s what’s going to produce the most powerful results!

The combination of grinding her clit, while you’re deep inside of her, and very close intimacy, creates a hat-trick of pleasure that’s going to have your woman screaming in orgasmic ecstasy!

Also, remember that the clitoris is not just some magic love button like many guys think. It’s an entire network of pleasure giving nerve endings that run beneath the skin of her vulva. When you grind against her, your pelvis rubs against hers an excites all those underground hot spots that usually don’t get any lovin at all.

Warning: Because you’re reaching extremely deep inside of her, you might hit her cervix. The vast majority of women find this very painful. So make sure to pay attention, start slow in the position, and don’t hit cervix. If you do, try slight variations of the position.

Try variations of the Valedictorian sex position.

The slightest change in your position and angles can completely change the sensations she feels. If she’s having a hard time coming, the smallest tweak can be the difference she needs. Try spreading her legs wider apart, or bringing them closer together. Try straightening them all the way out, so that they’re up by her head vs slightly bent at the knees. Keep testing and tweaking until you find the version that delivers that grand slam, home run you’re looking for!

To increase the chances she comes during penetration, use this formula to make sure she comes before sex.

She’ll be much more likely to come again. It’ll take her a lot less time to come. Best of all, her orgasms will be much more powerful!