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Lap Dance Sex Position – How To Let Her Seduce Herself

If you want to learn how your woman comes, watch what she does when she gets on top. The exception to this is when she’s in a service-top moves such as the lap dance sex position.

Wait…

What’s A Service Top Position?

Traditional girl-on-top positions (like cowgirl) are highly educational because you can relax and observe how your woman moves in order to orgasm. You can feel and watch the precise motion, rhythm, and speed she uses in order to get herself off.

Service-top positions are different because your woman doesn’t move in ways that will make her come. She moves in ways that *she thinks* will make you come. Or in ways she thinks will tease, please, and turn you on. She’s on top and in full control but she doesn’t use that power to pleasure herself, she uses it to pleasure and service you.

As you’ll learn in Penetration Orgasms Made Easy, the type of fucking that makes men come is very different from the type that makes women come.

So, if the lap dance sex position isn’t useful at teaching you what makes your woman come, what is it good for? The answer is turning her on and priming her for stronger orgasm in other positions.

Here’s why.

Nothing Turns Her On More Than Turning You On.

The only reason a woman gives you a lap dance (other than cold hard cash) is to turn you on. It’s to get you thinking with your little head instead of your big one. Why does she want to have this power? Because it makes her feel sexy, beautiful, and wanted.

So give her those feelings.

Make her feel beautiful, sexy, and wanted, by giving her the rise she’s trying to get out of you. When she sees (and feels) that her seductive moves are working, it makes her confident, wet, and liberates her to do all the nasty things you want without feeling any shame or guilt.

When she gets on top and gives you a lap dance:

Stroke and caress every inch of her body.
Compliment the way she moves.
Let out NON-EXAGERAATED moans and groans of pleasure and arousal.

A Quick Warning On The Danger of Trying To Get A Rise Out Of You

Have you ever been with a woman and taken her moans, groans, and movements as a sign to go harder, faster, or deeper… only to have your change in pace absolutely butcher her mood?

The same thing can happen here.

If you’re doing a great job of letting her know she’s turning you on, she might feel the urge to crank things up a notch.

As I said a minute above, the type of fucking that makes men come is usually very different from the type that makes women come. When You Watch Penetration Orgasms Made Easy, I’ll Show You That Difference. If a woman gets on top of you in the lap dance sex position and starts going in the way most likely to make you come (fast, full length, and hard), it could be very dangerous. One tiny slip and you could be in prime position for a major accident.

So make sure to keep the lap dance sex position going at a safe pace where the risk of an accident is reduced as much as possible.

If she does get too excited, grab a hold of her by the waist, hold her back, and tell her to slow down.

Pro Tip: Telling her that she’s making you too excited can fuel her confidence but telling her that SHE is getting too excited gives you a great segue to switch into a more dominant position where you can safely take back control of the thrusting.

So let’s get to it…

Variations of The Lap Dance Sex Position

As with all positions, there are many different versions. Here are a few of the most common your woman might try and what you can do to level up on them.

Champagne Room Position

This is the closed leg version of the lap dance where she’ll feel the tightest. It’s extremely difficult (if not impossible) to get into so she might have to spread her legs at first, get in position, and then close her legs once you’re inside.

In my experience, most women opt for a subtle grind instead of bouncing up and down. Match this pace by ‘hugging’ her from behind, putting your arm around her neck, or placing a hand on her pubic bone and applying a bit of pressure.

This is the ultimate “trying to turn you on” version so remember to encourage her and help her feel successful. Breath and moan, whisper in her ear how much she’s turning you on, and let her know how sexy her body feels as you caress every inch of it.

Reverse Lap Dance

This version is so good at making women come, that it made it onto my top 3 g-spot positions article.

As the name suggests, it’s similar to the regular lap dance only your woman is facing you instead of facing away. She puts her feet on the couch on each side of your butt and rocks her pelvis up and down.

If she leans back while doing this move, she’ll “drop” her g-spot directly onto your shaft, making her come fast and hard. The key here is that she will need some support to hold that position. She can put her hands on your thighs, you can wrap your arms around her waist and back, or she can hold up on a table or other furniture.

Spread Lap Dance Sex Position

Unlike the previous version where she keeps her legs closed tight, this version has her legs spread wide and open to all kinds of extra stimulation. This version actually can be all about her pleasure and making her come if you aren’t intimated by a little extra help.

Yup, I’m talking about using a toy or your hand to give her clitoral stimulation while she sits relatively still on your cock. You can actually make her come quite easily while you’re inside of her if you let your shaft sit still and let a toy do the work.

Swiss Ball Blitz Sex Position

Alright, this one is really more of a sex bucket list position for the very fit and sexually curious.

It’s lap dance on an exercise ball.

What more is there to say here other than BE EXTREMELY CAREFUL with this one. The risks we talked about above are even more present here so you might want to tell your woman not to pull off more then half way. The less length you’re working with, the more I would recommend you stay away from this version.

The Position Most Likely To Make Her Come

This entire blog is about studying different positions and finding the best ones for every scenario.

Depending on your size, your shape, how you and your woman “fit” with each other, some positions will naturally make her come more easily than others.

But there is one sex strategy that’s even more orgasmic than the positions you use.

Women from around the world agree it’s more important than the positions you use, your size, or even your stamina.

Use this 1 fucking technique and give any woman the most powerful orgasms of her life… guaranteed!

How To Satisfy 2 Women In The MFF Daisy Chain Oral Sex Position

The daisy chain sex position (sometimes called 69-a-trois) is when 3 or more people simultaneously give oral sex to one person, while receiving from another. The group forms a triangle, square, or circle and the last person on the chain gives to the first.

Any gender and any combination of genders can be involved.

A daisy chain is a “closed” loop because everyone is giving and receiving oral.

A daisy train is open ended where the last person on each end is only giving, or receiving. It’s also sometimes called the caterpillar position.

daisy train sex position — The Daisy Train Position

There are many different ways to have a daisy chain, but in this article, I’m going to talk about it from the perspective of one guy with 2 girls.

Tips For The Daisy Chain Sex Position

Holding your head up on it’s side gets tiring fast, and can put some seriously uncomfortable strain on your neck. Depending on everyone’s positions, you might be able to sneak a pillow under your head, or use your receivers thigh as a head rest.
Touch BOTH partners. Part of the excitement of a threesome (or more some) is that so much is going on. Genitals everywhere, moans from people you’re not even touching, and hands coming at you from many different directions. Reach over and touch, fondle, and grope both women.

How To Satisfy The One Your Going Down On

In my breakdown of the 69 position, I said that even the best technique is not likely to make a woman come during 69.

Why?

In order for a woman to orgasm, she needs to focus on the pleasure she’s receiving. If she’s giving head while receiving, it’s going to be almost impossible for her to split her attention and focus on her own pleasure enough.

The same thing is true for the daisy chain.

Because she’s going to focus on giving, it’s going to be hard for her to focus on the pleasure she’s getting enough to reach orgasm.

So instead of trying to make a woman come in the daisy chain, focus on getting blood flowing to her groin and turning her on so that once you transition into another position, she’s closer to orgasm.

How To Satisfy The One Going Down On You

When going down on someone, we like to be rewarded with positive feedback.

No one likes going down on a partner who acts like a dead fish, not moving, not making a sound.

We like to know the person where going down on is getting pleasure from it.

So any time someone goes does on you, make sure they know you’re enjoying it.

Moan.

Twitch your cock and core.

Breathe a little louder.

Don’t exaggerate this, but do let it all out. Many of us hold in the sounds and movements we’d otherwise make. Let out whatever sounds and movements you’re feeling.

Here’s a simple trick most guys don’t know:

When you’re eating pussy, moaning creates a little vibration that feels delicious to your woman.

When the person giving you oral does something extra special and pleasant, stop using your main technique and just moan while “holding” pussy in your mouth.

The woman your giving to will feel a slight vibration that raises her arousal, while the one giving to you is going to get wet from how hard she’ making you.

It’s a win win, win!

How The Corkscrew Sex Position Turns Average Men Into Sex Gods

If you want your woman to see you as a sex god who satisfies every one of her desires, you need to start using the corkscrew sex position on a regular basis.

In the corkscrew, your woman lies on her back but her lower body is twisted to one side.

Her legs are folded at the waist and you kneel to enter her from behind.

Because of her “twisted” (screw like) position, you enter her at a unique angle and can hit some new territory of pleasure.

Since her legs are closed together, it makes for a tight fit.

Tighter for you.

More filling for her.

But that’s not why this position makes you a great lover.

To explain why this position is so powerful, we have to start with a few higher level sex strategies.

Stick with me for a minute while I explain and you’ll never be the same lover again.

One of The Key Elements To Satisfying All Your Woman’s Needs In Bed Is To Create Variety

Variety is the spice of life.

It’s also one of the key ingredients to a great sex life.

Even the best lover can become boring in bed if he doesn’t know how to give his woman a variety of sexual experiences.

When most guys hear the word variety, they immediately think of using different sex positions.

That’s why blogs like this one exist.

Switching up your repertoire of positions is a quick and easy way to mix things up and start turning around a boring sex life.

Using different positions can give you woman completely new sensations.

They can hit new pleasure spots she’s maybe never felt before.

And they might even be exactly what she’s missing if you’re not giving her the orgasms she desires and deserves.

But there’s another – even more powerful – reason why a variety of positions is so important.

Different Positions Create Different Emotions, And Emotional Variety Is What Women Crave Most

Some positions (such as missionary) are great for making love.

You’re face to face.

Your entire bodies are glued together.

You can feel each others heartbeats, warm skin, and breath.

Other positions (like doggystyle) make it easy for you to take charge.

Give your woman rough, hard sex.

And make her feel taken and ravished.

Some positions make her FEEL more submissive, sexy and wanted.

Others make her feel more connected, loving, and cared for.

Giving your woman a variety of sensations AND emotions is the trick.

Now, here’s how this might look in the real world.

The Best Lovers Use Both Short & Long Term Variety

If you’re in a long term relationship, it’s crucial you give your woman variety in the long term.

Make love to her sometimes. Other times have hard, dominant, rough sex.

Have sex at night before bed. And sometimes have sex in the middle of the day.

Get it on in the bedroom. Get it on in the kitchen or car.

These are all examples of long term variety that keep a womam craving sex as a relationship matures because she’s knows it’s a new and exciting thrill every time. It’s not gonna be the same ol routine again.

But another great way to make sure your woman can’t get enough is to create a variety of experiences and emotions in a single session.

Sometimes, start your session with slow love making and by the end, you’ve transitioned into rough, dominate fucking.

Sometimes you start in the kitchen, then make your way through the hallway, and finally end in the bedroom.

This is short term variety.

Short term variety is something that very few men ever use and it instantly sets you apart as a great lover who meets all her needs and never leaves her longing for something more.

Now here’s why the corkscrew sex position is so powerful for short term variety…

The Trick To Short Term Variety Is Smooth Transitions

When you’re making love, you don’t want to transition into rough sex by suddenly choking her, slapping her ass and fucking her hard.

It would break the mood in a way that just doesn’t feel natural.

Instead, you want to transition gradually.

You want to start slow (for example) and gradually get more passionate, rougher, and more dominant.

Side note: One of the reasons women love rough sex is because it makes them feel sexy and wanted.

It makes a woman feel like she sexy and makes you so hard that you’re barely able to control yourself.

On the other hand, women also enjoy slow love making because it makes them feel special, cared for, and loved.

So start by making love because she’s beautiful, you love her, and want to be close.

But as you start making love, you start getting harder and more turned on, to the point where you’re barely able to control yourself.

YOUR emotions have GRADUALLY shifted from loving her and wanting to be with her, to being so rock hard and feeling a deep desire to fuck her.

This “darker” arousal usually builds over time. It doesn’t just turn on like a light switch.

How To Use The Corkscrew For Mind-Blowing Transitions

The same way that some positions are better for love making while others are better for rough sex, some positions are great for transitioning between the two.

The corkscrew is one of those positions.

Here’s how you might use the corkscrew to transition from slow love-making position, to a rough sex position.

Start in a kneeling butterfly.

The butterfly position is great for giving g-spot orgasms or, if you don’t want to make her come just yet, you can use it to warm her g-spot up for a much more intense orgasm later on.

It’s also a relatively “romantic position” cause you can look your woman in the eyes, gently caress her body, while you hold onto her legs.

After warming her up with slow thrusts along her g-spot, keep one of her legs against your chest and spread the other, laying it down on the bed.

Keep penetrating her slowly in this version but gradually start to get a bit more passionate.

Moan a little more and let her know (with your sounds, words, and actions) that you’re getting more and more turned on.

Now take the leg that’s against your chest and put it down, resting on the other. This is the corkscrew sex position.

Again, turn up the arousal and dominance a bit more.

Grunt and moan from deep within your stomach.

Slap and squeeze her ass while letting her know how sexy it is and how much it’s turning you on.

Grab a boob, pinch a nipple or two, and if she’s into it, give her breast a little slap.

Remember, you’re starting to get much more turned on by this point and your actions are in sync.

Finally, flip her over onto her stomach into the prone bone position.

This is one of my favorite positions because it hits the g-spot directly and produces some incredibly powerful orgasms.

By this point your arousal is at a 10.

You might be pinning her arms down – which women LOVE during rough sex cause they can submit and feel your arousal.

Keep fucking her hard and deep until she comes.

If at any point you feel like you might come before you’re ready, or you just need a break, gradually slow down, pull out of her, and go down for a bit.

Go down in the forbidden fruit until you’re ready to get back on top.

But remember, she’s in a rough sex state so keep the emotions congruent.

Grab her hips – women love this cause they feel like you have total control over their body.

Slap her ass a bit and let her know how sexy it looks.

Once you’ve cooled down, get back on top and ride her to orgasm!

Remember, the corkscrew sex position puts her body in an unusual position where you’ll likely hit new pleasure spots inside of her.

You might be hitting pleasure spots she never even knew she had.

So pay attention to her feedback and make note of anything that really gets her going.

If you want to know exactly how to ready her body like a book (even if she doesn’t give any feedback at all), watch this video to learn my dirty-mind-reading technique.

Give Her ADDICTIVE Orgasms with the Spooning Sex Position?

Whether your woman is wiggling her butt against you during a movie, or you wanna get rid of some morning wood, the spooning sex position is great for giving “lazy” g-spot orgasms.

It’s really simple.

You both lay down on your sides with you behind her.

Enter her from behind, and voila!

Master this position and you’ll not only give her a strong finish, you’ll also make her feel more cared for and loved than she’s ever felt before.

Science has shown that cuddling is so powerful it floods the brain with oxytocin (also know as “the love chemical”).

It’s the literal chemical that makes us feel loved.

Also, because of the angle you’re going to learn on this page, you’re going to be rubbing against the entire length of her g-spot, rather that just poking it on and off.

Combine these 2 factors together and this position is the perfect some seriously intoxicating orgasms.

Challenges of the Spooning Sex Position

It’s not all roses and orgasms.

It seems like a simple position, but it can actually be a little tricky to get into if your bodies don’t line up together just right.

If things don’t line up just right, try putting a small pillow or folded blanket under her hips to raise them to the perfect height.

If she has a big butt or you have a smaller cock, you won’t get very far, if you enter her at all.

Fix this by create distance between your upper bodies.

By bending forward at her waist, the distance between your woman’s ass cheeks and pussy shortens and it takes less length to enter her.

Think of it as doggy style on your sides.

If she’s too tight for you to enter, create distance between her legs.

Lift and hold her upper leg up in the air.

Have her guide your erection into her.

Try thrusting in this position for a minute to see how she likes it but beware it’ll get tiring for both of you real quick!

If she doesn’t get much from it, put her leg back down.

If she responds well to it, have her bend her knee and place the sole of that foot flat on the bed.

To really hit her g-spot, try having her bend her legs at the waist.

This puts her pelvis at an angle where you can easily thrust into her g-spot.

If she needs g-spot stimulation to come, this is likely the version for her.

Warm Her Up – The First Step Of Spooning

The spooning sex position is often used as first position cause it happens “by accident” early in the morning or while snuggling up on the couch.

The same way you should never work out cold muscles early in the morning with stretching, make sure you warm your woman up before penetration.

As always, you want to “warm her up” in 2 realms.

Warm Her Up Physically.

This one is exactly what you think.

Get her blood heading south before penetration.

Use you hand to play with her nipples and breasts.

Move down towards her crotch.

Don’t touch her clit directly until you know she’s ready for it.

Lift her upper leg over yours and place you hand on her vulva.

Split your index and middle fingers and place them on her outer lips.

Gently rub them up and down.

This simple move is a guaranteed way to send blood rushing to her genitals and get her roaring to go.

Warm Her Up Emotionally.

Feeling your skin pressed against hers while you hold her creates the light, loving emotions that makes her feel safe, special and cared for.

Feeling your throbbing erection between her butt cheeks, gives her the dark emotions of feeling wanted, sexy, and erotically powerful.

Play up both types of emotions.

Let her feel your erection and arousal rise and get more powerful.

When you’re just starting out, gently stroke her body with your finger tips and whisper sweet nothing into her ear.

As you get harder and more aroused, get a little rougher.

Start to grab her boobs.

Put your hand around her neck and give it a gentle squeeze.

Go from gently massing her outer pussy lips with your fingers, to sliding your stiff cock between her lips.

Go from talking sweet to talking dirty.

The key here is to make sure that your actions are congruent with HER level of arousal.

Don’t start choking her and talking nasty when she’s still dry.

Keep everything congruent!

How To Penetrate In The Spooning Sex Position

Because your bodies are so close together, you don’t have a great deal of distance to work with.

That’s ok.

In fact, it’s a good thing cause it’s an opportunity to see just how powerfully your woman responds to short, deep thrusting.

See us guys typically come by moving all the way in and almost all the way back out during penetration.

But unless you’ve got a magic dick, that’s just not the kind of penetration that makes women come.

Women come from entering her at unique angles and rubbing against the right spots.

By staying deep inside of her and only pulling out slightly before thrusting back in, you create a powerful vibrating sensation deep inside of her.

If you’re using one of the above versions that targets her g-spot, you’ll be rubbing against the her g-spot the entire time you’re inside her instead of just poking it on and off.

Transition From Spooning Her G-spot To Total G-Spot Domination

If you’re a member of the All Start Email List and read this blog regularly, then you’ve likely heard me talk about the importance of switching positions smoothly.

Fumbling around and clanking heads with your woman when switching positions is a massive mood killer.

Imagine you spent the last 20 minutes thrusting into her g-spot and building her orgasm, only to drop her off the bed while trying to switch into her favorite position.

Total mood killer.

Her arousal drops.

And now you’ve got to start building her up again from the beginning.

The way to keep building your woman’s orgasms during multiple position sex is to make sure you switch positions as smoothly and naturally as possible.

How?

By making one small move at a time.

At this point, you’ve been using the spooning sex position to consistently rub your orgasm giver against her g-spot.

If she hasn’t come yet, she’s likely very close.

Some women just can’t come in certain positions and switching might be exactly what she needs to go over the edge.

Pull out of her, get on your knees and move her upper leg forward.

Transition # 1 The Screw Position

This position not only gets you up and gives you more range in your thrusts, it’s also just one simple transition for her.

It also reminds her that you’re in control because of how easily you change her position with one simple move of her leg.

Give her a couple of minutes in this position so she can get used to it.

Start getting a little rougher and more aggressive.

Push her head down into the bed.

Moan and groan a little louder.

Press down on her hips to let her feel how much she’s turning you on.

Once you’re ready for the final transition, pull out of her and put a pillow on the bed beside her pelvis.

Grab her upper arm and pull it in the direction needed to land her face down.

Make sure her pelvis is on the pillow. It’ll tilt her in a the perfect angle for what’s to come.

If you need to, straighten out her legs so that she’s flat on her tummy, ass side up.

Take a minute to admire her ass.

Give it a slap.

Tell her how sexy it is.

Spread her legs and go down on her for a bit.

It’s called

The Forbidden Fruit Position

Not only does this let you regain your composure (if you need to), it also amplifies her emotions.

It makes her feel more wanted and sexy,

It gives her confidence in her body, reminding her just how sexy you think her ass and pussy are.

Once your appetite is satiated, put her legs together, straddle her thighs and enter her from behind.

Welcome to the wonderful world of

Final Transition The Prone Bone Position.

This is one of the best positions for g-spot orgasms and if you haven’t tried it yet, you absolutely need to asap!

2 things make this position so powerful.

First, the pillow lifts her pelvis and puts her g-spot in the perfect position.

Second, get as high up as you can (meaning your head will be higher than hers) and thrust DOWN.

Do this and once again, you’ll pound straight into her g-spot!

Finally, if you want to make sure you blow her mind and give her the best sex of her life…

Make her come BEFORE sex to increase her chances of coming again DURING sex

To really blow her mind in any sex position, your highest leverage point is to make her come before penetration.

Not only do you increase the chances she comes again (during sex) you also increase the power of that second orgasm.

Every orgasm you give a woman builds on the last and becomes more powerful and pleasurable.

Giving her at least one orgasm BEFORE sex is the single biggest difference between a great session and one that leaves her out of breath, unable to speak, and wondering “what the hell just happened!”

The trick is to find out what gives your woman the best orgasms.

Some women come hardest from oral.

Others prefer having their clit rubbed.

Some won’t come unless you rub their g-spot.

Finding out what moves give your woman the best orgasms is the greatest homework assignment and best investment you can make in your sex life.

Watch this video to learn the secrets of Adaptive Orgasmic Response and guarantee your woman has the best orgasms of her life!

Do NOT Let Her Come In The Zombie Sex Position. Do This Instead…

The zombie sex position is what you get when mixing the 69 position with a downward dog yoga pose.

You sit with your feet flat on the floor while your woman stands with her ass in your face.

She bends over at the waist and puts her hands on the floor.

Her head is in position to take you in her mouth while you take her in yours.

She does need to be a bit flexible to pull this off.

If she’s not quite able to reach full zombie, she can bend her knees, you can lean back, or you can do a combination of both.

leaning zombie — Zombie position with the guy leaning back slightly.

Do NOT Try To Make Her Come In The Zombie Sex Position

I know this sounds odd coming from a blog always preaches the magnitude of making women come first, but here’s the deal…

It’s a very difficult position for her to climax in. If she does come, it’ll likely be a very weak orgasm.

She’s got to focus on holding a somewhat difficult position. This makes is harder for her to focus on the pleasure that leads her to orgasm.
Her pussy and ass are completely exposed to you. While we men love it, it’s often a source of high insecurity and anxiety for many women.
She won’t be able to give the best blowjob in this position so she won’t be feeling very confident.

All these things together make it highly unlikely she will orgasm in this position, even if you’re using the perfect technique.

Instead, use the zombie to prep her for an incredible orgasm.

Use this position to turn her on and warm her up for what’s to come.

Naturally, she’s going to be stretching which is always recommended before any intense physical activity.

Here’s how you can stretch and warm up her emotions, arousal, and orgasms:

Arouse Her Emotions

As I said before, having her pussy and ass so exposed can make her self conscious. If she has any insecurities about her naughty bits (like many women do), she’s going to need some positive reassurance in order to relax and get turned on.

Use this opportunity to make her feel confident and sexy.

Compliment her.

Tell her how beautiful her ass is.

Let her know how delicious she tastes.

Make sure she knows that you’re incredibly turned on by having her business all up in your face.

Don’t just use your words.

Non-verbal communication is just as (if not more) effective.

BRAND-NEW: The “Neuro-Orgasmic Connection” Strategy That Stimulates Both Her Mind And Body To Prepare Your Woman For Intense, Full-Body Orgasms

Moan and groan.

Let her hear how aroused you are through non-verbal communication and she will get turned on as well.

Reframe Her Struggle Into Desire

Once again, unless she’s a high level yogi or performs in the Cirque Du Soleil, it going to be tough to give you a show stopping blowjob.

She’ll be to focused on making sure she doesn’t fall over.

So don’t expect a great blowjob.

Also, don’t lie and tell her she’s giving you a great blowjob. She knows she isn’t and you’ll only reduce her trust. You’ll also condition her to give bad oral.

Instead, reframe her struggle to give you great head as a strong desire to give you great head.

When she reaches for your cock and struggles to take it in, say something like “You really want that cock don’t you?”

Now, instead of focusing on how she’s having a hard time and unable to please you, she’s focused on how much she wants to please you and take you in her mouth.

It’s a subtle but highly powerful difference.

Tickle Her Erogenous Zones

The most obvious target for your hands in the zombie sex position is her ass.

Grab, slap and caress her ass to increase physical and emotional pleasure.

Remember how we said that relieving her anxiety by complimenting her ass is crucial. Massaging, grabbing and slapping it while you deliver those compliments has double the effectiveness.

But one of the most powerful erogenous zones that many guys ignore, is the insides of her knees.

Anywhere the human body has folds, such as insides of knees and elbows, are extremely sensitive and very powerful erogenous zones.

Try this on yourself right now.

Using just the very tips of your fingers, drag them lightly across the inside of your arm.

Now, keep going until you reach the inside fold of your elbow.

Notice how much more sensitive it is.

The same thing is true in the folds of our knees.

Take a few seconds to drag your fingertips across the entire bottom of her legs. Slow down and spend a little extra time when you get to the insides of her knees.

Do this while you’re moaning with her in your mouth, and you’ll get her focused on all the pleasurable sensations you’re giving her body.

Prep Her Clit For An Intense Orgasm

Again, odds are she won’t come while in the zombie sex position.

So use this time to build an orgasm that you can deliver after switching into your next position.

When most guys give their woman oral, they go straight for the clit.

But you know better.

Rather than rushing right to the goods and overstimulating her, use indirect stimulation to make her crave clitoral contact before you give it to her.