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Is Bumper Cars The Most Useless Sex Position On This Site?

Bumper Cars Sex Position — The classic bumper cars sex position

If you have a fetish for smelling feet, get turned on by putting your dick in extreme danger, and want to get it on but need a break from staring at each others mugs, the Bumper Cars sex position might be just the move you’re looking for.

No but seriously, there is a fraction of women who will absolutely love this position and get stimulated in ways that just aren’t possible in any other pose. If might also be something that’s on your sex buckets list. If so, give it a shot but please, practice extreme caution with this one and START S-L-O-W!

Here’s how to do it:

You both lie face down and away from each other. Her on the bottom and you on top. Align your naughty bits and slide into her.

The terms bumper cars comes from the idea that both of you will be rocking back and forth, bumping your butts together. In reality, this doesn’t create the most pleasurable sensation and it can easily lead to chest burn as you rub your skin against the bed. If you watch the position done in porn or you actually try it yourself, you’ll see it much easier if you do the thrusting while your woman stays (relatively) still.

You can go for vaginal intercourse in this move but it really shines as an anal position.

Either way, START SLOW. Your penis will be at an awkward and unusual angle here and you want to avoid bending too much. Start slow and gradually speed up as you feel more confident. It’s also best to already be warmed up when trying this move so save it for later on in your session, once you’ve already got your heart going and built up a sweat.

PRO TIP: By sliding a pillow or folded blanket under her thighs, you can create a completely different angle. This can make it easier for you to enter your woman. Make sure your prop is under her thighs and not under her belly or you’ll tilt her in the opposite direction.

Over The Edge Bumper Cars:

This version will likely be the easiest in terms of penis bend. Lie flat on the bed while she’s hanging over it.

Keep In Mind: It’s unlikely you’ll be able to go deep in the bumper cars sex position… and that’s a good thing! Many guys believe ‘deeper is better’ but it’s not true. The majority of a woman’s vaginal nerve endings are in the first half of the vagina. The majority are crammed into the g-spot, which will be very easy for you to hit thanks to the bizarre angle achieved in the Bumper Cars sex position.

That said, if you’re smaller than average, you might find it impossible to enter your woman in the bumper cars. If that’s your case, I recommend you check out the butterfly. It’ll make you feel HUGE and exquisite while you dominate her g-spot with ease!

Bent Bumper Cars Sex Position:

If you’ve read some of my other blog (or advanced trainings) you know that some women have their O spot located on a side rather than straight on. If this is your woman, try a bent knees version to hit the sides of her insides.

Lying on a couch with one leg hanging off is an easy (and comfortable) way to accomplish this.

If you want to dominate your woman’s O-spot regardless of position, learn the big penetration almost all men make and start fucking like an all star tonight.

The Clapper Position – The Best Twerking Sex Position?

If watching women twerk turns you on, you’re going to love the clapper position.

If your girl likes shaking her ass, giving a show, and taking control, she’s gonna wanna try this one.

The clapper is similar to the reverse cowgirl only she has a much greater range in motion because of the variation in leg placement. This allows you to go much deeper.

You get the best view in the house. She gets the comfort of being on her knees without having to spread wider than the width of your hips.

To get into the clapper, just bend you knees slightly to let her legs go under yours.

You can get on your back, spread your legs, and let her scoot back onto you doggy style. Or she can get in doggy first, then you get on your back with legs spread, and scoot down.

Clapper All Star Play:

The clapper is a service top position, meaning it’s about your pleasure. Many women feel too self conscious in this position to truly enjoy it. When she can’t see your facial expressions and get positive reinforcement from your expressions, it’s easy for her to get in her head and start worrying about how her ass looks.

Take this opportunity to build her confidence and make her more comfortable having her ass in your face. Compliment her ass, the way she’s moving it, and how hard it’s making you. Fortunately, this position is great at keeping you hard. Because it bends your cock back slightly, it “pulls” on your erection and keeps it at attention.

Transitioning to a 69 or sliding out from under her and into a forbidden fruit pose because you just can’t resist her ass anymore will surely keep her confidence high.

Start by enjoying her ass. Telling her how sexy it looks in this position. Slap, grab, and caress her ass. Wet your thumb tip and rub her asshole without going in. Tell her how much you want to taste it, till the point you can’t take it anymore and need her to get into forbidden fruit to devour her.

If she’s really uncomfortable, she can always keep her panties and move them to the side just enough so you can slide in. It’ll give her rear some cover while she gets used to being in such a vulnerable position and you work on building her confidence.

If either of you need a break in the clapper, she can pull up off of you and give you a reverse foot job. AKA a sole job.

The Doggy Style Trick That Makes Her Come First

Women LOVE the doggy style sex position.

Why?

- With every thrust, your balls slap her clit.
- Your hips smack her ass.
- It’s easy and natural for her to submit to you.
- Contrary to popular belief, doggy style doesn’t give g-spot orgasms… rather much deeper and more powerful “end zone” orgasms. (More on that in a minute).

But even with all that going for it, most guys only tap into a fraction of doggy styles full pleasure producing potential.

See, there’s a common misconception about doggy style that limits the pleasure you’re able to give your woman.

But once you understand what it is and how it works… it’s not uncommon to make a woman come in just seconds.

Sounds like bs.

I know.

So let’s just get to straight to it.

Forget The G-Spot, Doggy Style Hits Different

The common misconception is that doggy style gives women g-spot orgasms.

This is wrong.

The truth is that doggy style hits a much more powerful spot inside your woman.

When a woman bends over in doggy style, the vaginal canal “folds” and the distance from beginning to end become much shorter. This is why you can reach a lot deeper, even if you aren’t very large.

As you enter her, your shaft rubs against her g-spot, but ends up in her deeper (and much more orgasmic) “end zone”.

The technical term for this area is the fornix. Some call it the deep spot but this can be confusing because it’s not one spot and it’s not in the same place on every woman.

The fornix is more like a pleasure packed, circular cavity in the deepest part of the vagina.

Some women’s fornix is more sensitive on the posterior (towards her back), and others on the anterior (towards her front). Some are more sensitive on the right side, and others on the left.

The trick is to hit all these different areas until you can find out exactly where it is on your woman.

Once you do that… it’s game over.

She will come HARD and FAST!

Below, I’ll show you how to find this hidden sweet spot on your woman so you can nail it every time and give your woman the best dam doggy style she’ll ever have.

First…

You Need To Slow It Down, Champ…

The doggy style sex position is one that begs for rough, hard sex.

It’s not time to get all romantic and make slow love.

That said, you need to make her crave a hard fucking before giving it to her.

The way you do this is by teasing her and starting out slow.

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One of the strategies we use on the all-star team is extending gratification.

Every guy knows they need to tease their woman.

In other words, make her crave something before you give it to her.

But what happens once you finally give it to her?

The average guy immediately starts going harder, faster, and deeper.

But the all-start lover does things different. He extends the initial feeling of gratification as long as possible and brings her to the brink of ecstasy before he really gets started.

Imagine your woman bent over in front of you.

Most guys slide in and and start going hard as fast as possible.

But that initial moment when you finally enter her is so exciting, so satisfying, so gratifying… that you want to extend that feeling for as long as possible.

Here’s how to do it.

Start by rubbing the tip of your cock against her clit, then press your tip against her opening. Don’t go in just yet. Instead, press yourself against her opening.

Then go back to rubbing your tip against her clit.

The feeling of you pressing against her opening without going in will make her anticipate your entrance. AKA it’ll tease her and make her crave you inside of her.

Switch back and forth between rubbing her clit and teasing her opening for at least a minute.

Now here’s where you take this to the next level…

When you finally enter her… only let her have the tip.

Then pull out.

Give her just your tip again.

And pull out again.

Do this 9 times.

Then on the tenth, go all the way it. You’ll feel MASSIVE even if you’re on the smaller side.

Now pull out and go back to just the tip.

This time, give her your tip 8 times, and go balls deep twice.

Then 7 and 3.

Keep doing this till you reach 10 full, deep thrusts.

By the time you’re done, she’ll be on the brink of orgasm and you haven’t even gotten started yet.

Bonus Benefit: If you struggle with premature ejaculation, this technique is a must because it gets you used to the sensation without overload. In other words, you have much more control on when you unload.

If you want to take this to the next level, you can keep the pattern going in reverse.

Go from 10 deep and 0 shallow, to 9 deep and 1 shallow.

Then 8 and 2.

All the way back to the starting line.

Now that you’ve got her gushing wet and begging for more, lets’ get to…

Doggy Style Sex Position Variations:

There are 3 main variations of the doggy style sex position. Traditional, standing, and prone. But within each of these versions, there are small, simple shifts you can make that change everything.

This is what really matters.

It’s not about finding the wildest version you can pull off… it’s about finding the tweaks that work for your woman.

Lifting a leg, moving an inch forward or backward, or making a slight adjustment in your thrusts can be the difference between “Yes, I was close.” and “Oh My Gawd, how the hell did you do that?”

Remember, every woman’s “end zone” is a little different and the way you make up for that is by fine tuning little details of the position to hit her sweet spot just right.

Traditional Doggy Style Sex Position

This is the classic version of doggy style we all know and love. Your woman gets on all fours while you stand or kneel behind her.

This is a great version to start in for one simple reason.

Your woman has just the right amount of control.

You aren’t going as hard as she wants? She can back up harder onto you.

Going too deep to early? She can move forward as needed.

Not giving it to her fast enough? She can thrust back to makeup the difference.

Keep in mind that when you switch to a different variation, these preferences can change but this gives you a great starting point.

Once you’re confident that you know just how she likes it, grab her waist and take control.

As for tweaks, this version is all about height and tight.

By spreading your legs further apart or closer together, your pelvis will be aligned higher or lower with hers.

By spreading her legs further apart or closer together, she’ll feel more or less tight.

Face Down Ass Up (FDAU)

The traditional style is great for getting started. But it can quickly get tiring for your woman.

When she does get tired, the easiest thing to do is lean forward and rest her upper body on the bed while leaving her ass up in the air.

This completely changes the angle and leads to an entirely different sensation for her. So pay attention to the difference in her reactions.

Is she getting louder?

Grasping the sheets tighter?

Thrusting back a little harder?

Face Up Ass Up

In face down ass up, she lies her upper body down on the bed. In this version you bring her upper body up towards yours.

Again, this changes the angle completely and creates a whole new sensation for her.

When she’s in traditional doggy, put your hand around her neck and pull her towards you.

Kiss or lightly bite her neck and talk dirty.

Find Her Sweet Spot In Traditional Doggy

The way to fine-tune these versions of the traditional position is by honing in on the perfect angle.

Make sure you try all 3 of these.

Get on your feet and crouch over her. This will make the difference between hitting her anterior fornix (closer to her belly) vs hitting her posterior fornix (closer to her back).
Lift 1 of your legs while keeping the other in place. This will make you go towards one side.
Move 1 of her legs closer towards her head.

Remember, each of these versions will feel like an entirely new position to her. Any one of them can be the one that hits her end zone and send her to orgasm within seconds.

Standing Doggy Style Sex Position

Standing doggy is awesome for quickies, getting it on outside of the bedroom, or just mixing things up.

You Stand, She Kneels

Stand at the very edge of the bed while she’s on all fours.

Hit different angles by putting 1 foot on the bed and the other on the ground.

1 tweak to try in this version is to swing your thrusts rather than just go forward.

Really swing your hips and pelvis so that you’re going in and up, into her posterior fornix.

You Both Stand.

Great for shower sex, outdoor sex while you keep an eye out for peepers, or when you’re trying to make your way to the bedroom but you’re both so horny you can’t make it past the hallway.

Similar to traditional doggy, you want to test your angles.

She can stand up taller with her head closer to yours, or bend over forward with her hands closer to the ground.

Both versions make you hit different the different fornicies so try both and see what works for her.

If she’s flexible, or if there’s something to rest her hands on, she can lean forward and have you plowing into her spot.

The other version is to have her head up, towards you. Again, you can easily accomplish this by putting your hand on her neck and pulling her up to you.

You can also lift one of you legs to get the side angles and unlike when she’s on all fours, she can lift a leg as well.

You Stand She Leans

This one is all about her height and the height of your furniture.

Is your counter, kitchen table, or dresser about the height of her waist?

If so you can pull off a traditional standing doggy while she leans over the furniture.

She can also have her hands on the floor or pull a FDAU with her face down on the couch while standing.

This dramatically changes the angle and if she’s a posterior fornix girl… you’ll drive straight into her spot with every thrust!

Finally, we have…

Prone Doggy Style AKA Prone Bone

I’ve already done a full blog post on the prone bone position so I won’t go too deep here.

In this version your woman lies flat on her stomach while you enter from behind.

This position creates yet another completely different sensation on your woman and is a must try.

It doesn’t “fold” the vaginal canal as much as doggy so you won’t go as deep and you might not be able to reach her fornices, but you will hit her g-spot directly.

Just like everything you’ve learned so far, test out different angles.

By going higher or lower on her body, you change the angle and the spot you hit.

Put a pillow under her pelvis to change the angle and hit higher or lower.

Intertwine your legs on one side or the other to hit the different sides of her o’zone.

How To Last Longer In The Doggy Style Sex Position

If there’s one position where guys are prone to ejaculate prematurely, it’s doggy style.

There’s just something about seeing your girl bent over with her ass right there for the taking… that makes you want to bust.

If that wasn’t enough, it’s one of those position where she just wants it fast and hard.

We’ve already covered 2 great tips for lasting long during doggy in this article.

Longer Lasting Doggy Tip #1 Using the “just the tip” technique described above is an easy way to cool yourself down while building her arousal.

By entering just your tip and then pulling out, you allow the most sensitive part of your penis to get used to the new sensation. Before you overload the rest of you cock with sensation, the most sensitive part is already used to it so you don’t blow it too early.

At the same time, your womans level of arousal excels exponentially and by the time you go balls deep, she’s on the verge of climax.

Longer Lasting Doggy Tip #2 When using a standing position, thrust with your entire body, not just your core.

When you’re kneeling, you can only use your core and this makes your penis feel more sensation… sensation that makes you come.

When you stand, you can use the leverage of your entire body to thrust rather than just your core.

Add an upward swinging motion that aims for the fornix and you’ll turn her into a premature ejaculator while you have the stamina of a triathlete.

Longer Lasting Doggy Tip #3 Use short, shallow thrusts.

This one hasn’t been covered in this article so listen up.

If giving just the tip is how you get a woman warmed up and primed for orgasm, this is how you finish her.

Go as deep as you can inside your woman.

Instead of pulling out as much as you can, stay deep. Only pull out 1 or 2 inches, and then back in all the way.

This does 2 very powerful things.

It cuts your sensitivity down by 20% to 50%
It’s shortens your womans wait to have her end zone stimulated.

Instead of hitting her fornix every 3 seconds (for example)… you hit it every 1 or 2 seconds.

This creates a more consistent sensation instead of a pulsing one that leaves and then comes back.

If your using this style of thrusting along with the ideal position to hit her fornix… she can easily erupt in seconds while you remain cool, calm, and completely in control of your own orgasm.

These tricks are just the tips of her orgasmic iceburg:

If you dig the tips on this page, you’re going to love what I have for you next.

See, the truth about fucking is that most guys are amateurs.

Most guys just thrust in and out, as fast and hard as they can and then hope their girl cums.

That’s how amateurs roll.

The fact is that old school “in and out” style of penetration gives women very little stimulation.

The good news is that there are a handful of thrusting techniques that do give women the consistent, rhythmic stimulation they need in order to cum.

The best part is that it doesn’t matter what size you are.

Seriously.

Guys as small as 3 inches have used these techniques to make their woman cum from penetration.

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How The Corkscrew Sex Position Turns Average Men Into Sex Gods

If you want your woman to see you as a sex god who satisfies every one of her desires, you need to start using the corkscrew sex position on a regular basis.

In the corkscrew, your woman lies on her back but her lower body is twisted to one side.

Her legs are folded at the waist and you kneel to enter her from behind.

Because of her “twisted” (screw like) position, you enter her at a unique angle and can hit some new territory of pleasure.

Since her legs are closed together, it makes for a tight fit.

Tighter for you.

More filling for her.

But that’s not why this position makes you a great lover.

To explain why this position is so powerful, we have to start with a few higher level sex strategies.

Stick with me for a minute while I explain and you’ll never be the same lover again.

One of The Key Elements To Satisfying All Your Woman’s Needs In Bed Is To Create Variety

Variety is the spice of life.

It’s also one of the key ingredients to a great sex life.

Even the best lover can become boring in bed if he doesn’t know how to give his woman a variety of sexual experiences.

When most guys hear the word variety, they immediately think of using different sex positions.

That’s why blogs like this one exist.

Switching up your repertoire of positions is a quick and easy way to mix things up and start turning around a boring sex life.

Using different positions can give you woman completely new sensations.

They can hit new pleasure spots she’s maybe never felt before.

And they might even be exactly what she’s missing if you’re not giving her the orgasms she desires and deserves.

But there’s another – even more powerful – reason why a variety of positions is so important.

Different Positions Create Different Emotions, And Emotional Variety Is What Women Crave Most

Some positions (such as missionary) are great for making love.

You’re face to face.

Your entire bodies are glued together.

You can feel each others heartbeats, warm skin, and breath.

Other positions (like doggystyle) make it easy for you to take charge.

Give your woman rough, hard sex.

And make her feel taken and ravished.

Some positions make her FEEL more submissive, sexy and wanted.

Others make her feel more connected, loving, and cared for.

Giving your woman a variety of sensations AND emotions is the trick.

Now, here’s how this might look in the real world.

The Best Lovers Use Both Short & Long Term Variety

If you’re in a long term relationship, it’s crucial you give your woman variety in the long term.

Make love to her sometimes. Other times have hard, dominant, rough sex.

Have sex at night before bed. And sometimes have sex in the middle of the day.

Get it on in the bedroom. Get it on in the kitchen or car.

These are all examples of long term variety that keep a womam craving sex as a relationship matures because she’s knows it’s a new and exciting thrill every time. It’s not gonna be the same ol routine again.

But another great way to make sure your woman can’t get enough is to create a variety of experiences and emotions in a single session.

Sometimes, start your session with slow love making and by the end, you’ve transitioned into rough, dominate fucking.

Sometimes you start in the kitchen, then make your way through the hallway, and finally end in the bedroom.

This is short term variety.

Short term variety is something that very few men ever use and it instantly sets you apart as a great lover who meets all her needs and never leaves her longing for something more.

Now here’s why the corkscrew sex position is so powerful for short term variety…

The Trick To Short Term Variety Is Smooth Transitions

When you’re making love, you don’t want to transition into rough sex by suddenly choking her, slapping her ass and fucking her hard.

It would break the mood in a way that just doesn’t feel natural.

Instead, you want to transition gradually.

You want to start slow (for example) and gradually get more passionate, rougher, and more dominant.

Side note: One of the reasons women love rough sex is because it makes them feel sexy and wanted.

It makes a woman feel like she sexy and makes you so hard that you’re barely able to control yourself.

On the other hand, women also enjoy slow love making because it makes them feel special, cared for, and loved.

So start by making love because she’s beautiful, you love her, and want to be close.

But as you start making love, you start getting harder and more turned on, to the point where you’re barely able to control yourself.

YOUR emotions have GRADUALLY shifted from loving her and wanting to be with her, to being so rock hard and feeling a deep desire to fuck her.

This “darker” arousal usually builds over time. It doesn’t just turn on like a light switch.

How To Use The Corkscrew For Mind-Blowing Transitions

The same way that some positions are better for love making while others are better for rough sex, some positions are great for transitioning between the two.

The corkscrew is one of those positions.

Here’s how you might use the corkscrew to transition from slow love-making position, to a rough sex position.

Start in a kneeling butterfly.

The butterfly position is great for giving g-spot orgasms or, if you don’t want to make her come just yet, you can use it to warm her g-spot up for a much more intense orgasm later on.

It’s also a relatively “romantic position” cause you can look your woman in the eyes, gently caress her body, while you hold onto her legs.

After warming her up with slow thrusts along her g-spot, keep one of her legs against your chest and spread the other, laying it down on the bed.

Keep penetrating her slowly in this version but gradually start to get a bit more passionate.

Moan a little more and let her know (with your sounds, words, and actions) that you’re getting more and more turned on.

Now take the leg that’s against your chest and put it down, resting on the other. This is the corkscrew sex position.

Again, turn up the arousal and dominance a bit more.

Grunt and moan from deep within your stomach.

Slap and squeeze her ass while letting her know how sexy it is and how much it’s turning you on.

Grab a boob, pinch a nipple or two, and if she’s into it, give her breast a little slap.

Remember, you’re starting to get much more turned on by this point and your actions are in sync.

Finally, flip her over onto her stomach into the prone bone position.

This is one of my favorite positions because it hits the g-spot directly and produces some incredibly powerful orgasms.

By this point your arousal is at a 10.

You might be pinning her arms down – which women LOVE during rough sex cause they can submit and feel your arousal.

Keep fucking her hard and deep until she comes.

If at any point you feel like you might come before you’re ready, or you just need a break, gradually slow down, pull out of her, and go down for a bit.

Go down in the forbidden fruit until you’re ready to get back on top.

But remember, she’s in a rough sex state so keep the emotions congruent.

Grab her hips – women love this cause they feel like you have total control over their body.

Slap her ass a bit and let her know how sexy it looks.

Once you’ve cooled down, get back on top and ride her to orgasm!

Remember, the corkscrew sex position puts her body in an unusual position where you’ll likely hit new pleasure spots inside of her.

You might be hitting pleasure spots she never even knew she had.

So pay attention to her feedback and make note of anything that really gets her going.

If you want to know exactly how to ready her body like a book (even if she doesn’t give any feedback at all), watch this video to learn my dirty-mind-reading technique.

Go Deeper Than Doggy With The Leapfrog Sex Position

The leapfrog sex position (AKA Face Down Ass Up) is the deeper, rougher cousin of doggystyle.

Women LOVE rough sex and doggystyle just as much as we do.

It’s primal.

It hits all the right spots.

It makes her feel needed, sexy, and taken.

Doggy checks all the boxes for hot, orgasmic sex.

But too much of anything can get boring… and that holds true for sex positions as well.

The leapfrog is a slight variation on the classic pose that gives variety in both position and sensation.

Think of the traditional doggy style only instead of being on all fours, your woman rests her head, arms, and chest on the bed.

It’s the face-down-ass-up version of doggystyle.

Her legs are spread wide while yours are in between hers… although you can switch to make her tighter or if your pelvis’ aren’t aligned.

Unlike traditional doggy, she doesn’t have to hold herself up with both hands. She’s free to reach underneath and rub her clit while you’re stimulating her insides.

Instead of hitting her g-spot, the leapfrog targets the lesser know (but highly orgasmic) posterior fornix!

It’s an area deep inside of her that isn’t stimulated often but can be responsible for some of the strongest orgasms a woman can have.

Doggy Is Painful For Some Women – Leapfrog Might Be The Solution

Some women can’t enjoy doggystyle because it’s painful. Depending on the reason, the leapfrog sex position might be the solution.

Here are the 2 main cause of painful doggy.

It hits her cervix.

A small percentage of women experience tremendous pleasure when you hit their cervix… but for the vast majority, it’s extremely painful.

By getting off her hands and onto her chest, it changes the angle of her vagina and you can avoid the cervix completely.

Air is entering her.

If you’re on the smaller side, air can enter her when you pull out and cause pain when pushing back is.

The trick to this is to use “tighter fitting” positions.

Switching from doggy to the leapfrog can do the trick.

If that doesn’t do it for her, try the closed leg leapfrog. Close her legs and place yours on the outside of hers.

Closed legs will make her feel even tighter, you feel bigger, and it’ll be less likely to let air make its way inside.

Reward And Encourage Submission

The leapfrog is a very vulnerable position for your woman.

She has little to no control.

Her ass and pussy are fully exposed for your inspection and potential judgement.

She can’t see what you’re doing (or about to do) and that can turn anticipation into anxiety if you don’t first…

Take the time to ease any insecurities she might have.

Tell her to get into position.

Lightly caress her butt cheeks with your fingertips.

Tell her how gorgeous her ass looks in this position.

PRO TIP: Compliments are much more believable and effective when you use specifics.

Saying “your ass looks great” is one thing. It’s nice to hear and she’ll appreciate it. But it can get stale and unbelievable.

Saying “your ass looks great in this position” is much more believable and hot to hear simply because it’s more specific. Even if she doesn’t like her ass, she thinks “Oh, but it looks better in this position.” And her subconscious allows her let go of any insecurities she might have so long as she stays in position.

It’s a dark part of human nature and psychology but we might as well use it to make her feel sexy and good about herself.

Now lightly trace your fingernails on her cheeks for a few seconds, then lift your hand and give her ass a nice smack.

The mismatch of sensations create a “super-sensation” that most women absolutely adore.

Take some time to go down on her while you continue lightly scratching her butt and thighs with your finger tips.

When you’re finally about to enter your goddess, make her whimper by gently swiping your length between her folds.

Press the tip of your hard-on against her opening a bit without going in. This is one of my favorite ways to make a woman soaking wet and begging you for it. It makes her imagine and crave you inside of her. Much like imagining a specific food when your hungry amplifies your desire for it.

The Leapfrog Sex Position Is For Hard Fucking, Not Lovemaking

The foreplay tips in the last section are great for getting a woman warmed up and eager for more.

But when it comes to penetration in the leapfrog sex position, don’t be so gentle.

Some positions are better suited for slow, romantic, lovemaking.

The leapfrog isn’t one of them.

If you try “making love” in this position, your woman will feel a lack of congruence and won’t be satisfied.

So save the love-making for another position.

Instead, ratchet-up the dominance.

Amplify her submission.

Make her feel taken and ravished.

Slap and grab her ass. If you did this during the warm up while telling her how sexy her ass looks, you can repeat the same move again during sex without saying a word and she’ll feel the same emotions when you gave the compliment.
Get a firm grip on her hips. Remember, even if you aren’t pulling her onto you, just the feel of your hands grasping her hips amplifies the “rough sex emotions” she needs in this type of position.
Hold, tie, or cuff her hands behind her back. Being physically constrained allows her to submit her body and focus on the sensations that lead her to orgasm.

How To Last Longer In Leapfrog & Other Dog-Like Positions

Some positions are notorious for making guys lose control quicker than others.

The leapfrog isn’t immune to this.

The 3 tips can help you last longer in many positions but especially the leapfrog.

Use a Standing variation

When you’re kneeling behind your woman, you need to use your hips to thrust. It engages your entire core and makes you more likely to come quick if you’re already prone to it.

By standing, you can thrust with your entire body. Use your legs and hips to rock your entire lower body and you’ll cut down the “stress” on your core that makes you come faster.

Pull her to you

Keep still while you grab onto her hips and pull her onto you. Or – even better – get your timing right and pull her while you thrust forward.

Again, it’ll help relax your core and as an added bonus, it’ll give her the extra hot and arousing sensation of being taken. Very powerful!

Stay deep and use shorter thrusts

Long thrusts that stimulate your entire shaft lead to premature orgasms. By shortening the length of your thrusts, you increase your staying power.

Go as deep as you can and only pull out half way before thrusting forward again.

You’ll last longer and she’ll get that deep, fulfilling pounding this position is intended for.

Try These Different Leapfrog Variations To Find The One That Blows Her Mind

I often say on this blog that it’s often not about what position you’re using, rather how you’re using it. Many women will LOVE a certain position with one guy but hate it with another. The reason is often due to the smallest, subtle differences, and the fact that the better lover takes the time to find her favorite. To master your woman’s unique preferences, watch this video.

Bound Leapfrog Position

We talked about using the leapfrog in a dominant way. The bound leapfrog is the superior version of this.

Use a spreader bar, necktie, handcuffs, or rope to tie her hands together in between her legs.

Instead of holding her hands behind her back (as shown above), tie them together UNDER her and in between her legs.

Other than focusing her attention on the pleasure you’re delivering, the only thing she’ll be able to do is rub herself if she chooses.

Standing Leapfrog

We covered this one above. It’s pretty straight forward. In this version you have your woman at the edge of the bed so that you can stand behind her instead of kneeling.

Again, if you struggle with premature ejaculation, this version will be best since you can thrust with your entire body rather than just your hips.

The Squatting Leapfrog AKA FDAU Bulldog

Instead of standing or kneeling, you squat down.

It’s just like the bulldog position only she’s in the face down ass up position.

Squatting will completely change the angle of pleasure and can make you go even deeper.

Obviously, you won’t be able to last as long in this version so try it out, gauge your woman’s reaction, and if she really likes it, save it for an explosive finish.

The Leg Up Leapfrog

Stand or kneel with one foot while lifting and bending the other at the knee.

This one creates the most drastic change in what she’ll feel.

Not only does it make you go extra deep, it also makes you hit at a slight side angle.

If your woman’s deep spot is off to one side – watch this video if you’re not sure – this is the version you’ll want to use.

It might take a minute to get your rhythm going but once you do, watch out!

IMPORTANT: Leapfrog After-Care

Again, the leapfrog sex position is best used during rough, dominant sex.

If you’re in a long term, committed relationship, it’s crucial that you finish a rough-sex session with proper after-care.

Feeling objectified and wanted for nothing but our bodies can be an incredible turn-on… DURING SEX.

But…

We also want to feel special, cared for, and loved.

If you just get up and leave immediately after rough sex, it will leave your woman feeling used.

Not good.

You MUST invest a little extra time after rough sex to make sure she knows you love her and don’t see her as just a sex object.

Lie her flat on her belly gently touch, kissing, and appreciating her entire body as she basks in her after orgasm glow.

Lightly scratch her butt and thighs.

Sprinkle in some kisses.

Slowly work your way up her back till you reach her neck.

Kiss her neck, whispering sweet nothings, and spending a few minutes holding her and letting her know that you love her and aren’t simply “done with her” now that you got your rocks off.

Being the best she’s ever had means satisfying the physical AND emotional parts of her.

This is true for every woman.

But HOW you do it changes from one woman to the next.

In this video I show you how to fine tune all your strategies and techniques in order to match your woman’s unique preferences and subtle differences.

When you fine tune your techniques to match all her unique differences, you truly satisfy every one of her needs and desires.

Watch this video to learn exactly how it’s done and make sure you’re giving her the best sex of her entire life!

Give Her ADDICTIVE Orgasms with the Spooning Sex Position?

Whether your woman is wiggling her butt against you during a movie, or you wanna get rid of some morning wood, the spooning sex position is great for giving “lazy” g-spot orgasms.

It’s really simple.

You both lay down on your sides with you behind her.

Enter her from behind, and voila!

Master this position and you’ll not only give her a strong finish, you’ll also make her feel more cared for and loved than she’s ever felt before.

Science has shown that cuddling is so powerful it floods the brain with oxytocin (also know as “the love chemical”).

It’s the literal chemical that makes us feel loved.

Also, because of the angle you’re going to learn on this page, you’re going to be rubbing against the entire length of her g-spot, rather that just poking it on and off.

Combine these 2 factors together and this position is the perfect some seriously intoxicating orgasms.

Challenges of the Spooning Sex Position

It’s not all roses and orgasms.

It seems like a simple position, but it can actually be a little tricky to get into if your bodies don’t line up together just right.

If things don’t line up just right, try putting a small pillow or folded blanket under her hips to raise them to the perfect height.

If she has a big butt or you have a smaller cock, you won’t get very far, if you enter her at all.

Fix this by create distance between your upper bodies.

By bending forward at her waist, the distance between your woman’s ass cheeks and pussy shortens and it takes less length to enter her.

Think of it as doggy style on your sides.

If she’s too tight for you to enter, create distance between her legs.

Lift and hold her upper leg up in the air.

Have her guide your erection into her.

Try thrusting in this position for a minute to see how she likes it but beware it’ll get tiring for both of you real quick!

If she doesn’t get much from it, put her leg back down.

If she responds well to it, have her bend her knee and place the sole of that foot flat on the bed.

To really hit her g-spot, try having her bend her legs at the waist.

This puts her pelvis at an angle where you can easily thrust into her g-spot.

If she needs g-spot stimulation to come, this is likely the version for her.

Warm Her Up – The First Step Of Spooning

The spooning sex position is often used as first position cause it happens “by accident” early in the morning or while snuggling up on the couch.

The same way you should never work out cold muscles early in the morning with stretching, make sure you warm your woman up before penetration.

As always, you want to “warm her up” in 2 realms.

Warm Her Up Physically.

This one is exactly what you think.

Get her blood heading south before penetration.

Use you hand to play with her nipples and breasts.

Move down towards her crotch.

Don’t touch her clit directly until you know she’s ready for it.

Lift her upper leg over yours and place you hand on her vulva.

Split your index and middle fingers and place them on her outer lips.

Gently rub them up and down.

This simple move is a guaranteed way to send blood rushing to her genitals and get her roaring to go.

Warm Her Up Emotionally.

Feeling your skin pressed against hers while you hold her creates the light, loving emotions that makes her feel safe, special and cared for.

Feeling your throbbing erection between her butt cheeks, gives her the dark emotions of feeling wanted, sexy, and erotically powerful.

Play up both types of emotions.

Let her feel your erection and arousal rise and get more powerful.

When you’re just starting out, gently stroke her body with your finger tips and whisper sweet nothing into her ear.

As you get harder and more aroused, get a little rougher.

Start to grab her boobs.

Put your hand around her neck and give it a gentle squeeze.

Go from gently massing her outer pussy lips with your fingers, to sliding your stiff cock between her lips.

Go from talking sweet to talking dirty.

The key here is to make sure that your actions are congruent with HER level of arousal.

Don’t start choking her and talking nasty when she’s still dry.

Keep everything congruent!

How To Penetrate In The Spooning Sex Position

Because your bodies are so close together, you don’t have a great deal of distance to work with.

That’s ok.

In fact, it’s a good thing cause it’s an opportunity to see just how powerfully your woman responds to short, deep thrusting.

See us guys typically come by moving all the way in and almost all the way back out during penetration.

But unless you’ve got a magic dick, that’s just not the kind of penetration that makes women come.

Women come from entering her at unique angles and rubbing against the right spots.

By staying deep inside of her and only pulling out slightly before thrusting back in, you create a powerful vibrating sensation deep inside of her.

If you’re using one of the above versions that targets her g-spot, you’ll be rubbing against the her g-spot the entire time you’re inside her instead of just poking it on and off.

Transition From Spooning Her G-spot To Total G-Spot Domination

If you’re a member of the All Start Email List and read this blog regularly, then you’ve likely heard me talk about the importance of switching positions smoothly.

Fumbling around and clanking heads with your woman when switching positions is a massive mood killer.

Imagine you spent the last 20 minutes thrusting into her g-spot and building her orgasm, only to drop her off the bed while trying to switch into her favorite position.

Total mood killer.

Her arousal drops.

And now you’ve got to start building her up again from the beginning.

The way to keep building your woman’s orgasms during multiple position sex is to make sure you switch positions as smoothly and naturally as possible.

How?

By making one small move at a time.

At this point, you’ve been using the spooning sex position to consistently rub your orgasm giver against her g-spot.

If she hasn’t come yet, she’s likely very close.

Some women just can’t come in certain positions and switching might be exactly what she needs to go over the edge.

Pull out of her, get on your knees and move her upper leg forward.

Transition # 1 The Screw Position

This position not only gets you up and gives you more range in your thrusts, it’s also just one simple transition for her.

It also reminds her that you’re in control because of how easily you change her position with one simple move of her leg.

Give her a couple of minutes in this position so she can get used to it.

Start getting a little rougher and more aggressive.

Push her head down into the bed.

Moan and groan a little louder.

Press down on her hips to let her feel how much she’s turning you on.

Once you’re ready for the final transition, pull out of her and put a pillow on the bed beside her pelvis.

Grab her upper arm and pull it in the direction needed to land her face down.

Make sure her pelvis is on the pillow. It’ll tilt her in a the perfect angle for what’s to come.

If you need to, straighten out her legs so that she’s flat on her tummy, ass side up.

Take a minute to admire her ass.

Give it a slap.

Tell her how sexy it is.

Spread her legs and go down on her for a bit.

It’s called

The Forbidden Fruit Position

Not only does this let you regain your composure (if you need to), it also amplifies her emotions.

It makes her feel more wanted and sexy,

It gives her confidence in her body, reminding her just how sexy you think her ass and pussy are.

Once your appetite is satiated, put her legs together, straddle her thighs and enter her from behind.

Welcome to the wonderful world of

Final Transition The Prone Bone Position.

This is one of the best positions for g-spot orgasms and if you haven’t tried it yet, you absolutely need to asap!

2 things make this position so powerful.

First, the pillow lifts her pelvis and puts her g-spot in the perfect position.

Second, get as high up as you can (meaning your head will be higher than hers) and thrust DOWN.

Do this and once again, you’ll pound straight into her g-spot!

Finally, if you want to make sure you blow her mind and give her the best sex of her life…

Make her come BEFORE sex to increase her chances of coming again DURING sex

To really blow her mind in any sex position, your highest leverage point is to make her come before penetration.

Not only do you increase the chances she comes again (during sex) you also increase the power of that second orgasm.

Every orgasm you give a woman builds on the last and becomes more powerful and pleasurable.

Giving her at least one orgasm BEFORE sex is the single biggest difference between a great session and one that leaves her out of breath, unable to speak, and wondering “what the hell just happened!”

The trick is to find out what gives your woman the best orgasms.

Some women come hardest from oral.

Others prefer having their clit rubbed.

Some won’t come unless you rub their g-spot.

Finding out what moves give your woman the best orgasms is the greatest homework assignment and best investment you can make in your sex life.

Watch this video to learn the secrets of Adaptive Orgasmic Response and guarantee your woman has the best orgasms of her life!

2 Keys To Blow Her Mind In The Pearly Gates Sex Position

The pearly gates sex position gives your woman the control of cowgirl, with the closeness of missionary.

It might look difficult and not worth the effort but enough women swear by it that it’s definitely worth a try, at least once.

Think of it like spooning, while facing the ceiling.

Lie flat on your back, lift and spread your legs, bending them at the knees and placing the souls of your feet flat on the bed.

She gets on top with her legs spread and bent with souls on the bed for balance.

It’s a position that offers g-spot and p-spot stimulation.

If she’s not completely comfortable being exposed to you or letting you watch as she plays with herself, the pearly gates allows her to do so without you seeing. It’ll increase her comfort gradually, which is key.

Many women say this position makes them squirt quite easily. If she’s a squirter, it’s all the more reason to give this one a shot.

As mentioned, her balance is key in this one. By keeping your legs spread and grounded, she has a solid foundation to lie on.

To increase her balance, she should spread her legs and place them on the ground as well. She can also stretch her arms out to her sides and put her hands on the bed.

2 Secrets To Mastering The Pearly Gates Sex Position

There’s really 2 keys to making this position incredible for her.

Let her do the thrusting.

You can thrust from the bottom and some women will like it, most don’t.

Why?

Cause she knows the best way to move in order to git her O spot. She will instinctively move in the right way. She might grind, gyrate, pump up and down, or one of many other options.

If you start taking control from the bottom, you don’t let her find her rhythm.

So let her do her thing and instead of trying to fuck from below, focus on how you…

Use your hands.

Sounds simple but this really is the key to making this position mind-melting for her.

You’ve got full access to all her naughty bits. And it’s coming from an unconventional angle.

It’s a totally different sensation.

Play with her boobs.

Put your hand around her neck.

Rub her clit. (She can even stop thrusting for a bit and stay still while you rub her to orgasm!)

Smack her ass from the sides.

If you are doing the thrusting, grab onto her hips. It’ll make her subconscious flex her vaginal muscles and come even harder!

Grab a handful of hair and pull her head to one side (carefully of course). Kiss and nibble her neck.

Silence Is Death In This Position

Silent sex is always awkward, but when your mouth is right by her ear, it becomes even more noticeable and important.

So get close up to her ear and talk to her.

Moan and groan to let her hear your excitement.

Breathe naturally and let your mouth make whatever noises feel natural.

Make noises that let her know how much she’s turning you on.

Variations of the Pearly Gates

As with all positions, you’ll want to try out slightly different tweaks to find out what works best for you.

Remember, not all women are the same and you need to split test to get the best results.

Here are a few versions worth trying.

Test legs spread wide vs tight.

3 Different Variants of Leg Positioning that will Change the Stimulation

If her legs are spread wide, you’ll go deeper inside of her.

As guys, we tend to assume this is best but it doesn’t always hit that perfect o-spot, especially if you’re bigger than average.

By spreading your legs and having hers closer together, she will feel tighter and you’ll feel fuller inside of her. Apart from losing a bit of depth, she’ll also have less balance. Keep this in mind and make sure she doesn’t tumble over.

If her legs spread wide works best, the next question is does she prefer her legs spread wider than yours (on the outside), or less (on the inside)?

Kneeling Gates

This is another version that looks hard and not worth the effort at first glance but once again, many women swear by this tweak so it just might be worth trying.

Personally, I don’t bother with this version unless she initiates it.

Arched Gates

Here she bends her legs fully, plants her feet flat on the floor and uses her leg muscles to hold her lower body.

While resting her upper body on top of you, she can grind away while you lay back and enjoy.

She’ll have the most control over movement and motion.

Just know that she’ll get tried quickly here and keep an eye out for cues so that you’re ready to switch it up.

Transitioning in and out of The Pearly Gates Sex Position

It’s highly unlikely that your woman will just tell you to lie down and then get on top in the pearly gates.

This is a position that’s typically transitioned into from other positions.

Also remember that how you change positions will determine if you come across as smooth and natural in bed.

Here are a few of the best transitions for the pearly gates.

Split Sinner

This one could have been put under a variation but it is a transition if you’re feeling extra adventurous and want to try the full nelson.

From the basic version, just lift her legs a bit and get a hold of them.

She won’t be able to do any thrusting here so that’s going to be on you.

Spooning Sex Position

I started this article by telling you how the pearly gates is like spooning on your back.

All you have to do is tilt your body to a side and she’ll fall over in a spoon position.

Couldn’t be easier.

This is also the first step if you’re trying to transition into one of the all time greatest positions, the prone bone.

Give her a bit of slower, love-making in the spoon first, then flip her all the way over to drill her hard in the prone bone!

Piledriver Position & The Secret to Giving DEEP Fornix Orgasms

You’ve likely seen the Piledriver position (AKA Butter Churner) in porn.

It makes for a great view. The woman is fully exposed and the penetration is easily visible.

In the real world, this position isn’t so popular.

It’s tough on the guys legs.

It’s uncomfortable for her (unless she’s a yoga junkie) and might even be impossible to get in without the flexibility.

And it’s more prone to injury than other positions.

So why bother? Cause you can go deep!

It allows for vaginal and anal penetration.

If you’re doing anal, get a toy in her pussy and give her that double stuffing!

This position is also incredibly male dominant so if your women likes being submissive (like the vast majority do), the thrill of this position might be worth giving it a try at least once.

Because her head is lower than her heart, blood will also rush to her brain giving her the added sensation of a “head rush”.

Here’s how to do the PileDriver Sex Position:

She lies on her back and lifts her legs towards her head.

She keeps going until her butt raises up off the floor.

If she’s flexible enough, her feet will touch the floor on each side of her head.

She’s essentially getting into a yoga plow pose.

You then stand on top and squat down into her.

Pile Driver Injury Warning:

One of the challenges with the pile driver is that it can put serious strain on your penile suspensory ligament (PSL).

What the hell is that? Imagine bending an erection all the way back, Ouch!

The solve for this is to lean forward. The more you learn, the less pressure you’ll feel on the ligament.

By leaning forward, you can also hold onto your woman’s ankles and help her stay in position.

Just make sure you’re not pushing too far.

Start Slow and Progress:

First things first, make sure she’s warmed up first.

Use a position like the Valedictorian first and press down on her legs to stretch them a bit.

Once she’s stretched, get her into position and go down on her first.

Gauge her response and if she’s comfortable and responds well, move into penetration.

Don’t start with the full pile driver.

Try the quarter version where her body is only slightly folded and feet don’t fully touch the ground.

Make it more comfortable by putting some pillows under her lower back.

If she continues to respond well, slowly push down on her legs to go even further.

Make sure you’re getting feedback and never push her past her limit!

A simple tip that makes this position much easier and more comfortable for a lot of women is to do it against a piece of furniture like the headboard of a bed of back of a couch.

With the extra help, she doesn’t have to focus on holding the position.

Lean forward to grab her ankles and she it’ll be even easier for her.

Modified Versions of The Piledriver Sex Position

Once you’ve tried the position and she digs it, try a few variations to see what hit the spot best.

Reverse Pile Driver Position:

Same as the regular pose except that you’re facing the other way.

It’s not as hot because you’re not able to oogle each other but it’ll make you hit the other side of her insides.

Make sure you get your feedback and decide if it’s worth that trade-off.

Tighter Pile Driver:

Instead of having her feet on each side of her head, both are on the same side.

The real benefit here is that it makes her much more tight.

So not only will you dive deep inside her, it’ll also feel like your wider too!

Sideways PileDriver:

Some women get the most pleasure from that slightly angled stimulation.

If that’s your woman, try out this version.

You’ll hit a completely different spot inside of her that might just be the missing ingredient to her orgasm.

Try both sides to see which on works best.

Try leaning forward and back to make sure you test every inch of her insides!

What Version Makes Her Come?

The piledriver can be lots of fun with the right girl… but it’s not a great position for giving orgasms.

There are tons of great positions that increase the woman’s chance at orgasm.

But that’s not the determining factor.

When it comes to sending your girl across the finish line, there’s one little-known thrusting secret you most know regardless of what position you use.

It’s the single biggest reason so many woman struggle to orgasm from penetration.

Even in the information age, most guys don’t know this 1 penetration trick that virtually guarantees female orgasms.

Learn the thrusting trick that makes penetration orgasms easy!

Dominate Her Deep Spot with the Bulldog Sex Position

If you wanna fill your woman up and dominate her deep spot regardless of your size, you need to try the bulldog sex position. It’s a deeper, more dominant version of doggy style that’s sure to bring her some extremely powerful orgasms.

How To Do It Bulldog Style

Just like doggy style, she bends over on all fours. The difference is that instead of kneeling behind her, you stay on your feet, bend your knees, and squat behind her.

This lets you go much deeper than traditional doggy.

If she thought doggy was best for hitting her g-spot, she ain’t felt nothing yet!

Because of the extra elevation, you’re going to plow straight down into her g-spot and keep going until you reach the deepest part of her. By squatting higher or lower, you can change the angle and really hone in on the most pleasurable spot. Bonus Tip: Test out different angles to find your woman’s sweet spot.

Finally, she can spread her legs apart wide for deeper stimulation, or close them for a tighter fit.

The only down side to the bulldog is that it will take a toll on your legs.

Don’t be skipping leg day if you want to pull this one off.

Amplify Dominance

Some positions are great for slow, passionate, lovemaking. Some are better suited for quickies. And some are ideal for hard, dominant sex.

Doggy style is one of those positions for dominant sex.

The bulldog sex position is even more intense and dominant.

The bulldog screams dominance.

She’s fully exposed to you, making her vulnerable and submissive.

You tower over her, putting you in total control.

So amplify the dominance.

Give her a swift, surprise slap on the ass when she isn’t expecting it.
If her upper body is supported (we’ll get into the supported version below), hold or tie her hands behind her back.
Grab her hair at the back of her head and lightly (but firmly) pull it.
Talk dirty and tell her what you’re doing to her. Tell her what you’re going to do. Tell her anything but make it dirty and save the “I love you’s” for another day.
Get a firm grab onto her hips. Even if you aren’t pulling on them, just the sensation of your firm grasp will drive her wild.

Now let’s get into the different variations with some advanced tips for each.

Variations:

Face Down Ass Up Bulldog

Same as the traditional except she rests her upper body on the bed or floor.

Try putting a pillow or sex wedge under her pelvis to tilt her core and give yet another change in the angle.

Assisted Bulldog

You can do the bull dog on a bed but it won’t be easy to keep your balance, especially if the bed is really soft.

The easy fix to this is to have her resting her upper body on a bed or couch while her knees are on the ground. She gets to rest her upper body and you get to enjoy the stability of solid ground.

Put a pillow under her knees for comfort.

Since her arms are free, she can reach over and play with herself.

Or… you can tie or hold her hands behind her back to increase the dominance.

Planking Bulldog Sex Position

If your legs need a break and you want to work on your core instead, plank over her.

Works best if she’s in the face down ass up position.

Mexican Bulldog Sex Position

She lies flat on her stomach while you squat above her. Again, pillows under her pelvis will create an different angle and will make you hit a different spot.

Try it out.

Remember, not all women have the same preferences or sensitivities.

Just a slight shift in your position can be the difference between “that was fun” and “How the hell did you do that? I couldn’t stop cumming!”

Onward.

Transition Positions:

I mention this in almost every position page on this website, because it’s so important.

Transitioning smoothly between positions is key to giving your woman an unforgettable experience.

If you fumble around to get into your next position, it can put a serious dent in the mood and you’ll need to rebuild it if you wanna make her come.

So transition smoothly to and from the bulldog with these positions.

Doggy Style

This one is quite obvious. She stays in the same position while you just switch between being on your knees and squatting over her.

To make your transition feel as smooth as possible to her, pull out of her and take a moment to admire her ass.

Make her comfortable and confident in such an exposed position by telling her how great it looks.

How much you admire it.

How much it turns you on.

Take a second to give her ass a swift slap, grab it firmly, and then deliver your compliment before entering her again.

Froggy Style Sex

Froggy style position is a simple 2 step transition.

While in the bulldog, put your hand on her upper back and push it down onto the bed so that she’s in the face down ass up version as shown above.

Pull out of her and pull her legs back so that she’s flat on her stomach.

Now mount and lay flat on top of her with your knees bent.

Since your head is right behind hers, make sure to talk dirty to her.

Prone Bone Position

This one just might be the all time best position for g-spot orgasms.

While in the bulldog, put a pillow under her pelvis.

Push her flat onto the bed with her pelvis resting on the pillow. This creates an angle that makes it easy for you to plow straight into her g-spot!

Find Her Ideal Angle

Remember, as with all things related to sex and orgasms, women are different.

They all have specific preferences and unique sensitivities.

So TEST!

You’ve got lots of different variations and angles to try out so make sure you do that and find out what your girl likes best.

If you want to master her unique sensitivities and preferences so that you can give her the best orgasms of her life, watch the Make Her Come First Video Now!

Do NOT Use The Full Nelson Sex Position Unless She Does This…

It’s fairly popular in porn cause it makes for a great camera view, but the full nelson sex position is one I suggest you stay away from except for 1 very specific situation… more on that below.

First, here’s how it’s done.

You typically start out in reverse cowgirl. Transition into the Pearly Gates. Then she folds her legs towards her head.

You reach your arms under her knees and then back up behind her head, putting her into a “head & leg lock”. If you can reach, join your hands together and interlock your fingers.

Lift your legs slightly and bend them at the knees putting the soles of your feet flat on the bed. Now thrust from the bottom while holding her in place.

Why You Should NOT Use The Full Nelson Sex Position

Below you’ll learn the 1 instance where this can be a great and useful position. First, here are a few of the reasons why it’s usually a bad position for most situation.

It’s not easy to pull off.

She’s got to be bendy. She needs the flexibility to bend her legs far back enough that you can hug them and still reach far enough to put your hands on her head.

You also have to worry about balance. All of her body weight is on top of yours and falling over to one side or the other is all too easy. So if you are going to try the position, take a second to figure out your balance before you start thrusting.

The fact that her entire body weight is lying on top of you can be uncomfortable and restrict your breathing.

It can throw her off the path to orgasm psychologically.

Distraction kills women’s orgasms. In order for a woman to orgasm, she’s got to be in the moment and focused on the physical sensations of pleasure. If she’s worried about the bills, what you think of her, or feeling pressured to orgasm, it’s not going to happen.

Getting into the full nelson curls her lower body and “smashes” her belly together. In other words, it’s going to create those rolls on her tummy. Even if she’s really fit, a curled belly creates those pouches that no one likes to see.

Also, because your hands are behind her head, it’s going to tilt her head forward and what’s in her direct line of sight?

Those distracting belly rolls.

Now she’s focused on something she doesn’t like about her body instead of focusing on fun and pleasure. It’s almost guaranteed to ruin her orgasm.

It Doesn’t Give Her What She Needs

If you read my other blog posts, you know that I’m vehemently against “fucking from the bottom” because all it ends up doing is messing up her grove.

When a woman gets on top, she will ride in the perfect motion required to reach orgasm. If you pay attention in bed, you’ve likely noticed that “perfect motion” is NOT going straight in and out… like most guys do. So let her find her ideal motion and then ride you to orgasm.

The full nelson is different because she can’t do any thrusting. Also, as you’re about to see, one of the only times I suggest you try this position is if she needs deep and fast thrusting in order to orgasm.

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The Only Time You Should Use The Full Nelson Sex Position

So now that you know why you shouldn’t use this position, it’s time to go over why you should. Or more accurately when you should.

Obviously you want to try this position if your woman asks for it specifically or if you’re both committed to checking every sex position off your bucket list.

But here’s the big one…

The only time I recommend the full nelson…

If you’re a regular reader, then you know how much I hammer on the fact that all women are different and you need to adapt your techniques to match your womans preferences.

When it comes to giving a woman orgasms, you generally find the technique that works best for her and keep going all the way to a climax.

Some women need you to increase the speed or pressure right at the end, some need you to keep doing the exact same thing…

But there are some women who just won’t cross the finish line unless you do something dramatically different when she’s nearing the peak.

If your woman is like this, then the full nelson sex position just might be the missing link to making her come.

If she rides you in cowgirl and manages to bring herself to the brink of orgasm but can never cross the finish line, it’s highly likely she needs something completely different right before her orgasm disappears.

This is the only time I recommend you try this position out.

BUT…

Even in that case, I wouldn’t recommend the full, full nelson.

Do the position as described above but only wrap your arms around her legs, not her head.

As we talked about, it can get her focused on her belly… and it’s just not very comfortable. It puts an uncomfortable (possibly even painful) strain on the neck to will distract her focus.

So try out the full nelson WITHOUT your hands behind her head and also check out some of the variations below.

Different Ways To Do The Full Nelson Sex Position

Oystered Nelson

This is a variation of both the full nelson and the Viennese Oyster.

Instead of putting your hands behind her head and creating the neck strain and inevitable view of her belly rolls, she’s the one who’s dictating just how much she wants to get into position.

If she’s already comfortable doing the Viennese oyster (sometimes referred to as the pretzel position), then this is just a matter of doing the pose while she’s lying on top of you instead of the other way around.

Think of it as the oyster but she’s on top instead of you.

The biggest challenge in this position will be for her to keep her balance so make sure you get that settled before you start thrusting.

Nelson’s Sandwich (Threesome Position)

Just as it sounds, this one is for a threesome. Use it with another guy or girl if one wears a strap-on.

One of you can enter her vagina while the other is in her ass, or you could both enter the same hole.

Just make sure she’s okay with it first.

A major benefit to this version is that the guy (or girl) on top can do all the thrusting while the guy (or girl) on the bottom stays in place. As long as the top giving is thrusting hard enough, it’ll rock your woman back and forth on you as well.

Dog Meet Nelson

It might look like something only possible in a hentai cartoon, but it is doable and can be fun to try.

Start in a standing doggy. Her feet flat on the floor, bent over at the waist, and hands on the ground.

As you stand behind her, bend forward and wrap your arms under the insides of her knees.

Once you’re confident it’s safe, reach all the way behind her head and slowly pick her up off the ground.

Standing Bully Nelson

This one is quite simple. It’s essentially the full nelson while standing without lifting her legs.

That said, since women are usually shorter than men, she will be lifted up off the ground. If she’s flexible enough, she can also wrap her legs around your legs.

Using this position for anal? It’ll be quite easy to pound back and forth.

But if you’re having vaginal sex, it’s a bit more tricky. She’ll need to tilt her hips so that you can enter her.

Enter her while in a standing position like standing doggy and then pick her up while you stay inside her.

It’s easier said than done but can make for quite the dominant experience.

Speaking of dominant…

The Choked Nelson

Some women just LOVE to sensation of being choked during sex.

WARNING: NEVER Choke her. I said many women like the sensation. They like the idea of it. They like the feel of a strong hand wrapped around her neck with a little bit of pressure. Creating the feeling is not the same as actually doing it.

Always be careful with choking.

Instead of reaching your hands behind your woman’s head, put your hands around her neck.

Make sure she has a way of giving you feedback. She needs some way of letting you know if it’s too much.

Obviously you can’t see her facial expression in this position. You might not be able to hear her say her safe word. And since her arms are “locked up”, she might not be able to give you a gestures. All this makes it that much more important that you establish some way of communicating when it’s too much.

So there you have it.

The full nelson sex position, why you should or shouldn’t use it, and a whole bunch of fun variations.