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Make Her Come Fast With The Coital Alignment Technique CAT Position

If you want to make sure your girl comes first, you need to start using the coital alignment technique.

It’s a twist on the classic missionary that was first discovered by reichian psychotherapist Edward Eichel, and it’s been scientifically proven to make guys last longer while making women come faster.

Despite its exceptional abilities, you won’t see this highly effective position used in porn cause it’s nothing special to look at. The rare times it’s talked about online or in books, it’s usually difficult to understand and leaves you with more question than answers.

We’re going to fix that today.

Now, is the C.A.T. going to give your woman the strongest orgasms she’s ever had?

No. That’s not what this position is for.

The Coital Alignment Technique is used to:

Get her first orgasm out of the way fast
Prime her body for multiple orgasms
Make you Last Longer

These are the main reasons why…

The Coital Alignment Technique

Is One Of The Most Valuable Sex Positions

In The All-Star Lovers Arsenal

Anytime I’m with a new girl for the first time, I almost always start our session with the C.A.T.

Why?

Cause I want to get that first orgasm out of the way ASAP.

I don’t care if it’s not a strong orgasm… I only care that it happens.

See the longer it takes a girl to come, the less likely it is to happen.

She wants to please you just as much as you want to please her and she knows that her orgasm pleases you.

The longer it takes her to have that first orgasm, the more time she has to start wondering why it’s not happening… and once she reaches this point, it’s much less likely to happen.

That’s why the C.A.T. is so awesome.

Makes it easy for you to give her that first orgasm fast because it creates the perfect type of clitoral stimulation a woman needs to orgasm.

It also makes you last longer because it does NOT provide the type of stimulation that makes guys orgasm.

It doesn’t matter what size you are either because her orgasm doesn’t come from internal stimulation, rather outer stimulation.

Finally, by getting that first orgasm out of the way, your woman’s brain gets flooded with oxytocin (the pleasure chemical) and she goes into “orgasm mode” where multiple orgasms happen MUCH more easily.

How To Use The Coital Alignment Technique To Give Your Woman Her First Orgasm Fast

The majority of women don’t orgasm during penetration.

But the odds a woman will come skyrocket when clitoral stimulation is added.

This is why many women prefer to grind your pubic bone when they get on top instead of hopping up and down.

In non girl-on-top positions, your woman can get the required clitoral stimulation by rubbing herself with her fingers or a toy. If you’ve ever had sex with a girl while she’s vibing her clit, you know just how fast and easy she can come.

The C.A.T. creates a similar sensation except you get all of the credit.

The CAT position makes you the hero by giving her the clitoral stimulation she needs to come while you’re inside of her. No toys or self stimulation needed.

Here’s how it works.

Get into the missionary position.

Go all the way inside of her and stay there.

Do NOT thrust in and out.

Instead, stay all the way in, forget about your penis, and focus on rubbing your pubic bone against her clit.

Your pubic bone is the area above your penis that has (hopefully well trimmed) pubic hair.

The excitement of having you inside her while you’re “rubbing” her clit gives her both the emotional and physical stimulation she needs to come.

Depending on your size and shape, this movement can also make you hit some (often neglected) feel-good spots deep inside of her.

Instead of creating a sensation of on and off “pulsing” pleasure… you’re providing continuous pleasure that doesn’t takes breaks or stop until she gets off!

Making the switch from thrusting to grinding is often the key factor in turning a non-orgasmic woman into a cum machine.

If you want to reach god mode, here’s how to take it to the next level.

Split Test These 4 Motions In The C.A.T. Position

Watch 100 women play with themselves and you’ll notice 1 thing very quick.

All women masturbate differently.

Some rub their clit side to side.

Some prefer up and down.

And some like circles.

Watching your girl play with herself before you get into the cat can let you know exactly what type of motion you should use.

But if you don’t have that precious info yet, try each of these motions out to see and see what works best for you girl.

Up and down. Little blurb here
Side to side. This one is harder and usually only possible if you’re between her legs.
This one will give you a great core workout.

Another way to find her ideal motion is to let her get on top and watch how she grinds you. Check out my post on the cowgirl position to see exactly how it works.

Position Variations

You can have your legs on the outside of hers or the inside. Some swear by one version while stating the other doesn’t work for them so (as always), try both out and see what works best for your woman.

Keep in mind both are slightly different.

When her legs are open, it’s quite easy to rub your pubic bone against her clit. You might need to shift your bodies angle a bit, or move higher or lower compared to her body… but it’s not hard to figure out.

In the closed leg version, it’s not so easy. Instead of focusing on rubbing your pubic bone against her… you’ll likely have to the base of your shaft.

As always, play with this.

Take your time.

And find what works best for you and your woman.

How To Get Into Closed Leg C.A.T.

Getting into the closed leg version can be next to impossible, unless you know this one simple trick.

Lift one of your legs while she slides hers under you.

Then repeat.

What To Do After The C.A.T. To Really Blow Her Mind

At the start of this article I said the orgasms your girl will have in this position aren’t the strongest.

What this position does is give her first orgasm and prime her body for much more intense orgasms after.

Like the C.A.T. there are other positions and thrusting patterns that give women MUCH more powerful orgasms.

We cover these positions and exactly how they work inside Penetration Orgasms Made Easy. Plus you’ll learn a whole lot more tips, tricks, and techniques to blow your girls mind after the CAT.

Check out Penetration Orgasms Made Easy now to give your girl the best penetration of her life… regardless of your size!

The Doggy Style Trick That Makes Her Come First

Women LOVE the doggy style sex position.

Why?

- With every thrust, your balls slap her clit.
- Your hips smack her ass.
- It’s easy and natural for her to submit to you.
- Contrary to popular belief, doggy style doesn’t give g-spot orgasms… rather much deeper and more powerful “end zone” orgasms. (More on that in a minute).

But even with all that going for it, most guys only tap into a fraction of doggy styles full pleasure producing potential.

See, there’s a common misconception about doggy style that limits the pleasure you’re able to give your woman.

But once you understand what it is and how it works… it’s not uncommon to make a woman come in just seconds.

Sounds like bs.

I know.

So let’s just get to straight to it.

Forget The G-Spot, Doggy Style Hits Different

The common misconception is that doggy style gives women g-spot orgasms.

This is wrong.

The truth is that doggy style hits a much more powerful spot inside your woman.

When a woman bends over in doggy style, the vaginal canal “folds” and the distance from beginning to end become much shorter. This is why you can reach a lot deeper, even if you aren’t very large.

As you enter her, your shaft rubs against her g-spot, but ends up in her deeper (and much more orgasmic) “end zone”.

The technical term for this area is the fornix. Some call it the deep spot but this can be confusing because it’s not one spot and it’s not in the same place on every woman.

The fornix is more like a pleasure packed, circular cavity in the deepest part of the vagina.

Some women’s fornix is more sensitive on the posterior (towards her back), and others on the anterior (towards her front). Some are more sensitive on the right side, and others on the left.

The trick is to hit all these different areas until you can find out exactly where it is on your woman.

Once you do that… it’s game over.

She will come HARD and FAST!

Below, I’ll show you how to find this hidden sweet spot on your woman so you can nail it every time and give your woman the best dam doggy style she’ll ever have.

First…

You Need To Slow It Down, Champ…

The doggy style sex position is one that begs for rough, hard sex.

It’s not time to get all romantic and make slow love.

That said, you need to make her crave a hard fucking before giving it to her.

The way you do this is by teasing her and starting out slow.

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One of the strategies we use on the all-star team is extending gratification.

Every guy knows they need to tease their woman.

In other words, make her crave something before you give it to her.

But what happens once you finally give it to her?

The average guy immediately starts going harder, faster, and deeper.

But the all-start lover does things different. He extends the initial feeling of gratification as long as possible and brings her to the brink of ecstasy before he really gets started.

Imagine your woman bent over in front of you.

Most guys slide in and and start going hard as fast as possible.

But that initial moment when you finally enter her is so exciting, so satisfying, so gratifying… that you want to extend that feeling for as long as possible.

Here’s how to do it.

Start by rubbing the tip of your cock against her clit, then press your tip against her opening. Don’t go in just yet. Instead, press yourself against her opening.

Then go back to rubbing your tip against her clit.

The feeling of you pressing against her opening without going in will make her anticipate your entrance. AKA it’ll tease her and make her crave you inside of her.

Switch back and forth between rubbing her clit and teasing her opening for at least a minute.

Now here’s where you take this to the next level…

When you finally enter her… only let her have the tip.

Then pull out.

Give her just your tip again.

And pull out again.

Do this 9 times.

Then on the tenth, go all the way it. You’ll feel MASSIVE even if you’re on the smaller side.

Now pull out and go back to just the tip.

This time, give her your tip 8 times, and go balls deep twice.

Then 7 and 3.

Keep doing this till you reach 10 full, deep thrusts.

By the time you’re done, she’ll be on the brink of orgasm and you haven’t even gotten started yet.

Bonus Benefit: If you struggle with premature ejaculation, this technique is a must because it gets you used to the sensation without overload. In other words, you have much more control on when you unload.

If you want to take this to the next level, you can keep the pattern going in reverse.

Go from 10 deep and 0 shallow, to 9 deep and 1 shallow.

Then 8 and 2.

All the way back to the starting line.

Now that you’ve got her gushing wet and begging for more, lets’ get to…

Doggy Style Sex Position Variations:

There are 3 main variations of the doggy style sex position. Traditional, standing, and prone. But within each of these versions, there are small, simple shifts you can make that change everything.

This is what really matters.

It’s not about finding the wildest version you can pull off… it’s about finding the tweaks that work for your woman.

Lifting a leg, moving an inch forward or backward, or making a slight adjustment in your thrusts can be the difference between “Yes, I was close.” and “Oh My Gawd, how the hell did you do that?”

Remember, every woman’s “end zone” is a little different and the way you make up for that is by fine tuning little details of the position to hit her sweet spot just right.

Traditional Doggy Style Sex Position

This is the classic version of doggy style we all know and love. Your woman gets on all fours while you stand or kneel behind her.

This is a great version to start in for one simple reason.

Your woman has just the right amount of control.

You aren’t going as hard as she wants? She can back up harder onto you.

Going too deep to early? She can move forward as needed.

Not giving it to her fast enough? She can thrust back to makeup the difference.

Keep in mind that when you switch to a different variation, these preferences can change but this gives you a great starting point.

Once you’re confident that you know just how she likes it, grab her waist and take control.

As for tweaks, this version is all about height and tight.

By spreading your legs further apart or closer together, your pelvis will be aligned higher or lower with hers.

By spreading her legs further apart or closer together, she’ll feel more or less tight.

Face Down Ass Up (FDAU)

The traditional style is great for getting started. But it can quickly get tiring for your woman.

When she does get tired, the easiest thing to do is lean forward and rest her upper body on the bed while leaving her ass up in the air.

This completely changes the angle and leads to an entirely different sensation for her. So pay attention to the difference in her reactions.

Is she getting louder?

Grasping the sheets tighter?

Thrusting back a little harder?

Face Up Ass Up

In face down ass up, she lies her upper body down on the bed. In this version you bring her upper body up towards yours.

Again, this changes the angle completely and creates a whole new sensation for her.

When she’s in traditional doggy, put your hand around her neck and pull her towards you.

Kiss or lightly bite her neck and talk dirty.

Find Her Sweet Spot In Traditional Doggy

The way to fine-tune these versions of the traditional position is by honing in on the perfect angle.

Make sure you try all 3 of these.

Get on your feet and crouch over her. This will make the difference between hitting her anterior fornix (closer to her belly) vs hitting her posterior fornix (closer to her back).
Lift 1 of your legs while keeping the other in place. This will make you go towards one side.
Move 1 of her legs closer towards her head.

Remember, each of these versions will feel like an entirely new position to her. Any one of them can be the one that hits her end zone and send her to orgasm within seconds.

Standing Doggy Style Sex Position

Standing doggy is awesome for quickies, getting it on outside of the bedroom, or just mixing things up.

You Stand, She Kneels

Stand at the very edge of the bed while she’s on all fours.

Hit different angles by putting 1 foot on the bed and the other on the ground.

1 tweak to try in this version is to swing your thrusts rather than just go forward.

Really swing your hips and pelvis so that you’re going in and up, into her posterior fornix.

You Both Stand.

Great for shower sex, outdoor sex while you keep an eye out for peepers, or when you’re trying to make your way to the bedroom but you’re both so horny you can’t make it past the hallway.

Similar to traditional doggy, you want to test your angles.

She can stand up taller with her head closer to yours, or bend over forward with her hands closer to the ground.

Both versions make you hit different the different fornicies so try both and see what works for her.

If she’s flexible, or if there’s something to rest her hands on, she can lean forward and have you plowing into her spot.

The other version is to have her head up, towards you. Again, you can easily accomplish this by putting your hand on her neck and pulling her up to you.

You can also lift one of you legs to get the side angles and unlike when she’s on all fours, she can lift a leg as well.

You Stand She Leans

This one is all about her height and the height of your furniture.

Is your counter, kitchen table, or dresser about the height of her waist?

If so you can pull off a traditional standing doggy while she leans over the furniture.

She can also have her hands on the floor or pull a FDAU with her face down on the couch while standing.

This dramatically changes the angle and if she’s a posterior fornix girl… you’ll drive straight into her spot with every thrust!

Finally, we have…

Prone Doggy Style AKA Prone Bone

I’ve already done a full blog post on the prone bone position so I won’t go too deep here.

In this version your woman lies flat on her stomach while you enter from behind.

This position creates yet another completely different sensation on your woman and is a must try.

It doesn’t “fold” the vaginal canal as much as doggy so you won’t go as deep and you might not be able to reach her fornices, but you will hit her g-spot directly.

Just like everything you’ve learned so far, test out different angles.

By going higher or lower on her body, you change the angle and the spot you hit.

Put a pillow under her pelvis to change the angle and hit higher or lower.

Intertwine your legs on one side or the other to hit the different sides of her o’zone.

How To Last Longer In The Doggy Style Sex Position

If there’s one position where guys are prone to ejaculate prematurely, it’s doggy style.

There’s just something about seeing your girl bent over with her ass right there for the taking… that makes you want to bust.

If that wasn’t enough, it’s one of those position where she just wants it fast and hard.

We’ve already covered 2 great tips for lasting long during doggy in this article.

Longer Lasting Doggy Tip #1 Using the “just the tip” technique described above is an easy way to cool yourself down while building her arousal.

By entering just your tip and then pulling out, you allow the most sensitive part of your penis to get used to the new sensation. Before you overload the rest of you cock with sensation, the most sensitive part is already used to it so you don’t blow it too early.

At the same time, your womans level of arousal excels exponentially and by the time you go balls deep, she’s on the verge of climax.

Longer Lasting Doggy Tip #2 When using a standing position, thrust with your entire body, not just your core.

When you’re kneeling, you can only use your core and this makes your penis feel more sensation… sensation that makes you come.

When you stand, you can use the leverage of your entire body to thrust rather than just your core.

Add an upward swinging motion that aims for the fornix and you’ll turn her into a premature ejaculator while you have the stamina of a triathlete.

Longer Lasting Doggy Tip #3 Use short, shallow thrusts.

This one hasn’t been covered in this article so listen up.

If giving just the tip is how you get a woman warmed up and primed for orgasm, this is how you finish her.

Go as deep as you can inside your woman.

Instead of pulling out as much as you can, stay deep. Only pull out 1 or 2 inches, and then back in all the way.

This does 2 very powerful things.

It cuts your sensitivity down by 20% to 50%
It’s shortens your womans wait to have her end zone stimulated.

Instead of hitting her fornix every 3 seconds (for example)… you hit it every 1 or 2 seconds.

This creates a more consistent sensation instead of a pulsing one that leaves and then comes back.

If your using this style of thrusting along with the ideal position to hit her fornix… she can easily erupt in seconds while you remain cool, calm, and completely in control of your own orgasm.

These tricks are just the tips of her orgasmic iceburg:

If you dig the tips on this page, you’re going to love what I have for you next.

See, the truth about fucking is that most guys are amateurs.

Most guys just thrust in and out, as fast and hard as they can and then hope their girl cums.

That’s how amateurs roll.

The fact is that old school “in and out” style of penetration gives women very little stimulation.

The good news is that there are a handful of thrusting techniques that do give women the consistent, rhythmic stimulation they need in order to cum.

The best part is that it doesn’t matter what size you are.

Seriously.

Guys as small as 3 inches have used these techniques to make their woman cum from penetration.

Check out penetration orgasms made easy to learn the thrusting techniques, positions, and the “amplifiers” that will make your woman cum faster, more easily, and more powerfully than ever before.

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Either way, I hope you enjoyed this blog and start giving your girl those deep, doggy style orgasms she craves!

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#1 Most Dangerous Mistake Men Make In The Cowgirl Sex Position

According to some scientific studies, the cowgirl sex position is one of 2 most likely to lead women to penetration orgasms.

But even the best lovers, using the best positions, can make mistakes.

In fact, there’s one major mistake many men make in cowgirl that completely ruins a woman’s chance at reaching a climax.

On this page, you’re going to learn exactly what this costly mistake is, why we make it, and most important, what to do instead so that you can make your woman come every time.

Or more accurately, so that you don’t prevent your woman from making herself come on you.

But before we get to that…

Here’s how the cowgirl position works.

You lie on your back while your woman gets on top and rides you to bliss.

Like most sex position, there are many different variations of the cowgirl.

Which one you use is not a matter of what you’re in the mood for, rather what will lead your woman to orgasm.

Well get to that in a minute, but first…

Let’s get to the single most important thing you need to know about cowgirl, and virtually every woman on top position.

The Biggest Mistake Men Make In The Cowgirl Sex Position Is: Fucking From Below

Here’s the deal…

The type of penetration that makes men come, typically doesn’t do the job for women.

What’s needed for men to orgasm is a simple and consistent in and out motion.

For women, that motion doesn’t do much other than tease and eventually frustrate them.

Going straight in and out doesn’t make you rub against her clit, g-spot, or a-spot.

Unless you’re huge, she won’t feel much at all.

And if you are bigger than average, she’ll only feel a fraction of the pleasure she could.

When a woman gets on top to ride, her natural instinct will be to grind you.

Why?

Cause that’s the type of motion that makes her come.

The mistake so many men make is that once she starts grinding, we grab onto her and start fucking from the bottom.

We hold her in place and start pounding straight in and out.

Imagine how frustrating this is for women.

She gets on top and has full control.

She starts grinding in the way that feels incredible to her and will eventually bring her to orgasm.

But all of a sudden, the guys she’s on top of grabs her and starts penetrating in a completely different way.

A way that feels nowhere near as good as what she felt when she was in control.

How do you think that makes her feel?

She feels like he’s taking pleasure away from her. This breeds resentment.
He doesn’t understand what she wants and needs. This breeds a lack of trust.
She’s not getting the pleasure she knows is possible. This makes her feel frustrated.
She feels like he doesn’t care about pleasing her and is only using her for his pleasure.

Now think about it…

How likely do you think she is to want sex with him again.

In fact, you don’t have to imagine.

Take a look at this reddit user who posted about her frustration with guys who don’t let their woman ride.

And here’s another with some equally insightful responses from other women…

The bottom line is, when your woman gets on top, let her get off on you.

Keep your hips and pelvis still.

Now this does NOT mean you should play the role of a dead fish.

On the contrary.

Here’s What To Do In The Cowgirl Sex Position

Many women get insecure and nervous when on top.

Unlike the majority of positions, when she’s on top, she feels an added pressure to perform.

Add to this the fact that many women have never been able to find the motion that feels best for them.

Either she doesn’t know exactly what to try, or her past lovers were making the mistake we talked about earlier and didn’t allow her to try.

What you’re left with is a woman who doesn’t know exactly what to do and on top of that, she isn’t confident in her ability to do it without interference.

Your mission in cowgirl is twofold:

Allow and encourage her to discover what feels best
Reward her with positive reinforcement when she does so

When guys first hear me say “encourage her to discover what feels best”, they often think that just telling their woman “do whatever feels right to you” will do.

The problem is that she might not know what feels best or know how to figure it out.

Below, I’m going to show you what’s most likely to feel best to her and how to encourage her with your words as well as your actions.

Woven into each move, I’m going to give you some advanced techniques to reward her for doing so.

Here’s a hint: the most effective rewards have little to do with the words you use.

So let’s get to it.

Cowgirl Position for Clitoral Orgasms

Her position: She leans on your chest (as if she’s hugging you).

Ideal motion for her orgasm: A twerking motion that slides her clit up and down against your shaft and/or pubic bone.

Encourage her to find her bliss: It’s quite simple in this position. If she’s on her knees, there isn’t much she’ll be able to do other than twerk.

Reward her: Since your heads are so close together, you’re in the perfect position to use some dirty talk. Hold her close to you and tell her how much you love the way she moves her ass on you.

Cowgirl for Clitoris and A-Spot (AKA Deep-Spot) Stimulation

Her position: She gets upright with a slight lean and places her hands on your chest (as if giving cpr).

Ideal motion for her orgasm: Keeping you all the way inside while grinding herself back and forth, rubbing her clit against your pubic bone.

Encourage her to find her bliss: Again, if she’s on her knees, she should be able to figure out her ideal motion quite easily. If she doesn’t, put your hands on her hips and tilt them back and forth. Imagine grabbing a keyboard by the sides. Hold it straight up. Now tilt it slightly and then return to starting position. This is the motion you want to make.

Reward her: Once she nails the movement and is really enjoying it, know that she’s moving for her pleasure. Make her feel confident in her moves and get her to focus on her pleasure by telling her to. Say “You look so sexy the way you ride me. Use that cock, baby. Get that pleasure. Fuck yeah baby, get it!”

Cowgirl Sex For G-Spot Orgasms

Her position: She gets on top and leans back, putting her hands on your knees, thighs, or the bed.

Ideal motion for her orgasm: Imagine her staying completely still while tilting her pelvis up and down. Each time, she basically drops her g-spot on your tip.

Try this version lying down, and also try it sitting up in a couch or against the head of the bed. It’ll put your shaft at an angle and make g-spot stimulation even more dramatic.

Encourage her to find her bliss: When she’s on top, just tell her how sexy it would look if she leans back for a bit.

Reward her: Again, tell her how sexy she looks when she rides you. Moan, groan and let her know not just with your words, but also your sounds and facial expressions.

Keep in mind this position is tough and she likely wont be able to last very long.

If you’re close enough, try putting your arms around her and giving her that extra support to make her last a bit longer.

Cowgirl For Your Pleasure

Her position: She squats on top of you and bounces up and down on your cock.

Ideal motion: If she’s doing this version, it’s all about your pleasure. She’s going to be squatting up and down on your cock so she won’t get much in terms of physical pleasure but you will.

Just know that she’s unlikely to come in this version but if she keeps going long enough, you will.

If she’s already come in another version or position, this can be a fun way for you to finish.

The Betty Rocker

The betty rocker is a reverse cowgirl sex position which provides completely different types of stimulation.

Use the same principals of letting her find the ideal motion for her pleasure and use positive reinforcement.

The real key to making this position great for her is to make her feel confident about her ass.

Slap her it and let her know how sexy it looks.

Let her know how hard she’s making you.

Since she can’t see you or your facial expressions, get a little louder with your words and sounds.

The Butterfly Sex Position Gives Big D Skills To Smaller Sized Guys

If you’re average or slightly below in size, you need to try the butterfly sex position.

It might just be one of the best positions for giving women powerful g-spot orgasms with and average (or slightly smaller) tool.

On this page you’ll discover exactly why it works so well and how you can use it to give her one of the strongest orgasms of her life… regardless of your size.

First, let’s cover the basics.

To get into the butterfly, your woman lies down at the edge of a bed, table, or counter top.

You stand in front of her, lift her legs and rest them against your shoulders.

Grab her butt with your hands and lift her slightly off the surface. This is the real magic to this position. More on why in a minute.

The challenge with this position is finding a surface that’s the perfect height.

If the surface is just a bit too high, you can spread your legs to lower yourself a bit. If your working surface is low enough, you can kneel to get the right height.

Why The Butterfly Sex Position Is A Secret Weapon For Smaller Guys

First of all, she gets to relax in a comfortable position which is required if she’s going to come.

It’s also fairly easy for you. No complicated or strenuous position to hold and it doesn’t require you to use much strength.

All in all, it’s a comfortable and easy position on both of you.

But here’s where this position really shines.

By lifting her core in the air, you tilt her pelvis.

Without this angle, you’ll thrust straight in and out of her without really touching her g-spot at all, unless you’re well hung.

By tilting her pelvis, you create an angle that makes it easy for you to thrust straight into her g-spot.

Pelvic Tilt — By lifting her butt (even just a tiny bit) you tilt the angle of penetration and hit her g-spot directly!

This slight shift in her position turns you into an instant stud that easily hits her g-spot without needing a huge dick and with no special moves or tricks.

Add to this the fact that her body is completely relaxed while she can look you in the eyes and you’ve got the perfect recipe for a powerful g-spot orgasm.

You might even make her squirt so have some towels nearby.

Here’s How To Blow Her Mind In The Butterfly Position

The butterfly is great for a lunchtime quickie on the dinning room table, but it’s also a great finishing move because it makes her come so hard.

So sometimes, save it as your finishing move.

As she’s lying on the bed, put your hand on her hips and pull her to the edge.

In Jiu Jitsu, controlling the hips of your opponent is essential.

When you control the hips, you control the body.

When you grab your woman by the hips and pull on them, she feels the control you have over her body.

Consciously or not, she thinks “if he can control my body, he can control my orgasms”.

Now that she’s in the right spot and willing to submit because you know how to control her body, grab her ankles and lift her legs up in the air.

Kiss the back of her calves and work your way down.

Tell her to hold her legs high and wide as you get down to your knees.

Now kiss, lick, and tease the back of her thighs as you work your way closer to her pussy.

Back off a bit and go back to her legs to create tension and desire.

Warm Her Pussy Up Before You Make Her Come

Using your thumb and index finger, pinch her outer pussy lips together.

What you’re doing is pinching her clit INDIRECTLY, through the skin of her lips.

Now gently start stroke her clit, as if it were a tiny dick.

This massages her clit indirectly which is key because she might not be warmed up enough for direct contact yet. If she is, you’ll just get her more amped and rearing to go.

Once she’s aching for more, slowly start to lick the hood of her clit. Again, don’t make direct contact. Just the hood.

When she’s ready for direct contact, start with one slow lick directly on her clit and pay attention to her response.

If it’s positive, keep going.

Of not, go back to playing with her indirectly until she’s ready.

Use her favorite oral technique to give her a clitoral orgasm.

Once she comes, give her a minute to cool down.

Tell her how sexy she looks when she comes.

Let her know how delicious she tastes.

Kiss and stroke her legs.

Stand Up, Grab Her Butt, And Get Into The Butterfly Sex Position

Since you just gave her a clitoral orgasm, her clit will be too sensitive to touch.

Her g-spot however, will be swollen and aching to feel you.

Rub your tip up and down against her opening for a few 10 – 20 seconds to build her desire.

Slowly enter just your tip inside of her.

Now pull it back out.

Do this a few times.

This will get her soaking wet and craving to feel all of you.

With every stroke, go just a bit deeper.

Start slow like this and build it up faster, harder, and more passionately.

Remember, the real trick to this position is the angle of her hips.

If you don’t want to hold her up anymore, put a pillow under her pelvis.

Now you’re free to pin her arms down, or pinch, twist, and pull her nipples… if she’s into it.

If ever you feel yourself getting close to coming before you’re ready, just pull out and go down on her again.

Try The Crossed Butterfly

As with every position, you wanna try different variations to find out which one works best for your woman.

A popular twist on the butterfly is to cross her legs so they make an X.

It tightens her up and make you feel bigger.

But remember, contrary to popular belief, bigger isn’t always better.

So try them both but read her feedback and don’t assume she’ll like one better than the other.

If the crossed version feels too tight, you can also try:

The One Sided Butterfly Sex Position:

Instead of crossing her legs, close them together and put them over the same shoulder.

This will make her tighter but not as tight as the X version.

This one also makes it easy for you to hold both her legs in place with one hand.

Now the other is free to roam.

Use it to play with her breasts, grab her neck, or hold one of her arms down.

Finally, another version of the butterfly that creates a completely unique sensation for her is:

The Curled Butterfly Position

Instead of having her legs straight up and against your chest, this version has her legs curled.

Fold her legs up towards her head and bend them at the knees so she can rest her feet on your chest.

This one folds her body in such a way that you might not even need to extra elevation of the pillow or your hands. Again, test out all versions to find her favorite.

Increase Her Odds Of Orgasm In The Butterfly Sex Position

Without question, the butterfly is one of the best positions for giving women g-spot orgasms… especially if you’re average or a little below in size.

That said, there is one simple strategy you can use to increase your odds of making her come.

Earlier, we talked about switching between oral and penetration in this position.

But do you know what type of oral works best for your woman?

Some like circular licks to the clit while others like it up and down.

Some get more pleasure when you suck on their clit.

Some women need you to finger them during oral in order to have the strongest orgasm.

If you’re wasting your time on a technique that doesn’t make her come, it doesn’t matter how good you are at it.

She won’t come.

If she does, it’ll be a weak orgasm compared to her potential.

To make sure you give your woman the most pleasurable and powerful orgasms possible, you need to adapt to her unique sensitivities and preferences.

Watch this video to Make Sure She Comes Every Time!

Dominate Her G-Spot with the Prone Bone Sex Position

If your woman loves doggy style, you’ve got to try out the prone bone position. Like traditional doggy, the prone bone also hits the g-spot with ease but… it also makes you go MUCH deeper so she feels all your fullness!

Even if you’re on the smaller side, you’ll feel huge inside her.

If you’re longer than average, you’ll be able to go deep without hitting her cervix.

The prone bone truly is one of the greatest, most orgasmic positions there are. In fact it’s loved by so many that there’s even a prone bone subreddit, one of only a handful of positions to claim their own spot on the site.

To get into it, flatten your woman out on a bed, face down. Get on top and enter her from behind.

To make sure you’re giving her the best sex she’s ever had in the prone bone position, test and tweak different variations.

As with every thing related to sex, not all women like the same things.

Different women have unique sensitivities.

Their g-spots and clits can react differently to different moves.

Their “hot spots” can be in slightly different places.

To really master the prone bone position, you need to test out a few different variations to find the one that hits the spot just right.

The most important thing to test in the prone bone position is your angles of penetration.

Specifically, the pelvic tilt, and the side tilt.

Different angles of pelvic tilt.

The reason this position works so well for giving women powerful orgasms is because you’re thrusting straight down into her g-spot.

By tilting her pelvis, your penis can plow straight into it and keep going, rubbing against the entire upper wall where the g-spot and deep spot are.

Have her stick her butt out or make it easier on her by putting a pillow or sex wedge under her hips.

This naturally tilts her pelvis and makes it much more comfortable to receive your powerful pounding.

Try no tilt, vs tilting with 1 pillow, vs tilting with 2.

Enter her straight on vs from the side.

This one’s really simple. In one version, come in straight from behind with both your legs between or on the outside of hers. In the second version, straddle one of her legs with yours, making you come in at an angle.

For some women, coming in at an angle like this is make you hit the perfect spot!

Now that you’ve found the perfect angle to make her come, let’s talk about framing.

We all know “women need to be warmed up first”… but…

Even though the prone bone is one of my favorite go to positions, I don’t recommend using it as the first position in your session. It’s a position I like to save until she’s properly warmed up and is on the verge of orgasm or ready for a second, or third, or more.

That said, women really respond well to being taken back and forth between slow “love-making” to rough fucking.

So start off slow in this position. Especially when you’re testing out the different variations and fine-tuning to discover her preferences.

It’s a very dominant position, which is why you’ll want to spend most time giving her rough sex, but it’s also more intimate than traditional doggy style.

Why?

Your bodies are much closer together.

If you’re leaning over her, your head is directly above hers in the perfect position for some sweet or dirty talk, and if she turns her head to the side, you can kiss her.

Start slow and gentle. Take your time thrusting all the way in, slowly. Remember, this position makes you go very DEEP. Depending on what positions you’ve used in the past, this might be the deepest she’s ever felt you.

So give her time to enjoy every extra bit of you.

If you go too fast, she won’t get to enjoy all the new sensations.

Kiss her neck, shoulders, and if she turns her head, you can even kiss her cheek and mouth.

Whisper sweet nothings into her ear.

Now, as you both get more aroused, start to turn up the heat.

If you remember nothing else from this blog, remember this:

Men want women, and women want to be wanted.

Now what makes a woman feel wanted? I’m talking about feeling wanted sexually here.

What makes her feel sexually attractive and wanted is when you get so hard and turned on that you’re barely able to control yourself.

Imagine a woman was so turned on by you that she was barely able to control herself.

What would that look like?

Would she slowly, make sweet, gently love to you?

No.

She’d throw you down, pin you against the bed and fuck your brains out!

This is what you want to give her… once she’s warmed up of course.

So as you’re making love for a couple of minutes in this position, she’s also making you harder, more aroused, and sending you closer to the verge of losing control.

As you get more turned on, you start fucking her a little harder.

You pin her arms down on the bed.

Your sweet nothings turn to dirty talk.

Caressing her neck and shoulders turns into pushing her head down onto the bed or pulling her hair. All of this without hurting her of course.

Smoothly progress from slow lovemaking while you figure out her preferences, to raw, animalistic pounding straight down into her g-spot and you just might end up giving her the strongest orgasm of her life!

Make Her Come BEFORE Sex To Skyrocket Her Chances of Coming Again During Sex

We all know women are capable of having multiple orgasms.

Once a woman has her first orgasm, she goes into an “orgasmic state” where it’s much easier for her to come again, and again. Her orgasms also become stronger and they take a lot less time.

So if you want to give her 2, 3, 4, or more orgasms, give her that first orgasm before sex.

Here’s the key:

Every woman is different.

Some come easiest from oral sex, others from massaging the g-spot. Some women need a unique combination of both, and some will only come from a very specific technique done just the right way.

Your mission is to find her unique “orgasm formula”.

Once you do that, she’s like putty in your hands. Coming at your will and swearing your the best she’s ever had.

I made this video to show you exactly how to do it.

Watch the Make Her Come First Video to Learn How.