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Pass “The Wall” with the Upside Down Deepthroat Position?

If you want to experience the pinnacle of submissiveness while taking your man deeper down your throat than you ever have before, you need to try the upside down deepthroat position. The sensations of being face fucked deep down your throat without any gagging and nowhere to go is an exceptionally liberating experience.

In this epic blowjob position, you lie on your back with your head hanging over the edge of the bed. Your man stand in front of you and enters your mouth and aligned throat. The tilt of your head aligns your mouth and throat, making it easier to take a man down your throat without hitting “the wall.”

Why He Loves It:

If your blowjobs have become stale and routine, this pose is a sure fire way to mix it up by giving your man some incredibly alluring views from an angle he isn’t used to. Take it to the next level by placing yourself in front of a mirror and letting him catch a reflection of you playing with yourself as he effortlessly slides down your throat. Depending on the angle and his size, he might also see his cock make a bulge in your throat. Intoxicatingly hot!

Side note: Unlike regular blowjobs, the sensations your man feels during deepthroat come from the tightness of your throat, not the suction of your lips. This along with the psychological thrill of having his entire manhood taken and embraced makes deepthroating an experience unlike any other.

Critical Warning: The Upside Down Deepthroat Position is advanced and requires practice, patience, and trust.

The upside down deepthroat position is advanced. While it can help you get past “the wall” and get better at deep throating, it’s not going to turn a rookie into a deepthroating queen overnight. This isn’t a position for newbies and those who still lack a certain level of confidence and skill. Hanging upside down results in a headrush sensations that can add excitement but can also feel disorientating and overwhelming. A common occurrence for first time upside down deepthroaters is spit running down the face potentially into their nose. All this leads to the fact that you MUST establish a ‘safe gesture’ before hand, and it’s highly recommended you start with a beginner version of the position.

Beginner version of the upside down deepthroat position:

If you’re not already taking your man to the depths of your throat, try a slightly modified version of the upside down deep throat and ease your way to pro level.

Lie down on your bed. Using a pillow, folded towel, or other comfy prop, tilt you head back half way. Your man can kneel over you as you get accustomed to taking him deep. Instead of your head hanging completely over the edge of the bed, it’ll hang halfway over your prop. Your man can kneel on the bed and tilt over you as if he was going into a 69 position.

Keep tilting gradually until you’re hanging over the edge of the bed and devouring him entirely.

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Face Sitting Femdom Position – The ultimate BDSM kink to learn…

Face sitting AKA queening is when a woman sits on your face and allows or forces oral. It’s often associated with femdom and bdsm.

Your woman can kneel, squat, or sit on a throne. Yes there are actually “thrones” made and sold for the sole purpose of face sitting.

She can face your head, a side, or your feet.

Although there is one issue with the latter.

Facing towards your feet can take away from the pleasure for her because seeing your lonely cock sit there unattended can make her feel like she should bend over and please you too.

On the other hand, if going down on your girl makes you hard, seeing you progressively get harder and she sits on your face can be a major turn-on.

One way to get the benefit while avoiding the con here is to use this version of the position while you’ve got your underwear still on. A barrier that prevents her from going down while also being loose or thin enough for your erection to be obvious through them.

WARNING ABOUT FACE SITTING:

Safe words are a must with risky positions like this. In the case of face sitting, safe words don’t cut it since you might not be able to get any words out. So make sure you get clear on a safe ACT. Tapping out on her thighs is a simple a effective one that should do the trick.

There are 2 main techniques for face sitting. She can sit still while you work your magic. Not easy since your neck will have to fight gravity the entire time.

Or you stay still while she grinds away and fucks your face. Relax, pay attention to her movements, and this can be the most exciting reconnaissance mission of your life.

Use this experience to learn everything you can about your girls oral preferences. Notice the speed, pressure, and rhythm she uses to grind your tongue. Notice if or how these elements change as she gets more and more into it. Take not of every move she makes and your oral game will have no choice but to level up immediately.

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How To Satisfy 2 Women In The MFF Daisy Chain Oral Sex Position

The daisy chain sex position (sometimes called 69-a-trois) is when 3 or more people simultaneously give oral sex to one person, while receiving from another. The group forms a triangle, square, or circle and the last person on the chain gives to the first.

Any gender and any combination of genders can be involved.

A daisy chain is a “closed” loop because everyone is giving and receiving oral.

A daisy train is open ended where the last person on each end is only giving, or receiving. It’s also sometimes called the caterpillar position.

daisy train sex position — The Daisy Train Position

There are many different ways to have a daisy chain, but in this article, I’m going to talk about it from the perspective of one guy with 2 girls.

Tips For The Daisy Chain Sex Position

Holding your head up on it’s side gets tiring fast, and can put some seriously uncomfortable strain on your neck. Depending on everyone’s positions, you might be able to sneak a pillow under your head, or use your receivers thigh as a head rest.
Touch BOTH partners. Part of the excitement of a threesome (or more some) is that so much is going on. Genitals everywhere, moans from people you’re not even touching, and hands coming at you from many different directions. Reach over and touch, fondle, and grope both women.

How To Satisfy The One Your Going Down On

In my breakdown of the 69 position, I said that even the best technique is not likely to make a woman come during 69.

Why?

In order for a woman to orgasm, she needs to focus on the pleasure she’s receiving. If she’s giving head while receiving, it’s going to be almost impossible for her to split her attention and focus on her own pleasure enough.

The same thing is true for the daisy chain.

Because she’s going to focus on giving, it’s going to be hard for her to focus on the pleasure she’s getting enough to reach orgasm.

So instead of trying to make a woman come in the daisy chain, focus on getting blood flowing to her groin and turning her on so that once you transition into another position, she’s closer to orgasm.

How To Satisfy The One Going Down On You

When going down on someone, we like to be rewarded with positive feedback.

No one likes going down on a partner who acts like a dead fish, not moving, not making a sound.

We like to know the person where going down on is getting pleasure from it.

So any time someone goes does on you, make sure they know you’re enjoying it.

Moan.

Twitch your cock and core.

Breathe a little louder.

Don’t exaggerate this, but do let it all out. Many of us hold in the sounds and movements we’d otherwise make. Let out whatever sounds and movements you’re feeling.

Here’s a simple trick most guys don’t know:

When you’re eating pussy, moaning creates a little vibration that feels delicious to your woman.

When the person giving you oral does something extra special and pleasant, stop using your main technique and just moan while “holding” pussy in your mouth.

The woman your giving to will feel a slight vibration that raises her arousal, while the one giving to you is going to get wet from how hard she’ making you.

It’s a win win, win!

Do NOT Let Her Come In The Zombie Sex Position. Do This Instead…

The zombie sex position is what you get when mixing the 69 position with a downward dog yoga pose.

You sit with your feet flat on the floor while your woman stands with her ass in your face.

She bends over at the waist and puts her hands on the floor.

Her head is in position to take you in her mouth while you take her in yours.

She does need to be a bit flexible to pull this off.

If she’s not quite able to reach full zombie, she can bend her knees, you can lean back, or you can do a combination of both.

leaning zombie — Zombie position with the guy leaning back slightly.

Do NOT Try To Make Her Come In The Zombie Sex Position

I know this sounds odd coming from a blog always preaches the magnitude of making women come first, but here’s the deal…

It’s a very difficult position for her to climax in. If she does come, it’ll likely be a very weak orgasm.

She’s got to focus on holding a somewhat difficult position. This makes is harder for her to focus on the pleasure that leads her to orgasm.
Her pussy and ass are completely exposed to you. While we men love it, it’s often a source of high insecurity and anxiety for many women.
She won’t be able to give the best blowjob in this position so she won’t be feeling very confident.

All these things together make it highly unlikely she will orgasm in this position, even if you’re using the perfect technique.

Instead, use the zombie to prep her for an incredible orgasm.

Use this position to turn her on and warm her up for what’s to come.

Naturally, she’s going to be stretching which is always recommended before any intense physical activity.

Here’s how you can stretch and warm up her emotions, arousal, and orgasms:

Arouse Her Emotions

As I said before, having her pussy and ass so exposed can make her self conscious. If she has any insecurities about her naughty bits (like many women do), she’s going to need some positive reassurance in order to relax and get turned on.

Use this opportunity to make her feel confident and sexy.

Compliment her.

Tell her how beautiful her ass is.

Let her know how delicious she tastes.

Make sure she knows that you’re incredibly turned on by having her business all up in your face.

Don’t just use your words.

Non-verbal communication is just as (if not more) effective.

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Moan and groan.

Let her hear how aroused you are through non-verbal communication and she will get turned on as well.

Reframe Her Struggle Into Desire

Once again, unless she’s a high level yogi or performs in the Cirque Du Soleil, it going to be tough to give you a show stopping blowjob.

She’ll be to focused on making sure she doesn’t fall over.

So don’t expect a great blowjob.

Also, don’t lie and tell her she’s giving you a great blowjob. She knows she isn’t and you’ll only reduce her trust. You’ll also condition her to give bad oral.

Instead, reframe her struggle to give you great head as a strong desire to give you great head.

When she reaches for your cock and struggles to take it in, say something like “You really want that cock don’t you?”

Now, instead of focusing on how she’s having a hard time and unable to please you, she’s focused on how much she wants to please you and take you in her mouth.

It’s a subtle but highly powerful difference.

Tickle Her Erogenous Zones

The most obvious target for your hands in the zombie sex position is her ass.

Grab, slap and caress her ass to increase physical and emotional pleasure.

Remember how we said that relieving her anxiety by complimenting her ass is crucial. Massaging, grabbing and slapping it while you deliver those compliments has double the effectiveness.

But one of the most powerful erogenous zones that many guys ignore, is the insides of her knees.

Anywhere the human body has folds, such as insides of knees and elbows, are extremely sensitive and very powerful erogenous zones.

Try this on yourself right now.

Using just the very tips of your fingers, drag them lightly across the inside of your arm.

Now, keep going until you reach the inside fold of your elbow.

Notice how much more sensitive it is.

The same thing is true in the folds of our knees.

Take a few seconds to drag your fingertips across the entire bottom of her legs. Slow down and spend a little extra time when you get to the insides of her knees.

Do this while you’re moaning with her in your mouth, and you’ll get her focused on all the pleasurable sensations you’re giving her body.

Prep Her Clit For An Intense Orgasm

Again, odds are she won’t come while in the zombie sex position.

So use this time to build an orgasm that you can deliver after switching into your next position.

When most guys give their woman oral, they go straight for the clit.

But you know better.

Rather than rushing right to the goods and overstimulating her, use indirect stimulation to make her crave clitoral contact before you give it to her.

Swipe the tips of your index and middle fingers between the folds of her lips.

Avoid touching her clit directly.

As she gets more aroused, use a little more pressure when you get to the clitoral hood.

Now, place the insides of your index and middle fingers on each side of her clit.

Squeeze a little and move your hand up and down.

It’ll feel like you’re masturbating her clit and will get her riled up like nothing else.

Now use a precise, pointed tongue tip to lick on her clitoral hood.

Avoid making direct contact with the clit.

Pleasuring her clit indirectly like this will increase blood flow and get her ready for direct stimulation without overstimulating her.

Once she’s ready for more, start mixing in random slow, full licks with a flat tongue.

Don’t overdo this.

Remember, your goal in this position is to get her wet and wanting more.

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69 Sex Position Can Make Her Love or Hate Giving Blowjobs

The 69 sex position is one of the most loved and hated positions.

Most guys love it cause we get to admire our woman’s pussy and ass while getting head. What could be better?

But when it comes to women, many hate it.

Why?

If your girl is self conscious about her pussy and ass, she’s going to be a little stressed having them so up close in your face
Women aren’t turned on by visuals the same way we are. Having your junk in her face isn’t a turn on the way it is for us.
Finally, if she’s giving you pleasure, it’s tough for her to concentrate on the pleasure she’s receiving. That means your killer tongue techniques are being wasted because she will barely feel it.

The things that make 69 great for guys just aren’t present for women.

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, then you’ve heard me emphasize the fact that women have different preferences. Nothing applies to 100% of women. Some do love 69ing.

Most don’t.

But here’s the biggest challenge with this position:

If she’s worried about what you’re seeing and thinking about her body, while being unable to focus on her pleasure, and feeling required to perform, her subconscious brain can start to associate negative emotions with blowing you.

In other words, she might start to hate giving you head.

So if you’re going to get into 69, you’d better make sure it’s a great experience for her.

Make sure she’s enjoying it and her subconscious brain can start to associate positive emotions to blowing you.

By using the tricks in this blog, you can actually make her love giving you head.

If you don’t, you could make her hate it.

Before I show you how to use the 69 position to turn your woman into a cock-craving nympho who wants you in her mouth every chance she gets, we need to get clear on the basics.

How To Do The 69 Sex Position

There are many versions of the 69, and we’ll cover a few of the best one’s below, for now, let’s start with the traditional version.

To get in the sixty-nine position, lie down on a bed, couch, or floor.

Your woman straddles your face and gets into a doggy style position, putting her face in your crotch and your face in hers.

It’s that simple.

If she’s much sorter than you, you might not reach each other as easily as you’d like.

The quick fix to this is to put some pillows under your head. It’ll save your neck and tilt your head forward, letting you makeup for the difference in distance.

If you’re a lot taller than her, a pillow or 2 under your head might not be enough. In that case, you can put a pillow or sex wedge under your pelvis as well. This tilts your pelvis towards her face. Now your head and pelvis are tilted and your entire body is curved while hers is straight. Making it easy for both of you to reach.

Now that you’ve got the position figured out, you both give each other oral.

At least that’s how it’s supposed to go.

What usually happens is that one person ends up giving mediocre oral (at best) while the other puts all their attention on pleasing their partner.

If you’re the one doing the pleasing, great! Have fun!

But if she’s the one doing the work and not getting any pleasure in return, it can have some nasty after affects.

So any time you get into this position, make sure you’re going all out and giving her the best oral you can.

Use The 69 Sex Position to Create Positive Associations in Her Brain

Science has shown over and over that prior preferences influence learning new habits and activities.

In other words, if she loves getting oral sex from you but doesn’t like giving blowjobs, you can rewire her brain and get her to love having you in her mouth by going down on her while you’re in her mouth.

Notice that I said while you’re in her mouth, Not while she’s giving you a blowjob.

Have the tip of your cock in her mouth while you give her oral, so that her brain associates your taste (and the fact that you’re in her mouth), with her pleasure.

If she doesn’t like giving blowjobs, that negative feeling could get associated to having you go down on her. Not what you want!

So instead of trying to get and give great oral in the 69 position, use it to give her great oral while you’re in her mouth and she will begin to associate great pleasure with having you in her mouth.

The best part is that you don’t even need to be in her mouth. If she just holds your cock close to her face while you’re going down on her, the smell, feel and look of your cock so up close to her will get associated with her pleasure.

If you make her come while she’s got your manhood up close to her face, you’ll take things to the next level and her subconscious brain will associate feelings of euphoria with having your man meat in her face.

Here’s a few tips on how to make this positive association more likely.

Have Realistic Expectations

If you go into the 69 sex position thinking that you’re going to give each other the most powerful orgasms of your lives simultaneously, you’re likely setting yourself up for disappointment.

Again, it’s tough to focus on giving pleasure, while simultaneously focusing on the pleasure you’re receiving enough to reach orgasm. The same is true for your woman. So if she’s blowing you, it’s going to be virtually impossible for her to focus on her own pleasure enough to orgasm.

Instead, focus on getting her warmed up and close to orgasm, so that you can then transition into a good cunnilingus position and make her come.

Or, focus on getting her warmed up and craving penetration sex. You’ll learn a few tips on how to do this below.

Focus on her

When you get into 69, you have 2 options. You can focus on the sensations you’re feeling in your penis, or you can focus on the sensations that your mouth feels when devouring her.

Focus on the sensations your lips feel when kissing her outer lips, the sensation your tongue feels when licking her opening, or the sensations your lips feel when sucking her clit. Do not focus on the sensations she’s giving you.

Warm Her Up First

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you already know I’m a big fan of giving women multiple types of orgasms. If you’ve been through it, you know that in order to make a woman come, you must warm her clit up with indirect stimulation before giving her direct clitoral stimulation.

This is even more crucial when you’re trying to create positive associations before direct clitoral contact too early while you’re in her mouth, can create negative associations. Below, I’ll give you a few of my favorite indirect techniques, so keep reading.

Use your hands

In this context, I’m talking about using your hands on her body. Caress her butt, her sides, her back. Remember, you want her to focus on the pleasurable sensations that you’re making her feel, so give her lots of sensations to feel.

Make Her Come BEFORE 69ing

Once you give your girl an orgasm, she gets into a different state of mind. An orgasmic state. When she’s already in this state before taking you in her mouth, she’s going to immediately associate pleasure to your taste. Make her come with your mouth BEFORE getting into the 69 position and it’ll be easier to make her come again during 69.

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How To Eat Pussy in the 69 Sex Position

If you’ve already been through some higher level training such as the make her come first formula, you already know the importance of stimulating her clit indirectly before you make direct contact.

How you easy pussy in 69 will depend on this one key factor: Are her knees above, or below your shoulders.

If your shoulders (and thus arms) are above her knees and thighs, you can easily bend your elbows, and reach over to rub her vulva with your fingers.

If your shoulders and arms are below her knees and thighs, you’ll have to reach around, over her thighs to reach. In this case, use your hands to caress her butt cheeks, back, hips, and thighs. Remember, you want her to focus on the sensations that you’re giving her… so give her lots to feel.

BONUS TIP: Get a firm grasp of her body and pull her closer. It’ll let her know that you love having her close and up in your face. IMPORTANT: Only do this if you can pull it off without diminishing the quality of your technique.

Here’s a few more tips:

Kiss, Swipe, and massage outer lips with your hands, fingers and lips to warm her up.
If she’s got long inner lips, suck and tug on em with your lips
Avoid direct contact with her clit. Lick the areas around her clit first IE: licking the clitoral hood, then opening. Tease her clit by devouring the areas around it first.
Once she’s warmed up and wet, give her clit one slow lick with a flat tongue to test out if she’s ready for more.
Regardless of her response, go back to licking around the clit.
If you got positive feedback from the direct lick, go back to it for a bit longer.
Press a wet thumb pad against vaginal or anal opening.
If you’re wanting to transition into penetration after 69ing, insert the tip of your thumb into pussy and pull up, away from clit. It’ll duplicate the sensations of being fucked and make her crave penetration.

Different 69 Variations

As always, one of the most critical factors that you determine if you’re a mediocre or great lover is how well you adapt to your woman’s preferences, sensitivities, anatomy, etc.

One way to make sure you’re adapting is to try out different position variations.

Here are some of the best variations of the 69 position and why you might want to try them.

#1 Classic 69 Sex Position

You lie on your back while your woman straddles your head while facing your feet. She then bends over in a doggy style pose. She can rest on your body but this can make you both extra sweaty and hot real quick. The alternative is that she holds herself up and creates a little space between your bodies.

If she’s much shorter than you, you can minimize the distance by putting pillows under your head and (if needed), your pelvis. It’ll “curl” your body a little and even out the distance.

#2 Classic 69 with an Angle

criss cross 69 sex position — Notice how one of her legs is above his shoulder and the other is below.

We’ve already talked about how your arm placement will make a big difference in how you can play with your woman.

Are her knees above your shoulders (wrapping your head) or below your shoulders (wrapped around your chest). What version you choose determines how you’ll be able to use your hands.

If you see benefits to both versions, you can have one arm above and the other below by being slightly angled instead of perfectly parallel to each other.

Now you can have one arm wrapped around her thigh and playing with her butt, while the other gets much easier access to her vulva.

#3 Inverted 69 Sex Position

Here’s where you switch things up. You’re on top and she’s on the bottom.

Some women actually prefer this so they can relax their body a bit more… but these women are in the minority.

Why?

Cause she has no control over how deep you go inside her mouth.

If you’re going to use this version, MAKE SURE you aren’t going too deep or fast. You actually want to be very conscious of everything she’s experiencing and make sure it’s not unpleasurable for her.

#4 Sideways 69

One of the most loved and commonly endorsed variations of 69 is the sideways 69 sex position.

Very simply, you get into the traditional version but you’re both on your sides. It makes it much more comfortable for the person who’s usually on top because neither of you have to hold up your bodyweight while getting to work.

Bend your lower leg a little while moving the other back or bending it in the air and you’re giving your partner a comfy place to rest their head. No neck strain necessary!

#5 Standing 69

You’re more likely to see this in porn movies than in real life. but if your woman is much smaller than you, you can try this one out for fun.

You simply pick her up, flip her around and go to town.

Obviously, you should only try this one out if you’re confident in your strength and she’s comfortable with it.

Make sure you don’t wander off too far from a bed, couch, ottoman or something else you could quickly and comfortably set her down on.

#6 Head Hanging Over The Edge

One of you lies down on the bed with your head hanging over the edge, while the other stands over their face and leans over.

It’s often recommended as a way for a girl to deep throat. The theory is that it makes her throat straight and therefore she’ll be able to take you in deeper.

In my experience, it’s not a great position for this. Here’s why: If she’s learning to deepthroat, it means she’s not that comfortable with it yet. So she’s going to be a little more nervous and likely to gag. Add to this the fact that blood will be rushing to her brain (cause it’ll be lower than her heart) and it can lead to some unpleasurable affects.

That said, it can be a good position to simply rest your tip in her mouth while you go off.

If you’re both into face sitting (where she sits on your face and basically grinds your mouth), this one is a fun option. You lie on your back while she towers over you and pleasures herself against your tongue.

She can lean over and stroke or suck you off, if she chooses.