Whether your woman is wiggling her butt against you during a movie, or you wanna get rid of some morning wood, the spooning sex position is great for giving “lazy” g-spot orgasms.
It’s really simple.
You both lay down on your sides with you behind her.
Enter her from behind, and voila!
Master this position and you’ll not only give her a strong finish, you’ll also make her feel more cared for and loved than she’s ever felt before.
Science has shown that cuddling is so powerful it floods the brain with oxytocin (also know as “the love chemical”).
It’s the literal chemical that makes us feel loved.
Also, because of the angle you’re going to learn on this page, you’re going to be rubbing against the entire length of her g-spot, rather that just poking it on and off.
Combine these 2 factors together and this position is the perfect some seriously intoxicating orgasms.
Challenges of the Spooning Sex Position
It’s not all roses and orgasms.
It seems like a simple position, but it can actually be a little tricky to get into if your bodies don’t line up together just right.
If things don’t line up just right, try putting a small pillow or folded blanket under her hips to raise them to the perfect height.
If she has a big butt or you have a smaller cock, you won’t get very far, if you enter her at all.
Fix this by create distance between your upper bodies.
By bending forward at her waist, the distance between your woman’s ass cheeks and pussy shortens and it takes less length to enter her.
Think of it as doggy style on your sides.
If she’s too tight for you to enter, create distance between her legs.
Lift and hold her upper leg up in the air.
Have her guide your erection into her.
Try thrusting in this position for a minute to see how she likes it but beware it’ll get tiring for both of you real quick!
If she doesn’t get much from it, put her leg back down.
If she responds well to it, have her bend her knee and place the sole of that foot flat on the bed.
To really hit her g-spot, try having her bend her legs at the waist.
This puts her pelvis at an angle where you can easily thrust into her g-spot.
If she needs g-spot stimulation to come, this is likely the version for her.
Warm Her Up – The First Step Of Spooning
The spooning sex position is often used as first position cause it happens “by accident” early in the morning or while snuggling up on the couch.
The same way you should never work out cold muscles early in the morning with stretching, make sure you warm your woman up before penetration.
As always, you want to “warm her up” in 2 realms.
Warm Her Up Physically.
This one is exactly what you think.
Get her blood heading south before penetration.
Use you hand to play with her nipples and breasts.
Move down towards her crotch.
Don’t touch her clit directly until you know she’s ready for it.
Lift her upper leg over yours and place you hand on her vulva.
Split your index and middle fingers and place them on her outer lips.
Gently rub them up and down.
This simple move is a guaranteed way to send blood rushing to her genitals and get her roaring to go.
Warm Her Up Emotionally.
Feeling your skin pressed against hers while you hold her creates the light, loving emotions that makes her feel safe, special and cared for.
Feeling your throbbing erection between her butt cheeks, gives her the dark emotions of feeling wanted, sexy, and erotically powerful.
Play up both types of emotions.
Let her feel your erection and arousal rise and get more powerful.
When you’re just starting out, gently stroke her body with your finger tips and whisper sweet nothing into her ear.
As you get harder and more aroused, get a little rougher.
Start to grab her boobs.
Put your hand around her neck and give it a gentle squeeze.
Go from gently massing her outer pussy lips with your fingers, to sliding your stiff cock between her lips.
Go from talking sweet to talking dirty.
The key here is to make sure that your actions are congruent with HER level of arousal.
Don’t start choking her and talking nasty when she’s still dry.
Keep everything congruent!
How To Penetrate In The Spooning Sex Position
Because your bodies are so close together, you don’t have a great deal of distance to work with.
That’s ok.
In fact, it’s a good thing cause it’s an opportunity to see just how powerfully your woman responds to short, deep thrusting.
See us guys typically come by moving all the way in and almost all the way back out during penetration.
But unless you’ve got a magic dick, that’s just not the kind of penetration that makes women come.
Women come from entering her at unique angles and rubbing against the right spots.
By staying deep inside of her and only pulling out slightly before thrusting back in, you create a powerful vibrating sensation deep inside of her.
If you’re using one of the above versions that targets her g-spot, you’ll be rubbing against the her g-spot the entire time you’re inside her instead of just poking it on and off.
Transition From Spooning Her G-spot To Total G-Spot Domination
If you’re a member of the All Start Email List and read this blog regularly, then you’ve likely heard me talk about the importance of switching positions smoothly.
Fumbling around and clanking heads with your woman when switching positions is a massive mood killer.
Imagine you spent the last 20 minutes thrusting into her g-spot and building her orgasm, only to drop her off the bed while trying to switch into her favorite position.
Total mood killer.
Her arousal drops.
And now you’ve got to start building her up again from the beginning.
The way to keep building your woman’s orgasms during multiple position sex is to make sure you switch positions as smoothly and naturally as possible.
How?
By making one small move at a time.
At this point, you’ve been using the spooning sex position to consistently rub your orgasm giver against her g-spot.
If she hasn’t come yet, she’s likely very close.
Some women just can’t come in certain positions and switching might be exactly what she needs to go over the edge.
Pull out of her, get on your knees and move her upper leg forward.
Transition # 1 The Screw Position
This position not only gets you up and gives you more range in your thrusts, it’s also just one simple transition for her.
It also reminds her that you’re in control because of how easily you change her position with one simple move of her leg.
Give her a couple of minutes in this position so she can get used to it.
Start getting a little rougher and more aggressive.
Push her head down into the bed.
Moan and groan a little louder.
Press down on her hips to let her feel how much she’s turning you on.
Once you’re ready for the final transition, pull out of her and put a pillow on the bed beside her pelvis.
Grab her upper arm and pull it in the direction needed to land her face down.
Make sure her pelvis is on the pillow. It’ll tilt her in a the perfect angle for what’s to come.
If you need to, straighten out her legs so that she’s flat on her tummy, ass side up.
Take a minute to admire her ass.
Give it a slap.
Tell her how sexy it is.
Spread her legs and go down on her for a bit.
It’s called
The Forbidden Fruit Position
Not only does this let you regain your composure (if you need to), it also amplifies her emotions.
It makes her feel more wanted and sexy,
It gives her confidence in her body, reminding her just how sexy you think her ass and pussy are.
Once your appetite is satiated, put her legs together, straddle her thighs and enter her from behind.
Welcome to the wonderful world of
Final Transition The Prone Bone Position.
This is one of the best positions for g-spot orgasms and if you haven’t tried it yet, you absolutely need to asap!
2 things make this position so powerful.
First, the pillow lifts her pelvis and puts her g-spot in the perfect position.
Second, get as high up as you can (meaning your head will be higher than hers) and thrust DOWN.
Do this and once again, you’ll pound straight into her g-spot!
Finally, if you want to make sure you blow her mind and give her the best sex of her life…
Make her come BEFORE sex to increase her chances of coming again DURING sex
To really blow her mind in any sex position, your highest leverage point is to make her come before penetration.
Not only do you increase the chances she comes again (during sex) you also increase the power of that second orgasm.
Every orgasm you give a woman builds on the last and becomes more powerful and pleasurable.
Giving her at least one orgasm BEFORE sex is the single biggest difference between a great session and one that leaves her out of breath, unable to speak, and wondering “what the hell just happened!”
The trick is to find out what gives your woman the best orgasms.
Some women come hardest from oral.
Others prefer having their clit rubbed.
Some won’t come unless you rub their g-spot.
Finding out what moves give your woman the best orgasms is the greatest homework assignment and best investment you can make in your sex life.