If you want to give your woman a powerful, g-spot orgasm during penetration, the reverse lap dance sex position is likely your best bet.
In this girl-on-top twist, you sit on a chair or couch, your woman gets on top, facing you, and leans back.
Here’s exactly how to do it.
Tell her to sit on your lap.
In the beginning, you might hold her close with an arm wrapped around her.
It’ll be slow and intimate because she won’t have a great range in motion, but you’ll be up close and face to face.
Spend a little time sweet talking and building a connection.
Here’s how to take it to the next level and really make her come.
If she isn’t already, have her kneel, or place her feet in front of her, on the outside of your body.
Tell her how hot it would be for her to lean back.
She can put her hands on your thighs, or a (very stable) table behind her for support.
Now just sit back, enjoy, and wait for her to jizz all over you!
Why does this position work so well?
In most positions, guys thrust straight in and out.
If you’re well hung, this simple back and forth movement can be enough to make a woman erupt in orgasm.
But for those of us who are average (or below) in size, we need to make sure we’re hitting the right spots.
To find a woman’s most common “orgasm zone” the g-spot, pretend she’s laying down, on her back, then go in and up.
In this version of the reverse lap dance position, the angle is created naturally because she’s leaning back.
How to take the reverse lap dance sex position to the next level
This is really simple but can easily double the intensity and pleasure for your woman.
Because she’s leaning back and creating an opening between your bodies, use one hand to play with her clit.
You can place your palm on her pubic bone with your thumb pointed down (on her clit), or you can place the back of your hand against her pubic bone and use the insides of your fingers to lightly squeeze her clit while massaging it up and down.
Which version you use shouldn’t depend on what you prefer, rather it should depend on what she comes from.
Not sure exactly what finger moves make her come? Watch this video to find out.
Stimulate her body and mind for the most intense orgasm possible.
In any female orgasm, there are 2 dual factors needed to make it happen.
- She needs the right physical stimulation (like we just discussed)
- She needs the right psychological stimulation
In this position, her tiddies are up close and right in front of you, there for you to inspect and judge.
If she’s got any insecurities about them (like many women do), then she might be worried about how they look so up-close and this can distract her from orgasm.
So make sure you give her lots of positive reinforcement and compliments.
Tell her how sexy she looks when she leans back.
Oogle her body and let her see your satisfied, yet hungry grin.
Kiss, play with, and admire her sexy body.
Another insecurity many women have is about their performance.
A lot of women don’t orgasm because they’re not confident in their skills. Many women worry they can (or don’t) fuck well.
Paradoxically, some women are also shy and hesitant to perform too well in fears that you’ll think she’s a slut.
So make sure that you don’t only compliment her body, but also her sexual expression.
As she gets into it, say “You love riding my cock don’t you baby.”
Notice I didn’t put a question mark at the end.
Why?
Cause you’re not asking a question.
If you said “Do you love riding my cock?” you’re asking her logical brain to think about it. This is the last thing you want.
By slightly changing your tone, you’re telling her that she does in fact love it and her only option is to agree.
Since you’re giving her so much pleasure by hitting her g-spot, her verbal agreement is only going to reinforce the pleasure and make her more comfortable riding you.