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Use the Betty Rocker Sex Position when She Needs A Good Spanking

A woman will sometimes act out in hopes you’ll give her a much deserved spanking. When done in the right context, many women love (even yearn for) a good spanking. The Betty Rocker Sex Position is one of those contexts.

It’s similar to reverse cowgirl only she’s on her knees and leaning forward.

Another way to think of it is that she gets into a doggy style position, while you lie down underneath her.

Put some a few pillows under your head and you’ve got a view any “ass man” would kill for.

If your hips are too wide or this version simply isn’t comfortable, spread your legs, lift your hips and place them on the outside of her legs.

Here’s what you need to know in order to make this position as pleasurable and orgasmic as possible.

Let Her Take Charge in the Betty Rocker Sex Position

Unlike most rear entry positions, she gets to call the shots in this one. She’s in total control of the rhythm, angle, speed, and depth. Let her have this gift. DO NOT try to fuck her from the bottom… unless she specifically asks for it. Men and women don’t typically orgasm from the same type of thrusting. So let her thrust in the way that feels best for her… or… tell her how to thrust for your pleasure. She can rock back and forth, grind you, or even twerk on your cock. She can go fast, slow, or mix it up.

Once she has found something that works for her, amplify her emotions by telling her she loves it. Saying things like “you love bouncing on my cock like that don’t you baby?” or, if she’s doing more of a grinding motion “you love grinding on my cock like that don’t you baby?”. If you can do it without messing her grove, put your hands on her hips and pull her onto you… but only if you can stay in sync with her movements!

Spanking Sex

If ever there was an ideal position for spanking, this is it. When spanking your woman’s bottom, you want to aim for the most center part of it. This is where there’s the most fatty tissue. Avoid the sides of her butt. They have less fat and will lead to pain rather than pleasure. Start with lighter spanks and ask for feedback. Between spanks, lightly rub her butt in circles to soothe & heighten the sensation.

Clitoral Stimulation in the Betty Rocker Sex Position

When it comes to clitoral contact, the Betty Rocker doesn’t provide it naturally (like other positions). If your girl needs clitoral stimulation to get off, you’re going to need some help in order to make it happen in this position. Thankfully, I’ve got a couple of suggestions for you. Put on a vibrating cock ring with the vibrator on the bottom of your shaft. Right on your balls. When you’re fully inside her, she’ll have that sucker right on her clit! This works best when she stays completely on you and grinds her pelvis. The vibrator will be sandwiched between your balls and her clit. Either of you can also hold a vibrator in the same place.

G-Spot Stimulation

If g-spot stimulation is what she’s going after, she’ll have the best results by arching her back at sticking her butt up high in the air.

Deep Posterior Stimulation

We all know about the g-spot and the a-spot (sometimes called the deep spot), but most men (and even women) don’t know about the posterior fornix (sometimes called the cul-de-sac). It’s on “the other” wall of the vagina and produces INTENSE pleasure and orgasms. While most women never find this spot without the help of a very specialized toy or advanced lover, the Betty Rocker position can help her discover it. In order to make it more likely she’ll find it, use a sex wedge or pillow under your butt to tilt your pelvis. BTW if she really likes this, she’s much more likely to be open to anal penetration, or at least some light anal play.

Speaking of such things…

Anal Play in the Betty Rocker Sex Position

If you’re both into anal, the Betty Rocker is a great position for it.

If your woman isn’t into full on anal penetration but does like a little anal play, you’re in for a treat! Since her ass is right there in front of you, it’s an easy opportunity to tickle her fancy while she rides you to bliss.

Wet the tip of your thumb and lightly rub it in circles on her anus. Notice I said ON and not IN. Just the light rub of a wet finger or thumb pad will feel exquisite.

If she does like a little penetration, insert the tip of your thumb, finger or use a small toy or anal plug. You’ll give her one of the most common female fantasies, double penetration, without having to share you woman with some other dude. Unless of course that’s what you’re into.

Don’t Forget To Compliment Her Ass

Finally, make sure you compliment her ass. Other than the Betty Rocker sex position, there aren’t many others that exposes a woman’s ass as much so make sure you make her feel good and confident about it. It doesn’t matter if she knows it, or you tell her all the time how great her ass is… women thrive on compliments and need them regularly. So let her know just how incredible her ass is!

Stuck Home? Try The Dirty Disco Dancer Sex Position

Women love to dance. Why? It’s a socially acceptable way to express and release erotic energy without getting shamed for it.

It’s also a great way to get her an erotic state and feeling naughty.

But we’re living in strange times and going out for a night of dancing seems like something that won’t be happening for a while.

Give her the gift of dancing and build up some sexual tension with the dirty disco dancer sex position.

Think of it like a standing missionary position.

You both stand, facing each other and enter her from the front.

Depending on your body height difference, you might need to spread your legs and bend your knees a little. If you’re shaft is still too high to enter her, have her put one foot on a stool or stair.

This position is great for creating clitoral friction. You want your shaft to rub against her jewel so being slightly higher than her is a good thing.

This position is great for a quickie, but in this article we’re going to run through a fun scenario you can use when you’re stuck at home and your woman is missing going out in public.

Warm Up For The Dirty Disco Dancer Sex Position

Put on some music while you’re doing normal household chores. The goal is to get her to feel the music and get into her body before you make your move.
When she starts moving to the music, oogle her dance moves from across the room. Let her see your turned on gaze. You want her to feel as though watching her move to the music is turning you on.
Make your way over to her, take her by the hand and go to an open area with lots of space, like the dining room or living room.
Dance with her for a minute and get more and more sensual with your moves. You might start “dancing silly” and lead into more sensual grinding. Make sure you pick the right music before hand. You don’t want to grind her sensually during the chicken dance song.
Lead her towards a wall and back her against it.
Press your body up against hers (especially your pelvis) and start kissing her.
Slowly run a hand up her back, past her neck and up to her head.
Grab a fist full of hair (close to the roots) and gently pull on them in order to tilt her head to one side.
Kiss her neck on the exposed side.
Lift her arms over her head and pin them against the wall while you keep kissing her.
Tell her to leave her hands right where they are and slowly start lifting her shirt.
This is one of my favorite foreplay moves: Once her shirt or bra is right over her eyes, stop it there. Keep it wrapped around her arms and eyes. Removing her sense of sight amplifies her other other senses and makes her wonder what you’re going to do next.
You can also lift her shirt up to her wrists, tie them up and hook them on a hook or some type of handle. She’ll be able to see, but now she won’t be able to move.
Kiss, fondle, and enjoy her exposed stomach and breasts. Kiss every inch of her exposed upper body, EXCEPT for her nipples.
Use your tongue to make slow circles around her nipples. Tease them. Make her nipples crave your touch before you give it to her.
After 5 to 10 minutes of teasing her upper body, get down on your knees and remove her bottoms while you kiss and enjoy every exposed inch.
Tease the areas around her vulva. Spend a few minutes kissing everywhere around it. Move your way towards her panties, and kiss, lick and suck her THROUGH them.
Slowly remove them while you keep teasing her.
By now she’s likely aching to feel your tongue against her clit. Give her what she wants… but just a bit.
Stand up, put your hand on her neck, and start kissing her again while your gently rub your shaft against her clit.

Penetration In Dirty Disco Dancer Sex Position

Align your groins. If she’s shorter than you, you might have to spread your legs and bend your knees slightly. If she’s a lot shorter than you, you can also have her sand on some sort of stool or stair.
Enter only your tip to start. Tease her by sliding in your tip and then pulling out a few times. Do this a few times then pull out completely and rub your tip against her clit before making your way back in. It’ll give you a chance to get used to the sensation (if you have trouble lasting long), and it’ll get her revved up like nothing else!
When you finally let her have more, vary the depth of your thrusts in ascending order. Start with 9 “just the tip” thrusts then give 1 deep thrust. Then start over and do 8 tips, and 2 deep. Then 7 and 3. Keep going until you’re at 1 tip thrust and 9 deep, then turn around a go back the other way.
Find out what thrusting she prefers. Try staying all the way inside while you grind your pelvis against her clit. Try sliding in and out of her with your primary focus on your shaft sliding against her clit. Finally, stay completely inside her and try grinding her tip against different parts of her insides.
Keep holding her hands up in the air, lightly squeezing her neck, and kissing her while you fuck.
Switch up the type of sex. Go from slow and sensual, to a little rougher fucking, then back again.
Once she’s getting closer to coming (you can tell by her breathing, blushing, & thrusting back), stick to whatever it is you’re doing in that moment until she comes all over you. Don’t change a thing unless she specifically asks for it.
After she comes, take a minute to keep kissing and caressing her while she comes down.

Advanced Variations

This first variation can make you go a lot deeper.

If your woman liked it when you stayed deep inside her and moved your tip around, try this wrapped version. It’ll make you go much deeper and might just be the extra boost she needs to cross the finish line!

Start in the normal position, grab one of her thighs, and lift it to your waist.

Hold her thigh while she wraps it around your back.

It’s not the easiest position to hold and might make her orgasm harder to achieve, but it’s worth giving it a try to see if it works for her.

Finally, if your woman is really flexible and able to do the splits, try lifting her leg all the way up to and on your shoulder.

The majority of women won’t be able to do this but it can make for some fun times if your woman can.

Keep in mind her balance will be sketchy in this position, so make sure you hold her and stop her from tumbling over.

Spread you legs out and put your hands against the wall on each of her sides and you shouldn’t have any problems.

Valedictorian Sex Position for Deeper, Clitoral Ecstasy!

The classic missionary is one of the most commonly used positions, yet it’s constantly getting called out for being boring and vanilla. The valedictorian sex position is a simple twist on the classic missionary that provides HUGE benefits… even if you’re not very big yourself.

In fact if you’re on the smaller side, try this position once and you just might want to make it one of your go to plays cause it’ll have you going deep and feeling ENORMOUS!

Here’s how to pull off the Valedictorian Sex Position:

Start in the classic missionary to get warmed up and let your woman’s vaginal muscles relax and open up some extra room.
Once she’s warmed up and wet for you, lean back and lift her legs in front of you.
Split her legs apart into a giant V shape and slowly press down on them, stretching them forward. When you “fold” her body like this, it shortens her vaginal canal and lets even the smallest guy reach the deepest parts of her!
Now lean forward as close to her as you can get. Put your hands on the bed and let her split legs rest against the fold between your forearms and biceps. She can also hold onto her ankles or thighs (if she can reach), or wrap her arms around your neck and pull you in closer.
Here’s how to use this position like a true all star: instead of thrusting straight in and out of her, focus on grinding yourself against her clit while you stay inside her. You might have to lift yourself higher above hers in order to make contact. That’s fine. Just focus on the grind, cause that’s what’s going to produce the most powerful results!

The combination of grinding her clit, while you’re deep inside of her, and very close intimacy, creates a hat-trick of pleasure that’s going to have your woman screaming in orgasmic ecstasy!

Also, remember that the clitoris is not just some magic love button like many guys think. It’s an entire network of pleasure giving nerve endings that run beneath the skin of her vulva. When you grind against her, your pelvis rubs against hers an excites all those underground hot spots that usually don’t get any lovin at all.

Warning: Because you’re reaching extremely deep inside of her, you might hit her cervix. The vast majority of women find this very painful. So make sure to pay attention, start slow in the position, and don’t hit cervix. If you do, try slight variations of the position.

Try variations of the Valedictorian sex position.

The slightest change in your position and angles can completely change the sensations she feels. If she’s having a hard time coming, the smallest tweak can be the difference she needs. Try spreading her legs wider apart, or bringing them closer together. Try straightening them all the way out, so that they’re up by her head vs slightly bent at the knees. Keep testing and tweaking until you find the version that delivers that grand slam, home run you’re looking for!

To increase the chances she comes during penetration, use this formula to make sure she comes before sex.

She’ll be much more likely to come again. It’ll take her a lot less time to come. Best of all, her orgasms will be much more powerful!

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The 3 Best Sex Positions For Explosive G-Spot Orgasms

Brother I hope you’re excited… cause you’re about to learn the 3 best sex positions to give any woman the easiest g-spot orgasms of her life!

And I’m not talking about little, weak orgasms that make her giggle and squeal… I’m talking about profound, full body, g-spot orgasms that start in her core and reverberate all the way down to her toes and back. The types of orgasms that make her scream at the top of her lungs, drive the neighbors crazy and have her asking “how the hell did you do that!?”

In this tutorial, you’re going to discover:

The real reason many women never orgasm from penetration
The 3 best sex positions that automatically fix the problem and make her orgasms as close to guaranteed as possible
Advanced strategies and techniques to use in each of the 3 positions

So let’s get to it!

The Real Reason So Many Women Never Orgasm During Sex

A lot of guys think it has to do with their size or stamina, and sure, if you can last long time and have a bigger than average cock, you’ll have an advantage… but these aren’t the deciding factor.

See, in order to orgasm, your woman needs consistent stimulation to one of her Orgasmic Hot Spots. Either her clit, g-spot, deep spot, or posterior deep spot. The problem with most traditional positions is that they make it very hard to hit those spots.

Think of it this way…

Imagine you burned your hand on a stove. You scream in agony and your friend runs over with some water… but instead of pouring it on your hand, he dumps it on your foot. To make things worse, he actually thinks he got the job done. Yeah, you needed the water but you needed it in the right spot. How pissed off would you be? And how much confidence would you have to call on him the next time you needed help?

It’s kind of a silly analogy but it makes the point.

In order to come from penetration, your woman needs you thrusting inside of her but she needs you thrusting in the right spot.

Now, she probably won’t bitch slap you if you’re not hitting it properly, but she will get frustrated… she likely won’t come… and if it happens often enough… her desire to have sex with you will plummet and she’ll start making excuses to avoid it.

Here’s what you need to do…

When most guys have sex, they just thrust straight in and out. Unless you’re hung like a horse, this technique won’t make you hit any of the right spots. If this is how you fuck, you’re not even giving yourself the chance to make her come.

But by thrusting in a way that aims your manhood directly at her orgasmic hot spots… such as her g-spot… you can make almost ANY woman come FAST!

You can hit her orgasm spots by using a special thrusting technique, or by using specific positions that create the right angles naturally. You’re about to learn the 3 best sex positions to do this. They put your bodies in the perfect positions so that instead of going straight IN AND OUT, your Johnson naturally goes IN AND UP, straight into her g-zone!

So now that you know why so many women rarely (if ever) orgasm in traditional positions, here are:

The 3 Best Sex Positions That Hit The G-Spot Naturally

Position #1) The G-Wiz Missionary

Lots of women love the missionary position for the intimacy it creates. Paradoxically, many also find it boring and vanilla. This twist on the classic position let’s you give her the intimacy she craves while simultaneously plowing into her g-zone, making you seem like a g-spot wizard.

Here’s how to do it.

Lie your woman flat on her back with a pillow under her butt.
Get on your knees between her legs and enter her.
Lift her legs and rest them against your chest.
Grab her butt by putting your hands between her and the pillow.
Swing your pelvis so that you thrust IN AND UP, towards her g-spot

Why does this position work so well?

The pillow tilts her pelvis and puts her g-spot in the perfect place for you to thrust straight into it!

Now here are a few advanced tips for this position. Try each one out for a while before moving onto the next so that she has time to truly enjoy them. Pay attention and take note of which moves she likes best so you can use them again next time.

Put one of your palms on her pubic bone and press down on it. She’ll feel her g-spot being sandwiched between your palm and your penis
If she’s flexible enough, lean forward and kiss her. Remember, this position is naturally intimate so add to that by kissing and connecting with her.
Try crossing her legs before you rest them against your chest. It’ll feel like your twice the size inside of her!

Position #2) P-Bone Deluxe

Ask 100 women what their favorite positions is and doggy style will undoubtedly be a big winner. The dominance, the sensation of your hips smacking her ass while your balls slap her clit all make this position extremely exciting. Add to this the fact that it makes you rub against her g-spot and you’ve got the recipe for some deliciously pleasurable pounding.

But what if you could take it to the next level?

What if you could provide even more, direct stimulation to her g-spot?

This doggy variation takes all the advantages of classic doggy and doubles the power by driving your cock directly into her g-zone.

Here’s how to do it.

Lie her flat on her stomach with a pillow under her pelvis. Are you starting to realize why women always have so many pillows on the bed?

Now get on top of her and enter her from behind.

Again, the pillow tilts her pelvis at an angle that makes g-spot stimulation easy.

The trick here is to thrust straight down, into her g-spot, instead of thrusting up (towards her head).

Give her just a couple of minutes in this position and she will come, HARD!

Advanced strategies for P-Bone Deluxe:

If you’re doing this position properly, you’ll be leaning over her with your head just above hers. So use some dirty talk to amplify the emotion and excitement.
Hold her arms down with your hands to amplify the dominance. It taps into her animal desire to be taken and makes it easier for her to submit to orgasm.
When she comes, make her come again. She might think she needs a break after the first orgasm because he g-spot will be very sensitive. Instead of stopping, keep going but VERY SLOWLY. The sensitivity will disappear soon enough and she’ll be ready for another, (even more intense) multiple orgasm!

Get a full breakdown on this position here.

Position #3) Girl On Top G Drop

Even submissive women like to get on top and take control sometimes. Why? It’s easy for her to dictate the stimulation and ride you exactly how she needs. Unfortunately, a lot of guys make the mistake of grabbing onto her butt, holding it in place so that she can’t move, and start fucking from the bottom. If you want her to come, stop doing that shit!

When she gets on top of you, she will instinctively move in the exact way that will make her come. So don’t screw it up by messing with her grove.

That said, there are some things you can do to guide her into one of the best sex positions that align her g-spot right where it needs to be.

Sit up against the headboard of your bed, or on a couch, and have her face you
Make sure her feet are on each side of your body
Tell her how sexy it would look if she leaned back

Your cock will be pointing straight up and the angle of her body will put her g-spot directly above your tip. The path of least resistance will be to drop and grind her g-spot right on you!

Take this position to the next level by putting your palm on her pubic bone and rubbing her clit with your thumb for simultaneous clitoral and g-spot stimulation!

Warning: she will come fast in this position so don’t get overly excited. Keep calm and let her ride you to bliss.

Now you know WHY normal positions don’t make women come, and you know what does.

Know that if you use JUST ONE of these advanced positions with your woman, you’ll likely blow her mind unlike any other guy ever has before.

Now if you want to take it to the next level and completely DOMINATE her orgasms during penetration, regardless of your size or stamina… you owe it to yourself to check out Penetration Orgasms Made Easy.

I only share it with the top guys on team all-star so if you want to make sure that you’re giving your woman the best penetration orgasms of her life, check out Penetration Orgasms Made Easy.

Full disclaimer, this is NOT for guys who are looking for some quick fix / magic trick solution. This is only for guys who are committed to mastering their women’s orgasms and are willing to invest the time needed to do so.

Reverse Lap Dance Sex Position Delivers Intense G-Spot Orgasms

If you want to give your woman a powerful, g-spot orgasm during penetration, the reverse lap dance sex position is likely your best bet.

In this girl-on-top twist, you sit on a chair or couch, your woman gets on top, facing you, and leans back.

Here’s exactly how to do it.

Tell her to sit on your lap.

In the beginning, you might hold her close with an arm wrapped around her.

It’ll be slow and intimate because she won’t have a great range in motion, but you’ll be up close and face to face.

Spend a little time sweet talking and building a connection.

Here’s how to take it to the next level and really make her come.

If she isn’t already, have her kneel, or place her feet in front of her, on the outside of your body.

Tell her how hot it would be for her to lean back.

She can put her hands on your thighs, or a (very stable) table behind her for support.

Now just sit back, enjoy, and wait for her to jizz all over you!

Why does this position work so well?

In most positions, guys thrust straight in and out.

If you’re well hung, this simple back and forth movement can be enough to make a woman erupt in orgasm.

But for those of us who are average (or below) in size, we need to make sure we’re hitting the right spots.

To find a woman’s most common “orgasm zone” the g-spot, pretend she’s laying down, on her back, then go in and up.

In this version of the reverse lap dance position, the angle is created naturally because she’s leaning back.

How to take the reverse lap dance sex position to the next level

This is really simple but can easily double the intensity and pleasure for your woman.

Because she’s leaning back and creating an opening between your bodies, use one hand to play with her clit.

You can place your palm on her pubic bone with your thumb pointed down (on her clit), or you can place the back of your hand against her pubic bone and use the insides of your fingers to lightly squeeze her clit while massaging it up and down.

Which version you use shouldn’t depend on what you prefer, rather it should depend on what she comes from.

Not sure exactly what finger moves make her come? Watch this video to find out.

Stimulate her body and mind for the most intense orgasm possible.

In any female orgasm, there are 2 dual factors needed to make it happen.

She needs the right physical stimulation (like we just discussed)
She needs the right psychological stimulation

In this position, her tiddies are up close and right in front of you, there for you to inspect and judge.

If she’s got any insecurities about them (like many women do), then she might be worried about how they look so up-close and this can distract her from orgasm.

So make sure you give her lots of positive reinforcement and compliments.

Tell her how sexy she looks when she leans back.

Oogle her body and let her see your satisfied, yet hungry grin.

Kiss, play with, and admire her sexy body.

Another insecurity many women have is about their performance.

A lot of women don’t orgasm because they’re not confident in their skills. Many women worry they can (or don’t) fuck well.

Paradoxically, some women are also shy and hesitant to perform too well in fears that you’ll think she’s a slut.

So make sure that you don’t only compliment her body, but also her sexual expression.

As she gets into it, say “You love riding my cock don’t you baby.”

Notice I didn’t put a question mark at the end.

Why?

Cause you’re not asking a question.

If you said “Do you love riding my cock?” you’re asking her logical brain to think about it. This is the last thing you want.

By slightly changing your tone, you’re telling her that she does in fact love it and her only option is to agree.

Since you’re giving her so much pleasure by hitting her g-spot, her verbal agreement is only going to reinforce the pleasure and make her more comfortable riding you.

Bridge Sex Position – Crab Yoga Pose In Bed

It looks like it belongs in an advanced yoga class, but the bridge sex position can have a profound impact on your sex life.

Look, it’s not easy.

If comfort is what you’re after, this is not the pose you’re looking for.

But, there are 3 reasons you should try it.

1. It’s a great way to add variety to a stale routine.

2. It gives the woman a mid session stretch that’ll get her primed for the second half.

3. It can help a woman discover new depths of herself that lead to pleasure and potentially, orgasms!

First, a quick look at the basics.

The woman gets on all fours, but in reverse.

Instead of facing the bed, couch, or grass (you wild adventurer), she’s on her feet and hands, with her back facing the bed or ground.

She starts by laying down, then lifts her knees, bends them, and places her feet flat on the floor.

Using the muscles in her legs, she lifts her butt off the floor.

At the same time, she puts her hands on the ground (behind her) and uses them to lift her upper body. Told ya, it’s not an easy one.

The man gets on his knees between her legs and holds her hips for support.

Different Ways To Thrust

It might look like you don’t have many options in this position but there are a few.

One way to mix it up is for the man to try different ways of thrusting.

Different thrusts can create completely different sensations.

So try these 3 variations to find out what works for you.

1. He thrusts back and forth while she holds herself in the same position.

2. He man puts his hands on the woman’s hips and pulls her onto him.

3. Instead of either partner moving back and forth, the man grinds his pelvis against the woman’s clitoris.

All 3 of these variations will feel completely different for the woman so make sure to give each one a fair trial.

A Bridge Sometimes Needs Help

Even the most acrobatic woman won’t be able to hold this position for long. But if she enjoys it, using a prop for support can help her last longer.

Place something under her back for support. You can use a literal (not really) ton of pillows, a sex wedge, an exercise ball, or a workout bench.

Now she can relax and enjoy without having to exert so much energy to hold the position.

A Bridge Isn’t Built In A Day

If she can’t pull off the full bridge sex position yet, work your way up to it.

These variations don’t require as much work, yet still deliver most of the benefits.

You might also find one of these modified versions actually delivers more pleasure than the traditional pose.

Instead of her upper body being held up by only her hands, she can lean on her elbows and forearms.

If she does this while resting her shoulder blades on the bed, she also frees up her hands to play with herself.

If the man grabs her butt, he can hold all the weight and the woman can enjoy with little if any effort on her part at all.

It’s like an amplified version of missionary. She’ll feel tighter (from the flexing of her core) and also be able to play with herself.

Taking The Bridge Sex Position To The Next Level

One of the main reasons women never orgasm from penetration is that the man thrusts straight in and out. This basic thrusting doesn’t stimulate the clit, g-spot or any other orgasm educing areas.

If you want to make your woman come during penetration, you’ve got to hit the right spots.

One of these spots is the upper wall of the vagina.

This is where the g-spot and deep spot are.

The bridge sex position is great for introducing your woman to this type of thrust.

By leaning his upper body back and aiming his thrusts upward, the guy can make sure he hits all the right spots that make her toes curl.

How To Use The Bodyguard Sex Position To Drive Her Wild

If you’re looking for a position that’ll make your woman wetter and hornier than ever before, you absolutely need to try the bodyguard sex position.

It’s a great position to start your romp session. It hits the perfect spots to get her dripping wet, it combines the romance of spooning with the dominance of doggy, and it allows you to set the frame for your session.

You can do the bodyguard anywhere. In the shower, kitchen, or the coatroom at your brother in law’s wedding.

In the bodyguard position, you’re both standing. The woman stands in front of the man with her back turned to him. He stands behind her and enters from behind.

As with any position, it’s all about the angle you enter her.

A slight height difference between the two of you can make all the difference in the angle at which the man’s erection enters. Therefor, the sensations felt by the woman can vary wildly by simply switching up the angle.

You can change the angle radically by having the woman get up on her tip toes, stand on a stair, or a stool.

The guy can also change the height and angle by spreading his legs wider apart, bending his knees a little, or both.

If the man thrusts straight back and forth, he might slip out of her easily, especially if he’s not on the bigger side.

The fix for this is for the woman to arch her back and tilt her pelvis.

On to the good stuff.

How To Transform The Bodyguard Sex Position Into An Unforgettable Experience For Her

The real magic behind this position is the fact that you can be slow and romantic AND also rough and dominant.

Here’s something you need to burn into your mind.

Women need BOTH slow, romantic, love-making, AND rough, animal sex.

As with anything in life, there are some exceptions.

But personally, I’ve yet to meet a woman who (under the right circumstances) doesn’t crave both.

Here’s the deal…

Slow, romantic, love-making makes a woman feel special, cared for, and even loved.

Hard, rough sex makes her feel sexy, wanted, and powerful.

All women want both of these different groups of feelings.

Some women might struggle to let themselves feel love out of fear, distrust, etc… but deep down, every human wants these feelings.

Most women NEVER get both these different groups of emotions from the same man, let alone at the same time.

The bodyguard sex position is PERFECT for this!

Use this position to easily switch back and forth from romantic lovemaking, to rough fucking.

Switch back and forth between the two and you’ll blow her mind in a way she’s likely never experienced before.

Start slow and gentle as you figure out the right angles.

Talk sweet into her ear.

Caress her body.

Run your hands lightly through her hair.

Then switch it up and get into primal mode.

Grab her hips and tug on them as you start to fuck her harder.

Switch your sweet talk into dirty talk.

Instead of gently running your hands through her hair, pull on it.

Then switch back to lovemaking.

She’ll feel a rare combination of loving connection, mixed with animal desire and passion.

Now here’s the key…

You MUST Stay Congruent

If you’re giving it to her hard, don’t tell her in a gentle voice how much you love her.

Talk dirty.

Pull on her hair (without hurting her of course).

Pin her arms against the wall.

Grab her hips and pull on them while you thrust.

When you slow it down and get into romantic mode, don’t choke her or get vulgar with your dirty talk.

Keep that slow energy and lightly trace your fingers up and down the sides of her body.

Gently run your hands through her hair and kiss her on the neck.

Weather you’re being rough and dominant, or slow and gentle, make sure everything is congruent.

Finally, remember this idea of rough and sensual isn’t an either or.

If a 1 is totally slow and romantic, and a 10 is the roughest sex you’ve ever had, you don’t have to always stay at a 1 or a 10.

Build your way up from a 1 to a 10.

Then progress back down.

Just make sure that everything is congruent.

If you’re thrusting is at a 5, make sure your language and emotion is at a 5 as well.

Work your way from one extreme to the other a few times and you will blow her mind with a sexual experience she’s likely never had before!

Viennese Oyster Yoga Pretzel Sex Position

The Viennese Oyster (sometimes called the Oystered Missionary) is an advanced position where the woman turns herself into an erotic, human pretzel while the man enters her from above.

The woman lies on her back and brings her legs all the way up and places her feet behind her head.

The man can lean over her or kneel in front.

The main benefit to this position is that it allows the guy to go very deep, even if he’s not well endowed.

The disadvantage is that most women won’t be able to pull it off. Even if she’s a hardcore yoga junkie, she still may not be able to get into full pretzel position. If she can, it won’t be the most comfortable position for her and it’s highly unlikely she’ll be able to relax enough to reach an orgasm.

While this position does allow the guy to dive into her deepest depths, it’s really more of an experience to check off your sex position bucket list.

What the Man Does

The man has 2 basic options when it comes to his positioning.

He can kneel in front of her and penetrate back and forth, or he can lean over her and penetrate up and down.

The kneeling version is more likely to stimulate the woman’s g-spot (especially if he has that magic, upward curve), while the leaning version allows the guy to go deep.

In the kneeling version, the man can (GENTLY) press down on his woman’s legs to help her stretch into the position. But make sure you know where her limit is and respect it.

In the leaning version, the guy has to hold himself up with his hands on the bed.

DO NOT let any of your body weight press down on her pretzeled legs. That’s a recipe for disaster. She MUST be able to let go of her position in a split second if it gets too uncomfortable. She can’t do that if your body weight is pressing down on her.

How The Woman Can Pull Off The Full Viennese Oyster

Rule number one… always make sure you’re warmed up first!

Just like any type of stretching, you want to make sure your body is warmed up before you start. Never stretch cold muscles!

So don’t start off your romp session with the Viennese Oyster.

Have sex in other positions and buildup a sweat before you start contorting your body.

The real trick to this position is to be realistic, start where you are and build up to the full version. There are lots of variations of the Viennese Oyster that don’t require her to be as bendy. Start in one of these simpler versions and build up her flexibility so that she can eventually get there.

If you’re determined to try this position and not yet doing yoga, you’d better start.

You can find lots of videos on youtube to get you started.

A great starter pose to train for the Viennese Oyster is the Happy Baby.

Get yourself as close to the happy baby pose and have sex in that position.

Your guy can help you by pressing down on your thighs.

Gradually, lift your legs higher and higher to stretch and increase your ability.

With time and practice, you’ll be able to reach your legs further and further back until your knees can touch the bed.

Great job!

Now just keep on gradually and regularly stretching you legs closer to the ideal position.

Twist your thighs so that your feet make their way closer to your head.

Once there, work on placing behind you.

Just like yoga, you want to make extra sure to breathe fully and deeply. The more intense versions of this position will constrict your breathing to some degree so make sure you don’t hold your breath.

You can also let out some sexy ohhh’s and arrrrghs. Let out whatever sounds your body wants to release. Not only do they help you with the necessary flow of oxygen, it’ll also turn your guy on to see you completely immersed in the experience.

Final Thoughts

While the Viennese Oyster does allow for very deep penetration, it’s unlikely the woman will be able to orgasm in this position.

So just have fun with it.

Don’t push past the woman’s limits and be patient.

Enjoy!

Amazon Sex Position – Pinnacle of Role Reversal

Men: If you’ve ever wanted to get banged without having a dildo shoved up your butt… you need to try the amazon sex position!

Women: If you’ve ever fantasized about how powerful you’d feel pounding your man, the amazon is for you!

The amazon position is one of the most challenging you’ll ever try. Both physically and emotionally.

In this advanced, woman-on-top position, the man lies on his back with his legs spread, while the woman towers over him and does the bump and grind.

She thrusts.

She dominates.

She runs the show.

This spiced-up cowgirl is role-reversal at its finest.

The man must be comfortable enough to get into such a submissive position and “get fucked”, while some women can find it difficult to take charge and dominate.

In terms of physical challenges, the man must be flexible and the woman needs endurance.

The 2 keys to this position are to get in the right mindset, and find the ideal variation of the position.

Step 1. Ease into role reversal gradually

If the man is used to being dominant, it can be a challenge to let go and be the submissive.

The easiest way to do this is for the woman to start taking the lead in less dominant ways.

Tell your man to lie down.

Tie him up.

Give him a lap dance.

Show him (through your actions) that you’re in charge and it’s okay for him to submit to his goddess.

Get on top of him and rub yourself against his manhood.

Ask him “Who’s cock is this?”

If he tries to enter himself into you, grab you, or take control in any way, slap his hand away and let him know you’re in charge!

Before you start to penetrate him, take a moment to get present and really feel the shift in power dynamic.

You might start with a dominant blowjob while you pin his arms down.

Don’t blow him like you usually would.

Instead, fuck him with your mouth.

Show him how much pleasure he can experience when you take control.

Step 2. Find your ideal version of the position

There are lots of variations to the Amazon sex position.

Some are more challenging than others…

Some will hit the right spot just perfectly…

And some will have you falling over.

Keep testing and tweaking until you find the one that works for the two of you.

Here’s something you must keep in mind when testing out new variations.

This position can put a tremendous amount of strain on your guys Penile Suspensory Ligamant (PSL).

Too much strain and it could tear, putting him out of commission for months.

So please, BE CAREFUL and always be conscious of his angle.

In this first variation of the man’s position, you can see that his cock is straight up.

This is as far back as he can comfortably go.

Now take a look at what happens (in the second image) when his pelvis is tilted with the help of a prop such as a pillow or his hands.

If the prop is placed under his butt, his pelvis tilts towards his face.

His erection can’t go as far back but this could be much more stimulating for you if you’re going to be leaning over him.

If the prop is placed under his lower back (see the third image), it makes the pelvis tilt away from his head and his erection can go back further.

This version might be ideal if the woman is going to face away from him.

Again, the key is to find your ideal version and always be conscious (and careful) of how far back his erection can comfortably go.

The second variation for the man’s position comes down to his leg placement.

Are his legs spread wide and low (around the woman’s waist?).. are they closer together by her upper body… or are they straight out as close to his head as possible?

Again, each variation makes a huge difference in the sensations you both feel as well as the comfortable tilt in his penis.

Now, let’s take a look at variations in the woman’s position.

She can kneel, be on her feet, or have one knee and one foot grounded.

She can face her man, face sideways, or face away from him.

She can be straight up, leaning away from him or leaning over him.

There are an endless number of ways to enjoy the amazon sex position.

Again, the key is to find the variation that works for you and your partner.

Step 3. Know your role and play it!

Now that you’ve gotten into the right mindset and found your ideal position, play your role.

Guys, being submissive is not about being “less than” or being dictated to… it’s about letting go of control and putting all your focus on the sensations that you’re woman is making you feel.

Allow yourself to fully FEEL whatever emotions and sensation come up for you.

If you start to judge or label what you’re feeling IE: “This is emasculating” or “This isn’t right, I’m the man. I need to take charge”… let that go.

Stop thinking.

Get back to feeling.

Enjoy the sensations.

Enjoy the fact that your woman is taking control of your (and her) pleasure.

Ladies, you’re in control here so play it up a bit.

Lead.

Show your man how much you want him and how he makes you lose control.

Pin his hands down.

If he tries to touch you or move you in a way other than what you truly want, slap his hand away and tell him that you’re the boss.

Let him know that you’re in charge, not just with your actions, but also your words.

Talk dirty to him.

Tell him you’re in charge.

Tell him how good it feels when you ride him.

This is what the amazon sex position is all about.

Remember, his erection can only bend so far back comfortably and when you’re in the heat of the moment, it can be easy to lose sight of this.

So make sure you establish a safe word before using this position and if he ever uses it, respect it immediately, ease up on the pressure and stop right away until you know what the problem is.

When you’re done in this position, give your man some aftercare and make sure he knows this was just a role you were playing.

Maybe return to a male-dominant position and let him return to taking the lead.

Finally, have fun!

Don’t set high expectations.

Like any position, the amazon sex position isn’t for everyone.

You might tumble.

You might not find the perfect version.

Don’t worry about it.

Laugh it off and get into another, easier female-dominant position like cowgirl.