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Fill Her From Both Ends In The Eiffel Tower Sex Position – MMF Threeway

The Eiffel tower sex position is probably the most commonly used in mmf threesomes.

The women gets on all fours. One guy gets behind her doggy style. The other gets in front of her and receives a blowjob.

It’s more accurately called a split roast. But when both guys high five over the woman’s back, it becomes the Eiffel tower.

If you love hearing a woman moan while a cock is in her mouth as much as I do, this is the ultimate moaning bj position.

Eiffel Tower Sex Position Is Perfect For Hesitant Guys

A male, male, female (mmf) threesome is sometimes referred to as a Devil’s Threesome.

The most critical factor that will make a Devil’s Threesome enjoyable for the woman is the chemistry that the two guys have with each other.

Even if you don’t get physical with him, how comfortable you are with another dude in the room, banging the same woman, at the same time, is everything.

Look, it can be intimidating.

Awkward.

Emotionally confusing.

And it’s completely normal.

But how you deal with these emotions is the real key.

Do not make it a competition.

Rather a shared pool of pleasure… between the 3 of you!

The Eiffel Tower makes it easier to do this while overcoming the possibly tough emotions that can come with having a 3^rd guy in the bedroom.

All 3 of you get to engage in the fun.

Guys are as far away from each other as possible… but you can interact with each other in a way that’s not too threatening or intimidating.

Looking each other in the eyes…

Simple, non sexual touching like a high five…

Watching each other having sex with the girl…

All of these can start to slowly make you both more comfortable with each other and thus, make her a lot more comfortable.

Bulldog Tower Position — In this version, the giver is in the bulldog position. Click the image to learn more about the Bulldog.

MMF Threesomes Are A Lot Of Work… For Her!

Never forget this.

On one hand, it’s an incredibly empowering thrill for a woman to have 2 guys needing, taking, and filling her body.

On the other hand, there’s a lot to do.

In my post on the 69 position, we talked about how focusing on the pleasure you’re receiving, while simultaneously trying to focus on giving pleasure can feel like a losing battle.

The same thing can apply in the Eiffel Tower.

You don’t want her to feel like she’s working twice as hard.

You want to make her feel twice as wanted.

One way to do this is for the receiver of oral to be patient and realize that she’s gonna need breaks to focus on the pleasure of being pounded.

One of the biggest complaints women have about giving blowjobs is that their neck and jaw can get sore.

So let her take breaks and jerk you off for a while.

Jerk yourself off while you watch her for a bit.

Switch into a double penetration position.

Or…

Get In Sync

As I said before, one of the most important factors in any mmf threesome is the chemistry between all 3 of you, but especially the 2 guys.

This applies to how you speak, choose positions, and how you thrust.

If you’re thrusting into her at one speed while your buddy is going at another, it can mess up her groove.

So thrust in sync.

One of the most intriguing and stimulating sensations for a woman during the eiffel tower sex position is the feeling of being fucked at one end only to then be pushed onto the other.

Every thrust she gets from the guy fucking her ends in being pushed back onto the other guy with her mouth.

She goes back and forth from being filled at one end to being filled at the other.

When both guys are in sync and time it right, it can make for unusually pleasurable sensations and also feel like she’s doing less “work”.

She doesn’t have to proactively give head, rather just enjoy being fucked from both ends.

That said, take turns.

When the guy doing the fucking is thrusting, the other can stay still and enjoy the sensation of her mouth being rocked back and forth on his shaft.

Then try the reverse.

Learn her limits and once you know how far back she can take your cock in her mouth, try both trusting into her at the same time.

Be careful with this though.

If you don’t take the time to learn her limits, you could easily choke her and ruin the experience.

Start slow and fill her from both ends as only as much as she’s comfortable with it.

Once you know her limits and you’re comfortable with the other guy, you can hold each others arms over her back and pull each other into her simultaneously.

The final option is for both you and the other guy to stay still while she rocks back and forth.

She gets to go at her own pace, speed and rhythm while you both relax and enjoy her erotic greed.

Give Her Sensory Overload

Another appeal to women about mmf threesomes is that she gets a total overload of sensations.

Double the hands…

the dicks…

and double the sensations!

As Justin Lehmiller, PHD says in his book Tell Me What You Want:

“… the appeal of threesomes has more to do with the fact that this activity creates a state of sensory overload than anything-it’s really about amping up our arousal by bringing in another body that we can look at, touch, and experience in an empowering way that allows us to get lost in sensations.”

So play it up.

Purposefully give her sensory overload.

Both grab her at the same time, allowing her to experience the sensation of having four hands all over her, admiring her body.

Blindfold her to take away her sense of sight, therefore amplifying the other senses.

Handcuff or tie her hands to make her feel even more submissive and taken.

Variations of the Split Roast / Eiffel Tower Sex Position

The traditional version is done when all 3 of you are on your knees, however there are lots of option.

Here’s a few to try:

Lazy-Bj Version

The guy receiving oral lies on his back while the other takes her from behind doggy style.

The challenge with this position is that she’ll be getting fucked and moving back and forth while trying to move her head up and down.

Sitting Tower Sex Position

Oral receiver sits on a chair or couch while the other kneels or squats behind the woman.

Unlike the lazy-bj version, this one makes it a bit easier.

The guy sitting can push his cock down a bit and make it easier for her to move back and forth on it rather than trying to coordinate the up and down while being pushed back and forth.

Over The Edge Eiffel Tower

She lies on her back with her head hanging over the edge.

This way the oral receiver can gently (or not) thrust in and out of her mouth while the other guy dominates her pussy at the other end.

When you’re the one getting oral in this version, figure out her limit before thrusting too fast, hard, or deep.

When you’re at the other end, take a moment to stop fucking and go down on her for a bit.

More MMF Positions

Many women have been fantasized about an mmf threesome and she likely has lots of different things she wants to try.

So try as much as possible.

BJ For Two

When a guy knows how to receive a blowjob properly, it turns a woman on like nothing else. But having another guy right next to you watching her work her magic can be one of the most empowering things she’ll ever experience.

DP Sandwich

If she’s into anal, give her that double stuff by one guy penetrating her ass while the other is in her pussy.

One can thrust while the other sits still or (if the position is right), you can both pound into her simultaneously.

Double Oral

She might love giving head and really trip on servicing two guys at once. When done right, there’s nothing like giving and getting oral at the same time.

If the guys are bi, you can get into a circle where you all get and give service at the same time.

The other option is to get into a split roast but instead of penetration, the male giver goes down on her.

She’ll be giving head at one end while receiving it at the other.

Delicious!

Dominate Her Deep Spot with the Bulldog Sex Position

If you wanna fill your woman up and dominate her deep spot regardless of your size, you need to try the bulldog sex position. It’s a deeper, more dominant version of doggy style that’s sure to bring her some extremely powerful orgasms.

How To Do It Bulldog Style

Just like doggy style, she bends over on all fours. The difference is that instead of kneeling behind her, you stay on your feet, bend your knees, and squat behind her.

This lets you go much deeper than traditional doggy.

If she thought doggy was best for hitting her g-spot, she ain’t felt nothing yet!

Because of the extra elevation, you’re going to plow straight down into her g-spot and keep going until you reach the deepest part of her. By squatting higher or lower, you can change the angle and really hone in on the most pleasurable spot. Bonus Tip: Test out different angles to find your woman’s sweet spot.

Finally, she can spread her legs apart wide for deeper stimulation, or close them for a tighter fit.

The only down side to the bulldog is that it will take a toll on your legs.

Don’t be skipping leg day if you want to pull this one off.

Amplify Dominance

Some positions are great for slow, passionate, lovemaking. Some are better suited for quickies. And some are ideal for hard, dominant sex.

Doggy style is one of those positions for dominant sex.

The bulldog sex position is even more intense and dominant.

The bulldog screams dominance.

She’s fully exposed to you, making her vulnerable and submissive.

You tower over her, putting you in total control.

So amplify the dominance.

Give her a swift, surprise slap on the ass when she isn’t expecting it.
If her upper body is supported (we’ll get into the supported version below), hold or tie her hands behind her back.
Grab her hair at the back of her head and lightly (but firmly) pull it.
Talk dirty and tell her what you’re doing to her. Tell her what you’re going to do. Tell her anything but make it dirty and save the “I love you’s” for another day.
Get a firm grab onto her hips. Even if you aren’t pulling on them, just the sensation of your firm grasp will drive her wild.

Now let’s get into the different variations with some advanced tips for each.

Variations:

Face Down Ass Up Bulldog

Same as the traditional except she rests her upper body on the bed or floor.

Try putting a pillow or sex wedge under her pelvis to tilt her core and give yet another change in the angle.

Assisted Bulldog

You can do the bull dog on a bed but it won’t be easy to keep your balance, especially if the bed is really soft.

The easy fix to this is to have her resting her upper body on a bed or couch while her knees are on the ground. She gets to rest her upper body and you get to enjoy the stability of solid ground.

Put a pillow under her knees for comfort.

Since her arms are free, she can reach over and play with herself.

Or… you can tie or hold her hands behind her back to increase the dominance.

Planking Bulldog Sex Position

If your legs need a break and you want to work on your core instead, plank over her.

Works best if she’s in the face down ass up position.

Mexican Bulldog Sex Position

She lies flat on her stomach while you squat above her. Again, pillows under her pelvis will create an different angle and will make you hit a different spot.

Try it out.

Remember, not all women have the same preferences or sensitivities.

Just a slight shift in your position can be the difference between “that was fun” and “How the hell did you do that? I couldn’t stop cumming!”

Onward.

Transition Positions:

I mention this in almost every position page on this website, because it’s so important.

Transitioning smoothly between positions is key to giving your woman an unforgettable experience.

If you fumble around to get into your next position, it can put a serious dent in the mood and you’ll need to rebuild it if you wanna make her come.

So transition smoothly to and from the bulldog with these positions.

Doggy Style

This one is quite obvious. She stays in the same position while you just switch between being on your knees and squatting over her.

To make your transition feel as smooth as possible to her, pull out of her and take a moment to admire her ass.

Make her comfortable and confident in such an exposed position by telling her how great it looks.

How much you admire it.

How much it turns you on.

Take a second to give her ass a swift slap, grab it firmly, and then deliver your compliment before entering her again.

Froggy Style Sex

Froggy style position is a simple 2 step transition.

While in the bulldog, put your hand on her upper back and push it down onto the bed so that she’s in the face down ass up version as shown above.

Pull out of her and pull her legs back so that she’s flat on her stomach.

Now mount and lay flat on top of her with your knees bent.

Since your head is right behind hers, make sure to talk dirty to her.

Prone Bone Position

This one just might be the all time best position for g-spot orgasms.

While in the bulldog, put a pillow under her pelvis.

Push her flat onto the bed with her pelvis resting on the pillow. This creates an angle that makes it easy for you to plow straight into her g-spot!

Find Her Ideal Angle

Remember, as with all things related to sex and orgasms, women are different.

They all have specific preferences and unique sensitivities.

So TEST!

You’ve got lots of different variations and angles to try out so make sure you do that and find out what your girl likes best.

If you want to master her unique sensitivities and preferences so that you can give her the best orgasms of her life, watch the Make Her Come First Video Now!

Use The Plumber Sex Position Like This & She’ll Do Anything You Want

In the plumber sex position, your woman lies on her back while you get on top and straddle her face. Lean forward, get on all fours and enjoy!

From here you’ve got 2 options.

You can take control and thrust in and out of her mouth, or you can stay still while she blows you.

The problem with staying still while she does the work is that it can be very hard on her neck and shoulders.

Be mindful of this.

Pay attention to her body language and stop her the moment you sense she’s getting tired.

The second option is for you to do the thrusting.

In this version you need to…

Keep in mind just how incredibly vulnerable she is in the plumber sex position.

She has absolutely no control and nowhere to go. In most blowjob positions, she can just move back if you go to far. In the plumber position, she can’t do that.

If you go too far, there’s nothing she can do but try to push you off.

Obviously, this creates a lot of vulnerability. She has to trust that you won’t push her past her limit and choke her.

Here’s the good news… you can use this opportunity to build trust and improve your sex life exponentially.

Telling someone they can trust you is one thing. Showing it is another.

Show her that you will NEVER push her past her limits.

This will build her “sexual trust”.

Build trust in the bedroom and with just a bit of time, she will do any and every nasty thing you want!

Not only that, she’ll love it!

She’ll also feel safe to let go with you, surrender control, and thus surrender her orgasms.

When a woman is worried about what you think of her sexual expression, if you’ll hurt her or take advantage of her, she cannot orgasm.

Her mind takes control of her focus and her body is left hanging.

In order to orgasm she must get out of her head and this is only possible if she knows that she can trust you… or she’s really drunk.

So use the vulnerability of the plumber sex position to build sexual trust, submission, and orgasmic potential.

Establish a safe act.

It’s like a safe word, but action based. Kinda necessary when her mouth is full with your manhood.

Nothing fancy needed.

Just a tap on your thighs, or a push on your stomach will do the trick.

Here’s how to do it and start building trust before you ever use it.

Get into mid position. In other words straddle her face but stay upright instead of leaning over and putting your hands on the floor or bed.
Look her in the eyes and say “if you want me to stop at any time, just do X” IE: Slap me here with your hands.
Practice the move. This is crucial. Actually do the move with her. Tell her to open her mouth, inch inside of her, then take her hands and slap yourself with them exactly how you want her to do it.
IMMEDIATELY pull out of her and give her some positive reinforcement. Give her a smile and tell her “just like that, ok?”

Until you do this, you won’t believe just how powerful this is.

Why?

A lot of girls get told “just tell me if you wanna stop” but they don’t actually do it because they feel guilty, ashamed, insecure, etc.

Just because she didn’t tell you to stop, doesn’t mean she didn’t feel it.

If she wants you to stop but doesn’t say so, it can have some NASTY effects.

She can begin to resent you for it… even though you said the right thing and were willing to stop.
She’ll be nervous about trying it again in the future and will look for ways to get out of it.
If it happens too often, she will start to associate sex with you to having those negative emotions. Not good.

These four steps are powerful because they Show Her she can trust you.

She’s already done it and not only were there no negative consequences, but there was actually a positive one because you gave her that positive reassurance.

A lot of guys might think “won’t that make it more likely she’ll use the safe act then?”

No.

Here’s why.

The main reason a woman uses a safe word or act is because she feels nervous and in danger.

She panics.

She’s not certain that she could get out of the situation quickly, if needed.

When you physically make her use the safe act you’ve agreed to, and then pull out of her right away, it proves to her subconscious mind that there’s no need to panic.

She just has to do her safe act and you will listen and bring her to safety right away.

This builds trust.

This is how you get a woman to surrender her body and orgasms to you.

I’ll say it one more time just in case…

When she uses her safe act, stop IMMEDIATELY.

Or in this case, pull out immediately.

Obeying this rule will build her trust in you but breaking it will kill her trust more than anything… and you might never be able to get it back.

The Very Best Way To Establish Sexual Trust Is…

Adapt your techniques in the bedroom to match her preferences.

We all know women are different.

There are some universal truths about women’s sexuality that applies to all women, but there are also many areas where women are different.

They have unique sensitivities and preferences.

If you want to blow her mind, give her the best orgasms of her life and establish total sexual trust, you must adapt your techniques to match these differences.

Watch this video to learn the 67 ways to make your woman come, and give her more orgasms in a weekend then she had all week!

Do NOT Use The Full Nelson Sex Position Unless She Does This…

It’s fairly popular in porn cause it makes for a great camera view, but the full nelson sex position is one I suggest you stay away from except for 1 very specific situation… more on that below.

First, here’s how it’s done.

You typically start out in reverse cowgirl. Transition into the Pearly Gates. Then she folds her legs towards her head.

You reach your arms under her knees and then back up behind her head, putting her into a “head & leg lock”. If you can reach, join your hands together and interlock your fingers.

Lift your legs slightly and bend them at the knees putting the soles of your feet flat on the bed. Now thrust from the bottom while holding her in place.

Why You Should NOT Use The Full Nelson Sex Position

Below you’ll learn the 1 instance where this can be a great and useful position. First, here are a few of the reasons why it’s usually a bad position for most situation.

It’s not easy to pull off.

She’s got to be bendy. She needs the flexibility to bend her legs far back enough that you can hug them and still reach far enough to put your hands on her head.

You also have to worry about balance. All of her body weight is on top of yours and falling over to one side or the other is all too easy. So if you are going to try the position, take a second to figure out your balance before you start thrusting.

The fact that her entire body weight is lying on top of you can be uncomfortable and restrict your breathing.

It can throw her off the path to orgasm psychologically.

Distraction kills women’s orgasms. In order for a woman to orgasm, she’s got to be in the moment and focused on the physical sensations of pleasure. If she’s worried about the bills, what you think of her, or feeling pressured to orgasm, it’s not going to happen.

Getting into the full nelson curls her lower body and “smashes” her belly together. In other words, it’s going to create those rolls on her tummy. Even if she’s really fit, a curled belly creates those pouches that no one likes to see.

Also, because your hands are behind her head, it’s going to tilt her head forward and what’s in her direct line of sight?

Those distracting belly rolls.

Now she’s focused on something she doesn’t like about her body instead of focusing on fun and pleasure. It’s almost guaranteed to ruin her orgasm.

It Doesn’t Give Her What She Needs

If you read my other blog posts, you know that I’m vehemently against “fucking from the bottom” because all it ends up doing is messing up her grove.

When a woman gets on top, she will ride in the perfect motion required to reach orgasm. If you pay attention in bed, you’ve likely noticed that “perfect motion” is NOT going straight in and out… like most guys do. So let her find her ideal motion and then ride you to orgasm.

The full nelson is different because she can’t do any thrusting. Also, as you’re about to see, one of the only times I suggest you try this position is if she needs deep and fast thrusting in order to orgasm.

Click here to learn the 3 Best Sex Positions for female orgasms.

The Only Time You Should Use The Full Nelson Sex Position

So now that you know why you shouldn’t use this position, it’s time to go over why you should. Or more accurately when you should.

Obviously you want to try this position if your woman asks for it specifically or if you’re both committed to checking every sex position off your bucket list.

But here’s the big one…

The only time I recommend the full nelson…

If you’re a regular reader, then you know how much I hammer on the fact that all women are different and you need to adapt your techniques to match your womans preferences.

When it comes to giving a woman orgasms, you generally find the technique that works best for her and keep going all the way to a climax.

Some women need you to increase the speed or pressure right at the end, some need you to keep doing the exact same thing…

But there are some women who just won’t cross the finish line unless you do something dramatically different when she’s nearing the peak.

If your woman is like this, then the full nelson sex position just might be the missing link to making her come.

If she rides you in cowgirl and manages to bring herself to the brink of orgasm but can never cross the finish line, it’s highly likely she needs something completely different right before her orgasm disappears.

This is the only time I recommend you try this position out.

BUT…

Even in that case, I wouldn’t recommend the full, full nelson.

Do the position as described above but only wrap your arms around her legs, not her head.

As we talked about, it can get her focused on her belly… and it’s just not very comfortable. It puts an uncomfortable (possibly even painful) strain on the neck to will distract her focus.

So try out the full nelson WITHOUT your hands behind her head and also check out some of the variations below.

Different Ways To Do The Full Nelson Sex Position

Oystered Nelson

This is a variation of both the full nelson and the Viennese Oyster.

Instead of putting your hands behind her head and creating the neck strain and inevitable view of her belly rolls, she’s the one who’s dictating just how much she wants to get into position.

If she’s already comfortable doing the Viennese oyster (sometimes referred to as the pretzel position), then this is just a matter of doing the pose while she’s lying on top of you instead of the other way around.

Think of it as the oyster but she’s on top instead of you.

The biggest challenge in this position will be for her to keep her balance so make sure you get that settled before you start thrusting.

Nelson’s Sandwich (Threesome Position)

Just as it sounds, this one is for a threesome. Use it with another guy or girl if one wears a strap-on.

One of you can enter her vagina while the other is in her ass, or you could both enter the same hole.

Just make sure she’s okay with it first.

A major benefit to this version is that the guy (or girl) on top can do all the thrusting while the guy (or girl) on the bottom stays in place. As long as the top giving is thrusting hard enough, it’ll rock your woman back and forth on you as well.

Dog Meet Nelson

It might look like something only possible in a hentai cartoon, but it is doable and can be fun to try.

Start in a standing doggy. Her feet flat on the floor, bent over at the waist, and hands on the ground.

As you stand behind her, bend forward and wrap your arms under the insides of her knees.

Once you’re confident it’s safe, reach all the way behind her head and slowly pick her up off the ground.

Standing Bully Nelson

This one is quite simple. It’s essentially the full nelson while standing without lifting her legs.

That said, since women are usually shorter than men, she will be lifted up off the ground. If she’s flexible enough, she can also wrap her legs around your legs.

Using this position for anal? It’ll be quite easy to pound back and forth.

But if you’re having vaginal sex, it’s a bit more tricky. She’ll need to tilt her hips so that you can enter her.

Enter her while in a standing position like standing doggy and then pick her up while you stay inside her.

It’s easier said than done but can make for quite the dominant experience.

Speaking of dominant…

The Choked Nelson

Some women just LOVE to sensation of being choked during sex.

WARNING: NEVER Choke her. I said many women like the sensation. They like the idea of it. They like the feel of a strong hand wrapped around her neck with a little bit of pressure. Creating the feeling is not the same as actually doing it.

Always be careful with choking.

Instead of reaching your hands behind your woman’s head, put your hands around her neck.

Make sure she has a way of giving you feedback. She needs some way of letting you know if it’s too much.

Obviously you can’t see her facial expression in this position. You might not be able to hear her say her safe word. And since her arms are “locked up”, she might not be able to give you a gestures. All this makes it that much more important that you establish some way of communicating when it’s too much.

So there you have it.

The full nelson sex position, why you should or shouldn’t use it, and a whole bunch of fun variations.

How To Use the Faceoff Sex Position to Make Her Fall In Love… HARD!

The faceoff sex position might not seem like much, but it’s one of the best positions for building intimacy and sexual trust.

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you already know that women are desperate to experience many different shades of the sexual rainbow.

I’m not talking about women wanting to get it on with other women, although that is a common fantasy.

What I’m talking about is giving your woman a variety of erotic emotions.

Women crave “dark emotions” like lust and uncontrollable desire… and they also crave light emotions such as feeling cared for, special, and loved.

IMPORTANT: In this context, I’m talking specifically about women who are in committed relationships.

If you’re just hooking up with a one night stand, there’s a high chance that she doesn’t want to feel the lighter emotions like love. She might even be afraid to experience them with you. Unless you know her O type and you know she needs light emotions to orgasm, going light with a one night stand is usually a turnoff. Stick to the dark emotions for one night stands and fuck buddies.

On the other hand, if you’re in a committed relationship with a woman you love, NOTHING will satisfy her more than a VARIETY of sexual experiences.

Sometimes she craves being tied her up, brought to the brink of orgasm, and then denied that orgasm at the last minute.

Sometimes she craves a spontaneous quickie in the car or kitchen.

Sometimes she craves being completely dominated and given a hard fucking.

And sometimes, she wants nothing more than to make sweet, slow, romantic love that penetrates her soul and fills her up with love and connection.

The faceoff sex position is one of the best positions for light-emotion sex.

Now that we’re clear on when you should and shouldn’t use this position…

Here’s How To Pull Off the Faceoff Sex Position

To get in the faceoff, sit down on a chair, the edge of a bed, a couch, or in a car. Only parked cars count!

Facing you, your woman sits and kneels on top of you.

It’s that simple.

The part where guys get hung up is when it comes to the thrusting.

How She Comes In the Face Off

A common mistake guys make whenever their woman gets on top is to grab onto her and start pounding really hard and fast from the bottom. Some women like this… but for most it just ruins her orgasm.

See the type of stimulation that makes a guy come isn’t the same type of stimulation that gets a woman off.

Straight in and out penetration gives us the friction we need to come but women need to have their clit, g-spot, or one of the deep spots stimulated.

Going straight in usually doesn’t do it for her. Unless you’re packing so much meat that Ron Jeremy would be jealous.

Any time your woman gets on top, let her move and grind in the way that works best for her, or give her some time to find that perfect motion and then take control only if and when you can mimic it perfectly.

In the faceoff, you won’t be able to “thrust back” since your ass is stuck to a surface.

That’s a good thing.

Let her take control.

Let her ride.

Let her come.

Most likely she’ll find that one of these 2 motions works best for her:

Grinding you so that your pubic bone rubs against her clit.
Rocking back and forth (slightly) so that the tip of your penis rubs against one of her deep spots.

In the latter version, it won’t feel like she’s doing much at all. In fact many guys who don’t understand what she’s doing might get frustrated and impatient, longing for some in and out action.

But you know better.

You understand that those seemingly minute movements have a powerful effect inside of her.

Use The Faceoff Sex Position To Build Intimacy & Sexual Trust

In the beginning of this article I mentioned how women crave a variety of sexual experiences and emotions.

One of the keys to using giving your woman variety is to make sure everything is congruent.

When using a light position and thrusting style, don’t pull her hair and use raunchy dirty talk.

When fucking her hard in doggy, don’t talk in a low voice and tell her how much you love her.

Keep everything congruent.

Got it?

Since the face off is best for light love making, add in congruent “bonuses”.

Side note: oxytocin is known as the love hormone. Our brains produce more of this hormone when making love and when our bodies are so close and pressed up against each other.

Keep it congruent and amplify oxytocin production by:

Looking deep into each others eyes.
Whispering sweet nothings into her ear.
Having her wrap her arms around your neck while you wrap yours around her waist and hold her close.
Passionately kiss her lips, her neck, and her breasts.
Get present and FEEL YOUR BODY while you’re inside her. Mirror neurons ß find science link – will fire and she’ll start to do the same. When she does, you’ll feel each other on a deeper, almost spiritual level. I know it sounds corny, but trust me… nothing will make her feel more loved, special and connected.

Transition Positions

Finally, as I always try to cover in the blogs, make sure you transition smoothly from one position to the next.

Here are 2 simple yet powerfully effective transitions from the faceoff.

Cowgirl

Not much to this one. Just lean back, let her make the adjustments necessary and then ride you to orgasm.

transitioning into cowgirl — Faceoff to Cowgirl transition

Reverse Lap Dance

While you stay in the same position, tell her it would be really hot if she leaned back.

By doing this, it’ll position her g-spot directly above your penis head. With just a bit of movement, she’ll quickly realize that she can “drop” her g-spot directly onto you for incredibly pleasurable penetration.

You can easily reach over and play with her boobs or clit for that extra boost in pleasure.

Watch The 67 Ways To Make Women Come

69 Sex Position Can Make Her Love or Hate Giving Blowjobs

The 69 sex position is one of the most loved and hated positions.

Most guys love it cause we get to admire our woman’s pussy and ass while getting head. What could be better?

But when it comes to women, many hate it.

Why?

If your girl is self conscious about her pussy and ass, she’s going to be a little stressed having them so up close in your face
Women aren’t turned on by visuals the same way we are. Having your junk in her face isn’t a turn on the way it is for us.
Finally, if she’s giving you pleasure, it’s tough for her to concentrate on the pleasure she’s receiving. That means your killer tongue techniques are being wasted because she will barely feel it.

The things that make 69 great for guys just aren’t present for women.

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, then you’ve heard me emphasize the fact that women have different preferences. Nothing applies to 100% of women. Some do love 69ing.

Most don’t.

But here’s the biggest challenge with this position:

If she’s worried about what you’re seeing and thinking about her body, while being unable to focus on her pleasure, and feeling required to perform, her subconscious brain can start to associate negative emotions with blowing you.

In other words, she might start to hate giving you head.

So if you’re going to get into 69, you’d better make sure it’s a great experience for her.

Make sure she’s enjoying it and her subconscious brain can start to associate positive emotions to blowing you.

By using the tricks in this blog, you can actually make her love giving you head.

If you don’t, you could make her hate it.

Before I show you how to use the 69 position to turn your woman into a cock-craving nympho who wants you in her mouth every chance she gets, we need to get clear on the basics.

How To Do The 69 Sex Position

There are many versions of the 69, and we’ll cover a few of the best one’s below, for now, let’s start with the traditional version.

To get in the sixty-nine position, lie down on a bed, couch, or floor.

Your woman straddles your face and gets into a doggy style position, putting her face in your crotch and your face in hers.

It’s that simple.

If she’s much sorter than you, you might not reach each other as easily as you’d like.

The quick fix to this is to put some pillows under your head. It’ll save your neck and tilt your head forward, letting you makeup for the difference in distance.

If you’re a lot taller than her, a pillow or 2 under your head might not be enough. In that case, you can put a pillow or sex wedge under your pelvis as well. This tilts your pelvis towards her face. Now your head and pelvis are tilted and your entire body is curved while hers is straight. Making it easy for both of you to reach.

Now that you’ve got the position figured out, you both give each other oral.

At least that’s how it’s supposed to go.

What usually happens is that one person ends up giving mediocre oral (at best) while the other puts all their attention on pleasing their partner.

If you’re the one doing the pleasing, great! Have fun!

But if she’s the one doing the work and not getting any pleasure in return, it can have some nasty after affects.

So any time you get into this position, make sure you’re going all out and giving her the best oral you can.

Use The 69 Sex Position to Create Positive Associations in Her Brain

Science has shown over and over that prior preferences influence learning new habits and activities.

In other words, if she loves getting oral sex from you but doesn’t like giving blowjobs, you can rewire her brain and get her to love having you in her mouth by going down on her while you’re in her mouth.

Notice that I said while you’re in her mouth, Not while she’s giving you a blowjob.

Have the tip of your cock in her mouth while you give her oral, so that her brain associates your taste (and the fact that you’re in her mouth), with her pleasure.

If she doesn’t like giving blowjobs, that negative feeling could get associated to having you go down on her. Not what you want!

So instead of trying to get and give great oral in the 69 position, use it to give her great oral while you’re in her mouth and she will begin to associate great pleasure with having you in her mouth.

The best part is that you don’t even need to be in her mouth. If she just holds your cock close to her face while you’re going down on her, the smell, feel and look of your cock so up close to her will get associated with her pleasure.

If you make her come while she’s got your manhood up close to her face, you’ll take things to the next level and her subconscious brain will associate feelings of euphoria with having your man meat in her face.

Here’s a few tips on how to make this positive association more likely.

Have Realistic Expectations

If you go into the 69 sex position thinking that you’re going to give each other the most powerful orgasms of your lives simultaneously, you’re likely setting yourself up for disappointment.

Again, it’s tough to focus on giving pleasure, while simultaneously focusing on the pleasure you’re receiving enough to reach orgasm. The same is true for your woman. So if she’s blowing you, it’s going to be virtually impossible for her to focus on her own pleasure enough to orgasm.

Instead, focus on getting her warmed up and close to orgasm, so that you can then transition into a good cunnilingus position and make her come.

Or, focus on getting her warmed up and craving penetration sex. You’ll learn a few tips on how to do this below.

Focus on her

When you get into 69, you have 2 options. You can focus on the sensations you’re feeling in your penis, or you can focus on the sensations that your mouth feels when devouring her.

Focus on the sensations your lips feel when kissing her outer lips, the sensation your tongue feels when licking her opening, or the sensations your lips feel when sucking her clit. Do not focus on the sensations she’s giving you.

Warm Her Up First

If you’ve been reading this blog for a while, you already know I’m a big fan of giving women multiple types of orgasms. If you’ve been through it, you know that in order to make a woman come, you must warm her clit up with indirect stimulation before giving her direct clitoral stimulation.

This is even more crucial when you’re trying to create positive associations before direct clitoral contact too early while you’re in her mouth, can create negative associations. Below, I’ll give you a few of my favorite indirect techniques, so keep reading.

Use your hands

In this context, I’m talking about using your hands on her body. Caress her butt, her sides, her back. Remember, you want her to focus on the pleasurable sensations that you’re making her feel, so give her lots of sensations to feel.

Make Her Come BEFORE 69ing

Once you give your girl an orgasm, she gets into a different state of mind. An orgasmic state. When she’s already in this state before taking you in her mouth, she’s going to immediately associate pleasure to your taste. Make her come with your mouth BEFORE getting into the 69 position and it’ll be easier to make her come again during 69.

Watch this video to make she comes first, every time!

How To Eat Pussy in the 69 Sex Position

If you’ve already been through some higher level training such as the make her come first formula, you already know the importance of stimulating her clit indirectly before you make direct contact.

How you easy pussy in 69 will depend on this one key factor: Are her knees above, or below your shoulders.

If your shoulders (and thus arms) are above her knees and thighs, you can easily bend your elbows, and reach over to rub her vulva with your fingers.

If your shoulders and arms are below her knees and thighs, you’ll have to reach around, over her thighs to reach. In this case, use your hands to caress her butt cheeks, back, hips, and thighs. Remember, you want her to focus on the sensations that you’re giving her… so give her lots to feel.

BONUS TIP: Get a firm grasp of her body and pull her closer. It’ll let her know that you love having her close and up in your face. IMPORTANT: Only do this if you can pull it off without diminishing the quality of your technique.

Here’s a few more tips:

Kiss, Swipe, and massage outer lips with your hands, fingers and lips to warm her up.
If she’s got long inner lips, suck and tug on em with your lips
Avoid direct contact with her clit. Lick the areas around her clit first IE: licking the clitoral hood, then opening. Tease her clit by devouring the areas around it first.
Once she’s warmed up and wet, give her clit one slow lick with a flat tongue to test out if she’s ready for more.
Regardless of her response, go back to licking around the clit.
If you got positive feedback from the direct lick, go back to it for a bit longer.
Press a wet thumb pad against vaginal or anal opening.
If you’re wanting to transition into penetration after 69ing, insert the tip of your thumb into pussy and pull up, away from clit. It’ll duplicate the sensations of being fucked and make her crave penetration.

Different 69 Variations

As always, one of the most critical factors that you determine if you’re a mediocre or great lover is how well you adapt to your woman’s preferences, sensitivities, anatomy, etc.

One way to make sure you’re adapting is to try out different position variations.

Here are some of the best variations of the 69 position and why you might want to try them.

#1 Classic 69 Sex Position

You lie on your back while your woman straddles your head while facing your feet. She then bends over in a doggy style pose. She can rest on your body but this can make you both extra sweaty and hot real quick. The alternative is that she holds herself up and creates a little space between your bodies.

If she’s much shorter than you, you can minimize the distance by putting pillows under your head and (if needed), your pelvis. It’ll “curl” your body a little and even out the distance.

#2 Classic 69 with an Angle

criss cross 69 sex position — Notice how one of her legs is above his shoulder and the other is below.

We’ve already talked about how your arm placement will make a big difference in how you can play with your woman.

Are her knees above your shoulders (wrapping your head) or below your shoulders (wrapped around your chest). What version you choose determines how you’ll be able to use your hands.

If you see benefits to both versions, you can have one arm above and the other below by being slightly angled instead of perfectly parallel to each other.

Now you can have one arm wrapped around her thigh and playing with her butt, while the other gets much easier access to her vulva.

#3 Inverted 69 Sex Position

Here’s where you switch things up. You’re on top and she’s on the bottom.

Some women actually prefer this so they can relax their body a bit more… but these women are in the minority.

Why?

Cause she has no control over how deep you go inside her mouth.

If you’re going to use this version, MAKE SURE you aren’t going too deep or fast. You actually want to be very conscious of everything she’s experiencing and make sure it’s not unpleasurable for her.

#4 Sideways 69

One of the most loved and commonly endorsed variations of 69 is the sideways 69 sex position.

Very simply, you get into the traditional version but you’re both on your sides. It makes it much more comfortable for the person who’s usually on top because neither of you have to hold up your bodyweight while getting to work.

Bend your lower leg a little while moving the other back or bending it in the air and you’re giving your partner a comfy place to rest their head. No neck strain necessary!

#5 Standing 69

You’re more likely to see this in porn movies than in real life. but if your woman is much smaller than you, you can try this one out for fun.

You simply pick her up, flip her around and go to town.

Obviously, you should only try this one out if you’re confident in your strength and she’s comfortable with it.

Make sure you don’t wander off too far from a bed, couch, ottoman or something else you could quickly and comfortably set her down on.

#6 Head Hanging Over The Edge

One of you lies down on the bed with your head hanging over the edge, while the other stands over their face and leans over.

It’s often recommended as a way for a girl to deep throat. The theory is that it makes her throat straight and therefore she’ll be able to take you in deeper.

In my experience, it’s not a great position for this. Here’s why: If she’s learning to deepthroat, it means she’s not that comfortable with it yet. So she’s going to be a little more nervous and likely to gag. Add to this the fact that blood will be rushing to her brain (cause it’ll be lower than her heart) and it can lead to some unpleasurable affects.

That said, it can be a good position to simply rest your tip in her mouth while you go off.

If you’re both into face sitting (where she sits on your face and basically grinds your mouth), this one is a fun option. You lie on your back while she towers over you and pleasures herself against your tongue.

She can lean over and stroke or suck you off, if she chooses.

#7 Threesome 69 Triangle

threesome oral circle — Ariel View of A Threesome 69 Triangle

If you find yourself stumbling into a three-way, this position (also called the daisy chain) is the 3some version of 69ing.

You all get into a circle and please one participant while the other pleasures you.

If you’ve got a mirror above your play area, it’ll make this one all that much hotter!

Check out this page to give your woman many different types of orgasms and avoid the sexual plague of orgasmic tolerance.

Why The Best Lovers Use The Side Straddle Sex Position So Often

The side straddle sex position is one of the most important in a great lovers sexual arsenal.

Not only does it give unusually unique and pleasurable sensations for your woman, it also creates one of the most important elements of a satisfying romp… smooth transitions.

In this article you’ll learn:

Why “transition positions” are such a key ingredient to being an amazing lover… and why the side straddle is one of these key positions.
How the side straddle automatically prevents one of the most common penetration mistakes men make.
How to use the side straddle to give your woman one of the most pleasurable, exciting, and orgasmic experiences of her entire life.

First, let’s take a look at…

How To Get Into The Side Straddle Sex Position

While your woman is lying on her side, lift her upper leg, and straddle the other. Hold (or even hug) her upper leg against your chest.

Since she’s on her side while you’re on top, it makes you enter her at a very unusual angle… but one that’s deliciously pleasurable.

Since you both have your legs spread and you enter at an angle you’re going to go much deeper inside of her.

Because of this, you’re going to hit all different kinds of deep pleasure zones that she might have never even known were there!

Meanwhile, depending on weather you hold her leg or just let it rest against you, you can have 1 or both hands free to roam.

Grab her ass with one hand while fondling her breasts with the other.

Or use a hand to play with her clit, while you rub her insides with your tip.

It Makes You Last Longer… WHILE Making Her Come Quicker!

Unlike other positions that make it easy for you to thrust straight in and out very fast, this one makes that hard to do.

Inexperienced lovers might think this is a bad thing, but it’s actually one of the keys that makes this position so great!

Why?

It slows you down and prevents you from coming too quick.
It forces you to thrust in a way that makes women come.

See, women don’t often come from the same kind of penetration that men do.

For a guy to come, he just needs to thrust straight in and out. The faster and harder, the sooner he comes.

But women don’t get much stimulation to their “orgasm triggers” from that type of thrusting.

In order for a woman to come, you need to thrust in a way that stimulates the right spots, such as the clit or g-spot.

Notice when a woman gets on top to ride you, most don’t bounce straight up and down on your cock. Unless she’s a pornstar or stripper, this just isn’t what get’s women off.

What does a woman do when they get on top?

She GRINDs you.

She gets on top, and rather than focusing on your dick going in and out, she focuses on rubbing her clit against your pubic bone and shaft… WHILE you’re inside of her.

Bottom line, this position makes it hard to “pump” in and out of her – the kind of stimulation that makes us come…

And it makes it easy to grind her – the kind of stimulation that makes her come!

So when you’re in the side straddle, grind, don’t pump.

Why The Best Lovers Use The Side Straddle Sex Position So Often

If you’ve been studying how to be a great lover for any amount of time, then you know about the importance of variety.

Women NEED a variety of sexual experiences in order to stay hungry for sex.

This applies to

the emotions she feels during sex
the types of orgasms (IE: oral, fingering, vaginal, anal, etc)
the types of stimulation (IE: clitoral, g-spot, a-spot, etc)
the positions you use.

In this article, we’re focusing on positions and emotions.

If you’re always using the same 2 positions, she’s eventually going to get bored.

Most guys know this.

What isn’t talked about as often by sex educators and “gurus” is the importance of smooth transitions from one position to the next.

If you’re fumbling around and clanking heads to switch positions, it’s going to throw her off her game.

It messes with the emotions needed to orgasm.

All that positive, erotic emotion you built up can dissolve in an instant with one bad fumble.

Transitioning smoothly between positions keeps her in an erotic and orgasmic state. And when you do it right, it even amplifies her pleasure and arousal.

So how do you transition from one position to another?

One step at a time!

Here’s an example.

2 of the most commonly used positions are missionary and doggy.

Use The Side Straddle To Transition From Missionary To Doggy

Start off slow in the missionary position to make her feel safe, care for and loved.

Kiss her.

Whisper some sweet nothing in her ear.

Get present and FEEL your arousal build. Because women are so intuitive, it’ll cause her to feel the same.

Now, SLOWLY pull out of her while looking her in the eyes (with a flirty grin on your face) and keep feeling your arousal.

Put a hand on the bed (for support) and lift one of your knees over one of her thighs to straddle her.

Grab her other leg and slowly lift it up towards your chest while gently kissing it a few times.

When you do this, her core will naturally start to rotate and tilt her upper body on its side.

It’ll feel very smooth and natural to her and it’ll build her arousal cause she’ll anticipate what’s happening next without having to think about what to do or what position to get in.

Now rest her leg against your chest, and start to tease her clit with your tip.

Rub it against her clit side to side, up and down, and in circles.

Now rub your tip against her opening for a minute.

Tell her she isn’t ready for it yet to build her desire.

When you’re ready, slowly enter her again.

Now’s the time to start turning up the emotion and arousal a bit more.

Slowly and gradually start to build up the intensity and fuck her a little harder.

Grab her boobs a bit more passionately.

Turn your sweet nothings into slightly dirtier talk.

Feel your arousal getting more intense as your actions follow.

Notice hers doing the same.

Now take her leg off your chest, and move it the other way, towards the other side of the bed.

Try to stay inside of her while doing this.

Now turn everything up to the next level.

Get a little rougher again.

Grab her boobs a little harder (always being careful not to hurt her of course).

Maybe tug on her hair a bit or slap her ass.

Remember, keep dialing up the arousal, dirty talk, and movements all in sync to make the transition as smooth as possible.

Once her emotion is turned on as much as yours…

Grab her upper arm and pull it towards the bed to flip her completely over and take her from behind.

And that’s it!

This is how you use the side straddle sex position to transition from “love-making” missionary to rough from behind doggy.

But these same concepts can be used to transition to and from lots of positions.

Here are the keys to remember.

Do it gradually. In increments.
Find a leverage point to move her around easily (in this case it was her leg)

Make sure to keep the emotions & actions in sync. Don’t make slow, gentle love while pulling her hair and telling her you love how slutty she is. Keep everything congruent!

Give Her an Orgasmic Head Rush in The Wheel Barrow Sex Position

Remember wheelbarrow races? Well those skills you thought you’d never use in real life can finally be put to good use with the wheel barrow sex position.

It’s not the most orgasmic position for your woman cause it requires a lot of effort and will tire her out pretty quickly. But it can be a fun way to switch things up and get her blood flowing.

To get into this position, she starts by getting into a push up, plank, or downward facing dog position. Stand between her legs. Squat down. Pick her up by the thighs and stand up. Spread your legs a little with a bend in your knees and enter her from behind.

Keep in mind that not only does she have to hold herself up in this position, but she also has to keep her balance. If you thrust hard into her, you can easily knock her off her balance and send her crashing to the ground. So instead of pounding hard into her, work on swinging your pelvis without messing her balance. Ideally, you’re thrusting in and out and she isn’t moving at all. So keep your arms steady (since they’re holding onto her lower body) and don’t “smash” into her.

Benefits of the Wheel barrow Sex Position

One of the best parts of this position for you is the view. Not only do you get a great view of her ass, you’re also in the best position to see her pussy lips grip your cock as you slide in and out of her.

You get to go DEEP inside of her! It’s a great position to make your tip reach her deep spot. It’s a spot that doesn’t often get stimulated in traditional positions if you’re on the smaller side. So it’s a great position to make you reach that elusive spot and see her reaction. If she really digs the new feeling, learn other deep spot stimulation positions here.

Like many rear entry positions, the wheelbarrow is great for anal penetration. If she’s not into full on anal but does like to have her starfish tickled, wet a finger tip and massage it. Of course you’ll have to get a hand free which can be tough if you need to hold her up by both hips. We’ll talk about how to free up a hand below.

Build sexual trust in the wheelbarrow

Keep in mind that even if your girl is a fitness junkie, her arms will get tired real quick and she won’t be able to hold this pose for long.

Since her orgasm comes with continuous stimulation when she’s relaxed, it’s unlikely she’ll climax in this position.

So don’t expect too much in terms of her sexual pleasure.

Instead, use this position to build her sexual trust in you.

She’s going to get tired quick and she’ll get lightheaded from all the blood rushing to her brain. This can increase the excitement and arousal but it’s not good for too long.

So try it out, have some fun, and tell her when it’s time to take a break so that you can get her head higher than her heart again, and get her blood flow returning to normal.

It’s subtle, but it’ll increase her trust in you because it shows that her safety is your highest priority. Even above your pleasure.

She will notice this and she’ll be much more likely to do what you say in bed because she knows you’re looking out for her well being.

Now if she really likes the sensations of feeling you deep while she’s getting a bit of a head rush, try…

Different variations of the wheel barrow sex position.

The slightest change in a position can make all the difference.

Here’s a few variations to try.

Traditional Wheel Barrow

This is the traditional version of the position. Again, the thing you need to be most aware of in this version (other than her arms will get tired quick), is that her brain will fill with blood and she will get light headed cause her head is lower than her heart.

This can be pleasurable. But too much is not good. So don’t stay in this position too long.

If she likes the sensations, try one of these next 2 variations that mimics the traditional version more comfortably.

Leaning Wheel Barrow

The leaning version is just like the normal, only she’s leaning her upper body on a couch, bed, ottoman or anything that’s comfortable and the right height. If her head is slightly lower than her heart (such as the image here), she’ll be able to last much longer cause her arms don’t have to do any work and the blood doesn’t rush to her brain as quick.

Kneeling Wheel Barrow

Another version that keeps her head and heart at roughly the same level.

She can hold herself up on her hands or lean on her forearms.

If she leans on her forearms, it’ll create a different angle and will likely be more or less stimulating.

So it’s worth trying both to see what she likes best.

Wanton Wheel Barrow

Finally, this is the expert version of the wheel barrow. Only try this one out if she’s already extremely flexible and enjoys the traditional position.

It’s tough.

It’s not likely to produce orgasm.

But it’s worth a try cause it creates a totally unique angle and can help you find new parts of her that lead to more pleasure and orgasms.

If it does hit the right spot, make sure you try out other odd angle positions.

Dominate Her G-Spot with the Prone Bone Sex Position

If your woman loves doggy style, you’ve got to try out the prone bone position. Like traditional doggy, the prone bone also hits the g-spot with ease but… it also makes you go MUCH deeper so she feels all your fullness!

Even if you’re on the smaller side, you’ll feel huge inside her.

If you’re longer than average, you’ll be able to go deep without hitting her cervix.

The prone bone truly is one of the greatest, most orgasmic positions there are. In fact it’s loved by so many that there’s even a prone bone subreddit, one of only a handful of positions to claim their own spot on the site.

To get into it, flatten your woman out on a bed, face down. Get on top and enter her from behind.

To make sure you’re giving her the best sex she’s ever had in the prone bone position, test and tweak different variations.

As with every thing related to sex, not all women like the same things.

Different women have unique sensitivities.

Their g-spots and clits can react differently to different moves.

Their “hot spots” can be in slightly different places.

To really master the prone bone position, you need to test out a few different variations to find the one that hits the spot just right.

The most important thing to test in the prone bone position is your angles of penetration.

Specifically, the pelvic tilt, and the side tilt.

Different angles of pelvic tilt.

The reason this position works so well for giving women powerful orgasms is because you’re thrusting straight down into her g-spot.

By tilting her pelvis, your penis can plow straight into it and keep going, rubbing against the entire upper wall where the g-spot and deep spot are.

Have her stick her butt out or make it easier on her by putting a pillow or sex wedge under her hips.

This naturally tilts her pelvis and makes it much more comfortable to receive your powerful pounding.

Try no tilt, vs tilting with 1 pillow, vs tilting with 2.

Enter her straight on vs from the side.

This one’s really simple. In one version, come in straight from behind with both your legs between or on the outside of hers. In the second version, straddle one of her legs with yours, making you come in at an angle.

For some women, coming in at an angle like this is make you hit the perfect spot!

Now that you’ve found the perfect angle to make her come, let’s talk about framing.

We all know “women need to be warmed up first”… but…

Even though the prone bone is one of my favorite go to positions, I don’t recommend using it as the first position in your session. It’s a position I like to save until she’s properly warmed up and is on the verge of orgasm or ready for a second, or third, or more.

That said, women really respond well to being taken back and forth between slow “love-making” to rough fucking.

So start off slow in this position. Especially when you’re testing out the different variations and fine-tuning to discover her preferences.

It’s a very dominant position, which is why you’ll want to spend most time giving her rough sex, but it’s also more intimate than traditional doggy style.

Why?

Your bodies are much closer together.

If you’re leaning over her, your head is directly above hers in the perfect position for some sweet or dirty talk, and if she turns her head to the side, you can kiss her.

Start slow and gentle. Take your time thrusting all the way in, slowly. Remember, this position makes you go very DEEP. Depending on what positions you’ve used in the past, this might be the deepest she’s ever felt you.

So give her time to enjoy every extra bit of you.

If you go too fast, she won’t get to enjoy all the new sensations.

Kiss her neck, shoulders, and if she turns her head, you can even kiss her cheek and mouth.

Whisper sweet nothings into her ear.

Now, as you both get more aroused, start to turn up the heat.

If you remember nothing else from this blog, remember this:

Men want women, and women want to be wanted.

Now what makes a woman feel wanted? I’m talking about feeling wanted sexually here.

What makes her feel sexually attractive and wanted is when you get so hard and turned on that you’re barely able to control yourself.

Imagine a woman was so turned on by you that she was barely able to control herself.

What would that look like?

Would she slowly, make sweet, gently love to you?

No.

She’d throw you down, pin you against the bed and fuck your brains out!

This is what you want to give her… once she’s warmed up of course.

So as you’re making love for a couple of minutes in this position, she’s also making you harder, more aroused, and sending you closer to the verge of losing control.

As you get more turned on, you start fucking her a little harder.

You pin her arms down on the bed.

Your sweet nothings turn to dirty talk.

Caressing her neck and shoulders turns into pushing her head down onto the bed or pulling her hair. All of this without hurting her of course.

Smoothly progress from slow lovemaking while you figure out her preferences, to raw, animalistic pounding straight down into her g-spot and you just might end up giving her the strongest orgasm of her life!

Make Her Come BEFORE Sex To Skyrocket Her Chances of Coming Again During Sex

We all know women are capable of having multiple orgasms.

Once a woman has her first orgasm, she goes into an “orgasmic state” where it’s much easier for her to come again, and again. Her orgasms also become stronger and they take a lot less time.

So if you want to give her 2, 3, 4, or more orgasms, give her that first orgasm before sex.

Here’s the key:

Every woman is different.

Some come easiest from oral sex, others from massaging the g-spot. Some women need a unique combination of both, and some will only come from a very specific technique done just the right way.

Your mission is to find her unique “orgasm formula”.

Once you do that, she’s like putty in your hands. Coming at your will and swearing your the best she’s ever had.

I made this video to show you exactly how to do it.

Watch the Make Her Come First Video to Learn How.

Forbidden Fruit Sex Position AKA Oral Doggy Style

If you love eating out and eating ass, you’re in for a sweet treat with the forbidden fruit sex position.

It’s the ultimate position for ass loving, oral aficionados.

In this cunnilingus position, your girl gets on all fours while you kneel behind her and go to town.

She can get into the traditional doggy with her knees and hands on the bed, or get into a face down ass up version where she lies her chest and head on the bed. By going with the face down ass up version, she can relax more of her body and achieve orgasm more easily. Her pelvis also tilts in the version, giving you easier access.

Another variation of the forbidden fruit is for her to lie flat on her belly with her legs spread. The only problem with this version is that it can be tough on your neck. Put a pillow or sex wedge under her pelvis to raise and tilt her core, giving you easier access and relieving some strain on your neck.

Why use the forbidden fruit sex position?

You can use your fingers, a toy, and your mouth all at the same time to give her simultaneous pleasure.
If she’s in the face down ass up version, she can put an arm under her belly and play with her clit while you penetrate her pussy and stimulate her ass.
You’ve got the best view in the house!
But the biggest benefit to this position is that it’s a perfect intro to anal!

If she’s never tried anal, or if she’s hesitant to do so, the forbidden fruit just might be the move that changes her mind!

Start by giving her an oral orgasm or two in this pose. Once she’s in an orgasmic state, lick her ass. If she’s never experienced this before, she’ll be shocked at how pleasurable it is and will start to wonder what other pleasures her end zone can experience.

WARNING: Never, I MEAN NEVER, try to stick anything in her ass without her permission. If you take advantage of the fact that she’s exposed her ass to you like this, she will never trust you again. And she shouldn’t.

But, you can make her crave anal penetration by giving her a taste of what anal stimulation can feel like.

Once you’ve licked her ass and she gave you some positive feedback, wet your finger tip and lightly press against it against her ass while massaging it in circles. AGAIN, DO NOT enter her ass… the goal here is to give her pleasurable anal stimulation and make her crave more.

Use a dildo or vibrator on her pussy while licking and gently rubbing her anus.

If this doesn’t make her willing to try anal right away, don’t push it. If you made it a pleasurable experience, she will think about it later on and likely start to become more open to the idea.

Use the Forbidden Fruit Sex Position to Last Longer In Doggy and Give Her Double Orgasms!

We all love doggy style. Both men and women often say it’s their favorite position.

The biggest problem men have with this position is that it can be tough to last long in.

By switching back and forth between doggy style penetration and doggy style cunnilingus (AKA the forbidden fruit), you can give yourself a break and “cool down” whenever you need to, WHILE continuing to build her orgasm with oral!

Here’s a full forbidden fruit sex position routine you can use to enjoy doggy and give her 2 orgasms! Some of these tips might seem basic, but I’ve added in a few advanced tricks to really take things to the next level so read ever word that follows!

Step 1. Get her into the doggy position and go down on her. Take short breaks to massage and slap her ass while telling her how sexy it is.

Step 2. Stand up and tease her with your cock by rubbing it against her clit. DO NOT INSERT YOUR PENIS!

Step 3. Go back to oral. This time, start incorporating your fingers. Start by licking and sucking her clit to get it wet with your saliva. Now replace your mouth with your fingers. Use 2 fingers and place them one on each side of her clit. Gently stroke her clit back and forth trying to keep the same type of pressure and rhythm you had with your mouth. Now use your tongue to lick up and down her slit.

Step 4. Start rubbing the tip of your finger against her opening in an up and down motion.

Side note: Since she can’t see what you’re doing, her excitement and anticipation will go through the roof. Use that to your advantage and always keep her guessing by switching things up!

Step 5. Slowly enter the tip of your thumb or finger. Make sure your thumb (or finger) print is facing up, towards her butt. Slide in 1 to 2 knuckles and gently pull up. This mimics the sensation of being penetrated much more than jabbing a finger in and out. Keep doing this for 20 to 30 seconds while you tell her how wet she is, how hot her moans are making you, and how much she wants you inside of her.

Step 6. Tell her she isn’t ready for it yet. Pull your thumb or finger out and go back to giving her oral.

Step 7. By this time she’ll be soaking wet and dying to feel you inside of her. It’s time to give her what she wants… but just the tip. You’re going to drive her wild with anticipation and desire. Slowly enter just the tip of your penis inside her, and pull it back out. Then slowly enter her again with just your tip and pull out. Do this 9 times. On the 10^th time, go all the way in. Even if you’re average size, you’ll feel MASSIVE to her! Now pull out and start over with 8 shallow thrusts and 2 deep. Keep following this pattern until you’re giving her only deep, powerful thrusts.

Step 8. Pull out and go down on her whenever you start to feel your orgasm approaching. Don’t wait. The longer you wait the more time it’ll take you to recover. Do this every time you feel your orgasm approaching and soon you’ll have strengthened your stamina and be able to pound her as long as you want!

Step 9. Make her come! While many women can have penetration orgasms fairly easily in doggy style, you’ll drastically improve her chances when you give her a foreplay orgasm first. The only question is, what technique is most likely to give her that first orgasm? That’s what this video will show you.

If you want to make sure she comes first every time, you need to follow the 5 scientific steps of female orgasm and you need to fine tune them to match her preferences.

Not all women like the same things.

Some like to have their clit sucked gently while others prefer quick flicks of the tongue.

Some come easier from “jilling off” their clit and others need to be rubbed in a circular motion.