If you want to make sure your girl comes first, you need to start using the coital alignment technique.
It’s a twist on the classic missionary that was first discovered by reichian psychotherapist Edward Eichel, and it’s been scientifically proven to make guys last longer while making women come faster.
Despite its exceptional abilities, you won’t see this highly effective position used in porn cause it’s nothing special to look at. The rare times it’s talked about online or in books, it’s usually difficult to understand and leaves you with more question than answers.
We’re going to fix that today.
Now, is the C.A.T. going to give your woman the strongest orgasms she’s ever had?
No. That’s not what this position is for.
The Coital Alignment Technique is used to:
- Get her first orgasm out of the way fast
- Prime her body for multiple orgasms
- Make you Last Longer
These are the main reasons why…
The Coital Alignment Technique
Is One Of The Most Valuable Sex Positions
In The All-Star Lovers Arsenal
Anytime I’m with a new girl for the first time, I almost always start our session with the C.A.T.
Why?
Cause I want to get that first orgasm out of the way ASAP.
I don’t care if it’s not a strong orgasm… I only care that it happens.
See the longer it takes a girl to come, the less likely it is to happen.
She wants to please you just as much as you want to please her and she knows that her orgasm pleases you.
The longer it takes her to have that first orgasm, the more time she has to start wondering why it’s not happening… and once she reaches this point, it’s much less likely to happen.
That’s why the C.A.T. is so awesome.
Makes it easy for you to give her that first orgasm fast because it creates the perfect type of clitoral stimulation a woman needs to orgasm.
It also makes you last longer because it does NOT provide the type of stimulation that makes guys orgasm.
It doesn’t matter what size you are either because her orgasm doesn’t come from internal stimulation, rather outer stimulation.
Finally, by getting that first orgasm out of the way, your woman’s brain gets flooded with oxytocin (the pleasure chemical) and she goes into “orgasm mode” where multiple orgasms happen MUCH more easily.
How To Use The Coital Alignment Technique To Give Your Woman Her First Orgasm Fast
The majority of women don’t orgasm during penetration.
But the odds a woman will come skyrocket when clitoral stimulation is added.
This is why many women prefer to grind your pubic bone when they get on top instead of hopping up and down.
In non girl-on-top positions, your woman can get the required clitoral stimulation by rubbing herself with her fingers or a toy. If you’ve ever had sex with a girl while she’s vibing her clit, you know just how fast and easy she can come.
The C.A.T. creates a similar sensation except you get all of the credit.
The CAT position makes you the hero by giving her the clitoral stimulation she needs to come while you’re inside of her. No toys or self stimulation needed.
Here’s how it works.
Get into the missionary position.
Go all the way inside of her and stay there.
Do NOT thrust in and out.
Instead, stay all the way in, forget about your penis, and focus on rubbing your pubic bone against her clit.
Your pubic bone is the area above your penis that has (hopefully well trimmed) pubic hair.
The excitement of having you inside her while you’re “rubbing” her clit gives her both the emotional and physical stimulation she needs to come.
Depending on your size and shape, this movement can also make you hit some (often neglected) feel-good spots deep inside of her.
Instead of creating a sensation of on and off “pulsing” pleasure… you’re providing continuous pleasure that doesn’t takes breaks or stop until she gets off!
Making the switch from thrusting to grinding is often the key factor in turning a non-orgasmic woman into a cum machine.
If you want to reach god mode, here’s how to take it to the next level.
Split Test These 4 Motions In The C.A.T. Position
Watch 100 women play with themselves and you’ll notice 1 thing very quick.
All women masturbate differently.
Some rub their clit side to side.
Some prefer up and down.
And some like circles.
Watching your girl play with herself before you get into the cat can let you know exactly what type of motion you should use.
But if you don’t have that precious info yet, try each of these motions out to see and see what works best for you girl.
- Up and down. Little blurb here
- Side to side. This one is harder and usually only possible if you’re between her legs.
- This one will give you a great core workout.
Another way to find her ideal motion is to let her get on top and watch how she grinds you. Check out my post on the cowgirl position to see exactly how it works.
Position Variations
You can have your legs on the outside of hers or the inside. Some swear by one version while stating the other doesn’t work for them so (as always), try both out and see what works best for your woman.
Keep in mind both are slightly different.
When her legs are open, it’s quite easy to rub your pubic bone against her clit. You might need to shift your bodies angle a bit, or move higher or lower compared to her body… but it’s not hard to figure out.
In the closed leg version, it’s not so easy. Instead of focusing on rubbing your pubic bone against her… you’ll likely have to the base of your shaft.
As always, play with this.
Take your time.
And find what works best for you and your woman.
How To Get Into Closed Leg C.A.T.
Getting into the closed leg version can be next to impossible, unless you know this one simple trick.
Lift one of your legs while she slides hers under you.
Then repeat.
What To Do After The C.A.T. To Really Blow Her Mind
At the start of this article I said the orgasms your girl will have in this position aren’t the strongest.
What this position does is give her first orgasm and prime her body for much more intense orgasms after.
Like the C.A.T. there are other positions and thrusting patterns that give women MUCH more powerful orgasms.
We cover these positions and exactly how they work inside Penetration Orgasms Made Easy. Plus you’ll learn a whole lot more tips, tricks, and techniques to blow your girls mind after the CAT.