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Superman Sex Position – Make Your Woman Fly High

If you’re getting bored of walking tightropes or performing ariel artistry at the Cirque du Soleil, try the superman sex position.

Note: This position is not to be confused with the sexual act called superman when you cum on a girls back and stick a sheet to it so that it stays stuck like a cape.

Also note the term “Superman doggy-style sex position” was coined on the reality show Love Island when a participant was asked about his favorite position. He did not expand on this but it’s assumed he meant doggy style with a superman style finish (as described above).

Getting back to the position… imagine taking the wheel barrow position to the next level by lifting you woman up off the ground and holding her in the air.

If wrapping your arms around her belly and literally holding her in the air isn’t enough of a challenge for you acrobatic specimens, you can hold onto her hips while she uses her abs to hold her upper body up.

Thinking about it now, this should really be called the superwoman position cause it’s going to require your woman have abs of steel to pull it off. Might also help if she can actually fly. Then again, I don’t make the rules.

If you’re both truly hell bent on trying this acrobatic feat, it’s highly recommended to do over a bed or pile of pillows. Assume you’re going to drop your girl or she’s going to thrust back so hard you will fall. Can you do so safely? Without dropping her on her head? Without hurting her?

Pro tip: It might sound simple but by simply leaning back slightly, you’ll change the center of gravity and make everything MUCH easier for you.

Finally, you can make the superman even safer by practicing the position over a high table kitchen island, or any surface that will make any fall much shorter for your brave super hero in training.

Remember this position is more of a challenge of sex bucket list item than anything else. You’re not going to make her come in this position and it almost certainly will not become her favorite pose.

Have your fun trying the superman and giving her a few seconds of flight. When you’re ready to make her come, check out Penetration Orgasms Made Easy.

The Butterfly Sex Position Gives Big D Skills To Smaller Sized Guys

If you’re average or slightly below in size, you need to try the butterfly sex position.

It might just be one of the best positions for giving women powerful g-spot orgasms with and average (or slightly smaller) tool.

On this page you’ll discover exactly why it works so well and how you can use it to give her one of the strongest orgasms of her life… regardless of your size.

First, let’s cover the basics.

To get into the butterfly, your woman lies down at the edge of a bed, table, or counter top.

You stand in front of her, lift her legs and rest them against your shoulders.

Grab her butt with your hands and lift her slightly off the surface. This is the real magic to this position. More on why in a minute.

The challenge with this position is finding a surface that’s the perfect height.

If the surface is just a bit too high, you can spread your legs to lower yourself a bit. If your working surface is low enough, you can kneel to get the right height.

Why The Butterfly Sex Position Is A Secret Weapon For Smaller Guys

First of all, she gets to relax in a comfortable position which is required if she’s going to come.

It’s also fairly easy for you. No complicated or strenuous position to hold and it doesn’t require you to use much strength.

All in all, it’s a comfortable and easy position on both of you.

But here’s where this position really shines.

By lifting her core in the air, you tilt her pelvis.

Without this angle, you’ll thrust straight in and out of her without really touching her g-spot at all, unless you’re well hung.

By tilting her pelvis, you create an angle that makes it easy for you to thrust straight into her g-spot.

Pelvic Tilt — By lifting her butt (even just a tiny bit) you tilt the angle of penetration and hit her g-spot directly!

This slight shift in her position turns you into an instant stud that easily hits her g-spot without needing a huge dick and with no special moves or tricks.

Add to this the fact that her body is completely relaxed while she can look you in the eyes and you’ve got the perfect recipe for a powerful g-spot orgasm.

You might even make her squirt so have some towels nearby.

Here’s How To Blow Her Mind In The Butterfly Position

The butterfly is great for a lunchtime quickie on the dinning room table, but it’s also a great finishing move because it makes her come so hard.

So sometimes, save it as your finishing move.

As she’s lying on the bed, put your hand on her hips and pull her to the edge.

In Jiu Jitsu, controlling the hips of your opponent is essential.

When you control the hips, you control the body.

When you grab your woman by the hips and pull on them, she feels the control you have over her body.

Consciously or not, she thinks “if he can control my body, he can control my orgasms”.

Now that she’s in the right spot and willing to submit because you know how to control her body, grab her ankles and lift her legs up in the air.

Kiss the back of her calves and work your way down.

Tell her to hold her legs high and wide as you get down to your knees.

Now kiss, lick, and tease the back of her thighs as you work your way closer to her pussy.

Back off a bit and go back to her legs to create tension and desire.

Warm Her Pussy Up Before You Make Her Come

Using your thumb and index finger, pinch her outer pussy lips together.

What you’re doing is pinching her clit INDIRECTLY, through the skin of her lips.

Now gently start stroke her clit, as if it were a tiny dick.

This massages her clit indirectly which is key because she might not be warmed up enough for direct contact yet. If she is, you’ll just get her more amped and rearing to go.

Once she’s aching for more, slowly start to lick the hood of her clit. Again, don’t make direct contact. Just the hood.

When she’s ready for direct contact, start with one slow lick directly on her clit and pay attention to her response.

If it’s positive, keep going.

Of not, go back to playing with her indirectly until she’s ready.

Use her favorite oral technique to give her a clitoral orgasm.

Once she comes, give her a minute to cool down.

Tell her how sexy she looks when she comes.

Let her know how delicious she tastes.

Kiss and stroke her legs.

Stand Up, Grab Her Butt, And Get Into The Butterfly Sex Position

Since you just gave her a clitoral orgasm, her clit will be too sensitive to touch.

Her g-spot however, will be swollen and aching to feel you.

Rub your tip up and down against her opening for a few 10 – 20 seconds to build her desire.

Slowly enter just your tip inside of her.

Now pull it back out.

Do this a few times.

This will get her soaking wet and craving to feel all of you.

With every stroke, go just a bit deeper.

Start slow like this and build it up faster, harder, and more passionately.

Remember, the real trick to this position is the angle of her hips.

If you don’t want to hold her up anymore, put a pillow under her pelvis.

Now you’re free to pin her arms down, or pinch, twist, and pull her nipples… if she’s into it.

If ever you feel yourself getting close to coming before you’re ready, just pull out and go down on her again.

Try The Crossed Butterfly

As with every position, you wanna try different variations to find out which one works best for your woman.

A popular twist on the butterfly is to cross her legs so they make an X.

It tightens her up and make you feel bigger.

But remember, contrary to popular belief, bigger isn’t always better.

So try them both but read her feedback and don’t assume she’ll like one better than the other.

If the crossed version feels too tight, you can also try:

The One Sided Butterfly Sex Position:

Instead of crossing her legs, close them together and put them over the same shoulder.

This will make her tighter but not as tight as the X version.

This one also makes it easy for you to hold both her legs in place with one hand.

Now the other is free to roam.

Use it to play with her breasts, grab her neck, or hold one of her arms down.

Finally, another version of the butterfly that creates a completely unique sensation for her is:

The Curled Butterfly Position

Instead of having her legs straight up and against your chest, this version has her legs curled.

Fold her legs up towards her head and bend them at the knees so she can rest her feet on your chest.

This one folds her body in such a way that you might not even need to extra elevation of the pillow or your hands. Again, test out all versions to find her favorite.

Increase Her Odds Of Orgasm In The Butterfly Sex Position

Without question, the butterfly is one of the best positions for giving women g-spot orgasms… especially if you’re average or a little below in size.

That said, there is one simple strategy you can use to increase your odds of making her come.

Earlier, we talked about switching between oral and penetration in this position.

But do you know what type of oral works best for your woman?

Some like circular licks to the clit while others like it up and down.

Some get more pleasure when you suck on their clit.

Some women need you to finger them during oral in order to have the strongest orgasm.

If you’re wasting your time on a technique that doesn’t make her come, it doesn’t matter how good you are at it.

She won’t come.

If she does, it’ll be a weak orgasm compared to her potential.

To make sure you give your woman the most pleasurable and powerful orgasms possible, you need to adapt to her unique sensitivities and preferences.

Watch this video to Make Sure She Comes Every Time!

Give Her an Orgasmic Head Rush in The Wheel Barrow Sex Position

Remember wheelbarrow races? Well those skills you thought you’d never use in real life can finally be put to good use with the wheel barrow sex position.

It’s not the most orgasmic position for your woman cause it requires a lot of effort and will tire her out pretty quickly. But it can be a fun way to switch things up and get her blood flowing.

To get into this position, she starts by getting into a push up, plank, or downward facing dog position. Stand between her legs. Squat down. Pick her up by the thighs and stand up. Spread your legs a little with a bend in your knees and enter her from behind.

Keep in mind that not only does she have to hold herself up in this position, but she also has to keep her balance. If you thrust hard into her, you can easily knock her off her balance and send her crashing to the ground. So instead of pounding hard into her, work on swinging your pelvis without messing her balance. Ideally, you’re thrusting in and out and she isn’t moving at all. So keep your arms steady (since they’re holding onto her lower body) and don’t “smash” into her.

Benefits of the Wheel barrow Sex Position

One of the best parts of this position for you is the view. Not only do you get a great view of her ass, you’re also in the best position to see her pussy lips grip your cock as you slide in and out of her.

You get to go DEEP inside of her! It’s a great position to make your tip reach her deep spot. It’s a spot that doesn’t often get stimulated in traditional positions if you’re on the smaller side. So it’s a great position to make you reach that elusive spot and see her reaction. If she really digs the new feeling, learn other deep spot stimulation positions here.

Like many rear entry positions, the wheelbarrow is great for anal penetration. If she’s not into full on anal but does like to have her starfish tickled, wet a finger tip and massage it. Of course you’ll have to get a hand free which can be tough if you need to hold her up by both hips. We’ll talk about how to free up a hand below.

Build sexual trust in the wheelbarrow

Keep in mind that even if your girl is a fitness junkie, her arms will get tired real quick and she won’t be able to hold this pose for long.

Since her orgasm comes with continuous stimulation when she’s relaxed, it’s unlikely she’ll climax in this position.

So don’t expect too much in terms of her sexual pleasure.

Instead, use this position to build her sexual trust in you.

She’s going to get tired quick and she’ll get lightheaded from all the blood rushing to her brain. This can increase the excitement and arousal but it’s not good for too long.

So try it out, have some fun, and tell her when it’s time to take a break so that you can get her head higher than her heart again, and get her blood flow returning to normal.

It’s subtle, but it’ll increase her trust in you because it shows that her safety is your highest priority. Even above your pleasure.

She will notice this and she’ll be much more likely to do what you say in bed because she knows you’re looking out for her well being.

Now if she really likes the sensations of feeling you deep while she’s getting a bit of a head rush, try…

Different variations of the wheel barrow sex position.

The slightest change in a position can make all the difference.

Here’s a few variations to try.

Traditional Wheel Barrow

This is the traditional version of the position. Again, the thing you need to be most aware of in this version (other than her arms will get tired quick), is that her brain will fill with blood and she will get light headed cause her head is lower than her heart.

This can be pleasurable. But too much is not good. So don’t stay in this position too long.

If she likes the sensations, try one of these next 2 variations that mimics the traditional version more comfortably.

Leaning Wheel Barrow

The leaning version is just like the normal, only she’s leaning her upper body on a couch, bed, ottoman or anything that’s comfortable and the right height. If her head is slightly lower than her heart (such as the image here), she’ll be able to last much longer cause her arms don’t have to do any work and the blood doesn’t rush to her brain as quick.

Kneeling Wheel Barrow

Another version that keeps her head and heart at roughly the same level.

She can hold herself up on her hands or lean on her forearms.

If she leans on her forearms, it’ll create a different angle and will likely be more or less stimulating.

So it’s worth trying both to see what she likes best.

Wanton Wheel Barrow

Finally, this is the expert version of the wheel barrow. Only try this one out if she’s already extremely flexible and enjoys the traditional position.

It’s tough.

It’s not likely to produce orgasm.

But it’s worth a try cause it creates a totally unique angle and can help you find new parts of her that lead to more pleasure and orgasms.

If it does hit the right spot, make sure you try out other odd angle positions.

Stuck Home? Try The Dirty Disco Dancer Sex Position

Women love to dance. Why? It’s a socially acceptable way to express and release erotic energy without getting shamed for it.

It’s also a great way to get her an erotic state and feeling naughty.

But we’re living in strange times and going out for a night of dancing seems like something that won’t be happening for a while.

Give her the gift of dancing and build up some sexual tension with the dirty disco dancer sex position.

Think of it like a standing missionary position.

You both stand, facing each other and enter her from the front.

Depending on your body height difference, you might need to spread your legs and bend your knees a little. If you’re shaft is still too high to enter her, have her put one foot on a stool or stair.

This position is great for creating clitoral friction. You want your shaft to rub against her jewel so being slightly higher than her is a good thing.

This position is great for a quickie, but in this article we’re going to run through a fun scenario you can use when you’re stuck at home and your woman is missing going out in public.

Warm Up For The Dirty Disco Dancer Sex Position

Put on some music while you’re doing normal household chores. The goal is to get her to feel the music and get into her body before you make your move.
When she starts moving to the music, oogle her dance moves from across the room. Let her see your turned on gaze. You want her to feel as though watching her move to the music is turning you on.
Make your way over to her, take her by the hand and go to an open area with lots of space, like the dining room or living room.
Dance with her for a minute and get more and more sensual with your moves. You might start “dancing silly” and lead into more sensual grinding. Make sure you pick the right music before hand. You don’t want to grind her sensually during the chicken dance song.
Lead her towards a wall and back her against it.
Press your body up against hers (especially your pelvis) and start kissing her.
Slowly run a hand up her back, past her neck and up to her head.
Grab a fist full of hair (close to the roots) and gently pull on them in order to tilt her head to one side.
Kiss her neck on the exposed side.
Lift her arms over her head and pin them against the wall while you keep kissing her.
Tell her to leave her hands right where they are and slowly start lifting her shirt.
This is one of my favorite foreplay moves: Once her shirt or bra is right over her eyes, stop it there. Keep it wrapped around her arms and eyes. Removing her sense of sight amplifies her other other senses and makes her wonder what you’re going to do next.
You can also lift her shirt up to her wrists, tie them up and hook them on a hook or some type of handle. She’ll be able to see, but now she won’t be able to move.
Kiss, fondle, and enjoy her exposed stomach and breasts. Kiss every inch of her exposed upper body, EXCEPT for her nipples.
Use your tongue to make slow circles around her nipples. Tease them. Make her nipples crave your touch before you give it to her.
After 5 to 10 minutes of teasing her upper body, get down on your knees and remove her bottoms while you kiss and enjoy every exposed inch.
Tease the areas around her vulva. Spend a few minutes kissing everywhere around it. Move your way towards her panties, and kiss, lick and suck her THROUGH them.
Slowly remove them while you keep teasing her.
By now she’s likely aching to feel your tongue against her clit. Give her what she wants… but just a bit.
Stand up, put your hand on her neck, and start kissing her again while your gently rub your shaft against her clit.

Penetration In Dirty Disco Dancer Sex Position

Align your groins. If she’s shorter than you, you might have to spread your legs and bend your knees slightly. If she’s a lot shorter than you, you can also have her sand on some sort of stool or stair.
Enter only your tip to start. Tease her by sliding in your tip and then pulling out a few times. Do this a few times then pull out completely and rub your tip against her clit before making your way back in. It’ll give you a chance to get used to the sensation (if you have trouble lasting long), and it’ll get her revved up like nothing else!
When you finally let her have more, vary the depth of your thrusts in ascending order. Start with 9 “just the tip” thrusts then give 1 deep thrust. Then start over and do 8 tips, and 2 deep. Then 7 and 3. Keep going until you’re at 1 tip thrust and 9 deep, then turn around a go back the other way.
Find out what thrusting she prefers. Try staying all the way inside while you grind your pelvis against her clit. Try sliding in and out of her with your primary focus on your shaft sliding against her clit. Finally, stay completely inside her and try grinding her tip against different parts of her insides.
Keep holding her hands up in the air, lightly squeezing her neck, and kissing her while you fuck.
Switch up the type of sex. Go from slow and sensual, to a little rougher fucking, then back again.
Once she’s getting closer to coming (you can tell by her breathing, blushing, & thrusting back), stick to whatever it is you’re doing in that moment until she comes all over you. Don’t change a thing unless she specifically asks for it.
After she comes, take a minute to keep kissing and caressing her while she comes down.

Advanced Variations

This first variation can make you go a lot deeper.

If your woman liked it when you stayed deep inside her and moved your tip around, try this wrapped version. It’ll make you go much deeper and might just be the extra boost she needs to cross the finish line!

Start in the normal position, grab one of her thighs, and lift it to your waist.

Hold her thigh while she wraps it around your back.

It’s not the easiest position to hold and might make her orgasm harder to achieve, but it’s worth giving it a try to see if it works for her.

Finally, if your woman is really flexible and able to do the splits, try lifting her leg all the way up to and on your shoulder.

The majority of women won’t be able to do this but it can make for some fun times if your woman can.

Keep in mind her balance will be sketchy in this position, so make sure you hold her and stop her from tumbling over.

Spread you legs out and put your hands against the wall on each of her sides and you shouldn’t have any problems.

How To Use The Bodyguard Sex Position To Drive Her Wild

If you’re looking for a position that’ll make your woman wetter and hornier than ever before, you absolutely need to try the bodyguard sex position.

It’s a great position to start your romp session. It hits the perfect spots to get her dripping wet, it combines the romance of spooning with the dominance of doggy, and it allows you to set the frame for your session.

You can do the bodyguard anywhere. In the shower, kitchen, or the coatroom at your brother in law’s wedding.

In the bodyguard position, you’re both standing. The woman stands in front of the man with her back turned to him. He stands behind her and enters from behind.

As with any position, it’s all about the angle you enter her.

A slight height difference between the two of you can make all the difference in the angle at which the man’s erection enters. Therefor, the sensations felt by the woman can vary wildly by simply switching up the angle.

You can change the angle radically by having the woman get up on her tip toes, stand on a stair, or a stool.

The guy can also change the height and angle by spreading his legs wider apart, bending his knees a little, or both.

If the man thrusts straight back and forth, he might slip out of her easily, especially if he’s not on the bigger side.

The fix for this is for the woman to arch her back and tilt her pelvis.

On to the good stuff.

How To Transform The Bodyguard Sex Position Into An Unforgettable Experience For Her

The real magic behind this position is the fact that you can be slow and romantic AND also rough and dominant.

Here’s something you need to burn into your mind.

Women need BOTH slow, romantic, love-making, AND rough, animal sex.

As with anything in life, there are some exceptions.

But personally, I’ve yet to meet a woman who (under the right circumstances) doesn’t crave both.

Here’s the deal…

Slow, romantic, love-making makes a woman feel special, cared for, and even loved.

Hard, rough sex makes her feel sexy, wanted, and powerful.

All women want both of these different groups of feelings.

Some women might struggle to let themselves feel love out of fear, distrust, etc… but deep down, every human wants these feelings.

Most women NEVER get both these different groups of emotions from the same man, let alone at the same time.

The bodyguard sex position is PERFECT for this!

Use this position to easily switch back and forth from romantic lovemaking, to rough fucking.

Switch back and forth between the two and you’ll blow her mind in a way she’s likely never experienced before.

Start slow and gentle as you figure out the right angles.

Talk sweet into her ear.

Caress her body.

Run your hands lightly through her hair.

Then switch it up and get into primal mode.

Grab her hips and tug on them as you start to fuck her harder.

Switch your sweet talk into dirty talk.

Instead of gently running your hands through her hair, pull on it.

Then switch back to lovemaking.

She’ll feel a rare combination of loving connection, mixed with animal desire and passion.

Now here’s the key…

You MUST Stay Congruent

If you’re giving it to her hard, don’t tell her in a gentle voice how much you love her.

Talk dirty.

Pull on her hair (without hurting her of course).

Pin her arms against the wall.

Grab her hips and pull on them while you thrust.

When you slow it down and get into romantic mode, don’t choke her or get vulgar with your dirty talk.

Keep that slow energy and lightly trace your fingers up and down the sides of her body.

Gently run your hands through her hair and kiss her on the neck.

Weather you’re being rough and dominant, or slow and gentle, make sure everything is congruent.

Finally, remember this idea of rough and sensual isn’t an either or.

If a 1 is totally slow and romantic, and a 10 is the roughest sex you’ve ever had, you don’t have to always stay at a 1 or a 10.

Build your way up from a 1 to a 10.

Then progress back down.

Just make sure that everything is congruent.

If you’re thrusting is at a 5, make sure your language and emotion is at a 5 as well.

Work your way from one extreme to the other a few times and you will blow her mind with a sexual experience she’s likely never had before!