If you want to make your man erotically obsessed with you, there aren’t many moves that can compete with the laying on stomach blowjob position.
It’s sometimes referred to as the pose or the prone position blowjob.
This seemingly basic (yet incredibly powerful) BJ pose makes it easy to:
- Use your hands in a variety of ways
- Tease your man with visual stimuli that’s just not possible in other positions
- Keep control over your depth, speed, and rhythm
- Make him feel truly loved and even trigger deep feelings of devotion
For many guys, blowjobs are a sign of love. The only thing better than a great blowjob is a great blowjob that you enjoy giving him. When he’s convinced that you love taking him in your mouth, your man will go to the ends of the earth and slay dragons for you.
Whether your mission is to make him cum, make him forget about his ex, or make him so hard he loses all control, flips you over, and fucks you senseless… the laying on your stomach bj position is a must in every goddesses sexual repertoire.
What is the Laying On Stomach Blowjob Position?
As the name suggests, whatever version you use, you are on your stomach in the prone position.
Your man can lie down, lean, stand or sit, but the crux of it is that your stomach is always laying flat on the surface beneath you.
Your hands can be restrained behind your back, grabbing him in a variety of ways, or playing with yourself, but you are always on your belly.
How To Use Your Hands While Laying On Your Stomach
Unlike giving head while you’re on all fours, laying on your stomach offers a lot of creative options with your hands. You’ll still have to hold up a bit of your body weight, but the amount is massively reduced and can be done with as little as a single elbow or forearm.
This means you get to use your hands in some fun and tantalizing ways. Here are a few of my favorites.
- Pull his erect shaft down (towards his feet) with a finger or your mouth. When he’s fully erect, a little bit of downward pressure makes a high reaching erection feel even more intense. Don’t pull too much. Just enough to create a slight resistance.
- Pin him down. In the laying on stomach blowjob position, you’re running the show. You’re in charge. Make sure he knows it. Interlocking fingers and holding each others hands might be ok in the beginning while he’s still soft and getting worked up, but once he’s hard, pin his hands to his sides and make it known he’s not going anywhere.
- Grab, hold and pull on his thighs. Again, simply holding onto him subconsciously says you don’t want to stop. Add some slight pulling to subconsciously tell him you love what you’re doing and don’t want it to end.
- Right before he cums, make an ok sign with your fingers around his balls and carefully pull them away from his body. Like an orgasm prolonging magic trick, this lengthens the trip his semen needs to take, making his orgasm last just a wee bit longer.
Right after he cums, wrap a hand around his shaft, press your thumb tip against his corpus spongiosum and drain out every drop like a tube of toothpaste.
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Create Hypnotic Views He Can’t Look Away From
Everyone knows how visual men are. Even a slightly suggestive sight can make a man hard as steel.
When getting a blowjob, there’s no hotter view then to see your giver adore what they’re doing. Watching you smirk, smile, and laugh while working our cock can put us in a trance faster than anything else.
Creating Views When He Can See Your Face
In the standard version of this position, your man can see your face. Eye contact is possible, even easy with a slight head tilt on his part.
Pull his shaft down (like shown/talked about above), tilt your head, and:
- Look him in the eyes
- Smile with your mouth and eyes
- Take him as deep as you can while looking him in the eyes and wink at him
- When you need to come up for air, lick his shaft and let him see your tongue. Yup, guys are suckers for a clean, wet tongue lapping up their shaft.
Creating Views When He Can’t See Your Face
Below we’ll go over some of the best variations for the laying on stomach blowjob position. Some of these variations make it hard (even impossible) for him to see your facial expressions. In these versions, the tips above won’t be much help.
Here’s how to give him a killer view when you’re on your stomach but can’t see each others face:
- Lift your feet up in the air to trigger his foot fetish. Maybe he has a foot fetish and he doesn’t know it yet. Seeing your sexy soles while he’s deep in a state of bliss might just awaken that hidden fetish.
- Enhance your ass with a whale tail. If he’s sitting or standing, he’s going to have a rare upside down view of your butt. A timeless way to enhance this view is with bright and/or sexy underwear. If you still have pants on, pull your undies up slightly to give him a whale tail view.
- Let him be a voyeur. This one is kind of sneaky, but it works like gangbusters. Position yourself in front of a mirror so that he can look over and see between your legs. Rub yourself while devouring him. Stop for a second every now and then to let out a moan. While searching for the cause, he’ll eventually catch the reflection in the mirror and have a voyeurs view of just how turned on you’re getting from tasting him.
Different Ways To Do The Laying On Stomach Blowjob Position
When it comes to the way you’re positioned, there isn’t much room for variation.
Rest your forearms on the bed in front of you, or you place them behind your back. Clasp them together, grab your ankles, or get restrained with ropes or cuffs. Hug his hips or hold onto him in a variety of ways.
The real variants of this pose come down to his position. Here are the most common variants.
He Lies Down with you Between His Legs
In the most common version of this position, your man lies on his back starfish style while you lay between his spread legs. Compared to coming in from the side, your tongue is directly under his frenulum which is by far the most sensitive part of the entire penis. Swish your tongue from side to side or up and down while pressed against his frenulum and feel him absolutely melt.
Lean on your elbows and reach your hands up to fondle his balls and shaft. Switch things up by sliding your arms under his knees and reach his belly, pubic bone, and shaft from above.
When you’re ready to move on, pick yourself up and go into all fours – or – turn your body perpendicular to his so that…
He Lies Down while you Come In From the Side
Same as the previous version except you’re perpendicular to each other. From this angle he still gets to see your face and expressions, and he also gets to see (and play with) the rest of your body. He can caress your ass, explore between your legs, reach your boobs or hold and play with your hair.
Unlike other version, you can use all the visual tricks from both categories above. Take advantage of that well placed mirror off to the side of your bed and give him a show of you rubbing yourself while worshipping his instrument.
He Stands AKA Prone Face Fucking
This is the ideal version to submit for some face fucking. Contrary to previous version, he’s running the show now. Not you. He’s got total control over the thrusting and you don’t have any.
He can see your entire backside, lean over and spank you, fuck you with a finger or toy, or just admire the view while thrusting in and out of your mouth. Once he’s earned your absolute trust, he might restrain your hands behind your back while using your throat. OR you can restrain yourself by reaching back and grabbing your ankles.
He Sits AKA Game’s On
This one is similar to the sideways version of the laying on your stomach blowjob pose only he’s sitting instead of laying down. There’s a bit less room for you to work your magic since his thigh and belly are in the way. Try placing one hand behind his back and the other over his thigh. You can also try sliding your second hand under his thigh and reach his cock and balls from below. Just beware this version can put your arm to sleep fairly quick if he’s too heavy with his leg.
Use this pose while he’s playing a video game and challenge him to see how long he can keep his character alive. Or just use it while watching a movie when you’re in the mood to Netflix and chill.
Prone Dildo BJ Threesome
Finally, because I’ve been asked over and over about dildo threesomes and practicing blowjobs with dildos, I figured I’d share this gem.
Imagine practicing your blowjob skills and opening your throat on a dildo while your man gets on top and enters you from behind.
It’s a great way to get some sensations of a threesome without the jealousy. Do it in front of a mirror so he can see you suck a toy while he plows deep inside of you. Also opens up your throat and prepares you for the switch.
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