The Eiffel tower sex position is probably the most commonly used in mmf threesomes.
The women gets on all fours. One guy gets behind her doggy style. The other gets in front of her and receives a blowjob.
It’s more accurately called a split roast. But when both guys high five over the woman’s back, it becomes the Eiffel tower.
If you love hearing a woman moan while a cock is in her mouth as much as I do, this is the ultimate moaning bj position.
Eiffel Tower Sex Position Is Perfect For Hesitant Guys
A male, male, female (mmf) threesome is sometimes referred to as a Devil’s Threesome.
The most critical factor that will make a Devil’s Threesome enjoyable for the woman is the chemistry that the two guys have with each other.
Even if you don’t get physical with him, how comfortable you are with another dude in the room, banging the same woman, at the same time, is everything.
Look, it can be intimidating.
Awkward.
Emotionally confusing.
And it’s completely normal.
But how you deal with these emotions is the real key.
Do not make it a competition.
Rather a shared pool of pleasure… between the 3 of you!
The Eiffel Tower makes it easier to do this while overcoming the possibly tough emotions that can come with having a 3rd guy in the bedroom.
All 3 of you get to engage in the fun.
Guys are as far away from each other as possible… but you can interact with each other in a way that’s not too threatening or intimidating.
Looking each other in the eyes…
Simple, non sexual touching like a high five…
Watching each other having sex with the girl…
All of these can start to slowly make you both more comfortable with each other and thus, make her a lot more comfortable.
MMF Threesomes Are A Lot Of Work… For Her!
Never forget this.
On one hand, it’s an incredibly empowering thrill for a woman to have 2 guys needing, taking, and filling her body.
On the other hand, there’s a lot to do.
In my post on the 69 position, we talked about how focusing on the pleasure you’re receiving, while simultaneously trying to focus on giving pleasure can feel like a losing battle.
The same thing can apply in the Eiffel Tower.
You don’t want her to feel like she’s working twice as hard.
You want to make her feel twice as wanted.
One way to do this is for the receiver of oral to be patient and realize that she’s gonna need breaks to focus on the pleasure of being pounded.
One of the biggest complaints women have about giving blowjobs is that their neck and jaw can get sore.
So let her take breaks and jerk you off for a while.
Jerk yourself off while you watch her for a bit.
Switch into a double penetration position.
Or…
Get In Sync
As I said before, one of the most important factors in any mmf threesome is the chemistry between all 3 of you, but especially the 2 guys.
This applies to how you speak, choose positions, and how you thrust.
If you’re thrusting into her at one speed while your buddy is going at another, it can mess up her groove.
So thrust in sync.
One of the most intriguing and stimulating sensations for a woman during the eiffel tower sex position is the feeling of being fucked at one end only to then be pushed onto the other.
Every thrust she gets from the guy fucking her ends in being pushed back onto the other guy with her mouth.
She goes back and forth from being filled at one end to being filled at the other.
When both guys are in sync and time it right, it can make for unusually pleasurable sensations and also feel like she’s doing less “work”.
She doesn’t have to proactively give head, rather just enjoy being fucked from both ends.
That said, take turns.
When the guy doing the fucking is thrusting, the other can stay still and enjoy the sensation of her mouth being rocked back and forth on his shaft.
Then try the reverse.
Learn her limits and once you know how far back she can take your cock in her mouth, try both trusting into her at the same time.
Be careful with this though.
If you don’t take the time to learn her limits, you could easily choke her and ruin the experience.
Start slow and fill her from both ends as only as much as she’s comfortable with it.
Once you know her limits and you’re comfortable with the other guy, you can hold each others arms over her back and pull each other into her simultaneously.
The final option is for both you and the other guy to stay still while she rocks back and forth.
She gets to go at her own pace, speed and rhythm while you both relax and enjoy her erotic greed.
Give Her Sensory Overload
Another appeal to women about mmf threesomes is that she gets a total overload of sensations.
Double the hands…
the dicks…
and double the sensations!
As Justin Lehmiller, PHD says in his book Tell Me What You Want:
“… the appeal of threesomes has more to do with the fact that this activity creates a state of sensory overload than anything-it’s really about amping up our arousal by bringing in another body that we can look at, touch, and experience in an empowering way that allows us to get lost in sensations.”
So play it up.
Purposefully give her sensory overload.
Both grab her at the same time, allowing her to experience the sensation of having four hands all over her, admiring her body.
Blindfold her to take away her sense of sight, therefore amplifying the other senses.
Handcuff or tie her hands to make her feel even more submissive and taken.
Variations of the Split Roast / Eiffel Tower Sex Position
The traditional version is done when all 3 of you are on your knees, however there are lots of option.
Here’s a few to try:
Lazy-Bj Version
The guy receiving oral lies on his back while the other takes her from behind doggy style.
The challenge with this position is that she’ll be getting fucked and moving back and forth while trying to move her head up and down.
Sitting Tower Sex Position
Oral receiver sits on a chair or couch while the other kneels or squats behind the woman.
Unlike the lazy-bj version, this one makes it a bit easier.
The guy sitting can push his cock down a bit and make it easier for her to move back and forth on it rather than trying to coordinate the up and down while being pushed back and forth.
Over The Edge Eiffel Tower
She lies on her back with her head hanging over the edge.
This way the oral receiver can gently (or not) thrust in and out of her mouth while the other guy dominates her pussy at the other end.
When you’re the one getting oral in this version, figure out her limit before thrusting too fast, hard, or deep.
When you’re at the other end, take a moment to stop fucking and go down on her for a bit.
More MMF Positions
Many women have been fantasized about an mmf threesome and she likely has lots of different things she wants to try.
So try as much as possible.
BJ For Two
When a guy knows how to receive a blowjob properly, it turns a woman on like nothing else. But having another guy right next to you watching her work her magic can be one of the most empowering things she’ll ever experience.
DP Sandwich
If she’s into anal, give her that double stuff by one guy penetrating her ass while the other is in her pussy.
One can thrust while the other sits still or (if the position is right), you can both pound into her simultaneously.
Double Oral
She might love giving head and really trip on servicing two guys at once. When done right, there’s nothing like giving and getting oral at the same time.
If the guys are bi, you can get into a circle where you all get and give service at the same time.
The other option is to get into a split roast but instead of penetration, the male giver goes down on her.
She’ll be giving head at one end while receiving it at the other.
Delicious!