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Why Captain Sex Position Is So Good at Making Her Cum Again

So you just gave your woman her first orgasm of the night and now her body is primed for #2. You can put her into several different poses and in this article, I’ll make the case for why I believe the captain sex position is a top contender.

Unless you’re a complete rookie, you probably already know that man on top position like missionary or the C.A.T. are great for giving that first orgasm quick and easy. The downside (if there is one) is that these first orgasms are not the most powerful. But that’s ok. The purpose of that first orgasm is not to blow her mind with the best she’s ever had. The role of her first orgasm is to get the first one out of the way and put her body into “cum-mode.” Once she’s there, her rational mind melts away and her body takes over. Now it’s ready to achieve multiple, more powerful orgasms MUCH easier.

Enter the captain sex position.

To transition from a man on top position to the captain, put your weight on your knees, get upright, and lift her legs in front of you.

It’s similar to the butterfly and anvil, only you’re kneeling instead of standing, and upright instead of bent over.

Why the Captain Sex Position is so Effective at Making Her Cum A Second Time.

This position tops the list for a few key reasons. Each of which are powerful on their own but when combined often lead to extremely powerful, full body, orgasmic convulsions that most women will rarely (if ever) experience.

1) Let’s Her Relax Into Orgasm Mode

As guys it’s easy to feel a certain pressure to perform in bed, but we rarely consider that women feel that pressure too. Women feel a pressure to please and impress you use in bed. Paradoxically, they can’t perform “too well” or come of as very experienced and slutty. They need to fit inside that perfect box in the middle and that’s a very stressful and orgasm hindering task.

The captain takes away all that worry. The captain puts you in full control and absolves her of the pressure to perform. You can give her simple instructions – like telling her to hold her legs, play with herself, or tell you how much she loves it – and she can obey without worry or guilt because she’s simply following your directions. You are the one who’s taking the responsibility. Now she can enjoy without guilt or fear of being judged. By telling her to do those things, you’ve absolved her of the responsibility to choose where the line is and you’ve given her permission to enjoy and relax into an orgasmic state.

2) Smooth Transition Into More Intense Orgasms

Man-on-top positions are great for slow, romantic sex. That’s part of the reason the resulting orgasms are typically not as powerful. But as things heat up and your woman becomes more orgasmic, your position should reflect that. As implied by the name, the captain position puts you in control. You dictate the speed, movement, and rhythm. You can still gaze deep into her eyes, slow things down, and lean in for the occasional kiss, but you can also turn the heat up instantly. You can tell her to hold her legs, place a hand around her neck, and start fucking a little harder. You can start to control her body and manipulate her position by putting her legs together, crossing them, or holding her by the thighs instead of her ankles.

Pro Captain Tip: Either you will be holding her legs or she will. Either way, take control. When you’re holding her legs, move them around into different positions and tell her to play with herself. When she’s holding her legs, put your hand around her neck, play with her breasts and clit. The point is not to overload her with stimulation (although she will be getting LOTS) – the point is to let her know that YOU are in charge. YOU are leading her to pleasure (and orgasms). YOU are the captain.

3) Easily Target Intense, Full-Body, G-Spot Orgasms

If you’ve been reading this blog for any length of time, you already know the common in-and-out penetration move used by most guys rarely makes women come. In order to give a woman penetration orgasms, you need to target her “orgasm zones.”

There are 3 ways to target a woman’s Orgasm Zones. 1. Altering her position 2. Altering your thrusting motion 3. Altering both. In my experience, most women become orgasmic in the captain when you apply the third strategy.

Here’s how to target her g-spot for powerful orgasms in the captain sex position.

Step 1) Put a pillow under her butt to tilt her pelvis.

Step 2) Swing your thrust instead of moving back and forth.

Either one of these moves can make you hit her g-spot but in my experience the 2 combined together tend to lead to the best results.

Try one. Then try the other. Then try both. See what gets the strongest reaction from your woman and stick to that.

Hopefully this blog has given you a new insight into giving penetration orgasms. However experiencing it will change your sex life forever.

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The Doggy Style Trick That Makes Her Come First

Women LOVE the doggy style sex position.

Why?

- With every thrust, your balls slap her clit.
- Your hips smack her ass.
- It’s easy and natural for her to submit to you.
- Contrary to popular belief, doggy style doesn’t give g-spot orgasms… rather much deeper and more powerful “end zone” orgasms. (More on that in a minute).

But even with all that going for it, most guys only tap into a fraction of doggy styles full pleasure producing potential.

See, there’s a common misconception about doggy style that limits the pleasure you’re able to give your woman.

But once you understand what it is and how it works… it’s not uncommon to make a woman come in just seconds.

Sounds like bs.

I know.

So let’s just get to straight to it.

Forget The G-Spot, Doggy Style Hits Different

The common misconception is that doggy style gives women g-spot orgasms.

This is wrong.

The truth is that doggy style hits a much more powerful spot inside your woman.

When a woman bends over in doggy style, the vaginal canal “folds” and the distance from beginning to end become much shorter. This is why you can reach a lot deeper, even if you aren’t very large.

As you enter her, your shaft rubs against her g-spot, but ends up in her deeper (and much more orgasmic) “end zone”.

The technical term for this area is the fornix. Some call it the deep spot but this can be confusing because it’s not one spot and it’s not in the same place on every woman.

The fornix is more like a pleasure packed, circular cavity in the deepest part of the vagina.

Some women’s fornix is more sensitive on the posterior (towards her back), and others on the anterior (towards her front). Some are more sensitive on the right side, and others on the left.

The trick is to hit all these different areas until you can find out exactly where it is on your woman.

Once you do that… it’s game over.

She will come HARD and FAST!

Below, I’ll show you how to find this hidden sweet spot on your woman so you can nail it every time and give your woman the best dam doggy style she’ll ever have.

First…

You Need To Slow It Down, Champ…

The doggy style sex position is one that begs for rough, hard sex.

It’s not time to get all romantic and make slow love.

That said, you need to make her crave a hard fucking before giving it to her.

The way you do this is by teasing her and starting out slow.

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One of the strategies we use on the all-star team is extending gratification.

Every guy knows they need to tease their woman.

In other words, make her crave something before you give it to her.

But what happens once you finally give it to her?

The average guy immediately starts going harder, faster, and deeper.

But the all-start lover does things different. He extends the initial feeling of gratification as long as possible and brings her to the brink of ecstasy before he really gets started.

Imagine your woman bent over in front of you.

Most guys slide in and and start going hard as fast as possible.

But that initial moment when you finally enter her is so exciting, so satisfying, so gratifying… that you want to extend that feeling for as long as possible.

Here’s how to do it.

Start by rubbing the tip of your cock against her clit, then press your tip against her opening. Don’t go in just yet. Instead, press yourself against her opening.

Then go back to rubbing your tip against her clit.

The feeling of you pressing against her opening without going in will make her anticipate your entrance. AKA it’ll tease her and make her crave you inside of her.

Switch back and forth between rubbing her clit and teasing her opening for at least a minute.

Now here’s where you take this to the next level…

When you finally enter her… only let her have the tip.

Then pull out.

Give her just your tip again.

And pull out again.

Do this 9 times.

Then on the tenth, go all the way it. You’ll feel MASSIVE even if you’re on the smaller side.

Now pull out and go back to just the tip.

This time, give her your tip 8 times, and go balls deep twice.

Then 7 and 3.

Keep doing this till you reach 10 full, deep thrusts.

By the time you’re done, she’ll be on the brink of orgasm and you haven’t even gotten started yet.

Bonus Benefit: If you struggle with premature ejaculation, this technique is a must because it gets you used to the sensation without overload. In other words, you have much more control on when you unload.

If you want to take this to the next level, you can keep the pattern going in reverse.

Go from 10 deep and 0 shallow, to 9 deep and 1 shallow.

Then 8 and 2.

All the way back to the starting line.

Now that you’ve got her gushing wet and begging for more, lets’ get to…

Doggy Style Sex Position Variations:

There are 3 main variations of the doggy style sex position. Traditional, standing, and prone. But within each of these versions, there are small, simple shifts you can make that change everything.

This is what really matters.

It’s not about finding the wildest version you can pull off… it’s about finding the tweaks that work for your woman.

Lifting a leg, moving an inch forward or backward, or making a slight adjustment in your thrusts can be the difference between “Yes, I was close.” and “Oh My Gawd, how the hell did you do that?”

Remember, every woman’s “end zone” is a little different and the way you make up for that is by fine tuning little details of the position to hit her sweet spot just right.

Traditional Doggy Style Sex Position

This is the classic version of doggy style we all know and love. Your woman gets on all fours while you stand or kneel behind her.

This is a great version to start in for one simple reason.

Your woman has just the right amount of control.

You aren’t going as hard as she wants? She can back up harder onto you.

Going too deep to early? She can move forward as needed.

Not giving it to her fast enough? She can thrust back to makeup the difference.

Keep in mind that when you switch to a different variation, these preferences can change but this gives you a great starting point.

Once you’re confident that you know just how she likes it, grab her waist and take control.

As for tweaks, this version is all about height and tight.

By spreading your legs further apart or closer together, your pelvis will be aligned higher or lower with hers.

By spreading her legs further apart or closer together, she’ll feel more or less tight.

Face Down Ass Up (FDAU)

The traditional style is great for getting started. But it can quickly get tiring for your woman.

When she does get tired, the easiest thing to do is lean forward and rest her upper body on the bed while leaving her ass up in the air.

This completely changes the angle and leads to an entirely different sensation for her. So pay attention to the difference in her reactions.

Is she getting louder?

Grasping the sheets tighter?

Thrusting back a little harder?

Face Up Ass Up

In face down ass up, she lies her upper body down on the bed. In this version you bring her upper body up towards yours.

Again, this changes the angle completely and creates a whole new sensation for her.

When she’s in traditional doggy, put your hand around her neck and pull her towards you.

Kiss or lightly bite her neck and talk dirty.

Find Her Sweet Spot In Traditional Doggy

The way to fine-tune these versions of the traditional position is by honing in on the perfect angle.

Make sure you try all 3 of these.

Get on your feet and crouch over her. This will make the difference between hitting her anterior fornix (closer to her belly) vs hitting her posterior fornix (closer to her back).
Lift 1 of your legs while keeping the other in place. This will make you go towards one side.
Move 1 of her legs closer towards her head.

Remember, each of these versions will feel like an entirely new position to her. Any one of them can be the one that hits her end zone and send her to orgasm within seconds.

Standing Doggy Style Sex Position

Standing doggy is awesome for quickies, getting it on outside of the bedroom, or just mixing things up.

You Stand, She Kneels

Stand at the very edge of the bed while she’s on all fours.

Hit different angles by putting 1 foot on the bed and the other on the ground.

1 tweak to try in this version is to swing your thrusts rather than just go forward.

Really swing your hips and pelvis so that you’re going in and up, into her posterior fornix.

You Both Stand.

Great for shower sex, outdoor sex while you keep an eye out for peepers, or when you’re trying to make your way to the bedroom but you’re both so horny you can’t make it past the hallway.

Similar to traditional doggy, you want to test your angles.

She can stand up taller with her head closer to yours, or bend over forward with her hands closer to the ground.

Both versions make you hit different the different fornicies so try both and see what works for her.

If she’s flexible, or if there’s something to rest her hands on, she can lean forward and have you plowing into her spot.

The other version is to have her head up, towards you. Again, you can easily accomplish this by putting your hand on her neck and pulling her up to you.

You can also lift one of you legs to get the side angles and unlike when she’s on all fours, she can lift a leg as well.

You Stand She Leans

This one is all about her height and the height of your furniture.

Is your counter, kitchen table, or dresser about the height of her waist?

If so you can pull off a traditional standing doggy while she leans over the furniture.

She can also have her hands on the floor or pull a FDAU with her face down on the couch while standing.

This dramatically changes the angle and if she’s a posterior fornix girl… you’ll drive straight into her spot with every thrust!

Finally, we have…

Prone Doggy Style AKA Prone Bone

I’ve already done a full blog post on the prone bone position so I won’t go too deep here.

In this version your woman lies flat on her stomach while you enter from behind.

This position creates yet another completely different sensation on your woman and is a must try.

It doesn’t “fold” the vaginal canal as much as doggy so you won’t go as deep and you might not be able to reach her fornices, but you will hit her g-spot directly.

Just like everything you’ve learned so far, test out different angles.

By going higher or lower on her body, you change the angle and the spot you hit.

Put a pillow under her pelvis to change the angle and hit higher or lower.

Intertwine your legs on one side or the other to hit the different sides of her o’zone.

How To Last Longer In The Doggy Style Sex Position

If there’s one position where guys are prone to ejaculate prematurely, it’s doggy style.

There’s just something about seeing your girl bent over with her ass right there for the taking… that makes you want to bust.

If that wasn’t enough, it’s one of those position where she just wants it fast and hard.

We’ve already covered 2 great tips for lasting long during doggy in this article.

Longer Lasting Doggy Tip #1 Using the “just the tip” technique described above is an easy way to cool yourself down while building her arousal.

By entering just your tip and then pulling out, you allow the most sensitive part of your penis to get used to the new sensation. Before you overload the rest of you cock with sensation, the most sensitive part is already used to it so you don’t blow it too early.

At the same time, your womans level of arousal excels exponentially and by the time you go balls deep, she’s on the verge of climax.

Longer Lasting Doggy Tip #2 When using a standing position, thrust with your entire body, not just your core.

When you’re kneeling, you can only use your core and this makes your penis feel more sensation… sensation that makes you come.

When you stand, you can use the leverage of your entire body to thrust rather than just your core.

Add an upward swinging motion that aims for the fornix and you’ll turn her into a premature ejaculator while you have the stamina of a triathlete.

Longer Lasting Doggy Tip #3 Use short, shallow thrusts.

This one hasn’t been covered in this article so listen up.

If giving just the tip is how you get a woman warmed up and primed for orgasm, this is how you finish her.

Go as deep as you can inside your woman.

Instead of pulling out as much as you can, stay deep. Only pull out 1 or 2 inches, and then back in all the way.

This does 2 very powerful things.

It cuts your sensitivity down by 20% to 50%
It’s shortens your womans wait to have her end zone stimulated.

Instead of hitting her fornix every 3 seconds (for example)… you hit it every 1 or 2 seconds.

This creates a more consistent sensation instead of a pulsing one that leaves and then comes back.

If your using this style of thrusting along with the ideal position to hit her fornix… she can easily erupt in seconds while you remain cool, calm, and completely in control of your own orgasm.

These tricks are just the tips of her orgasmic iceburg:

If you dig the tips on this page, you’re going to love what I have for you next.

See, the truth about fucking is that most guys are amateurs.

Most guys just thrust in and out, as fast and hard as they can and then hope their girl cums.

That’s how amateurs roll.

The fact is that old school “in and out” style of penetration gives women very little stimulation.

The good news is that there are a handful of thrusting techniques that do give women the consistent, rhythmic stimulation they need in order to cum.

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How The Corkscrew Sex Position Turns Average Men Into Sex Gods

If you want your woman to see you as a sex god who satisfies every one of her desires, you need to start using the corkscrew sex position on a regular basis.

In the corkscrew, your woman lies on her back but her lower body is twisted to one side.

Her legs are folded at the waist and you kneel to enter her from behind.

Because of her “twisted” (screw like) position, you enter her at a unique angle and can hit some new territory of pleasure.

Since her legs are closed together, it makes for a tight fit.

Tighter for you.

More filling for her.

But that’s not why this position makes you a great lover.

To explain why this position is so powerful, we have to start with a few higher level sex strategies.

Stick with me for a minute while I explain and you’ll never be the same lover again.

One of The Key Elements To Satisfying All Your Woman’s Needs In Bed Is To Create Variety

Variety is the spice of life.

It’s also one of the key ingredients to a great sex life.

Even the best lover can become boring in bed if he doesn’t know how to give his woman a variety of sexual experiences.

When most guys hear the word variety, they immediately think of using different sex positions.

That’s why blogs like this one exist.

Switching up your repertoire of positions is a quick and easy way to mix things up and start turning around a boring sex life.

Using different positions can give you woman completely new sensations.

They can hit new pleasure spots she’s maybe never felt before.

And they might even be exactly what she’s missing if you’re not giving her the orgasms she desires and deserves.

But there’s another – even more powerful – reason why a variety of positions is so important.

Different Positions Create Different Emotions, And Emotional Variety Is What Women Crave Most

Some positions (such as missionary) are great for making love.

You’re face to face.

Your entire bodies are glued together.

You can feel each others heartbeats, warm skin, and breath.

Other positions (like doggystyle) make it easy for you to take charge.

Give your woman rough, hard sex.

And make her feel taken and ravished.

Some positions make her FEEL more submissive, sexy and wanted.

Others make her feel more connected, loving, and cared for.

Giving your woman a variety of sensations AND emotions is the trick.

Now, here’s how this might look in the real world.

The Best Lovers Use Both Short & Long Term Variety

If you’re in a long term relationship, it’s crucial you give your woman variety in the long term.

Make love to her sometimes. Other times have hard, dominant, rough sex.

Have sex at night before bed. And sometimes have sex in the middle of the day.

Get it on in the bedroom. Get it on in the kitchen or car.

These are all examples of long term variety that keep a womam craving sex as a relationship matures because she’s knows it’s a new and exciting thrill every time. It’s not gonna be the same ol routine again.

But another great way to make sure your woman can’t get enough is to create a variety of experiences and emotions in a single session.

Sometimes, start your session with slow love making and by the end, you’ve transitioned into rough, dominate fucking.

Sometimes you start in the kitchen, then make your way through the hallway, and finally end in the bedroom.

This is short term variety.

Short term variety is something that very few men ever use and it instantly sets you apart as a great lover who meets all her needs and never leaves her longing for something more.

Now here’s why the corkscrew sex position is so powerful for short term variety…

The Trick To Short Term Variety Is Smooth Transitions

When you’re making love, you don’t want to transition into rough sex by suddenly choking her, slapping her ass and fucking her hard.

It would break the mood in a way that just doesn’t feel natural.

Instead, you want to transition gradually.

You want to start slow (for example) and gradually get more passionate, rougher, and more dominant.

Side note: One of the reasons women love rough sex is because it makes them feel sexy and wanted.

It makes a woman feel like she sexy and makes you so hard that you’re barely able to control yourself.

On the other hand, women also enjoy slow love making because it makes them feel special, cared for, and loved.

So start by making love because she’s beautiful, you love her, and want to be close.

But as you start making love, you start getting harder and more turned on, to the point where you’re barely able to control yourself.

YOUR emotions have GRADUALLY shifted from loving her and wanting to be with her, to being so rock hard and feeling a deep desire to fuck her.

This “darker” arousal usually builds over time. It doesn’t just turn on like a light switch.

How To Use The Corkscrew For Mind-Blowing Transitions

The same way that some positions are better for love making while others are better for rough sex, some positions are great for transitioning between the two.

The corkscrew is one of those positions.

Here’s how you might use the corkscrew to transition from slow love-making position, to a rough sex position.

Start in a kneeling butterfly.

The butterfly position is great for giving g-spot orgasms or, if you don’t want to make her come just yet, you can use it to warm her g-spot up for a much more intense orgasm later on.

It’s also a relatively “romantic position” cause you can look your woman in the eyes, gently caress her body, while you hold onto her legs.

After warming her up with slow thrusts along her g-spot, keep one of her legs against your chest and spread the other, laying it down on the bed.

Keep penetrating her slowly in this version but gradually start to get a bit more passionate.

Moan a little more and let her know (with your sounds, words, and actions) that you’re getting more and more turned on.

Now take the leg that’s against your chest and put it down, resting on the other. This is the corkscrew sex position.

Again, turn up the arousal and dominance a bit more.

Grunt and moan from deep within your stomach.

Slap and squeeze her ass while letting her know how sexy it is and how much it’s turning you on.

Grab a boob, pinch a nipple or two, and if she’s into it, give her breast a little slap.

Remember, you’re starting to get much more turned on by this point and your actions are in sync.

Finally, flip her over onto her stomach into the prone bone position.

This is one of my favorite positions because it hits the g-spot directly and produces some incredibly powerful orgasms.

By this point your arousal is at a 10.

You might be pinning her arms down – which women LOVE during rough sex cause they can submit and feel your arousal.

Keep fucking her hard and deep until she comes.

If at any point you feel like you might come before you’re ready, or you just need a break, gradually slow down, pull out of her, and go down for a bit.

Go down in the forbidden fruit until you’re ready to get back on top.

But remember, she’s in a rough sex state so keep the emotions congruent.

Grab her hips – women love this cause they feel like you have total control over their body.

Slap her ass a bit and let her know how sexy it looks.

Once you’ve cooled down, get back on top and ride her to orgasm!

Remember, the corkscrew sex position puts her body in an unusual position where you’ll likely hit new pleasure spots inside of her.

You might be hitting pleasure spots she never even knew she had.

So pay attention to her feedback and make note of anything that really gets her going.

If you want to know exactly how to ready her body like a book (even if she doesn’t give any feedback at all), watch this video to learn my dirty-mind-reading technique.

Why The Best Lovers Use The Side Straddle Sex Position So Often

The side straddle sex position is one of the most important in a great lovers sexual arsenal.

Not only does it give unusually unique and pleasurable sensations for your woman, it also creates one of the most important elements of a satisfying romp… smooth transitions.

In this article you’ll learn:

Why “transition positions” are such a key ingredient to being an amazing lover… and why the side straddle is one of these key positions.
How the side straddle automatically prevents one of the most common penetration mistakes men make.
How to use the side straddle to give your woman one of the most pleasurable, exciting, and orgasmic experiences of her entire life.

First, let’s take a look at…

How To Get Into The Side Straddle Sex Position

While your woman is lying on her side, lift her upper leg, and straddle the other. Hold (or even hug) her upper leg against your chest.

Since she’s on her side while you’re on top, it makes you enter her at a very unusual angle… but one that’s deliciously pleasurable.

Since you both have your legs spread and you enter at an angle you’re going to go much deeper inside of her.

Because of this, you’re going to hit all different kinds of deep pleasure zones that she might have never even known were there!

Meanwhile, depending on weather you hold her leg or just let it rest against you, you can have 1 or both hands free to roam.

Grab her ass with one hand while fondling her breasts with the other.

Or use a hand to play with her clit, while you rub her insides with your tip.

It Makes You Last Longer… WHILE Making Her Come Quicker!

Unlike other positions that make it easy for you to thrust straight in and out very fast, this one makes that hard to do.

Inexperienced lovers might think this is a bad thing, but it’s actually one of the keys that makes this position so great!

Why?

It slows you down and prevents you from coming too quick.
It forces you to thrust in a way that makes women come.

See, women don’t often come from the same kind of penetration that men do.

For a guy to come, he just needs to thrust straight in and out. The faster and harder, the sooner he comes.

But women don’t get much stimulation to their “orgasm triggers” from that type of thrusting.

In order for a woman to come, you need to thrust in a way that stimulates the right spots, such as the clit or g-spot.

Notice when a woman gets on top to ride you, most don’t bounce straight up and down on your cock. Unless she’s a pornstar or stripper, this just isn’t what get’s women off.

What does a woman do when they get on top?

She GRINDs you.

She gets on top, and rather than focusing on your dick going in and out, she focuses on rubbing her clit against your pubic bone and shaft… WHILE you’re inside of her.

Bottom line, this position makes it hard to “pump” in and out of her – the kind of stimulation that makes us come…

And it makes it easy to grind her – the kind of stimulation that makes her come!

So when you’re in the side straddle, grind, don’t pump.

Why The Best Lovers Use The Side Straddle Sex Position So Often

If you’ve been studying how to be a great lover for any amount of time, then you know about the importance of variety.

Women NEED a variety of sexual experiences in order to stay hungry for sex.

This applies to

the emotions she feels during sex
the types of orgasms (IE: oral, fingering, vaginal, anal, etc)
the types of stimulation (IE: clitoral, g-spot, a-spot, etc)
the positions you use.

In this article, we’re focusing on positions and emotions.

If you’re always using the same 2 positions, she’s eventually going to get bored.

Most guys know this.

What isn’t talked about as often by sex educators and “gurus” is the importance of smooth transitions from one position to the next.

If you’re fumbling around and clanking heads to switch positions, it’s going to throw her off her game.

It messes with the emotions needed to orgasm.

All that positive, erotic emotion you built up can dissolve in an instant with one bad fumble.

Transitioning smoothly between positions keeps her in an erotic and orgasmic state. And when you do it right, it even amplifies her pleasure and arousal.

So how do you transition from one position to another?

One step at a time!

Here’s an example.

2 of the most commonly used positions are missionary and doggy.

Use The Side Straddle To Transition From Missionary To Doggy

Start off slow in the missionary position to make her feel safe, care for and loved.

Kiss her.

Whisper some sweet nothing in her ear.

Get present and FEEL your arousal build. Because women are so intuitive, it’ll cause her to feel the same.

Now, SLOWLY pull out of her while looking her in the eyes (with a flirty grin on your face) and keep feeling your arousal.

Put a hand on the bed (for support) and lift one of your knees over one of her thighs to straddle her.

Grab her other leg and slowly lift it up towards your chest while gently kissing it a few times.

When you do this, her core will naturally start to rotate and tilt her upper body on its side.

It’ll feel very smooth and natural to her and it’ll build her arousal cause she’ll anticipate what’s happening next without having to think about what to do or what position to get in.

Now rest her leg against your chest, and start to tease her clit with your tip.

Rub it against her clit side to side, up and down, and in circles.

Now rub your tip against her opening for a minute.

Tell her she isn’t ready for it yet to build her desire.

When you’re ready, slowly enter her again.

Now’s the time to start turning up the emotion and arousal a bit more.

Slowly and gradually start to build up the intensity and fuck her a little harder.

Grab her boobs a bit more passionately.

Turn your sweet nothings into slightly dirtier talk.

Feel your arousal getting more intense as your actions follow.

Notice hers doing the same.

Now take her leg off your chest, and move it the other way, towards the other side of the bed.

Try to stay inside of her while doing this.

Now turn everything up to the next level.

Get a little rougher again.

Grab her boobs a little harder (always being careful not to hurt her of course).

Maybe tug on her hair a bit or slap her ass.

Remember, keep dialing up the arousal, dirty talk, and movements all in sync to make the transition as smooth as possible.

Once her emotion is turned on as much as yours…

Grab her upper arm and pull it towards the bed to flip her completely over and take her from behind.

And that’s it!

This is how you use the side straddle sex position to transition from “love-making” missionary to rough from behind doggy.

But these same concepts can be used to transition to and from lots of positions.

Here are the keys to remember.

Do it gradually. In increments.
Find a leverage point to move her around easily (in this case it was her leg)

Make sure to keep the emotions & actions in sync. Don’t make slow, gentle love while pulling her hair and telling her you love how slutty she is. Keep everything congruent!

Bridge Sex Position – Crab Yoga Pose In Bed

It looks like it belongs in an advanced yoga class, but the bridge sex position can have a profound impact on your sex life.

Look, it’s not easy.

If comfort is what you’re after, this is not the pose you’re looking for.

But, there are 3 reasons you should try it.

1. It’s a great way to add variety to a stale routine.

2. It gives the woman a mid session stretch that’ll get her primed for the second half.

3. It can help a woman discover new depths of herself that lead to pleasure and potentially, orgasms!

First, a quick look at the basics.

The woman gets on all fours, but in reverse.

Instead of facing the bed, couch, or grass (you wild adventurer), she’s on her feet and hands, with her back facing the bed or ground.

She starts by laying down, then lifts her knees, bends them, and places her feet flat on the floor.

Using the muscles in her legs, she lifts her butt off the floor.

At the same time, she puts her hands on the ground (behind her) and uses them to lift her upper body. Told ya, it’s not an easy one.

The man gets on his knees between her legs and holds her hips for support.

Different Ways To Thrust

It might look like you don’t have many options in this position but there are a few.

One way to mix it up is for the man to try different ways of thrusting.

Different thrusts can create completely different sensations.

So try these 3 variations to find out what works for you.

1. He thrusts back and forth while she holds herself in the same position.

2. He man puts his hands on the woman’s hips and pulls her onto him.

3. Instead of either partner moving back and forth, the man grinds his pelvis against the woman’s clitoris.

All 3 of these variations will feel completely different for the woman so make sure to give each one a fair trial.

A Bridge Sometimes Needs Help

Even the most acrobatic woman won’t be able to hold this position for long. But if she enjoys it, using a prop for support can help her last longer.

Place something under her back for support. You can use a literal (not really) ton of pillows, a sex wedge, an exercise ball, or a workout bench.

Now she can relax and enjoy without having to exert so much energy to hold the position.

A Bridge Isn’t Built In A Day

If she can’t pull off the full bridge sex position yet, work your way up to it.

These variations don’t require as much work, yet still deliver most of the benefits.

You might also find one of these modified versions actually delivers more pleasure than the traditional pose.

Instead of her upper body being held up by only her hands, she can lean on her elbows and forearms.

If she does this while resting her shoulder blades on the bed, she also frees up her hands to play with herself.

If the man grabs her butt, he can hold all the weight and the woman can enjoy with little if any effort on her part at all.

It’s like an amplified version of missionary. She’ll feel tighter (from the flexing of her core) and also be able to play with herself.

Taking The Bridge Sex Position To The Next Level

One of the main reasons women never orgasm from penetration is that the man thrusts straight in and out. This basic thrusting doesn’t stimulate the clit, g-spot or any other orgasm educing areas.

If you want to make your woman come during penetration, you’ve got to hit the right spots.