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The Kivin Method AKA Sideways Oral with Pics and Animations

The Kivin Method

You’ve probably heard that oral sex is the easiest way to get a woman off, but if you’re struggling to make it work for you woman, the kivin method might be exactly what you need.

Traditional cunnilingus positions only deliver a fraction of pleasure potential and often to the wrong place. The kivin method provides way more pleasure and does so exactly where it’s needed, resulting in much stronger and quicker orgasms.

What is the kivin method?

The kivin method is more of a position than a technique. Here’s how it works.

Like usual, your woman lies on her back, legs spread. But instead of lying on your stomach and coming straight on from in between her legs, you come in from the side. Here’s what it looks like:

Now, when you lick up and down, it’s going to stimulate her side to side instead of up and down. It might not seem like it at first, but this is a total game changer.

Here’s why:

 

 

 

 

 

 

Your tongue makes contact with much more of the clit at once. It takes a lot less time to cover the entire clit and make its way back. Take a look and both these animations. Imagine the blue line is your tongue making its way up and down. Notice how long it takes to cover the entire clit in the first version and how quickly you engage the entire clit in the second. A lot more pleasure, faster.

All this extra pleasure is only delivered where it’s welcome so you don’t overstimulate her. Until your woman is really aroused, the clitoral head is often too sensitive for direct contact. Traditional oral ignores this by licking up and down, head to shaft. This can deliver short bursts of pleasure interspersed with shorter hits of too much sensitivity. Not good. By going sideways, you can ignore the head and focus only on the shaft until her arousal is up and her clitoral head is eager for action. Then you can move over towards the head and include it in your play to provide direct stimulation to both parts instead of just one at a time.

The Kneeling Kivin
The Kneeling Kivin

You can add labia licks too! The labia (aka outer lips) are the female equivalent of the male testicles. Not knowing this, most guys completely ignore them. When you start licking your girl kivin style, you can send your tongue a little further with every stroke, including her labia in the fun.

Easier access for your hands. In the old school (between both legs) position, incorporating your hands can be a challenge. Your chin is in the way on the bottom, and playing on top just requires a odd and uncomfortable placement for you hands. But kivin makes hand play easy. When performing sideways oral, both sides are unobstructed and easy to access.

Many women report cumming much faster and easier when introduced to the kivin.

Take reddit user PokerBabe25 for example.

In this post about the kivin, she expresses her frustration in not making her wife cum from cunnilingus. ‘I’ve always enjoyed performing oral sex on my partners, often with “good results” but with my wife my usual techniques almost never bring her completely to orgasm. She gets very close, but I could barely ever get her there.’

Before finding kivin, she poured in tons of effort while falling short to deliver: ‘I often go 15-20 minutes and have her teetering on the edge without managing to get her to come.’

After a bit of tweaking with the kivin method: ‘She came within about 5 minutes of me finding the rhythm and best hand positon! This was definitely a big change’

With results like that, the kivin is a must try!

Is the Kivin Method guaranteed to work?

Maybe, with some women. For others, no. It’s such a radically different experience for a woman that you just need to try it. It can be the difference between giving her light, playful orgasms that ‘feel good’ vs earth shattering eruptions of bliss that literally change her life forever. So for gods sake, try it!

Press a fingertip or thumbpad against her taint.
Pressing the taint

How can you tell if your woman likes it more? Well relying solely on your girls feedback is not always the best move. She might bend the truth to spare your feelings or she might not know that more pleasure is possible. While you should absolutely encourage feedback, you want to learn the pleasure signals that do not lie. The physical cues she can’t control. In the make her come first formula, you learn all these unconscious ‘tells’ but for now, here is one of the easiest to use in the kivin method.

Place your thumbpad or finger tip on her taint (the area right between her vaginal opening and anus.) As she approaches orgasm, her taint will produce involuntary contractions. In other words, you’ll feel it pulsate. She can’t fake this. Once you’ve done this a few times, you’ll also start to notice some other tells she does naturally when nearing her peak. Maybe her eyes roll back in some unique way or her lips do something funny. Tuck that nugget of info in your memory to read her orgasm next time you don’t have a finer on her taint.

Conclusion:

The kivin method will either prove to be the best way to go down on your girl or not. Either way, you owe it to yourself to try it out. It just might have the biggest impact on your sex life of anything you ever do.

When you’re ready to master every aspect of going down, check out the make her come first formula and give your girl the best oral of her life, guaranteed!

Face Sitting Femdom Position – The ultimate BDSM kink to learn…

face sitting

Face sitting AKA queening is when a woman sits on your face and allows or forces oral. It’s often associated with femdom and bdsm.

Your woman can kneel, squat, or sit on a throne. Yes there are actually “thrones” made and sold for the sole purpose of face sitting.

She can face your head, a side, or your feet.

reverse face sitting

Although there is one issue with the latter.

Facing towards your feet can take away from the pleasure for her because seeing your lonely cock sit there unattended can make her feel like she should bend over and please you too.

On the other hand, if going down on your girl makes you hard, seeing you progressively get harder and she sits on your face can be a major turn-on.

One way to get the benefit while avoiding the con here is to use this version of the position while you’ve got your underwear still on. A barrier that prevents her from going down while also being loose or thin enough for your erection to be obvious through them.

WARNING ABOUT FACE SITTING:

Safe words are a must with risky positions like this. In the case of face sitting, safe words don’t cut it since you might not be able to get any words out. So make sure you get clear on a safe ACT. Tapping out on her thighs is a simple a effective one that should do the trick.

squatting face sit

There are 2 main techniques for face sitting. She can sit still while you work your magic. Not easy since your neck will have to fight gravity the entire time.

Or you stay still while she grinds away and fucks your face. Relax, pay attention to her movements, and this can be the most exciting reconnaissance mission of your life.

Use this experience to learn everything you can about your girls oral preferences. Notice the speed, pressure, and rhythm she uses to grind your tongue. Notice if or how these elements change as she gets more and more into it. Take not of every move she makes and your oral game will have no choice but to level up immediately.

If you want to discover the exact move that’ll make her pussy come hardest, watch my Make Her Come First video now.

Forbidden Fruit Sex Position AKA Oral Doggy Style

If you love eating out and eating ass, you’re in for a sweet treat with the forbidden fruit sex position.

It’s the ultimate position for ass loving, oral aficionados.

Forbidden fruit sex position

In this cunnilingus position, your girl gets on all fours while you kneel behind her and go to town.

She can get into the traditional doggy with her knees and hands on the bed, or get into a face down ass up version where she lies her chest and head on the bed. By going with the face down ass up version, she can relax more of her body and achieve orgasm more easily. Her pelvis also tilts in the version, giving you easier access.

face down ass up oral

Another variation of the forbidden fruit is for her to lie flat on her belly with her legs spread. The only problem with this version is that it can be tough on your neck. Put a pillow or sex wedge under her pelvis to raise and tilt her core, giving you easier access and relieving some strain on your neck.

Forbidden fruit sex position flat on pillow

Why use the forbidden fruit sex position?

  • You can use your fingers, a toy, and your mouth all at the same time to give her simultaneous pleasure.
  • If she’s in the face down ass up version, she can put an arm under her belly and play with her clit while you penetrate her pussy and stimulate her ass.
  • You’ve got the best view in the house!
  • But the biggest benefit to this position is that it’s a perfect intro to anal!

If she’s never tried anal, or if she’s hesitant to do so, the forbidden fruit just might be the move that changes her mind!

Start by giving her an oral orgasm or two in this pose. Once she’s in an orgasmic state, lick her ass. If she’s never experienced this before, she’ll be shocked at how pleasurable it is and will start to wonder what other pleasures her end zone can experience.

WARNING: Never, I MEAN NEVER, try to stick anything in her ass without her permission. If you take advantage of the fact that she’s exposed her ass to you like this, she will never trust you again. And she shouldn’t.

But, you can make her crave anal penetration by giving her a taste of what anal stimulation can feel like.

Once you’ve licked her ass and she gave you some positive feedback, wet your finger tip and lightly press against it against her ass while massaging it in circles. AGAIN, DO NOT enter her ass… the goal here is to give her pleasurable anal stimulation and make her crave more.

Use a dildo or vibrator on her pussy while licking and gently rubbing her anus.

If this doesn’t make her willing to try anal right away, don’t push it. If you made it a pleasurable experience, she will think about it later on and likely start to become more open to the idea.

Use the Forbidden Fruit Sex Position to Last Longer In Doggy and Give Her Double Orgasms!

We all love doggy style. Both men and women often say it’s their favorite position.

The biggest problem men have with this position is that it can be tough to last long in.

By switching back and forth between doggy style penetration and doggy style cunnilingus (AKA the forbidden fruit), you can give yourself a break and “cool down” whenever you need to, WHILE continuing to build her orgasm with oral!

Here’s a full forbidden fruit sex position routine you can use to enjoy doggy and give her 2 orgasms! Some of these tips might seem basic, but I’ve added in a few advanced tricks to really take things to the next level so read ever word that follows!

Step 1. Get her into the doggy position and go down on her. Take short breaks to massage and slap her ass while telling her how sexy it is.

Step 2. Stand up and tease her with your cock by rubbing it against her clit. DO NOT INSERT YOUR PENIS!

Step 3. Go back to oral. This time, start incorporating your fingers. Start by licking and sucking her clit to get it wet with your saliva. Now replace your mouth with your fingers. Use 2 fingers and place them one on each side of her clit. Gently stroke her clit back and forth trying to keep the same type of pressure and rhythm you had with your mouth. Now use your tongue to lick up and down her slit.

Step 4. Start rubbing the tip of your finger against her opening in an up and down motion.

Side note: Since she can’t see what you’re doing, her excitement and anticipation will go through the roof. Use that to your advantage and always keep her guessing by switching things up!

Step 5. Slowly enter the tip of your thumb or finger. Make sure your thumb (or finger) print is facing up, towards her butt. Slide in 1 to 2 knuckles and gently pull up. This mimics the sensation of being penetrated much more than jabbing a finger in and out. Keep doing this for 20 to 30 seconds while you tell her how wet she is, how hot her moans are making you, and how much she wants you inside of her.

Warming her op for doggy style

Step 6. Tell her she isn’t ready for it yet. Pull your thumb or finger out and go back to giving her oral.

Step 7. By this time she’ll be soaking wet and dying to feel you inside of her. It’s time to give her what she wants… but just the tip. You’re going to drive her wild with anticipation and desire. Slowly enter just the tip of your penis inside her, and pull it back out. Then slowly enter her again with just your tip and pull out. Do this 9 times. On the 10th time, go all the way in. Even if you’re average size, you’ll feel MASSIVE to her! Now pull out and start over with 8 shallow thrusts and 2 deep. Keep following this pattern until you’re giving her only deep, powerful thrusts.

Step 8. Pull out and go down on her whenever you start to feel your orgasm approaching. Don’t wait. The longer you wait the more time it’ll take you to recover. Do this every time you feel your orgasm approaching and soon you’ll have strengthened your stamina and be able to pound her as long as you want!

Step 9. Make her come! While many women can have penetration orgasms fairly easily in doggy style, you’ll drastically improve her chances when you give her a foreplay orgasm first. The only question is, what technique is most likely to give her that first orgasm? That’s what this video will show you.

If you want to make sure she comes first every time, you need to follow the 5 scientific steps of female orgasm and you need to fine tune them to match her preferences.

Not all women like the same things.

Some like to have their clit sucked gently while others prefer quick flicks of the tongue.

Some come easier from “jilling off” their clit and others need to be rubbed in a circular motion.

Watch this video to find out exactly what makes your woman come the hardest!

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