So you just gave your woman her first orgasm of the night and now her body is primed for #2. You can put her into several different poses and in this article, I’ll make the case for why I believe the captain sex position is a top contender.
Unless you’re a complete rookie, you probably already know that man on top position like missionary or the C.A.T. are great for giving that first orgasm quick and easy. The downside (if there is one) is that these first orgasms are not the most powerful. But that’s ok. The purpose of that first orgasm is not to blow her mind with the best she’s ever had. The role of her first orgasm is to get the first one out of the way and put her body into “cum-mode.” Once she’s there, her rational mind melts away and her body takes over. Now it’s ready to achieve multiple, more powerful orgasms MUCH easier.
Enter the captain sex position.
To transition from a man on top position to the captain, put your weight on your knees, get upright, and lift her legs in front of you.
It’s similar to the butterfly and anvil, only you’re kneeling instead of standing, and upright instead of bent over.
Why the Captain Sex Position is so Effective at Making Her Cum A Second Time.
This position tops the list for a few key reasons. Each of which are powerful on their own but when combined often lead to extremely powerful, full body, orgasmic convulsions that most women will rarely (if ever) experience.
1) Let’s Her Relax Into Orgasm Mode
As guys it’s easy to feel a certain pressure to perform in bed, but we rarely consider that women feel that pressure too. Women feel a pressure to please and impress you use in bed. Paradoxically, they can’t perform “too well” or come of as very experienced and slutty. They need to fit inside that perfect box in the middle and that’s a very stressful and orgasm hindering task.
The captain takes away all that worry. The captain puts you in full control and absolves her of the pressure to perform. You can give her simple instructions – like telling her to hold her legs, play with herself, or tell you how much she loves it – and she can obey without worry or guilt because she’s simply following your directions. You are the one who’s taking the responsibility. Now she can enjoy without guilt or fear of being judged. By telling her to do those things, you’ve absolved her of the responsibility to choose where the line is and you’ve given her permission to enjoy and relax into an orgasmic state.
2) Smooth Transition Into More Intense Orgasms
Man-on-top positions are great for slow, romantic sex. That’s part of the reason the resulting orgasms are typically not as powerful. But as things heat up and your woman becomes more orgasmic, your position should reflect that. As implied by the name, the captain position puts you in control. You dictate the speed, movement, and rhythm. You can still gaze deep into her eyes, slow things down, and lean in for the occasional kiss, but you can also turn the heat up instantly. You can tell her to hold her legs, place a hand around her neck, and start fucking a little harder. You can start to control her body and manipulate her position by putting her legs together, crossing them, or holding her by the thighs instead of her ankles.
Pro Captain Tip: Either you will be holding her legs or she will. Either way, take control. When you’re holding her legs, move them around into different positions and tell her to play with herself. When she’s holding her legs, put your hand around her neck, play with her breasts and clit. The point is not to overload her with stimulation (although she will be getting LOTS) – the point is to let her know that YOU are in charge. YOU are leading her to pleasure (and orgasms). YOU are the captain.
3) Easily Target Intense, Full-Body, G-Spot Orgasms
If you’ve been reading this blog for any length of time, you already know the common in-and-out penetration move used by most guys rarely makes women come. In order to give a woman penetration orgasms, you need to target her “orgasm zones.”
There are 3 ways to target a woman’s Orgasm Zones. 1. Altering her position 2. Altering your thrusting motion 3. Altering both. In my experience, most women become orgasmic in the captain when you apply the third strategy.
Here’s how to target her g-spot for powerful orgasms in the captain sex position.
Step 1) Put a pillow under her butt to tilt her pelvis.
Step 2) Swing your thrust instead of moving back and forth.
Either one of these moves can make you hit her g-spot but in my experience the 2 combined together tend to lead to the best results.
Try one. Then try the other. Then try both. See what gets the strongest reaction from your woman and stick to that.
Hopefully this blog has given you a new insight into giving penetration orgasms. However experiencing it will change your sex life forever.
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