If you’re looking for a position that’ll make your woman wetter and hornier than ever before, you absolutely need to try the bodyguard sex position.
It’s a great position to start your romp session. It hits the perfect spots to get her dripping wet, it combines the romance of spooning with the dominance of doggy, and it allows you to set the frame for your session.
You can do the bodyguard anywhere. In the shower, kitchen, or the coatroom at your brother in law’s wedding.
In the bodyguard position, you’re both standing. The woman stands in front of the man with her back turned to him. He stands behind her and enters from behind.
As with any position, it’s all about the angle you enter her.
A slight height difference between the two of you can make all the difference in the angle at which the man’s erection enters. Therefor, the sensations felt by the woman can vary wildly by simply switching up the angle.
You can change the angle radically by having the woman get up on her tip toes, stand on a stair, or a stool.
The guy can also change the height and angle by spreading his legs wider apart, bending his knees a little, or both.
If the man thrusts straight back and forth, he might slip out of her easily, especially if he’s not on the bigger side.
The fix for this is for the woman to arch her back and tilt her pelvis.
On to the good stuff.
How To Transform The Bodyguard Sex Position Into An Unforgettable Experience For Her
The real magic behind this position is the fact that you can be slow and romantic AND also rough and dominant.
Here’s something you need to burn into your mind.
Women need BOTH slow, romantic, love-making, AND rough, animal sex.
As with anything in life, there are some exceptions.
But personally, I’ve yet to meet a woman who (under the right circumstances) doesn’t crave both.
Here’s the deal…
Slow, romantic, love-making makes a woman feel special, cared for, and even loved.
Hard, rough sex makes her feel sexy, wanted, and powerful.
All women want both of these different groups of feelings.
Some women might struggle to let themselves feel love out of fear, distrust, etc… but deep down, every human wants these feelings.
Most women NEVER get both these different groups of emotions from the same man, let alone at the same time.
The bodyguard sex position is PERFECT for this!
Use this position to easily switch back and forth from romantic lovemaking, to rough fucking.
Switch back and forth between the two and you’ll blow her mind in a way she’s likely never experienced before.
Start slow and gentle as you figure out the right angles.
Talk sweet into her ear.
Caress her body.
Run your hands lightly through her hair.
Then switch it up and get into primal mode.
Grab her hips and tug on them as you start to fuck her harder.
Switch your sweet talk into dirty talk.
Instead of gently running your hands through her hair, pull on it.
Then switch back to lovemaking.
She’ll feel a rare combination of loving connection, mixed with animal desire and passion.
Now here’s the key…
You MUST Stay Congruent
If you’re giving it to her hard, don’t tell her in a gentle voice how much you love her.
Talk dirty.
Pull on her hair (without hurting her of course).
Pin her arms against the wall.
Grab her hips and pull on them while you thrust.
When you slow it down and get into romantic mode, don’t choke her or get vulgar with your dirty talk.
Keep that slow energy and lightly trace your fingers up and down the sides of her body.
Gently run your hands through her hair and kiss her on the neck.
Weather you’re being rough and dominant, or slow and gentle, make sure everything is congruent.
Finally, remember this idea of rough and sensual isn’t an either or.
If a 1 is totally slow and romantic, and a 10 is the roughest sex you’ve ever had, you don’t have to always stay at a 1 or a 10.
Build your way up from a 1 to a 10.
Then progress back down.
Just make sure that everything is congruent.
If you’re thrusting is at a 5, make sure your language and emotion is at a 5 as well.
Work your way from one extreme to the other a few times and you will blow her mind with a sexual experience she’s likely never had before!