A woman will sometimes act out in hopes you’ll give her a much deserved spanking. When done in the right context, many women love (even yearn for) a good spanking. The Betty Rocker Sex Position is one of those contexts.
It’s similar to reverse cowgirl only she’s on her knees and leaning forward.
Another way to think of it is that she gets into a doggy style position, while you lie down underneath her.
Put some a few pillows under your head and you’ve got a view any “ass man” would kill for.
If your hips are too wide or this version simply isn’t comfortable, spread your legs, lift your hips and place them on the outside of her legs.
Here’s what you need to know in order to make this position as pleasurable and orgasmic as possible.
Let Her Take Charge in the Betty Rocker Sex Position
Unlike most rear entry positions, she gets to call the shots in this one. She’s in total control of the rhythm, angle, speed, and depth. Let her have this gift. DO NOT try to fuck her from the bottom… unless she specifically asks for it. Men and women don’t typically orgasm from the same type of thrusting. So let her thrust in the way that feels best for her… or… tell her how to thrust for your pleasure. She can rock back and forth, grind you, or even twerk on your cock. She can go fast, slow, or mix it up.
Once she has found something that works for her, amplify her emotions by telling her she loves it. Saying things like “you love bouncing on my cock like that don’t you baby?” or, if she’s doing more of a grinding motion “you love grinding on my cock like that don’t you baby?”. If you can do it without messing her grove, put your hands on her hips and pull her onto you… but only if you can stay in sync with her movements!
Spanking Sex
If ever there was an ideal position for spanking, this is it. When spanking your woman’s bottom, you want to aim for the most center part of it. This is where there’s the most fatty tissue. Avoid the sides of her butt. They have less fat and will lead to pain rather than pleasure. Start with lighter spanks and ask for feedback. Between spanks, lightly rub her butt in circles to soothe & heighten the sensation.
Clitoral Stimulation in the Betty Rocker Sex Position
When it comes to clitoral contact, the Betty Rocker doesn’t provide it naturally (like other positions). If your girl needs clitoral stimulation to get off, you’re going to need some help in order to make it happen in this position. Thankfully, I’ve got a couple of suggestions for you. Put on a vibrating cock ring with the vibrator on the bottom of your shaft. Right on your balls. When you’re fully inside her, she’ll have that sucker right on her clit! This works best when she stays completely on you and grinds her pelvis. The vibrator will be sandwiched between your balls and her clit. Either of you can also hold a vibrator in the same place.
G-Spot Stimulation
If g-spot stimulation is what she’s going after, she’ll have the best results by arching her back at sticking her butt up high in the air.
Deep Posterior Stimulation
We all know about the g-spot and the a-spot (sometimes called the deep spot), but most men (and even women) don’t know about the posterior fornix (sometimes called the cul-de-sac). It’s on “the other” wall of the vagina and produces INTENSE pleasure and orgasms. While most women never find this spot without the help of a very specialized toy or advanced lover, the Betty Rocker position can help her discover it. In order to make it more likely she’ll find it, use a sex wedge or pillow under your butt to tilt your pelvis. BTW if she really likes this, she’s much more likely to be open to anal penetration, or at least some light anal play.
Speaking of such things…
Anal Play in the Betty Rocker Sex Position
If you’re both into anal, the Betty Rocker is a great position for it.
If your woman isn’t into full on anal penetration but does like a little anal play, you’re in for a treat! Since her ass is right there in front of you, it’s an easy opportunity to tickle her fancy while she rides you to bliss.
Wet the tip of your thumb and lightly rub it in circles on her anus. Notice I said ON and not IN. Just the light rub of a wet finger or thumb pad will feel exquisite.
If she does like a little penetration, insert the tip of your thumb, finger or use a small toy or anal plug. You’ll give her one of the most common female fantasies, double penetration, without having to share you woman with some other dude. Unless of course that’s what you’re into.
Don’t Forget To Compliment Her Ass
Finally, make sure you compliment her ass. Other than the Betty Rocker sex position, there aren’t many others that exposes a woman’s ass as much so make sure you make her feel good and confident about it. It doesn’t matter if she knows it, or you tell her all the time how great her ass is… women thrive on compliments and need them regularly. So let her know just how incredible her ass is!